15 Things You CAN'T Control In Life

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  • @PrakharKVerma
    @PrakharKVerma 6 років тому +203

    You can't control other people's opinion of you. But you can control your opinion about yourself.

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому +16

      That's right! You can start by generating small wins for yourself and with time you will build the confidence you need!

    • @peeyushtripathi8838
      @peeyushtripathi8838 6 років тому +1

      Actually you can even control other people's opinion of you

    • @PrakharKVerma
      @PrakharKVerma 6 років тому +2

      You can't control. You can only influence.

    • @gloriahuerta5732
      @gloriahuerta5732 6 років тому +2

      New life

    • @tanmaykhelkar7936
      @tanmaykhelkar7936 6 років тому

      That's actually common with criminals

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 6 років тому +96

    When I discovered I cannot control a lot of things in my life and started focusing on things I can control, my happiness increased.

    • @profesorulonline6608
      @profesorulonline6608 6 років тому +2

      UNLEASHING POTENTIAL i see you comment in a lot of videos recently on TED ED about smoking and the list goes on, i even see you channel and in the past you were verry insecure and now you are confident.

    • @profesorulonline6608
      @profesorulonline6608 6 років тому +1

      i'm also interested in making money, personal developement, and leave to my TRUE POTENTIAL.

    • @metalrockstarizer89
      @metalrockstarizer89 3 роки тому

      In my opinion I feel like social media is like the chain reaction of everything that you just said. I’m taking a break from it right now and I deleted everything else and then bam, my happiness started coming back gradually.

  • @alux
    @alux  6 років тому +16

    Hello Aluxers! Which of this things you worry about the most?
    Get the free audiobook: www.alux.com/freebook
    Video Notes: www.alux.com/cant-control-life/
    15 You CAN Control: ua-cam.com/video/mYJ7Hfb4Gms/v-deo.html
    Why You Are Not Happy: ua-cam.com/video/cCh9qMe-YPk/v-deo.html

    • @rahulkapoor_
      @rahulkapoor_ 6 років тому

      career

    • @MrRayeef
      @MrRayeef 6 років тому

      No.11 was Creepy!!!

    • @alexbradley5835
      @alexbradley5835 6 років тому

      New life with what I can control and aware of what i cannot

    • @bryanwalker5011
      @bryanwalker5011 6 років тому

      Career

    • @vineethlalu3185
      @vineethlalu3185 6 років тому

      genetic engineering i just worried and at the same time wonder what will be the future looks like if it happens

  • @automaton4090
    @automaton4090 6 років тому +101

    Point number 14 really hits hard. I think that the most important thing to take away from this video is that you can't change your past. I like how Alux always tells you how it is without sugarcoating their words. Mad respect.
    New life

    • @israelmejia697
      @israelmejia697 6 років тому +1

      New Life!

    • @ImprovementisGrowth
      @ImprovementisGrowth 6 років тому +1

      New life

    • @parissestewart6004
      @parissestewart6004 6 років тому +1

      New life.

    • @Knkteja1897
      @Knkteja1897 6 років тому

      Honestly about Alux

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 5 років тому +1

      Through both joy and pain ,
      You transcend , grow and gain,
      Angels with you remain ,
      Nothing you give goes in vain,
      Your blessings and miracles start to rain ,
      Your love and spirit , they all contain ,
      You move with the flow of life
      Again , again and again...

  • @goaldealersentertainment
    @goaldealersentertainment 6 років тому +85

    My sunday ain't a Sunday without alux

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому +8

      Glad to have you with us!

    • @SolomonsfitnessWorld
      @SolomonsfitnessWorld 6 років тому

      Me too I look forward to their Sunday videos

  • @sushildahal4599
    @sushildahal4599 6 років тому +93

    NewLife !!! Starts with documenting :D
    15 things You can't control:
    1. Where You were Born
    2. When You Were Born
    3. Who Your Parents Are
    4. Talent : hard work beats talent if talent does not work hard
    5. Luck : harder I work luckier i get
    6. Change
    7. Several Diseases
    8. The Way Most People Look At Life
    9. If someone genuinely loves you or not
    10. Time : "the problem is you think you have time" - buddha
    11. Your Data
    12. The Economy
    13. The Government
    14. Your Past
    15. Death
    ---
    Extra: You can't control your Genetics- Yet

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому +3

      We have Video Notes (www.alux.com/cant-control-life/) specifically for this reason alone:.

    • @introvertedperson007
      @introvertedperson007 6 років тому +3

      I always search these comments for saving time. Thank Sushil Dahal

    • @introvertedperson007
      @introvertedperson007 6 років тому +1

      Also Thank you Alux.com for the link. Please put that in the description.

    • @luismorales4617
      @luismorales4617 6 років тому

      Y E T ... ??? Mine or those my descents gonna be . . .?
      If are the seconds one , then don't matters the YET....

    • @sushildahal4599
      @sushildahal4599 6 років тому +1

      Yeah, the blog posts are amazing as well; i check out that as well. It is just that when I watch the videos taking notes help to concretize the thoughts rather than just hearing/watching. Sorry if it drags the blog visit :P

  • @christscrackers647
    @christscrackers647 6 років тому +1

    A piece of information stuck with me throughout this video. "People often waste so much time, because we often have so much of it." This is an answer that rings with me, because more often than not I end up procrastinating on things that I know I need to do. I have so much free time, that i'm not often stressed to do something or keep myself busy This is why I watch Alux.
    New Life

  • @jeevankumarpuhan
    @jeevankumarpuhan 6 років тому +20

    Besides being so informative and motivational, When Alux tells something, it's a hard truth, which I like the most. A week doesn't end completely until the Alux Sunday Video. And yes, New Life! Keep Rocking Alux

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому +4

      Thank you Jeevan, it's great to hear that from you guys!

  • @rushikeshm
    @rushikeshm 6 років тому +3

    Overthinking about ‘Death and Past’ make people unhappy. Alux Rocks.

  • @hawaali4115
    @hawaali4115 6 років тому +1

    I was soo depressed. No job. I am broke, no spouse, no love life and I watched this video.
    I feel a bit relieved. New Life.

  • @gillianfranklin4515
    @gillianfranklin4515 6 років тому +1

    Time is the one that gets me. It speeds up at the wrong time and is so slow when you want things to be over, now.
    New life

  • @MeloraCarabas
    @MeloraCarabas 6 років тому

    Working on a new life every day step by step. Because forward is the only right direction so far.

  • @NeshaMichelSpeak
    @NeshaMichelSpeak 3 роки тому

    I listen to you day in and day out I don't watch TV at all you've changed my Life

  • @momchilyakimov1112
    @momchilyakimov1112 6 років тому

    New Life!!! I worry the most about #6 Change - about being unable to adapt. Thank you Alux for this most appreciated Sunday ritual!

  • @emilegouba7817
    @emilegouba7817 6 років тому +31

    Y'all know you're about to learn something when that intro music kicks in and the voice starts talking.

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому +2

      That's our favorite part!

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому +2

      That's our favorite part!

    • @theonlygosha
      @theonlygosha 6 років тому

      Yasss

  • @kellyhiebert6766
    @kellyhiebert6766 5 років тому

    NEW LIFE
    The point that stuck with me the most is My Past because it completed the 'signs come in 3's' after a conversation with my mentor earlier this week and seeing Elton's John's biopic Rocketman, last night and how he dealt with his past. So now I can say 'Message Received Universe' Thanks Alux; stay your wonderful self!

  • @puneetbhatewara
    @puneetbhatewara 6 років тому

    Point no 14 is the most important one should understand coz your past is our best teacher we should learn from last instead of regretting and wasting time thinking about it !!
    New Life !

  • @nson61
    @nson61 4 роки тому

    You create your reality totally. You choose your parents, you choose the place of birth, you choose the siblings and your state of health ... everything. If you understand it, you do not place any value on it as good or bad. It also means that you do not use it as an excuse or that you do not believe in luck.

  • @theendaffairs6423
    @theendaffairs6423 6 років тому +39

    You missed - "Old age".
    Ageing is something we can't control

    • @VinyZikss
      @VinyZikss 6 років тому +6

      yet

    • @CamielWinants
      @CamielWinants 6 років тому

      Genetics.

    • @Skysymptoms
      @Skysymptoms 6 років тому +2

      I think that falls under time

    • @Azknowledgethirsty
      @Azknowledgethirsty 6 років тому

      @@VinyZikss yeah, if you're young, technology will get to a point where number 16 and this comment won't be true, most people are looking towards evolution but it's likely that you will be able to change yourself genetically in 30-50 years time and live indefinitely

    • @liamwinter4512
      @liamwinter4512 6 років тому +2

      Oooooorrrr can weeeeeeeee?

  • @robertleejameswelch8383
    @robertleejameswelch8383 6 років тому

    Thank Alux.com. Thumbs up before I go see the video

  • @cristinacho7881
    @cristinacho7881 6 років тому

    I’m not worried about any of these things. I’m focused on my future. Thanks for another good video!

  • @keithmohammed7314
    @keithmohammed7314 5 років тому

    Alux you are the number 1 educator of all time in the world

  • @rosybear14
    @rosybear14 Рік тому

    As someone who has health anxiety and depression it can be hard for me not to think about my health, worrying what if I get this, what if I get that and in some cases have made myself ill from worry. I'm only now trying to focus on other aspects of my life to achieve the goals Iv set for myself.

  • @diamondheart11
    @diamondheart11 6 років тому +2

    Thank you Alux. This video is so amazing, I avoid of thinking about this because it scares me, but you brought it to my attention in an empowering and inspiring way and thanks to you I will worry less and empower myself instead. NEW LIFE!!!

  • @killerkram1337
    @killerkram1337 6 років тому

    I work with big data. You are 100% correct that no one has control of their data. Technology moves WAY faster than law. This hits your point in don't rely on the government, just do what you can for your self and do what you can to either market yourself or your product. You will know when you make it.

  • @lenikoletteminnaje363
    @lenikoletteminnaje363 6 років тому +4

    Thank you guys!!❤️

  • @SevenDeMagnus
    @SevenDeMagnus 6 років тому

    Thanks, this increases hope and know that helpless now is only temporary.
    God bless, Proverbs 31

  • @tribalbey1378
    @tribalbey1378 6 років тому

    You said Sunday and I immediately checked my phone and just say you posted this 10 hours ago I really gotta get my life together 1 like for keeping me updated

  • @mamaurax25
    @mamaurax25 6 років тому +6

    Your videos are providing a lot of value.
    Taking notes ✍🏾

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому

      Happy to hear that Amauri.
      Every Sunday Video comes with an article where everything is broken down: www.alux.com/cant-control-life/

  • @Manbiye
    @Manbiye 3 роки тому

    thank you alux for helping me keep on the track

  • @jefespielrojas
    @jefespielrojas 6 років тому +11

    Great content as always, i believe you cant control other peoples choices, it very hard because some times you want to help them as much as you possibly can but wether they want to listen to you or not its up to them, and thats a hard order if you care for the person.

  • @mattyb627
    @mattyb627 6 років тому

    NEW LIFE
    The main one that effects my life would be the bonus, my genetics. I believe that we can change our lives and becoming an Aluxer has inspired me even more knowing that there is a huge community to support my core beliefs and be real with people.

  • @AkashPatel-uu5lq
    @AkashPatel-uu5lq 6 років тому

    Alux, what should someone know or learn if his family is rich.. this thing is freaking my mind out for a long time and I want to know about this ... please make a video on this topic on next sunday.

  • @YoungGrizzly
    @YoungGrizzly 6 років тому

    These video always show me something that gives me new life.

  • @menaseven9093
    @menaseven9093 6 років тому

    Awesome psychological and sociological video Alux. I agree we can't control our talent, luck, how people think, time, love , the economy, government and death.

  • @c-3775
    @c-3775 6 років тому

    New Life, I love when ALUX uploads a Video, It has helped me a lot, and my life is constantly changing for the better.

  • @lorenzocelaya-orozco4728
    @lorenzocelaya-orozco4728 3 роки тому

    New life - the thing that worries me the most is growing old and not having enough to care for my partner, family and myself

  • @theone9831
    @theone9831 6 років тому

    New Life! Thank you so much Alux, I'm very grateful and shocked that you guys actually did my request. This video truly did put things into perspective for me, especially #14!

  • @aaki_sky
    @aaki_sky 6 років тому

    NEW LIFE!
    A perfect time for this video's arrival in my life, because I am gonna implement certain disciplines in life from tomorrow (Monday), about which I am have been planning from past 2-3 days :)
    Thank you Alux 😊🤗😊

  • @satisham5885
    @satisham5885 5 років тому

    New life. Yes I am ready for it.

  • @parth558
    @parth558 6 років тому

    Thank you Alux !

  • @keithmohammed7314
    @keithmohammed7314 5 років тому

    Alux you give me strength and a new life

  • @ilangowren4797
    @ilangowren4797 6 років тому +11

    I feel nervous and heart beating when start to click this video...

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому +6

      We got your back!

    • @ilangowren4797
      @ilangowren4797 6 років тому +2

      @@alux You and your team do a very great video every week, i personally feel proud as your follower...

  • @MikeJones-sy4cs
    @MikeJones-sy4cs 5 років тому

    Thank you for changing my life “The guy Named Magen” it’s the Truth...

  • @sujitprajapati9148
    @sujitprajapati9148 6 років тому

    Thank's for my new life after 2 years from now....

  • @bhabanishankearbasak4354
    @bhabanishankearbasak4354 4 роки тому

    New Life.....To me, Time is the most valuable asset, one can get enough money but not enough time. So one should spend his or her time wisely.

  • @jlmagana
    @jlmagana 6 років тому

    NEW LIFE...VIDA NUEVA !!! Im 62 and disabled and Im seeking new opportunities... LIVING LIFE IS POSSIBLE !!!

  • @jamestateIII
    @jamestateIII 6 років тому

    #9 is the best because its part of happiness which is a goal of life.

  • @rishabhkapse576
    @rishabhkapse576 6 років тому

    New Life. Thank you ALUX for making this video.

  • @sauravkumar5589
    @sauravkumar5589 6 років тому

    New Life
    Hey Alux.. Needless to say that not only are your videos highly inspirational but the visual effects and the soft background music are equally worth complementing. Also though I am worried about change that's happening in every sphere of our lives, from your videos I have gathered that this is a global phenomenon. I may not like it but I need it anyways.

  • @Learsidiaz
    @Learsidiaz 6 років тому

    New life .thank you. God bless you

  • @christinelecornu5426
    @christinelecornu5426 6 років тому

    Point 16...looking forward to those changes

  • @willsommervil6141
    @willsommervil6141 6 років тому +1

    #1 thing I never worry is death. I'm ready whenever it comes.

  • @OldManShavers38
    @OldManShavers38 6 років тому

    New Life!
    New understandings & new blessings thank you Alux.com for so much of your powerful information. Absolutely love all of your content and it is help me in my life since the beginning of 2018 I have grown and developed into a new person since. Again thank you so much for your hard work and continuous development of your craft that you put into these videos I love it and I am an Aluxer for life.

  • @eze__95
    @eze__95 6 років тому +1

    I love that you used Hong Kong as the intro!!! My favorite city by far

  • @amberbush1999
    @amberbush1999 6 років тому

    New Life, ready to start living my best life

  • @leezogaming9447
    @leezogaming9447 4 роки тому +1

    On second thought, I don't wanna know what I can't control
    But thought I still gives a thumbs up😊😉

  • @priscamvondo9234
    @priscamvondo9234 6 років тому

    New life!!!.. Thank you alux!

  • @yummie359
    @yummie359 3 роки тому

    I am ready for my new A.Lux Life!!!!! 2021 & BEYOND! I cannot control any1 but MYSELF👑💅🌟✨💎🍾🍾🍾

  • @ijonuigbo7417
    @ijonuigbo7417 5 років тому

    New Life! Thanks Alux!

  • @thejuansshow6410
    @thejuansshow6410 6 років тому

    Awesome the one I been worrying about lately has been death but this video reaffirmed that we must embrace we must embrace life in order to live we must accept our death in order to create the life we have so this really helped so much because I been having alot of thought but actually death puts everything into better perspective.

  • @prachirahate1631
    @prachirahate1631 6 років тому

    16 no. was the killer point
    'New Life'

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому +1

      As we do Prachi

  • @radenbahagia5832
    @radenbahagia5832 6 років тому

    Your past are very important to medicals .......... Thanks

  • @weylonwilliams1920
    @weylonwilliams1920 6 років тому

    I am weylon and I will make it in life so Alux when u see this comment remember this that i am going to change the world 🌏 because I believe in myself #new life same goal

  • @satyajitchoudhary3482
    @satyajitchoudhary3482 6 років тому

    Hope to see our future generations to atleast lower the impact of above factors in their life.

  • @tombomombodombo
    @tombomombodombo 6 років тому

    How do you narrate in such a beautiful way? Your voice sounds like music to my ears

  • @trusno7751
    @trusno7751 6 років тому

    What others think about me is none of my business...New Life, ready to start living..Time is waiting on no one. .

  • @chatswithp7448
    @chatswithp7448 6 років тому

    I think i worry about time the most. Like I’m constantly running out of time

  • @aleciasmall2170
    @aleciasmall2170 4 роки тому

    We should never forget to live. New Life

  • @yemengoto4905
    @yemengoto4905 6 років тому +1

    Do not worry about what is not in your power because if you do, that's when your unhappiness sets in. Live life according to nature which teaches us that we must embrace both positive and negative things equally. We are living in an artificial world so you should not expect an ideal life in an artificial planet.

  • @shlokvanve4712
    @shlokvanve4712 6 років тому +1

    You are the best UA-cam channel in the world💓💓💓

  • @YourWealthCome
    @YourWealthCome 5 років тому

    New Life and Love #16

  • @edwardsluckin9601
    @edwardsluckin9601 6 років тому

    New life, all 15 points were tough and what people really lose sleep over everyday.

  • @racquels4028
    @racquels4028 6 років тому

    NEW LIFE ......thanks alux I needed to hear this

  • @mohamadattar2358
    @mohamadattar2358 6 років тому

    This is DESTINY.....
    Also nobody had ever the chance to choose his name, religion, color or sex ,but he can CHANGE them......

  • @Atem_S.
    @Atem_S. 6 років тому

    new life is where am heading!

  • @gildasish
    @gildasish 6 років тому

    "Time is creepy" as you get older. I cannot agree more

    • @theresecook-bright1757
      @theresecook-bright1757 5 років тому

      Age is only a number we have to accumulate to be alive.. fun is living bucket lists all my life!!! Many sweet victories indeed. It's better. Not bitter is the fountain of youth

  • @meetshingala9530
    @meetshingala9530 6 років тому

    New Life. agree to you and yes I am free of all these that appear on the list. Started because you guys😍

  • @kiunnsui
    @kiunnsui 6 років тому +7

    'Luck' you may control. If today is yesterday's consequence, tomorrow will be today's consequence. We just won't know until we're way, way older. And some people will deem it, 'Too late!'

  • @jamiecortez261
    @jamiecortez261 6 років тому

    Def needed this video as a reminder

  • @atunwaemmanuel9712
    @atunwaemmanuel9712 6 років тому

    When you think Sunday, alux comes to mind

  • @aayushsingh4645
    @aayushsingh4645 6 років тому

    My past mistakes seems to haunt me and I crave love and affection from where I know I don't have any.
    I would love some advice.

  • @jasmoneamirmanuyohannesswa4251
    @jasmoneamirmanuyohannesswa4251 6 років тому

    Love this channel you motivate me everyday I sneak my headphones on at work and listen 👂

  • @anantpro5028
    @anantpro5028 5 років тому

    Speechless...

  • @mubirukizito3783
    @mubirukizito3783 5 років тому

    New Life, thanks Alux.

  • @stefanstradowski9613
    @stefanstradowski9613 6 років тому +1

    To me life is about being lucky and its a skill

  • @whaterdsawesxcg
    @whaterdsawesxcg 6 років тому

    Beautiful... Simply beautiful

  • @NareshKumar-zk3jt
    @NareshKumar-zk3jt 6 років тому

    Very well narrated , this reminds me the circle of influence by Stephen Covey in his book 7 habits of highly effective people.....Thank you Alux.com it was wonderful indeed to know the things that are out of control and be aware of it to move on in life with out worrying ..

  • @aexiong1190
    @aexiong1190 6 років тому

    New life. Please do a video about other channels like this one?

  • @sodeepned9686
    @sodeepned9686 5 років тому +1

    You can’t control anything in life, because everything that occurs in this life is part of Gods plan, in other words, everything is written (destined to be).

  • @harshsinha16
    @harshsinha16 6 років тому

    Thank you Alux. You have been inspiring me ever since I started to watch your videos and images. Keep rocking up. Love all your videos and yes your female speaker who hosts the show is very positive and kind.Wish you all success..!

  • @anantpro5028
    @anantpro5028 5 років тому

    Proud to be aluxer... Thanks

  • @floslosser5147
    @floslosser5147 5 років тому

    Couldn't agree more about reliance on one's government. ✌

  • @panchamp3341
    @panchamp3341 6 років тому

    Who writes for all of the videos?
    How do we know whether it’s written by people who are experienced in life and not by young people?

  • @kurtstoever260
    @kurtstoever260 6 років тому

    Love this !!

  • @kylephoenix3686
    @kylephoenix3686 6 років тому +3

    Yayness! New Life.
    The only thing I disagree with is talent. The misnomer that talent is inbred, genetic is what keeps so many people from trying. Talent is hard work, it's mastery, it's deliberate practice, it's getting feedback and mentorship. Mozart had his father, who was a trained composer and took his children around Europe to play for years before they were teenagers, getting their "10,000 hours".
    John Coltrane sat in his room for years playing the trumpet and then got to be in bands with Miles Davis and Thelonius Monk who taught him further. I regularly, in writing, bust my ass, writing an average of 3-9 hours a day--books, essays, articles, blogs, Quora, handwriting, scripts, TV scripts, song lyrics---busting my ass. There is nothing mystical occurring to my being published, having published a hundred books, with 300 more to come, it's hard, deliberate work.
    It's not watching TV, not going to silly movies, forsaking empty relationships and instead making my work a priority as my life's creation with an eye towards the royalties being something to help my spouse, children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren because I believe and practice absolute Oprah ownership of my work.
    I'm also not a big proponent of the concept of luck, another wish on a star, pie in the sky fantasy like "Oh, I don't have talent at math so I'll never understand numbers boo hoo". Luck is when opportunity and preparation meet---but Luck is beaten to the door by Excellence every time.

  • @WealthbuilderzTV
    @WealthbuilderzTV 6 років тому

    A lot people need to write down #4 and understand it completely

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому

      That's where the video notes come into play: www.alux.com/cant-control-life/

  • @anastasiatempest2372
    @anastasiatempest2372 6 років тому +6

    I have been on the end of stolen identity. That has wrecked my life, had home stolen.

    • @alux
      @alux  6 років тому +1

      That's horrible. Are you ok now Anastasia?

    • @ojomukehinde9345
      @ojomukehinde9345 6 років тому

      New Life

  • @festusalbert7195
    @festusalbert7195 6 років тому

    New life
    I'm trying to live life, we All start dying the day we are born.. I figure out today that life is a choice we have to make..... We either die in pain, die regretting or die in fulfillment.

  • @petewilterson
    @petewilterson 6 років тому

    Good Morning... Thanks for adding to my fountain of knowledge and inspiration again :-)... I would like you to do a feature on "15 things that won't change in the future" ... Regards