26 Facts about the Science of Family - mental_floss List Show Ep. 442

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  • @AndrewJohnstonerulez
    @AndrewJohnstonerulez 8 років тому +19

    non-stop Hank slams. Hilarious

  • @savannah4439
    @savannah4439 8 років тому +79

    I lost it at John's pronunciation of "amygdala" 😂😂

    • @seleciaa
      @seleciaa 8 років тому

      Savannah Same!

    • @Astrosassy
      @Astrosassy 8 років тому +1

      Savannah same omg

    • @codygerard4193
      @codygerard4193 8 років тому +1

      I heard it and immediately scrolled down to see if anyone had commented about this.

    • @SaraAnneMiller
      @SaraAnneMiller 8 років тому

      Savannah ameegdahlah omg I'm dying 😂
      John, you're rad. Keep it up! 👍🏻

    • @brandonbuchner1771
      @brandonbuchner1771 8 років тому +5

      Wasn't she the queen in the Star Wars Prequel? Queen Amygdala?

  • @unicornsims7044
    @unicornsims7044 8 років тому +16

    "I love my children so much, but not that much." - John Green

  • @Zeldaschampion
    @Zeldaschampion 8 років тому +151

    I was half expecting Hank to come in at the end of the video and slap John in the back of the head.

    • @eustacia03
      @eustacia03 8 років тому +8

      That would have been epic.

    • @Ashtarte3D
      @Ashtarte3D 8 років тому +18

      I would have paid to see that. :D

    • @niamhrj
      @niamhrj 8 років тому +2

      That would be great

  • @keriezy
    @keriezy 8 років тому +2

    Loved the brother bashing. Truly shows the love an older sibling has for the younger. 😅

  • @deldarel
    @deldarel 8 років тому +9

    I completely lost it at 3:08 John's going savage on Hank's ass.

  • @Master_Therion
    @Master_Therion 8 років тому +112

    John, I know mis-pronouncing words is your thing, but 4:02 amygdala... ouch! It sounds like you are talking about Padme Amidala from Star Wars.

    • @hattie_burns
      @hattie_burns 8 років тому +5

      I think he might me doing it on purpose nowadays. I mean... surely

    • @juliakat5587
      @juliakat5587 8 років тому +1

      I was just about to write a comment like this.

    • @memorandom7484
      @memorandom7484 8 років тому +1

      As someone who works in mental health, that pronunciation was just _painful._

    • @AraneaPush
      @AraneaPush 8 років тому

      +

    • @KerryHallPhD
      @KerryHallPhD 8 років тому +2

      He must be a deliberate nose thumbing at us there :p

  • @jorgedaniel9656
    @jorgedaniel9656 8 років тому +47

    A couple weeks ago I found out that my mom's name isn't actually Mom... She has been lying to me all these years :'(

  • @6ThreeSided9
    @6ThreeSided9 8 років тому +43

    This video could have seriously used a "Correlation =/= Causation" disclaimer.

  • @JoshuaGonzalez-be3pc
    @JoshuaGonzalez-be3pc 8 років тому +17

    John's mispronunciation of amygdala activated the very thing he mispronounced.

  • @MaraK_dialmformara
    @MaraK_dialmformara 8 років тому +5

    OED says: when saying "amygdala", think more doo-wop than Star Wars. Stress is on the "myg" part.

  • @slytherlily
    @slytherlily 8 років тому +6

    As a middle child, all I could think during this video is "where are the facts about the middle children?" There were tons about the older and younger siblings, but what about us? Oh yeah, forgotten just like the middle child. :X

    • @roecocoa
      @roecocoa 8 років тому +2

      Lily Castle You are simultaneously an older and a younger sibling.

  • @JulianGreystoke
    @JulianGreystoke 8 років тому +30

    So what you're saying is: as the eldest, and also a female I am the best? That's what I'm hearing.

    • @alexaliona
      @alexaliona 8 років тому +8

      I'm the oldest and the wittiest and the gossip in new York city is insidious...

    • @invisibleninja86
      @invisibleninja86 7 років тому +1

      Yeah, I got the same exact message from this video.

    • @alexaliona
      @alexaliona 7 років тому

      ***** yep.

    • @alondotan239
      @alondotan239 7 років тому +1

      How should I feel being male, and the youngest of 4...

    • @JulianGreystoke
      @JulianGreystoke 7 років тому

      youngest of four boys? Then you should feel sad you had no older sisters.

  • @Alverant
    @Alverant 8 років тому +11

    Hank, you gonna take this trash-talk from John?

  • @samnassar6182
    @samnassar6182 8 років тому +22

    duh. having an older sibling of the opposite sex helps. who else would I have practiced kissing
    wait...

    • @UniqueornBacon
      @UniqueornBacon 8 років тому +2

      If you ain't good enough for family, you ain't good enough for anyone.

    • @dlee645
      @dlee645 8 років тому +2

      Sam Nassar Ha!

    • @lijohnyoutube101
      @lijohnyoutube101 3 роки тому

      Yuck 🤢

  • @TheRonster9319
    @TheRonster9319 8 років тому +10

    I am a guy with an older sister which makes more emotionally stable, better at dating and more likeable whaaaaat? Woot woot!

  • @limelightmoon
    @limelightmoon 8 років тому +15

    I really want to see Hank respond to this video!

  • @jonathanplatt5027
    @jonathanplatt5027 8 років тому +17

    Wow, there seemed to be a lot of correlation=causality in these studies. "Science."

  • @thebleach401
    @thebleach401 8 років тому

    Hank is so funny and in a genuine way, like he doesn't try to push humour out of him it is just there. Makes my day!

  • @hattie_burns
    @hattie_burns 8 років тому +17

    I cant wait for someone to show 16 year old Alice 6:19

    • @cmckee42
      @cmckee42 8 років тому +3

      #letletitgogo

    • @IoEstasCedonta
      @IoEstasCedonta 8 років тому +3

      It will be attached to a blue dress.

  • @alannar.8701
    @alannar.8701 8 років тому +4

    I relate to Alice quite a lot in that situation :D

    • @alannar.8701
      @alannar.8701 8 років тому

      To be fair, though, I'm just as likely to beg to listen to anything sung by Idina Menzel.

  • @JasonPotwora
    @JasonPotwora 8 років тому +3

    It's just like older and younger siblings to forget about the middle child....;)

  • @BiancaBlade
    @BiancaBlade 8 років тому

    As the oldest, and only sister, i can attest to all the wonderful things said about older sisters in this video.

  • @williamshaughnessy1740
    @williamshaughnessy1740 8 років тому +19

    So if you're studying family science do you need to record a lot of... dada? No? Okay I'll leave.

  • @ThisIsFiftyWithLil
    @ThisIsFiftyWithLil 8 років тому +4

    "Let it go, Alice!" Ha ha, at least she is not singing Hopelessly Devoted To You, you know, from GREASE, at the top of her tiny 3 y/o lungs at the Walgreens pharmacy counter. Oh my god! I let that happen... she was THREE! Worse, she, along with her 5 y/o sister & 7 y/o brother had the entire movie soundtrack down tight. What kind of mother! Right? *sigh*

    • @ladyi7609
      @ladyi7609 6 років тому

      I'd consider that a parental success, actually, particularly if that was indicative of the kind of music you exposed your little children to. Great job!

  • @spelevink
    @spelevink 8 років тому

    That last fact made me so happy. Love ya sis :)

  • @ljmastertroll
    @ljmastertroll 8 років тому +8

    Which sibling is more likely to be a Nerdfighter?

    • @drewg.4779
      @drewg.4779 8 років тому +2

      ljmasternoob Was that asked in any of the nerdfighter censuses? I hope it was, I'm curious.

    • @ljmastertroll
      @ljmastertroll 8 років тому

      I don't remember but it is intriguing.

  • @Ashtarte3D
    @Ashtarte3D 8 років тому

    This made me smile for all the wrong reasons. It was like a laundry list of studies on family that anecdotally don't apply to me, lol. Like I'm an only child and every single one of my best and closest friends have multiple siblings. I had a great relationship with my grandparents and have fought clinical depression for years. I disowned my deadbeat father at 7 and can safely say I have a very high level of empathy with others. You get the point, lol.

  • @KhajiitTrader
    @KhajiitTrader 8 років тому

    So much shade thrown on Hank!

  • @fromscratchauntybindy9743
    @fromscratchauntybindy9743 8 років тому

    Best episode ever!

  • @dougm2174
    @dougm2174 8 років тому

    John, you love these videos where you get to take loving pop shots at Hank don't you 😂

  • @silvertimer
    @silvertimer 8 років тому

    More mental floss please!

  • @Marie45610
    @Marie45610 8 років тому +2

    The only one of these facts that I can confirm is true for me, is that I never really had a hard time talking to guys growing up. I have an older brother, who is just under 2 years older than me. And then there's the massive age gap between me and my younger brothers. 12 and 16 year age difference. No sisters.

  • @cbjgirl23
    @cbjgirl23 8 років тому

    The working titles for this episode: John Green basically just roasting his brother.
    John Green is the superior sibling.

  • @markbollinger1343
    @markbollinger1343 8 років тому +2

    Why were they shocked about the influence of fathers. I've seen other studies showing when a father is present children are more likely to graduate high school, more likely to go and attend college, girls are less likely to end up pregnant out of wedlock at a young age, boy less likely to end up in prison. This is across all racial and economic backgrounds-though more pronounced in poor communities with a lack of resources. Our society has accepted this lie that father are stupid, clueless and useless buffoons who know nothing and a woman can do it all on her own. While yes and single parent man or women may be able to do it it certainly isn't easy, far from ideal and not something to glorify or promote. Admitting you need a partner to raise children isn't sexist its common sense and biology. Children deserve two parents, children need two parents, children thrive the best with two parents.

  • @Yosser70
    @Yosser70 8 років тому

    Best one yet :)

  • @person2.022
    @person2.022 8 років тому

    LET IT GO, ALICE!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂

  • @AveryMilieu
    @AveryMilieu 8 років тому +2

    Second child. Older sister was ill and after four years of surgeries and hospitalization, she died when I was 7.
    This means I spent most of my childhood as an only child of distracted and grieving parents.
    Having one child left did not exactly make them more affectionate, and they limited my activities severely while pressing on me to be academically proficient. I was expected to excel for both of us, I guess.
    I didn't succeed to their satisfaction.
    I am socially awkward. And frankly have very few memories of my sister...

    • @grindlemarka
      @grindlemarka 8 років тому

      Sorry to hear. My 14 year old sister died in a bike accident when I was 9. My other sib, a brother, was 3 years older than me. My folks showered him with everything, and left me alone mostly. I was really bad in relationships, although I'm an affectionate person, I chose poorly. I am now 58, and have been alone for 25 years. Sad how the early things so hammered my adult life. Peace to you-
      =Maine=

    • @AveryMilieu
      @AveryMilieu 8 років тому

      mark grindle Sorry to hear it. Families strengthen when they work - but it takes the effort of the adults involved to make it work. We were children and had no control - and often lacked the vocabulary - emotionally and verbally - to tell anyone what we were feeling, what we needed.

  • @literaturenerd
    @literaturenerd 8 років тому +1

    I really expected John to make a joke about the younger sibling being less likely to smoke thing... considering John's admission that he smoked as a teenager 😂

  • @mccataldo
    @mccataldo 8 років тому

    Ah. 'Let it Go'. It's a measure of your fatherhood awesomeness, but I feel your pain!

  • @sarahleonard7309
    @sarahleonard7309 4 роки тому

    As far as I can tell, the only observed trends that apply to myself and my younger sister are that she defined her personality in opposition to mine, strong attachment to our father lead to strong empathy, and that the younger sibling is more competitive.

  • @learnerlearns
    @learnerlearns 8 років тому +9

    a•myg•da•la (ə-mĭgˈdə-lə)
    www.dictionary.com/browse/amygdala

  • @johncoleman1930
    @johncoleman1930 7 років тому

    its A-Mig-Duh-luh John from one John to another

  • @s3cr3tpassword
    @s3cr3tpassword 8 років тому

    throwing so much shade at Hank

  • @Hpfan3295
    @Hpfan3295 8 років тому

    John: "A video about families? MORE LIKE AN OPPORTUNITY TO DRAG HANK FOR 9 MINUTES STRAIGHT"

  • @AshasaurusRawr
    @AshasaurusRawr 8 років тому

    what I got from this video os that all of my and my husband's issues are our parents faults. And that we need to make sure our children feel loved.

  • @jamurphy21
    @jamurphy21 8 років тому +7

    I think correlation vs causation is a chronic pitfall in this type of social science research. It can be standardized, but it is really hard to minimize the variables in human life. Interesting correlations, though.

    • @sgtpepper138
      @sgtpepper138 8 років тому +1

      Jessica, the science girl. Yeah I was cringing a quite bit throughout this.

  • @magister343
    @magister343 8 років тому +1

    The correlation between IQ and birth order completely disappears if you correct for family size. Children with more siblings (and thus less one on one time with their parents, and probably less educated or affluent parents) tend to have higher IQs, but comparing families with the same number of children does not show any advantage for the older children. If fact, you you could from youngest to oldest instead of oldest to youngest the youngest appears to the the smarter by a slightly larger (although not statistically significant) amount.

  • @vgfbestuur9565
    @vgfbestuur9565 8 років тому +2

    The one about teenage pregnacy, isnt it more likely because they come from the same family and environment, like you are more likely to be a teenage mom in a certain environment.

  • @cindyphippen6554
    @cindyphippen6554 8 років тому

    I am a heterosexual female, I'm the youngest of 9 kids, and 7 of my 8 siblings are girls (my one brother is second in line). The items in this video most consistent with my personal experience: women with older sisters are more competitive (I'm playfully vicious during board games), sibling de-identification (I hate the color pink because the two sisters just older than me were obsessed with it), I feel less overall anxiety when my relationship with my parents is at its most healthy, and men with sisters tend to be more more attentive and devoted significant others.

  • @caewing85
    @caewing85 8 років тому

    I'm with you...let that damn song go!! my 4 year old girl is the same.

  • @chrispassmore7372
    @chrispassmore7372 8 років тому

    I don't drink or smoke or do drugs mostly because I saw first hand what it did to my siblings and it was never something I wanted, but I also knew a lot of people (albeit, in a very small town where drug/alcohol/tobacco use goes up a lot) who did that stuff /with/ their siblings as a way of bonding.

  • @disputed_origin
    @disputed_origin 8 років тому

    Hello John! as much as I trust you, i would really like if you linked the studies you are talking about in your videos. I understand most people cant or won't bother with it, bt for the few of us who like reading papers, it would help

  • @donovankriasol
    @donovankriasol 2 роки тому

    Hahahha. Yes!! I have a sister and a lot of this facs hit me in the liver hahahahaha love from México 🇲🇽🙋‍♂️

  • @pollyflores418
    @pollyflores418 8 років тому

    "LET IT GO ALICE!!!"

  • @cati101
    @cati101 8 років тому

    great video!

  • @isabellapatterson1406
    @isabellapatterson1406 8 років тому

    Loving John's pronunciation of amygdala it's pronounced ah-mig-dela

  • @freddiekinnaputi
    @freddiekinnaputi 7 років тому

    I'm a big fan of Hank and I believe you both have the same speech rhythm

  • @Sackofbooks
    @Sackofbooks 8 років тому +1

    I'm a guy with an older sister, and although I haven't done a lot of dating for someone my age, I do find it easier to just hang out with women (platonically) than with men.

  • @thedesucomplex4365
    @thedesucomplex4365 8 років тому

    UTA shoutout, woo!

  • @magister343
    @magister343 8 років тому

    Oxytocin is not only the "love hormone," but also the "racism hormone."
    It encourages bonding and preference for members of the in-group, which can involve fleeing more protective and hostile towards unfamiliar individuals who could be seen as threats.

  • @polkadottedpolak
    @polkadottedpolak 8 років тому

    I found most of these to be consistent with my own experience as a woman with an older sister.

  • @benjaminwang4371
    @benjaminwang4371 8 років тому

    Fact 24, I'm 2 minutes younger than my older brother, and I don't smoke. Fact confirmed :)

  • @gerrigalaz
    @gerrigalaz 4 роки тому

    Keep taking jabs at Hank. I actually watch both of you guys.for very different reasons. I didn't even know you guys were brothers. But that line about the pacifier *kisses fingertips*

  • @atheryne
    @atheryne 8 років тому

    I am the oldest of 4 girls and the shortest of my sisters, but they would agree that I am the smartest. I never smoked, and neither did my two youngest sisters, but the sister closest to me did for a while. I have a very strong relationship with my grandparents, but I also suffer from depression.

  • @Kaalyn_HOW
    @Kaalyn_HOW 8 років тому +1

    I have an older sister and brother. They're both terrible people who supplied me nothing positive. The only accurate fact here was the "becoming the complete opposite" one.

  • @representationmetaphorique
    @representationmetaphorique 8 років тому +1

    my brother has four sisters; i really hope he becomes a stable human being

    • @Joesaflake
      @Joesaflake 8 років тому

      They may cancel each other out.

  • @princesskyrie
    @princesskyrie 8 років тому

    As the eldest sister of three girls, I can see some correlation between me and these facts. (Except for, like John, both of my younger sisters are taller than me, but I am the smartest.) But now I have another reason to give for my perpetual singlehood: that I have no brothers.

  • @zandisch
    @zandisch 8 років тому

    This was interesting bro, im subbing

  • @TiffanyHallmark
    @TiffanyHallmark 8 років тому

    I'm the oldest of my parent's children and I am the shortest, at 5ft. 1/2inch, I am actually the shortest in my entire family. I would say I am the most intelligent out of myself and my siblings.

  • @SionEoinPaytonJesse
    @SionEoinPaytonJesse 7 років тому +1

    Hehe, I had my son after long-term testosterone treatment and then resumed treatment after he was born. I also had all my reproductive organs removed. So I wonder what the pregnancy/birth stuff did to my brain and if it's different given how much testosterone treatment (at my type of dose that results in my type of level in my type of body) impacts the human brain.
    We don't have very much research to help make informed decisions about medical care in the world of reproductive health for trans people. Trans people who have been on hormone treatment actually do make partners pregnant or have babies relatively often these days, though, so we have lots of questions!

  • @teerah003
    @teerah003 8 років тому

    I figured almost all of these were common sense but I guess it's cool to have studies to back it up.

  • @ShOiEs70
    @ShOiEs70 8 років тому

    I am the youngest of three. My fiancé is the oldest of three. I am taller than my older brother and my older sister and I am both socially and physically insecure.

  • @maxcelcat
    @maxcelcat 8 років тому

    Interesting. My wife and I are both the eldest siblings. We also noted that the majority of our previous relationships were with oldest siblings. There is something going on there...

  • @Crasho327
    @Crasho327 8 років тому

    People always ask me, how many siblings do you have? My answer, too many.

  • @garysnape266
    @garysnape266 8 років тому

    as a older child to my brother i was told to look after him. if warned him not do some thing he do it and always got the blame why he did it and told off by my parents even after i try to stop my brother.

  • @UniqueornBacon
    @UniqueornBacon 8 років тому

    All of the younger siblings in my family are taller than their older counterpart. (Four of us in order: Girl, boy- and then 30 some odd years later my dad gets remarried- girl, boy, girl boy.) The youngest girl is the tallest sister, and youngest boy is the tallest brother. Oldest are the shortest. I'm calling BS on that one.

  • @triv314
    @triv314 8 років тому +3

    Well I'm the oldest and I'm definitely the smartest but I'm also the shortest :/

  • @aidanbowie5391
    @aidanbowie5391 8 років тому

    I'm the 4th child but the tallest and smartest! woo!

  • @amalzuhair4495
    @amalzuhair4495 8 років тому

    I knew I was smarter than my younger siblings now science has even backed me up

  • @tigerfanfrv
    @tigerfanfrv 8 років тому

    any research on multiples beyond twins??

  • @Dice1138
    @Dice1138 8 років тому

    "Some Evidence" = Facts....

  • @meligarrett9197
    @meligarrett9197 4 роки тому

    There were three sisters in high school that all got pregnant and had babies within a month of each other. They were 18,16,and 15 years old.

  • @pudetouch
    @pudetouch 8 років тому

    Fel!

  • @CharlieDBrown
    @CharlieDBrown 8 років тому

    lmao I got 4 older sisters and my dating life still sucks. Thanks Science xD

    • @Melissa-wx4lu
      @Melissa-wx4lu 8 років тому

      Would it suck more if you didn't have sisters? that's the thing with these kinds of studies. You can't really compare yourself to yourself...only to others. So your dating life might be far better because of your sisters. you just don't know what it would be like if you didn't have them.

  • @templarking6819
    @templarking6819 8 років тому

    With my own research I have found that the youngest sibling always tend to end up becoming the tallest in the family. Wondering what your guys thoughts on this are?/

  • @kenziefox6095
    @kenziefox6095 6 років тому

    1:53 WAIT I DIDN'T KNOW THAT'S WHAT I WAS DOING

  • @ClimbaRock5
    @ClimbaRock5 8 років тому

    Sympathies, friend. I am all too familiar with "Go".

  • @ButtercheeseYay
    @ButtercheeseYay 8 років тому

    I am both the youngest and the only girl among my siblings.
    And I know for a fact that our oldest is _not_ the most intelligent in the bunch.
    I am the only one who never picked up smoking though. I also never had a problem talking to guys.

  • @ruona1andonly
    @ruona1andonly 8 років тому

    I have 4 older sisters. And I'm super competitive.

  • @1234kalmar
    @1234kalmar 8 років тому

    Hmm, the competitiveness stuff... It was done in Japan. It's like if you made a study about Engineering in Germany. A Statisical outlier.

  • @seatbelttruck
    @seatbelttruck 8 років тому

    Oldest. Not tallest. Probably smartest. And of my close friends... many of them are oldest, I guess. Even of the ones that aren't, I tend to be friends with their older siblings as well. I also definitely feel more emotionally and socially secure around my sisters, and they reciprocate.

  • @kitteridgesimpson8144
    @kitteridgesimpson8144 7 років тому

    Wait a second.. I've been told I'm empathetic, but I never met my father

  • @mstrainjr
    @mstrainjr 8 років тому +1

    I want to know the estimated percentage of households in which consensual incest occurs, such as that between siblings. But that's too dirty to mention in a Mental Floss video. =P

    • @SpiralBreeze
      @SpiralBreeze 8 років тому

      M. Strain Jr. Actually, that would be interesting to know.

    • @Melissa-wx4lu
      @Melissa-wx4lu 8 років тому

      it's estimated at about 5-6% (In the USA) but everyone agrees it's much likely to be a bit higher due to unreported cases.
      Another popular statement is that everyone knows at least one person involved in Consensual incest. (even though you may not know about the incest that is taking/took place.)

    • @SpiralBreeze
      @SpiralBreeze 8 років тому

      Melissa Lewis See, now that is a lot has higher than I would have imagined.

    • @Melissa-wx4lu
      @Melissa-wx4lu 8 років тому

      It's funny because I felt that the percentage was low. Because I know it's a bit more common between cousins.

  • @katiefrank7351
    @katiefrank7351 8 років тому

    My sister should have been the older one I think xD. She's 6ft compared to my 5'4 and amazingly intelligent. The git managed to inherit all the good looking genes too

  • @TheMohawkNinja
    @TheMohawkNinja 8 років тому

    #23
    I always said having kids is a bad idea.

  • @StonedLittleFox
    @StonedLittleFox 7 років тому

    Number 7 is kinda...ehhh..
    I've always been close with my grandparents. Hell, I even live with them. But I've also been in and out of mental hospitals...so

  • @Theraot
    @Theraot 8 років тому

    I demand links to the sources!

  • @CaptainNova9
    @CaptainNova9 8 років тому

    How does all of this child/sibling information relate to kids with ASD and/or ADHD?

  • @Belboz99
    @Belboz99 8 років тому +1

    Amygdala... check your pronunciation on that one.