Off The Record: Should You Let Your GF Have Guy Friends?

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  • Опубліковано 7 жов 2024
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    • Hosted by Steve Greene
    • Commentary by: Anthony Lee, Nick Dunn, Joe Jitsukawa, Ryanimay
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 213

  • @jessicacastillo9186
    @jessicacastillo9186 Рік тому +112

    Kalyne and Nikki need to be a video together I feel like they would get along 😺😸

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +17

      Nikki is going to be in upcoming videos that she has already filmed with the crew. She mentioned it on her vlog. It will be interesting to see which crew members were there when she filmed her episodes.

    • @CaliburPANDAs
      @CaliburPANDAs Рік тому +13

      Nikki gets along with anyone though

    • @it_punkkid7298
      @it_punkkid7298 Рік тому

      Omg yess I agree that should happen

    • @cynn_thor
      @cynn_thor Рік тому

      I agree. I don't think kalyne vibes well with Julia

    • @it_punkkid7298
      @it_punkkid7298 Рік тому +1

      @@cynn_thor well I think julia not been on forever so se don't know how things work

  • @kiarademoner
    @kiarademoner Рік тому +40

    So when I was starting to date my now husband I had a “bestfriend” that was a guy. My husband was super particular about him and didn’t like him at all! I used to get so upset with my husband telling him that he is my brother and he has NEVER tried to go there with me. He kept insisting that my friend liked me. Fast forward a month later when my husband asked me to be his gf and made it official I posted a picture of us on my insta. The next day my “bestfriend” called me spilling his guts and telling me that he has been in love with me for years and didn’t want to ruin it but now that he saw how serious I was getting with my now husband he had to let it out. My husband was always right. 😩😂

    • @IvanGoldBit
      @IvanGoldBit Рік тому +1

      Lol all guys want sex few guys tell you upfront and maybe half of guys wait for it just because you want to friends doesn't mean the person just wants to friends.

    • @coasterthekid8867
      @coasterthekid8867 11 місяців тому +3

      If he really cared about you, he would’ve just kept it to himself. He told you because he needed you to know, it’s selfish really. He had so much time to tell you, but only did once he thought he was losing you.

    • @kiarademoner
      @kiarademoner 11 місяців тому

      @@coasterthekid8867 I felt so lied to. And kind of gross because I used to sleep in his house sometimes and felt “safe” because he never tried to do anything with me. I seriously thought he was like a brother to me. This whole time this man saw me differently and I can’t even imagine what he used to be thinking of whenever I was hanging out with him. And the thought that I used to get mad at my husband whenever he used to tell me about him smh lol

    • @SpAzZzZz_
      @SpAzZzZz_ 5 місяців тому

      Men know how men operate

  • @thersanothersidetome
    @thersanothersidetome Рік тому +50

    I’ve always been the boyfriend that wasn’t threatened or worried that my girl was gonna cheat because like Joe said, if she’s gonna do it, it’s better that I know rather than try to control and then create a sneaky habit. On the other end though, I have also been in situations where a female friend of mine would be touchy or just hanging out close to me when their bf was around and at that point I would act like I had superglue in my arm pits so I would not be touching them even accidentally lol.

  • @cierragallarza
    @cierragallarza Рік тому +26

    Joe's shirt kept making me laugh throughout the whole video xD The face kept getting all crumpled in the funniest ways lolll

  • @nicolepi517
    @nicolepi517 Рік тому +15

    The down payment comment took me OUT 😂

  • @thomaschristopherwhite9043
    @thomaschristopherwhite9043 Рік тому +11

    Dude this is fun as shit! This is definitely going in the "Im gonna come back to this one once in a while" type of video.

  • @victoriaskyful
    @victoriaskyful Рік тому +10

    I wish this vid never ended LMAOO

  • @putriazalia9248
    @putriazalia9248 Рік тому +7

    This needs pt. 2

  • @daisyw23
    @daisyw23 Рік тому +4

    Omg can I please get the guys’ perspectives on the difference between 1 on 1 hangout vs a date!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +18

    Tim makes it work. He said he has a lot of homegirls he's been friends with for years. And when he got together with Chia, they became her friends, too. One of them is even Chia's OBGYN. And another is the one Chia has him take to events because she doesn't like going out to the events the way his friend does.

    • @ivyyang7752
      @ivyyang7752 Рік тому +4

      They really need to ask Tim this question on here though

  • @_Maxten
    @_Maxten Рік тому +5

    i feel like if your gf is gonna have guy friends those guy friends need to be your friends too, or at least be properly acquainted and sometimes around and friendly with each other.

  • @k.iskandar
    @k.iskandar Рік тому +21

    I mean every guy would wish for a no. But ultimately your partner should be able to be friends with whomever as you both should have that level of trust where you know your partner wouldn't do anything to jeopardise your relationship. But people do stupid things.

  • @-amosc.presley-7192
    @-amosc.presley-7192 Рік тому +6

    I think I believe that my Girlfriend, Fiancé are Wife should have guys for friends as long as I get a chance to know them also and if she allows me to have ladies as my friend a 2 for 1 agreement.

  • @tinabeee7350
    @tinabeee7350 Рік тому +9

    Poor Ryan 😂

  • @stellahaynesworth5833
    @stellahaynesworth5833 Рік тому +3

    Joe is definitely the Alpha "If i want you I'll get you!" 😄

  • @djWOOF
    @djWOOF Рік тому +22

    There's a difference between when you're in college or younger and when you're a grown ass man and woman.
    I have friends that are girls and we can just say I love you to each other without it being sexual and they have their own husbands.
    And we're definitely not trying to fuck each other.
    Also my fiance has guy friends who I'm also friends with and it's totally cool.

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +2

      Amen!!!

    • @peaceout41
      @peaceout41 Рік тому

      My friend his best friends girlfriend was around 24 at the time and the other Guy whose kink is older married women was about 27 the last time I spoke to him. He had no age range too. From 23-60. I knew him since college so about 9 years from first time I meant him in college.

  • @ssenluong17
    @ssenluong17 Рік тому +3

    Laughed so hard in this one “dress so pretty”

  • @jk4115
    @jk4115 Рік тому +3

    the title of this video should've been try not to pounce on ryan challenge

  • @jasin95
    @jasin95 Рік тому +4

    i've learned things about why social things are the way they are from this video

  • @bfgboy2
    @bfgboy2 Рік тому +43

    Wow. The conversation on this topic was quite surprising to me. I've been a JK fan for many years now and I recall the days of Ask the Feels when the topic of platonic relationships was brought up. The crew back then had such strong opinions on the matter, and simply saw it in black & white: "platonic relationships good" end of story. If you were against it, you were just "ensecure" and "immature" about it, no concessions.
    And now while their overall opinion on the matter hasn't changed...the fact that the crew is now capable of not seeing the matter so simply as black & white, and were even capable of providing counterpoints and other perspectives is rather refreshing. It shows a level understanding, growth and experience over the years.

    • @WowHughJanus
      @WowHughJanus Рік тому +8

      You do realize the cast of people is completely different and maybe only joe was there back then. Lmao

  • @BritheKop
    @BritheKop Рік тому +3

    Anthony "you know what I mean" Lee! 😁

  • @BowlofPeaSoup
    @BowlofPeaSoup Рік тому

    These past couple uploads have been the best ones in a while! Thanks guys!

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +2

    The snake 🐍 🤣 🤣🤣🤣

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +75

    I'm older and the older I get I think it's fine if there's trust between two people and trust in the friends. There Def needs to be boundaries, don't disrespect the relationship the girl is in, by any means. No late night calls or rides unless it's an emergency. My daughter is in her early 30's and has ONLY guy friends and she's been that way her whole life. So my answer is yes, it's possible.

    • @sxhxlzxb
      @sxhxlzxb Рік тому +8

      Your daughter and me are alike, grew up just around boys too

    • @crossingboundaries56
      @crossingboundaries56 Рік тому

      If your daughter gave the opprotunity to fuck to anyone of her guy friends most would likely do it. Like they were saying in the video.
      Guys are kind of animals LOL

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +6

      @@crossingboundaries56 that's why she set boundaries and if they even try it they are no longer friends, I've lived long enough on this earth to know you have a point lol

    • @MYNAMElSDAVID
      @MYNAMElSDAVID Рік тому

      Your daughter is getting passed around by a pack of dudes, buddy. They are not her friends

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +3

      @@MYNAMElSDAVID you know what you are sick, my daughter has two beautiful children and a significant other, shame on you.

  • @o6fade800
    @o6fade800 Рік тому +3

    As a Guy I have my own boundaries. You can think another person is attractive looking and not fuck that person. To me that’s kinda plain and simple. I like to respect people in their relationship cuz I don’t want people to do things to my relationships.

  • @a_mamj
    @a_mamj Рік тому +2

    20:55 that was so in sync!!! 😂😂😂

  • @ku9145
    @ku9145 Рік тому +2

    No way, Stephen 'tWitch' Boss took his own life. Seen him since his SYTYCD days and he was always such a positive light. RIP

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +1

      Damn. He always seemed so happy and smiling. 😔I feel for his wife and kids; esp. losing him in such a way and during the holidays at that. May they all receive the comfort, strength, help and healing they are gonna need.

  • @victorc1922
    @victorc1922 Рік тому +3

    I'm more worried about her 'gay friend' xD

  • @ivyyang7752
    @ivyyang7752 Рік тому +4

    ❤Steve not wanting to bang Anthony.
    ❤Everyone wanting to spread Ryan’s cheeks.
    ❤️Steve and Anthony singing together

  • @dare98
    @dare98 Рік тому +7

    You guys are hilarious 🤣

  • @ASAP-Pocky
    @ASAP-Pocky Рік тому +2

    18:20 😂😂😂😂😂 joe with these sneaky ones

  • @lionelldalguntas
    @lionelldalguntas Рік тому +3

    Kalyne talking about her to ryan.

  • @Youknow6969able
    @Youknow6969able Рік тому +2

    You give a fuckable vibe.
    "WHATS GIVING YOU THAT?" ryan gonna go home and train just in case, these snakes are hungry 😅

  • @andrewortega7833
    @andrewortega7833 Рік тому +2

    This gona be a juicy one

  • @SnowLilies
    @SnowLilies Рік тому +3

    I only have 1 guy friend that I fully trust, he's younger and like a little brother to me. He's the only one my bf trusts too. Most guys pretend to be my friend and then ghost me or lash out when they realize I'm not going to give them what they want. I've stopped trying to connect, it's not worth the disappointment. It's really hard to get accepted into a female clique so I just don't have friends. It's lonely out here 👍

    • @IvanGoldBit
      @IvanGoldBit Рік тому +1

      Just because he's younger and you feel on top because of your age lol 🤣 and "you" say we are friends doesn't mean he feels the same. I've seen guys wait years for chance men and women can't be platonic friends its just a matter of time for someone to catch feelings. Trust me as random guy all guys want sex some just longer than others watch for the 🐍 and im sure you know 9:13

    • @SnowLilies
      @SnowLilies Рік тому

      @@IvanGoldBit He calls me one of his best friends, we have a mentor type relationship. Are you saying that I shouldn't trust him either? 😂

    • @IvanGoldBit
      @IvanGoldBit Рік тому

      @@SnowLilies He's your friend not mine 😏

  • @sxhxlzxb
    @sxhxlzxb Рік тому +34

    As a female with majority of male friends since my childhood it’s just a lot of explaining when it comes to dating, I always try to introduce them. Ive learnt the insecure ones are always iffy and complains ab it. My other BFs were cool w my guy friends.

    • @-amosc.presley-7192
      @-amosc.presley-7192 Рік тому +1

      You’re lucky.

    • @masst7732
      @masst7732 Рік тому +33

      It's so funny the fact that women think those men just want to be their friend. I guarantee that if you call any of your male friends and ask them "do you want to have sex", they will ALL say yes.

    • @King_Me
      @King_Me Рік тому +18

      A female with majority male friends, there’s a word for that.
      😂😂

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +7

      @@King_Me that's not nice, my daughter has always had guy friends and I can guarantee you she's not what ever word you're trying to get at that's disrespectful.

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +3

      @@King_Me I mean honestly, why comment at all if you don't have anything nice to say.

  • @martinc1647
    @martinc1647 Рік тому

    11:59 "Yeah she does" kills me haha

  • @pushingp5193
    @pushingp5193 Рік тому +2

    All these little guys commenting their insecurities, y’all never had female friends in highschool? Or from socializing after uni?

  • @FiveSubj3x6
    @FiveSubj3x6 Рік тому

    I love the way you guys end every video

  • @BBoyDrkNova
    @BBoyDrkNova 11 місяців тому

    18:50 is this why Ryan grew out his beard ? lol 😂😂

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +1

    "Dominate Humbly" 😏

  • @FiveSubj3x6
    @FiveSubj3x6 Рік тому

    "Wheather or nor I would let you"
    After this statement is the FIRST time ever I seen Joe get caught off guard lololl
    Mann! So funny lol

  • @onka3895
    @onka3895 Рік тому +11

    🤔Ryan be lookin' like a snack tho 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @shhv3448
    @shhv3448 Рік тому

    I had to block someone once because they could not be my friend. I told him that I didn’t want anything with him other than friendship and he said he was okay with that. But not long after he “put me on notice” that he wanted to date me. His exact words, “I’m putting you on notice”. I was like if you want to be my friend, then be my friend, quit hitting on me. And I have told my current partner that we cannot be friends because of I was attracted to him when I was dating someone else before we got together.

  • @couchpotatoe9062
    @couchpotatoe9062 Рік тому

    13:08 that "NO" is so satisfying

  • @zizzybaby3695
    @zizzybaby3695 Рік тому

    Love from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @Rpgotoko
    @Rpgotoko Рік тому

    Always interesting topic

  • @CaliburPANDAs
    @CaliburPANDAs Рік тому +9

    Ryan and Joe should start an OnlyFans together 😍

  • @testing123.
    @testing123. Рік тому

    Ah i needed to hear this

  • @stinkynoodles8312
    @stinkynoodles8312 Рік тому +1

    i feel a little bit about joe because although I'm not attracted to my female friends, I do fantasize about them. But they're all clearly separated in my head because sex and relationships are two separate things to me, and I value relationships more than I value sex. I might lust after everyone, but I would never act on it. I cherish my friendships with people and I think having a deep and emotional connection to them is much better than just being deep inside them. It'd be nice, but so long as I am in control of myself, I would never fuck my friends.

  • @pinoyakosumagang
    @pinoyakosumagang Рік тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥episode

  • @Jiisica
    @Jiisica Рік тому

    Loved this video 🤣🤣🎄

  • @CaptainCJ97
    @CaptainCJ97 Рік тому

    1:18 need that as a gift

  • @raawger
    @raawger Рік тому +2

    e-reptile-dysfunction

  • @n1r1d15
    @n1r1d15 Рік тому +2

    19:07 to 19:22 Ryan and Kaylen talking about each other.?

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +1

      Probably, since there are just friends. And there is no denying that they are good looking people, they just are not attracted to each other.

  • @thatvietguyonline
    @thatvietguyonline Рік тому

    Joe is wearing a Tuấn Anh tee 😂

  • @BurittoSandwich
    @BurittoSandwich Рік тому

    20:51, that's how you know they're good homies

  • @rithireachthet6417
    @rithireachthet6417 Рік тому

    u guys getting 40% paycut but still laughing i guess thats a daily bonus.

  • @eringutsch
    @eringutsch Рік тому +7

    I mean, I think it is possible. But I've been friends with my guy friends for years now. It's an interesting topic for sure and you guys are hilarious talking about it 🤣

  • @donnguyen2517
    @donnguyen2517 Рік тому +2

    Wish we had more perspectives on this topic. Cuz does that mean bi ppl can't have any friends at all?

  • @sagathekawaiikilla
    @sagathekawaiikilla Рік тому +6

    Ryan u better b carful it’s a black leather couch back there …….

  • @negiihimanshu
    @negiihimanshu Рік тому

    Ryan 🤣🤣🤣 18:50 .... This dude 🤣🤣🤣

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 10 місяців тому

    She's an adult, I can't control her. But if she does have a bunch of straight male friends, I'd find that weird & probably wouldn't take her serious. Because I don't trust guys, not her

  • @CaptainCJ97
    @CaptainCJ97 Рік тому +1

    As long they don't cross the line I'm fine

  • @Naing2lin
    @Naing2lin Рік тому

    the face on joes shirt looks funny

  • @jaydenyoung4851
    @jaydenyoung4851 Рік тому +1

    If she’s known them longer then me aka childhood friends that’s calm

  • @PengxueYG
    @PengxueYG Рік тому

    14:04 lol steve thinking about anthony lately haha

  • @otakkuanimegeek7892
    @otakkuanimegeek7892 Рік тому

    Yes.

  • @ourhappyplace791
    @ourhappyplace791 Рік тому +2

    😂😂😂 the whole time

  • @KYCN8
    @KYCN8 Рік тому +1

    OTR is my favourite

  • @AustinJones-qo8dr
    @AustinJones-qo8dr 11 місяців тому

    I seem ready lubed 😂

  • @mynamesjeffhardly
    @mynamesjeffhardly Рік тому

    We need to clip the gay jokes on Ryan 😆

  • @Mykeynikey22331
    @Mykeynikey22331 Рік тому

    This discourse always reminds me how blessed I am to have a man be my actual best friend 😅

  • @JoshuaPark505
    @JoshuaPark505 Рік тому

    I'm dying here😂

  • @Phillip-ino
    @Phillip-ino Рік тому

    I just have this feeling Tony is going to bring this up in the Joemalia group

  • @pkruez2089
    @pkruez2089 Рік тому

    Take away, "nedding the dough."

  • @endlessgameone3640
    @endlessgameone3640 Рік тому +2

    It ok until shit happened

  • @lil_rata6994
    @lil_rata6994 Рік тому +6

    Im pansexual, so this question confuses me sometimes. Like on the real, I find most people attractive in some way (physically) most of the time so ig from my pov it's just hella control and reflection. also, im poly so like in all my relationships i say from the start that i dont mind what they do during their time just when i get home its us time and it takes A LOT OF TRUST AND CONFIDENCE but still its possible if u find the right people.

  • @noahmc7804
    @noahmc7804 Рік тому

    So the one of the first parties I had/went to when I moved to FL and was at my roommates friends house for a Halloween party. It was just my ex-roommate his friend and my friend. So we played some drinking games and at one point in the night I gave my friend my phone to invite girls over here. He ended up adding one my friends that’s a girl that I never intended to get with. She was a pen pal from Snapchat. She’s in WI and he’s gone there and she come to visit. He won’t let any guy talk to her, me included. He was going to move into a house with my current roommate and another friend. He stayed in WI for awhile and I rarely hear from him. Is there an exception or was he right?

  • @timmyle8741
    @timmyle8741 Рік тому

    joe i need that shirt

  • @SunnyB_NewPeace
    @SunnyB_NewPeace Рік тому +1

    I've never been that guy myself to be jelly of guy friends since it'd be hypocritical of me since I've always had lots of lady friends myself. I'm also polyamorous and that may be a whole nother topic on its own haha

  • @IvanGoldBit
    @IvanGoldBit Рік тому +1

    This is the truth 9:14 women know they just love 💘 the attention

  • @ruchidesai
    @ruchidesai 11 місяців тому

    13:24 😂😂😂😂

  • @Barely___Editing
    @Barely___Editing Рік тому +5

    It’s not chill, NEXT VIDEO.

  • @SleepingSoldier
    @SleepingSoldier Рік тому +10

    Not threatened. Shit's just weird. I'd say put a limit on it. If she has like 30 male friends and 2 female friends, play at your own risk.

  • @matthewchang954
    @matthewchang954 Рік тому

    This a Hard No . I Agree

  • @shirtdirt1874
    @shirtdirt1874 Рік тому +1

    bro just let them have boyfriends too.

  • @djford1999
    @djford1999 Рік тому +1

    Yo mama 😂😂

  • @MartyD
    @MartyD Рік тому +11

    red flag if she even has time to just hang out with her guy “friends”

  • @jessicalucia1523
    @jessicalucia1523 Рік тому +2

  • @zureai
    @zureai Рік тому

    I don’t know .. I’ve always tried to have female friends but every time they get a Bf they ghost me. I’m like “damn i thought we were homies”. Maybe I’m just young and the women in around ain’t mature enough for that

  • @matthewchang954
    @matthewchang954 Рік тому

    I am laughing a lot

  • @emknits53
    @emknits53 Рік тому +4

    Should you "let" your gf have male friends? Seriously? She's not asking for your permission. She's telling you what is happening. Do you also "let" your guy friends have other friends? Stop trying to be controlling.

  • @namrehh
    @namrehh Рік тому +1

    pleaseeeee lower the volume for the intro, startles me every time lol

  • @angeliquequan4275
    @angeliquequan4275 Рік тому +1

    I’m surprised to see Joe wearing Tuan Anh’s t-shirt. He is a great performer. You guys are hilarious.

  • @abrahamzatarain547
    @abrahamzatarain547 Рік тому

    This is probably the truest jk vid that is speaking to me with a sledgehammer.

  • @lovespringgreen
    @lovespringgreen Рік тому +3

    What are you talking about? Of course you can be friends with the oposite sex. Are you saying you are attracted to every woman in this world? There isn't a single woman of the oposite sex you're not sexually attracted to, so you can't be friends with them? I'm a woman and I've been attracted to probably 0,5 % of the men I met in my life. I have no problem befriending people regardless of their sex or sexual orientation. If your assumption is correct that would mean that bisexual people can't be friend with anybody... And btw, I have a friend who is gay. He went on a date with a guy he met on a dating app, so they thought of each other as being objectively attractive. However, when they met, there wasn't any chemistry and so they became friends, never did anything sexual. Soo.....

    • @LaddRusso91
      @LaddRusso91 Рік тому

      It's not even about attraction, lot of guys will fuck anything, in the right circumstances.

  • @maximustitan8171
    @maximustitan8171 Рік тому

    Damn funny

  • @jk4115
    @jk4115 Рік тому

    16:24 nick is so funny

  • @sagathekawaiikilla
    @sagathekawaiikilla Рік тому +3

    Older not as worried but depend on scenario ~ but Younger id look out cause when I was like 17 ….. I ain’t no home wrecker , but if the relationship was on the rocks 😅 i was tryna break em up so I can get a w .
    Also did 10:25what joe ant said