How to Identify Unresolved Issues in the Subconscious

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  • Except from a talk I gave in Munich, Germany, where I address the question if we should seek out negative people in life to show ourselves what we are reacting to in life.
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  • @BeyondResist
    @BeyondResist 3 роки тому +19

    “Give up to grace. The ocean takes care of each wave 'til it gets to shore. You need more help than you know.”
    ― Rumi

  • @nsbr6
    @nsbr6 2 роки тому +9

    So true .... Mind so fast triggers a memory which we even at times forget we have. Especially fear or pain filled memories. I have had similar experiences n my own mind with this speediness of triggering those memories creeped😳😐 me out .

  • @nellaiapperanand3007
    @nellaiapperanand3007 4 роки тому +77

    I’m learning from you sir! Instant reacting cause more bad things to us!

  • @christinecarlos7316
    @christinecarlos7316 4 роки тому +46

    When you are triggered, ask: What am I reacting to?
    When we react to people & situations, this shows that we have unresolved issues in our subconscious.
    Our reactions are stored & programmed in our subconscious. This is the clue.
    Although YES-- he did not tell us HOW to resolve or deal w/ this.

  • @BHARATCHAUHAN-cr9zm
    @BHARATCHAUHAN-cr9zm 3 роки тому +8

    AWARNESS ..u realize what u reacting to and by being aware and observing the emotion to this , it then loses it intensity every time you aware of these emotions.

  • @claredodd1258
    @claredodd1258 4 роки тому +3

    At last a 'guru' talking sense and giving an example that anybody can relate to. Thankyou.

  • @BeyondResist
    @BeyondResist 3 роки тому +11

    “We are all of us born with a letter inside us, and that only if we are true to ourselves, may we be allowed to read it before we die.”
    ― Douglas Coupland

  • @erikadavis4696
    @erikadavis4696 4 роки тому +77

    By realizing you've been triggered, therein lies your answer...

    • @nathanthomas8184
      @nathanthomas8184 3 роки тому

      Liar liar pants on fire hang them on the clothes dryer

  • @rupeshsarkar1736
    @rupeshsarkar1736 4 роки тому +11

    This is the first video I watched of Dandapani among many, where he didn't speak about "Concentration"

  • @ull893
    @ull893 3 роки тому +3

    Wow ! That story is an eye opener. I had some teachers like that, even today it haunts me.

  • @fieldwork734
    @fieldwork734 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you, so nice to know one doesn’t have to spend time with those that trigger unresolved emotions

  • @sahilagarwal3051
    @sahilagarwal3051 4 роки тому +4

    *best business in present day*

  • @DevelopingHer
    @DevelopingHer 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you for sharing that story. I’m currently cleaning up unresolved issues and things that I have left pending

  • @kirsty4444
    @kirsty4444 3 роки тому +6

    That was a very interesting about the subconscious mind ...it also made me very aware and it clarified something for me, thank you for sharing 😎

  • @prof.balachandransreeramac7455
    @prof.balachandransreeramac7455 4 роки тому +112

    The talk doesn't seem to justify the title.

    • @peanut2412
      @peanut2412 4 роки тому +12

      Bala Chandran yeah I does. People do stuff or say stuff, you react, notice the reaction, ask yourself why you reacted like that and let it go x

    • @DivineHeart734
      @DivineHeart734 4 роки тому +10

      I think he's talking about identifying it rather than resolving it. It's why some reactions we have may seem random but they're actually tied to out subconscious outside of our immediate awareness.

    • @eljosoul
      @eljosoul 4 роки тому +22

      I’m the least qualified to reply but I think that you can only resolve something once you are aware of it,.

    • @aav_n
      @aav_n 3 роки тому +1

      Improving ourselves by focusing inward mindfulness awareness of self and the nature of growth and learning. Don't stay stuck. We can mold our memories. Keep rising. ☀️

    • @aav_n
      @aav_n 3 роки тому

      @KomalK ❤️Share the Gifts💖Truly 💌Thank youuu ✨🙏🏻🌺✨

  • @alexism.7712
    @alexism.7712 3 роки тому +1

    From time to time I listen to motivational speakers but this one I really like. I've only seen a few of his videos so far and now I'm hooked. He makes a lot of sense to me and I love how calm he is. 👍

  • @BR-gt4zk
    @BR-gt4zk 3 роки тому

    Life Teachers are wonderful... All of them say stuff and someone in planet gets healed..

  • @pallaviverma5541
    @pallaviverma5541 2 роки тому

    Gratitude 😇🌿

  • @sujeeshkottay
    @sujeeshkottay 3 роки тому

    My search ends here.
    You are the one I am searching for .
    Many many years

  • @karanhansda9901
    @karanhansda9901 3 роки тому +1

    You are a great teacher. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.

  • @FeelGoodWithin
    @FeelGoodWithin 4 роки тому +1

    So true 👌 I totally agree 👍 Thankx so much 🙏

  • @prajc5598
    @prajc5598 4 роки тому +10

    Listening to you talk has been such a blessing!
    I watch all of your videos and listen to them on loop while I'm working so that i might be reminded of stuff that i might have forgotten and would be missing on.
    Can you please do all your viewers a favour and tell us how top resolve those issues?
    A lot of us would really really love to hear that.
    Thanks in advance🙏

    • @hotlkone
      @hotlkone 5 місяців тому

      Maybe this helps, what works for me is that I make notes of ideas I like, and apply in practice what I think is important to do, then it becomes my routine.

  • @aav_n
    @aav_n 3 роки тому

    🙏🏻Awareness and release 💖

  • @Sonia10Read
    @Sonia10Read 4 роки тому +6

    It was super nice to assist to your talk in Munich, thank you for sharing again this so valued insights 🙏🏼

  • @gracefulindeed6091
    @gracefulindeed6091 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you from Australia just found your channel today and Wow im hooked.Your calling took you away from us in Australia shame for us. Amazing journey!

  • @nishanabul1427
    @nishanabul1427 3 роки тому +1

    I found this around an year back due to heavy traffic in my head and irritated always,but sometimes it is a tug of war whether you want to react or analyse your thoughts to react.

  • @melbawells5472
    @melbawells5472 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much. Namaste

  • @ujjwalbhardwaj661
    @ujjwalbhardwaj661 3 роки тому

    Thankyou dandapaniji❤️❤️

  • @MrShukruYT
    @MrShukruYT 3 роки тому

    your talks are really helping me to remain focused. thanks for these healthy motivation

  • @alaiajanelle
    @alaiajanelle 4 роки тому +1

    Thank You 💚

  • @ti41magh41
    @ti41magh41 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much for your share on this. Very powerful.

  • @MahaswetaMDas
    @MahaswetaMDas 4 роки тому +1

    Be a witness 🙏

  • @zanbudd
    @zanbudd 3 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @ujjwalbhardwaj661
    @ujjwalbhardwaj661 3 роки тому

    Thankyou for this video ❤️❤️

  • @navjeevannj286
    @navjeevannj286 4 роки тому +2

    when every word have so much weight 😂
    love it hearing from u
    and i have improved my focus
    thanks 😊

  • @ARP369
    @ARP369 3 роки тому

    Beautiful

  • @shitaldahiya
    @shitaldahiya 4 роки тому +8

    I was having this same question (How to Identify Unresolved Issues in the Subconscious) in my mind since many days thinking about this and here @DandapaniLLC uploaded this video.. How I wonder that I am connected via telepathy or what!!!
    or *how do you so exactly know that your students need the next perfect video now and then you upload it* ..maybe thats why you are our beloved Teacher *an amazing teacher, only those who truly commit to your teachings can know and understand!* Thanks a Lot Sir ji.. You are the best blessing of God to me in this life!

    • @manas142
      @manas142 3 роки тому +1

      As you go ahead , its gonna be even more of this.

  • @OusiaProject
    @OusiaProject 4 роки тому +1

    Great Content by the way!

  • @motivationmonkey3169
    @motivationmonkey3169 4 роки тому

    Awesome

  • @ntnme1730
    @ntnme1730 3 роки тому

    Thanks❤

  • @khensuahabuhetepre1372
    @khensuahabuhetepre1372 4 роки тому

    We must all must come back to the self

  • @meganmcdonald4847
    @meganmcdonald4847 4 роки тому

    Amazing!

  • @jennysqueo3704
    @jennysqueo3704 3 роки тому

    Very nice video thank u

  • @anirudhasapte6716
    @anirudhasapte6716 3 роки тому

    Yes, the question was regarding how to differentiate between a truly helping person from a person who is faking helpful attitude to conceal ulterior motives

  • @drpratibhamathad2891
    @drpratibhamathad2891 4 роки тому +2

    I was always thinking about such things why do i get suddenly such memories, now i know what to do with it

  • @sengchhuon2133
    @sengchhuon2133 3 роки тому +1

    So to recognize is the main step to resolve......the unresolved issues in the subconscious minds?? Thankyou for sharing. From Long Beach, CA.

  • @HappinessCoachSigmaMale
    @HappinessCoachSigmaMale 4 роки тому +4

    Thank u for promote indian culture . I am god kalki in delhi india

    • @rikcevlogs6414
      @rikcevlogs6414 4 роки тому

      Can you send me healing energy God kalki please

  • @fc137penugondaharishkumar3
    @fc137penugondaharishkumar3 4 роки тому

    Good messege guru

  • @robgoodsight6216
    @robgoodsight6216 4 роки тому

    :D :D :D never knew he was in Munich!
    :) ...
    nice video!

  • @Hharshit01
    @Hharshit01 4 роки тому +2

    I heard this once before also from you. Guruji, can you plz tell how to resolve that issue?

  • @pb1501
    @pb1501 4 роки тому +1

    Great story and experience. Now what did you make that mean? How did you build your life upon that meaning, strategy, etc. I'm guessing that story and what is revealed in the inner conflict will help explain why you became a monk and why you left. Thank you for your important work.

  • @aparnabhaskaran
    @aparnabhaskaran 4 роки тому +4

    Sir, how should we try to resolve when we find an such instance

  • @nevillecreativitymentor
    @nevillecreativitymentor 3 роки тому

    that is very relatable association ... I like the concept. Will put it to use as a Trigger Red Flag

  • @snorys
    @snorys Рік тому

    Have u also included how to deal with unresolved emotions in the book launched yesterday? I am talking about emotions which we have been carrying since ages.

  • @arturohernandez6770
    @arturohernandez6770 4 роки тому +80

    I love your talks but the title of this small video is "how to identify unresloved issues...".But You never mentioned how to do it, you just shared how, automatically a past experience appeared upon stimulation.

    • @zunea
      @zunea 4 роки тому +10

      ‘What am I reacting to?’ Observing the thoughts.

    • @arturohernandez6770
      @arturohernandez6770 4 роки тому +4

      @divine soul I do like his videos and what he shares, he is an intelligent and wise man but certainly there is a gap, a big one!!! He is not a spiritual guru, only an enlightened being can (to me at least)

    • @glowgaur8702
      @glowgaur8702 4 роки тому +2

      Its like you have got a fish but to eat that you will have to COOK yourself. He just gave hints to identify rest work is upto you. How you gonna re-solve that memory thats totally depends on individual.

    • @arturohernandez6770
      @arturohernandez6770 4 роки тому +2

      @@glowgaur8702 to be honest, I've seen more of his talks and he is usually clearer, very clear actually!...

    • @nonodlamini
      @nonodlamini 4 роки тому +2

      You’re right. I’ve identified a few unresolved emotional experiences myself, but as for how I resolve them? I still have no clue after watching this video.

  • @azrajamal879
    @azrajamal879 4 роки тому +17

    please would you like to suggest how can we remove scars of past from our subconscious mind ?

    • @7sweetguy
      @7sweetguy 4 роки тому +10

      Work on good things in life. If u had something bad, think what good u wanted for u and do it for others. Trust this helps

    • @the1betterpodcast84
      @the1betterpodcast84 3 роки тому +2

      try to watch a video called "How to heal the emotional body" by Teal Swan..

    • @BaybeeGful
      @BaybeeGful 3 роки тому +4

      Therapy. Journaling, meditation! This is possible

  • @eastbaywolf7667
    @eastbaywolf7667 3 роки тому

    Binge watching these nuggets

  • @kunsangangmo9955
    @kunsangangmo9955 3 роки тому

    Hii... Dandapani... I have almost watched all of your motivation videos.. All of them are mind-blowing... Since then i became your huge fan...as you stated we are never taught how to concentrate.. So can u tell me how can we teach concentration ???

  • @kerryirving2949
    @kerryirving2949 4 роки тому +7

    Yes this is SO TRUE!!
    I’m experiencing this now & have been since last year.
    Terrible what the teacher did to the boy though!!

    • @therintoo1180
      @therintoo1180 4 роки тому +1

      Are u practising concentration from a year ?

    • @therintoo1180
      @therintoo1180 4 роки тому +1

      Are u concentrating on every thing like even on thought , actually I gave up after some struglles ,can u plz help me .sis

    • @kerryirving2949
      @kerryirving2949 4 роки тому

      Christian song BGMs that’s not what I mean no. I mean things that I’ve experienced in my life I’m triggered when something the same or similar happened now, like what is said & explained in this video

    • @kerryirving2949
      @kerryirving2949 4 роки тому

      Christian song BGMs what do you want help with?

    • @nonodlamini
      @nonodlamini 4 роки тому

      kerry Irving hey, if you don’t mind, can you please share an example of how you resolved an emotional experience, and how now you no more react to its trigger(s)? I didn’t really understand that aspect from the video

  • @rakeshganapuram8556
    @rakeshganapuram8556 4 роки тому +26

    Im and Most of them are suffering this problem, Can you please explain clearly
    How to over come with this issue

    • @shellygupta1093
      @shellygupta1093 4 роки тому +7

      When something disturbing your mind, watch it and say to yourself it's my conditioning or attachment that disturbing me.i realese that attachment conciousally.as u say u experience peace

    • @Chlrintruc
      @Chlrintruc 4 роки тому +2

      There is a video by Bruce Lipton in which he explains how to reprogram the subconscious beliefs

    • @priyankachoudhary628
      @priyankachoudhary628 4 роки тому

      @@Chlrintruc can you share the link please. i want to watch the video.

    • @77777aol
      @77777aol 4 роки тому +1

      @@priyankachoudhary628 : ua-cam.com/video/GYQRVn8ttwM/v-deo.html there are a few other talks by Bruce Lipton on the same topic.

  • @whattowatchrightnow
    @whattowatchrightnow 3 роки тому +1

    easy, those are thing things I have nightmares about. those are my unresolved issues.

  • @anushreenagaraj2242
    @anushreenagaraj2242 4 роки тому +2

    How do we work on these unresolved issues?

  • @nishisingh997
    @nishisingh997 3 роки тому

    Sir..how you have resolved this issue. What did you tell to self to resolve this incident which was 30 years old.

  • @personwithaquestion1800
    @personwithaquestion1800 4 роки тому +1

    Wow. So beautiful. Exactly what I was looking for. Is there a more conscious way of identifying these issues? And once you have identified these issues, how do you resolve them, is there any material for this?

    • @BaybeeGful
      @BaybeeGful 3 роки тому

      Paying attention and journaling your thoughts and behaviours! You will see a pattern, and ask how was this shown in my childhood? Once you identify them, keep journaling, meditation to manage deep emotions, to accept and tune in your body. Therapy also helps

    • @personwithaquestion1800
      @personwithaquestion1800 3 роки тому +1

      @@BaybeeGful I mean how do you resolve those underlying issues so they dont crop up anymore in the subconscious while being in the conscious? Is there another way ?

    • @BaybeeGful
      @BaybeeGful 3 роки тому +1

      Priya P the things I mentioned is some of the way. It helped me with my unresolved issues. Therapy helped made sense of them and I did the rest of the work myself hence those tasks. You need to first make sense of where they come from, what is in your subconscious and how that is affecting your life todya - that’s the first step! Second is to write down patterns you see, root cause etc. because to understand, is to accept and let go which rewires our subscuous. You are doing the work to rewire the patterns and undo them! It takes a lot of time, not a night thing.

  • @akkiikka9388
    @akkiikka9388 3 роки тому +1

    What to do when we find that Unresolved issue from Subconscious mind i also get many memories like that but what to do after getting awareness of that memory

    • @manas142
      @manas142 3 роки тому

      Living in awareness leads to the melting away of that emotion. Basically the external emotions are a result of your past memories. Like the anger/greed/hatred/love are all there because of past memories. If you are aware of them right during the arising of the emotion , you can subside them.

  • @privateaccount6213
    @privateaccount6213 2 роки тому

    Wow I didn’t realize old memories resurfacing was events needing healing. I observed the memory, thinking how it made me feel sad, but didn’t put it together to heal that past event. I’m actually not sure how to heal it, How to you heal those old situations that resurface?

  • @nikitalotlikar1954
    @nikitalotlikar1954 3 роки тому

    Then how do we resolve it ? Is there a video on it?

  • @anamikasamthaan8551
    @anamikasamthaan8551 3 роки тому

    I really want him to write book.

  • @vidhyaiyengar7920
    @vidhyaiyengar7920 10 місяців тому

    1.Seek your answers to your reactions
    2.to check on unresolved emotions reasons to improve us.

  • @sujeeshkottay
    @sujeeshkottay 3 роки тому +1

    The man changed my life ....
    A billion dollars question made resolved

  • @ncrdjdhamaka
    @ncrdjdhamaka 4 роки тому

    Hi guru dev me apse Kuch batte Karna chatha please solve my problems

  • @sweetyadwani373
    @sweetyadwani373 3 роки тому

    How do we resolve those? After identifying?

  • @prasannakumarsivasubramani522
    @prasannakumarsivasubramani522 4 роки тому +5

    Well Swami ji, how to resolve this unresolved memories of emotions?

    • @Sonuahlawat20
      @Sonuahlawat20 4 роки тому +2

      Observe all of your triggered emotions .....Dont give those emotions any label....just observe and your awareness give u al of your ans...

    • @excelacademy9252
      @excelacademy9252 4 роки тому

      Just stop reacting to those memories.... be unreactive to negativity and you become the buddha.....

  • @lawreence-5234
    @lawreence-5234 4 роки тому +1

    🕉️🚩

  • @chitrabisht9421
    @chitrabisht9421 4 роки тому +1

    How to work on un resolved issue

  • @hsnse
    @hsnse 3 роки тому

    So how do you resolve them?

  • @durgaashtekar1112
    @durgaashtekar1112 3 роки тому +1

    if you control instant reflex reaction then one can identify issues hiding in subconscious mind

  • @yrrani5613
    @yrrani5613 3 роки тому

    Sir, after identifying them how to come out of them?

  • @angellight9430
    @angellight9430 3 роки тому

    How do you resolve these unresolved experiences??

  • @abhijitsaiprem4480
    @abhijitsaiprem4480 3 роки тому

    🙏🌺👍

  • @MissJayana
    @MissJayana 3 роки тому

    What you are describing is obvious, the vast majority of people have unresolved issues esp. from childhood. And these are triggered the whole day, without even us being aware of it - that's how we have been taught to filter people, judge things (good vs. bad, convenient or not etc) or let circumstances influence our mood etc. but HOW to consciously identify them - that was not mentioned in the video. What if I have an issue from the age of 1 year old and I don't remember it?

  • @ramalakshmimurugesan1288
    @ramalakshmimurugesan1288 4 роки тому +5

    ஓம் சரவண பவமுருகா தமிழில் பேசி வீடியோ போடுங்க நம் மக்கள் அனைவரும் கேட்கனும்

    • @kerunsuresh7131
      @kerunsuresh7131 4 роки тому +1

      He s In U.S..u expect him to speak him tamil ??? loose

    • @tamizh9259
      @tamizh9259 4 роки тому +1

      @@kerunsuresh7131
      So what ?
      He may be in U.S. but his name is in pure tamil which describes lord muruga.
      Thats what may be that person ask him to post in tamil.
      Who are you to decide them as a loose ?

    • @kerunsuresh7131
      @kerunsuresh7131 4 роки тому +1

      @@tamizh9259 Who are you to ask me ???

  • @minakshibajwa9513
    @minakshibajwa9513 3 роки тому

    Please tell the song name.

  • @ashutoshpandey4320
    @ashutoshpandey4320 4 роки тому

    on namah shivaya

  • @annachen2481
    @annachen2481 3 роки тому

    How to deal with negative people?

  • @saritapanwar2869
    @saritapanwar2869 3 роки тому

    I have many unresolved issues in my subconscious.

  • @visakh1favoriteodath158
    @visakh1favoriteodath158 4 роки тому

    Plz use subtitles

  • @jyothisajeev5773
    @jyothisajeev5773 3 роки тому

    Many times you can identify unresolved issues but then what to do about it?

    • @louisianaeu828
      @louisianaeu828 3 роки тому

      Check Wuwei Wisdom channel in here , you will find the answer on the inner child videos

  • @reg8297
    @reg8297 3 роки тому

    So if your subconscious is traumatised to. Death from. Ripple effects of childhood abuse and your spirit is truly killed how do u fix that

  • @geministateofmind.Illusions
    @geministateofmind.Illusions 4 роки тому +1

    🤘✌💜👁🙏🌼🌻

  • @jayaramanganapathi9385
    @jayaramanganapathi9385 3 роки тому +1

    I felt there was no need to insult a teacher from 30 years past to prove a point. The story could have stopped with the student dropping coins. It does convey that we carry lot of information in sub conscious mind.

    • @arivoliford
      @arivoliford 3 роки тому

      Teacher is not mahatma..so, no worries. I guess.
      He might have experienced coins falling sound many number of times in his life, but its only your memories with higher emotional states gets stored in sub concious and tries to get you back to that moment when a similar incident is perceived in your mind...
      Your first encounter of love, sadness, fear, joy is always stored.. Also, negative emotions store stronger than positive ones.
      As time passes, Consecutive higher emotion states too get stored to prepare you and prevent you from similar events in future..
      While your subconscious mind's duty is to protect you and keep you alive, at all times, it is not necessarily that you have to react in the same way as you did earlier..
      That's the understanding you will get when you're expanding your awareness or consciousness..
      Thanks for your time..

  • @tanusharma1102
    @tanusharma1102 3 роки тому

    What am I reacting to?
    Learn how the mind works.!!!!

  • @FriendlyMom
    @FriendlyMom 4 роки тому

    how to observe subconscious??

    • @satyashila
      @satyashila 4 роки тому

      Start meditation.. Sadguru has online meditation videos

  • @livinghappy5923
    @livinghappy5923 4 роки тому +3

    Hi what to do next, when you see unresolved issues

    • @kerryirving2949
      @kerryirving2949 4 роки тому

      living happy I have threpy

    • @shitaldahiya
      @shitaldahiya 4 роки тому +2

      Dandapani Sir answered it here:..
      ua-cam.com/video/wjneYDk-Yg0/v-deo.html

    • @Mayank_2K24
      @Mayank_2K24 4 роки тому

      @@shitaldahiya Thank you!👍

  • @Dontblamethemonkey
    @Dontblamethemonkey 3 роки тому

    Post traumatic stress disorder

  • @amirulhazwankamaruddin2267
    @amirulhazwankamaruddin2267 3 роки тому

    Who ia that teacher in Malaysia?? Haha

  • @mickcameron821
    @mickcameron821 3 роки тому

    do you think that assistant got thrown out the window?

  • @wala5089
    @wala5089 4 роки тому +2

    Seconded

  • @mayanktuli079
    @mayanktuli079 2 роки тому

    The question is how to remove that bag from our mind?