10 IMPORTANT Questions to Ask Him During the DATING PHASE of Your Relationship to avoid a HEARTBREAK

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  • The dating phase is one of the most important phases of a relationship.
    In this video I am sharing some very important questions you should ask him as an elegant woman in her dating phase to prevent a heart break.
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  • @happylee2297
    @happylee2297 8 місяців тому +90

    The cheapest and easiest way to this is let God choose for you, my marriage will be 20 years this December all I can say is fine God and let him lead you to who you are to get married to
    There are so many things to this that human capacity cannot carry I am sorry if I sound primitive but this is true
    I remembered I wanted a very deep Christian brother back in those days but the person God showed me was not serious with God, however by now he is the perfect Christian brother I wanted and those people I focused my eyes back then soke of them are dead some have backslided I'm just thankful to God 20 years of peaceful and enjoyable marriage

    • @emilynyambura959
      @emilynyambura959 8 місяців тому +2

      God to choose for u? Did I read it clearly? God has given u ability to make choices

    • @happylee2297
      @happylee2297 8 місяців тому

      @@emilynyambura959 no problem dearie go ahead

    • @Maxmollie
      @Maxmollie 8 місяців тому +5

      @@emilynyambura959at times what God wants for you might not be what you wanted

    • @Maxmollie
      @Maxmollie 8 місяців тому +7

      I remember when I was in a relationship in 2018 and I prayed for this guy so God can bless him and God did ,tho he’s a Christian brother so am I .When I prayed to God he told me he’s good but when I told my Mum about it I asked her to pray about it when my Mum prayed she said she saw somethings which is wrong about the guy,so I was told not to get married to him,this guy is the most honest person I’ve ever walked with little did I know he’s a cheat. And we both abstain from sexual intercourse it was all about No sex before marriage😢I was so happy he accepted so we dated for two years planning our wedding .
      Few months to our wedding I wasn’t comfortable with his movements anymore I prayed to God he was just showing me different things about him I prayed and prayed God was telling me not to go on with the marriage,eventually I heard he impregnated a lady and didn’t tell me about it. I landed at the hospital,I was admitted,received 15 drips 10 injections, I saw the red flags but I just wanted to get married cos I loved him.Thank God I didn’t I would have been regretting by now he doesn’t worth it at all.

    • @faithmbogo8049
      @faithmbogo8049 8 місяців тому +7

      @emilynyambura I would like to answer you. Yes God chooses a spouse for you. And either you or the other person will be revealed to. Ever heard of the kingdom spouse. Trust me it's very real. Especially if you are aligning with God's will.

  • @amanyaleticia9969
    @amanyaleticia9969 8 місяців тому +12

    And this guy came to me in names of wanting to marry me but I told him we give and I told him we shall be communicating via voicecalls after a few weeks he asked for a video call when am necked..I told him but I thought this is leading to marriage and after marriage you will have me but that was the end of all this that I thought it was a relationship in the first place....so ladies let's be keen in these relationship things to avoid heartbreaks bkoz men know that we want marriage so they come the angle of promising us marriage to just use us ......thank you dear Auntie Winnie

  • @historiqueafricaine
    @historiqueafricaine 8 місяців тому +63

    One guy told me that a manipulative trick guys use is to talk to you every day so that you get addicted or used to it and then would not easily leave him if he doesn't turn out to be what you're looking for‼️that's why we need healthy boundaries as in not talk every day and not be isolated when we date. Talk about it to a person you prayed about and can trust with talking about this relationship💯

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  8 місяців тому +7

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @Ayinde_Basirat
      @Ayinde_Basirat 8 місяців тому +6

      This is so true....I am really glad I got off it before it lead to dating 😂..

    • @AgnesNuworzah
      @AgnesNuworzah 8 місяців тому

      ​@@winniesschoolofeleganceMiss Wnnie....i really need a lot of help....i wish we could get into contact .... I'm almost suicidal 😢

    • @graceolufisola441
      @graceolufisola441 8 місяців тому +4

      💯

    • @eleonoraivanova-kd2zb
      @eleonoraivanova-kd2zb 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you 🙏 very helpful ❤

  • @graceolufisola441
    @graceolufisola441 8 місяців тому +4

    "Girl! You better pick yourself up, and go live your full life." is super duper delicious and just the fact.👌💯

  • @chiomadennis6895
    @chiomadennis6895 4 місяці тому +1

    Momma....I am glad I made U my life Coach! You have directed me every step on my way in various areas of life !❤. You are simply Amazing.God when will I ever see you in person....😭🥰

  • @eucariachooye1920
    @eucariachooye1920 8 місяців тому +12

    Miss Winnie please make a shoot about how to handle distance relationship.

  • @chidinmmacynthiaigboko8632
    @chidinmmacynthiaigboko8632 8 місяців тому +11

    Thank you for releasing and breaking down this knowledge. I don't think anyone including illiterate won't understand.
    This is worth emulating Winnie ❤

  • @chiddyebube3136
    @chiddyebube3136 8 місяців тому +20

    Winnie, all I can say is THANK YOUUUU! YOU ARE SO WISE. Love you!❤😘

  • @GraceJoseph-y4b
    @GraceJoseph-y4b 23 дні тому

    I really love this Channel right from the day one i came across this lady,winnie thank you soo much

  • @MagentaPrincess
    @MagentaPrincess 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for all these tips. I'm actually socially awkward and also not good at socializing, im an introvert too. Its nice to have this much insight about all the questions to ask... I never know much about what to talk about ❤

  • @ShekwoduzaTV
    @ShekwoduzaTV 8 місяців тому +2

    "let him figure it out and maybe meet the next person" 🤣🤣 this got me really laughing hard. Thanks for the teachings i love you ma ❤

  • @Cynthia2421
    @Cynthia2421 6 місяців тому +2

    I love you Winnie I'm so happy to be part of this great channel

  • @blessingosas5372
    @blessingosas5372 8 місяців тому +6

    I will have to answer this questions myself before asking someone's son.😍😌
    .
    Thank you so much,Winnie.

  • @Titi-wz5ve
    @Titi-wz5ve 8 місяців тому +10

    Winnie please make a video on how someone can find his or her purpose without been in a confused state

  • @daramolamary9563
    @daramolamary9563 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much Winnie 🥰. I love the way you say that's a topic for another day, it helps you focus on what you are currently discussing and not diverting to something you remember or that pops up in your mind along the conversation 😂😂🎉❤. Much love 😘💕💕

  • @peacevictorniceone791
    @peacevictorniceone791 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank God you tell me I will have set exam for him😂😂😂😂. Thank Winnie for sharing God bless you ❤❤❤💕

  • @cynthiaokeke9444
    @cynthiaokeke9444 Місяць тому

    Your videos always come handy whenever i need it. Thanks Winnie ❤

  • @TioluwaladeOlolade
    @TioluwaladeOlolade 8 місяців тому +4

    I have becoma a better lady ever since I discovered this channel.

  • @harunagladys5470
    @harunagladys5470 25 днів тому

    Thank you winnie. This content will be very helpful. My take home will be the "why you want to get married?" Because some men really just want kids and after that, they are done.

  • @FlorenceOmolara
    @FlorenceOmolara 8 місяців тому +4

    Believe me, your videos are so timely

  • @_letsgrowtogether
    @_letsgrowtogether 8 місяців тому +5

    I don't know why? But I feel like I am part of your Family ❤

  • @RareDiamondCEONabil
    @RareDiamondCEONabil 8 місяців тому +2

    You are value packed, thanks for always sharing great value and personal development. I love you Winnie ❤

  • @lucymalenguka
    @lucymalenguka 8 місяців тому +2

    You really are my sister from another Mother. Incredible word there!!!!

  • @victoryjackson7625
    @victoryjackson7625 8 місяців тому

    Miss Winnie has said it all! Now it's time for us ladies to be brave to ask these questions

  • @01Mofe_Ade
    @01Mofe_Ade 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for this, it's really appreciated ❤❤.

  • @Martin-ep3ec
    @Martin-ep3ec 2 місяці тому +1

    Swt thanks so much for the beautiful words we r learning bt men they don't want to be asked some things about their life

    • @SinmiTumisile
      @SinmiTumisile 5 днів тому

      I believe the one who means business will be ready and willingly give honest responses

  • @berniceel3073
    @berniceel3073 8 місяців тому +8

    Lol very true; the 4th question." What is your purpose in life" - the answers I've gotten by men cracks me up till date. Some get dumbfounded when you ask that question 😅
    The 9th question is key; interestingly very few persons have a valid reason. Thanks to social media🤦‍♂️

  • @dominaferuzi3901
    @dominaferuzi3901 7 місяців тому

    Thanks you my lovely sister.Upbringing and mindset is key determinant of any relationship.if a man has scacity (victim)mindset and woman has abudance mindset it will not work not matter how you try it.

  • @chiomaikejemba2609
    @chiomaikejemba2609 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much Winnie, I do not regret following your channel.
    In fact, I personally too had to answer these questions myself. Bravo 👏

  • @Ayomi-hallie
    @Ayomi-hallie 8 місяців тому +4

    400k ♥️❤️❤️❤️
    Congratulations Dear Winnie ❤

  • @MissLindaCrumbBusinessLady
    @MissLindaCrumbBusinessLady 8 місяців тому

    So true Miss Winnie. My love languages are acts of service, quality time and physical touch. These are great quality questions. And I have most definitely asked some of these questions to a guy a few years ago. Let’s just say, he last was limited. Thank you for your information.

  • @mutesijoselynesharon5025
    @mutesijoselynesharon5025 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks love for the guidelines

  • @winnienester656
    @winnienester656 8 місяців тому +1

    And please winnie kindly make a video on " Navigation dating and relationships in a digital age "

  • @JessicaNwaobilor
    @JessicaNwaobilor 8 місяців тому +1

    Can I Thank you Enough? Thanks so much for this. Much ❤

  • @yolandaxavier5795
    @yolandaxavier5795 8 місяців тому +16

    These men can lie chaii🙌 thank you mam it's also important to check their actions 😊

    • @ChiamakaUkachi-sk3mp
      @ChiamakaUkachi-sk3mp 8 місяців тому

      Men are cold blooded liars😭😭😭

    • @splendid9529
      @splendid9529 2 місяці тому

      That's why u need God to reveal deep things to you

  • @OkekeSomtochukwu-n9m
    @OkekeSomtochukwu-n9m 8 місяців тому

    May God continue to keep you and enrich you with more wisdom ❤❤❤

  • @graceolufisola441
    @graceolufisola441 8 місяців тому

    Good Job!👍
    More power to your elbow, Winnie.🤗🤗

  • @anarfotawiahmary2885
    @anarfotawiahmary2885 8 місяців тому +2

    The 3 months rule really work

  • @jessidoo123
    @jessidoo123 8 місяців тому +1

    I so love my first time here❤😊
    Very important stuffs...thanks alot Winie🙏 25:36

  • @cesarzowa
    @cesarzowa 8 місяців тому +2

    I had fun watching this 😹😹 thanks for sharing Winnie

  • @oluwabamisealabi
    @oluwabamisealabi 8 місяців тому +1

    These questionsss
    Thank you so much for giving us these questions. Golden gems

  • @jochrinekunda4240
    @jochrinekunda4240 8 місяців тому

    I love you Winnie❤️ I really do
    You always know what areas to give information on and when
    At 1:35 to 1:40 you just spoke to my heart.
    This is information I’ll share with my future children one day

  • @mondedamour4932
    @mondedamour4932 5 місяців тому

    i have seen these questions before but not seen someone giving better explanation to them. Thank you Madam. I have subscribe and hope to watch the next episode. Peace

  • @CynthiaChilotam-u1s
    @CynthiaChilotam-u1s 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank God i discover this channel on time

  • @oluwaferanmiolaoluwa5873
    @oluwaferanmiolaoluwa5873 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Winnie 🥰 ❤️. It's quite different hearing all of these from you.

  • @Munah01335
    @Munah01335 7 місяців тому

    I love you, miss Winnie. Thank youuuu so much. For everything.❤

  • @winnienester656
    @winnienester656 8 місяців тому

    "your Advice is always spot on -thank you!" winnie ❤

  • @britneyt9253
    @britneyt9253 8 місяців тому

    2:22 please touch more in this in a video. As a young woman, I keep getting the feeling that it would be a man that has more to offer a woman than the other way around, but I also feel like that’s not true. Please touch on this. 😅❤️

  • @mirembepatricia5760
    @mirembepatricia5760 8 місяців тому +4

    Quick tips for free❤❤❤
    Thanks love

  • @IradukundaVanessa-jc5sl
    @IradukundaVanessa-jc5sl 4 місяці тому

    Ur a such amazing coach we love you so much 💓

  • @mondedamour4932
    @mondedamour4932 5 місяців тому +1

    I love your accent Mam Winnie
    🥰🙏

  • @ceciliaebubechukwu3094
    @ceciliaebubechukwu3094 8 місяців тому

    I have always respected Winnie but now I like her for this particular video

  • @aremuayobami6998
    @aremuayobami6998 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for the tips ma'am ❤️
    Your shirt looks so good on you🥰

  • @Empress_powei
    @Empress_powei Місяць тому

    Very helpful ❤❤❤❤

  • @eleonoraivanova-kd2zb
    @eleonoraivanova-kd2zb 6 місяців тому

    Very very helpful ❤ thank you!!!

  • @Ephesians6ArmorOfGod
    @Ephesians6ArmorOfGod 8 місяців тому +4

    May GOD bless you Winnie!🙏🏽🙌🏽
    I pray you have an amazing week beautiful!🌹I truly enjoy your channel, I am a subscriber to BOTH!☺️Keep up the awesome work, you’re very wise! May GOD increase your wisdom! “Psalm 115:14

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  8 місяців тому +1

      Amen!! Thank you so much for being a part of our community.❤️❤️

  • @Kamusiimephionah
    @Kamusiimephionah 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you dear ...i like your content and i have learnt a lot❤💯

  • @Kammydesigns
    @Kammydesigns 8 місяців тому

    Winnie❤❤❤❤❤.... I really appreciate you.... You're amazing... Thanks for sharing

  • @AlexOyiza
    @AlexOyiza 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much 💖 I have learned a lot❤

  • @rejoiceaghoghoighoviroro3698
    @rejoiceaghoghoighoviroro3698 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Winnie, your content always bless me ❤

  • @HopeEdet-g9n
    @HopeEdet-g9n 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing this have learnt a lot 👍👍👍👍

  • @OnuohaDeborah-g1k
    @OnuohaDeborah-g1k 8 місяців тому

    The questions are key but some will and even cry on top....

  • @annasteciaolumba689
    @annasteciaolumba689 8 місяців тому

    Thank you Ma for all you do for us especially me.
    You're a prayer answered when i was praying to God for a guidance to be a better person in life and God led me to your UA-cam channel.
    And since then my life has changed for good and am becoming the woman i have always dream of becoming.
    But ma i have two questions to ask
    1. What do you have to say for a man that hides his financial status to test if a woman is wife material? I mean does accepting poverty defines a woman to be a wife Material.
    2. If a man is not born again and has a good quality and also a kind person that i need should i get married to him or not since i am a born again.
    This is my first time of commenting on your channel and am so happy for that.
    Thanks, I love you Ma ❤️

  • @LuigiFlavio
    @LuigiFlavio 4 місяці тому

    I love this channel
    Thanks ma🎉

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu6954 8 місяців тому +1

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻You are a strong woman

  • @mariamasum4191
    @mariamasum4191 8 місяців тому

    I think preparing yourself helps u know what to expect

  • @PrudenceAnita-c1p
    @PrudenceAnita-c1p 7 місяців тому

    Much love ma
    This is informative and enlightening

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 7 місяців тому

    Oh thanks Winnie i have noted in my book

  • @RachealSalilika
    @RachealSalilika 8 місяців тому +1

    Take care Winnie
    I enjoyed this one ❤

  • @rebeccaahiamadzi9203
    @rebeccaahiamadzi9203 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Winnie.
    Very grateful.

  • @akuacaramel1240
    @akuacaramel1240 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much dear,God bless you 🙏

  • @lovelynclara5166
    @lovelynclara5166 8 місяців тому +1

    Well done for this piece Winnie.
    Please i have to ask... What if it's a long distance thing?

  • @okeabimbola4398
    @okeabimbola4398 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Winnie ❤❤❤

  • @Bridget657
    @Bridget657 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks Winnie for this insight ❤

  • @AliceOkoro
    @AliceOkoro 8 місяців тому

    I love this video thanks Winnie 🙏

  • @cherish587
    @cherish587 8 місяців тому

    Thank u Winnie for this. U're amazing

  • @amarachifrancisca6075
    @amarachifrancisca6075 8 місяців тому +2

    I love you Winnie ❤❤❤
    Keep it up ma'am

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  8 місяців тому +1

      I love you too Darln!❤️

    • @amarachifrancisca6075
      @amarachifrancisca6075 8 місяців тому

      Wow Elegant Winnie replied
      That's beautiful, am so happy right now
      I did like to see you one day
      Thank you so much for all you do , your influence has really helped me a lot, am grateful ma

  • @Marvy25
    @Marvy25 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for this ❤

  • @confidencewokeh2601
    @confidencewokeh2601 8 місяців тому +1

    You are good winnie and God bless you

  • @RachealSalilika
    @RachealSalilika 8 місяців тому +3

    😂😂😂Oya am going there with my full list of questions and a notepad for answers
    Just to see him run 😂

  • @yackeishaweir1585
    @yackeishaweir1585 8 місяців тому

    Good Day Winnie,
    Excellent presentation ,are you able to do a presentation on age gaps the do's and don'ts for males and females in a dating relationship?. Keep up the good work.#Think elegant, Act elegant, be elegant.

  • @rejoiceifunanya6620
    @rejoiceifunanya6620 8 місяців тому +1

    God bless you Winnie ❤

  • @bridgetofodile5613
    @bridgetofodile5613 8 місяців тому

    Waah , Beautiful. Please take notes my darlings. Pray and be careful. Follow her and learn more so you don't get in the deceit. Please, please, please be careful out there to avoid all hatreds, harassment, heartbreaks divorces, lack of unconditional love, genuine love etc; the lists go on. God's blessings always ❤

  • @VictoriaPhyllisnamwanje
    @VictoriaPhyllisnamwanje 2 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @agoiobunso
    @agoiobunso 8 місяців тому

    Another great value video thank you so much sis

  • @theyoung_counselor22
    @theyoung_counselor22 8 місяців тому +1

    love this relationship videos.... keep it up

  • @sandyfavor1203
    @sandyfavor1203 8 місяців тому +2

    Gorgeous outfit ❤

  • @ChimwemweMungullar
    @ChimwemweMungullar 8 місяців тому

    I love you Winnie thank you ❤

  • @AbumSampson
    @AbumSampson 5 місяців тому

    Thanks so much ma'am

  • @ImeldaUdoh
    @ImeldaUdoh 8 місяців тому +2

    Keep it up Winnie

  • @taonganundwe
    @taonganundwe 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much ma'am ❤

  • @confidencechiamaka4121
    @confidencechiamaka4121 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you winnie❤

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  8 місяців тому

      You are welcome Dear!❤️

    • @confidencechiamaka4121
      @confidencechiamaka4121 8 місяців тому +1

      @@winniesschoolofelegance Hi Winnie, I'm a young girl of 21 yrs old living in Anambra State Nigeria.My father is late,I'm left with my mum and senior brother(married)...I don't get support from my family esp financial support because they don't really have.I work but my income is low, I have a lot of responsibilities including family responsibilities...I do literally everything for myself which makes me think alot and depressed...it's too much for me, my heart is heavy..pls what should I do?

  • @P-ness
    @P-ness 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much winnie for the many value contents you keep sharing with us. God continually bless and increase you in wisdom, knowledge and wealth.
    Could you please pin the link to your course on the act of speaking elegantly and eloquently. Thank you.

  • @millicentchidera6811
    @millicentchidera6811 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks mama❤❤❤❤

  • @AbigailAbenaKoomson
    @AbigailAbenaKoomson 6 місяців тому

    Thank you very much sis

  • @Gxgfi8yStfiy
    @Gxgfi8yStfiy 7 місяців тому

    Hi dear can you try to smarise the questions I mean making each point short coz some of us are slow Learners and I would like to save this video into my head 😅 for the future use not commanding but requesting dear thanks❤

  • @tolufavour
    @tolufavour 2 місяці тому

    I love Winnie

  • @OluwafemiAbigail-g3m
    @OluwafemiAbigail-g3m 6 місяців тому

    Thanks winne❤

  • @Daily-gist-m6h
    @Daily-gist-m6h 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you❤

  • @SikehBerenice
    @SikehBerenice 3 місяці тому

    Greetings winnie am a student in the university trying to get into a relationship but am confused have been watching your videos and will love it if you help me with more steps and advice