Off The Record: What's Something You Could Never Tell Your Mother?

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  • Опубліковано 18 гру 2024

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  • @naomieadair5635
    @naomieadair5635 Рік тому +81

    I *really* appreciate Bart’s transparency when it comes to his childhood and parents. He’s always been so open & honest about his feelings towards them. They’ve always been complicated emotions but he’s been able to articulate them so well. and I’m sure it’s helped more people than he’ll ever realize who also are children who didn’t really get to have a childhood.

  • @oeisuj
    @oeisuj Рік тому +81

    This era of jk is some how more mature n deep and dumb as hell lmaoo lovin it

    • @mablelinchow
      @mablelinchow Рік тому

      I know! I'm loving how at random times they will use viewer comments and make me feel like I'm part of their inside jokes. Like Joe's love for all things feudal Japan lol

  • @KJ-ek2ze
    @KJ-ek2ze Рік тому +29

    This is such a legendary channel man. Sucks for people who dont know. JKN forever

  • @TheTiffMak
    @TheTiffMak Рік тому +59

    This video brought a couple tears to my eyes. This hit home on a lot of points. Made me think of all the secrets I'll never get to tell my mom 😔
    Really enjoyed the inner reflection from Bart and Joe. It's amazing to hear someone so eloquently talk about such a hard topic.
    Thanks for the video today ❤

  • @bobbyalistor
    @bobbyalistor Рік тому +24

    this video shouldve been about their darkest lies but it turns out to be so wholesome about their love to their parents

  • @muhammadaynaan4906
    @muhammadaynaan4906 Рік тому +20

    Wow this was a deep episode. Made me realize my own relationship with my parents and what I need to do to fix it. Thank you, you guys have genuinely made me a better person.

  • @GeeCeeee1
    @GeeCeeee1 Рік тому +15

    I fcking teared up on the statement of joe with his mom.

  • @omghi95
    @omghi95 Рік тому +7

    Bart's "Yas queen" is valid. It reminds me of that Ted Lasso moment where he says " f you for not working on yourself" to his mom while they were finally having a heart to heart. Between that and balancing grief I genuinely wish him well on this.

  • @brandonianproductions
    @brandonianproductions Рік тому +111

    Fun fact: this woman in the thumbnail used to be in an old thumbnail way back then. I think D-Trix was the guest. The video might be private now.

    • @dan0acuesta733
      @dan0acuesta733 Рік тому +54

      this is such an oddly specific OG JK Fan Fact… 😭🤣

    • @brandonianproductions
      @brandonianproductions Рік тому +13

      @@dan0acuesta733 Oh they changed it now!! But the first few minutes of this upload (I have notifications on), they used the same old woman pic that was used long ago.
      Haha when you have your favorite JKN episodes playing on repeat, you recognize thumbnails once you’ve watched them enough times.

    • @jay1jayf
      @jay1jayf Рік тому +4

      @@brandonianproductions"Grandma finds the internet" is an old school meme template.

    • @Crystal-ze1qq
      @Crystal-ze1qq Рік тому +14

      I want them to unprivate the old videos so baddddd

    • @aquaviii
      @aquaviii Рік тому +3

      Lol throwback

  • @DamnAwesome
    @DamnAwesome Рік тому +12

    I loved how wholesome this video was! I hope Ryan gets a redemption soon!

  • @Joshua-mv5zp
    @Joshua-mv5zp Рік тому +3

    Damn joe and Bart went deep in this one. Good to see growth between them their moms.

  • @sintiayuliani9123
    @sintiayuliani9123 Рік тому +17

    Bart's relationship with his mum after papa kwan passed is something else.. hopefully every trauma will be resolved at the end of the day

  • @kiarademoner
    @kiarademoner Рік тому +3

    Steve is a friken savage 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TheTinyOrc
    @TheTinyOrc Рік тому +3

    7:16 Kalyn’s played into it😂

  • @michaelborrome7462
    @michaelborrome7462 Рік тому

    This was such an open, no BS, and honest conversation. Loved it.

  • @dragonitepwns
    @dragonitepwns Рік тому +8

    Yas Queen bart is fantastic. Hahaha

  • @RVT_Catherine
    @RVT_Catherine Рік тому +5

    What a great episode these are my favorite when they have deep conversations. I was relating to Bart and Joe with their stories with their moms. The fact that they could be open and honest with them is amazing 👏

  • @RevoZtuns
    @RevoZtuns Рік тому +1

    30 seconds into the vid, and Steve got us all dying 😂

  • @lamThinker
    @lamThinker Рік тому +5

    As an Asian guy, both my parents have and still say "I love you" and gives me hugs. Used to think it was embarrassing as a kid 😅 . But God, i love them for their sacrifices

  • @nickatinaaa
    @nickatinaaa Рік тому +6

    Yaaaaassssss Bart! I loveee that for you lol sometimes parents need that shit talked back to them fr 😂

  • @Flatbushlady15
    @Flatbushlady15 Рік тому +7

    Who would have known "yass queen" Bart and crew described being 30+ the best in this time in my life.

  • @jw7268
    @jw7268 Рік тому +7

    Yas queen Bart 😂

  • @DonnellG
    @DonnellG Рік тому +6

    Joe's Mama looks like a sweet lil ol lady lol, hard to imagine she was like that 😅. Glad that you guys worked it out. Being close with your family (if possible) is always a better situation.

  • @mela2727
    @mela2727 Рік тому +7

    hey genuinely, thanks for sharing you guys. i can relate to the stories on some levels and definitely did not expect to get choked up in the middle of the video lol! again thanks for another amazing video!

  • @ncpalafox
    @ncpalafox Рік тому +2

    ryan and your dad mr. Imay, your love language with him is totally valid👍

  • @applepieclub5012
    @applepieclub5012 Рік тому +4

    All this time, we’ve been touting Nick as the master deflector of the group. Did y’all see how fast and how smoothly Kalyne deflected the question?

  • @damnphoreal7389
    @damnphoreal7389 Рік тому

    Yas Queen Bart lmfao 😂😂😂

  • @darrylt8502
    @darrylt8502 Рік тому +3

    When Ryan laughs uncontrollably and Barts eyes are nowhere to be seen, that's when I lost my shit as well - tear level laugh lol.

  • @YouCanCallMeBobot
    @YouCanCallMeBobot Рік тому +2

    Asian parents are not as expressive as the western parents. My family never said we love each other but we just treat each other well. But when I was growing up, I lived with my uncle who's a white American and he always tells me that he loves me every time I go to school and before I sleep at night.

  • @MartyD
    @MartyD Рік тому +5

    kalyne 🖤

  • @TheTinyOrc
    @TheTinyOrc Рік тому +1

    Seeing Bart and Joe make progress is so wholesome

  • @cynn_thor
    @cynn_thor Рік тому

    "YoU hAnG uP mOm" lol had me dead.

  • @podcastExtensaMente
    @podcastExtensaMente Рік тому +4

    When people are in survival mode for a very long time, specially if it is in a very different and unfamiliar environment it is usually common to suppress emotions. There were many previous generations in the world that went through war and scarcity, I think this issue with parents being emotionally unavailable from previous generations is tranversal to many cultures and countries. But, it is also true that kids everywhere don´t tell everything to their parents, that is how we build our individuality😊 besides there are things we do when we are kids that probably should never be told!😄

  • @CristineTot
    @CristineTot Рік тому +9

    19:49 Nick flexing that chest muscle. I wonder if he did it unconsciously. Lol.
    This was a very good episode. I can relate with Bart, Joe, and Ryan in so many levels. Especially, where you find it hard to say even a simple "I love you" to your parents. That's one regret that I have, not being able to say that enough to my dad before he died. As for my relationship with my mother, it's more complicated. I personally think she has an undiagnosed Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
    It is just so hard to have a meaningful conversation with her because she'll either twist it or make it everything about her. So, in order to preserve my mental health, I keep communication with her to a bare minimum. Imagine doing that when you're living in the same house. I'm still hoping for the best, but I learned long ago not to set my expectations too high.

    • @bobbyalistor
      @bobbyalistor Рік тому

      as someone who does that, its definitely unconciously done 😂

  • @RobertsYang
    @RobertsYang Рік тому +11

    I would love to see their mom's on JK news

    • @ginogarcia8730
      @ginogarcia8730 Рік тому +1

      haha just their parents show up and do a roundtable, how dope

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +2

      In all honesty it could give the crew an eye opening take from their parents' perspective like this video was from their own perspective.

  • @Roy-ml5fn
    @Roy-ml5fn Рік тому +2

    Struggling to say “Love you” to my parents is so relatable 😭 it’s weird because my family say it to each other over text or FaceTime but RARELY in person. Growing up I always heard my mom say it to me but it was mostly during certain occasions like winning an award, birthdays, and graduations. My dad on the other hand rarely said it and when he did say it he always mumbled it 😂 Also, I think being a long distance away from my parents would change this. I guess we never got used to telling it to one another in person because growing up it always felt forced. But I don’t really think it’s a big deal. There are other ways my parents expressed their love for me and honestly I’d take that over empty words.

  • @ryebread869
    @ryebread869 Рік тому +1

    Joe's mum seems so articulate that's so nice

  • @cusifeltlikeit
    @cusifeltlikeit Рік тому +2

    Steve at the end 😂🤣

  • @TommyVs33
    @TommyVs33 Рік тому +1

    great episode thx Joe me n u always on the same page! Great lessons.

  • @monicavalencia4848
    @monicavalencia4848 Рік тому +1

    Omg 😅😂 you guys go Bart so good way you do them 😂

  • @lyricallyinclined8159
    @lyricallyinclined8159 Рік тому +2

    BRUH!!! Steve I have the exact same situation! Married for 18 years and counting! I honestly don’t care for it but I just want to do it to hers! And I LOVE scaring her with the thought of it 😂

  • @YVESBlueBeard00
    @YVESBlueBeard00 Рік тому +1

    fuck yeah braces are expensive 💀💀joe’s impression was on the nose

  • @sympul
    @sympul 11 місяців тому

    Holy shit you're just surrounded in darkness - got me absolutely dying in tears

  • @ItsElenaMarie
    @ItsElenaMarie Рік тому +1

    These videos really help me get through my 12 hr shifts 😂

  • @karinaserah
    @karinaserah Рік тому +1

    This awesome. Love you guys (respectfuly).

  • @Alexander-xk2nb
    @Alexander-xk2nb Рік тому +1

    I opened this video hoping that Bart was in it, cause I KNEW he didn't have a line and wanted to know what he'd say.

  • @fellyf89
    @fellyf89 Рік тому +1

    I relate to Ryan not being able to say I love you. I force myself to say it but it's still awkward

  • @FULLMETAL5.0
    @FULLMETAL5.0 Рік тому

    Great video and awesome stories from alll of the guys.

  • @UniqueStranger
    @UniqueStranger Рік тому +1

    Iam Tongi's cover of "Monsters" would be the perfect soundtrack for this episode of JK News.

  • @ethansou
    @ethansou Рік тому +4

    I was worried there wasn't going to be an otr today.

  • @jhc577
    @jhc577 Рік тому +6

    damn I was just having this conversation with my friends. I feel like my parents are gonna die without knowing who their son truly is. They probably have an idea or an image in their head, but its not who I truly am. Very sad

  • @atienzo98
    @atienzo98 Рік тому +1

    Great video, super wholesome

  • @cedareverly5450
    @cedareverly5450 Рік тому +3

    It's so refreshing seeing others put words into the weird dynamics they have with their families. Ryan's take really hit home too, well said!

  • @alona123ist
    @alona123ist Рік тому +1

    Oh, the good 😂 old days.

  • @zeeya.industries
    @zeeya.industries Рік тому +3

    That thumbnail got me thinking it's an old video hahaha

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster Рік тому +1

    I got arrested for beating someone ass. Was in jail for 4hrs until my friend bailed me

  • @cobebryantligan9881
    @cobebryantligan9881 Рік тому +1

    This episode is hella deep and funny at the same time.

  • @mablelinchow
    @mablelinchow Рік тому +1

    This was such a good otr. Bart needed this. And damn steve for ending it 😂. I'm here in my own Yas Queen phase. Lol. Not as brazen. But heading there and I wanted to hear more

  • @jasin95
    @jasin95 Рік тому +3

    Things I couldn’t tell my mother are things I couldn’t tell anybody

  • @MaGmaRinE
    @MaGmaRinE Рік тому +1

    when are the episodes where joe and bart's moms come onto the show 😂

  • @Max25670
    @Max25670 Рік тому +1

    Bart got some serious mommy issues 🤣

  • @RoderickTom-ge1vc
    @RoderickTom-ge1vc Рік тому +5

    Kalyne is Cool😎

  • @BrigidopeBautista
    @BrigidopeBautista Рік тому +3

    i think the antithesis to buddhism would be not becoming enlightened because you were too attached to your passions

  • @mzkarma6751
    @mzkarma6751 Рік тому

    i don’t think ive told my parents i love them in years

  • @r.sakarollsafe1285
    @r.sakarollsafe1285 Рік тому +3

    I LOVE YOU
    Asian Family : We don't do it here.. come eat some more rice

  • @anthonyknotts
    @anthonyknotts Рік тому +1

    This era of jk is great!

  • @jpi45
    @jpi45 Рік тому +1

    I can only say i love u to my parents in text. Never in person.

  • @Jerome-S
    @Jerome-S Рік тому +1

    isn’t this a old repost?

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +6

    Bart's new theme song...Beyoncé's Run the world. 😏 Edit: And lolol Joe and Steve, imagine if your moms found the video when you were trolling Sherry Cola about your stances on oral. 🤣🤣

  • @AnthonyMorel-q9g
    @AnthonyMorel-q9g Рік тому +3

    Good vid

  • @TeddyBearHugs25
    @TeddyBearHugs25 Рік тому +5

    Ryan's part made me tear up ❤️

    • @Jayydubss
      @Jayydubss Рік тому +2

      I mean his stories about what his dad did to him physically was crazy…don’t blame him for not really having a strong relationship with him

  • @hammstnb
    @hammstnb Рік тому

    YASSS QUEEENN HAHAHA

  • @mbp0092
    @mbp0092 Рік тому +3

    I hope Ryan's dad apologizes for all the abuse he did to him growing up. I still think about some of the stories he told and it breaks my heart. It makes sense as to why they don't have a relationship where they can just say I love you.

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster Рік тому

    Kaylne with the quick wit "wouldn't it be her ass? " lol😂

  • @TheThan-sx8ve
    @TheThan-sx8ve Рік тому +1

    What did Ryan mean by the Hare Krishna reference?

  • @shwindy.cancer6062
    @shwindy.cancer6062 Рік тому +2

    0:07 Deeznuts on your chin.

  • @Ace-zw1db
    @Ace-zw1db Рік тому

    I love you is barely or almost never spoken in most Filipino household except to those families who have western influence.

  • @lerrojcv3987
    @lerrojcv3987 Рік тому

    😂😂😂😅😅

  • @SS-vt1hb
    @SS-vt1hb Рік тому +1

    Opposite of Buddhism is Maoism

  • @Jocarla5
    @Jocarla5 Рік тому +1

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MrLiljoker310
    @MrLiljoker310 10 місяців тому

    They never gave a fuck about their parents because i love them and they are fake asf

  • @SELENASGLAMLIFE
    @SELENASGLAMLIFE Рік тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @Regaliia
    @Regaliia Рік тому

    JK TO 3M and the belly button piercing 😊

  • @Richardarbizo
    @Richardarbizo Рік тому

    I have trouble telling my parents I love them too. Separate reasons for each cuz my relationship with them were so different. But I only tell them on bdays, father/Mother's Day and Christmas I sort of force myself even tho I mean it

  • @Superstuffed
    @Superstuffed Рік тому

    I swear I've seen this video already.

  • @brooklynn5041
    @brooklynn5041 Рік тому +1

    Were is Geo

  • @VationTv
    @VationTv Рік тому +2

    👍

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому

    Amazing episode. I could never not have my mom know because she had some sort of witchy ass abilities lol. She always knew everything before I even thought about telling her. Steve has said this to Nikki on their podcast as well 😂😂. Definitely very hard and now with allot of regret because my parents are gone but my mother and I never did the I love yous. My dad always did but not my mom. With my kids, I told them all the time but my daughter is so weird about it now lol. I tell my grandkids it all the time though.

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому

    You guys have really kept the comments so nice since I was away for a little bit. Thank ya'll.

  • @-amosc.presley-7192
    @-amosc.presley-7192 Рік тому +1

    I could never tell my Mom who I had sex with unless that’s my Main Girl my Wife. To be honest my Mother is a Christian so she probably wouldn’t want me to tell her that? To be honest my Mother is Old-school so, I have to be more Casual around her. Lol

  • @TonyMontanaXx
    @TonyMontanaXx Рік тому +2

    Never tell your mother you got her daughter pregnant

  • @Hellobro2727
    @Hellobro2727 Рік тому

    First noobs

  • @sagathekawaiikilla
    @sagathekawaiikilla Рік тому

    One mom gunna see and snitch to all the other moms 🥲 YALL KNOW HOW IT GO

  • @Calida
    @Calida Рік тому +1

    I didn't expect to cry for today's last episode 🥹💔❤️‍🩹

  • @MartyD
    @MartyD Рік тому +1

    kalyne 🖤