Throw out the checklisted childhood | Julie Lythcott-Haims | TEDxGunnHighSchool

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  • Опубліковано 3 сер 2024
  • She will be speaking about the importance of maintaining a healthy mentality both in academia and in life.
    Julie Lythcott-Haims is the former Dean of Freshmen at Stanford University and author of forthcoming book 'How to Raise an Adult'.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 19

  • @seasons0123
    @seasons0123 8 років тому +6

    Thank you... I am a mom and the support you give the kids is awesome... I love that this is on UA-cam!! It will help me support my children in this way!

  • @LanguageLiftoff
    @LanguageLiftoff 6 років тому +4

    I would encourage each and every parent of a young millennial or iGen living in the Bay Area and similar communities to listen to this speech! Julie Lythcott-Haims' ideas are in the right direction and she has a clear understanding of what's best, most meaningful, and most supportive to our students. She is looking at the bigger picture -- not just these students as high school students, or as college students, or as graduate students, but looking at them as human beings in this society and world. Thank you for sharing your ideas, Julie, and for articulating them so beautifully.

  • @bunnyrabbitshavehats
    @bunnyrabbitshavehats 8 років тому +8

    As a therapist in the Bay Area. This is what I try to tell parents, but they aren't listening no matter how many kids end up in the hospital or in front of the cal
    Train.

  • @scrmblr2
    @scrmblr2 7 років тому +8

    Julie.....I can not begin to express my feelings about that talk. I am an High School Tech Ed teacher and there was not 1 point you mentioned that I did not agree with. I was so impressed with your speech, that I will be bringing it to the attention of my administrators. I support your train of thought 100% and hope it spreads exponentially across the globe.

    • @erincurran8789
      @erincurran8789 7 років тому

      This is part of why I became a life coach for teens and young adults!

  • @atiyaphillip885
    @atiyaphillip885 4 роки тому +1

    I love your speech.... must say I have a one year old and I have already planned what i wanted her life to become but now that have changed. You made me rethink so many things. Thank u

  • @jeremiahfernandez9161
    @jeremiahfernandez9161 8 років тому +6

    i wish i heard this when i was in high school

  • @narumoiprachaasaisoradej1066
    @narumoiprachaasaisoradej1066 7 років тому +2

    Wonderful Speech! Our family loves you already.

  • @BabyLoloify
    @BabyLoloify 9 років тому +26

    Where was this woman when I was growing up?!?

  • @miriamjesse1628
    @miriamjesse1628 4 роки тому +5

    To some of those parents who are stressing their kids out I want to yell, "THERE"S MORE TO LIFE THAN COLLEGE!"
    Like, really. How many parents actually use their college degrees when they're parents? I know my mom doesn't at all.

  • @lalabi4026
    @lalabi4026 4 роки тому +1

    I am a young mother, will love my children unconditionally. Actually I love them all unconditionally but I may not show that unconditional love when I get angry soon after their bad behaviour and low marks.

  • @philam64
    @philam64 7 років тому +9

    How can I reverse the damage done? It's to the point where a lack of success causes me to not love myself.

  • @lalabi4026
    @lalabi4026 4 роки тому +1

    Great speech! Yeah, We are losing our humanity almost all value physical things more.

  • @KyanneSummer
    @KyanneSummer 9 років тому +1

    Really really thank you.

  • @alishaberrey5114
    @alishaberrey5114 5 років тому +3

    This is why I'm homeschooling. Too much pressure.

  • @champtech8755
    @champtech8755 3 роки тому +1

    The problem is the intended audience of this speech is missing. She should’ve done her speaking at middle/high schools not to the bunch of adults

    • @coppersense999
      @coppersense999 Рік тому

      She is talking to high school kids. And their parents probably do need to hear it too.

  • @coppersense999
    @coppersense999 Рік тому

    She is great, an excellent mom of outstanding adults by now.
    Just smh to hear contradictory kool-aid fueled advice. It is unfair in light of reality to tell kids to go be the top 10% of overachieving, workaholics at a mid-level school so they can crush it at a 9-5, and in the next breath tell them to study what they love: art, philosophy, poetry, English, etc. Does not work that way. First gotta upgrade definition of "success".