North Korean mom reacts to loving American dads for the first time
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
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Today We have a special guest from North Korea. We invited the North korean family Hyo-sim and Da On. Da On is 4-years-old and borned in South Korea.
Hyo-sim is going to react to a video of loving american dads for the first time.
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Real men play with and care for their children.
"A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man."- Vito Corleone
How a man treats their children and wife is a good measure of how much of a real man you are.
Play is one of the ways kids learn best. Dads are great for playing!
Yessir!
Remembering back when I was little, Dad was the one who played more roughly with us and we loved it! Mom didn't pick us up and toss us around the way Dad did. One of my favorite things Dad did when I was little was to toss me onto his bed. He'd get some air with the toss, too, and it was glorious. Meanwhile Mom would be telling him that was going to ruin the mattress, but he would say, "A mattress can be replaced, but having fun can't! She's only going to be this young a little while." Another thing he did was grab me by the ankles, turn me upside down and walk around the house with me for a few minutes. After I grew up I used to do that with my niece when she was little. We both loved it! Of course, I couldn't do that as long as Dad could, since, as a woman, I just didn't have the upper body strength my dad had.
I've seen some of the toughest guys melt at the sound of their daughter's voice or cry if their kids get hurt or anything like that. I never thought of that as a weakness.
Yes take one look at the rock
Exactly! And just being a loving caring father is the easiest way to ensure a brighter future for us ALLLL! We have to show THESE videos to the libtards!
@@dannytonnessen6896 why are you being political there was no need
@@dannytonnessen6896 Not everyone has to do with politics so please stop putting them even in the soup, and if yall want a better future in which there are not as many issues like in this generation this doesn't have to do with having only a loving and caring father, both parents need to impose values in the house and not expect kids to learn that in school or other places
@@dannytonnessen6896 you sound like the typw of person who wold be named "Kyle" and do barbecues with your friends while spurting racial slurs and being sexist, saying America is the greatest country. Wake up male Karen.
If a child gets a bump, but isn't hurt, say something nonsensical. We often say oopsi-daisy, in a high voice, & act like it didn't happen. Its a great way to stop many crying events. Thank you!
Or laugh as if the little one did it on purpose and did it as a joke. Laughing and clapping as if they did something really funny will distract them from that little bump really well.
@@bunnyslippers191 yup it does, any distraction. They often will look at mom, or dad to see their reaction, because they learn from parents how to react.
I prefer to tell them "you're tough!" and make a gesture that they can remember and relate to. This way, the potential crying event turns into a lesson: they're tougher than they think.
We say, "Ooops! Shake it off." While smiling gleefully and clapping once they are up and on the go again. The response from them is the joy of victory.
mine growing up was: get up and try it again! a cherished memory i've kept for my nieces and nephews, and future kids if I have any.
Her story about her dad was so sad... I don't know what's worse--having a father who was always cruel, or a father who was once loving and became cruel. Maybe the latter is the least ofthetwo evils, since you at least have some good memories, as well as an idea of how he became that way.
It hurts more to have and to lose, than to never have had at all
Always cruel. You never really do feel like a family then. 'Tough love' can be cruel if not used properly.
It's far worse for a loved one to stop loving and become cruel. For the child, they never want to stop giving up that love will return and will continue being hurt worse and worse when their hope is crushed time and time again. Same with spouses of abusive spouses who were once kind. It's a way for abusive people to gain and keep control, and it's sadistic. At least with a jerk, you never expect kindness so the heartbreak is less and it's easier to walk away.
Probably a loving ---> cruel relationship. Because then your trust is betrayed on top of everything else, where otherwise there was no trust to betray in the first place
I loved my father dearly in my childhood. My father also adored me. I... I didn't realize his faults at all. I was forced to make a big sacrifice around the time of turning 18 in order not to loose my father, and that was fairly traumatic, which was all for nothing in the end. When I grew up.. he started to live a different life. First I was supportive because I wanted him to be happy, but the more happy he became, the more reluctant he was to understand my depression, because he cared about his happy life more and didn't want anything "spoiling" that. He did somethings and finally did something horrible that broke my heart and he didn't even care that I attempted suicide afterwards, just made it about himself again. I have come to realize there is a reason why so many people dislike him. He has narcissist tendencies and as long as you put him first and worship him, he would be willing to give you the world but once you don't... He will say things just to hurt you.
I will hold remember the good bits but I have to say that the person who you loved the most in the world, has the power to hurt you the deepest as well. I would argue that long time abuse is worse, depending on the severity, in the sense that it's difficult to escape from it, during it and even after it, but heartbreak and the feeling of being betrayed by someone you truly loved wholly is something that I find more difficult to cope with.
I've experienced long time abuse and love, and to me personally it was more difficult to cope with the scenario where father was once "loving" but then became cruel. That is due to my personality however. People have always been shit to me, but I just disliked them back, and didn't let them bring me down. Overtime it took it's toll, but I have recovered. When it's someone you love however? Damn that's messed me up.
Sorry for the long text, I probably rambled on too long
It makes me really sad to hear how her father treated her family.I didn't have a father and that was hard but this seems worse to me.
She has such a kind heart and gentle soul. You can tell. God bless her and her family! Her daughter is absolutely adorable! Love from Ohio! 💜💜💜
"If I see him again, I would really love to see him as a loving father again."
I'm not crying, you're crying!
Single father for 21 years and I always had fun with my daughter. Now the tradition continues with my 3 year old Granddaughter. Love children.
There is nothing to understand- your father didn't treat you right. He shouldn't have been cruel or mean to you and he never should have blamed you, or the mother. Especially not you. He had little control of his emotions, and as a father, he didn't do his job right with you. I bet you are an amazing person !
The world needs Dads. Take it from someone who didn’t have one.
Thank you to all the fathers out there who have made it their goal to be “Daddy.”
I have been to 6 of the seven continents, many countries and this young lady is absolutely right, children are the same all over the world, reflect what they see and hear. And they even play very similar games. Bless them all.
Replace children with the word people…
All children are gifts from whatever god you believe in. Fathers should be loving and strict without it becoming a separation. I have 3 sons and 3 daughters, they are truly everything to me and I would destroy the world for them.
I'm 23 now and was raised by a single father, even when things were hard I wouldn't trade any of it. He's always been accepting of me and my choices, we still hang out watch things together. I show him some of my favorite things on UA-cam and he shows me his.
How sweet ❤️
I had a great father. He was a tough man who served in the US Navy during WWII, in the Philippines, the Marianas, Midway, and more. But, he was so loving, affectionate, and playful with us. He loved us so much. I have never seen a man who adored children as much as my father did. If he saw someone with a little baby or small child, a total stranger, he would approach them and show such love toward their child. He would play with them and try to make them laugh. The people would just smile and be patient with him. It didn't matter what race they were. He didn't care. He just thought they were the sweetest thing on earth.
These children are lucky. My dad certainly didn't treat me this way.
I’m nearly 30 and my dad still does the aww cutie giggle, that dads do, when I wear my crocs because they match his but are 7 sizes smaller 😂🤣
I am an American that lived in South Korea for a year back in 1984. We rented a bedroom in a home that was owned by 2 Korean brothers, their wives, and 3 small children. One of the brothers was the father to 2 of the small children and he was an amazing father. Even back then, I remember watching how sweet and gentle he was to his 2 babies. It was beautiful and all 3 children were the cutest babies I had ever seen.
My Dad was (and still is) my hero. He is always loving and kind. My friends that I grew up that didn't have a Dad essentially adopted him as their own :)
The dad pretending she bonked her head is such a great example of how babies learn. Babies learn their social cues from us, so when we overreact they do too. It seems so obvious but it’s fascinating to watch
Even as a became a high schooler, I was 5'2 when I stopped growing. My 6'1 father still enjoys sitting on the couch with me and pulling me into his lap when we hug. He claims that I must have stopped growing in order to stay perfect cuddle size. MY HEART
aw that is lovely 🥺
Awww ❤️
Nothing more special than a caring dad with his daughter
Should've shown that video from a few years back where the dad is trying to cut his baby daughter's fingernails, but the baby kept pretending to cry to scare him.
Super cute I love playing with my Daughter every time a get a chance even if it’s Dress up and tea time ❤️
A toast to all the dads that make up for those of us lacking that light in our lives! Most anyone can become a parent, but being one is a different story altogether. Stay strong and keep loving those you cherish!
i'm so very sorry for your experiences with your own father. i see you grow from it, though, and turn it into strength for your daughter. may your love for her, and hers for you, carry you forward in grace and happiness.
Yes! All children are so cute! Greetings from a man from Sweden ❤❤❤
Her daughter is so cute!
Babies like Kittens are precious. Its not until they grow up the problem begin. While there is a whole lot of love in a baby, they grow up so there is a whole lot of heartache too.
can you imagine a man acting "macho" towards his kids? How very strange, no? Thanks for posting :)
well now...can you imagine you taking a translation for face value and making a judgement? you can't take the translation word for word.. they're not always interchangeable from a different language.. the Korean word really doesn't mean "macho"... It has a more intricate meaning. Words don't always translate well.. there's many words in Korean that are hard to express in English..
@@natenate88 Maybe they were trying to say something more like "whats the point of being macho towards kids?"
Cuz I would understand that- why would you puff up your chest for children unless its to impress them- or your purpose it to terrify your children? 🤔
@@TiffanyLavalle point is.. thats not what the translation means
@@TiffanyLavalle This is just me guessing, but maybe when they say macho they mean emotionally distant?
@@hope3290 maybe? I know in my own culture we have something called "machismo" and its basically men being really strict about stereotypical gender roles (women stay in the kitchen and take care of the kids, men work and their wives serve them 😒) and they are very strict and insecure about "girly" things like men can't wear nail polish or the color pink or you're gay. And one of the characteristics of machismo is that men don't really play or tend to their kids, only once their sons get older they'll take them out to do "men's work" but they sure as hell as ready and willing to smack the hell outta their kids when they "misbehave".
So her story kinda sounded similar to what we have in my own culture.
My dad was a police officer when I was a little kid, and he was always just a very martial arts / self defense oriented kind of man. Tough and a bit grumpy. But I’ve always been a daddy’s girl because he was always so loving and fun with me. There were times we didn’t get along, but he always let me know he loved me, and cared about me. He had me take self defense classes and taught me self defense at home. He would take me fishing and hiking and hunting. I have this cute picture of me as a little girl giving him a big kiss on the cheek while he makes a funny face. He’s truly a wonderful father, and I’m very glad to have him as my dad.
I wish I would have had a dad like these. Such a good video!
This young Mother is one of the prettiest Korean girls I have seen... inside & outside.
💯 right… children are the same everywhere. This is an amazing video. As a dad of 5, this is awesome to see.
I just wanted to say that as an American my husband is an amazing father, I fell in love with him simply because he was and is an amazing father, it breaks my heart that not every child gets this experience, but thank u so very much for sharing
I don’t have any kids of my own, but I do have three nieces that I would die for.
I’ve forgotten people can be this kind. I’m glad I watched this.
Love this channel
Why are so many Korean and Japanese women so beautiful ? ❤️
They probably care about facial care and make up more than most American women do. Being beautiful and not "just be who you are" is big over there.
Just want you to know, I love you and I will pray for your parents.
Being a dad saved my life tbh, I found a reason to stop being selfish and have only grown since
I got so excited at the end when I saw The Return of Superman, those babies on there are the absolute most adorable beings I've ever witnessed.
My dad was like hers growing up. Very strict and patriarchal. I held a grudge about it for a long time, but about 5 years ago I decided to forgive him so we can be closer in the time we have left together.
Now that is a very mature thing to do ... I also had a very strict father growing up and held a grudge against him for years (decades even). The more I learned about his upbringing, and many other things he went through as a young adult, I began to better understand him and we've come to a place where we get along better now ... too bad the breakthrough couldn't have happened in my 20s instead of my 40s.
@@1MarkKeller Yup, nearly identical story here, down to the age. My brother and his kids are like best friends and I think about how cool it would have been to have had that kind of relationship with my dad.
@@CaptainXanax Same situation with my brother and his kids as well ... at least he broke the cycle. My daughter and I used to be very close when she was younger, but she started hanging out with the wrong crowd around her teen years, and then went to live with her mother until she was 18-19 (which made matters worse and separated us).
She came back into my life with a daughter of her own (and really crappy friends and a crappy boyfriend/baby daddy/husband in tow) and we have yet to fix our relationship even tho I try hard as hell to do so. I envy my brother's relationship with his kids, it makes me feel like I failed my daughter.
i can stay an entire day seeing videos like that,it’s so sweet and heart warming🥺🥰
^-^ Being a parent is one of the best moments in your life
edit: I feel like it would. I don't have children yet
My dad has some mental problems and can be a pretty tough guy, but I’m happy to say inside all his gnomeness (an inside joke between me and him) if I cry or a s/o upsets me he will either melt or go full on ima kill someone 😂😂
From what she has said and things I've seen/experienced/read, fathers in general are becoming more tender and are seeking more of an active role in their children's live
She is so sweet and gentle and a lovely person ❤️ thank you! 😊
This is so wild to me right now, I had to do a double take while watching this. At 3:20 the dad is my cousin and his daughter is my niece. Wow, can’t believe I found people I know in a random reaction video haha that’s awesome. I had to send this to him just to confirm it was him, I couldn’t believe it.
she was so open about her life, my eyes getting wet
My son has only been in this world for 8 years but now I couldn't imagine my life without him
Makes me so sad how her father started blaming her and her mother and brother for what happened to him. I want to hug her! 🥺
Being a real Father takes time and love that is hard for some guys who may not have had a good role model or even a father in their life. So for the ones who step up and be real fathers I applaud you!!!! Thank you!!! Moms and Dads are important in children’s lives!!!
Love how Koreans are so selfaware, selfreflecting(might not be the right word) in their speech, no room for delusion. Hardly see an avoidance of personal accountability, unwillingness to take responsibility, genuinely try to understand someone else and their circumstances before judgement.
All babies are adorable, but Asian babies are the cutest. The most beautiful baby that I have ever seen in my entire life was Asian. They genuinely look like little dolls.
She's very attuned to children's behaviors! An attentive, empathetic mom!
She is so beautiful, and sounds so caring. Love your videos
This lady is so pure and nice l, must protecc
Aww this is sweet. But there are fathers very much like yours in America too. Having unmet needs sometimes makes a person very hard to be around. Keep those early memories.
A father's duty is to teach, nurture, protect, provide, and die for his children. Period. Seems many men forget that. Fortunately, many of us remember. It's why the tiniest bit ofnrespect/appreciation goes a long way with us.
I’m glad they kept the microphone away from her daughter this time. lol
I pray that you get to see your father again, and that the reunion is very sweet and loving. Men should love all children and help them to see their worth to build it.
You are such a wonderful soul. Bless you
What I remember from this video: " Children are the same everywhere ".
allot of parents are nice parents i think its the strong majority but some are not,there is also a shadowside to parenting with abussive parents.
but lets focus on the possative side.
My real father wasn’t in the picture in my life while I grew up, but I had such an amazing grandfather. He did everything with me and treated me like a princess. He even spoiled me rotten. He was a usual feisty man who liked to say no and had a quick temper but he softened up when I was born and treated me so nicely despite being so much older of a person. He included me in everything, so I am so glad that I even had an opportunity to be alive and apart of his life before he passed. I’m grateful for him being my step in father when I didn’t have one.
I never had a mother or father figure growing up, so unfortunately I imprinted on the wrong people... I can't even imagine what my life would have been like if I had been raised by a loving couple.
I had a mother and father growing up and I also can't imagine what my life would have been like if I had been raised with love.
I cant speak for Korea but here in america I am 52 years old and even when my kids were small i loved them so much....
Hope u can see him again
i relate to her...she is such a sweet woman
The only thing my dad did when I was a kid would be to fling us over his shoulder like a sack of potato’s or throw us by our arm and leg onto the sofa. Growing up, he only went to the beach with us.
There's a character that's cropped up in the American popular culture, 'Optimus Prime'. He's part of a children's cartoon series and came to model fatherhood for a lot of American boys. His voice actor, Peter Cullen, described his elder brother (a marine) as his inspiration for the performance. Cullen called his brother right before going in to audition for the role, and his brother advised him as to the best performance for the part. "If you're gonna be a hero, be a real hero. Don't be one of those Hollywood heroes, pretending they're tough guys when they're not. Be strong and real. Tell the truth. Be strong enough to be gentle."
That's the highest ideal of American fatherhood. Honest, and strong enough to be gentle. Recognizing that gentleness is a mark of true strength.
she really loves babies
In the first years of development, babies usually mirror other people's feelings. So the baby could have even not noticed her head hitting on the wall, but the minute someone talks to her in a sad voice, she would start crying.
My dad never played with us that way--but it was the 1060s, 70s in the US. My friends said he scared them.
My husband is a total lamb to our daughter, and this left the discipline to me. We would work together to rectify things, but Daddy was the fun parent.
I'm sorry your childhood got so rough for you. May there be light, hope and peace in your future.
Lol, the baby gave her dad the pacifier. Reminds me of Maggie doing that in The Simpsons.
행복하세요...행복은 가까이에 있어요
OMG, Merican dads love ther kids, its incredible!!
That one girl who looked mad at her dad is like my cats. "I'm angry at you.... but I will accept the offering of food."
hi am a single dad ive had to look after my son since he was 3 . 1/2 now hes 8 so now its the cooking cleaning washing and school runs and clubs after school and its not just the USA its dads all over who can do the same thing
Her eyes: -.-
Baby's eyes: O.O
Her eyes: o.o
🤣 she's adorable! Anyesaeyo from the U.S. I miss living in South Korea!
We dad's are pretty much the same the world over. We love our babies, our families. We protect them and are playful as well.
Yeah all dads are superheroes, my dads superpower was invisibility
Thank you, beautiful lady.
No real man can be mean to a child. For many men, a child is the turning point where you really learn to man up. I loved my kids when they were young. As they get older, you haft to toughen your kids up. Make them real adults. That is the tough job, too hard you can break a person. Too soft you can raise a brat. Loving a young child is easy and necessary for both the child and the father.
This was beautifully written
@@TheLifeOfKane thank you. I was always good with children. All they really want is your attention. Tone of voice is more important than what you say. I think this applies to how we interact with adults as well.
My biological father was never around when my bro and I were young but my stepdad raised us and he always played with us. Even today as adults, we always hang out and laugh a lot. But the thing is, you don't always need the other parent in the picture to have a happy childhood.
And it doesn't have to be a mother and father. It can be a father and father or a mother and a mother. Either way, as long as you show your child endless love, trust and acceptance, they will grow up with many great memories.
So cute little princess Da on❤👸
I'm probably a hardass on my son but it's because I love him. I make sure to let him know that. My dad was the same way and I still love and miss him with all my heart.
"...someone who would show the greatest love to his baby when he becomes a father." As a father of two, it sounds like she understood it before even seeing it.
American here, tbh my dad has always been wayyyy more affectionate towards me compared to my mom now that I think about it haha
I used to steal my dad's tools n put them in my playskool car, it had a trunk. He bought me a toy tool set but I knew the difference, the real metal ones were better. So he bought me a cheap set from the hardware shop, whenever he was working on the car I was there working on mine
Reality though is many dads don't have beards😀
she should see her father again. although he could've done things differently, he was simply reacting to whatever trauma he felt at the time. from my own understanding, it seems he felt he set certain goals for himself to achieve as a father, but he didn't. most likely feels as a failure and feels angry, but not sure where to direct it so he lashes out. i'm sure if she goes to him with the mentality that he was doing the best with what he had, but even he felt it wasn't good enough then i'm sure things will be okay
it's weird. but a father places so much stress on his shoulders due to past stereotypes. when they feel like they failed at taking care of the family then they can become unpredictable. some become sad while others become enraged, for example
Her story about her father is hard to hear although it's great to hear that get perception of others had changed to a favorable one. I truly hope she can get to see her father once again. So that he can see what a remarkable daughter she's become outside of North Korea.
I am praying to God on the behalf of the oppressed North Korean people. Please say you'll join me.
She’s 25?! Damn she looks great!
I loved this video. I have watched a lot of your videos and was so happy to see men of color in this one. Thumbs up. Good job.
Living with pain every day is a horrible thing and it does change a person. It is hard to be nice and patient with others when you are blinded and tortured with pain. I feel for her father, it is so hard to see yourself changing into a monster and feel helpless with everything in your life and feeling helpless to change. I know that my daughter has not had the best mom in the world and I wish many days that I could change the past and live pain free to be the mom she deserves to have. I am sorry for what she went through with her father. I hope that she will somehow are able to read this and that by telling this embarrassing thing about myself and exposing what I am most ashamed about it will help her and others like her to heal. If I could talk to her I would say that he didn't become a monster because there was something wrong with you or your family. Pain is a hell that is so tormenting that it can change you into a torment to others. There is no excuse for it but it is so hard to control.
You have to play and be affectionate with your kids as long as possible. Once they turn into teenagers they don't want you around. You get rewarded when you have your grandkids. My grandson can now pick me up, he is a Marine Sergeant.
I would love to see someone review what to expect when you're expecting. I think that would be hilarious!
Not all American fathers are sweet and wonderful... People are people no matter where you are in this world...