What's sad is, I thought my last ex (overweight white man who was 40 while I was 39 last year) was the one (and the relationship was progressing in many ways), then after a misunderstanding with his father (around six months later) he ultimately chose him over me, and then he tells me that he's "not ready". I think there's some truth to that since he still lived with his parents, wasn't making a lot of money (less than 34k) as an Uber Eats/Grub Hub driver and was in a lot of debt, but still... I think you're right, in a way, about the not ready part, but I also think it was also the truth. He clearly wasn't ready for ANYONE (any woman) because he had that debt and also he was too much a Papa's boy frustratingly enough that it would be hard for ANY relationship of his to really work. Not to mention he was a nerdy video game playing, lazy person! ..Maybe he's making some changes now, who knows. All I know is that was pretty selfish and cruel of him to do that to me after almost six months, but nonetheless that's what happend last year when I dated him!
This is clear and to the point. You have demystified the confusion women get themselves into. Im sending this to several young ladies, so they open their eyes..
1. You will know when he wants you. You will never have to figure this out. 2. The amount of effort a man puts in you is how he sees you and what he wants from you. 3. The only time a man keeps you confused is because he needs you to know that you ain’t the one. 4. Men don’t have issues paying for stuff for you or providing for you if he really wants you. 5. Men communicate all the time. Men just don’t talk the way women talk. Learn how to speak like men speak. 6. Don’t try to figure out what a man is saying. What he says is exactly what he means. Stay on the surface. 7. The best way to deal with a man is to match his effort. If he pulls back, you pull back. 8. When a man says he is not ready, let him be not ready by himself. Don’t wait untill he is ready. He will probably never get ready for you. He will not change his mind.
Shabbat Shalom to You and Your Family Beloved Brotha Kirk. Of all Your videos I've listened to so far, THIS ONE had me in stitches of laughter even as I felt tears stinging the back of My eyes! As I felt the tears coming I heard "Acknowledge the feeling without judgement/labelling. Choose which human Be-ing You want to be and be that!" So as the tears stung the back of My eyes I was laughing so hard it was so contagious that it made me laugh even more!!!!!!!!!!!! My Brother from another Mother, Thank You for sharing these Nuggets of Niceness for us Sisters. Many Lives are going to be TRANSFORMED because resistance (to true FACTS) is utterly futile! I love it!!!!
You are absolutely 💯 ❤️. I give what I get. Don't have times for games. My time is valuable to me
Kirk I appreciate that. Match his effort!!😊😊
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That was excellent! Thank you so much!❤❤
I love how this information is simple and gets to the point!
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What's sad is, I thought my last ex (overweight white man who was 40 while I was 39 last year) was the one (and the relationship was progressing in many ways), then after a misunderstanding with his father (around six months later) he ultimately chose him over me, and then he tells me that he's "not ready". I think there's some truth to that since he still lived with his parents, wasn't making a lot of money (less than 34k) as an Uber Eats/Grub Hub driver and was in a lot of debt, but still... I think you're right, in a way, about the not ready part, but I also think it was also the truth. He clearly wasn't ready for ANYONE (any woman) because he had that debt and also he was too much a Papa's boy frustratingly enough that it would be hard for ANY relationship of his to really work. Not to mention he was a nerdy video game playing, lazy person! ..Maybe he's making some changes now, who knows. All I know is that was pretty selfish and cruel of him to do that to me after almost six months, but nonetheless that's what happend last year when I dated him!
Thank you for this simple explanation of how men think about themselves and relationships. Following this advice will make it easier for everyone.😊❤😮
This is clear and to the point. You have demystified the confusion women get themselves into. Im sending this to several young ladies, so they open their eyes..
He’ll come in his underwear 😂😂😂
1. You will know when he wants you. You will never have to figure this out.
2. The amount of effort a man puts in you is how he sees you and what he wants from you.
3. The only time a man keeps you confused is because he needs you to know that you ain’t the one.
4. Men don’t have issues paying for stuff for you or providing for you if he really wants you.
5. Men communicate all the time. Men just don’t talk the way women talk. Learn how to speak like men speak.
6. Don’t try to figure out what a man is saying. What he says is exactly what he means. Stay on the surface.
7. The best way to deal with a man is to match his effort. If he pulls back, you pull back.
8. When a man says he is not ready, let him be not ready by himself. Don’t wait untill he is ready. He will probably never get ready for you. He will not change his mind.
Thank you
A lot of this is common sense for mature people.
Shabbat Shalom to You and Your Family Beloved Brotha Kirk.
Of all Your videos I've listened to so far, THIS ONE had me in stitches of laughter even as I felt tears stinging the back of My eyes! As I felt the tears coming I heard "Acknowledge the feeling without judgement/labelling. Choose which human Be-ing You want to be and be that!" So as the tears stung the back of My eyes I was laughing so hard it was so contagious that it made me laugh even more!!!!!!!!!!!!
My Brother from another Mother, Thank You for sharing these Nuggets of Niceness for us Sisters. Many Lives are going to be TRANSFORMED because resistance (to true FACTS) is utterly futile! I love it!!!!
You’re absolutely right! Ty
Perfect advice 👍
Very good advice thank you ❤
I need to know about 10 yr age gaps...Dating older men..
Waiting and wasting precious time, don't do it ladies
Im here ❤❤❤
Kirko!!!
Thanku❤
Hello darling