i love your pep talks so much, just gone thru a break up and honestly your videos are very true to words like those stages u said, i really went with it and im on my way to making myself better and right now im listening to this at 6am cooking breakfast for school and i love my routine
I haven’t found many YT’s that really appreciate for their self care talks. I love how giving and real you are. It truly helps me affirm my current practices as healthy for me and learn to be a better human ❤
what a great note to start my day on🤩i have been struggling with keeping friends as i feel they never see my vision or want to grow and they tend to take advantage of my kindness. i have been thinking alot about the difference between kindness & niceness. being nice is clown behavior - it’s all about pleasing others and we are so let down if we don’t see reciprocation. kindness comes from the heart and doesn’t seek validation. lately i’ve been questioning what my intentions are with my actions and if it stems from needing validation i set a boundary and then give myself some self-care & journal my thoughts. you are such a light :) ty for sharing your heart🙏🏼💚✨
Perfect timing! I'm currently doing an internship and I have a coworker who continuously gets on my nerves and makes nasty comments and cover them as being 'jokes.' I tried speaking to her about it yet everyday is the same thing. I'm really trying to be less reactive and not let her disrupt my peace of mind.❤
This just put some things into a perspective for me . And you are 💯 percent correct, sometimes the easiest and hardest thing to do is walk away . Choose peace and self care.
Lummaaa this title had me screaming 😂😂 also ur hair is sooooo beautiful 😍😍😍😍! Keep doing your thang Lumma, you always inspire and encourage me. Thank you for all you do!!!
Saw a video on tik tok it caught my attention I love how you speak so profound about things such a positive mindset and it’s helpful twards others including me . By this video you made me feel better about things so thank you ❤
I just saw a video in TikTok with you about «welcome to life» so I decided to find you in social media, and now I’m your biggest fan 🥹 I hope that a write this without any mistakes cuz I’m not good at English, it’s like 50/50 😭
Love this pep talk😂😂love all of ur pep talks tho, they always make me feel better and give me more energy to keep healing myself :) also if u see this, an idea for a pep talk, how do you know what’s intuition and whats overthinking/anxiety?
Thank you so much for your advice it really helps a lot and I love your videos and you always look very pretty 🌷😊 Could you do a video about friends switching up? Like when everything seems to be going okay and then they all of a sudden give you weird vibes and overcoming situations like that. Please ❤️
Hi lumma, I love ur videos, and I ben watching for over a year now. I would love to give you this feedback. As many people watching you I think you should be more specific when you talk about relationships because in a relationship, we have to be more understanding. Also, we have to look at ourselves before we judged our partner. I also think we should be grateful for the position we are in.
Hey lumma, hope you’re having a good day. Subscribing to your channel and watching your videos have been the best decision i’ve ever made. Thank you so much.❤
How should I treat people who disrespect me ? I'm a woman and I have some male ,,friends" that always try to make fun of me. Should I distance myself from them? But then I'll never learn how to deal with them.
i was feeling the absolute worst for 24 hours. i did a shitty thingy n finally got what i deserved but not in the best way it couldve gone. ik it doesnt make sense but it was a huge mess. i felt so unloved and a terrible person. Anyways, i saw a clip of ur pep talk on tiktok and came on here to watch a few videos. i finally worked out which ive been trying to motivate myself to do for so long and i listened to this at the same time. now i feel like an actual human being. i will definitely be rewatching this. u made me realize all i can do is learn from this n control my reaction and how it affects me. i cant control what others do but i can chose to let it not bother me. in the end it was flr the better and those people werent good in my life. now i can move on. u made me realize everyone has bad patches in their life even the ppl i look up to but things always can get better even if they get worse before.
Hi Lumma! I recently got broken up with (it was a one sided break up, just like your situation, i also commented my story briefly in the comment section of your breakup video) Today, it has been a little over a month and obviously it still hurts.. and i'm trying to get better but the first weeks i didnt even act like a human. Everything i worked towards, studying a new language for him because the plan was to move to his country (germany) obviously that's not happening now because he broke up with me so suddenly.. I'm at a place now where i have no idea what i want to do.. and sometimes i'm even shy to admit that i want to make new friends and be more interactive on social media... but i feel like im scared to do it because what if my own town sees it and makes fun of me.. and then i just want to earn money maybe doing a vlogging channel and just be self sufficiant in a way where i dont have to work in an office here 8-17:00 every day and come home exhausted.. I'm basically trying to figure out what im suppose to look forward to right now. Past year the things i looked forward to was moving to germany, i sold my apartment even for him to move there... i studied german in the university and 1 month ago he broke up with me in the middle of all of this? He was my motivation and i know that i shouldnt say that but he really was, you know? I believed in our relationship and everything for once was going well for me.. i was happy in life... but now im completely broken and i guess what i'm trying to say is i think i want to do something i've always been scared of doing. Being on social media or making youtube videos looks very vulnurable because you really put yourself out there and i adore and look so much up to you Lumma because you've come so far! I'm glad to see you are in a great place in life right now. I am in the early stage of my break up and so yeah i don't really feel so good anymore about anything. I've watched you videos because it's like watching my friend PEP talk to me.. wish i could've been closer to spend time together with an amazing friend like you IRL! Anyway, i love you Lumma and thanks for sharing your thoughs with us!
Hi lumma❤️ i’ve been meaning to reach out to you, i am stuck in a situation and id know what to do. I met this guy in college we dated for 2M and then he told me how we can never have a future tog/ long term relationship because his family wont allow… we are in the same class(uni) i am struggling to move on PLS HELP
"break up with your boyfriend if you can't stop thinking about being single" oml thats literally so me rn🥹🥹
Girl your hair!!! YOU LOOK TOO GOOD TODAY
i love your pep talks so much, just gone thru a break up and honestly your videos are very true to words like those stages u said, i really went with it and im on my way to making myself better and right now im listening to this at 6am cooking breakfast for school and i love my routine
I haven’t found many YT’s that really appreciate for their self care talks. I love how giving and real you are. It truly helps me affirm my current practices as healthy for me and learn to be a better human ❤
HAHAHAH felt so called out on not asking for my coffee to be remade because I literally dislike confrontation 😭
I see Malingsia use bakuteh for eid adha
Same I hate confrontation but I need to start being able to because people be talking shit
what a great note to start my day on🤩i have been struggling with keeping friends as i feel they never see my vision or want to grow and they tend to take advantage of my kindness. i have been thinking alot about the difference between kindness & niceness. being nice is clown behavior - it’s all about pleasing others and we are so let down if we don’t see reciprocation. kindness comes from the heart and doesn’t seek validation. lately i’ve been questioning what my intentions are with my actions and if it stems from needing validation i set a boundary and then give myself some self-care & journal my thoughts.
you are such a light :) ty for sharing your heart🙏🏼💚✨
Both physical and mind is so pretty, love u, Lumma! 💕
You've helped me so much with my glow up, thank you Lumma!
Sis you are saving lives . I personally love you and please don’t ever stop making videos.
Perfect timing! I'm currently doing an internship and I have a coworker who continuously gets on my nerves and makes nasty comments and cover them as being 'jokes.' I tried speaking to her about it yet everyday is the same thing. I'm really trying to be less reactive and not let her disrupt my peace of mind.❤
U’ve got it! Sometimes being civil isn’t an option and straight up just not talking to them outside of work related things is the way to go!
@@nina.bum24 100% agree
This just put some things into a perspective for me . And you are 💯 percent correct, sometimes the easiest and hardest thing to do is walk away . Choose peace and self care.
true, doing this since yesterday and i know that is the best but hard af also
Thank you!! this resonated with me as I just quit a job a couple weeks ago. More love from ny!❤♥️❤️
Love your peptalks constantly watching after my breakup u r heeling a part of me thank u so much ily lummaa ! ❤❤
lumma is one of the most gorgeous person i have ever seen in my entire life...💕
your pep talks actually help me through my breakup and now on my healing phase, thank you lumma glad i found you
can i request a video about how to actually loving the 'single era'
I have learned a lot from your videos, thank you for sharing your stories. 3 months heartbreak, documented is an inspiring story.❤
every time i feel bad or think in a negative way i watch her, thank you for your videos💗
Your voice is sooo healing I swearrr 🥺❤️
Lummaaa this title had me screaming 😂😂 also ur hair is sooooo beautiful 😍😍😍😍! Keep doing your thang Lumma, you always inspire and encourage me. Thank you for all you do!!!
Same here 😂
You’re the go to for advice because it always delivers! Delicious content. Ponder worthy
Saw a video on tik tok it caught my attention I love how you speak so profound about things such a positive mindset and it’s helpful twards others including me . By this video you made me feel better about things so thank you ❤
We need more videos like this. I really needed this today!! Thank you!!
thank you Lumma 💞💞 no clown behavior here anymore 🙅♀️
A year ago i listened to one of ur peptalk videos n i started my self love journey from there. Thnks alot.
I just saw a video in TikTok with you about «welcome to life» so I decided to find you in social media, and now I’m your biggest fan 🥹 I hope that a write this without any mistakes cuz I’m not good at English, it’s like 50/50 😭
Girl, u looks gorgeous!✨
Honeslty, hun, this video in on top of your best ones. Loved it!!!!❤
Lumma you have given me a new perspective
we need a makeup routine video!😍
you literally changed my whole mindset
Love this pep talk😂😂love all of ur pep talks tho, they always make me feel better and give me more energy to keep healing myself :) also if u see this, an idea for a pep talk, how do you know what’s intuition and whats overthinking/anxiety?
Thank you lumma you changed my life😭💖
Thanx for changing people's life to good toward
thanku for existing. ur amazing
Your hair looks beautiful!
I love this video. Thank you for the wakeup call I desperately needed. 😭🍉
Thank you so much for your advice it really helps a lot and I love your videos and you always look very pretty 🌷😊 Could you do a video about friends switching up? Like when everything seems to be going okay and then they all of a sudden give you weird vibes and overcoming situations like that. Please ❤️
lumma please put your podcast on Apple Podcasts pleaseeee😭
I LOVE YOU LUMMA
❤thank you ever since I started watching your videos it’s really changed my attitude towards everything ❤️🤭I appreciate you soo much !!!
you're so pretty on this high resolution vdo!!! love you and thank you girl you ATE
Queennn I aspire to be like you ❤ and your hair looks amazing I’m obsessed
Omg, I needed this pep talk today, Thank you! 🥰
I love this set up!!
You don’t know how much this helped ❤️
literally the best reaction is no reaction!!
so needed this watching rn🤍
Life changing
Your hair looks amazing like this
I love your videos Lumma!🥰🌷
you inspire me so much 🥹
Love this ❤all the way from Botswana 🇧🇼
Hii Lumma, great advice. Do you mind making a video on how to be emotionally intelligent please❣
Hi lumma,
I love ur videos, and I ben watching for over a year now. I would love to give you this feedback. As many people watching you I think you should be more specific when you talk about relationships because in a relationship, we have to be more understanding. Also, we have to look at ourselves before we judged our partner. I also think we should be grateful for the position we are in.
Begin each day as if it were on purpose.
can you make an episode about how to start working out, eat healthy because its so damn hard to start and be consistent 😂
love this!!🤩
Your videos are always helpful to make me a strong bad b!tch❤️!!!
thank you lumma
Pleeeease share your current makeup routine!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Your hair looks so pretty
this is amazing!!
Dang bae don’t call me that 😭
Help😭 nah cause she literally made me release that im a big clown fr🤡🖐️
@@Luna11756 how?? lol
Luv u lumma
U mean alot to me
keep going and take care of urself 🤍🖤
Hey lumma, hope you’re having a good day. Subscribing to your channel and watching your videos have been the best decision i’ve ever made. Thank you so much.❤
Thank you Lumma💜💜
OMG THE WAY MY FILIPINO ASS GOT EXCITED WHEN YOU SAID YOUR MOTHER IS FILIPINA AAAAAH
How should I treat people who disrespect me ? I'm a woman and I have some male ,,friends" that always try to make fun of me. Should I distance myself from them?
But then I'll never learn how to deal with them.
I loveeee the background ❤
I’ve watched plenty of pep talks but none of them was as good and effective as yours. (Kinda feel like i am on a video call with you)👽
I saw the title nd new Wizard Liz would be mentioned 😂❤
you are so beautiful and inspirational
i was feeling the absolute worst for 24 hours. i did a shitty thingy n finally got what i deserved but not in the best way it couldve gone. ik it doesnt make sense but it was a huge mess. i felt so unloved and a terrible person. Anyways, i saw a clip of ur pep talk on tiktok and came on here to watch a few videos. i finally worked out which ive been trying to motivate myself to do for so long and i listened to this at the same time. now i feel like an actual human being. i will definitely be rewatching this. u made me realize all i can do is learn from this n control my reaction and how it affects me. i cant control what others do but i can chose to let it not bother me. in the end it was flr the better and those people werent good in my life. now i can move on. u made me realize everyone has bad patches in their life even the ppl i look up to but things always can get better even if they get worse before.
I want to do a podcast one day🙌🏼🤍 you’re so pretty btw!!
Hi Lumma!
I recently got broken up with (it was a one sided break up, just like your situation, i also commented my story briefly in the comment section of your breakup video)
Today, it has been a little over a month and obviously it still hurts.. and i'm trying to get better but the first weeks i didnt even act like a human. Everything i worked towards, studying a new language for him because the plan was to move to his country (germany) obviously that's not happening now because he broke up with me so suddenly..
I'm at a place now where i have no idea what i want to do.. and sometimes i'm even shy to admit that i want to make new friends and be more interactive on social media... but i feel like im scared to do it because what if my own town sees it and makes fun of me.. and then i just want to earn money maybe doing a vlogging channel and just be self sufficiant in a way where i dont have to work in an office here 8-17:00 every day and come home exhausted..
I'm basically trying to figure out what im suppose to look forward to right now. Past year the things i looked forward to was moving to germany, i sold my apartment even for him to move there... i studied german in the university and 1 month ago he broke up with me in the middle of all of this? He was my motivation and i know that i shouldnt say that but he really was, you know? I believed in our relationship and everything for once was going well for me.. i was happy in life... but now im completely broken and i guess what i'm trying to say is i think i want to do something i've always been scared of doing. Being on social media or making youtube videos looks very vulnurable because you really put yourself out there and i adore and look so much up to you Lumma because you've come so far!
I'm glad to see you are in a great place in life right now. I am in the early stage of my break up and so yeah i don't really feel so good anymore about anything. I've watched you videos because it's like watching my friend PEP talk to me.. wish i could've been closer to spend time together with an amazing friend like you IRL!
Anyway, i love you Lumma and thanks for sharing your thoughs with us!
Sad but i am still a 🤡 but I'm getting better everyday😂 enough is enough. No more people pleasing 💪💪💪
Lumma can you make video on how to mentally ,physically and emotionally glowup
my situationship said he wasn't ready to commit then 9 months later he committed to another girl WOOOPS I FEEL LIKE A WHOLE CLOWN NOW
I love Your videos❤❤❤
I truly love you so much ❤😊
i cried
cause i had many moments of realsation, ty Lumma
Angel❤
Hahaha 😂 welcome to the circus 😂❤ lol 11:47
Not this comment popping up exactly in that moment, talk about subtitles 😂
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Wowwwww
Thank you Lumma 🥹🥺 I needed this. You have so much wisdom and I’m so glad I found you 🥹
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i love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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Where’s this top from? 😅
Hi lumma❤️ i’ve been meaning to reach out to you, i am stuck in a situation and id know what to do. I met this guy in college we dated for 2M and then he told me how we can never have a future tog/ long term relationship because his family wont allow… we are in the same class(uni) i am struggling to move on PLS HELP
If possible plz add eng sub title ☺️
Babe why are you charging us for advice now ??
You're so pretty and gorgeous
You are so gorgeous ❤😊
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Camera name??