Why You Should Take Good Care Of Women
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I don’t even care about dating advice I just like listening to this dude talk
Same for me
He just speaks to us like that brother looks out for us
You forgot to say no homo
Right? Lol 😂
Lmao same
As I have gotten older I have found that, not my interest in sex, but my desperation for sex has mostly gone away. Like I like women. Like to look at them and absolutely enjoy sex. I just don't feel the need to go out of my way to get sex. I don't put myself out or make questionable decisions anymore just to get sex. It's almost like having post nut clarity 24/7. It's really nice to be able to think clearly. Only took 42 years to reach.
Respect man, I am trying to achieve this state of mind
This is exactly how I think at my age
It's definitely possible when you are busy. I def still shoot my shot occasionally but I no longer chase at all. Not interested? Cool. Don't have time or the energy to chase 😺 anymore. If I get it great if I don't that's fine too. Working 2 jobs is already time consuming enough
You probably just have low t
@@billhassa Not necessarily. He got self-control and is busy.
I definitely find a kind man very appealing. Yes, how he treats me is important, but also how he treats others. If a man is impatient, rude, or arrogant to others then it's only a matter of time before he starts to treat you like that.
And if he does it to a woman he will do it to others male or female.
I did all the redpill crap and had my ex obsessed with me but I continued and after 3 years she left me just couldn’t take it. This is great advice fellas listen to him if you want a successful relationship with a good woman.
I love buying a woman a hotdog or a slice of pizza at Costco. Once she sits down and relaxes....that's when I ask her about her debt and several divorces! Timmy C Arizona
Lmao
Lol
Hahaha
LMFAOOOO
Thank you for the video LFA. You are a gem.
I mean, LFA is correct. Women are human beings after all, no need for all of the hostility flying around the internet in these days. One just has to get his shit together and know how to handle them.
Literally man!
I hope men can get their shit together. It takes quite a bit of Luck and being at the right place at the right time.
@@brandonwombacher2559 replace 'hope' with 'work' and it'll be much attainable.
Holy cow! Treat people good? That's genuis!! I'll start today
My thoughts exactly brother- as a good looking stud, I laugh at all the manosphere advice- as a guy that walks outside and literally gets choosing signals immediately from complete strangers, why would I even pay attention to all of that BS? As far as treating someone like shit, been there done that- it ends up in a nightmare situation- there’s literally no point-
It's simple really, treat people the way you want to be treated. This goes for women too, they are above all - people, like everybody else. Just don't forget that respect has to be earned and that this works both ways. All of this advice is situational, it cannot be generalized. Some people deserve to be treated good and to be respected and some don't. That said, If you just want to get laid, go ahead and play out your part.
Well said!
I have been following your channel for a while and I am glad to see that you are constantly developing and embracing knowledge unlike some channels.
The LFA Show!♥️
For life!😎
I love your intro music LFA it feels like your on the set of Tulsa Kings walking down the street with Stallone.
Too many guys are just Autistic and don't know and that's what's making things difficult. Autistics can't take hints at all, take things literal and are often self hating. Autistic guys need to be taught, while neurotypical guys innately understand social structure.
Interesting enough is that BPD women often prey on Autistic guys because they give A LOT of attention and the guys pick it up, assuming a girl finally likes him, while oblivious that he's in a sea of subtle hints by neurotypical girls.
So then these Autistic guys become salty about women. In truth they misplaced their frustration.
Glad I found your youtube channel I am 17 and this is my favorite UA-cam channel keep up the good work man.
LFA the real top G
Sich simple advice that's needed today, especially for young men struggling with women. You don't have to "treat women bad" in order to be successful with them because no woman is this obstacle you have to conquer as a man. Women are human and the same we as men want to be treated well, they do as well. Too many guys go in with the goal of trying to sleep with a ton of women or getting a lot of women interested in them instead of just being a solid guy and having a good time with women.
Very good advice! As a guy around LFA's age and possibly experience level. All the years of banging randoms and cheaters, that energy rubs off on you over time. Add in red pill ideologies, you begin to lose that magic and or excitement factor women use to have on you. I may have a chance with this young woman who is innocent and seems to be crushing on me (She use to work with me). It's the first time In a very long time I don't see her as just another conquest or piece of ass. I don't if anything will come of it or not, but it still gives me hope I'm not completely ruined mentally and I still have it in me to see a small percentage of women for more than just sex.
Yooo
Treat women well, and see how they respond. If they they treat you poorly, then politely walk away. That’s what I do usually. And I pay for the first date, without expectation of anything. Should things work out with that person long term we can discuss how and when someone should pay for dates and all that.
Exactly! 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
Great advice.
You had me laughing bro! 😎😂
Great advice today Brother! Much needed for the men of today
Best UA-cam Channel out there
I could care less about the dating world but this guy is entertaining to listen to for whatever reason lol
As a woman, I would say you are necessary. I lost completely the interest on my ex husband and now I feel so good with myself being alone, I’m not in the dating apps, but I feel like I’m attracting guys with higher values like this.
Another great video. Solid advice!
that talk about buying woman a dinner was spot on!
'i need a girl who's mine all mine. i need a girl in my life'
It's good to ear this because it aligns with what feel is the right way to treat women.
I was thinking about this thanks dude
Even the trees 🌲 made some noise
Bravo 👏
Of all the thing I see on UA-cam. This is best one
Honestly, I wish I had heard this years ago. And honestly, it aligns with how I was raised - treat other people the way you'd want to be treated - and if they return such treatment, that's wonderful, and if they don't, well you simply don't have anything to do with them; if all possible.
Thank you. That is all. ❤️🍅❤️🍅
Outro song is so cool, LFA. Can I find it on youtube?
Thanks Brother!
Needed this one
Good advice bro...from Kenya
great video man as always 🙏💯
you sure know your stuff mate. you work as a counsellor at all? if not you should/could. very smooth and articulate with this stuff. you are less than 40, yet come across as 50 in attitude. my knowledge of women and all this relationship/dating stuff is tiny compared to yours, and i had a marriage and some kids and i am in my 50s. but i am learning listening to you. no kidding.
I agree with this guy. I experienced exactly the same shit he describes.
I’m loving that title
Thank's, LFA
This video what somewhat informative. Thanks brother.
18:21 damn so purple nor red work? I think both have their place at one point in a relationship and at a different point. When you're having fun, laughing and doing stuff together, being her prince charming is okay. But you still have to remain her warrior (back to the red pill mindset) to make her feel safe and like you said, it also turns em on from time to time. Red pill is extremely important in stressful times.
Need to get past the red pill purple pill stuff. It’s holding everyone back and it’s cringy. Just be a dude and quit acting like you have to be in this camp. It’s lame.
@@roycegarvin I've been a dude for years. Work, workout, and learn new skills. Understanding hypergamy is important though.
@@vincewarren1271 I’m happy for you man. Keep at it. Just don’t corner yourself with ideologies. keep doing your thing!
@@roycegarvin i appreciate you 🙏 good luck on your journey as well 🍀
Dont need to treat women any type of way. Best to ignore them
Thats cause rp guys who treat women poorly do so because they can't control women. They're told all women are subservient and latch on emotionally super fast, but thats not whats actually happening when they get with women.
Often times, it's the women who is emotionally disconnected. So he becomes dumbfounded by that reality and uses short-term flings as a way to cope.
There are women who need emotional connection, but thats not the women who sleep around. The very fact that they sleep around tells you that they're emotionally disconnected. Women like that fake emotional bonds. They fall in and out of love so quickly. It's the rp guys who catch feelings and want to bully her into falling in love with them.
All this is to say, it's going to naturally deter women who want to have a healthy relationship with a man away from him.
What you guys are witnessing is a man who started making red pill content in his early thirties who is now transitioning into a man with a different way of thinking now. More mature way of thinking and dealing with women. Growth
This has always been my message.
@@LFA you the goat bro
Thank u LFA
Just don't be needy. No reason to treat anyone badly. Just act like you have many options even if you don't. Travel to where you are valued so you know how you want to be treated.
I've often thought the majority of influencers have taught men to be narcissists. What kind of a woman is going to put up with that damnable nonsense ? Some low rent , damaged victim, and then what do you have? Who wants bruised, low hanging fruit desperate for abuse?
"Simps" win in the end 😎💯💪
Swimps lose because they pretend to be alpha and stoic badboys in order to get a shot at a woman who will eventually leave him for a more authentic, respectful, honest, and genuine man.
Yes keep treating her like the high and mighty queen that she is no matter what!
If she’s undeserving of good treatment, you leave her alone. Treating people bad is a low quality trait.
@@LFA too bad thats what alot of people do even if they treat them badly
LFA has just patent the purple pill or gentleman game
All I do is keep it real.
I get where you're coming from and it's a good place, but I'm recently separated and it's all but impossible to have any confidence in long term relationships at this point. I never had a rich sex life, only fucked 2 girls, barely in my 30s, don't have any kids, and wasn't even married a year. It is hard to want a committed relationship after giving your heart to somebody and them living with you for several years then deciding they're not happy because marriage isn't a fairy tale or disney movie so they end it. I've got all this drive and desire to live that player life because now I realize that long term quiet settling down life our parents and great grandparents had isnt so tenable anymore because of how radically the culture has changed. Why at this point wouldn't someone like me do what you're warning against in this video? It's a big matter of self actualization for someone like me in my position if nothing else.
Interesting situation 🤔, not much is said on this from other channels
I have gone through something similar and thought of doing what you're thinking of now, which is to become a player, but it just did not feel right besides, I do not have a personality that would support that kind of behavior anyway. I did a lot of quiet contemplation and had a realization that led me to conclude that maybe the drier spell that I have gone through during my peak years was for a reason and maybe it was a blessing in disguise in some way. I also feel that had I chosen to be a player, I would have felt emptier and emptier from the inside. I feel I have a much better equation with women now since starting SR a few years ago and I am hopeful that something will click someday soon. Don't give up, as LFA says in the video, treating women and people, in general, the right way is very important, we have the option to become better men and human beings in general if we learn from our bitter experiences as opposed to becoming bitter and resentful. Keep going strong and hope you'll find a beautiful woman one day who will treat you right and will stay with you for the long haul.
He's like a more mature Van Wilder!
" my life be like " by Grits
But If you’ve ignored her too much, is there a way to fix it?
Beauxhunk Maximus wise words!
hard agree brothea
bro, thank you
I watched your retention video, my question is how to keep that energy cause does it mean i cant have regulary sex?
‘dating coach’ in their dreams, You treat someone how you feel about yourself, you should always treat women with respect. A girl’s first role love/role model is her father and the father teaches her what to accept and what not to. It’s sad that women would actually not honor themselves in so many ways. think about your future daughter, and the song you have at the end of your videos. I know you can do better.
The brother we didn't have.
Well said
Girls ! Look ! Not Dogus Turkish tea they still shop ! Look ! Brokies !
Respect Yourself
Respect Others
It depends on the woman…if she’s a hoe you stay treating her like shit. If she’s a good woman you treat her well. It’s not hard to tell the difference between the two if you’re aware of the game.
Not sure why you would stay with her… but ok.
@LFA I’m not staying with her, I’m just keeping her in rotation. You got to stay spinning plates when you’re in the dating game.
I used to spin plates. But I get much better relationships when I have respectful and trusting relationships.
@@LFAwell said. TRP etc is playing boys games. Lame.
@bravohotel I don’t trust women, it’s hard to find a good woman in today’s society. Look around you, there are hoes everywhere. I can’t afford to be “nice” because I know if I do I’ll get cheated on. This is why I took the Red Pill in 2017, this is why I turned into the person that I am today.
This is an odd question, but you seem like you really have your shit together. What’s your advice on being more productive?
The thing about it most guys like that are not into long term relationships aka alpha male strategies thats my dude and hes funny but ill admit it can be toxic
Hi lfa,
Please share your thoughts on adam 22 situation
I already did in last weeks video
With me, if anyone uses any dating "advice" no matter which pills. I will recognise. If anyone uses with me "method" and is not sincere or authentic, I will sense it and it will come across to me as he is weak, doesn't have their own thoughts and life togehter and probably is insecure in life alltogether. Not a man who I could or would or wanted to respect, and not Somebody who I feel lives honestly
I don't treat them well or bad. I look at them with cold indifference, remembering all the shit they've put us through for the last 60 yrs.
That pretty woman at the grocery store hasn't done you wrong, brother. She may want to do you right!
@@LFAI'd rather not invite wrongdoing. let some other guy deal with that. Every slight I see committed against us makes them all evil. They can enjoy their keyboards, because they won't push my buttons.
I guess I'm one of the lucky ones that women don't slight.
@@LFA the ugly ones like me get slighted on the regular. Tried once 10 yrs ago. Never again. I only love women who feel the same regardless of who I am. Aside from my mother and paternal grandmother, there's no one. Bunch of femroids out there.
clearly an expert of everything. `you should go for saint status
Hello LFA
These best is when these “dating gurus” tell men if a woman is a couple minutes late he should ghost her because he’s high value. Some of this stuff is comical dude
Yu are handsome man I wish I was younger who ever yu marry she’s gonna be a lucky woman
Our generation has lost god, and we are punished for it by having broken families
Lexus LFA?
It is so simple to get some women into your bed for one night, two. Rent a lux car, tell her some lies etc. but what about long term...
Finally 👌
Well.
Treat a woman good if she is reciprocating. If you are treating her good and she doesn’t do jack shit for you, you are being a beta.
❤❤❤❤❤
Why you should treat women *well*
That would get way less views
Treat woman good, treat Engrish worse
Choose the stronger title. Not the stronger grammar. Common knowledge.
I disagree with you completely. You only treat woman as a queen, good if she treats you like a king and respect towards you, other than that I don’t treat woman good at all. I treat woman only good when she deserves it.
With all due respect, what you're saying is, you are willing to stay with a woman who treats you poorly under the condition that you also treat her poorly.
What I'm saying is, you should treat everyone good, and understand that if a woman is unwilling to treat you with respect, you have to let her go.
That is our disagreement. Do you still hold the same stance?
@@LFA Woman never treated me poorly my friend. There are some woman with attitude and point finger, do this and do that for no reason. I met a woman like this and I don’t respect those woman at all, too bossy, misandry, you name it. I don’t respect them at all. Respect need to be earned not given away. For example you showed respect to me I respect you back LFA and I agree with you at the last part of your sentence. Have a nice day.
Why do you let women dictate how you act as a man?
Why you not sit and talk 🤔
16:10 Sorta defeats the message of the video but we're all guys here. We'd shoot the shit w them too lol.
You're drinking your own kool aid.
I’m sharing my experience.
Of course what goes around comes around i'm sure you've experienced karma.
@@LFA the bible says fornication is a sin it comes from lust a deadly sin.
Isn't that what I said?
good video but instead of putting down high value men who have conensual flings look at history was full of war grape the women whos tribe people conquested all over the world this hpapened throughout history which is much much worse, its not like life was trad cony then it changed, the most trad con period was victorian england
I just like to tell it how it is. Not how it was or how it should be.
@@LFA Fair point bro, but every evolutionary biologist or psycholgist will say that (most) humans are pair bonding but were not monogomous as in lifetime monogomous. I can link all sceintific peer reviewed studies that show people in consensual non mongomus relationships (both women and men) are happier, healthier, less anxiety, less depressed and increses their T levels.
And since 60% of men cheat, which hasnt changed, and 50% of women cheat, which used to be less (ill link all the best current studies if you want me to) Therefore open realtionships makes sense, and the best kind of open relationships that work which dont get a lot of attention on youtube are where the guy has ONE wife or girlfreind, and then one or a few freinds with benifits where theres a clear distinction (doesnt intrdodcue the FWB to freinds or family or spend the entire night over or go on trips etc) so he spends 90% of the time with his wife and kids if he has. (not poly where people try to LOVE more than one person that causes drama). but he only loves his pair binded wife or GF, she has the option to have her Freinds with benifits but most women dont, unlike men who always want variety and feel miserble when tempted to cheat if mongomous but cant, they have to jrk to prno if wife doesnt want to put out or suffer in silnce as mens need for getting it is much higher than womens, or they often cheat if mongomous which results in drama and being called a POS and blows up the relationships, partners turn kids against or partner and its messy vs open on the down low pair bonded non mongomy.
Nah
Yes, we agree with you- treat people well! BUT this is not a message that will help men because most men have trouble attracting a vvoman in the first place. And even once getting to that stage, the problem that men have is that they do too much for the vvoman- which instantly turns her off.
This is probably the least helpful video you have ever made. Are you just running out of ideas now LFA?
L comment
I threat all the people good if they are good people, nevertheless male or female. Good people should be threated good, but you must not be good to bad people. Treating bad girls good will ruin you, trust me.!
Also the simp has ulterior motives
Facts!