3 reasons why you are NOT disciplined in your 20s! + how to fix it before it's too late! *realistic*

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • Hi guys, thank you so much for watching. In today's video I share the three main reasons why you find it hard to disciplined especially in your 20s or stay committed to a project/goal. I also share some tips that help me get through my daily tasks and motivate me to keep at it till the end. Hope you enjoy and find this video helpful!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 186

  • @kamsinnamani
    @kamsinnamani  3 роки тому +64

    Hi guys! Thank you for watching and hope you find these tips helpful

    • @oluwadaraeke5216
      @oluwadaraeke5216 3 роки тому +2

      Great video yet again Kamsi, yes they were very helpful

  • @Nay0mii_
    @Nay0mii_ 3 роки тому +74

    ‘not every opportunity is a blessing, some opportunities are distractions’ -Kamsi spittin’ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @dquiroz1999
    @dquiroz1999 3 роки тому +8

    “For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” 2 Timothy 1:7

  • @Miss_Akesi
    @Miss_Akesi 3 роки тому +25

    I hope we are all able to stay disciplined in our 20s to achieve greatness in our lives ❤️😩🙏

  • @Caleisia
    @Caleisia 3 роки тому +35

    Sitting here trying to force myself to do work and be productive. This must be a sign 🙌🏾

  • @zifeepuechi3593
    @zifeepuechi3593 3 роки тому +29

    I totally agree with this first point as to not having a why. When I decided to properly start saving money (got my first job at 17) and waking up early, it was sooooo hard cuz I had no reason to. Even though I had a job my parents still gave me money and I also had no goal to save for until I decided to fund my first car instead of my parents. Immediately, I decided this, I had thousands in my account. And as for waking up early, Immediately I got into uni and was able to select my own schedule, I made all my classes to start from 12noon or later. My school was 10 mins away from my house so I usually woke up by 10 or 11am. Until I then again decided to wake up at least by 9 and when I woke up by 9, I would snooze my alarm cuz I didn't have class till 1pm or 2. Till I started actually doing things like my assignments or go grocery shopping in the morning so I have an actual reason to wake earlier.

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  3 роки тому +2

      Amazing! Such practical examples🤎

    • @nzeakograce1813
      @nzeakograce1813 3 роки тому

      You chose your classes?
      Wow
      Please which uni did you go to?

    • @zifeepuechi3593
      @zifeepuechi3593 3 роки тому

      I live in California USA so we get to choose or schedule of classes@@nzeakograce1813

  • @thesugaraunty
    @thesugaraunty 3 роки тому +19

    discipline is so hard,standing up everyday to work when you are sad and going through it is so hard,realized I’m an adult adult this week,I was like I’m going through this life thing but see me getting up to go to work😭😂

    • @sharonreuben5740
      @sharonreuben5740 3 роки тому +3

      I was telling my colleagues the other day that on that particular day if I was a kid I would have left bed crying. Its only that I'm an adult and literally nobody but myself can force me out of bed in the morning

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  3 роки тому

      Honestly it’s one of the worst feelings ever whew

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  3 роки тому

      Honestly it’s one of the worst feelings ever whew

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 3 роки тому

      So true, but after you go to work and get out of that bed. You feel so proud of yourself! And know your strong and you got this!

  • @loisfrempong9109
    @loisfrempong9109 3 роки тому +10

    Great tips 👍 but I would also like to add that, If you're depressed or going through alot mentally, you may not be able accomplish your goals so seek help/therapy if you have to.🙏🏾❤️❤️

  • @kelechinelson8907
    @kelechinelson8907 3 роки тому +1

    I'm becoming addicted to your contents. I'm turning 25 this year and I lost my job due to covid last year. It's been really tough but discipline has helped me. I've been trying to put my energy into little things while actively looking for a job. All the goals I achieve everyday encourage me in these difficult times. Thank you for this. It's perfect timing.

  • @adelineoparah
    @adelineoparah 3 роки тому +15

    This discipline of a thing is a big struggle. I read No excuses by Brian Tracy. That book is a life changer

    • @akhiromegodiva9683
      @akhiromegodiva9683 3 роки тому

      No lies. The best book ever!!!!!

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 3 роки тому

      Thanks for book recommendation, I will make sure to read it. 😊

    • @adelineoparah
      @adelineoparah 3 роки тому

      @@wowso4 You're welcome 👍

  • @JustUchey
    @JustUchey 3 роки тому +14

    I was just complaining as to how indisciplined I'm. This came at the right time

  • @chimdichime
    @chimdichime 3 роки тому +10

    Why, deadline, want it bad enough, true true true. These are the things I tell myself. I also think avoid distraction, because me for instance, there are some ppl that will say, don't worry you'll get to it, don't stress yourself. I be like " yeah sure" but I still go ahead and work because I have deadlines and a why. If I didn't I would listen to the distractions. I loved this video. Wonderful 👏

  • @nazokoli8
    @nazokoli8 3 роки тому +3

    Why
    Deadline for my why
    And want it bad enough.

  • @adrianal4609
    @adrianal4609 3 роки тому +7

    Yes .I’m unemployed student and looking for a job but in this free time I’m literally tryna discipline myself and be organised ! It’s important because I never knew this was a weakness ! I’m setting targets and goals and. I know these skills will be needed when employed ! Discipline urself guys ❤️

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  3 роки тому

      It will be needed at every point in life tbh💕

  • @callmezay9898
    @callmezay9898 2 роки тому +1

    Reasons -> Solutions
    1. You dont have a Why -> Create your Why (your reason for doing it)
    2. You have no deadline -> Set a deadline to your Why (a date/a time)
    3. You don't want it bad enough -> Do your own research, make the sacrifices, don't be deterred by road blocks and get it done no matter what

  • @amikahs
    @amikahs 3 роки тому +4

    Discipline is necessary for growth. 👏🏾 Great video.

  • @ChisomUtazi
    @ChisomUtazi 3 роки тому +2

    You don't have "Why" omg this is so true!!
    When there are punishments and consequences discipline flows immediately

  • @Grandykat
    @Grandykat 3 роки тому +1

    Okay sis really came for my NECK with this one! Much needed will definitely be implementing the tips thank you girl! Happy I found your channel xx

  • @kissruanime2304
    @kissruanime2304 3 роки тому +9

    Kamsi be dropping dead ass facts as usual 👏👏👏

  • @bewithzimye5406
    @bewithzimye5406 3 роки тому +3

    More motivational videos pls ? 👀 like once a month

  • @YemiAyodeji
    @YemiAyodeji 3 роки тому +1

    Absolutely! If you have no motivation, you will constantly feel lazy to achieve what you want. I love that, if you want it so bad, you will make room for them to avoid unnecessary distractions. These are the issues I discuss on my channel as well. Great video, 20's is a time for leveling up👏👏😘

  • @LauretOssai
    @LauretOssai 3 роки тому +12

    Marking my attendance here for today 🤗

  • @bewithzimye5406
    @bewithzimye5406 3 роки тому

    I’m really struggling of late, thanks for this video, great timing.. hopefully I will begin to change my ways 😩

  • @BreeNwanze
    @BreeNwanze 3 роки тому +2

    Really quaintly tips
    Having a deadline is actually good am glad I found out I am actually disciplined atleast here on youtube
    🙈😅😅😅😅

  • @madumerekelechi9667
    @madumerekelechi9667 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this...this is really helpful..I wish I knew this in my early 20’s

  • @ayobami_ajayi
    @ayobami_ajayi 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for these points Kamsi.

  • @adenekaninioluwa221
    @adenekaninioluwa221 3 роки тому +2

    Watching these videos
    I'm sure I know certain things I would do in my 20's
    Thank you so much Kamsi🤎🤎

  • @adaolisamba323
    @adaolisamba323 3 роки тому

    Thank you for the tips😊
    The third one hit hard... You don't want it bad enough

  • @tseoteri
    @tseoteri 3 роки тому +2

    Just wanted to say that you’re such an inspiration and your videos have helped me out in some areas of my life I didn’t think needed to be helped. So, thank you so much 🥺❤️

  • @phumeowakazulu
    @phumeowakazulu 3 роки тому +4

    Been binge watching your vlogs the whole weekend, I’m obsessed . Love from ❤️🇿🇦

  • @preciousoluwapelumi7064
    @preciousoluwapelumi7064 3 роки тому +4

    Jumped right to UA-cam when I got the notification 😍❤️

  • @akifahm6624
    @akifahm6624 3 роки тому +3

    these are really really good tips that i haven't heard before, thank you so much. also wanted to say, i hope you dont put too much pressure on yourself for views and subscribers. you're doing so so well just being yourself and i already know you're going to be hugely successful sooner than later

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  3 роки тому +1

      You’re welcome and I try not to lol🤎

  • @princessyoryor
    @princessyoryor 3 роки тому +3

    These steps are so practical, loving this 20s series Kamsi! Thank you☺️❤️

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  3 роки тому

      You’re welcome...happy you love them🤍

  • @TomiTomato
    @TomiTomato 3 роки тому +1

    I love how straightforward you are honestly. And I completely agree with everything you said 👌🏾 well done!

  • @winifredchukwuemeka1351
    @winifredchukwuemeka1351 3 роки тому +1

    I love how practical these steps are truly and I have realized that some goals I had set were never achieved solely because I had no deadline. I'm so glad you made this video. Love you always.

  • @moyoaina370
    @moyoaina370 3 роки тому

    This video spoke to my soul. Currently working on something I never imagined I could ever been involved in. I've started really strong and now that I'm able to complete it, I just see fear making me unwilling and demotivated to carry on and working with gross indiscipline. Thank you sm for sharing this. You're a star!

  • @ogooachu
    @ogooachu 3 роки тому +1

    Girl you're going places

  • @theemmavianana
    @theemmavianana 3 роки тому

    This video was for me. I just like the fact that watching this made me more goal oriented

  • @IMETGODSHEBLACK
    @IMETGODSHEBLACK 3 роки тому +1

    I’ve been trying to do better for myself and my future careers and so this video came just in time! Appreciate the advice, definitely much needed 🤎

  • @Themosunmoluwa
    @Themosunmoluwa 3 роки тому

    I solely agree to your first reason “ NO WHY” it happens to me so much
    So I try to be discipline and look forward to do something in the morning or look forward to a particular goal

  • @charityjoytv4718
    @charityjoytv4718 3 роки тому +1

    All the tips are really amazing dear am also a new UA-camr I will definitely put this tips in practice.
    You will definitely grow here on UA-cam and outside UA-cam. You will always succeed in everything you do dear. I have been watching your videos for long now but have never commented but am doing it today and also subscribing. Always remain bless dear.

  • @Janederryo
    @Janederryo 3 роки тому +2

    I love the background babe ...🥺😍 I really need this video.

  • @juneobrien5016
    @juneobrien5016 3 роки тому +1

    Loved this :') Made me be more conscious about my relationship to reality

  • @nickydaley345
    @nickydaley345 3 роки тому +1

    This really motivated me, loving your videos! I can see you hitting 100k by the end of the year.

  • @thatfimigirl
    @thatfimigirl 3 роки тому

    Some "opportunities" are distractions!
    Yasssssss... Totally agree👌👌👌

  • @lundimvayo4753
    @lundimvayo4753 3 роки тому +1

    You absolutely amazing😍... Thank you so much. 💕

  • @_justOnyie
    @_justOnyie 3 роки тому +2

    This video is honestly a prayer answered, I feel like I’ve got the answers to all my worries.
    Thanks Kamsi ♥️

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  3 роки тому +1

      Wow so happy to hear that🥺🤍

  • @ladylovebunker6344
    @ladylovebunker6344 2 роки тому

    I’ve been looking for your channel for a while now. I literally love you, you once gave great advice about overthinking that stuck with me

  • @oyinnabdul
    @oyinnabdul 3 роки тому +1

    That getting up part isn't easy at all😥. I remember when I had online exams, I sleep late always and I have to wake up really early. But then as you said my why was really strong and I knew what I had to lose if I didn't wake up early.

  • @_immaculata
    @_immaculata 2 роки тому

    Tough Love. Just what I need. Thank you so much. The 20's series is such a get up and do better series. I so much love it.
    This video ❤️

  • @folamioluwasegun9271
    @folamioluwasegun9271 3 роки тому +4

    Can I just say I loveeeee your backdrop ♥️✨✨

  • @wowso4
    @wowso4 3 роки тому

    This was a great video, I hope you get more subscribers you deserve it all the best to you darl! 😊😘

  • @allthingssemirat5314
    @allthingssemirat5314 3 роки тому +1

    Girl you are always speaking the truth! and I love your perspective on these type of topics!! Keep on giving us biko 👏🏾👏🏾🤍

  • @confidenceezeh
    @confidenceezeh 3 роки тому +1

    I needed to see this for the longest of time been postponing what I need to do with my life and business .

  • @siweze7716
    @siweze7716 3 роки тому +5

    Your background is everything 😍

  • @stephaniegati1051
    @stephaniegati1051 3 роки тому +1

    It’s the tooth gap for me😍

  • @fluffy6664
    @fluffy6664 3 роки тому +1

    congrats on 24k 🥳💕💕

  • @sesonanyokana8938
    @sesonanyokana8938 3 роки тому

    I loved that pep talk at the end, it really helped

  • @ElizasO
    @ElizasO 3 роки тому

    So glad I found your channel seriously !!!

  • @jumokebabatope
    @jumokebabatope 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @oyindas.1512
    @oyindas.1512 3 роки тому +1

    Love that you’re making it into a series 😍

  • @teboho8339
    @teboho8339 2 роки тому

    I had to come back to this!!👏

  • @thelmaiyagba3653
    @thelmaiyagba3653 3 роки тому

    Some opportunities are distractions 👏👏

  • @otiamuzie1182
    @otiamuzie1182 3 роки тому +2

    Ooooouuuuuu!!!! I see you sporting the sleek bun girl 💕
    Totally hit the points head on; I totally recommend anyone working on their discipline to read “Atomic Habits by James Clear”. It’s a game changer.

  • @temiod
    @temiod 3 роки тому +1

    Raw factsss only

  • @adedamolaiboyi
    @adedamolaiboyi 3 роки тому

    Honestly when I found your channel I was like is this girl in my head or what!! Then I realize you were also a Libra and we the same age 😉🤫 lol
    Honestly you have really really inspired me to take my channel seriously and fine-tune somethings I wasn’t doing so well. I’m so excited for you on your growth!
    You did that girl ✋🏼
    I pray the lord will continue to replenish your source for more following ideas and content in Jesus name 🙏🏽❤️

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  3 роки тому

      Awww you’re so sweet 🥺 thank you so much ❣️ that libra energyy is strong lol

  • @TegaSalubi
    @TegaSalubi 3 роки тому

    Hey Kamsi! its Tega... met you on Saturday (Metaphor)
    This was a really really nice video. Your points were amazing!
    Well Done!

  • @eladebidaniella
    @eladebidaniella 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Kamsi 😘
    Love how you’re switching up backgrounds. This view is beautiful ☺️🤎

  • @banyinagbo6904
    @banyinagbo6904 3 роки тому

    You’re soo amazing..thank you soo much
    The value in listening to you is 100

  • @valsandravlogs
    @valsandravlogs 3 роки тому +1

    Congratulations on 24k boo🥳,more to come

  • @honourfelix7351
    @honourfelix7351 3 роки тому

    Just found your channel. Love love love your content.

  • @chiomaawoji9431
    @chiomaawoji9431 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing this. You’re Godsent.

  • @LaraGideon
    @LaraGideon 3 роки тому

    Your energy makes me soooo happy and thank you for sharing such helpful advice! 🥰💗

  • @ToriaOkezie
    @ToriaOkezie 3 роки тому +1

    Notification gang!! Here for the video♥️🔥🙌🏼

  • @munachi...
    @munachi... 2 роки тому

    It's your consistency for me😍😍

  • @thefeyikemiamoo6894
    @thefeyikemiamoo6894 3 роки тому

    We all need a little tough love every now and then. Really happy I watched this. Now it's time to put all of these tips into action.

  • @Therealbubuu
    @Therealbubuu 3 роки тому

    VERY HELPFUL. THANK YOU.

  • @roxalanab1365
    @roxalanab1365 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video !! I just realised that it's actually the discipline I struggle with the most !! Gonna work on that in the future

  • @abigaledarkwa348
    @abigaledarkwa348 3 роки тому

    new subbie! really like you and this video and the level up in your 20s was really really good and helpful .definetley need to make some changes

  • @goodie9555
    @goodie9555 3 роки тому +2

    Yaaaaay💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 we love a series🤗🤗

  • @pepmoore
    @pepmoore 3 роки тому +1

    I'm so undisciplined mehn😫😫😫 love love love you 😘😘😘

  • @dimitriunfiltered
    @dimitriunfiltered 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this always love your tips♥️🙌🏽

  • @pinktastezobodrinkery2105
    @pinktastezobodrinkery2105 3 роки тому

    Thanks so much Kamsi,this is so inspiring

  • @treasureagomuo1376
    @treasureagomuo1376 3 роки тому

    I can relate to the deadline part lol..it keeps saving my procrastinating self... You are doing well girl. I know you Sha, Unec...shekinah assembly

  • @maryokaformedia
    @maryokaformedia Рік тому

    Very very informative 👌 thank you 👍

  • @Ogonn.a
    @Ogonn.a 3 роки тому

    These steps🙌🏾
    It really couldn’t have been said better. Nice one girl✌🏾

  • @kessienajay107
    @kessienajay107 3 роки тому

    This video is just scolding me but I like it .... I need it

  • @MissPrisyBaby
    @MissPrisyBaby 3 роки тому +2

    Notification gang. Loving your content Kamsi!!!! I get inspired for my channel💕

  • @nenyenwa23
    @nenyenwa23 3 роки тому

    I be liking these videos in the first one minute❤ Come through with the wisdom Sensei🥰🤎

  • @NusrahMagaji
    @NusrahMagaji 3 роки тому

    Love to see it 🤎🤎🤎

  • @FAYVURE
    @FAYVURE 3 роки тому

    This was helpful...kudos!

  • @ogechiezeamama703
    @ogechiezeamama703 Рік тому

    Brilliant. Thanks

  • @nimisha3474
    @nimisha3474 3 роки тому

    Such great tips, needed a little reminder to myself, thank you for this❤️🙏🏽

  • @abbiekalya
    @abbiekalya 3 роки тому +1

    I love this girl!!
    I here for all of this!!!❤

  • @valsgallerybykaka1017
    @valsgallerybykaka1017 3 роки тому

    I’m a super hero.. thank you love..
    It’s really not easy to be honest

  • @marianmomoh9890
    @marianmomoh9890 3 роки тому +1

    I needed this video today

  • @Elo_oboba
    @Elo_oboba 3 роки тому

    It’s the consistency for me ❤️😍 ... Well done🎊

  • @AuthenticSugar
    @AuthenticSugar 3 роки тому

    oo this really made me reflect. good stuff!

  • @perpetuatom6173
    @perpetuatom6173 3 роки тому

    Thanks kamsi

  • @IniMc
    @IniMc 3 роки тому

    Thank youuuu Kamsi! 🤍
    Needed this!