I'm thinking how when I grew up,my mother made it a point to make me feel soo special on my birthdays and it meant the world to me then I became an adult and now I'm on some "birthdays aren't that deep" and in as much as I don't want to admit it,it's a wall I put up just so that I don't get disappointed.
Ah sis, I’m glad that you are aware of this. Please, going forward can you make a promise to yourself to celebrate your birthday and make it a big deal.
Paulina was my hair stylist for years. She’s amazing. I usually fall asleep when getting my hair done so it’s worse coz they have to wake me up every 3 seconds to help with the hair. Imagine. I always wondered why they don’t just do it themselves 😢 Maybe I might try speaking up for myself as well. But I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself.
Hi Didi, I also want to relax when I go to the salon because I am always busy. Sometimes I do some work when I get there and I am glad the lady who does my hair doesn’t ask me to.
I love birthdays and I got disappointed so many times in the past but ever since I started working, I celebrate myself and take myself out . I stopped expecting people to celebrate or remember my birthday since it's January people always have excuses so I celebrate me because it's my day❤😅
Let's not lie guys pulling our hair is the pits!😂 nobody likes it ... I'm convinced people who were being mean about it also admire your strength and now they were projecting their fears on you We all want to be vocal... Kuya bheda nje😂😂😂🤞
Don't let it get to the point where you have to refuse. Tell them as you arrive. Politely and with a smile. Boundaries nje getting exactly what you're paying for. If it's an issue, find another salon.
Hi Didi. That topic you brought up about hair is such an eye opener and i applaud you for standing your ground. I actually dont like it too but we have so normalized having to "help" the stylist with the fibre that I have actually never sat down to think that actually I don't have to be doing this because I have paid for the full service!! Thank you for a lovely vlog
You are so brave, usually for me i want to leave as quick as possible when i do my hair. I pull out because of that, but i would like to chill a little and just catch up on work or be on my phone as i pay for the service.
Really enjoyed this vlog. Loved that you stood up for yourself at the salon. I DEFINITELY mind pulling out the hair. I'm glad that the stylists at the salon I go to pull out their own hair.
When I used to do straightbacks I never pull the fibre,never and if u know most salon in Pretoria request you to do that, I never. I am paying why come to the salon to work extra and I don’t even get discount, when u leave there ur hands are in pain hai, hence I rather pay the money for comfort, big up to you Didi, there is nothing wrong by saying u don’t wanna do that, AJ party looked so beautiful and thanks for the awareness, my little one suffers from sinus a lot Shem and u can tell she’s itching ai allergies Di ya bora😢, the hairstyle looks so beautiful and u look gorgeous ❤❤❤❤
This hairstyle suits you so much 👑🔥👌🏼 I always do housecalls for my hair so I don’t mind pulling out the hair but if I was going to a salon I wouldn’t mind voicing it if I don’t want to do it. I don’t see anything wrong with what you did. Big ups to you sis! 🎉
I'm on your side. Pulling out hair is the same as going to the nail salon for a mani and you can't respond to messages until your set is dry. I also want to just sit and relax/ That's why other salons even serve a glass of champaign to the client coz they understand you're having me time.
AJ is surrounded with love. It’s so beautiful to watch❤️. You look stunning in that hairstyle Didi😍😍😍❤️. I don’t like pulling the hair but I’m always scared to stand up for myself.
Hey Didi❤ I really love how you're raising AJ, and I am definitely doing the same in terms of celebrating my children's birthday, one day when I'm a mom ❤ I hate pulling out hair, I feel robbed of my time and relaxation. I think I will stand up for myself next time, I fully agree with you. I just didn't know how to approach the ladies. Thank you for sharing❤🌸🌻
I mention it first nje before even sitting down, with a big smile even. "Ngicela ukungakhi bandla iynwele ma eh, ngifuna ukphumula nje ngiycofele i phone" Ngithi fahla uhleko ngidlule lapho ✋️
Yoh that pulling out hair thing... I HATE IT I'm lucky I can do my own hair so I don't have to deal with that anymore... I had to tell a hairstylist that its 2023 they actually make hair racks so she must get one... My aunt was so embarrassed at the time but when we got home she couldn't stop talking about how "brave" I was... Haha
I’ll pull out the hair maybe for three lines and then someone will come and help the hairstylist, so it’s not a hassle for me and my stylist knows that I’m lazy so she just lets me chill and use the WiFi to use for social media and damn you are so correct we must learn to speak up, luckily enough my nail tech knows what she does so I’m always happy after she gets the job done
Always learning from your videos❤The talk on birthdays?💯it's not that we don't like them we are scared of disappointment and moving forward I am going to make a big deal about mine.Thank you Didz love you always❤❤❤
Hi Didi,you look gorgeous with your new hairstyle ❤There's definitely nothing wrong with what you told the hairdresser,you know what you want and if there's anyone who feel like she's not happy about that then she should go deal with her issues 🙄
Didi i understand your point 👉you must say your opinion. I know the stylist will gossip about you. But at the end they heard you✋💪Nna i don't plait my hair i go for relax,dye and cut thats me😂.Happy birthday my son🎉🎂🍭🍨💃he is grown so fast jooo so many presents 👍👌thank you babes for sharing Aj journey 💓💗
Hey Didi, beautiful video!! Your son is adorable ❤️ I also get ‘hay fever’ during spring season, it’s not fun and always irritate ppl that don’t get it
Honestly, I also hate pulling Fiber to be plaited Mara dololo sibindi to tell the stylist, but tomorrow I'm getting my hair treated. Therefore, I'll be speaking up.
Really enjoy your vlogs hey as for birthdays is like that with my son he looks foward to birthdays , as for taking out while platting i dnt really enjoy it hey i have even went as far as checking salon which has those stands for putting fibre cz i cnt sometimes i wana nap while doing my hair
Hey Didi! I enjoy your vlogs a lot and happy birthday AJ! 🎉 But on the hair topic I think it’s pretty fair to not want to help pull out hair, i mean i’ve never experienced that because i’m a guy but if i’m paying for a service why am i expected to help? Then it’s the salons duty to employ someone who will do this for all the the stylists. If i pay a company clean my place, i’m not helping them to speed up the process. Telling you that she was going to take longer is just ridiculous in my opinion 😅
Yhoo hayi I also hate pulling out hair, that’s the first question I ask my hairstylist if they don’t want I leave. I just want to relax at a salon because I go there to relax because I’m tired from my own work, I even sleep during so imagine missing my nap time and made to work for a service I am paying for.. Kanti what is pampering if uzosebenza ?
And service u paid for, really. I also dont like it i dont get how am i expected to be helping the person i am paying full price. You did well, there is nothing wrong u did there.
I personally do not like pulling out hair! Its exhausting... you did well! Absolutely!
From this day forth , I’m definitely refusing to pull out hair ! Thank you for this .
Notification bell...cheers to us who like before we watch❤❤
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I also don't feel comfortable with pulling hair but was scared to tell my stylist u really opened my eyes but will say it with respect ❣️❣️❣️
I'm thinking how when I grew up,my mother made it a point to make me feel soo special on my birthdays and it meant the world to me then I became an adult and now I'm on some "birthdays aren't that deep" and in as much as I don't want to admit it,it's a wall I put up just so that I don't get disappointed.
Ah sis, I’m glad that you are aware of this. Please, going forward can you make a promise to yourself to celebrate your birthday and make it a big deal.
The hair looks gorgeous on you! I’m glad you spoke up, it’s unfair, my stylist also knows that I don’t touch it.
Paulina was my hair stylist for years. She’s amazing. I usually fall asleep when getting my hair done so it’s worse coz they have to wake me up every 3 seconds to help with the hair. Imagine. I always wondered why they don’t just do it themselves 😢 Maybe I might try speaking up for myself as well. But I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself.
Hi Didi, I also want to relax when I go to the salon because I am always busy. Sometimes I do some work when I get there and I am glad the lady who does my hair doesn’t ask me to.
I love birthdays and I got disappointed so many times in the past but ever since I started working, I celebrate myself and take myself out .
I stopped expecting people to celebrate or remember my birthday since it's January people always have excuses so I celebrate me because it's my day❤😅
kudos for being honest with the hairstylist there's absolutely nothing wrong with that,i also do that when i just wanna sit and relax
Let's not lie guys pulling our hair is the pits!😂 nobody likes it ... I'm convinced people who were being mean about it also admire your strength and now they were projecting their fears on you
We all want to be vocal... Kuya bheda nje😂😂😂🤞
I don't pull out my hair and I don't even compromise.
I dislike pulling hair I won’t lie so from now onwards I’m gonna try your “method” cause ain’t no way 🌸
Totally agree I have dread locks … I got tired of the pulling fibre thing for extensions . Sometimes they say it’s too much or too little
Next time, I am politely going to refuse to pull out hair 😊, thanks for the beautiful vlog ❤
Don't let it get to the point where you have to refuse. Tell them as you arrive. Politely and with a smile. Boundaries nje getting exactly what you're paying for. If it's an issue, find another salon.
You are absolutely right Didi I also don't want to pull out hair...y should I. Beautiful vlog 😘❤️
Hi Didi. That topic you brought up about hair is such an eye opener and i applaud you for standing your ground. I actually dont like it too but we have so normalized having to "help" the stylist with the fibre that I have actually never sat down to think that actually I don't have to be doing this because I have paid for the full service!! Thank you for a lovely vlog
You are so brave, usually for me i want to leave as quick as possible when i do my hair. I pull out because of that, but i would like to chill a little and just catch up on work or be on my phone as i pay for the service.
Really enjoyed this vlog. Loved that you stood up for yourself at the salon. I DEFINITELY mind pulling out the hair. I'm glad that the stylists at the salon I go to pull out their own hair.
When I used to do straightbacks I never pull the fibre,never and if u know most salon in Pretoria request you to do that, I never. I am paying why come to the salon to work extra and I don’t even get discount, when u leave there ur hands are in pain hai, hence I rather pay the money for comfort, big up to you Didi, there is nothing wrong by saying u don’t wanna do that, AJ party looked so beautiful and thanks for the awareness, my little one suffers from sinus a lot Shem and u can tell she’s itching ai allergies Di ya bora😢, the hairstyle looks so beautiful and u look gorgeous ❤❤❤❤
This hairstyle suits you so much 👑🔥👌🏼
I always do housecalls for my hair so I don’t mind pulling out the hair but if I was going to a salon I wouldn’t mind voicing it if I don’t want to do it. I don’t see anything wrong with what you did. Big ups to you sis! 🎉
Thank you so much 🥰💕✨
Happy belated birthday to your beautiful ❤ sweet boy, You look super stunning hair and skin.❤❤
I agree with you 100%. thank you so much Didi❤❤
I'm on your side.
Pulling out hair is the same as going to the nail salon for a mani and you can't respond to messages until your set is dry. I also want to just sit and relax/ That's why other salons even serve a glass of champaign to the client coz they understand you're having me time.
AJ is surrounded with love. It’s so beautiful to watch❤️. You look stunning in that hairstyle Didi😍😍😍❤️.
I don’t like pulling the hair but I’m always scared to stand up for myself.
He truly is 💕✨
Next time please try and speak up babe. You will be so surprised of the outcome 💕
Hey Didi❤
I really love how you're raising AJ, and I am definitely doing the same in terms of celebrating my children's birthday, one day when I'm a mom ❤
I hate pulling out hair, I feel robbed of my time and relaxation. I think I will stand up for myself next time, I fully agree with you. I just didn't know how to approach the ladies.
Thank you for sharing❤🌸🌻
I mention it first nje before even sitting down, with a big smile even. "Ngicela ukungakhi bandla iynwele ma eh, ngifuna ukphumula nje ngiycofele i phone"
Ngithi fahla uhleko ngidlule lapho ✋️
Hi didi
I just wanted to ask where you got the blue tablet for AJ? Have a year old and would love to get it for him..
Love your content...
Yoh that pulling out hair thing... I HATE IT I'm lucky I can do my own hair so I don't have to deal with that anymore... I had to tell a hairstylist that its 2023 they actually make hair racks so she must get one... My aunt was so embarrassed at the time but when we got home she couldn't stop talking about how "brave" I was... Haha
Love you Didi , love love love your outfit
You are soooo brave and 😂😂 LOVE YOU D ❤
I’ll pull out the hair maybe for three lines and then someone will come and help the hairstylist, so it’s not a hassle for me and my stylist knows that I’m lazy so she just lets me chill and use the WiFi to use for social media and damn you are so correct we must learn to speak up, luckily enough my nail tech knows what she does so I’m always happy after she gets the job done
I also don't like pulling out hair,I just haven't been brave enough to utter it out 😢
Always learning from your videos❤The talk on birthdays?💯it's not that we don't like them we are scared of disappointment and moving forward I am going to make a big deal about mine.Thank you Didz love you always❤❤❤
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That straight back really does suit you 😍😍😍
AJ is so sweet 🥺🥺
Hi Didi,you look gorgeous with your new hairstyle ❤There's definitely nothing wrong with what you told the hairdresser,you know what you want and if there's anyone who feel like she's not happy about that then she should go deal with her issues 🙄
Beautiful ❤
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Hi Didi, I just wanted to find out where you do your nails, specifically the ones at the start of the video
I enjoy your content so much, keep doing you babe❤
the hairstyle suits you perfectly...you look beautiful😻
Ncooooh this is soo beautiful man,got me alil teary and I don't even know why.
Thank you so much Lucy 😀💕
I don’t like pulling the hair but I’m always scared to stand up for myself.💗
Even me I don’t want to pull out hair please!!!!
Didi i understand your point 👉you must say your opinion. I know the stylist will gossip about you. But at the end they heard you✋💪Nna i don't plait my hair i go for relax,dye and cut thats me😂.Happy birthday my son🎉🎂🍭🍨💃he is grown so fast jooo so many presents 👍👌thank you babes for sharing Aj journey 💓💗
Hey Didi, beautiful video!! Your son is adorable ❤️
I also get ‘hay fever’ during spring season, it’s not fun and always irritate ppl that don’t get it
Honestly, I also hate pulling Fiber to be plaited Mara dololo sibindi to tell the stylist, but tomorrow I'm getting my hair treated. Therefore, I'll be speaking up.
Really enjoy your vlogs hey as for birthdays is like that with my son he looks foward to birthdays , as for taking out while platting i dnt really enjoy it hey i have even went as far as checking salon which has those stands for putting fibre cz i cnt sometimes i wana nap while doing my hair
Beautiful ❤️❤️
Beautiful vlog Didi❤
As for pulling the hair i also dont like it but i can never get myself to speak up. Ke a tshaba😅
Thank you so much 💕✨
Please, kao kopa, next time try your best to speak up. It’s so liberating xx
I also don't like pulling hair at the salon hair stylist should buy the stand to put hair in sections
yayyyy....been waiting💃❣
Happy bday AJ
You made me recognise the importance of "my views", to my children #hair
Hey Didi! I enjoy your vlogs a lot and happy birthday AJ! 🎉 But on the hair topic I think it’s pretty fair to not want to help pull out hair, i mean i’ve never experienced that because i’m a guy but if i’m paying for a service why am i expected to help? Then it’s the salons duty to employ someone who will do this for all the the stylists. If i pay a company clean my place, i’m not helping them to speed up the process. Telling you that she was going to take longer is just ridiculous in my opinion 😅
Thank you so much bro. I really appreciate the positive feedback. It means a lot 😅🙏🏽✨
I love your take about the salon 👏🏽👏🏽
Yhoo hayi I also hate pulling out hair, that’s the first question I ask my hairstylist if they don’t want I leave. I just want to relax at a salon because I go there to relax because I’m tired from my own work, I even sleep during so imagine missing my nap time and made to work for a service I am paying for.. Kanti what is pampering if uzosebenza ?
I really like you for refusing to pull out the hair! I also hate it!
And to people who judged you, we don’t care really!
Same as packing your own groceries, I don't.
You really have beautiful features of your face and body shem🤞👌💚💚💚
I also don’t want to assist pulling out hair 😏
You pay for a service...i dont understand why its viewed otherwise
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I also don’t like it. Shame I spoken up for myself. Some salons I don’t but some I do it.
And service u paid for, really. I also dont like it i dont get how am i expected to be helping the person i am paying full price.
You did well, there is nothing wrong u did there.
I’m glad to hear that you agree 💕✨👏🏽
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