10 QUESTIONS TO ASK IN THE EARLY STAGES OF DATING IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP!

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  • The questions that need to be asked so you know exactly what you're signing up for. 😊
    10 Questions to ask in the early stages of dating
    - [ ] What does he want out of this relationship serious or casual
    - [ ] What happened in his last relationship and why did they break up.
    - [ ] Does he want children or looking to have more and how many
    - [ ] What is his financial situation
    - [ ] And what are the expectations on finances as a couple, talk about your contribution too.
    - [ ] What is his relationship with his family, parents and siblings
    - [ ] Are his family going to be an issue m, u need to be prepared and know what you’re waking into. That includes baby mamas
    - [ ] Where does he see himself in the next 5/10 years his ambitions and dreams?
    - [ ] Is he open to relocating to another country if need be
    - [ ] Who are his friends and request to meet them
    - [ ] What are the things he will not compromise on, everyone has deal breakers! Believe him when he says it and do not try to convince home otherwise after the fact when you guys are married
    - [ ] How important is sex to him and will he be prepared to wait while you take your time to access the situation
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 596

  • @FumiDesaluVold
    @FumiDesaluVold  Рік тому +556

    10 Questions to ask in the early stages of dating

  • @mleys3248
    @mleys3248 Рік тому +323

    Just today I let two men down gently on the online dating site, because they were not answering the question on what happened in their last relationship and what their good and lesser charactertraits were. So ... bye bye. I saved this episode and will revisit it a lot. Love from Belgium.

  • @fejiroossuetta3900
    @fejiroossuetta3900 Рік тому +102

    No one ever sat me down to tell me how important it is to ask these questions & it’s resulted in me getting into relationships blindly and for the wrong reasons, even at this age.🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @francescathegreat
    @francescathegreat Рік тому +103

    My husband and I have 5 kids and i can agree with everything you've said. On the topic of sex, quickies are there for a reason! You have en suites, pantries, and closets for a reason. Y'all better put on paw patrol and make it happen for 15 min.

  • @nancykerrigan
    @nancykerrigan Рік тому +39

    First time I noticed you didn't put the lady waking gif in these Sister2Sister talks. I agree with Ole about keeping Adrian out of the spotlight. Protect his privacy.

  • @simplydemii
    @simplydemii Рік тому +6

    Knowing his family and some hidden baby mama is very important 👌👌❤️❤️❤️

  • @faithyqueency389
    @faithyqueency389 Рік тому +58

    Am dressing up for a date and just got the notification of this video oh my gosh just at the right time thank you Fumi ❤❤

  • @m.l.2483
    @m.l.2483 Рік тому +100

    Aunty Fumi is really helping us out here. And her lipstick matches her dress so it's a win-win!

  • @nkeletsengseeko3095
    @nkeletsengseeko3095 Рік тому +13

    OMG talking about relocate I remember when one guy I dated told me that as soon as we get married I should be ready to move to the rural with his mother. I did the best ran as fast as I could and never looked back.

  • @cherylreeves2188
    @cherylreeves2188 Рік тому +16

    I agree...about Adrienne being on social media...too many children on social media.

  • @JoB1808
    @JoB1808 Рік тому +22

    Fumi I love you, but this is far away from what a relationship wants to be nice and lovely… I’ m really huge fan of you! I m married with my husband from 2009 and I did all of these questions! He gave me answers and I thought that he was the perfect one! He wanted two kids (he build a house with three bedrooms) and when the economic crises came, he barely wanted one. He was successful businessman with passion, and his job destroyed. He never gave up and he’s doing another job but it was a mess for a while. He had beautiful relationship with his family and his parents were so sweet until they moved near us when I gave birth my child. But I love him and all these stuff gave me the begging of finding my strength (I was very quiet person). So all of these questions are a little easy and easy to change. When you met someone the only question that should ask is by yourself. When the situation changes, will you care enough for him/her to carry on?

  • @tsholofelojoycelepota5356
    @tsholofelojoycelepota5356 Рік тому +10

    I’m soo obsessed with this lady wow

  • @TO-md2nj
    @TO-md2nj Рік тому +23

    Botswana 🇧🇼 in the building

  • @nurselora681
    @nurselora681 Рік тому +172

    Fumi, could we possibly have a set of questions for us older folks who are dating and looking for that life partner? I just turned 60 and looking towards planning my retirement so many of these questions aren’t relevant for me. Dating is so difficult for all ages. I love watching you with all of your wisdom and knowledge. Thank you!

  • @tjsproles4992
    @tjsproles4992 Рік тому +26

    I absolutely love, Love, LOVE your confidence! 💃 And, you are VERY insightful about the issues of life in terms of relationships.

  • @elougaveroniquefrancine6350
    @elougaveroniquefrancine6350 Рік тому +16

    I'm living for your laugh miss Fumi. It's so contagious, so refreshing

  • @haleyclarke1332
    @haleyclarke1332 Рік тому +9

    The way I listened and hang on to every word, you would think I'm in a classroom prepping for an exam. Well said aunty fumi. Thank you!

  • @jeanmusabwalya8341
    @jeanmusabwalya8341 Рік тому +10

    You are indeed a friend in a mother. Your advise is based on your experiences. Love you aunt Fumi.

  • @waleskagracia4891
    @waleskagracia4891 Рік тому +9

    Spectacular as always! ❤️ 💋Excellent questions. When I was single I went on a couple of dates with a gentleman from the Middle East. On the 2nd date we somehow got on the topic of children. Although it wasn’t my situation, I was curious so I asked him if he would consider marriage to a woman with children. He very quickly, and firmly answered that if he wanted to marry her she would have to give up the children because he could never accept another man’s children. Needless to say, it was our last date.

  • @melaniiepalacio
    @melaniiepalacio Рік тому +2

    Her laugh is my favorite thing ever