He Won't Commit Because You Want Him To

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  • @SheRaSeven1
    @SheRaSeven1  Рік тому +32

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  • @Ariespath9
    @Ariespath9 Рік тому +465

    Men do the opposite of what you want them to do

  • @lovelysmith275
    @lovelysmith275 Рік тому +470

    Pam Anderson said in her new documentary tell a man “I will never marry you.” (In like a playful way) And a man will try to prove it within a few months lol

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 Рік тому +46

      reverse psychology but 17:51 shera says you have to add a little hope/chance

    • @lovelysmith275
      @lovelysmith275 Рік тому +53

      That’s why you have to say it in playful way, so he can question “is she serious?”

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns Рік тому

      ​@ABC why?

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 Рік тому +7

      @@mstwelvedeadlycyns because then he thinks there zero chance to try.

    • @ThingsILikke
      @ThingsILikke Рік тому +20

      I tried this and the guy freaked all the way out and got into a jealous rage. I suppose this tactic can get a guy to commit or expose his abusive nature.

  • @queensun6059
    @queensun6059 Рік тому +298

    👸if your ring 💍💎finger is naked, your body shouldn't be😌

    • @TEgypt13
      @TEgypt13 Рік тому +16

      You won the comment competitions 😂

    • @queensun6059
      @queensun6059 Рік тому +19

      @@TEgypt13 👸trophy accepted🏆! cuz only God knows how 🤔much keeping my legs closed has separated the grown-boys from the provider men🦸 faster than a locomotive 🚆& a speeding bullet 🔫😌.

    • @TEgypt13
      @TEgypt13 Рік тому +2

      @@queensun6059 ikdr

    • @k_r1809
      @k_r1809 5 місяців тому +2

      I like this. I will apply asap

    • @jenb1672
      @jenb1672 3 місяці тому +2

      Amen

  • @rbguerreiro2466
    @rbguerreiro2466 Рік тому +212

    "men like toxic women and get bored of the nice girls"
    this is so true. Most men I know, even friends, tell me they want good women, but when they have them they get bored. They all gravitate to the difficult, dramatic and disloyal women.
    This is why I have been out of the dating scene and refused all dating requests for an year now. I am considering dating this one guy who has been chasing me for a while and seems like a good catch, but I don't know if I can play all these games. The problem is, if I don't play the game, I get played. Maybe just me and my cats is good enough.

    • @lisa20244
      @lisa20244 11 місяців тому +15

      Feel you girl is exhausting

    • @aliatianna888
      @aliatianna888 10 місяців тому +9

      “Me and my cats” omg 😂😂😂😂

    • @Lizzys125
      @Lizzys125 7 місяців тому +4

      Update?? ❤️

  • @paulinagomez8983
    @paulinagomez8983 Рік тому +98

    “If a man is worrying about his woman cheating, he don’t make enough money.” ✨✨

  • @becuteforme
    @becuteforme Рік тому +241

    "I can buy myself flowers".... With his money, hahaha!

    • @goddesswildredspeaksTruth
      @goddesswildredspeaksTruth Рік тому

      I purchased with his money my roses once a month,,,,,. for my Office, Kitchen, Bathroom(s), Bedroom(s), Sitting room and SunRoom. Sprinkle Sprinkle

    • @hamidahbakali1017
      @hamidahbakali1017 Рік тому +8

      That's a good one 😂❤️

  • @Katt8793
    @Katt8793 Рік тому +281

    Listening to Shera is my daily reminder to level up. Sprinkle Sprinkle Ya'll

    • @icequeen5553
      @icequeen5553 Рік тому +5

      God she is so therapeutic I love her 😌 💕

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Рік тому +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @JadeHeartLove
    @JadeHeartLove Рік тому +167

    No one should ever be a Working Wife. That's utterly Ridiculous.

    • @TIAOFNEBULA
      @TIAOFNEBULA Рік тому +10

      This.

    • @rumooooni
      @rumooooni Рік тому +20

      So many stories of women working a job+ child care + house chores + medical stuff + school stuff...... and the dudes complaining she ain't earning enough to match him while he doesnt do a damn thing fucking crazy

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Рік тому +4

      ​@@rumooooni it is incredible

    • @law11school11girly
      @law11school11girly 11 місяців тому +3

      Utterly ridiculous indeed

    • @Fitmotivatechic
      @Fitmotivatechic 9 місяців тому +3

      @@rumoooonishe should’ve never started doing ALL that in the first place without being 100 % insatiably kept!!!!

  • @jaybae7315
    @jaybae7315 Рік тому +110

    Just commit to yourself and making a better life and your bag

  • @gratzia
    @gratzia Рік тому +150

    and feel free to compliment other men infront of him and give hugs to other guys in his presence. That usually works in getting the "what are we?" conversation.

    • @UnpredictableAri
      @UnpredictableAri Рік тому +8

      @@DiamondsRexpensive girl it’s a Sagg man right now I’m interested in and he’s confusing

    • @joyismine555
      @joyismine555 Рік тому +15

      Allow him to be interested in you otherwise he’s the prize

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Рік тому +7

      ​@@joyismine555 and he will act as a princess...

  • @Chunlialways
    @Chunlialways Рік тому +44

    If he loves you 100% he’ll provide 100%, if he wants 50/50 he only loves you 50%.

    • @lke4907
      @lke4907 10 місяців тому +4

      Yep 🎉

  • @Salmasayed1
    @Salmasayed1 Рік тому +73

    I have a simple question: Why would I even convince him to commit? If he doesn't want, onto the next or whatever.

  • @BrookieCookie317
    @BrookieCookie317 7 місяців тому +14

    This is so true. I'm attracted to very few men so I think they're interested in me partly because I don't care. I'm now the master of mind games when I sense this in men I like 😭

  • @nunyafawkingbiz
    @nunyafawkingbiz Рік тому +54

    Shera taught me years ago how to get the bag and I haven’t worked since 😂

  • @sarahm7842
    @sarahm7842 Рік тому +117

    25 age is so true, I snapped out of my ways with my long time dusty at this age

    • @BashaerB-h2c
      @BashaerB-h2c Рік тому +1

      SAME. It's the age a girl turns from a pickmeshia into a woman. That's why incels say 25 is the new "wall" cause they know women ain't dealing with no dusties after (unless pickmeshiaism is deeply programmed).

    • @azaria4447
      @azaria4447 Рік тому +4

      lol same 5 months dust free

    • @LoveWyns
      @LoveWyns Рік тому +3

      Same me too!!!!

    • @anonymousanonymous4868
      @anonymousanonymous4868 9 місяців тому +4

      26 for me it’s like something didn’t feel right and you just remember who you are

    • @glitzxglam
      @glitzxglam 6 місяців тому

      Girl, yess! I went through certain situations at 25 that by 26 I am a completely different woman! My outlook on things is so different than what they use to be

  • @shawnlove4502
    @shawnlove4502 Рік тому +51

    This video is really helpful. Ive realized where ive messed up in relationships. Ive jad a lack of a plan, boundaries anddddd i was too nice lol. Wheeewww, im glad i learned this lesson now im 32, my daughter is (15), i had no additional children, i have a lot of life ahead of me.

  • @Dijasrealmm
    @Dijasrealmm Рік тому +48

    Shera is our fairy Godmother ❤️❤️

  • @eleanor7242
    @eleanor7242 Рік тому +41

    You are way too nice and this is the problem 😂love it. They do not know what they like !

  • @GoddessLifestyleTV
    @GoddessLifestyleTV Рік тому +143

    Everything Shera says I used to be just like this when I was younger😂 I need to reactivate this type of energy again 😂

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 Рік тому

      same! the programming in mainstream media has society dumbed down and going against their nature, intuition and common sense.

    • @kathyalex778
      @kathyalex778 Рік тому +22

      Life is too short to not have standards and boundaries. Live for YOU

    • @anonymoustipster2777
      @anonymoustipster2777 11 місяців тому +2

      OMG! I’ve been saying the exact same thing!

  • @j-tenn226
    @j-tenn226 Рік тому +34

    I’m literally taking notes. This is gold.

  • @AahyiSam
    @AahyiSam Рік тому +38

    💡💡 moment. When did wife = doing chores, cleaning, cooking?
    Queens don’t cook. Does that make them less of wives? No-o.
    Shera Sis! This right here ❤
    Thanking you all the way from Tokyo!!

  • @tiffanypollan8859
    @tiffanypollan8859 Рік тому +51

    This video was my wake up call. Thank you Shera

  • @luwanevari7948
    @luwanevari7948 Рік тому +30

    You look gorgeous here Shera! 😍

  • @valeriealv7503
    @valeriealv7503 Рік тому +49

    My word if only i knew this 10 years ago now its a little late an I'm always in a rush they sense it ..

    • @oa8463
      @oa8463 Рік тому +35

      Its not a too late. My grandma was in her 70s when she got proposed to by two different men. One a lil older who can provide and another much younger dusty.
      Ppl are always in and out of relationships. You should look up the stats and articles about marriage and settling down. Men are still looking but women have been avoiding it more than ever before.

    • @blusherblush1212
      @blusherblush1212 Рік тому +25

      Guwrl your not too late ,look at beyonces mom ,she got a whole man later in life ,i always see storie of people finding love later in life ,get their healthy babies later in life. Get their big break out later in life .delete the words too late

    • @CWalthallBrand
      @CWalthallBrand Рік тому +19

      As long as you are ALIVE it is NEVER too late!!!

    • @lovelymayhem888
      @lovelymayhem888 Рік тому +22

      My grandmothers friend married a provider who spoils her. She’s 68, overweight and he’s healthy, generous and handsome.

    • @michoum115
      @michoum115 Рік тому +10

      Wow, that’s amazing! I hope God do the same for me.

  • @ummabdullah3548
    @ummabdullah3548 Рік тому +8

    Wisest woman. ❤

  • @z8829-c6t
    @z8829-c6t Рік тому +23

    I love listening to you.

  • @Thefreequincy
    @Thefreequincy Рік тому +12

    The amount of gems dropped can fill a castle 😂❤❤❤❤

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 Рік тому +32

    Act like you don’t want commitment. Talk about life without him/ take him out of the equation. Put the idea in his head
    24:34 men like toxic women

  • @anonymoustipster2777
    @anonymoustipster2777 11 місяців тому +7

    When I got engaged all my heaux went stupid! All of a sudden my Facebook newsfeed was full of baby pics, engagement pics, etc. When my engagement didn’t work out I was like “What happened?!” They all had the same answer “I thought you got married.” 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

    • @IfyzionTv
      @IfyzionTv 8 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @janessalegree8618
    @janessalegree8618 Рік тому +9

    I been watching you for a long time on and off but you always look younger ! ❤️

  • @beauty8018
    @beauty8018 Рік тому +19

    You have me cracking up over the pregnant stuff 🤣🤣I love your UA-cam channel ❤️

  • @ashleygreene8862
    @ashleygreene8862 Рік тому +11

    you are hilarious shera!😂

  • @PumaSimona
    @PumaSimona Рік тому +12

    Genius , needed this!!!

  • @ashajeremiahqw8775
    @ashajeremiahqw8775 Рік тому +26

    Ugh I hate how right you r 😊

  • @jaybae7315
    @jaybae7315 Рік тому +11

    Percy in everybody’s chat. 😂

  • @sammylee5474
    @sammylee5474 Рік тому +16

    re-watching the live and taking notes

  • @mimimi5140
    @mimimi5140 Рік тому +5

    Yup I learned this the hard way. Wish I saw this then 😭

  • @Yeshuamaiden144OOO
    @Yeshuamaiden144OOO Рік тому +25

    "Sprinkle (sprankle) everyone " 🥳 🎊 🎉 💎

  • @kayhashmi5486
    @kayhashmi5486 Рік тому +10

    I wish I had find you earlier! I was a pickmeishaa so my boyfriend for 5 years left me😢😢 and now I’m 25 and Im finding dusties. I need a provider man.!! Taking notes from you Guru❤😢

  • @VriEvolutionTarot888
    @VriEvolutionTarot888 Рік тому +34

    5:00 7:50 point 😂😫 13:00 17:00 😂 24:30 28:20 40:00 🤭 45:00

  • @NikkiSparkle
    @NikkiSparkle Рік тому +9

    Financial~abuse...Yes☺️💵Lawyer💫Shera 🌟SprinkleSprinkle🌠

  • @calmcalm6203
    @calmcalm6203 Рік тому +41

    Men who r awakening want a commited woman and it doesnt matter if u r clingy or needy, u actually wont be if he is the right man.
    Those unawakened men r running off metatronic reversels , god bless their souls.

  • @tatianagarcia7262
    @tatianagarcia7262 Рік тому +4

    Soo beautiful Sheera

  • @DianeLindenberger
    @DianeLindenberger 5 місяців тому +2

    Yes but this has been going on for 12 years.....I am going NO CONTACT and he is insulting as well....

  • @whyjustwhy2168
    @whyjustwhy2168 Рік тому +6

    I love listening for entertainment, the city I live in is probably. 005% of guys acting like this. Also I'll say I need some work so is my perspective is off. Learning some tweaks from where I'm at none the less 😃

  • @Fabii._
    @Fabii._ 11 місяців тому

    Happy Sunday!❤

  • @casia38
    @casia38 Рік тому +4

    Ooo we pregnant 😂

  • @BaeRomano
    @BaeRomano 4 місяці тому +3

    Is it ok to start sleeping separately from him? Because lowkey want my space while I start prioritizing myself

  • @neonblitzco.
    @neonblitzco. Рік тому +4

    Excellent

  • @LS-xu7cv
    @LS-xu7cv Рік тому +1

    Great advice !

  • @moniquechats5323
    @moniquechats5323 Рік тому +8

    Thank you

  • @26195
    @26195 Рік тому +1

    say you got on the wrong flight or missed it lmaoo

  • @sistarwande6213
    @sistarwande6213 Рік тому +12

    Shera ❤️

  • @megarichhh
    @megarichhh Рік тому +2

    I hit the 1,000th like
    Was getting inspired at 999 likes
    lol sprinkle sprinkle ✨

  • @datingdiaries1681
    @datingdiaries1681 Рік тому +30

    I keep telling older women have an oops baby and keep it moving ....lol

    • @lizcastaneda1047
      @lizcastaneda1047 4 місяці тому

      i don't agree with that one, but it can go well if they are married

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 4 місяці тому +1

      Babies r alot of hard work..

  • @pinkylove3085
    @pinkylove3085 Рік тому +6

    What if I really don’t want kids at all ? How do I go about this ?

    • @Valentino2vaild
      @Valentino2vaild Рік тому +1

      Then don’t have kids

    • @AMDIndianapolis
      @AMDIndianapolis 9 місяців тому +4

      Be extremely prudish in the beginning then use birth control and don't tell anyone.

  • @AL-eu8ro
    @AL-eu8ro Рік тому +2

    strong swimmers 😂

  • @heir2wellness122
    @heir2wellness122 Рік тому +7

    Hello

  • @ashajeremiahqw8775
    @ashajeremiahqw8775 Рік тому +16

    Dang I just said to him I want to be his wife and mother of his child I’m not in no girlfriend

    • @Thekingsdota
      @Thekingsdota Рік тому +26

      You can say that but don’t insert him
      It could be some other guy who fulfills

    • @ashajeremiahqw8775
      @ashajeremiahqw8775 Рік тому +1

      @@Thekingsdota you never know 🙏🏾

    • @Mishelinass
      @Mishelinass Рік тому +2

      What was his answer? Is he going to propose?

    • @ashajeremiahqw8775
      @ashajeremiahqw8775 Рік тому

      @@Mishelinass he has no choice lol

    • @eridanijay4886
      @eridanijay4886 Рік тому +20

      I wouldn't keep saying this to him, it will come off as begging (which it kind of is if you keep on). Also, you say "he doesn't have a choice"... um? You can't force a man to want you. If he hasn't proposed or brought up marriage, you shouldn't be zoning in this hard when he hasn't committed. You're devaluing yourself and this repels men when it comes to commitment.

  • @freyaskadi4673
    @freyaskadi4673 Рік тому +26

    You don’t age how is this happening ?

    • @swiitdoll
      @swiitdoll Рік тому +31

      Lack of stress, good sleep and cosmetic procedures

    • @goddesswildredspeaksTruth
      @goddesswildredspeaksTruth Рік тому +24

      I believe soft lifestyle & DustyFREE,,, I have no idea why folks always say: surgery, Goddesses are in tune with self love & magick.

    • @RecklessInspirer
      @RecklessInspirer Рік тому +12

      Melanin

    • @eridanijay4886
      @eridanijay4886 Рік тому +15

      Little stress is so underrated. Ik a pick me who was 28 looking haggard AF because she was taking care of an abusive dusty (plus a child). It was a mixture of not having time for self and being in a violent, toxic relationship, paying all the bills. She dropped him and is looking better, but he def. drained her and changed her forever.
      Protect your mind, body, and spirt. Even though that was an extreme case, this happens to most mothers who are struggling and dealing with bum men.

    • @goddesswildredspeaksTruth
      @goddesswildredspeaksTruth Рік тому +2

      @@eridanijay4886 so true & sad.

  • @SophieW-li6oy
    @SophieW-li6oy 4 місяці тому +1

    Part of having him go plain crazy and unlocking his primal impulses is a result of speaking out just the right words. Yes, where to begin? Celestine Dessike's latest (go'ogle her) takes you by the hand if you really want to cut out all the guesswork and get him going!

  • @lizcastaneda1047
    @lizcastaneda1047 4 місяці тому

    42:15 😂

  • @juicyy3951
    @juicyy3951 Рік тому +5

    ❤❤❤

  • @samxsara
    @samxsara Рік тому +1

    I'm 45, what age should the man be? ;)

    • @ayanahanime
      @ayanahanime Рік тому +9

      60

    • @lke4907
      @lke4907 10 місяців тому +2

      37-40

    • @AMDIndianapolis
      @AMDIndianapolis 9 місяців тому +1

      60-80

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 4 місяці тому

      If you R listening to the 60 or 60 to 80..u R dumb as dirt..

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 4 місяці тому

      If u listen to 60 to 80 then you're crazy!

  • @britlove892
    @britlove892 2 місяці тому

    Lmao

  • @goddessglow6996
    @goddessglow6996 Рік тому

    👏

  • @lc-il6wr
    @lc-il6wr 4 місяці тому +1

    Yall r cheap when it comes to presents. The dollar tree..etc come on..

  • @Jra225
    @Jra225 Рік тому +2

    Men should not to commit to any woman with this mindset. We are over this BS. Lol. Good luck Queens

    • @im26c4u5
      @im26c4u5 Рік тому +1

      You're a man, you should know what you say is a lie.

    • @iamme8947
      @iamme8947 Рік тому +33

      You aren't a target don't worry 😂

    • @iamme8947
      @iamme8947 Рік тому +17

      You aren't a target don't worry 😂

    • @honey-gs9lh
      @honey-gs9lh Рік тому +16

      Dusty 🚨

  • @ptgsdr589
    @ptgsdr589 Рік тому +22

    Although I agree with the principle behind it, though I think in certain situations, you have an advantage if you are upfront and direct early on before the person even gets a foot in the door of your life.

    • @Thekingsdota
      @Thekingsdota Рік тому +15

      Yes adjust temperature according
      Shera wisdom is fluid and one has to be smart as they apply
      I told my current on day 1 I want to be a wife and mom and now he is making plans for us to buy a house and make babies in his words lol

    • @ptgsdr589
      @ptgsdr589 Рік тому +6

      @@Thekingsdota That sounds wow for you! nice.
      I only 'boil the pot slowly' like Shera suggests, once the person has already met a substantial amount of requirement to even be admitted. Before that, I am direct as possible because if the person approached me, they were approaching me to find at my cost for initial admission into my life, that is accually the time you are most likely to get what you want out of a man than after he has already been admitted, so why be shy? After he is getting tired of you is when you apply the advice in this video but I don't even let it drag on that long in the first place.

    • @Thekingsdota
      @Thekingsdota Рік тому +1

      @@ptgsdr589 exactly
      The correct target matters too
      I will say it’s been after 3 years of watching Shera religiously to get a new mental state and over haul that things things started happening

  • @RachelI-b9v
    @RachelI-b9v 3 місяці тому +1

    Part of having him go plain crazy and unlocking his primal impulses is a result of speaking out just the right words. Yes, where to begin? Celestine Dessike's latest (go'ogle her) takes you by the hand if you really want to cut out all the guesswork and get him going!