North Korean mom reacts to Gentle American fathers for the first time!
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- Опубліковано 12 жов 2021
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Today, We invited Beautiful North Korean woman!
She is the one who defected from Aoji Area, North Korea for the first time.
So, she react to playful dad caring their kid on UA-cam for the first time!
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“A man who doesn’t spend time with his family can never be a real man” Godfather
That was a movie quote made by an actor who cheated on his wife many many times with both men and women.
@@nullakjg767 yeah an actor, who followed a script, eeeeh.
@@Fame_Rate don't take it too personally people can't take the face value of a life lesson anymore, it has to always be undermined into something else
@@froilanburbos3507 i dont take it personally, its just a stupid comment :)
@@nullakjg767 He was not quoting Brando. He was quoting Don Corleone...who was the boss of a crime syndicate.
Nothing is embarrassing to me if it brings a smile to my daughter's face.
That's a real dad.
You are awesome.
Yup
My dad always did such embarrassing things to get me to laugh lol still does and I’m in my 30s lol
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Whenever I hear about life in North Korea, I cannot help but think how thankful I am to be in the US where silly fathers are so common we take them for granted.
We take horrible parents for granted, too.
@@mikemondano3624 I don’t think we take them for granted, I think we allow them to be commonplace. The good are overlooked for the bad here.
True, but the US still has many flaws and issues that needs to be addressed and attended. Having a better living than some countries is no excuse to continue without improving.
@@cs-zz7jd wow. Thank you for being a living rain cloud of negativity in my good mood. I never said anything about how perfect the US was, just commenting on how we ignore some of the privileges we have and being thankful for them. Glad to have you to keep me in line for daring to have a positive thought about my nation.
@@cs-zz7jd Bruh shut up
I have to believe that the fathers in North Korea love their children every bit as much as American fathers do. Culturally (and legally/financially, not sure how to say it exactly) they're just not allowed to express it. You were lucky to have that moment with your father and see directly that he does love you and did miss you.
If it is like any other Asian culture, they probably didnt show direct affection, but rather indirectly.
Usually in Asian culture, the relationship is not just with the immediate family but with the big family and it lasted until even the kids are older.
For European, they only keep tabs with close family. When they are older, the relationship would be limited to those who are related in their life only. They dont really keep tabs with cousins etc.
Culturally different upbringing
@@daisuke910 It is similar to Native American culture. You are often very close to everyone related to you, even second cousins. Asian culture often has the parent be a parent, while western culture often has the parent as a friend. I believe that a North Korean parent loves their kids as much as an American parent, but between the extremely low quality of life and oppression, the parents are often extremely unhappy, and combine that with a more parent less friend role, it would seem to any western people to be as if they don't love the kid.
@@aauwhatitdo1582 it has always saddened me that the American(mostly white) family unit is just the immediate family. So unhealthy, so much pressure on both the kids and parents.
@@aauwhatitdo1582 you can be a friend AND a parent. My brother and I were friends with our parents as kids, but they were definitely strict. You have to know when to put the right hat on when the time comes. You ask my son and daughter who their bestfriend is and they'll say me, but at the same time you ask who is stricter mom or dad they'll say mom every single time.
@@jessicaely2521 There is being a friend with your kids, and then there is being their BEST FRIEND. One gets in the way of a lot of parenting.
I pray that one day the dictatorship of NK will fall, so these people can be free to love.
I truly wish for this to happen. The people deserve better than their horrible living standards.
Why not do something that actually helps? "Prayer" is for cowards.
@@mikemondano3624 Because we're not politicians or freedom fighters, probably? The f do you expect? Normal people on UA-cam can't do shit to a dictatorship.
@@mikemondano3624 No. Prayer is for those who recognize theres something greater than themselves. Humans choosing to do everything within their own power is why communism exists in the first place. The state taking the place of God. Rather than the people in relationship with God, and therefore completing better goals without bloodshed.
Thats what Jesus said......love is very important and love is the only way.
“I had to study how to play with my own child” that hurt my heart but I’m happy for her and her family that she is in a position to have a warmer relationship with her kids than her parents could.
And that she took the time to learn. Many parents use their, letxs say "difficult" upbringing as an excuse to stay the same & she said eff that!! My baby deserves more. I love her!!
Breaking the cycle is a wonderful thing 😊
I was raised purely by my father. At 3 I started tap and ballet. He was known at the dad-mom among the other parents and staff, because he was both for me. I started piano at like 8 and he was there for me for both, performances, and recitals. I love him so much I'll start sobbing when I think of anything bad happening to him, because he is at that age now...
Thank you dad for being the best parent ever, and for always being there for me. I couldn't have been any luckier...
Please spend as much time as possible with him, especially in his old days. Unfortunately everyone dies at some point, but the goal is to have no regrets when someone does pass. Don’t regret not spending time with him etc. He sounds like a great person, I’m sure he’s very proud of you💜
Wow. I'm jealous. That's awesome your dad was awesome.
Spend a lot of time with him and when he eventually goes I hope Jesus welcomes him to heaven.
Dad are so important to children. Do not diminish their role in the family.
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"I had to study to learn how to play with my own child." Let that sink in. The next time you complain about some trivial "modern" problem, remember that statement.
I had to study how to play with my child too, and I’m American. It’s not like child abuse doesn’t exist here. Children are neglected and abused all over the US.
@@kayleighearl9408 Agreed. You're also the exception to the rule.
just because someone has it harder than you, does not mean you can't be upset. and as another comment said, that's the reality for some children in america too.
@@uneagerly I never said it was it wasn't a reality in America, someone else made that assertion on my behalf. My comment was to trivial issues that people bitch about on the regular. Pronouns would be a good example of that.
@@sjnix7044 pronouns are not an example of a trivial issue. it's actually an important issue, deep rooted with transphobia and intentional misgendering which is a big contributor to transgender suicides and mental health issues. there are people out there who are literally pushed to the point of suicide because of something as "trivial" as pronouns bc it's not trivial. it's disrespectful and degrading of someone's life.
That story about meeting her father was so sad and sweet at the same time. I want to see more of her on the channel.
Omg, I know! It was already such an emotional video, and then she told that story and it just cuts to the core!
She is so matter of fact about the bad stuff but also so positive and reflective about the good stuff. I agree, I really want to see more of her on the channel.
Ima be honest i teared up when she was telling the story
Also the way she kept her hand closed like she was still holding her father’s hand.
Timestamp pls
Its so lovely that even though she was taught to hate us, she found such beauty and compassion in our culture. She just spent approximately 10 minutes celebrating us. I love this chick!
its funny how the only people that hate america are leftist americans that never lived outside the US
@@Pyramanager Plenty of people outside of America hate it. But when you come from a place that's horrible, if the place you're going to is even just a little better than where you came from, it can seem like heaven. Hence why people immigrate to America. It's better than where they were, but that doesn't mean it's good
@@NightcoreRavers Yes people outside US hate America but not for the reasons leftist Americans hate America. Leftists think the US is the most racist, sexist, homophobic, etc. country in the world with the worst history, which is completely untrue compared to other countries. People outside the US hate them for their meddling with other countries affairs mostly. Also are you really comparing america as only "a little bit better" than north korea or any south american country?
@@Pyramanager uuhhh I’m liberal, from America, I don’t hate America, and I live outside of America. Chill dude.
@@Sugarglidergirl101 of course a liberal would think America is worse Then North Korea move there then I'm sure the lady in video will gladly take your spot
What a sweet woman!! And how glad I am that she had a father who was so glad to see her, he cried.
Absolutely love her commentary!!
It is just human nature for a father to love their children. What kind of government thinks it is beneficial to beat that out of the male population? My heart goes out to the North Korean people...missing all of the wonderful things that the world has to offer for someone's ego.
Communism goes completely against human nature. Hence, why it inevitably fails again and again.
That, and the people who become communist dictators are always small men with even smaller penises that let their egos think for them.
@@SuperNormalMan communism (little c) always sounds so good on paper. Everyone taking care of everyone else, no one going cold or hungry, even if they can’t work, no one exploiting everyone else to enrich themselves… It sounds like an ideal. But, inevitably, someone takes advantage and the masses become trampled down by a dictator or oligarchy, and so we end up with North Korea and Russia. I think the best model is something between capitalism and communism. Where everyone has access to the essentials, but hard work and industry can still get you ahead.
@@JorgensZelda "inevitably" "Someone" yeah, the first problem was thinking communism was a form of government at all. It's not, and the only people who ever claimed to be were very obvious puppet dictators, just like the ones the US likes. Authoritarian Socialism, or a Vanguard State is a thing they have claimed to be and with plenty of insane faults and starts the early soviet union modernized faster than any other nation in history. But with Stalin the goods can't be good for long. Obviously China is the counter point there, but they've not been about their roots since the 90's at all, hardly even Communist in name at this point. Just nobody's left to call them out on it.
Idk what my point is now. I guess mostly that milquetoast takes that make people think they understand the conversation are often the least helpful way to forward a dialogue and reify people's preconceived beliefs many of which are founded in very little investigation of a topic like that. I mean "a mix of communism and capitalism" describes literally every government that has existed since 1920, just toss in a couple monarchies too. And describing them as communist and communism as bad just breaks the benefit of the discussion before it starts ( yes this includes saying anyone who tries it was duped and that's all it is). It either plays in to their propaganda or plays like a broken record from the same uninformed place as usual.
The simplest pitch for issues today in my mind is we have about 25 years to figure out what happens when half of the jobs disappear. Given how the pandemic went, as everyone got fired executives skyrocketed, the housing market is increasingly actively fucked with and billionaires use PR and dickwaving or actual crazy virtue signalling to try and win government contracts. Amazon and Uber have every intent to burn the present as fuel (including all the workers they know they won't need in 5 years) to buy as big a slice of the future as possible when the next automation revolution fully sets in. "the market will adjust" maybe in a generation, like most of the truly insane shifts of the 1800's. "but global warming" just makes everything worse and more pressing.
If we don't have the political capacity, public will or information resistance to begin addressing these problems we either will completely destabilize the global economy in a system shock storm (unlike covid we can't get lucky forever), or the elite have all the time they need to cement power however they want. Work already has basically no correlation with financial success in America, if you don't you are fucked, but a few unlucky breaks then you are the same amount of fucked. The worst thing is the elites believe it, and so does 40% of the country regardless of information. Obviously that'll be the root cause of a lot of issues. Idk If anyone here is an American or from a country with our same dumb 250 year old beta test of democracy, but if you are please watch a video on Multiple Member Proportional representation elections. An insane hail mary multi-ideological coalition for an amendment (or just radical restructuring of state guidelines) seems unlikely but it's happened with much harder pills to swallow before. It's the only thing that solves gerrymandering radicalization, a dumb problem with some clear tested solutions on the table since 1793.
@Mark Sheymus I heard about that on social media. Never saw anyone but a loud minority think it was a good idea. Don't give them a louder voice.
@@JorgensZelda
You mean socialism.
Like countries such as Japan and Sweden have.
As a mother there is nothing I like better then seeing my husband play with our children. To see their faces lite up the moment he gets home from work. The happy exclamation "daddy's home!" Children need to feel loved and secure at home. This is more of a modern way of parenting though. In the past 100 years we realized what an important role both parents played in the development of children. Men have finally been given the chance to embrace their paternal instincts without society judging them for it.
Great insight. If you read the Bible, this is how our Heavenly Father treats us humans. He loves us and dotes over us, if you are one of His Children.
Men are treated like disposable, replaceable parts by society. The only sex subject to conscription, routinely discriminated against in family court, given harsher sentences for identical crimes in criminal court, expected to work for their entire lives and never complain, to rescue women in distress without reward or fear of punishment (even though they are literally punished; see NYC), to be forced to pay for children who aren't theirs... the list continues.
And it is not uncommon for men who spend time with kids (even their own) to be suspected or even falsely accused of pedophilia and predatory behavior.
Reality check.
This makes me miss my dad because when I was 7 and wanted to be a mermaid, he cut-out and colored a mermaid tail out of plaster board and we made a little movie about a girl waking up as a mermaid on the camcorder; he let me listen to the Spice Girls whilst doing chores; he dressed me up as Cruella DeVille for Halloween... the list goes on.
I was so spoiled!
You were so blessed to have wonderful memories like that. I grew up without my dad because he deserted us when we were little. When I see videos of dad’s interacting with their kids like these dads, I feel like DIMPLE feels. It warms my heart & brings tears, even now at 75 yrs old I still yearn for that.
As a man, and a father, nothing is embarrassing enough to not do for my daughter. Nothing. She is what I live for, and I would die in pain and agony a thousand times, if it meant safeguarding her. What is embarrassment, compared to a child's love? Nothing. What is looking foolish, compared to hearing your child's laughter, hearing the joy that they feel at seeing you fulfill their whims and dreams? No offense, but it is entirely by design that this goes on in North Korea. The government does not want you to have ties to your family, so the government can take over the role of your family. Become your provider, your teacher, your role model. That is why they do those things, why they tell men to not love their own children, so they won't love their own in return. They destroy the family unit, so they can fill the void. In what world is it healthy for a man, or a woman, to not think that their kids are the most important thing in the world? That is, after all, the reason why we are here. To reproduce, to continue the species, and the way you do it is through successful rearing of children. And guess what? Even a dog, or a cat, or a pig, or a rat would defend it's kids, protect them, and teach them how to be successful in life. All it takes to know this, is to observe the world around you, and be inspired. If you can watch a male rat defend his babies from harm, or a dog defend its mate from being beaten, then why wouldn't you see that that is the normal way of things? That if an animal can do this, why can't I?
Just what our current govt is trying to do. But it's easier for them to turn the younger gen against the older gen (since the older gen won't fall for it). That's why they're learning in school that our history is so twisted and wrong and how terrible all the older generations are. Divide us so the younger generation doesn't care at all about their elders; their beliefs, their morals, or their traditions ... It's coming (unless we stop it!).
@@pegatheetoo1437 exactly. That is what they have been doing here for decades, now. It's what they did in Korea, Venezuela, Cuba, China, and all the rest. The government wants to replace the family. In all aspects. They want kids to be taught by them, to be nurtured by them, to be shown how to live by them, and to be loyal to them. Instead of the actual people that care. They strive to create a void in their lives, and later fill that void, for their own self interests. And kids are ignorant, they are young, and they easily swayed. Which is precisely why they go for them. By the time they do realize that they have been duped, if they ever do, it is too late, and they can't stop it.
Maybe I'm a bit too emotional because just reading you're comment made me shed a few tears. It makes me feel so grateful for my dad
Reminds me of that old Simon & Garfield song ... Teach Your Children Well.
@@pegatheetoo1437 you're overreacting and fearmongering due to your warped nostalgia. life was still shit back in your day and I'm sure if you really thought about it you'd grow bitter of that memory. and the future is now, all the "traditions" you older folks are whining about are frivolous and pointless and don't belong in the now. And this moral culture war you claim is being perpetuated is bullshit too, it's just that my generation actually stands up for itself and demands that EVERYONE be recognized and given a seat at the table. we don't lack morals, we're setting the new standard.
The future is now, catch up or get left behind.
She's extremely charismatic wow
Just watching your reactions how American men are is really heart touching. I have always felt the same about Korean or Asian women. They are by far the most beautiful women there are. And how well they treat their husbands is amazing. I still wish I could find a woman like that. Coming home to someone that beautiful would be amazing.
I hope you'll have her again.
She was cool.
And I liked listening/reading her experience.
You are right
I love being a hands-on dad, I wouldn't care if the whole world thought I was crazy. I feel so sad for North Korean dads and their children not having that bond.
I’m a happy stay at home American daddy and I do this kind of stuff all the time with my 2 little girls ages 3 and 8. I love them very much and playing with them makes me feel like a kid again 😊👍
I like the way she talks "in my next lifetime" I say that all the time too. But I really hope things get better in my life on this go round.
The next lifetime might not necessarily be better.
@@themagnus2919 This is the only life we get.
I think about that a lot too. Reincarnation is such an interesting topic. I love hearing stories of people; mostly children who remember their past lives. It makes the whole subject of people feeling they are the wrong gender, make a lot of sense. They just have that feeling they are suppose to be another gender, possibly because that is what they were in a past life. I could be wrong. Just something I want to believe in. Because it's nice to think there is more to life than just death and ceasing to exist after.
@@jsims1617 We don't know that.
@@Icewind007 Christians believe that.That is my viewpoint.
That makes me so sad that she thinks the fathers playing, being goofy, and showing love and affection is embarrassing. Her childhood must have been so dark and cold, I'm so glad to hear that she recognized the importance of playing with her son and took the time to learn how. That shows a deep love for her son, and a remarkable strength of character. It's one thing to learn about difficult subjects in school, but it's quite another to learn a different way of thinking. To break out of a way of thinking you've had your entire life, and embrace new and strange ideals and lifestyle is incredibly difficult and shows a profound depth of character and resilience. I hope she and her family continue to heal each other and achieve their hopes and dreams.
길고 끔찍한 밤 이후의 일출은 항상 가장 아슬아슬 합니다. 나는 그녀와 그녀의 아름다운 가족에게 햇살 가득한 날만 있기를 바랍니다.
Omg her story about her father is so sweet!! And I bet he felt 100 feet tall when you were showing him off!
I have 2 girls and 2 boys, I'm blessed to be their daddy! Yesterday we painted Halloween pictures on canvases. My girls always call me "silly daddy" because I like to do voices lol I couldn't imagine raising them in a place where I don't actually raise them nor have a real relationship with them. My dad wasn't really this way with me and my brothers, and he even said as much now that he's an old man. I'd hate to have that kind of regret! This video highlights one of the many freedoms that Americans take for granted, but I promised myself a long time ago that I would never take my children for granted!
That's less American freedom, and more a freedom for those who are well off. Many in the US live under poverty or racism, and they have a serious lack of freedoms that other Americans enjoy.
@@Icewind007 odd that you think you can judge my income based off that comment, but I'm under the federal poverty level and we do receive food benefits. None of that has to do with being a parent that's involved with their children's lives.
@@FirstnameLastnames working hella sucks lol I'm working overnights but luckily I'm off in time to send them to school, I sleep while they're gone, and I leave right before they go to bed so I get a lot of time with them. It's never enough tho. I really like spending time with my kids but I know that not every dad is like that.
@SobridMusic, my dad, when I was younger, when he would kiss my cheek but hadn't shaved yet, I'd feel the slightly prickly feeling and say, "Daddy Spiky!". He'd laugh and tell me that yes, he needed to shave.😊
As a wife and mother in the US this makes me appreciate and cherish my husband even more. Thank you for sharing!!
I'm from Canada and growing up, my dad played with us all the time. He made an ice rink in the backyard so the neighborhood children and us, can play hockey. In the summer and spring, he would play dodge the ball with us and swim. My dad was very involved. He was a tough miner, but loved his children very much. My dad is 71 now, and I'm so happy he's still with us. He's a great dad. I wish this lady in the video would have had the same experiences, she seems like such a nice lady. I hope North Korean men can change a little bit and realize that loving your children is not weakness. Love is strength.
She speaks with such passion…it’s like I’m watching a Sicilian person.
Absolutely NOTHING will stop me from loving, protecting and appreciating my children. They are the most important aspect of life. Teaching your child how to have the best life, showing endless love at all moments and having compassion with a childlike sense of exploration, creativity and wonder. My position as a dad fills me with neverending happiness.
My wife and I have 3 grown sons,and raising them was so much fun! We were strict but fair,and gave them hugs and kisses all the time. We are all very close 31 years later!
Oh wow. I loved this video. It made me cry because when I was little, I’m 75 now, fathers didn’t interact with their children like they do now. Fathers worked & women stayed home with the children. When you said that your father came for you at your grandparents & hugged you hard it made me cry with happiness for you. You are awesome & such a very pretty woman.
Such a wonderful woman - she is so vibrant and curious about things. Much love from an American dad.
God bless all the fathers who love their children and let them have confidence to be their true selves in front of them, show them happiness let them know they are loved.
I always get so flustered when I hear how strict Eastern parents are... My Indonesian girlfriend also mentioned that it's culture for a man to work outside the house and women to do all the work. Here, my Dutch parents balance work equally. Both work outside and both work at home, so they switch it up sometimes, balancing the work load together. I adore this mindset. And it's one I intend to work out with my beloved when she moves to Europe next year and comes to me
In some places the women do all the work outside AND take care of the children at the same time lol
@@laurenanderson7330 And the boys just sit back in their chairs and game all day 😂
I miss my father so much. He played with me and loved me so generously. He has been gone almost two years.
There’s nothing embarrassing about a father showing love and affection for his most precious treasure; his children. I hope the fathers in North Korea change their ways, children need love and compassion to become great individuals.
I am American and I'm jealous of all those kids who are so happy to see their dads when he gets home and he plays with them and loves spending time with them. Wish I had that, but my American dad sounded more like a N.K. dad. 😓😥
Maybe he left to get the milk
Love how the more excited/passionate she gets, the faster she speaks and becomes very animated!
N. Korea takes away Hope, Prayer, Food, Time, Comfort, Entertainment, and more from Moms and Dads.
After everything is taken away from Moms and Dads, there isn't much of anything left over to give to children.
Good riddance to the "prayer". Mumbling to oneself is a waste of time.
@@mikemondano3624
Kim Jong-un agrees with you on "prayer", however, he does mandate "Worship"!
@@mikemondano3624 not really.. it all depends on the strength of your faith. As a Christian I personally have had prayers answered before but sometimes it takes a very long time but when it happens it happens in a way where it simply can't be a coincidence. Sometimes prayers aren't answered I think because your going through trials in life that are meant to make you mentally and emotionally stronger and deepen your connection in religion my case being with jesus.
@@mikemondano3624 Maybe so, but it is not anyone else's right to make that decision for you.
@@sisigs4820 if God already has an eternal plan and knows what's going to happen, why bother praying? Religion truly is the opium of the masses. 🙄
It's amazing how much dads are valued outside America... it's truly a shame. Thanks for this!
The story about she meeting her father tearing me up😭
She’s a great reactor. I like that she added a lot of interesting thoughts
She looks so sweet and full of energy! ❤️
So heartwarming to see her humor, so resilient - a beautiful soul!
As a dad in America I'm a huge softy for my kids and miss them when i work the joy i get frim seeing how excited they are when it's time for me to pick them up from my moms gives me the strength to face anything i love being a dad it's the best thing that has ever happened to me
I’m a 42 year old Single dad to the ❤️❤️❤️3 brightest stars in my sky, my daughters amd I can’t imagine how any dad couldn’t feel the same. Nice to see someone appreciate loving fathers but it’s our babies that are the amazing gifts of life!
Many millenials never had the choice, being too poor in this modern society.
This woman is absolutely ADORABLE!!
I hope you bring her back on here often!💖
Even in Western countries, some men are more like the "olden days." Once women started working out of the house, things had to change and women demanded it. Women still often do too much, but it it has changed a lot in the last 50 years. Anytime a man takes about "babysitting" their kids there is often someone who says that it isn't babysitting, it is called parenting.
Even my grandma asks if I'm "babysitting" my kids when their mom is out. I always correct her lol
"Women still often do too much." Bitch, men literally build the entire civilation. You don't do shit.
@@chillichan Women just wanna have it all.
@@chillichan best comment ever
Well you got what you wanted. We used to be able to support a household with one income. Now women are sooo free slaving over a 9-5 and two incomes aren’t worth what just one used to be. Because some career which holds no real significance is more important than your children. Now you have to pawn off your kids with a government institution called the education system. And so now there’s a middle man and kids aren’t being raised by their parents anymore. Because somebody has to watch them but noooo it’s so oppressive when mothers raise their kids. It’s definitely less oppressive when some random third party does! And so you got what you wanted. The government has been moving progressively left since the 1910s, your utopia is a reality, and if you don’t like the outcome then ask yourself what’s so appealing about continuing down this road. Is life better this way? Do you think the family unit is stronger? Do you believe people are happier? Or when can we stop with all this regressive leftist nonsense and get back to the nuclear family? I’m so sick of hearing women complain about men when they carry the weight of the world on their shoulders. Trust me, we’re not too happy with you either.
I never thought about how fathers act in different country's gives me a new perspective on my dad. I hope over time, everyone in the world can have loving familys like this.
It hit right in the feels when she said she held her father's hand and took him to school to show off how she actually has a dad and he's tall and cool, putting the bullies in their place...
I am glad that she has a happy memory of her father to hold onto.
We take things for granted, things that others will never experience. I wish the world was a better place..
What a beautiful soul! I wish her the best.
What a lovely memory about her Dad ❤. I'm glad she understands that her Dad behaving a certain way has more to do with cultural norms and being tired from work than how much he loved her.
It would be interesting to see her reacting to Swedish paternity leave. Swedish men spends a lot more time with their kids than the Americans do.
And yet dads that do not live in these types of places still make the time. Don't worry though, eventually your nation will realize this kind of stuff was only really possible when it was still Sweden and that their open mindedness was something that made them unique, but will also be what destroys you.
this isnt about those swedes. its about murica
make them think that america is the best country to live in...
@@user-cn5mc6ol4q I know it isn´t. That's why I think it would be interesting for them to see things from other countries in the world than just the US all the time.
@@user-cn5mc6ol4q It's not about who is best. It's about appreciation.
this is a sensationalist channel that uses North Koreans to praise certain US contexts. it’s ridiculous. also very patronizing and presumptuous
Her energy is so great!
Seeing my husband interact with our children like this always melts my heart!!!! Father’s are so very important and I’m so very blessed that my children have an amazing daddy!!! ❤️🙏🏼❤️
Both my parents were former military, both are former Police Officers, both were part of SWAT teams yet with me they were absolutely loving, gentle, caring, understanding and cool as heck so it breaks my heart to hear how dads in NK are strict when my dad is my hero, my biggest supporter and best friend.
My heart breaks for your people. I can't even imagine not having my dad's love in my life.
Yeah I think the cutest thing is watching guys be super sweet with kids
Thank you for the History Lesson. Really opened my eyes.
From a American We Care a lot about you.
Every man is his own person. Different. But even the most distant have feelings for his childern, and even the most caring can use once a while some distance.
Not all Anerican dads are like what's depicted in the clips😅 dads being more involved with their kids and the household is still a relatively new thing. Since there's so many different ethnicities in the US, it sometimes influence the amount of involvement dads have with their kids and the family dynamic.
True, but you're a buzzkill.
@CousinSQuad❤️ how is it ruining the moment? Knowledge is better than being naive and idiotic. Otherwise people will turn out like you, stupid and overly optimistic.
@@EpochUnlocked Lol or I’m being realistic. America is not the big opportunity country it tries to portray itself to be. Knowledge is better than being naive.
@@klyseet9346 Or you didn't pay attention. The video wasn't saying all fathers were the same positive influence. It was merely a review of some fathers.
Just being realistic here.
@@EpochUnlocked never said it did. I was referring specifically to the clips they chose, not the whole video in general.
3:35 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 인형이네 ㅋㅋ 귀엽🥺
I had an amazing father... 🙏🏿🙏🏿... He taught me how to LOVE... and now I pass that down to my own children 😊. It's the little things I love most, like watching the clouds or having a random conversation about whatever is on their mind regardless of how "silly" it may be... I get to SEE them and be a part of them. I also got to relive a bit of that "childlike wonder" myself. They're older now (17,18,19) but it's a bond that doesn't break. They grow so fast 😭
My father used to walk me out to the bus stop every school day and wait with me until the school bus arrived. He'd also be there when the bus stopped near the house and take me back home. He was also the person who helped the most with my homework.
It’s pretty cool to have ANYONE talk about the US positively. We have so many positive things, yet never hear that.👌👍
The western media monopoly narrative and reality are never the same things. Crappy part is many people eat it up and make it their reality.
Liberal rats run all media.
There's a lot of bad.
PSA: America isn’t just white and black people. We have Asians, Latinos, etc
Just can't go 5 minutes without being worried about race......🙄 People are people who cares what they look like.
Seeing Dads be like this is pretty new here, too. They certainly weren't like this when I grew up. Dads didn't have a whole lot to do with kids at all, unless they were on TV. I'm very glad to see young men begin to be involved fathers and sharing it with the world. So many men and woman don't have that experience to fall back on, so seeing it in action is wonderful.
If a father doesn't play with his children like that, I would wonder about his ability to be a good father.
Thank you for sharing
See I'm kind of in the middle. I don't want kids, I'd do anything not to have kids, but if I ever accidentally had kids, I would rip someone in half if they even look at them wrong.
Her empathy and understanding of what North Korean fathers go through is so touching. She holds no hatred for what she rightfully named the working slaves. It’s easy for us to see their family culture and look down on it if we know nothing about North Korea, and what her people endure at the hands of a psychotic dictator.
I couldn't imagine not being in my kids life and just working all the time. That would crush my very being. They are literally YOU! Why wouldn't you want to be apart of their life as mother or father? NK sounds brutal.
Haha when my first son was maybe 6 months old he started throwing a fit because he wanted breast fed. I waited then I threw a fit and cut in and my son looked like me like "excuse me, sir, wtf are you doing".
Edit: he still looks at me like that
I'm an American. Hearing a surprised reaction to the way the men in this video acted towards their children, that has seriously impacted me.
The way these men responded to their children seems normal and healthy to me.
It also makes me think about the countless women in the US who leave men like this because the men are "betas".
I never plan on getting married or having more children, because if I did and it failed, for a second time, I dont think I could survive.
I think I cold love again with a woman who values men being good fathers, like the saint in this video.
The whole situation makes me sad.
Having both parents working has actually improved "Dads" involvement in their children's lives i think. Being involved with your kids especially girls, does not make a man weak, it makes him stronger.
As someone in the states, I take so much time looking at the bad fathers. Because having a nice dad is just so normal. I forget that other places have it way worse when it comes to dads. Give a round of applause to my dads, Chris and Kurt.
U S women have it good.
@thickock45 It honestly makes me think some like being mistreated deep down. The nations where men make the largest efforts have the highest rates of divorce. Western Women are absolutely spoiled. (Some of them, many are great and awesome and realize this!)
Real men are compelled to be excellent Fathers and Uncles to all the children . I f you are a man that doesn't put the women and children first , then you are no man at all.
*Almost sad hearing about the divided Korean family dynamic, it really is a blessing to have such a cool father, as the kids featured in this video. Or even just a nice parental figure, I like watching these types of videos especially now in the first summer of my Highschool. :)
I remember running to the grocery store one Saturday morning after playing with my young daughter and thinking everyone was in a great mood because of all the smiling folks. When I got home, I realized it probably had more to do with the shocking number of hair clips stuck on my head that she'd put in there during our play.
I feel so bad for the people of North Korea
Every time I hear about the kind of life most North Koreas have and even rural Chinese people have, and then I hear people in the US complain about first world problems it makes me embarrassed of the US and other first world countries.
That's because we did things better than many of those third world countries but if we're not careful America will be just like China soon. We're already becoming very communist censoring speech and attacking citizens who think differently. May it be a stark reminder of what America can and potentially will become if we're not careful.
i love her how she explain and discribe...
Thank you DIMPLE for the amazing content ☺️
4:32 CAN SOMEONE PLEASE MAKE THAT KID INTO A MEME
Just admit that you don't know what a "meme" is, gramps.
That's a lot of uhh....caucasian fathers.
@Gary Allen So they can't show few clips of fathers of minority backgrounds? So, you WANT them to portray that USA IS ONLY white fathers based on majority? Bruv, your white supremacy is leaking out.
Greater is the love of the father to his children and the country they reside in. The stronger the love for them, the greater the drive to defend them.
A male police officer in full uniform doing ballet with his baby girl is just about the sweetest and most manly thing I have ever seen. GG Boss Dad.
I'm so happy to see fathers getting some appreciation!
At the same time, I feel a little sad that more women in the USA don't seem to appreciate them the way these reactors do
It can go too far the other way though. Your meant to be a parent, not a friend. Otherwise you get entitled kids who don’t know the realities of the real world when they become adults. Most of these seem to be babies though which is obviously fine
Sorry, but this is bs in my opinion. Kids learn their „realities“ soon enough, as soon as they interact with the outside world. And in order to face them, they need a loving home to go back to and parents that they can rely on. The idea that you have to keep a distance from your kids, or not play with them or be overly strict to show them „reality“ is so dumb. They will learn what reality is, but with this behavior you‘re withholding the support they need to be able to navigate the world.
Being silly and playing with your kid will not make it entitled, as long as you don‘t act entitled, because kids mirror the adults around them. You can really see that when you work in a school- the kids who throw the most fits and are ill-mannered are not necessarily the most spoiled kids. But they are usually the kids of parents who also come in making unreasonable demands and resorting to yelling and threats if they don‘t get their way. If you are a good example for your kid, it‘ll probably turn out fine.
@@samiraansari5686 you must have misunderstood. I agree with a lot of what you’re saying. All I’m saying is that rules and structure and discipline are good for kids but doesn’t mean you can’t have fun too. It’s about balance
Amazing! Because of her not knowing how to play with her son from her own upbringing, she's studying so she can know how to play with him ❤ there's so many different ways to show love
This made me realize why Americans fight with such passion, the connection with their children creates a bond that can not be matched...and gives them the strength to endure any obstacles and challenges he will face to protect those children's Freedoms
Slow down please.
You can set the "playback speed" of the video. That's what I did
Wow, imagine if western women even had 10% of her appreciation of fathers and men.. a large generalization of course, but I think many people will know of the trends I refer to
Wow! When I think of what you have been through! It is wonderful to know there are people as strong and intelligent and committed as you! We wish you the very best!
Her memory of her dad, so bittersweet.
Western women don't know how lucky they are, every woman should speak with this lady
@Glenn Maxwell in comparison to men in developing countries, yes.
Nobody argues that, but when western women claim to be oppressed, they're honestly a fucking joke
this channel feels real propagandy to me. i wonder if these NK refugees have a financial incentive to play the heartstrings for us or if this is a political thing. In this lady's defection story video it sounds like her dad happily risked everything to get her family a better life, clearly he loved them a great deal: but she talks about these dads playing with their kids like it's the first time she's ever seen a kid not being beaten with a stick. just feels a little sus.
it probably does suck to be in NK, no lie there.
You are clearly unfamiliar with any Asian culture if you think so. What we (White people) think is normal is, as she says, 'unimaginable' for the vast majority of the world. Even in our own societies' history, it was far more normal for a father to beat his children with a stick than to play with them. The idea of a father as a caregiver to children is a very, very recent Western thing. You need to read more.
@@TomorrowWeLive so I sourced her own video as evidence that asain families actually do love each other. I noticed that you just kind of blew on your butt trumpet from atop the highest horse in the kingdom to come up with that holier than though drivel. Care to give it another go or is suggesting I don't read the best you have?
@@josh-mc3bi He probably needs to live more.
I always wondered what it would be like to have a father like this. My father was more of a in the background kind like North Korea. He did not show affection and spent very little time with his children. It’s nice to see there are a lot of loving dads out there.
In america most father's care the most about their kids then wife and family then job and then country. So goes the country so goes the peace and stability the family has. Kids remember the times dad's take time to play or even hang out. Some of my favorite moments were setting there watching my dad work on the motor of a car handing him tools or holding the light for him.my dad worked hard as a mechanic so he played hard when he had time.