5 SIGNS YOU SHOULD *NOT* BECOME A THERAPIST

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  • Опубліковано 8 вер 2024

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  • @AbigailFaith
    @AbigailFaith 4 місяці тому +32

    Hello! Therapist here, I agree with all of these except the people person part. It might just be because I have a different definition of a people person, but I am not an extrovert or a social person and I find most therapists I know are pretty introverted also. I am super able to chat one-on-one with someone, but I wouldn't be good at small talk in a social setting where there is a crowd of people. I think of therapy as sort of anti-social in some ways and I know that sounds strange, but I work in private practice so I don't see anyone outside of my clients really. I enjoy how solitary it is. I wonder if a true extroverted people person would struggle in a pp setting because you're not around co-workers or socializing a whole lot if you know what I mean. You do have to be able to handle long periods of direct interaction of course, but its so different

    • @allyssapowers
      @allyssapowers  4 місяці тому +1

      Sameee here, pp can be very isolating at times!

    • @theastroreadpodcast
      @theastroreadpodcast 4 місяці тому

      I agree with your comments! Also introverts can be great therapists because they tend to be great listeners.

    • @katherynemero4118
      @katherynemero4118 13 днів тому +1

      Ive been thinking about becoming a therapist, but I have questions. And after seeing number one, I thought, well that's it. This isn't for me. Im not a people person. I feel most comfortable when I am one on one. But now your comment has conflicted me again. lol

    • @AbigailFaith
      @AbigailFaith 12 днів тому

      @@katherynemero4118 What are your questions?

  • @ddll3879
    @ddll3879 4 місяці тому +16

    Don't agree that the profession is for extraverted people or even extraverted people have an advantage. Being a therapist is about empathy, understanding and creating connection. I believe both introverted or extraverted people have that ability. Introverted people may even have an advantage in certain aspects. If there is anything, they understand introverted clients better.

  • @christopherkennedy7674
    @christopherkennedy7674 Місяць тому

    I am loving your videos! The insight you provide behind the "rich and savior" topic is heavy. In some view points and life situations it may contradict itself. But... that leads us back to reflect on the concept that the "black and white lense" doesn't tend to serve well in the field.
    Greatful for what you are doing with your platform and talents!

  • @aboutthesigns
    @aboutthesigns 4 місяці тому +5

    Love your videos. I’d also add if people have a really hard time maintaining some sort of organization or structure to their lives. Like they’re always late, they forget to write progress notes, they don’t keep up with their CEUs, etc. Or they don’t prioritize their self-care.

    • @allyssapowers
      @allyssapowers  4 місяці тому +2

      Agree! There really are lot of admin tasks you gotta do in this field.

  • @ryannesumbry4130
    @ryannesumbry4130 Місяць тому

    Hello I had to report my therapist because she talked about her ex husband grooming her being g verbally abusive and her divorce she was terrible

    • @Ravenortara
      @Ravenortara 14 днів тому +1

      I think it’s weird that you reported someone for sharing a painful experience with you. I’m going to assume that she did this to build some type of rapport with you to show hey, I’m human too. I too have been through something traumatic. Clearly I do not know the backstory, but just from your comment here it seems very very odd to me that someone would share something as personal orin-depth as that and you would just go report them for it. I’d like to know if you spoke up and said hey, I’m uncomfortable with this, I would hope this is just a very odd comment. Without context seems very cold and unnecessary.