I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone in the manosphere ever mention chemistry or romance before. They’ll always talk about getting jacked and getting paid, but when it comes to emotional intelligence, it’s radio silence. This walking the neighborhood video was way more insightful than I was anticipating. That’s a good thing because men who are looking for guidance really need to hear from someone that they respect that becoming a jacked stoic workaholic millionaire isn’t the pathway to happiness that many of the manosphere guru’s want you to think it is.
@@bruhbruhh5103 and I implore you to talk to a woman who doesn’t have the same last name as you without stuttering do to the overwhelming anxiety that she might tell you to get lost for being a total creep.🫢🤣
The issue with dating a career woman is that the more they climb, the less feminine they become. Have more masculine traits and less likely to want kids.
I'm not going to become less feminine teaching online Ph.D. courses with my Ph.D. You actually don't know what you're talking about and putting women in boxes. There are feminine doctors, lawyers, teachers, dentists, literally everywhere there are feminine women in the workforce Read Proverbs 31 in the Bible. She made money and she was the epitome of femininity.
Dude, if you are on your own masculine energy, only if the chick has some deep seated mental issues, would actually not turn feminine around you. You make your woman. Keep that in mind. If the men is some limp dick that has no vigour, its always depressed and sad and doesnt strive for anything, ofc the woman would have to step up so she can asure her survival. Hell, she might even try to help the guy out of his misery until the point she realizes that there is no hope for him. Doesnt matter how masculine the chick is, if she finds that dude that can make her feel all tingly and gigly, turn her to that happy teenager girl, make her feel feminine, she will want all that stuff.
LFA, this video couldn't have uploaded at a better time. Im currently going through this experience and vetting the situation to really understand why such a highly educated woman would find an average worker bee like me attractive as relationship material. I've come to realize that many of these well-educated college individuals, whether it be male or female, have emotional deprivation because of the linear way of thinking that is brainwashed through the traditional narcissistic education system. Narcissism is common at the top. A strong emotional connection is usually what these individuals are missing in their lives to be fulfilled, and because they are very book smart, it's hard for them to navigate relationships. Listening, showing emotion, sharing experiences, and empathizing with this type of woman showed me that what they crave is a partner with a street smart mindset, which is essentially the opposite of the book smart mindset. Thus resulting in a healthy balance in the relationship emotionally in the long run. Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another. Godbless you all my brothers and sisters
When I was 20yrs old I was working p/t at a supermarket and I met and started a relationship with a 22yr old college grad who was working as a biologist at JOHNS HOPKINS! She broke up with her fiancé to date me! She even bought me first legal drink (before that she'd by my beer for me lol) She treated me very well. The relationship ended because I broke up with her. If an educated/career woman is with a less educated man , but he is curious to learn things and can hold an intelligent conversation with her that can go a long way in the relationship. God bless you, bro!
Spot on! I've been dating a woman who is at the top of her field in accounting, has her own successful businesses, makes probably x5 what I make - yet she gives me her time and attention because she likes / loves me. Thanks LFA, you always talk about real life things. The key is to have a growth mindset for yourself, think for yourself and act your positive will out in this world, and then the right woman will come along and notice your energy. And when it matches with hers, then kindle that fire.
I saw your video a couple weeks ago about why you'll never have another one-night stand. It showed up in my feed for some reason. I loved it! It's great what you're doing for other men on your channel. I appreciate you even though I'm female 😊
@@Terra_inthe406 thank you! Glad I’m showing up around here haha. My content definitely always has an important message that women can find helpful as well.
hey lfa. I only want you to know that i'm from Spain and i think that i have been following you since 5 years ago or so. You have been a role model for me. My favorite videos are the ones about retention. Greetings.
The divorce rates for couples where the woman earns more is substantially higher. Chemistry and romance are important but an "average guy" dating a woman with a PhD is too big of a gap to likely be successful long term.
@@LFA True, but have to ask who most of these PhD women are marrying. Most likely men in their same league or higher. For this guy, if she's willing to commit, it could be a good sign. However, I would remain skeptical
I’m well over 50 this is the most truthful red pill video I’ve ever seen, and it’s been trough my personal experiences that tell me this, the ONLY downside to a career woman is IF she doesn’t take the boss hat off when she gets home I’ve had some that could and a wife that couldn’t so ( I ) divorced her, because I refused to be emasculated, but I’ve met boss women that have swallowed, so you just have to figure it out and each woman is different, stop listening to negative content like Rich Cooper ,
I just had an LTR with a woman that had a PhD. It was not a mismatch. Now I have a bachelor's and make over 100k. She didn't make much more than me. We had similar lifestyles and it worked out for 3 years. She was generally pleasant to be around most of the time. Do not let her degree discourage you.
God told him I'm his wife so I disagree. All the women choosing him are bad for him and gave him PTSD. I'm saying yes to GOD's choice of me for him, not choosing him.
@@LFA Right,... unless of course you are THE Top performer at work, the other males are just average coworkers. Not that I wanna talk myself down, but that's the way it is....
I was taught based on what I saw and in Christianity that men should provide and women should stay home and take care of the house and kids and if she does work it should only be to help out, not to be the main breadwinner. That's how it was with my parents. But then after my sister and I were adults, my dad left my mom because of money. He felt she spent too much of his money to spite him. He lives with his girlfriend who has her own money and she even took a line of credit out on her home to buy him a truck. I think having an income makes us better help mates financially if/when God does give us husbands. (YES the Proverbs 31 woman did make money!). Everything is so unbelievably expensive now, even food prices keep going up. A couple needs all the income they can get in this current time we're living in! I agree with you that if she has a PhD and he has less education that is not necessarily a mismatch. It's how they feel about each other, they love each other, and they feel matched as people in the ways that matter TO THEM. I really agree with this message, especially since I'm working on a PhD and I love someone very much with no higher education. I don't care about his education level at all. I care about HIM and who he is. I don't give 2 sh^ts about his education. He's mad talented and I support him in the pursuit of his talent. We're matched up by God and we both know it. That's what matters to us. And while he gets established in his career God has called me to help him so that's what I'm doing. Great message LFA!
The proverbs 31 woman made money within the family context. she didn’t make money for some other man / corporate figurehead. The proverbs 31 women is not a feminist like a lot want to make her out to be.
@@JAKEBrakeModel94 I see your point. Back then every home had workers who lived there too. That's mostly all there was Lol Anyway I work from home so it's all good. I don't work for a secular corporation either.
This guy seem to be one of the few on the internet that actually makes sense and takes and enjoys life for what it is. Not some donwer discouraging bullshit that some of those black pilled and red pilled quiters throw around. Keep in mind most of those guys dont get any PP. Thats why they are so salty most of the time.I literally listen to this dude for fun and enjoyment at this point. Also is much more enjoyable to have around you, individuals of the same caliber, whom you can actually plan something or share similar ideas. Why wouldnt you want your closest person to be the same?
Intelligence is not the best property of a leader. Wisdom is... Ofcorse there is going to be exceptions to the rule, but in general Men are natural born leaders. Our grandfathers didn't go to war so today we can adapt to women and become less of what we are. I am not for playing games even though every man should know game. Men should step up and prove what they are made of. No one can convince me that an ambulance(WOMEN) is a better race car than a race car (MEN). I am for dating any kind of women as long as there is mutual respect and acknowledgement of the Men's role of a leader. If you want to advise men to embrace their femininity or weakness go ahead. We will stay and fight to the end...
PHD is actually not that impressive. It’s actually for ppl who can’t find a high paying career outside of school. So they decided to go back to school cuz it’s easy. Don’t be intimidated by a PHD
I'm getting mine so I can teach at the Phd level ~ that's it. Writing a dissertation is grueling. it's definitely not easy. But you're right there's no reason to be intimated by it. Many geniuses don't go to college and make more money than those who do. Even non-geniuses. To each their own!
@@Terra_inthe406 There's Phds in all kinds of shit including gender/womans'/racial studies. One of the last classes I took to get my Bachelor's was something in the "studies" fields, you know, the holy trinity of bullshit? On account that my advisor placed me in it without knowing what it was & the professor was some off the wall lunatic lady with a Phd.
@@shechshire Lol I see what you're saying. I'm working on a Ph.D. in Interdisciplinary Studies but my school is a conservative, not-for-profit, private University affiliated with the Churches of Christ (very conservative). I won't attend a secular University because I don't want to be taught things contrary to my beliefs!
@@Terra_inthe406 That's good if you plan on becoming a university teacher or head of the department but unfortunately it won't mean much outside of the university.
If she's gone to college and has a master's degree or PhD THAT is an automatic disqualifier for a relationship. If you don't think so, roll the dice and take your chances. I'll bet all I own and all I can gather she'll leave you within 7 years. Why? Because she thinks she's better than you and can do better. She'll end up dying alone, but that's not the point.
@@LFA It takes commitment, dedication and persistence to write a dissertation for the Ph.D. Doctoral attrition rates are high in North America: an estimated 40% to 50% of candidates never finish.
What is this guy talking about? No guy whos a 7 figure earner is ever gonna even consider a girl with a phd. Girls w phd's date men they have to support, bc they can't get the attention of valuable men... Thats why women have to earn money to support themselves in the first place. Bc they can't get the attention of men who can do it for them.
I know you think you’re disagreeing with me. But you proved my point. The subscriber who paid for the video request is an average man wondering if he has a chance with a woman who has a phd. And you agreed. That yes, women with phd’s will happily get with average men.
Women are supposed to be helpmates to men, even if it means financially. The guy I love is a public figure on UA-cam that other women want, he is high value he just needs help, but these other women can't get him because they aren't matched to him spiritually.
Its practical for women to earn nowadays, been a trad but hard to swallow the present reality i.e. inflation and expensive lifestyle, to meet those needs I cant let my gal to simply sit at home and completely rely on me (atleast not for now, its harsh for me to accept but thats what it is for now)
and with that I gotta accept the fact that she cant be "my gal" forever those love story fantasies aint healthy, m already desensitised to the fact that she's mine for now and thats my turn but if she finds a man she can completely rely upon to get everything she wants before I become that man then gotta let her go and move on
Most guys don’t know that love exist because they haven’t experienced it. We still live in an extremely materialistic world and women are told to hate us. They might just f-- u cause ur hot
For, me, there's a difference between a career woman and a woman who just wants to work. I prefer the latter over a woman who just wants to stay at home all the time. A woman that stays home 24/7 is up to trouble. A woman who's personality is reflected in her work (social worker, physiotherapist, elementary school teacher etc) is attractive. A woman who is obsessed with her career like a lawyer is unattractive.
Call me crazy but I think what matters most is love. It shouldn't be about people have to be the same with education and make the same amount of money. What happened to love? Seriously?
@@Terra_inthe406 I'm not denying the validity of your initial comment. Merely stating not everyone here holds the PUA/purple pill opinion or that of the women who may/may not affirm it. If some men here are having trouble with women or, as you alluded to, "even if they don't want to be single", maybe they come here to educate themselves or have discussions/seek advice. I've been MGTOW for over seven yrs, never been in a relation-shit, and I still keep the one thing society can't take from me by force or through lack of options. My virginity. Yet, I still watch this content and others like it to educate myself on the varying perspectives and angles, and other guys on here probably do the same. Nothing wrong with that. No need to shit on men who'll be single forever, even if they want to be.
@18:55 I don't think they're complaining, I think they're just trying to help average guys out who don't have the convenience of being born tall & good looking. No shit, it's very easy for girls to "want to be with you" you don't actually have to do shit or know what you're doing. Being authoritative & domineering aren't attractive qualities in a woman but live & let live I guess.
@@LFA What makes you say that & how do you know for a fact? Actually, I think they also help guys that aren't average either. You can be tall & good-looking & still be whooped.
@@shechshire You're right! My guy is ironically 6'4", good-looking, and before me, his heart was ripped to shreds by a female covert narcissist. And before that, he was used by women for his looks, they didn't care about him.
@@Terra_inthe406 "being used" & "being whopped" are two different things. Two people can be together solely on physical attraction but I wouldn't go as far as to say they're being used.
@@donttreadonmetal5073 you can accept this as a fact. As a horribly pessimistic person, I refuse to continue viewing things this way. Even trying to change my perspective has affected positively my mood. And no, I am not being naive, and I have never been an "ignorant but blissful" person, my mind's complexity won't let me be one. And just so you know, trying to "sound sigma" by saying stuff like that won't help you or anyone around you. Have a good day sir.
@@georgeth4421 "As a horribly pessimistic person." Sounds like that's your nature. Assign whatever "terms" you must to my worldview, but wanting to pretend everything is just fucking dandy runs counter to what you admitted to being, and rationalizing those two opposing things becomes impossible. I'm horribly pessimistic as well so I understand. I too have wished things could be better for me, but I ultimately concluded that all of us, irrespective of how our lives went or what we did/didn't do in them, will arrive at the same station. Death.
@@donttreadonmetal5073 I think nihilism is an unavoidable, yet not unbreakable roadblock we encounter in life. For example, when people come to understand realities of this physical world, such as how rampant corruption is, we become overwhelmed and depressed at the impossibility of beating it. The important thing is to find ways to be happy, rather than sit in a pathetic, nihilistic state of weak self-defeat. Plenty of people these days, yourself included I suppose, say things like, "I've lost faith in humanity", as if they're self-aware. In reality, they've lost the will to be better and are excusing themselves from making effort to improve. So, friend I ask you this: Could you be acting like the aforementioned group of people?
@@georgeth4421 I lost the will to do a lot of things a long time ago. I live a simple uncrowded life with minimal obligations. I'm playing the game of life to finish, not to win. I am overwhelmingly unqualified for anything else due to not having the prerequisites to even begin, so I don't bother. It is what it is. All this "improvement" jargon being peddled today isn't for me. Like I said, no matter what you do in this life, at the end no one will care. I'm not making excuses for not improving myself, but at the same time, I simply see no reason to do so. I'd still be the same introverted metalhead Star Wars nerd.
Hell Nah ID rather date a woman over seas with traditional values and she not work and I take care of everything vs dating a doctor in the states Hell to the Nah
I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone in the manosphere ever mention chemistry or romance before. They’ll always talk about getting jacked and getting paid, but when it comes to emotional intelligence, it’s radio silence.
This walking the neighborhood video was way more insightful than I was anticipating. That’s a good thing because men who are looking for guidance really need to hear from someone that they respect that becoming a jacked stoic workaholic millionaire isn’t the pathway to happiness that many of the manosphere guru’s want you to think it is.
"Emotional intelligence". Lol.
@@DavidW-ng5zv what’s funny? It’s how trillions are made. TRILLIONS.
Bro I implore you show a woman your feelings. Better, talk to her about emotional intelligence 😂😂😂😂
@@bruhbruhh5103 and I implore you to talk to a woman who doesn’t have the same last name as you without stuttering do to the overwhelming anxiety that she might tell you to get lost for being a total creep.🫢🤣
that’s why they‘ll stay single
The issue with dating a career woman is that the more they climb, the less feminine they become. Have more masculine traits and less likely to want kids.
I'm not going to become less feminine teaching online Ph.D. courses with my Ph.D. You actually don't know what you're talking about and putting women in boxes. There are feminine doctors, lawyers, teachers, dentists, literally everywhere there are feminine women in the workforce Read Proverbs 31 in the Bible. She made money and she was the epitome of femininity.
Exactly this
They want kids but they don't wanna be submissive
Dude, if you are on your own masculine energy, only if the chick has some deep seated mental issues, would actually not turn feminine around you. You make your woman. Keep that in mind. If the men is some limp dick that has no vigour, its always depressed and sad and doesnt strive for anything, ofc the woman would have to step up so she can asure her survival. Hell, she might even try to help the guy out of his misery until the point she realizes that there is no hope for him. Doesnt matter how masculine the chick is, if she finds that dude that can make her feel all tingly and gigly, turn her to that happy teenager girl, make her feel feminine, she will want all that stuff.
Yeah always the guy’s fault lol 🤣
LFA, this video couldn't have uploaded at a better time. Im currently going through this experience and vetting the situation to really understand why such a highly educated woman would find an average worker bee like me attractive as relationship material.
I've come to realize that many of these well-educated college individuals, whether it be male or female, have emotional deprivation because of the linear way of thinking that is brainwashed through the traditional narcissistic education system. Narcissism is common at the top.
A strong emotional connection is usually what these individuals are missing in their lives to be fulfilled, and because they are very book smart, it's hard for them to navigate relationships.
Listening, showing emotion, sharing experiences, and empathizing with this type of woman showed me that what they crave is a partner with a street smart mindset, which is essentially the opposite of the book smart mindset. Thus resulting in a healthy balance in the relationship emotionally in the long run.
Proverbs 27:17
As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.
Godbless you all my brothers and sisters
Your on to something there my guy
That's a good balance to have in a relationship.
Incredible comment. Thank you Brother.
When I was 20yrs old I was working p/t at a supermarket and I met and started a relationship with a 22yr old college grad who was working as a biologist at JOHNS HOPKINS! She broke up with her fiancé to date me! She even bought me first legal drink (before that she'd by my beer for me lol)
She treated me very well. The relationship ended because I broke up with her. If an educated/career woman is with a less educated man , but he is curious to learn things and can hold an intelligent conversation with her that can go a long way in the relationship. God bless you, bro!
Spot on! I've been dating a woman who is at the top of her field in accounting, has her own successful businesses, makes probably x5 what I make - yet she gives me her time and attention because she likes / loves me. Thanks LFA, you always talk about real life things.
The key is to have a growth mindset for yourself, think for yourself and act your positive will out in this world, and then the right woman will come along and notice your energy. And when it matches with hers, then kindle that fire.
You’re an intelligent dude. Love your perspective. You actually understand humans and not just repeating a bunch of nonsense from UA-cam.
I saw your video a couple weeks ago about why you'll never have another one-night stand. It showed up in my feed for some reason. I loved it! It's great what you're doing for other men on your channel. I appreciate you even though I'm female 😊
@@Terra_inthe406 thank you! Glad I’m showing up around here haha. My content definitely always has an important message that women can find helpful as well.
hey lfa. I only want you to know that i'm from Spain and i think that i have been following you since 5 years ago or so. You have been a role model for me. My favorite videos are the ones about retention. Greetings.
The divorce rates for couples where the woman earns more is substantially higher.
Chemistry and romance are important but an "average guy" dating a woman with a PhD is too big of a gap to likely be successful long term.
Women with phd’s have the lowest divorce rates.
@@LFA True, but have to ask who most of these PhD women are marrying. Most likely men in their same league or higher.
For this guy, if she's willing to commit, it could be a good sign. However, I would remain skeptical
Best content in the manosphere. Thanks for your perspective
I’m well over 50 this is the most truthful red pill video I’ve ever seen, and it’s been trough my personal experiences that tell me this, the ONLY downside to a career woman is IF she doesn’t take the boss hat off when she gets home I’ve had some that could and a wife that couldn’t so ( I ) divorced her, because I refused to be emasculated, but I’ve met boss women that have swallowed, so you just have to figure it out and each woman is different, stop listening to negative content like Rich Cooper ,
This is how real life actually is. It’s really not even that complicated. Most chaos is in one’s head. Happy Monday ‼️
I just had an LTR with a woman that had a PhD. It was not a mismatch. Now I have a bachelor's and make over 100k. She didn't make much more than me. We had similar lifestyles and it worked out for 3 years. She was generally pleasant to be around most of the time. Do not let her degree discourage you.
You need to let her choose you.
What value does she bring? The Crown Jewels are more valuable
God told him I'm his wife so I disagree. All the women choosing him are bad for him and gave him PTSD. I'm saying yes to GOD's choice of me for him, not choosing him.
@@a1lyhall this is how we know you never interacted with a woman
@@a1lyhall You have to seek God to find a high-value woman. Proverbs 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
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Women at work are general a big No-No for the obvious reasons....
Maybe true, but the alphas will still be doing it while betas sit back and watch...
@@LFA Right,... unless of course you are THE Top performer at work, the other males are just average coworkers. Not that I wanna talk myself down, but that's the way it is....
I was taught based on what I saw and in Christianity that men should provide and women should stay home and take care of the house and kids and if she does work it should only be to help out, not to be the main breadwinner. That's how it was with my parents. But then after my sister and I were adults, my dad left my mom because of money. He felt she spent too much of his money to spite him. He lives with his girlfriend who has her own money and she even took a line of credit out on her home to buy him a truck. I think having an income makes us better help mates financially if/when God does give us husbands. (YES the Proverbs 31 woman did make money!). Everything is so unbelievably expensive now, even food prices keep going up. A couple needs all the income they can get in this current time we're living in!
I agree with you that if she has a PhD and he has less education that is not necessarily a mismatch. It's how they feel about each other, they love each other, and they feel matched as people in the ways that matter TO THEM.
I really agree with this message, especially since I'm working on a PhD and I love someone very much with no higher education. I don't care about his education level at all. I care about HIM and who he is. I don't give 2 sh^ts about his education. He's mad talented and I support him in the pursuit of his talent. We're matched up by God and we both know it. That's what matters to us. And while he gets established in his career God has called me to help him so that's what I'm doing. Great message LFA!
The proverbs 31 woman made money within the family context. she didn’t make money for some other man / corporate figurehead. The proverbs 31 women is not a feminist like a lot want to make her out to be.
@@JAKEBrakeModel94 I see your point. Back then every home had workers who lived there too. That's mostly all there was Lol Anyway I work from home so it's all good. I don't work for a secular corporation either.
Out of curiosity - what does your bf do for a living with his talent?
@@artemisentreri4244 Musician
Best video I've seen in a while
This guy seem to be one of the few on the internet that actually makes sense and takes and enjoys life for what it is. Not some donwer discouraging bullshit that some of those black pilled and red pilled quiters throw around. Keep in mind most of those guys dont get any PP. Thats why they are so salty most of the time.I literally listen to this dude for fun and enjoyment at this point. Also is much more enjoyable to have around you, individuals of the same caliber, whom you can actually plan something or share similar ideas. Why wouldnt you want your closest person to be the same?
As long as she's feminine and submissive to you it's fine...if not Adios
Another banger lfa, love it my dude keep it up!
Intelligence is not the best property of a leader. Wisdom is... Ofcorse there is going to be exceptions to the rule, but in general Men are natural born leaders. Our grandfathers didn't go to war so today we can adapt to women and become less of what we are. I am not for playing games even though every man should know game.
Men should step up and prove what they are made of. No one can convince me that an ambulance(WOMEN) is a better race car than a race car (MEN).
I am for dating any kind of women as long as there is mutual respect and acknowledgement of the Men's role of a leader. If you want to advise men to embrace their femininity or weakness go ahead. We will stay and fight to the end...
Refreshing perspective!
Manosphere does have important teachings but def allot of goofy shit too lol
Subscribed 👊🏻
PHD is actually not that impressive. It’s actually for ppl who can’t find a high paying career outside of school.
So they decided to go back to school cuz it’s easy.
Don’t be intimidated by a PHD
I'm getting mine so I can teach at the Phd level ~ that's it. Writing a dissertation is grueling. it's definitely not easy. But you're right there's no reason to be intimated by it. Many geniuses don't go to college and make more money than those who do. Even non-geniuses. To each their own!
@@Terra_inthe406 There's Phds in all kinds of shit including gender/womans'/racial studies. One of the last classes I took to get my Bachelor's was something in the "studies" fields, you know, the holy trinity of bullshit? On account that my advisor placed me in it without knowing what it was & the professor was some off the wall lunatic lady with a Phd.
@@shechshire Lol I see what you're saying. I'm working on a Ph.D. in Interdisciplinary Studies but my school is a conservative, not-for-profit, private University affiliated with the Churches of Christ (very conservative). I won't attend a secular University because I don't want to be taught things contrary to my beliefs!
@@Terra_inthe406 That's good if you plan on becoming a university teacher or head of the department but unfortunately it won't mean much outside of the university.
I agree
LFA always manly and in touch with emotions in a masculine way.
If she's gone to college and has a master's degree or PhD THAT is an automatic disqualifier for a relationship. If you don't think so, roll the dice and take your chances. I'll bet all I own and all I can gather she'll leave you within 7 years. Why? Because she thinks she's better than you and can do better. She'll end up dying alone, but that's not the point.
I’m pretty sure she’ll be just fine. Women with PHD’s have the most successful marriage rates despite what manosphere dudes say.
@@LFA It takes commitment, dedication and persistence to write a dissertation for the Ph.D. Doctoral attrition rates are high in North America: an estimated 40% to 50% of candidates never finish.
@@LFA Well that's on account that women with Phds don't marry average dudes. That's his point.
It has more to do with proximity than it does degrees.
@@LFA What has to do with proximity? Weren't you just saying woman with Phds will be just fine? I don't think anyone is arguing that.
What is this guy talking about? No guy whos a 7 figure earner is ever gonna even consider a girl with a phd. Girls w phd's date men they have to support, bc they can't get the attention of valuable men...
Thats why women have to earn money to support themselves in the first place. Bc they can't get the attention of men who can do it for them.
I know you think you’re disagreeing with me. But you proved my point. The subscriber who paid for the video request is an average man wondering if he has a chance with a woman who has a phd. And you agreed. That yes, women with phd’s will happily get with average men.
Women are supposed to be helpmates to men, even if it means financially. The guy I love is a public figure on UA-cam that other women want, he is high value he just needs help, but these other women can't get him because they aren't matched to him spiritually.
@@LFA So...naive morons?
So any man that decides he likes a woman who’s educated and career oriented is automatically a naive moron? Sir I will pray for you.
@@LFA I'm praying for all of these men. Many of them are so lost!
You make sense
For one, we shouldn't be dating.
Two, she's been smashed in every toilet that she's worked at and then some.
No thanks.
Its practical for women to earn nowadays, been a trad but hard to swallow the present reality i.e. inflation and expensive lifestyle, to meet those needs I cant let my gal to simply sit at home and completely rely on me (atleast not for now, its harsh for me to accept but thats what it is for now)
and with that I gotta accept the fact that she cant be "my gal" forever those love story fantasies aint healthy, m already desensitised to the fact that she's mine for now and thats my turn but if she finds a man she can completely rely upon to get everything she wants before I become that man then gotta let her go and move on
Most guys don’t know that love exist because they haven’t experienced it. We still live in an extremely materialistic world and women are told to hate us. They might just f-- u cause ur hot
LFA is Leader
The quran says for the women ( stay in your houses)
It's said hundreds of years ago
Looks, Money, Status, Confidence, Compatibility, Chemistry, etc. The plot thickens. I think the point is to do the work. Many guys are just slobs.
For, me, there's a difference between a career woman and a woman who just wants to work. I prefer the latter over a woman who just wants to stay at home all the time. A woman that stays home 24/7 is up to trouble. A woman who's personality is reflected in her work (social worker, physiotherapist, elementary school teacher etc) is attractive. A woman who is obsessed with her career like a lawyer is unattractive.
Call me crazy but I think what matters most is love. It shouldn't be about people have to be the same with education and make the same amount of money. What happened to love? Seriously?
Yoiu cannot live on love alone. A woman wants to feel safe and protected so a certain living standard is important.
Find a women that wants to be with you, that’s some good advice right there 💪
Career women make excellent retirement plans if you can handle their masculine energy’s
Due to some of the mindsets these guys in the comments have, they'll be single forever even if they don't want to be. Lol
Facts!
you expected an echo chamber, didn't you?
@@donttreadonmetal5073 An echo chamber from people in denial about how reality works? Indeed not.
@@Terra_inthe406 I'm not denying the validity of your initial comment. Merely stating not everyone here holds the PUA/purple pill opinion or that of the women who may/may not affirm it. If some men here are having trouble with women or, as you alluded to, "even if they don't want to be single", maybe they come here to educate themselves or have discussions/seek advice. I've been MGTOW for over seven yrs, never been in a relation-shit, and I still keep the one thing society can't take from me by force or through lack of options. My virginity. Yet, I still watch this content and others like it to educate myself on the varying perspectives and angles, and other guys on here probably do the same. Nothing wrong with that. No need to shit on men who'll be single forever, even if they want to be.
@@donttreadonmetal5073 Do you know Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior?
Career women are generally worst. I would rather struggle and live modestly than a double income prone to divorce.
Thank u man
@18:55 I don't think they're complaining, I think they're just trying to help average guys out who don't have the convenience of being born tall & good looking. No shit, it's very easy for girls to "want to be with you" you don't actually have to do shit or know what you're doing. Being authoritative & domineering aren't attractive qualities in a woman but live & let live I guess.
I know for a fact they’re not trying to help average guys.
@@LFA What makes you say that & how do you know for a fact? Actually, I think they also help guys that aren't average either. You can be tall & good-looking & still be whooped.
@@shechshire You're right! My guy is ironically 6'4", good-looking, and before me, his heart was ripped to shreds by a female covert narcissist. And before that, he was used by women for his looks, they didn't care about him.
@@Terra_inthe406 "being used" & "being whopped" are two different things. Two people can be together solely on physical attraction but I wouldn't go as far as to say they're being used.
@@shechshire My comment is based on the fact he told me they used him.
Well the rain just hit texas 😂
dude you be speaking facts. hell yeah those manosphere mfs are goofy af. And that shit is depressing too.
reality is depressing. Live in happy blind "ignorance is bliss" if you must. You can't out-run it.
@@donttreadonmetal5073 you can accept this as a fact. As a horribly pessimistic person, I refuse to continue viewing things this way. Even trying to change my perspective has affected positively my mood. And no, I am not being naive, and I have never been an "ignorant but blissful" person, my mind's complexity won't let me be one. And just so you know, trying to "sound sigma" by saying stuff like that won't help you or anyone around you. Have a good day sir.
@@georgeth4421 "As a horribly pessimistic person." Sounds like that's your nature. Assign whatever "terms" you must to my worldview, but wanting to pretend everything is just fucking dandy runs counter to what you admitted to being, and rationalizing those two opposing things becomes impossible. I'm horribly pessimistic as well so I understand. I too have wished things could be better for me, but I ultimately concluded that all of us, irrespective of how our lives went or what we did/didn't do in them, will arrive at the same station. Death.
@@donttreadonmetal5073 I think nihilism is an unavoidable, yet not unbreakable roadblock we encounter in life. For example, when people come to understand realities of this physical world, such as how rampant corruption is, we become overwhelmed and depressed at the impossibility of beating it. The important thing is to find ways to be happy, rather than sit in a pathetic, nihilistic state of weak self-defeat. Plenty of people these days, yourself included I suppose, say things like, "I've lost faith in humanity", as if they're self-aware. In reality, they've lost the will to be better and are excusing themselves from making effort to improve. So, friend I ask you this: Could you be acting like the aforementioned group of people?
@@georgeth4421 I lost the will to do a lot of things a long time ago. I live a simple uncrowded life with minimal obligations. I'm playing the game of life to finish, not to win. I am overwhelmingly unqualified for anything else due to not having the prerequisites to even begin, so I don't bother. It is what it is. All this "improvement" jargon being peddled today isn't for me. Like I said, no matter what you do in this life, at the end no one will care. I'm not making excuses for not improving myself, but at the same time, I simply see no reason to do so. I'd still be the same introverted metalhead Star Wars nerd.
Just get married...
Just
Get
Married...
Live yor own life..
go for a good girl that's important
Well I just got hitched in one week.
didnt even you say women dont date down?.. a career woman dating a 9-5 stiff?🤣🤣🤣
You can make less money than her, and still be above her .
Only positive of career women is no alimony
Having a woman that pays the bill and will be there for you is the best thing that can happen to a man.
Disgusting. That’s evil. Bible says a man who does not take care of his own is an INFIDEL
go for a work from home career woman
your teories work if you are 8 or above… below game is neccasary 😢
Thanks for sharing.
Hell Nah ID rather date a woman over seas with traditional values and she not work and I take care of everything vs dating a doctor in the states Hell to the Nah
I’d rather just date local women. Lmao
@@LFA at your own risk