My experience with the “opposites attract” is that it won’t last long. INFJ craves intimacy and we are introverts. We can be surrounded by our small tight group of friends, our people; but most of the time will choose home. Being in a relationship with an extrovert person is extremely exhausting, so it is in my experience better and more peaceful to be with someone who shares similar personality. I have found my INFJ and we’ve been together for 5 years already, never fight. It is blissful.
Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition). SUMMARY: Evil personality: ESFJ (ALL), ESTJ (cluster-b) [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ #Save_Soil
Endearing. Excellent advice. Also, I've noticed that if the [potential] extroverted partner is at least a 6+/10 then they likely have a high body count. Our standards aren't impossibly high. It is vital that a person spends some time gathering important and helpful life experience (just as exp is important in an [MMO]RPG), with the intent on becoming increasingly complete. When they've made significant progress to that end, they become applicable for a relationship with a real INxJ. The higher a person's sexual experience, the more emotionally disturbed they must be. The sexual sensation is a distraction from their internal demons! Avoid at all cost! Especially the ESFJ, ESFP/ISFP, and cluster-b (it's a human-hating disorder). Any deviation on ESFP/ISFP, and ESFJ, i.e. if they seem decent, it is either a lie, or solely due to external influence; because internally they are naturally covert-narcissits/cluster-B.
I am an INFJ with an extrovert .the first year was so exhausting for me . We are still together trying to understand each other but it is so difficult. He still sometimes does not get my need to be alone . But i Iove him and he loves me too .so we are gonna try till the end.
I am an ENFP, my husband is an INFJ. There is no better feeling than the one you get from a relationship you can feel safe being 100% dedicated in and absolutely sure feelings are reciprocated. We've been together for a long time, have 3 kids together. A few things I can say to any ENFPs out there who love an INFJ; give them all the space and time to make up their minds, support them once they do. Give advice without any expectation, less is more. Healthy boundaries yes, ultimatums no. Nurture their growth and appreciate their ideals you share together. Never force them to do things at someone else's pace. Oh and you won't hear them unless you are listening with both ears. Have faith in who you know them to be and never make assumptions. It means so much to have someone take the time to really know them versus someone who tries to mold or tell them who they are. Fully accept that person once you see them. Make them laugh and spend lots of time alone together. If are truly good together they will return everything you give. There is nothing I love more than seeing him grow while I do the same myself, separate yet very much so together, taking steps towards what makes us happy.
I don't expect much from people but as an INFJ, I appreciate this kind of comment and I will definitely cherish a person that will be able to give a similar energy like yours ^^
as an ENFP dating an INFJ, I completely agree with all of this. Reading your comment basically described my relationship, its quite amazing. Our compatibility is excellent
I have…except she’s with someone else. The reason why we’ve never become official (we were close to being) is because of religious reasons that prohibits us. If things were different, I’d have married her already but sometimes life really fks us over. We find our person yet have to let go.
I may be conflict avoidant, but I also hate it when people don't say what they think clearly, so honestly (and I feel it's especially true as I get older), if there is unresolved conflict hanging in the air, I will be the one to bring it up. I will do what I can to make it a calm discussion, so it does NOT turn into a real "confrontation", but my need for honest communication will trump my need to avoid conflict.
This is so me. But when i bring it up, part of me feels like I'm the one in wrong for doing it even tho I'm just trying to avoid a very bad end result from the ppl involved keeping it all in and bursting out one day :/
I may be the exception to the comment below as I was married to an extrovert for 42 years until his passing 6 years ago. We met and married very soon afterwards so it was difficult at first but we grew together and were regarded by others as soul mates. The downside is now being alone when, having given our all, we find ourselves lost. I for one cannot cope especially as, childless, I have now lost my parents, my sister and even my cat. I miss them all dreadfully and 5 years from the last family death, a year since losing my cat, I am lost in a sea of grief. I don't need, nor want casual, shallow friendships but I am utterly bereft. I would like to know how other INFJs deal with such loss. Thank you.
You could start by socializing with people who have faced loss. Divorced, widowed, or parents sent to home stays for the elderly, etc. There are many people out there who will be willing to give motherly, fatherly, feelings, or wanting a mother etc. Learning about others'pain could also relieve by sharing the pain and helping etc. Since you have endured this for so long you could tell others how you did so. Consider writing free content first or making your blog, etc? I am really sorry for you. I hope you can find happiness and solace, calmness and peaceful breathing in your life. A pet that will maybe live longer will help. Pets that have been abandoned or stray animals needing help etc. Write,. ✍️ and relieve yourself of some pain and try socializing. May the God Lord or the force of life etc. Be with you Ann. (If that's you or your name.) May you live happily. Lots of love and support to you. Umwaah. :)❤️
Knowing that they’ve come from God and have returned to God just like all of creation every single one of us ... hold onto the eternal rather than transient things ... we don’t belong in this realm we are not of this realm ... we belong to God ... we all will be returning home soon ... the question is in what state will we return ? Will it be with a clean heart just like we came to this world as children with pure hearts or will it be with a heart full of darkness due to our own wrongdoings ? The prophet Muhammad ( peace & blessings be upon him ) said ,” when a servant of God commits a wrong a black dot appears in his/her heart, if he/she regrets it realizing it returns back to The Loving God He polishes the hearts makes it clean , but if he/she doesn’t then that black dot covers the whole heart eventually “ God says ,”When guidance comes to you from Me, anyone who follows My guidance will never go astray, nor suffer any misery “ [AlQuran 20:123]
Lost in a sea of grief? Float. Lie back and let the sea move you. Watch the sunrise. Watch the stars. Say, "This is the sea. I will be where it takes me." Smell something that brings memories.
Give me an ENTP any day, any time. The video was spot on about it taking time for us to know what we need. It took a lot for me to realise that they were the best for me personally. I'd always gone for fellow introverts like myself but I'd end up doing all the work because I actually enjoy doing couple things despite my penchant for being reclusive. Also, fellow introverted types aren't as experience adventurous as we are, with the exception of introverted sensors of course. I do best with intuitive types. I realised that based on my past patterns, ENTPs and I always effortlessly got along. I love their intelligence and wit, and they always just know there's more to me than meet the eyes. They actually see me. It's refreshing.
INTP here that also enjoys doing couple things. met an INFJ and we work great together. she helps me be more extroverted because i like how adventurous she is and vice versa. also i analysed the shit out of her which impressed her i guess thats what you mean by feeling seen. but i get why you'd go for someone more extroverted, sometimes its hard for her to do most of the work.
@@cptcatnip6367 hey. I love INTPs😍. I'm a fan of the xNTPs as a whole. My closest friend is an INTP. Yes. That's what I mean by being seen. Analysing her would definitely impress her😄. I haven't met a male INTP to know if we'd be compatible as a romantic couple. The introverted types I've been with have always been mostly INFPs. An INFJ. An INTJ. And likely an ISFP. Mostly, feeling introverts. So I can't speak to being with an INTP romantically. I'm glad for you that your relationship is going great. Such connections are rare to come by from my experience. I wish you all the best, and love and peace together.
We have an unfair reputation of being shallow or non sensitive, we actually care a lot, and we do see more than meet the eye. Salute from a ENTP you are my favorite MBTI personality
@@vascoespañol hello you😊❤. It is unfair because few people have the capacity to handle your brilliance. Do you know how fast your minds work😄? I've always said the ENTP's brain is the 8th wonder of the world. Also, even I had to grow to look beyond what you guys say. When y'all get excited or go into what I call the "brainstorming flow", the wit and charm of your Fe recedes to the shrewdness of your Ti. When an ENTP gets into analytical mode, all bets are off😄. That's when you're at your most powerful. I hope you rise above people's incapacity to receive your brilliance. Y'all are at your most powerful when your brilliance is unencumbered by your empathy for other people's hurt feelings. Now more than ever, we need y'all at your best and most powerful. We need alternatives that only y'all can perceive and ground. With great love and admiration, Me🤗
@@faridaashu Dear Farida, what a delightful answer. I dont know you and already craving for a log deep honest conversation with you. NOthing like chatting for hours with INFJ, you can see through us, you understand the sense and meaning of our actions, we can leave our iron man suit in the wardrone open our heart and let you provide us with the most savvy healing insights. Siince you like it am going to make an analityc post about INFJ and ENTP long lasting bromance, going back to the early days of Paleolithic, where arquetypes were created. As an ENTP would do i have taken data from multiple sources and then added my NE and TI to blend it in a particular theory about our love story through history. It will take some time.
The key is to not let people put you in the wrong, wrongfully. We are teachers, and someone is in need of lesson. But we still have ego and are oversensitive and have a knack for mirroring people not for learning but for more juvenile means; pettiness
Bring InfJ is like knowing the proverb of those who speak the most has least to say, and vice versa... And it's soooo true... Cept for I know more than all these fools(mostly). Yet not gonna share with these clowns cause one of them (basically same as everyone) might be onto me. I must be dumb and wrong cause I won't shut up. ARROGANT ! BUT in reality what I..... What was my point again? Who's basketball?
Yep thankyou for recognising a potential weakness. INFJ’s are not infallible and I have struggled with the arrogance plus mirroring aspect. I’m an ENTP but contrary to stupid sterotyping, I hate conflict. Enjoy calm discussions and earnest introspection from both parties. Nothing more enticing than exploring the minds of others who aren’t vacuous. 😊
As an INFJ, I had found 'The One', the following feeling encompassed my whole being of being drawn to her and only her, sure she wasn't the most beautiful, but she was even better inside. The problem was, I wasn't her 'One', what I found out after we broke up was - I was the rebound guy. Ever since then, I have never felt drawn to any other female, no matter how well they dressed themselves up.
I'm happy I found my INTJ 💖 I find the "Thinking" aspect of them actually compliments me well, and helps ground me sometimes since I'm an INFJ-T. I also used to be with more extroverts in my past but personally they never lasted very long, and being in their presence became more draining, but with my fellow introvert, I feel like we heal each other more than drain 🥰
How did you meet? Where do people go, to meet INTJs? Is it just Discord? I'm 42, so I'm not sure. I'm like, the in-between age of millennials and Gen X.... I tried browsing around Match and Meetup, but... meh. I'm trying SoSyncd now, but people there are typically younger than me, I think.
@Desert Forest haha tbh i think it just depends on who you meet! I met my partner on Tinder initially, but it turned out we lived a couple of houses down from each other! I don't really use Discord but I usually just do the MBTI test and love languages test with new partners so we're able to provide love for each other that is catered to how we internalize love from others 💖 tho I met them 4 years ago now so I'm sure things are different nowadays in the online dating scene haha
True, my innate principles guide me, and it's emotionally exhausting to override those principles when there's conflicts. I didn't even know about those innate principles when I was young, and it's not like I made up those rules for myself to adhere to, although I know that what I set to do in my mind, I can, but in the long term I realized what I say to myself isn't fullfilling me like my innate principles. For I made that big mistake when I was young, and it's so hard to reverse, and I may keep trying to reverse this regret until the very end.
I'm an INFJ and my partner is an ESTP. It's nice to have someone opposite but I struggle with the "Feeling and Thinking" part. I feel like my partner can't understand that i'm this emotional and I silently cry myself to sleep sometimes. 😔
I’m an INFJ and married to an INTJ. I feel we balance each other out where needed. His logical side is needed too whenever I just can’t see things from certain angles.
very insightful. I often get criticism on how I handle things or manage myself. Idk if I'm the personality spoken of but either way I am whatever I am therefore don't need to change my ways.
As an infj I've always been drawn to mysterious people. If I am not able to easily read or observe someone, I will get more curious and approach it as a challenge. People who are predictable or easy to read aren't as intriguing to me.
What are my thaughts? I've done the test a few times. First time I did it, it was homework for level two persons centered therapy. Never heard of it before. I did it. I was an infj. A couple years later I looked in to it and I loved the idea of being an infj. I did the test again and again and still infj. Your video is Spot on.
From the earliest age I had a built in desire & mission to find my soul mate. & It was a very long time until I finally found my Lindsay. I had a few long term but disastrous relationships along the way. Each time I thought " she's the one"! Once you finally find "The one" your just know. It's hard to describe. But my heart 💞is complete now. It was well worth the wait. 🕊️🇬🇧
Honestly I'm so used to be all alone and im so ok with it. That I don't see myself with someone. I enjoy too much my alone time. When I'm alone I feel connected with the universe and life way more than when I'm with humans.
I don’t socialise, I don’t do people, I prefer animals. After always attracting horrible narcissists I don’t believe in love anymore, never mind ‘the one’
I met a lovely ESFP who’s so empathetic and kind. Our main differences is he’s clingy and needy and is struggling with my alone time. I have slowly tried to transition him into spending a little extra time with his friends while I concentrate on work but we do a lot of in between time with many conversations and a few debates I like to talk about. I like him a lot so I hope it works out for the best but I’ll leave it to chance
Why is it so hard to suggest they make more plan with their friends without them thinking that we’re trying to get rid of them? Lol. An annoying balancing act in my experience.
As an INFJ I find this video interesting but difficult to listen to. The background music is so distracting I couldn't finish the video 🫤 I'm engaged to be married to an INFJ and our relationship is beyond AMAZING! 😊
Unicorn bro is a mystical animal, “not a real ting mon ”. You probably know that part but people say I’m looking for a unicorn. They are looking for a unrealistic person a too good to be true. ENFPPpp 🫡
So funny that with the limited number of people we run across in our lives we can find "The One" I assume odds increase if we are always present being the authentic, complete, whole person we are. No easy task, I certainly have my moments for one! LOL And then there's online dating...but that could be an exhausting full time job that so far I have not been able to commit to.
"the one" does not truly exist. In the end everyone decides on their own if the person of interest is "the one". Love is a decision we make everyday. If we feel mostly joyful of our partner or a certain person then it is a healthy love. So don't worry "the one" is in the end a person u choose urself and if u r lucky this person chooses u too and that everyday.
My fiancée is an INFJ and I am too. I’ve never had such a perfect relationship Nobody is perfect but she is perfect for me and I am for her. It’s such a beautiful connection
Yea I'm always craving a deep connection and right now at this time in my life I'm living a contradiction bcuz I find myself in isolation most of the time
I love my INTj, we are so similar and share the same values and needs. An E or P wouldn't fit for me. I don't understand why they always say enfp would be a good match. They are too chaotic and too loud for me.
I met my girlfriend( ESTJ) from tinder.. I offered her some help for her job.. But it gets tiring because she kept asking for my help and she keep rejecting how I do her work.. I feel like she's being ungrateful because she doesn't appreciate when I did her work right, and when it was wrong she keep pestering me to redo everything.. I've put my thoughts, time and energy to help her, but the feeling of unworthiness is killing me..
My experience with the “opposites attract” is that it won’t last long.
INFJ craves intimacy and we are introverts. We can be surrounded by our small tight group of friends, our people; but most of the time will choose home.
Being in a relationship with an extrovert person is extremely exhausting, so it is in my experience better and more peaceful to be with someone who shares similar personality.
I have found my INFJ and we’ve been together for 5 years already, never fight. It is blissful.
sounds so nice 😊 ❤️
amazing 💘
Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition).
SUMMARY:
Evil personality: ESFJ (ALL), ESTJ (cluster-b)
[Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
___________
#Save_Soil
Endearing. Excellent advice.
Also, I've noticed that if the [potential] extroverted partner is at least a 6+/10 then they likely have a high body count.
Our standards aren't impossibly high. It is vital that a person spends some time gathering important and helpful life experience (just as exp is important in an [MMO]RPG), with the intent on becoming increasingly complete.
When they've made significant progress to that end, they become applicable for a relationship with a real INxJ.
The higher a person's sexual experience, the more emotionally disturbed they must be. The sexual sensation is a distraction from their internal demons! Avoid at all cost! Especially the ESFJ, ESFP/ISFP, and cluster-b (it's a human-hating disorder). Any deviation on ESFP/ISFP, and ESFJ, i.e. if they seem decent, it is either a lie, or solely due to external influence; because internally they are naturally covert-narcissits/cluster-B.
I am an INFJ with an extrovert .the first year was so exhausting for me . We are still together trying to understand each other but it is so difficult. He still sometimes does not get my need to be alone . But i Iove him and he loves me too .so we are gonna try till the end.
When 2 mature infjs come together is just it's just magical!!
I am an ENFP, my husband is an INFJ. There is no better feeling than the one you get from a relationship you can feel safe being 100% dedicated in and absolutely sure feelings are reciprocated. We've been together for a long time, have 3 kids together.
A few things I can say to any ENFPs out there who love an INFJ; give them all the space and time to make up their minds, support them once they do. Give advice without any expectation, less is more. Healthy boundaries yes, ultimatums no. Nurture their growth and appreciate their ideals you share together. Never force them to do things at someone else's pace. Oh and you won't hear them unless you are listening with both ears. Have faith in who you know them to be and never make assumptions. It means so much to have someone take the time to really know them versus someone who tries to mold or tell them who they are. Fully accept that person once you see them. Make them laugh and spend lots of time alone together. If are truly good together they will return everything you give.
There is nothing I love more than seeing him grow while I do the same myself, separate yet very much so together, taking steps towards what makes us happy.
shit I just met an ENFP who is very not like me as well, and though i dont like him yet i think he does very.
This was a lovely comment to read, Thank for sharing with us.
I don't expect much from people but as an INFJ, I appreciate this kind of comment and I will definitely cherish a person that will be able to give a similar energy like yours ^^
as an ENFP dating an INFJ, I completely agree with all of this. Reading your comment basically described my relationship, its quite amazing. Our compatibility is excellent
Some of us will never find a special person. Let's be realistic.
Godbless you ❤️
@@fatboy1993v Same to you.
Yea. I've now come to the realisation that I'm gonna be single for life.
I have…except she’s with someone else. The reason why we’ve never become official (we were close to being) is because of religious reasons that prohibits us. If things were different, I’d have married her already but sometimes life really fks us over. We find our person yet have to let go.
@@harundaniel7705 If you have so much trouble, it's not meant to be.
I am comfortable with myself, I don't think I will ever have a partner. And I have no regrets. I know I can live with me.
I'm an enfj and my husband is an infj and together we make an AMAZING team 🖤
I may be conflict avoidant, but I also hate it when people don't say what they think clearly, so honestly (and I feel it's especially true as I get older), if there is unresolved conflict hanging in the air, I will be the one to bring it up. I will do what I can to make it a calm discussion, so it does NOT turn into a real "confrontation", but my need for honest communication will trump my need to avoid conflict.
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This is so me. But when i bring it up, part of me feels like I'm the one in wrong for doing it even tho I'm just trying to avoid a very bad end result from the ppl involved keeping it all in and bursting out one day :/
I didn’t finish the video only because of time but as an INFJ, I would love a video on how we change when deeply wounded.
I may be the exception to the comment below as I was married to an extrovert for 42 years until his passing 6 years ago. We met and married very soon afterwards so it was difficult at first but we grew together and were regarded by others as soul mates. The downside is now being alone when, having given our all, we find ourselves lost. I for one cannot cope especially as, childless, I have now lost my parents, my sister and even my cat. I miss them all dreadfully and 5 years from the last family death, a year since losing my cat, I am lost in a sea of grief. I don't need, nor want casual, shallow friendships but I am utterly bereft. I would like to know how other INFJs deal with such loss. Thank you.
You could start by socializing with people who have faced loss. Divorced, widowed, or parents sent to home stays for the elderly, etc.
There are many people out there who will be willing to give motherly, fatherly, feelings, or wanting a mother etc.
Learning about others'pain could also relieve by sharing the pain and helping etc.
Since you have endured this for so long you could tell others how you did so. Consider writing free content first or making your blog, etc?
I am really sorry for you. I hope you can find happiness and solace, calmness and peaceful breathing in your life.
A pet that will maybe live longer will help. Pets that have been abandoned or stray animals needing help etc.
Write,. ✍️ and relieve yourself of some pain and try socializing.
May the God Lord or the force of life etc. Be with you Ann. (If that's you or your name.)
May you live happily. Lots of love and support to you. Umwaah. :)❤️
Knowing that they’ve come from God and have returned to God just like all of creation every single one of us ... hold onto the eternal rather than transient things ... we don’t belong in this realm we are not of this realm ... we belong to God ... we all will be returning home soon ... the question is in what state will we return ? Will it be with a clean heart just like we came to this world as children with pure hearts or will it be with a heart full of darkness due to our own wrongdoings ?
The prophet Muhammad ( peace & blessings be upon him ) said ,” when a servant of God commits a wrong a black dot appears in his/her heart, if he/she regrets it realizing it returns back to The Loving God He polishes the hearts makes it clean , but if he/she doesn’t then that black dot covers the whole heart eventually “
God says ,”When guidance comes to you from Me, anyone who follows My guidance will never go astray, nor suffer any misery “ [AlQuran 20:123]
The answer that you seek as infj is in you. Socialising it's not helpful for me. All the answers you will find in you once you define your purpose.
read "many lives, many masters" soul mates will see each other again
Lost in a sea of grief? Float.
Lie back and let the sea move you. Watch the sunrise. Watch the stars.
Say, "This is the sea. I will be where it takes me."
Smell something that brings memories.
I found "the ONE". ME. I am she. I am the one. 👑
Give me an ENTP any day, any time.
The video was spot on about it taking time for us to know what we need. It took a lot for me to realise that they were the best for me personally.
I'd always gone for fellow introverts like myself but I'd end up doing all the work because I actually enjoy doing couple things despite my penchant for being reclusive.
Also, fellow introverted types aren't as experience adventurous as we are, with the exception of introverted sensors of course. I do best with intuitive types.
I realised that based on my past patterns, ENTPs and I always effortlessly got along. I love their intelligence and wit, and they always just know there's more to me than meet the eyes. They actually see me. It's refreshing.
INTP here that also enjoys doing couple things. met an INFJ and we work great together. she helps me be more extroverted because i like how adventurous she is and vice versa. also i analysed the shit out of her which impressed her i guess thats what you mean by feeling seen. but i get why you'd go for someone more extroverted, sometimes its hard for her to do most of the work.
@@cptcatnip6367 hey. I love INTPs😍. I'm a fan of the xNTPs as a whole. My closest friend is an INTP.
Yes. That's what I mean by being seen. Analysing her would definitely impress her😄.
I haven't met a male INTP to know if we'd be compatible as a romantic couple. The introverted types I've been with have always been mostly INFPs. An INFJ. An INTJ. And likely an ISFP. Mostly, feeling introverts. So I can't speak to being with an INTP romantically.
I'm glad for you that your relationship is going great. Such connections are rare to come by from my experience. I wish you all the best, and love and peace together.
We have an unfair reputation of being shallow or non sensitive, we actually care a lot, and we do see more than meet the eye. Salute from a ENTP you are my favorite MBTI personality
@@vascoespañol hello you😊❤.
It is unfair because few people have the capacity to handle your brilliance.
Do you know how fast your minds work😄?
I've always said the ENTP's brain is the 8th wonder of the world.
Also, even I had to grow to look beyond what you guys say. When y'all get excited or go into what I call the "brainstorming flow", the wit and charm of your Fe recedes to the shrewdness of your Ti.
When an ENTP gets into analytical mode, all bets are off😄. That's when you're at your most powerful.
I hope you rise above people's incapacity to receive your brilliance. Y'all are at your most powerful when your brilliance is unencumbered by your empathy for other people's hurt feelings.
Now more than ever, we need y'all at your best and most powerful. We need alternatives that only y'all can perceive and ground.
With great love and admiration,
Me🤗
@@faridaashu Dear Farida, what a delightful answer. I dont know you and already craving for a log deep honest conversation with you. NOthing like chatting for hours with INFJ, you can see through us, you understand the sense and meaning of our actions, we can leave our iron man suit in the wardrone open our heart and let you provide us with the most savvy healing insights.
Siince you like it am going to make an analityc post about INFJ and ENTP long lasting bromance, going back to the early days of Paleolithic, where arquetypes were created.
As an ENTP would do i have taken data from multiple sources and then added my NE and TI to blend it in a particular theory about our love story through history.
It will take some time.
Wanting their partner to live to their truest potential. Spot on for INFJs lol :)
The key is to not let people put you in the wrong, wrongfully. We are teachers, and someone is in need of lesson. But we still have ego and are oversensitive and have a knack for mirroring people not for learning but for more juvenile means; pettiness
Bring InfJ is like knowing the proverb of those who speak the most has least to say, and vice versa... And it's soooo true... Cept for I know more than all these fools(mostly). Yet not gonna share with these clowns cause one of them (basically same as everyone) might be onto me. I must be dumb and wrong cause I won't shut up. ARROGANT
! BUT in reality what I..... What was my point again?
Who's basketball?
Yep thankyou for recognising a potential weakness. INFJ’s are not infallible and I have struggled with the arrogance plus mirroring aspect. I’m an ENTP but contrary to stupid sterotyping, I hate conflict. Enjoy calm discussions and earnest introspection from both parties.
Nothing more enticing than exploring the minds of others who aren’t vacuous. 😊
As an INFJ, I had found 'The One', the following feeling encompassed my whole being of being drawn to her and only her, sure she wasn't the most beautiful, but she was even better inside.
The problem was, I wasn't her 'One', what I found out after we broke up was - I was the rebound guy.
Ever since then, I have never felt drawn to any other female, no matter how well they dressed themselves up.
I think an INFJ with another INFJ is perfect..they understand what the other needs as they need it themselves.
I'm happy I found my INTJ 💖 I find the "Thinking" aspect of them actually compliments me well, and helps ground me sometimes since I'm an INFJ-T. I also used to be with more extroverts in my past but personally they never lasted very long, and being in their presence became more draining, but with my fellow introvert, I feel like we heal each other more than drain 🥰
How did you meet? Where do people go, to meet INTJs? Is it just Discord? I'm 42, so I'm not sure. I'm like, the in-between age of millennials and Gen X.... I tried browsing around Match and Meetup, but... meh. I'm trying SoSyncd now, but people there are typically younger than me, I think.
@Desert Forest haha tbh i think it just depends on who you meet! I met my partner on Tinder initially, but it turned out we lived a couple of houses down from each other! I don't really use Discord but I usually just do the MBTI test and love languages test with new partners so we're able to provide love for each other that is catered to how we internalize love from others 💖 tho I met them 4 years ago now so I'm sure things are different nowadays in the online dating scene haha
INFJ here, I met my ISFJ love,we've been loyal and supportive to one another❤❤❤I'm so happy to have met him
I’m an INFJ and my husband is ISFJ as well, we’re best friend and soulmate! ❤
I am an ENFP dating an INFJ. This video described him to a T (though he is not bad with finances at all). This all seems spot on to me
True, my innate principles guide me, and it's emotionally exhausting to override those principles when there's conflicts. I didn't even know about those innate principles when I was young, and it's not like I made up those rules for myself to adhere to, although I know that what I set to do in my mind, I can, but in the long term I realized what I say to myself isn't fullfilling me like my innate principles. For I made that big mistake when I was young, and it's so hard to reverse, and I may keep trying to reverse this regret until the very end.
As a INFJ and a empath . I wished to find another INFJ as a lover . I have found him . He is not a empath, yet, but definately INFJ.
I'm an INFJ and my partner is an ESTP. It's nice to have someone opposite but I struggle with the "Feeling and Thinking" part. I feel like my partner can't understand that i'm this emotional and I silently cry myself to sleep sometimes. 😔
I’m an INFJ and married to an INTJ. I feel we balance each other out where needed. His logical side is needed too whenever I just can’t see things from certain angles.
The way you just described my life in almost 9 minutes...98% dead on, accurate.
Infj becomes whole when they find themselves the one, but also have zero ego. It’s a conundrum for sure.
very insightful. I often get criticism on how I handle things or manage myself. Idk if I'm the personality spoken of but either way I am whatever I am therefore don't need to change my ways.
As an infj I've always been drawn to mysterious people. If I am not able to easily read or observe someone, I will get more curious and approach it as a challenge. People who are predictable or easy to read aren't as intriguing to me.
I’m infp and my boyfriend of two years is infj. We are a very good match.
What are my thaughts? I've done the test a few times. First time I did it, it was homework for level two persons centered therapy. Never heard of it before. I did it. I was an infj. A couple years later I looked in to it and I loved the idea of being an infj. I did the test again and again and still infj. Your video is Spot on.
No one asked?
I know and infj Lady. She's the most awesome girl in the world. I am an ENFJ-t.
This describes me so well it's scary
I love the company of infp
I am a mature INFJ so I can handle criticism only when it is fair and honest.
From the earliest age I had a built in desire & mission to find my soul mate. & It was a very long time until I finally found my Lindsay.
I had a few long term but disastrous relationships along the way. Each time I thought " she's the one"!
Once you finally find "The one"
your just know. It's hard to describe.
But my heart 💞is complete now. It was well worth the wait. 🕊️🇬🇧
Honestly I'm so used to be all alone and im so ok with it. That I don't see myself with someone. I enjoy too much my alone time. When I'm alone I feel connected with the universe and life way more than when I'm with humans.
I'm about to be 40 and still single
I don’t socialise, I don’t do people, I prefer animals.
After always attracting horrible narcissists I don’t believe in love anymore, never mind ‘the one’
I met a lovely ESFP who’s so empathetic and kind. Our main differences is he’s clingy and needy and is struggling with my alone time. I have slowly tried to transition him into spending a little extra time with his friends while I concentrate on work but we do a lot of in between time with many conversations and a few debates I like to talk about. I like him a lot so I hope it works out for the best but I’ll leave it to chance
Why is it so hard to suggest they make more plan with their friends without them thinking that we’re trying to get rid of them? Lol. An annoying balancing act in my experience.
I was married to an ESfP but due to the differences it didn't last. Now I have an INTj and that's a match made in heaven ❤️
As an INFJ I find this video interesting but difficult to listen to. The background music is so distracting I couldn't finish the video 🫤 I'm engaged to be married to an INFJ and our relationship is beyond AMAZING! 😊
All this time I thought 💭 something was wrong with me for me desiring a Unicorn 🦄 …. 😇
What's a unicorn 🦄🤔?? I hear people say that but don't know what it's supposed to mean?!
Unicorn bro is a mystical animal, “not a real ting mon ”. You probably know that part but people say I’m looking for a unicorn. They are looking for a unrealistic person a too good to be true. ENFPPpp 🫡
@@komranbehbehani6379 Ummm, there are a few.
So funny that with the limited number of people we run across in our lives we can find "The One" I assume odds increase if we are always present being the authentic, complete, whole person we are. No easy task, I certainly have my moments for one! LOL And then there's online dating...but that could be an exhausting full time job that so far I have not been able to commit to.
"the one" does not truly exist. In the end everyone decides on their own if the person of interest is "the one". Love is a decision we make everyday. If we feel mostly joyful of our partner or a certain person then it is a healthy love. So don't worry "the one" is in the end a person u choose urself and if u r lucky this person chooses u too and that everyday.
My fiancée is an INFJ and I am too.
I’ve never had such a perfect relationship
Nobody is perfect but she is perfect for me and I am for her. It’s such a beautiful connection
Lucky couple!!!
@@lpsglitterpaws8536 thank you! Definitely a huge blessing
Yea I'm always craving a deep connection and right now at this time in my life I'm living a contradiction bcuz I find myself in isolation most of the time
Yeah... it's nice to dream but that'll never happen. 😊
I love my INTj, we are so similar and share the same values and needs. An E or P wouldn't fit for me. I don't understand why they always say enfp would be a good match. They are too chaotic and too loud for me.
I met my girlfriend( ESTJ) from tinder..
I offered her some help for her job..
But it gets tiring because she kept asking for my help and she keep rejecting how I do her work..
I feel like she's being ungrateful because she doesn't appreciate when I did her work right, and when it was wrong she keep pestering me to redo everything..
I've put my thoughts, time and energy to help her, but the feeling of unworthiness is killing me..
Uncommon? Lol sheesh more like the hardest to find! Im an infj :3 but im shy and quiet yet very opened minded etc as normal infjs do!
I found mine, feelings are not mutual😭
how are INFJs and INFPs together
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I'm an INFJ, my girlfriend is INFP and our relation is simply perfect c:
My dog is a perfect match
is it just me or does this video seem sped up. i had to put the playback dpeed to 0.75x so that it would sound more normal
i'm like 100% Ni Fe type, but i barely agree with anything that describes such a strict archetype 🤣 i'm like 'maybe like 20% is right'... 🤣
True 👍😊
Actually the golden pair is INFJ INTP
To being an INFJ is a curse
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