The notion that sex workers need to exist to prevent rape is cognitive dissonance at its finest, with the woman even admitting that sex workers themselves are often victims of rape.
I am a Christian. I believe in Father, Son, Holy Spirit. Jesus is welcome to inhabit every part of me. I thought Blessing was extremely well spoken and articulate. I don’t agree with most of her views on sexuality and sex work but I enjoyed listening to her. She appeared to be honest, truthful and real (even if she said things people don’t want to hear). Jesus befriended prostitutes; sex workers. I pray she’ll enter into a friendship with Jesus too 🙌🏾 I pray that she’ll be offered work outside of her current work. She’s really bright and intelligent. Cruise 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This was an EXCELLENT conversation!!!!!!!
I think it missed her that everyone is born a virgin and it's not a curse or weird to remain so until you are mentally, emotionally and physically ready.
Yeah she is really honest with herself, and the truth is people like this are most likely to get to heaven rather than saints. Sha God will give her the strength to stop if she wants to
The Christian brother spoke so solidly and it's encouraging to see some stand for God in this generation. What an intellectual believer! He posed the right questions! We thank the Lord for such bold faith. The lady in red is so sweet. I pray she gets a better way to make money and move out of this sex work. As for the lady in brown...I pray she gets healing. She speaks from a point of defence all the time. 😢
I love that there's someone who is a virgin for non-religious reasons and that there's also a male virgin who has an unwavering belief and is not ashamed, contrary to what is considered the norm 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
That lady in brown needs to understand that owning up to something does not necessarily make you a bad person. Omo😔 she's so defensive she doesn't even want to allow others to deliver their points. The "God gives you client" statement is crazy. COMPREHENSION IS KEY!! IF YOU LACK COMPREHENSION PROBLEM DEY OO!!
No it’s not a crazy statement if god didn’t want it to exist it wouldn’t y’all can’t say this god is all powerful and gives ppl what they ask for but then when it’s something you don’t approve now you saying god ain’t answering those prayers.
@@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632 God doesn't force people to obey or do as he pleases. Humans disobey and make their own choices to their detriment. Its when they see the consequences they start blaming God
To Ejiroghene, you’re a solid man!!!! The Lord is doing a great work in you and through you! You’re so clear and sharp about the things of GOD! I encourage you to always fix your eyes on Jesus! From your fellow sister in Christ!
If it’s not your physical health affected by that kind of work your mental and spiritual health will be ruined. You will see every close relationship as transactional.
@@akewtie7521Exactly! When person wan chop, you come dey tell them sey make dem dey think of mental and spiritual health. I bet this person won't support and help the physical health of someone who has to rely on sex work for survival the same way they're worried about the mental and spiritual health.
Right, there's risks in everything so why do people make it seem like sex work has the highest risk. They're usually shamed and looked down upon. This isn't about feelings being hurt it's about understanding that there's usually no other option at hand
@@akewtie7521 because their highly exposed to violence, assault, drugs. Think about the customers they interact with, have you met a good man who fiddles around with prostitutes? Even infections ‘even if protection is used’ you can get mouth infections skin infections. And even HPV infection which can cause uterine, cervix, vulva anus and vaginl cancer. Infact hpv id the cause for 80-60% of all these cancers. Keep in mind there are often no symptoms for hpv. And also other STI’s that also give you an increased risk to cancer and the risk is even worse for woman. Woman usually get the worst affects of STI’s and can even die. Again I wanna stress lots of these STI’s can be asymptomatic meaning no symptoms. Imagine trusting random men with your body, just in general it’s not good you shouldn’t trust strangers.
blessing has a brick wall in her ears and has "hold on" only in her mouth. She wants others to accept her but can't even digest what others are saying! Omo!
Honestly, this comment need to be pinned...Urghhh!!!.... In all the connections and all, something you dont want your offspring to be known for or to be, should not be something you should be proud about...
Greed is what makes people do what they aren't supposed to do. Whether you collect money for it or not. When you are not greedy, you won't want to have fun that will cost you diseases and even de*th just to please your body.
The disconnect in this conversation is the centering of virginity. It would make more sense to have a discussion between those who are pro -sex work vs. anti-sex work, whether or not they are virgins or in the profession.
Why are we so scared to call out wrong??? Prostituting is a sin and it's morally wrong in every angle. Being a virgin doesn't mean you're a saint either. You staying a virgin should be for the right reasons(The bible instructs that sex should be done only in the confines of marriage ). Let's also learn to condemn the sin and not the person. We're all not saints, we're all working towards perfection nevertheless what is wrong is wrong
Well said. This is how America became the way it is morally. It always starts with people being attacked or canceled for simply calling out what is wrong, and we're already getting there.
People commit sins being in other people business. judging. I’m sure they know it’s a sin. And so do the people that pay them and come home to yall blind noses.
You're committing a sin by judging. I always laugh at people like you who are eager and quick to call out other people's sin when you're not God, and you are definitely a sinner! In fact, I'm willing to bet that you lied, didn't give to the poor, you leave your hair open, and I'm also sure you're not a virgin. Live and let live. It's a sin because your fantasy Bible told you so. Abi if the bible didn't tell you it's a sin, you won't have your own commonsense to discern what's a sin or not?
It's because we now live in an irritating time where you have to be "politically correct" and "inclusive" to either be accepted or avoid being castigated.
Is true that prostituting it's considered listen according to the Christians and also the Catholics because what about the Catholic church they also slept around with prostitutes because if you go way back since the beginning off the dawn of time prostituting has always existed before the birth of Christ but it didn't mean that it was right or wrong is just because that human beings they do not have the notion what was right or wrong then God came by since Sodom and Gomorrah so God have he put some boundaries but at the same time we cannot control human nature what they want to do with their body 0:01
Ejiroghene spoke so well. And I agree with his views 100% (a definition of husband material) but the real question is what is the benchmark for being satisfied in sex? A big shout out to the woman wearing the red wig she was so honest and calm
I really liked listening to Blessing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 And Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. Enjoying her personality and what she had to say is different from agreeing with her. god is giving her clients. She’s either legitly confused about which god (it’s certainly not YAHWEH-God giving her clients) is giving her clients or just pretending she doesn’t know 😉 … I’m learning Jesus can snatch people up and out of anyone’s camp 😆. If you love God, pray for her.
Realllly? I thought this was a GREAT conversation! I personally believe God designed sex for marriage. It is sacred… and it is a covenant. - but I loved the realness shared here. Matthew 11:15 👂🏾
Blessing was so incredibly defensive, she didn't come across as intelligent at all, she was extremely combative and ignorant. A lot of what she was saying was pure projection, i think unfortunate circumstances have led her to a dark path of sex work and anyone that is opose to that she attacks them.
Blessing has lost something, regrets she’s lost it, feels judged and insecure and is so defensive but she’d definitely pick another life if she could. ” I’m doing a job that I love doing” 😂 Clown!!!
Being a sex worker does not mean you're a bad person, neither does it make you less of a human. However, we can agree that its not a profession anyone wishes for their family members and those they love. There's nobody born with the passion or dream of being a prostitute. Everyone is entitled to do what they like with their lives, but abeg don't lie to yourself 🌚
As a 26 year old Christian virgin, I believe saying my virginity for marriage is the best option. Especially after I been learning about Sex before marriage. It's spiritually harmful. So ima just continue saving myself until I find the one for me. Shalom to you all✝️🙏🏾
Ejiroghene is such a beautiful person, i love how grounded he is and how he has an understanding of the word and he isnt judging anybody. Keep it up my man❤ The blessing lady, God will help u.
Ejiroghene! The man that you are!! It's so refreshing to see a fellow believer with strong convictions. If you are reading this, I want you to know that you have a good head on your shoulders. I enjoyed listening to you!
Most people become defensive when you touch a sensitive part of them they ain't ready to face this is exactly the case of that lady on a brown dress. She's traumatised deep down yet she's failed to realize nor accept it. If the job is awesome why won't she come out straight and boldy to say that she will allow her children to toll the same line of profession? You see this guy Ejiroghene? He has already laid a bed of success by conquering one of the enemies of a man downfall. The light skin lady is really in touch with reality and she will make a good mother. As for Mr. Abraham it's just a pity.
21:18 If someone is offering you help for your virginity "THEY ARE NOT TRYING TO HELP YOU". Hold your ears good Listen "THEY ARE NOT TRYING TO HELP YOU" Run, walk fly just get away from that 'non helper' biko I beg😥
They say "misery likes company". The Blessing lady found herself on this path & she is ashamed of it. She is looking for more people to be like her to drown that guilt she has.
God bless you Ejiro! Good to know we still have your kind in the world. I believe we know the state of the heart of men by their words. Thanks for standing for the "TRUTH".
@@baristaz8834 this has nothing to the with the sin itself. Ex: a rich person getting away with breaking the law vs a poor person. We can all agree the act is the same but one can get away with it, while the other cannot. Believers vs non believers. The brown dress lady is a false believer. You cannot continue to live in sin if you claim to be a follower of Christ. You will be uncomfortable!
I give good credits to Ejiro. You stood your ground firmly with biblical backing. God bless you for standing for Christ in public. I believe that if Patience is giving another good-paying job, she will leave the sex work and I pray she gets that by God's grace. Blessing speaks from a defensive angle and has blocked her mind against any other alternative. I pray she finds Jesus
Ejirooghene ahhhh i pray God honours and decorate you beautifully for speaking so confidently on the side of God. Its interesting to see a man speak bodly like this. The red hair lady i pray for her she's so sweet,Abraham & Blessing may you truly live your names cos clearly you're not God will help you.❤️❤️🙏🙏
8:19 this our sister ehn 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I'm not looking at her sideways because of her occupation, it's the way she's cutting people off and not allowing them to do the same. There's 2 other people on her side of the conversation but she's acting like she's alone and everything said is about her.
@@boochi7087 whether or not you are making valid points, let others speak. That's why they are having a conversation. Also there's a timestamp of her cutting people off. Let people speak in conversations.
A hipocrite is a hipocrite virgin or not , I dated a virgin once for 7 years. The idiot cheated on me with a soldier but was still delusional that’s she is a virgin , also met a runs girl that gave me the best relationship of my life
Lies GOD ALLAH SWT can set you free as Jesus pbuh depended and prayed to GOD ALLAH SWT even in your bible it states Jesus pbuh can do nothing and everything on his own but GOD ALLAH SWT can do anything on ALLAH SWT own with no help and independently even Jesus pbuh needed GOD but ALLAH SWT needs no one ALLAH SWT is the creator of everything
@@KTee-eb1tv nope Jesus is God. The quran can't get the fact that Jesus was crucified even though it's a historical fact plus Muhammed is a HORRIBLE moral example so I strongly insist Yahweh never spoke to him
This is insightful. I am so glad to see this so we can have a convo about how much trauma that is occurring in many African cultures. I appreciate everyone's transparency.
I love these conversations. This is very debatable and we are beginning to get conscious as a country and humanity at large at this part of the country
the lady with the brown dress was listening to respond and not listening to comprehend and understand. she was already defensive and not open minded. but the woman with the red hair has a lot of self awareness.
The moment someone is picky with who they let in their space, body and life they are called a hypocrite. If you are content with your body being used up, do you. Don't be bitter over the fact that some people respect their bodies
Nice topics @cruise. I’d like for you to talk about “Men are only loved conditionally for what they can provide while women and babies are loved unconditionally”
People need to Understand that virginity≠ Abstinence . Before you did it,you were a virgin. Some people just haven't done it yet because they haven't had the oppurtunity not because they're choosing not to
Perhaps it’s different for males, but most have had the opportunity and have said no. People have their reasons for remaining a virgin ie, asexual, waiting for marriage, waiting to meet the right person, religion, preference. It’s possible to not be a virgin and practice abstinence. I agree with that part.
Personally I'm more scared of Haliyah than Blessing. Just sounded like she was trying to be her own god and decide what moral or not for herself. 'Sexuality shouldn't be important in this modern age'. mmm. She agreed that sex is a sin because it's related to religion but thinks that virginity should not have anything to do with religion but personal preferences. Sex is a sin outside marriage but you feel it's okay to leave your marriage to explore your sexuality. She's here and there for me. I admire patience speaking her mind for the record and cheers to ejiro
Ejirooooooooooooooooooooooooogene!! Thank you. I think the question around wanting your child to be like you should be the summary of this conversation. If your choice is so good/right why would you want anything else for your kid?
40:27 im screaminggg please make more use of that footnote whenever a speaker doesn’t understand the prompt because more time i can think of previous Cruise videos where people’s lack of comprehension doesn’t allow them to make valid contributions to the debate 😭😭
People should live their lives however they want to as long as they're not hurting anyone else. If you want to be a virgin, be a virgin. If you want to be promiscuous, be promiscuous. Also, I want to add that being a virgin doesn't make someone a good person and vice versa. I know people that carry Bible on their head that are not good people and I know people who are not religious that are not nice people. I do feel that religion is one of the main reasons why people choose to maintain virginity because they see sex as this big sin. I think that a lot of religious people pick and choose how they label people sinners especially when they're also sinful. You live the way you want but understand that however you choose to live, there are real life consequences associated with those choices.
Everyone shouldn’t live their life however they want. They should live the way God wants,Because living your life the way you want would lead you to a dead end. I come in peace God bless you. But l agree that Christian shouldn’t judge or label anyone,we’re all sinner ourself like no one is perfect.
@@tojomj6751Lol, what is this dead end you talk about? I'm an agnostic atheist Nigerian, and I believe in your dead end the same way I believe in Santa Claus - fantasy. So, you live your life for your own end and I'll live my life for my own end. Contrary to the ignorant beliefs people like you hold, some of us who choose not to be religious are fully aware that we're forfeiting the delusions of your religion. We don't care. Enjoy your heaven, let me enjoy my life!
@@tojomj6751 You just judged everyone who doesn't subscribe to your way of thinking and infered that anyone that doesn't subscribe to the way of your God is wrong and then you followed up by saying " Christian shouldn’t judge". You can't make this shit up, guys. dfkm
@@tojomj6751 and that's your opinion people should be able to chose what they want like you believe God gave us free will and people should be able to chose what they want Don't you think trying to divert God's will is a sin?? You guys are funny😂😂
The same goes for sex workers. Just because they are honest and upfront about their line of work doesn't make them a good person. Like you! Said there's pros and cons to everything and our every action has a form of consequence, regardless of whether it's good or bad.
Any help with conditions to compromise yourself isnt worth receiving. I am 24 and still a virgin, i have been in situations where i had to choose, thank God for grace, looking back now, if i had compromised i will still be living in regret.
We have work as believers , unfortunately only the once that knows God to an extent are the once constantly attending church programmed and recycling seminars …. Despite all the sermons we are exposed to and the Men of God preaching everywhere , it’s so heartbreaking that it seems like a lot of people don’t get to experience “Jesus “ and “The truth” , I totally agree that believers are not outspoken enough about our faith ….. We truly have work ……Any idea outside of scripture is Wrong , even if Jesus appeared to say something contrary to Scripture (which is impossible) then that Jesus is wrong …. I can’t wait to Launch my book “The clash between society and “The church “
Omo dat blessings Lady is so defensive The guy on glasses left me speechless Love haliyah and ejigro points The other lady on red wig was so straight forward Their handles should be included in this Kudos to the organizers of this program
I think virgins and street workers is a bit confusing because someone paying someone to sleep with and conversation with a person who is a virgin doesn’t make sense. It would rather be virgin and non virgin because Street work is different conversation
Exactly, two unrelated spectrums! It should be virgins v non virgins and pro s*x work v anti s*x work or something because there are a lot of unrelated perspectives here
@@Enkaybe exactly because the lady in brown had some issue with virgins because she had the idea of them looking down on the work they do rather it should have been more of the society looking down on them regardless of virgin or non virgin. It is a big issues and it can also be discussed, what the society can do to decrease street work, create safety and resources for jobs. Can also discuss many women/men that have died from the work so much more to discuss, it is a shame many subject area was overshadowed by anger and just unrelated topics
This is perfect because 1. It is about who has sex and who doesn’t 2. The twist here is the threshold both have crossed asking a non virgin to go against a virgin does t have a lot of twist to it because some non virgins didn’t want to lose their virginity they didn’t cross the threshold intentionally so it won’t really make sense
I like the red hair lady's honesty and realness. She is still aware of societies norms and ethical principles but her colleague is working hard to normalizing her poor choices.
Sex work has no relevance in the society. Even sex workers get raped, even sex workers get cheated on, even sex workers children get sexually abused. Sex workers are merely a product of people’s greed and inability to work on their marriage
This is the first video that I am watching on this page, I just wanted to say I respect that you referenced Jubilee as the idea generator for this video. This is lovely by the way, great content
With all respect, blessings is all defensive without solid points hitting on the table, she's just like a soldier going to battle without weapons, going to face Giants
The notion that sex workers need to exist to prevent rape is cognitive dissonance at its finest, with the woman even admitting that sex workers themselves are often victims of rape.
💯💯
Honestly that was a Horrreeennddous take.
there's elements of truth in it, but rapist will always exist.
@@mortalwombat2001 there’s no ounce of truth in it.
@@ellaa7985 proof ?
Blessing( the woman in brown) is so insecure, triggered and doesn't let other people talk talking about "hold on".
Exactly
I am a Christian. I believe in Father, Son, Holy Spirit. Jesus is welcome to inhabit every part of me.
I thought Blessing was extremely well spoken and articulate. I don’t agree with most of her views on sexuality and sex work but I enjoyed listening to her. She appeared to be honest, truthful and real (even if she said things people don’t want to hear). Jesus befriended prostitutes; sex workers. I pray she’ll enter into a friendship with Jesus too 🙌🏾
I pray that she’ll be offered work outside of her current work. She’s really bright and intelligent.
Cruise 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This was an EXCELLENT conversation!!!!!!!
Like!
@@Ana-rp4xu Exactly!! 💯
ahswr she is sick😂😂
To Ejirogene, you have stood out for Christ. May the Lord bless you.
❤
Amen
Amen oh, the wisdom of the Holy Spirit is upon him
Yes, he did
“Why are you a virgin” is WILD😭😭😭😂😂😂 why not????
lol tbh her question made me think 😂😂 never had someone ask that so funny
I think it missed her that everyone is born a virgin and it's not a curse or weird to remain so until you are mentally, emotionally and physically ready.
Fr
I’m here thinking of how to make money someone is coming to tell me this 😂😂
😂😂😂@@CondyleezaKekeocha
@@cupcake1065nobody is born one it doesn’t exist
The lady in brown saying, “God gives clients” is the most BLASPHEMOUS thing I’ve heard
Fr it gave me chills when she said that
That the most stupidest thing I’ve hears
Shut up mumu. Blasphemous my asd
She haven’t met the devil himself in her line of business .. she is meeting his agents… her brain is wired differently
How?
Blessing is the biggest ambassador of delulu and self justification
😂😂😂
The lady in the red wig is actually honest and open minded …
The lady in braids !!!! She’s so smart!
Yeah she is really honest with herself, and the truth is people like this are most likely to get to heaven rather than saints. Sha God will give her the strength to stop if she wants to
I pray the lady with the red hair gets her deliverance at least she is honest andcalm.
Exactly, well said sis. ❤️
Amen
Yh, at least she acknowledges what she is doing is wrong until the lady in brown
Amen 🙏 ooo😂😂😂😂😂
😅😂😂 Amen!!!
The Christian brother spoke so solidly and it's encouraging to see some stand for God in this generation. What an intellectual believer! He posed the right questions! We thank the Lord for such bold faith.
The lady in red is so sweet. I pray she gets a better way to make money and move out of this sex work.
As for the lady in brown...I pray she gets healing. She speaks from a point of defence all the time. 😢
Sex is spiritual but this generation no gree 😂😅
@mathaboluciandumo6319 You said it well
@@akinolaagboola9266not it’s not
@@akinolaagboola9266it’s not spiritual
The young man is an evidence that there is still light in this generation😊❤God bless him
I love that there's someone who is a virgin for non-religious reasons and that there's also a male virgin who has an unwavering belief and is not ashamed, contrary to what is considered the norm 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Yes!
The woman on pink hair is so honest with her self
She's not delusional at all, she knows what she's doing but she's not going to lie to herself
lol not her calling us hypocrites 😂 ma’am have several seats.
Take up the whole damn aisle 😂
That lady in brown needs to understand that owning up to something does not necessarily make you a bad person. Omo😔 she's so defensive she doesn't even want to allow others to deliver their points. The "God gives you client" statement is crazy.
COMPREHENSION IS KEY!! IF YOU LACK COMPREHENSION PROBLEM DEY OO!!
Exactly 💯
Sheybi God dey bless the work of her hands ???
You people should shut up! There is no situation that put sex as the lifeline between life and death
No it’s not a crazy statement if god didn’t want it to exist it wouldn’t y’all can’t say this god is all powerful and gives ppl what they ask for but then when it’s something you don’t approve now you saying god ain’t answering those prayers.
@@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632 God doesn't force people to obey or do as he pleases. Humans disobey and make their own choices to their detriment. Its when they see the consequences they start blaming God
I think the Blessing feels she is beyond redemption that why she doesn't want to entertain the idea that what she is doing is wrong in anu sense.
To Ejiroghene, you’re a solid man!!!! The Lord is doing a great work in you and through you! You’re so clear and sharp about the things of GOD! I encourage you to always fix your eyes on Jesus!
From your fellow sister in Christ!
If it’s not your physical health affected by that kind of work your mental and spiritual health will be ruined. You will see every close relationship as transactional.
I don't think half of you understand that not everyone is privileged.
@@akewtie7521 i understand that but there is risks to everything and they shouldn’t be ignored even though feelings may be hurt
@@akewtie7521Exactly! When person wan chop, you come dey tell them sey make dem dey think of mental and spiritual health. I bet this person won't support and help the physical health of someone who has to rely on sex work for survival the same way they're worried about the mental and spiritual health.
Right, there's risks in everything so why do people make it seem like sex work has the highest risk. They're usually shamed and looked down upon. This isn't about feelings being hurt it's about understanding that there's usually no other option at hand
@@akewtie7521 because their highly exposed to violence, assault, drugs. Think about the customers they interact with, have you met a good man who fiddles around with prostitutes? Even infections ‘even if protection is used’ you can get mouth infections skin infections. And even HPV infection which can cause uterine, cervix, vulva anus and vaginl cancer. Infact hpv id the cause for 80-60% of all these cancers. Keep in mind there are often no symptoms for hpv. And also other STI’s that also give you an increased risk to cancer and the risk is even worse for woman. Woman usually get the worst affects of STI’s and can even die. Again I wanna stress lots of these STI’s can be asymptomatic meaning no symptoms. Imagine trusting random men with your body, just in general it’s not good you shouldn’t trust strangers.
blessing has a brick wall in her ears and has "hold on" only in her mouth. She wants others to accept her but can't even digest what others are saying! Omo!
The question "I will like my child to be like me". The fact that only the two Virgins said yes, is all the evidence you need to know what is right.
Seriously
Honestly, this comment need to be pinned...Urghhh!!!.... In all the connections and all, something you dont want your offspring to be known for or to be, should not be something you should be proud about...
thissssss! They kept on averting the question by asking another question.
Greed is what makes people do what they aren't supposed to do. Whether you collect money for it or not. When you are not greedy, you won't want to have fun that will cost you diseases and even de*th just to please your body.
Clearly
I love that part where someone said “it’s not by born again oo” and Ejiro immediately replied “it’s by born again oo”. 👏 😊
It was so subtle I almost didn't hear it 😅
No one:
Blessing: HOLD ON
Stop 😂😂😂😂😂
haha
It's annoying 😭
Multiple times😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Lmaooo, this Blessing babe literally embodies the saying “garbage in garbage out” 😭😭😭
i cannot even complete the video because of her.
😂yes
She's annoying...Gosh🤦♀️
She is saying rubbish with her full chest 😂
The disconnect in this conversation is the centering of virginity. It would make more sense to have a discussion between those who are pro -sex work vs. anti-sex work, whether or not they are virgins or in the profession.
That would really make more sense
I agree
Exactly. This episode was ill fitted. Pro vs anti sex makes sense.
Exactly what I was saying. It’s a flawed angle from the get go
Honestly....immediately i saw the topic i said the same thing
Why are we so scared to call out wrong??? Prostituting is a sin and it's morally wrong in every angle. Being a virgin doesn't mean you're a saint either. You staying a virgin should be for the right reasons(The bible instructs that sex should be done only in the confines of marriage ). Let's also learn to condemn the sin and not the person. We're all not saints, we're all working towards perfection nevertheless what is wrong is wrong
Well said. This is how America became the way it is morally. It always starts with people being attacked or canceled for simply calling out what is wrong, and we're already getting there.
People commit sins being in other people business. judging. I’m sure they know it’s a sin. And so do the people that pay them and come home to yall blind noses.
You're committing a sin by judging. I always laugh at people like you who are eager and quick to call out other people's sin when you're not God, and you are definitely a sinner! In fact, I'm willing to bet that you lied, didn't give to the poor, you leave your hair open, and I'm also sure you're not a virgin. Live and let live. It's a sin because your fantasy Bible told you so. Abi if the bible didn't tell you it's a sin, you won't have your own commonsense to discern what's a sin or not?
It's because we now live in an irritating time where you have to be "politically correct" and "inclusive" to either be accepted or avoid being castigated.
Is true that prostituting it's considered listen according to the Christians and also the Catholics because what about the Catholic church they also slept around with prostitutes because if you go way back since the beginning off the dawn of time prostituting has always existed before the birth of Christ but it didn't mean that it was right or wrong is just because that human beings they do not have the notion what was right or wrong then God came by since Sodom and Gomorrah so God have he put some boundaries but at the same time we cannot control human nature what they want to do with their body 0:01
It’s Oghenejiro is standing for Christ and the belief in virginity and sexual purity. I’ve never been more proud!😁😁😁
Ejiroghene spoke so well. And I agree with his views 100% (a definition of husband material) but the real question is what is the benchmark for being satisfied in sex? A big shout out to the woman wearing the red wig she was so honest and calm
I really like Ejiroghene- He seems like a young man with a solid head on his shoulders!
He is smart ooo
Very intellectual
Knows how to speak and think ahan 👏🏾
Yes He is very intelligent
Solid Head….. God bless his path
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He thinks before talking
The sex worker in brown was irritating to listen to. Talk about delulu, “God gives me clients”. Most absurd thing I’ve heard all year.
That woman is so confused I cannot!!!!’
I really liked listening to Blessing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 And Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. Enjoying her personality and what she had to say is different from agreeing with her.
god is giving her clients. She’s either legitly confused about which god (it’s certainly not YAHWEH-God giving her clients) is giving her clients or just pretending she doesn’t know 😉
… I’m learning Jesus can snatch people up and out of anyone’s camp 😆. If you love God, pray for her.
She lacks intelligence that's why she has to sell her body to survive
She was just talking and making no sense
i gave her a side eyeeeeeeeeee
The irony of "Abraham" and "Blessing" doing sex work🤣
😂😂😂na really Abraham
Exactly!!!!! 🤦🏾♀️🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 biblical names ayi
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That lady Blessing is exhausting to watch, couldn't finish
I wanted her off my screen once she started speaking
Only virgins are allowed to like my comments 😂
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Virgin here🎉
I wish I was
Wow, I never knew we had so many virgins in Nigeria 😂 if you don't want to be one anymore I can help you sha. I got that magic 🪄 wand 😁
Welcome to the club
This is the kind of conversation that happens in a university hostel where the ignorant reside.
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This is soooooooooo true
Realllly? I thought this was a GREAT conversation! I personally believe God designed sex for marriage. It is sacred… and it is a covenant. - but I loved the realness shared here.
Matthew 11:15 👂🏾
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Thank you so much 😊
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Blessing was so incredibly defensive, she didn't come across as intelligent at all, she was extremely combative and ignorant. A lot of what she was saying was pure projection, i think unfortunate circumstances have led her to a dark path of sex work and anyone that is opose to that she attacks them.
You've said it as it is
She’s defensive because deep down she knows what she’s doing is immoral
@@Joshua-re3xw facts!!!
Exactly.....you are spot on
too apt
Ejiro, the faith is proud of you. May God give us the grace to stay on track & when we do err find our way back 🙏🏿
It's so difficult to stand an ignorant person that refuses knowledge 😔.. the Blessing lady is somthing else 🤦🏾♂️
Blessing has lost something, regrets she’s lost it, feels judged and insecure and is so defensive but she’d definitely pick another life if she could. ” I’m doing a job that I love doing” 😂 Clown!!!
Patience : it's not by born again oo
Ejiroghene : it's by born again 😂😂😂
People just open their mouth waaa 😂😂
The woman in the middle sha 😅😂
Different type of minds full this world... So shocking
I'm still in shock 😂
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@@dvid763me too 😂
The results from the prompt "I will like my child to be like me" says it all 📌
Being a sex worker does not mean you're a bad person, neither does it make you less of a human. However, we can agree that its not a profession anyone wishes for their family members and those they love. There's nobody born with the passion or dream of being a prostitute.
Everyone is entitled to do what they like with their lives, but abeg don't lie to yourself 🌚
Well said
true talk
That blessing girl dey vex me Abeg 😂😂
Saying a lot but saying nothing at the same time. She’s annoying. She just wants to argue not debate
Blessing is so angry shem😢 looks like she’s been deeply hurt, life has hit her hard!
Omo😢 e tire me sef
As a 26 year old Christian virgin, I believe saying my virginity for marriage is the best option. Especially after I been learning about Sex before marriage. It's spiritually harmful. So ima just continue saving myself until I find the one for me. Shalom to you all✝️🙏🏾
Simple!
God bless you
God bless you!
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God bless u and honor u 🙏 sir
Ejiroghene is such a beautiful person, i love how grounded he is and how he has an understanding of the word and he isnt judging anybody. Keep it up my man❤
The blessing lady, God will help u.
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Ejiroghene! The man that you are!! It's so refreshing to see a fellow believer with strong convictions. If you are reading this, I want you to know that you have a good head on your shoulders. I enjoyed listening to you!
It's the way blessing says professional as if she works in a company 🤣🤣
Abi oo 😭
The most sentimental person saying “let’s not be sentimental” is crazy.
Literallyyy!😭
Real😂
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Do you get 😂
Most people become defensive when you touch a sensitive part of them they ain't ready to face this is exactly the case of that lady on a brown dress. She's traumatised deep down yet she's failed to realize nor accept it. If the job is awesome why won't she come out straight and boldy to say that she will allow her children to toll the same line of profession?
You see this guy Ejiroghene? He has already laid a bed of success by conquering one of the enemies of a man downfall.
The light skin lady is really in touch with reality and she will make a good mother.
As for Mr. Abraham it's just a pity.
She feels so ashamed by the job she is doing, so she is doing everything to defend what she is doing. Look deep down, it's trauma and pain
21:18 If someone is offering you help for your virginity "THEY ARE NOT TRYING TO HELP YOU".
Hold your ears good Listen
"THEY ARE NOT TRYING TO HELP YOU"
Run, walk fly just get away from that 'non helper' biko I beg😥
They say "misery likes company". The Blessing lady found herself on this path & she is ashamed of it. She is looking for more people to be like her to drown that guilt she has.
Aswrr you can only have one hymen what if that life and death situation comes again and they said give your virginity when you've already lost it
Where do you guys even find these people??😂😂
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Exactly , what I was thinking 😂
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God bless you Ejiro! Good to know we still have your kind in the world. I believe we know the state of the heart of men by their words. Thanks for standing for the "TRUTH".
just first few seconds in and dem don knack me bullets gbam😭
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When a believer sin, the consequences are severe more than a person living in sin.
I thought God said all sins were equal lol but ok
@@baristaz8834 this has nothing to the with the sin itself. Ex: a rich person getting away with breaking the law vs a poor person. We can all agree the act is the same but one can get away with it, while the other cannot.
Believers vs non believers. The brown dress lady is a false believer. You cannot continue to live in sin if you claim to be a follower of Christ. You will be uncomfortable!
This is so so true… same way God will judge the church first before the world
People always feel like they're being attacked when they are condemned for the wrong they are doing.
I give good credits to Ejiro. You stood your ground firmly with biblical backing. God bless you for standing for Christ in public.
I believe that if Patience is giving another good-paying job, she will leave the sex work and I pray she gets that by God's grace.
Blessing speaks from a defensive angle and has blocked her mind against any other alternative. I pray she finds Jesus
Blessing is triggered by the little things...it shows that her conscience judges her
Lady in brown Dey craze respectfully
"I will like my child to be like me"...all the sex workers lock up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That lady in brown that's talking so much is delulu! Just talking just to talk....not even thinking about what she's saying😂😂😂
This channel is very consistent in posting
Yes I love it!!
I like Patience, she's very honest with herself
The lady in brown is just opening her mouth!💀
I swear! 🙄😂
Open mouth waaa😂
Ejirooghene ahhhh i pray God honours and decorate you beautifully for speaking so confidently on the side of God. Its interesting to see a man speak bodly like this. The red hair lady i pray for her she's so sweet,Abraham & Blessing may you truly live your names cos clearly you're not God will help you.❤️❤️🙏🙏
8:19 this our sister ehn 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I'm not looking at her sideways because of her occupation, it's the way she's cutting people off and not allowing them to do the same. There's 2 other people on her side of the conversation but she's acting like she's alone and everything said is about her.
Are you implying that she didn't make valid points? Because you didn't address anything she said at all.
She is convicted so she feels attacked
@@boochi7087 whether or not you are making valid points, let others speak. That's why they are having a conversation. Also there's a timestamp of her cutting people off. Let people speak in conversations.
A hipocrite is a hipocrite virgin or not , I dated a virgin once for 7 years. The idiot cheated on me with a soldier but was still delusional that’s she is a virgin , also met a runs girl that gave me the best relationship of my life
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Do you know what a virgin is
Hypocrite*
Then she wasn't a virgin then.
Talk about Irony. 😂
Only Jesus Christ can set you free! ❤
Lies GOD ALLAH SWT can set you free as Jesus pbuh depended and prayed to GOD ALLAH SWT even in your bible it states Jesus pbuh can do nothing and everything on his own but GOD ALLAH SWT can do anything on ALLAH SWT own with no help and independently even Jesus pbuh needed GOD but ALLAH SWT needs no one ALLAH SWT is the creator of everything
Yesssss
@@KTee-eb1tv nope Jesus is God. The quran can't get the fact that Jesus was crucified even though it's a historical fact plus Muhammed is a HORRIBLE moral example so I strongly insist Yahweh never spoke to him
God will set u free @@KTee-eb1tv
@@KTee-eb1tvJesus god was yahweh big man 😂
This is insightful. I am so glad to see this so we can have a convo about how much trauma that is occurring in many African cultures. I appreciate everyone's transparency.
I love these conversations. This is very debatable and we are beginning to get conscious as a country and humanity at large at this part of the country
the lady with the brown dress was listening to respond and not listening to comprehend and understand. she was already defensive and not open minded. but the woman with the red hair has a lot of self awareness.
Most african are like that never listend because they already made up their minds!
I agree with you Ejiroghene (my brother). Man is truly insatiable but we have the word of God to put us under control.
The moment someone is picky with who they let in their space, body and life they are called a hypocrite. If you are content with your body being used up, do you. Don't be bitter over the fact that some people respect their bodies
Nice topics @cruise. I’d like for you to talk about “Men are only loved conditionally for what they can provide while women and babies are loved unconditionally”
Whenever this lady in brown calls herself a professional I laugh in Swahili 😂. Professional kor
They be bringing intelligent people on these debates, and it's just awesome.
Haliyah and the guy are just so reasonable with their words, I mean 💧
People need to Understand that virginity≠ Abstinence . Before you did it,you were a virgin. Some people just haven't done it yet because they haven't had the oppurtunity not because they're choosing not to
It'll surprise you a lot of them had the opportunity but they refused because you couldn't say no doesn't mean others can't too
Perhaps it’s different for males, but most have had the opportunity and have said no. People have their reasons for remaining a virgin ie, asexual, waiting for marriage, waiting to meet the right person, religion, preference. It’s possible to not be a virgin and practice abstinence. I agree with that part.
@@Ellah1818 This is true
@@oliviaojpg exactly. Like i'm asexual so i definitely Understand. Everyone has their different reasons and nobody owes anyone an explanation
Nollywood should get the lady in brown off the streets and into movies with Ruth Kadiri playing as sisters cuz they resemble well well. 😅
Personally I'm more scared of Haliyah than Blessing. Just sounded like she was trying to be her own god and decide what moral or not for herself. 'Sexuality shouldn't be important in this modern age'. mmm. She agreed that sex is a sin because it's related to religion but thinks that virginity should not have anything to do with religion but personal preferences. Sex is a sin outside marriage but you feel it's okay to leave your marriage to explore your sexuality. She's here and there for me.
I admire patience speaking her mind for the record and cheers to ejiro
Must everyone be religious? Can morality exist without religion? These are my questions for you
God please help each and every one of us, Abeggg! The people clearly need your help & wisdom
I love you guys.. I love what you do.. I love how you give a platform for tough conversations specifically the Nigerian socio-cultural space
your comment is amazing
Ejirooooooooooooooooooooooooogene!! Thank you. I think the question around wanting your child to be like you should be the summary of this conversation. If your choice is so good/right why would you want anything else for your kid?
40:27 im screaminggg please make more use of that footnote whenever a speaker doesn’t understand the prompt because more time i can think of previous Cruise videos where people’s lack of comprehension doesn’t allow them to make valid contributions to the debate 😭😭
People should live their lives however they want to as long as they're not hurting anyone else. If you want to be a virgin, be a virgin. If you want to be promiscuous, be promiscuous. Also, I want to add that being a virgin doesn't make someone a good person and vice versa. I know people that carry Bible on their head that are not good people and I know people who are not religious that are not nice people. I do feel that religion is one of the main reasons why people choose to maintain virginity because they see sex as this big sin. I think that a lot of religious people pick and choose how they label people sinners especially when they're also sinful. You live the way you want but understand that however you choose to live, there are real life consequences associated with those choices.
Everyone shouldn’t live their life however they want. They should live the way God wants,Because living your life the way you want would lead you to a dead end. I come in peace God bless you. But l agree that Christian shouldn’t judge or label anyone,we’re all sinner ourself like no one is perfect.
@@tojomj6751Lol, what is this dead end you talk about? I'm an agnostic atheist Nigerian, and I believe in your dead end the same way I believe in Santa Claus - fantasy. So, you live your life for your own end and I'll live my life for my own end. Contrary to the ignorant beliefs people like you hold, some of us who choose not to be religious are fully aware that we're forfeiting the delusions of your religion. We don't care. Enjoy your heaven, let me enjoy my life!
@@tojomj6751 You just judged everyone who doesn't subscribe to your way of thinking and infered that anyone that doesn't subscribe to the way of your God is wrong and then you followed up by saying " Christian shouldn’t judge". You can't make this shit up, guys. dfkm
@@tojomj6751 and that's your opinion people should be able to chose what they want like you believe God gave us free will and people should be able to chose what they want
Don't you think trying to divert God's will is a sin?? You guys are funny😂😂
The same goes for sex workers. Just because they are honest and upfront about their line of work doesn't make them a good person. Like you! Said there's pros and cons to everything and our every action has a form of consequence, regardless of whether it's good or bad.
Ejiro, God Bless You! I haven't seen a young person who is unashamed of Christ like this guy in a long time
God bless Patience. She is so truthful. I pray for her that help comes her way and she changes.
The first virgin lady is a gem. The Virgin man is a treasure. The non virgin lady at the far end is lovable and I pray for her.❤
Any help with conditions to compromise yourself isnt worth receiving.
I am 24 and still a virgin, i have been in situations where i had to choose, thank God for grace, looking back now, if i had compromised i will still be living in regret.
You're doing the right thing girl... i married as a virgin at 29 and I have no regrets!!!
We have work as believers , unfortunately only the once that knows God to an extent are the once constantly attending church programmed and recycling seminars …. Despite all the sermons we are exposed to and the Men of God preaching everywhere , it’s so heartbreaking that it seems like a lot of people don’t get to experience “Jesus “ and “The truth” , I totally agree that believers are not outspoken enough about our faith ….. We truly have work ……Any idea outside of scripture is Wrong , even if Jesus appeared to say something contrary to Scripture (which is impossible) then that Jesus is wrong …. I can’t wait to Launch my book “The clash between society and “The church “
Omo dat blessings Lady is so defensive
The guy on glasses left me speechless
Love haliyah and ejigro points
The other lady on red wig was so straight forward
Their handles should be included in this
Kudos to the organizers of this program
I think virgins and street workers is a bit confusing because someone paying someone to sleep with and conversation with a person who is a virgin doesn’t make sense. It would rather be virgin and non virgin because Street work is different conversation
Exactly, two unrelated spectrums! It should be virgins v non virgins and pro s*x work v anti s*x work or something because there are a lot of unrelated perspectives here
@@Enkaybe exactly because the lady in brown had some issue with virgins because she had the idea of them looking down on the work they do rather it should have been more of the society looking down on them regardless of virgin or non virgin. It is a big issues and it can also be discussed, what the society can do to decrease street work, create safety and resources for jobs. Can also discuss many women/men that have died from the work so much more to discuss, it is a shame many subject area was overshadowed by anger and just unrelated topics
This is perfect because 1. It is about who has sex and who doesn’t 2. The twist here is the threshold both have crossed asking a non virgin to go against a virgin does t have a lot of twist to it because some non virgins didn’t want to lose their virginity they didn’t cross the threshold intentionally so it won’t really make sense
God bless you
if you support the Christian guy's view like this comment
The lady in brown lowkey actually wishes she was not saying what she was saying.
I like the red hair lady's honesty and realness. She is still aware of societies norms and ethical principles but her colleague is working hard to normalizing her poor choices.
Do you see how that Lady is using the Bible so wrongly and Ejiro is giving her a solid response with solid scriptures!!!! Loveeeeeeet😂
Sex work has no relevance in the society. Even sex workers get raped, even sex workers get cheated on, even sex workers children get sexually abused. Sex workers are merely a product of people’s greed and inability to work on their marriage
sex workers cheat on their partners all the time for work
I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. Very insightful. Love this channel…
This is the first video that I am watching on this page, I just wanted to say I respect that you referenced Jubilee as the idea generator for this video. This is lovely by the way, great content
Virginity is not easy. God help me
😂. I want to marry like this.
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With all respect, blessings is all defensive without solid points hitting on the table, she's just like a soldier going to battle without weapons, going to face Giants
You only defend views in that form of manner when you know it's wrong. A lot of people are just in denial of there behavior