Why I do something everyday that scares me | Emma Van Der Merwe | TEDxUniversityofEdinburgh

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  • Опубліковано 10 бер 2016
  • It all started with a simple question - "why not do something today that scares me?" A medical diagnosis at the age of 17 had life altering implications, but instead of allowing it to define her life and prescribe her future, she’s made a career out of flying in the face of misconceptions and stereotypes. Emma Van Der Merwe shares her story of stepping out of her comfort zone and challenging expectations.
    This talk was delivered at Edinburgh's iconic Central Hall on Thursday, February 18th 2016 and was a part of series of talks given at the TEDxUniversityofEdinburgh 2016 Conference.
    Emma van der Merwe is a journalist, storyteller, world traveller and amateur adventurer.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 59

  • @STUPIDYOUTUBE_HIDINGMSGS
    @STUPIDYOUTUBE_HIDINGMSGS 4 роки тому +21

    "Pursue challenges, not comfort...", Thank you for this.

  • @autumn-vl4vw
    @autumn-vl4vw 5 років тому +7

    I’ve had similar feelings like being afraid of speaking and being afraid of embarrassing myself but I’ve realized we shouldn’t. We should just go out into the world and not be afraid of what people think because that only just hurts our spirits more.

  • @manekina7305
    @manekina7305 3 роки тому +7

    Because of fear I have lost a lot in life but from now on I will live every moment with no fear

  • @bboyneon92
    @bboyneon92 3 роки тому +6

    Love it! The voice, the anxiety, the meaning in her talk, the push. All of it!

  • @ZachAtkeson
    @ZachAtkeson 7 років тому +30

    this helped me start my channel! i do something every week that stretches me in some way!! what an awesome talk! thank you

    • @longta8852
      @longta8852 2 роки тому +2

      this inspire me a lot too, i realize i have wasted a lot of time in my life :)

  • @michaelahardy4420
    @michaelahardy4420 5 років тому +5

    Amazing to see how you applied the words of Eleanor Roosevelt to your own life. She once said "do one thing a day that scares you. those small things that make us uncomfortable help us build courage to do the work we do." Such an amazing philosophy to apply to our everyday life

  • @suiylawcoconsultanciescame701
    @suiylawcoconsultanciescame701 2 роки тому +2

    "A ship is safe in harbor but that's not what ships are for"
    William Shade.
    Awesome.
    Great talk. I have watched twice and safed to watch later.
    If you ever find yourself in Cameroon, we could have a cup of tea together.

  • @ivack7380
    @ivack7380 7 років тому +10

    This was magnificent! So brave, so compassionate. I'm so glad you let us hear your voice, Emma; it's such a beautiful, resonant one! Loved this talk.

  • @TomSutherland210
    @TomSutherland210 7 років тому +6

    Thanks for these words. It's great hearing another South African voice on this topic. our culture seems to be too caught up on the issues of compliance and duty. While your words have value for all people, they're desperately needed at home.

  • @monique6384
    @monique6384 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for helping me gain the courage to walk into the fire department for a meet and greet to hopefully become a volunteer firefighter! :)
    I was terrified getting there but after walking in the doors that fear went away:)

  • @lous.1548
    @lous.1548 2 роки тому +2

    IT is so true . I got rid of things to pursue expériences

  • @TheRoadrunz
    @TheRoadrunz 7 років тому +62

    A ship is safe in harbor but that's not what ships are for... so why don't you push your ship far discover what lies beyond ....pursue experiences not things ...pursue friendships not likes... pursue challenges not comforts...

  • @SabelaSisters
    @SabelaSisters 8 років тому +6

    Incredible and the reason im not on facebook anymore... and im grateful for experiences! Thank you emma!!! You have inspired us!!

  • @lindacooks-9552
    @lindacooks-9552 3 роки тому +2

    You inspired me! I want to watch this again and again, thank you!

  • @Panacea9
    @Panacea9 2 роки тому +1

    If I do that, I need other people I know and trust that are doing the same thing I am and it is something I believe in. I like to find the fun of it too, it makes me better and love to think about doing it further.
    What I did before was horrific enough to most people.

  • @gangstersayfock
    @gangstersayfock 7 років тому +4

    Great ted talk! Thanks for sharing your story! I really like that you one thing everyday that scares you. I do it to! I do it already everyday for 1,5 year. I toke a lot of opportunities and discover a whole new world. Like the cold, food i didn't like before, be a comedian, make joke about schizophrenia online etc.

  • @yozelynflores6379
    @yozelynflores6379 8 років тому +3

    And what a lovely voice it is thank you! truly inspirational

  • @Luumelan
    @Luumelan 7 років тому +4

    thank you, i really love your talk, especially the part about the depresion.

  • @nigelbmichaels
    @nigelbmichaels 7 років тому +5

    wonderful, inspiring. Thank you

  • @swopeboi
    @swopeboi 5 років тому +2

    incredible. brought me to tears. You're so strong!

  • @kenneyokennedy
    @kenneyokennedy 8 років тому +3

    Wow! A message everyone needs to hear (including me)!

  • @a9nh
    @a9nh 7 років тому +4

    Great talk. Thank you Emma.

  • @dhaminir5688
    @dhaminir5688 8 років тому +6

    Relatable and really motivating.

  • @ellen4078
    @ellen4078 7 років тому +2

    thank you for sharing your story.

  • @Ricardoarieira82
    @Ricardoarieira82 7 років тому +2

    Thank you!

  • @SandeepKumar-bt7is
    @SandeepKumar-bt7is 5 років тому +2

    great message wonderfully explained

  • @andydragonfisher6900
    @andydragonfisher6900 3 роки тому +2

    Amazing woman 🙏

  • @mobk9774
    @mobk9774 6 років тому +4

    A refreshing and much needed start to the New Year! Elegant, simple and beautiful talk. Thank you Emma, you have really helped revitalise some feelings within me and soothed some old pains. You are an inspiration.

  • @preciouszak4373
    @preciouszak4373 7 років тому +1

    Thank you Emma, 😊

  • @SOFI_READS
    @SOFI_READS Рік тому

    Gorgeous talk! Thank you so much!

  • @adelRX7
    @adelRX7 7 років тому +3

    Wow, I enjoyed this

  • @wimpiburger8078
    @wimpiburger8078 7 років тому +2

    Dankie Emma - baie inspirerend & positief uitdagend.

  • @KHN1991
    @KHN1991 8 років тому +13

    A truly inspirational speech 👍

    • @pilus6029
      @pilus6029 7 років тому

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  • @sheilamore3261
    @sheilamore3261 4 роки тому +1

    Wow that was an awesome talk it does make you think very helpful thank you for sharing😊💕

  • @kayla3972
    @kayla3972 4 роки тому

    Great speech i needed this!

  • @billionairenow81
    @billionairenow81 5 років тому +1

    Thank you

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 роки тому

    Beautiful amazing soul telling stories n so true. Your mind can achieve what you believe.thank you bless you n all your dreams come true .

  • @dorismuronga923
    @dorismuronga923 7 років тому +2

    strong and inspiring speech

  • @magdapieters9304
    @magdapieters9304 8 років тому +5

    Emma, mag jou skip nog verre waters uittoets, baie dankie - so inspirerend!

  • @amankapila8839
    @amankapila8839 3 роки тому

    Thank you .....

  • @coolice743
    @coolice743 5 років тому +1

    I cried

  • @rajkumarbhawariya9955
    @rajkumarbhawariya9955 6 років тому +1

    simply great

  • @sutats
    @sutats Рік тому

    NFG. That's the way to live life.

  • @KateLate____
    @KateLate____ 2 роки тому

    Emma, you mentioned everyone in the room except you is fine - that can't be true.

  • @mirellavidriezca1119
    @mirellavidriezca1119 3 роки тому

    I suffer severe depression.

  • @nikhil_mahajan685
    @nikhil_mahajan685 6 років тому

    I would love to have coffee with you . 😁

  • @flowwiththeuniverse31
    @flowwiththeuniverse31 3 роки тому

    me too. looking in the mirror!!

  • @user-md5wn4kh9v
    @user-md5wn4kh9v 4 роки тому

    Watch later 3:02

  • @sureshscribnar
    @sureshscribnar 7 років тому +2

    Speed the talk by 1.5 times, and this talk is far more interesting and energising.

  • @mohammedshihab3489
    @mohammedshihab3489 7 років тому +2

    How a beautiful you are,

  • @poknari
    @poknari 7 років тому +1

    tbh i can make a meme of yours out of 9:36

  • @jamiececilielange5249
    @jamiececilielange5249 Рік тому

    I would recommend people not to climb Mount Everest. Not because I don't understand why you'd want to, but because it is littered with dead bodies that do not decompose - and a lot of them died making money as guides. Not an industry worth supporting.
    The water nearby is also becoming more and more contaminated by microplastics and other things.
    If you want to climb a mountain, choose one that is less famous, and maybe less dangerous.

  • @TheSeliMD
    @TheSeliMD 7 років тому +2

    There should be a talk about uneffectiveness of ted talks

  • @mohamedespace5031
    @mohamedespace5031 7 років тому

    You lose your head. What about that headacke, the hitch hiking and the inch, league ?

  • @BitTorrentGemini
    @BitTorrentGemini 5 років тому

    You found your answers in africa?
    IMO-your point is finding some more poor/miserable things, fight it in YOUR environment!

  • @StutteringCoach1
    @StutteringCoach1 3 роки тому

    Going to deactivate.