I've known three coworkers falsely accused and escorted off campus in cuffs by police. All later proven innocent of accusations thanks to security cameras.
Yep. Most men are considered to be "ugly" or "below average" by the majority of women. They only want the top 10% Chads to approach, not you. I got "the talk" from my manager because I complimented a woman's outfit at work. She told HR she was "uncomfortable". Women are not worth losing a job over...so no more compliments, no unnecessary interaction, they get NOTHING. Because that's what they asked for.
@@zumasa9991 Bro.... Dude, Bro... No where in my statement did I make an excuse, and I am out there, and actually have 3 women chasing me. Just because a house is on fire... I should ignore it and work as usual. The dating system is a housefire and you can ignore it at your own risk, I know I am not.
exactly, I have 2 times and each time it was a smooth approach, me simply showing interest and trying to start a conversation... but seems like Mens experiences doesnt matter and Men should just take the unnecessary rejection
I’ve never had the cops called on me but saying it doesn’t happen would be like me saying women getting graped doesn’t happen because I’ve never seen it.
I don’t want to hear from women about how men should approach them. They have never approached a man they have no clue what they are talking about. Don’t ask a fish about fishing, ask the fishermen.
The problem is, if they're halfway decent looking, nice, and DO initiate, it's almost a gauranteed yes given he's single. Being halfway decent looking and nice doesn't get ya much as a dude
Also, I don't want to have to find another gym because I made a move on a woman... Do you know how long, and how many tryouts of other gyms I had to find this one? And know the right times for me to workout when the majority of the equipment that I will use is free?? Nope, I will stay single with my muscles to make me company.
@@Scottydoesntknow1989keyword is “CLAIMS.” Sexual harassment CLAIMS. “False” is redundant because, well, no sh*t. But you probably were under the impression that men generally think sexual harassment is okay, and to be punished for it is misandry.
@@Scottydoesntknow1989 That is a really dishonest take and you know it, but good to know you are doing a good job allowing this whole "don't approach women" spread further with such takes. Please continue with the bad faith takes. The lonelier they all get, more the truth will shine over the world.
@@Scottydoesntknow1989 Reading comprehension isn't a strong skill for you, is it? He was talking about sexual HARASSMENT, not sexual assault. Two totally different things.
Don’t waste your time with this “never stop improving” guy. He clearly hasn’t had bad experiences that we’ve all had and thinks he knows better than we do. He wants us to believe him over our lying eyes.
@@Scottydoesntknow1989 Except I’m talking about things that we’ve experienced in real life not videos on UA-cam. All those videos do is show we’re not the only ones to go through it.
Every time I approach a guy he acts like I am a god, and stutters and freaks out, and then never forgets me. Personally, I love it, and think it’s so sweet how much men appreciate it when I approach them first.
Got falsely accused Slandered on a local social media page Interrogated by corporate HR. Have to hire an attorney Luckily event was in a public recorded place Career has stalled and small town rep ruined. All my applications to other positions in the same company mysteriously get rejected quickly after applying. Yeah nah we good fam
I got called out for hitting on girls on Facebook. You do one thing some self entitled woman doesn't like and she'll go apshit on you. Bunch of bs if I want to approach girls on fb that's my right
Billie, Billie, Billie…you just don’t get it, do you? Sure, you may not get the cops called on you, but it’s definitely a possibility. I’ve had women overreact just by my saying hi. Labor got called just cause I literally asked a woman how her day was going and that somehow made her feel uncomfortable. Take my word at face value, no embellishment. Lecture your own on this one, men are moving on. Your condescending words and tone aren’t helping anyone, nor are winning any over to your cause.
Billie, I've had people go to folks in authority on me literally for the simple fact I exist, in itself, and I'm not even exaggerating or being unreasonable or being funny. It actually happened, multiple times, throughout life, and I'm sure that some of it is on record somewhere, and that's without it being a dating thing. It had me not wanting to exist, let alone talk to ladies. Just because you SAY we're not having cops called on us doesn't mean cops AREN'T being called on us. They ARE being called on us. This is just YOU SAYING that we're not being called on. You might still not believe that, even after multiple stories from multiple guys tell you in the comments that it's happening, but that doesn't change the fact that it's happening.
Let's talk about bailing on arguments too, while we're on the topic. If my girlfriend starts yelling, I leave the building. Cuz all it takes is for my neighbors to call the cops, and say "I think I hear DV". Then my ass gets to enjoy a jail cell for the night....
I literally had a girl call the cops on my friend when we were all out as a big group. She freaked out and called the cops telling them my friend assaulted her. Cops obviously saw how drunk she was and rest of the group told them she was just being a B. The "chance" is not as low as you think. This is real life. Not making it up.
Going to reject this for the fact that a woman actually did call the cops on me. Yes.. it happened, no.. I didn't deserve it, yes.. it did end in my favor, no.. she was never punished. No one can ever change the fact that it happened, twice. I'm not a super attractive guy, I'm not rich. But I have a decent job, I have my own house, and I have a comfortable life. If a woman finds a man attractive, she is flattered. If she doesn't find a man attractive, she is creeped out. A simple "no thanks" goes a long way. But I did find myself in a court room over a woman, on two separate occasions. So please stop gaslighting men.
This essentially happened to my older brother and he almost got kicked out of college. He was able to prove his innocence and not kicked out, thus graduating, but this essentially destroyed his confidence and doesn’t even try to approach women anymore. I don’t blame him because a lot of women aren’t worth approaching to begin with.
Bro, been there! Most of the time I was told no woman will ever like you. This came from my mom, dad, sister, kids at school, friends, from before elementary school to my professional life. I did finally get married so if I can do it anyone can. Basically my wife was building her career up so she didn’t have time to date or meet anyone until we finally met which she said she was looking around for over a year. She compromised so it probably best worked for me. Funny thing is, I’ve never been really depressed about this, not at all. I couldn’t do anything about not being very attractive to women so, I just let it roll off and met a good woman.
And why does she care if guys decide to not pursue and pass up opportunities? She has no personal stake in their life decisions. I'm going to continue doing what I think is right for me. I find her message to be condescending like she's insulting a man's ability to make judgement calls about these things.
Well said! BRB thinks she knows better than every man who’s been through it with women. She’s very skilled at gaslighting I’ll give her credit for that.
There is some hidden self interest benefit to any woman trying to talk a guy into approaching them. Women have more to gain than men do if men take this advice.
Nice sunburn. Also, telling guys to be realistic when most girls are raised to be a princess. If you raise your daughter as a princess, that's how she will act
Well ladies welcome to the equvilant of the bear question. If women see men as more dangerous than a bear which would eat them. Then men can see women as to risky to their life quality to take a chance on.
I just asked a girl for just a number or some sort of communication I got rejected hard... for years I haven't done this..and i tell you now, what they say ' just be yourself and introduce blabla ...' it doesnt work...don't do it in public...humiliated af
its not rejection, its the risk of making a woman uncomfortable, the risk of violating her boundaries or not wanting to scare her, tons of men get labeled creepy even when these men had kind good intentions going into the interaction, one of my friends from the UK, i believe him, he told me he literally had a woman pour soda on him just because he approached her, and he did it in a kind warm manner.
@@initiatorhater0688 it wouldn’t surprise me. Plenty of guys here in the comments have mentioned getting the cops called on them just for approaching a girl. One even mentioned that his friend got pepper sprayed when he asked her to sit at their table
You're entirely wrong on this. I have physically watched a woman pepper spray one of my friends because he asked her to come sit at our table. SHE LITERALLY PEPPER SPRAYED HIM. Because he was ugly. That's the only reason.
Yeah I’ve never been physically attacked but I’ve had women say some nasty shit to me just for asking them out/for a number. Not the norm obviously and you shouldn’t get caught up on it but still the worst she can say is not “no”😂
After 18 years my GF left, with that I am too nice and boring, for tall bad boy. I am 5'4 fitness rat. I approached 43 Girls over 9 months, 2 said "I have BF", 1 said no, the rest ridiculed me, humiliated me or yelled at me, that I should grow up or dwarves shouldnt ask girls out etc. And the last one actually called gardai(police) that she felt sex. harrased. All I did, was asking if she would like to go on date. So, you are right, not every girl will do it, but I learned my lesson.
You're absolutely right, but it only takes one time until it becomes something you will never do again. Men are also very unified and team oriented in the sense that once a large enough group of men decided that something aint right, the rest will follow suit. We dont call it "the council" for nothing. If we see some bullshit a woman does to our fellow homeboys, then we aint gonna play those games ourselves
I’m even a women and I refuse to ask for guys numbers after one guy made a huge stink and embarrassed me when I did it once! Now I just tell the guy I like him in hopes he asks me, but I am too terrified to do the same thing again. Women act like men don’t have feelings.
dead ass had this one lady get her swole ass friend to come to her job to "protect her" when I would frequent this one restaurant.... it was a popular OPEN TO PUBLIC RESTUARANT THAT WAS PRETTY POPULAR!!!!!!! I knew she worked there but I had no intentions on ever talking to her, never even tried to make a move just there to get my damn food. shit pisses me off to this day knowing they really do this and some women really post videos like this
My ex called the cops during our divorce to give her leverage in Court. Unfortunately, it happens all the time, and guys never know when it'll happen until it's too late....
My ex-wife used false allegations to get me escorted out of my own house by armed cops and to gain leverage in the divorce. It is standard procedure now for women's divorce attorneys to encourage this...its called the Deluth Model. Happens EVERY DAY to men.
Being called a creep and being lied to about them having a boyfriend over and over gets old fast. Getting ghosted and mistreated/cheated on over and over gets old fast. Losing my job or coming close to it because a girl told other coworkers I was harassing her.. which NEVER happened, is NOT worth it. It happened to me, and I try to be a good person. It happens ALL the time. And I'm just supposed to man up and act like that stuff doesn't destory me each time? No.
I really feel you on this and yet what makes me angry more is that people in society still think it's better to be a man at the end of the day even when it comes to dating
The last time a woman flirted with me and my first response was to email her a sonnet on Valentine's Day. No, she didn't call the cops. But she did dedicate the next month to sending me abusive texts. I became ostracised from our mutual friends. The job agency that brought us together never gave me another day of work. The last time I selflessly supported a woman through a really rough patch, she didn't call the cops. However, heaps of threatening people started demanding that I leave her alone. Stop gaslighting men.
"She not going to call the cops" Must just be me then. Not really, but in the past I had a girl run from me when I said "Hi, how are you?" during a wedding reception. She took one look at me and literally ran across the reception hall. It was embarrassing, bc everyone assumes you said or did something freakish to scare her. So I just stood there in my tux, turning red. Then one of the other groomsmen came over and said, "Don't worry about it. That's the bride's sister. She has a mental illness." I was like, yeah, leave it to me to try to strike up a conversation with a nutjob at the reception. Cute but nuts. At least I found out early. And that pretty much sums up my experience with women.
@@DozerfleetProdbecause you either did it wrong or you’re not in a place to approach women. You’re probably out of shape and don’t have yourself put together. If she’s saying you’re harassing her you probably kept ogling her. Only crazy women would do something to an innocent man. I highly doubt every interaction you’ve had has been with a crazy woman. If it has, pick better.
You might want to look up stats before making a vid like this. In 2022, 3/5 of women claimed they were harassed at the gym, and in 2023 more than half the women claimed that they were harassed at the gym. This "harassment" included things like staring. As in a man looking straight ahead while working out when there was a woman exercising on equipment in front of the equipment the man was using, and often the woman began exercising after the man did.
Concern. Bowl of candy. Full. If I tell you I have poisoned ONE piece with a fatal dose, would you take one? How many pieces would you take? How many vids have you seen with women going psycho over guys?
I was falsely accused back in the 90s of sexual harassment. Never got my confidence or self esteem back. But now I look back as a lesson. I have savings, I have an excellent credit score. Don't have kids so no child support. Car is paid off. No alimony to worry about. What would I get if I got a relationship? Constantly kissing ass. And broke in no time. Don't trust the staff at Hull high.
I have two children and a divorce and I am very happy in my own space. "Rage" doesn't come close to addressing how women can harm men these days. I hope it changes in time for my two boys. Thanks for your work.
Over a year ago, I had cops called on me for going on a college campus. One of the ladies I approached was calling and I was told as much. I got a warning. Just because they usually won't, doesn't mean it can't happen.
You’re right she probably won’t JUST call the cops. Not when she has so many other options. Get you fired for work… File a false accusation… Make a viral TikTok about you, ruining any future career OR relationship prospects you might have…
This is absolute truth A man cannot even live as a free person anymore just enjoying his life without some stupid woman thinking it’s suspicious for a man to exist
How did that happen to you? I'm interested in hearing your story because then maybe this could support the cause of men no longer being forced to approach women due to getting negative and awkward reactions from women
@@nobodysperfect06 I used to work at a college near me. I worked in a dining hall so we would have student workers. I did my best to get along with everyone and show kindness regardless of gender or age. Well unfortunately little did I know at the time certain girls didn’t like it and decided to go behind my back and accuse me of staring at them when I did no such thing. Like I said I only made conversation with them like I did anyone. Hell some of them even said hi to me first before the fact. Thankfully my boss saw right through it because he knew I talked to everyone. He told me just that. It didn’t go anything beyond being pulled into the office and him letting me know what had been reported to him. Because of that my friendliness toward women slowly deteriorated over the next few years to the point where I only talk to them if I absolutely have to. If they say hi I just partially nod my head and keep doing what I’m doing.
it fills me with anger and rage on how people and society expect men to have natural common sense for knowing what is creepy behavior and what is not when approaching/interacting with women, because of that, no wonder lots of men swear off on talking to women forever due to negative, bad experiences, from when approaching, interacting with women, not because of rejection, but because their approaches or advances were viewed as dangerous or uncomfortable, weird, their advances get called creepy or labeled as predators, made the woman uncomfortable. It angers me a lot because, lots of men get perceived that way and they unfortuneately never knew, they were never aware of what they did wrong when approaching or interacting with women, they just didn't know, because of that, i have the mindset that, men are the only gender that have to go through social failure, make painful mistakes socially in order to get better at talking to or interacting with the other sex, not women. Its impossible for women to get labeled creepy or weird, uncomfortable by men, that is a fact. Thats how it looks like or seems like, yes im aware that women have their own problems to deal with, men and women have different problems when it comes to dating, but for women, messing up socially when interacting with men that causes the other sex to feel uncomfortable, creeped out or weird, is never an issue for women. Yet people still think it's better to be a man at the end of the day and that just fills me with a lot of anger and rage yeah sometimes I get angry and pissed off that I was born a man. Because men have to do all the work in dating and courtship and seduction, and when people say so what or that's the way it is that just pisses me off a lot and yet people and Society say that men are supposed to enjoy and embrace taking the lead and I will never understand and never get it why men are supposed to love that role
Yeah, you don't get the struggle of men, clearly. I had a group of mothers call the police on me for taking my son to the park claiming i was a predator. There isn't a snowballs''' chance in hell I am actually going to DO or SAY something directed at any stranger ever after wasting a few hours trying to convince the police I was just taking care of my son.
Of course...? But the risk mostly comes from management who might catch a whiff of "something going on" between the two of you, and there are often policies against inter-coworker affairs.
The workplace policy is a moot point if a female coworker is not interested to begin with. I get your point that even if there is verified mutual interest then it is still risky trying to date at work. Also in a situation where she is not interested and complains to HR she has no control over the outcome of that complaint. Even if she only intended for him to get a warning but not get him fired HR still makes the final decisions for discipline. It's out of her hands.
Nah. Twice married, twice divorced, why on earth would I give a woman the opportunity to interfere with my own personal peace? I'll stick with rescuing Great Danes and going to the range whenever I want.
@@GrassyBoy It's actually pretty nice. They're always happy to see me, always happy to go anywhere I decide to go - only drawback is that they are absolute bed hogs.
Haven't seen girls call the cops, but I have seen them claim that "Approaching me when I don't consent is rape." And then take a picture and claim rape on Twitter. My best friend lost his job, house, and eventually his life for asking a girl if he could buy her a drink. It's way worse than a couple of TikToks...
Even when they make the first move it isn't safe. We all know how they are. A nano second later they change their mind. Protect yourselves and stay away from them.
That ship done sailed. Not worth the consequences that come from trying to talk to women. If she wants to talk then she'll approach me. Or not. It doesn't matter either way to me anymore.
I will tell you why many men don't approach. Being a man is not easy, you have to be someone. Maybe it sounds weird, but is not that we think we are not worth it, we just want to focus on ourselves and prefer to focus that energy somewhere else.
This is a mindset I've had for years now as women get older and when they hit the wall, their SMV declines. My mindset I have at times as women hit the wall and their sexual market value declines is that I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way of dealing women karma for all of the times they labeled a man creepy or weird or labeled a man a predator or just accused of making them feel uncomfortable just when the man was approaching them and making advances on them. Because a lot of men unfortunately get perceived that way negatively by women when many of those men had good intentions going into the interaction, they were never trying to hurt anyone and they never meant any harm but those men were just kind of socially awkward or socially inept. And the cruel thing about it is that women can get away with not being socially calibrated or women can get away with having their social awkwardness or social ineptness never be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy when interacting with the opposite sex. Women can get away with having poor social skills when interacting with the opposite sex, men can't get away with it. I know I'm in good company in which people agree with me and that is women don't risk having their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy when interacting with the opposite sex but men do unfortunately. So I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way of dealing with karma for all of the times they reacted negatively towards men for approaching them or making advances on them when many of those men never meant any harm and would never have hurt a fly but they just didn't know any better socially. And it's the reminder that women can get away with having poor social skills or just being poorly socially calibrated, but men can't get away with it since nature and reality dictates that men have to do the pursuing and making advances. I'm aware that it makes sense as to why men are the only gender that get thrown the creepy label or the weird label or are the ones more likely to get labeled as making a member of the other sex being uncomfortable because men are on average physically bigger and stronger than women and because of that they can be perceived as a danger or a threat in a woman's eyes but the reverse is normally not true as much. But yeah overall I've had this mindset for years now that I like to think that as women lose their attractiveness or as their mate value declines I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way for all of the times they reacted negatively to men when a lot of those men never meant any harm and were never trying to hurt anyone. They just didn't know any better socially, and like I said before, women can get away with not being smart socially or just having a poor social IQ, not understanding social cues or boundaries in regards to interactions with the other sex since women don't risk having their awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or perceived as weird or creepy, or uncomfortable when interacting with the other sex. To sum it up it's not rejection that hurts it's the way that it happens that has the biggest impact. I know I'm in good company in which people agree with me that women don't risk having their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy or uncomfortable when interacting with the other sex. Women can get away with that but men can't unfortunately since the burden for all time of men always having to do the pursuing and chasing or making advances. So yeah to sum it up it's not being angry at women for rejecting men but it's more so for the way or the manner or behavior in which the women would reject or react, and the fact that women can get away with like I already said in which women don't risk having their social ineptness or social awkwardness be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy, uncomfortable when interacting with the other sex. Basically labeling men as creepy or weird or dangerous when many of those men had good intentions going into the interaction, never meant any harm, they never tried to rape or they never tried to assault the woman, the woman still labeled the man's advances as creepy or stalkerish. Another reminder of what women can get away with but men can't when it comes to interacting with the other sex.
Ive had more than one woman freak out when i approached them politely. Im a good looking guy, and most women ive asked have said so. Normally, its the ugly friend that causes a scene when her hot friend gets propositioned
Since you are so strong and independent, you can approach men; or bears-whichever works for you. It is also interesting to note the reaction to men’s concerns in the comments; mostly dismissive even when bad things have personally to men who in essence followed her advice. This is more telling than men’s lack of “courage”.
Cool and having been in the boat with said crazy not once, but twice in my life along with having a partner of five years who cheated on me and tried to get the cops on me because it was "my fault" she cheated... ya, some trust issues have arisen. You are absolutely right, most women have been very respectful towards me when they have rejected me; however, it only takes one crazy nutter to destroy your life and punishment for her is often a slap on the wrist and no recuperation of damages done to the guy. Besides, a lot of this also stems deeper with the knowledge that even if you do stay together and things look amazing after several years and you finally propose that there is a coin flip between success and divorce and the odds that she will be the one to call it a failure for some of the most "interesting" of reasons is WAY too high for the risk. Young men like to be risky and have fun, but after about 25, most men are looking to build security and statistically, women do not bring that and are often a liability.
In college I had this flirtation thing with a girl in a few of my classes. Shortly before graduation I ran into her and she started screaming at me that I should go away. I did and haven't had any interaction with her since...and that was literally decades ago.
I can almost guarantee everyone here has had the cops called on them. everyone. here. has at least one story. not from the internet, from real life. they have been fired, bared from campuses, kicked out of their appartenments. I once had a pastor sit me down a berate me for being creepy. I didn't even see the girl in the room. (no seriously, I was late, it was crowded, I grabbed the first open spot I saw. bad idea, apparently) how about you give us tips to figure out whos going to bring some manner of authority down us and whos not? or maybe give the sane women tips on how to let men know their safe to approach?
“My anecdotal experience negates your statistics and your life experiences” …Billie, you understand that when people (women in particular, y’all are egregious with this) pull this line of thinking, it makes people hate them, right?
Honestly I’ve never been afraid for a second on “cops” or anything remotely like that. The humiliation of some types of rejection is a much scarier scenario. It’s like if we find you attractive but you don’t find us attractive we’re doing something wrong. I’m sure more in our heads than anything else.
I don't agree with saying "It isn't happening". We have to keep in mind that everyone lives in a different city and is accustomed to different kinds of people, etc. But what I *will* say is that if you're in a place where women act like that, you need to go elsewhere or double-check your approach, maybe even your appearance.
Mine has been due to reality, I have had the throw up look and she walks away up to women saying “disgusting” then they walk away. I have gone up to women and literally have a legit work question, approach them and say, I’ve got a question and they freeze up like a deer about to be run over and want to run away but can’t. Luckily by that time I was rejected so many times and told no women will ever like me so many times that it didn’t bother them anymore and definitely not now. I did finally get married in my 30’s, probably because I was the only man not married around my wife that we started to date, so there is still hope for guys in my unfortunate situation. Luckily my wife was busy building her career up that she wasn’t looking for a husband until I met her.
Women should approach men they are interested in. It's only fair. It's long overdue. Or men have to keep approaching the wrong women, cause that's what happens.
I've known three coworkers falsely accused and escorted off campus in cuffs by police. All later proven innocent of accusations thanks to security cameras.
Dude I’d be out of that business immediately.
Yep. Most men are considered to be "ugly" or "below average" by the majority of women. They only want the top 10% Chads to approach, not you. I got "the talk" from my manager because I complimented a woman's outfit at work. She told HR she was "uncomfortable". Women are not worth losing a job over...so no more compliments, no unnecessary interaction, they get NOTHING. Because that's what they asked for.
Did they get there Job and reputation back?
Hope the liars got fired
@@notsure1920and prosecuted
She doesn't have to call the cops, just make an online accusation and then he's fired
And that's on the _lighter_ end.
#metoo
Bro stop making up excuses. Now you found something new to bring up. Man up, shut up and get out there. Stop being afraid
@@zumasa9991 Bro.... Dude, Bro... No where in my statement did I make an excuse, and I am out there, and actually have 3 women chasing me. Just because a house is on fire... I should ignore it and work as usual. The dating system is a housefire and you can ignore it at your own risk, I know I am not.
Online accusation? Just for approaching a stranger? You're delusional
“Never seen a girl freak out for approaching her…” ?
Some of us have 😒
exactly, she obviously can't speak for every guy out there
exactly, I have 2 times and each time it was a smooth approach, me simply showing interest and trying to start a conversation... but seems like Mens experiences doesnt matter and Men should just take the unnecessary rejection
Women will always support other women even if they werent there at the time.
Excuses
Real talk.
Ive literally been yelled at for opening a door and holding it for her...
You poor thing, how do you cope? You gave up after that? PUTHetic
@Alex-od6cl did I say I gave up or youre just too judgemental with hatred?
Me too
I also have, as well as being yelled at for not doing so!
#MeToo
Its not calling the cops, its getting loud and degrading me in public.
Had the cops called on me. Just because you havent seen it doesnt mean it doesnt happen
She wants you to believe her over your own lying eyes.
I’ve never had the cops called on me but saying it doesn’t happen would be like me saying women getting graped doesn’t happen because I’ve never seen it.
@@CrazyCracka831 True but you don’t have women privilege so you aren’t allowed to point things out like that.
A woman called the police on me last summer just because I complimented her on her dress she was wearing never ever again
@@hockeyfanatic6630 I think the comments section grossly overstates it though.
I don’t want to hear from women about how men should approach them. They have never approached a man they have no clue what they are talking about.
Don’t ask a fish about fishing, ask the fishermen.
How more wrong can this be... first of all fishing means you KILL the fish, second I think she knows what made her attracted to her man...
try bumble. You will have no doubt they have never initiated
The problem is, if they're halfway decent looking, nice, and DO initiate, it's almost a gauranteed yes given he's single.
Being halfway decent looking and nice doesn't get ya much as a dude
@@Beachtrader0007 Bumble got rid of that feature because it was bumming women out.
god bless you. THIS is what it's really about. This young Lady needs to respectfully shut her little mouth.
It's not getting rejected or arrested, it's being fired or asked to leave that's more scary
Um....pro tip. Don't hit on people at work? 😂
Exactly. Getting the cops called is possible, but unlikely. The social humiliation or becoming TikTok famous is actually very plausible.
Also, I don't want to have to find another gym because I made a move on a woman...
Do you know how long, and how many tryouts of other gyms I had to find this one?
And know the right times for me to workout when the majority of the equipment that I will use is free??
Nope, I will stay single with my muscles to make me company.
She lives on easy mode with a Chad who spends a fortune on her, despite saying she doesn't go for looks or height.
Yes, just because BRB hasn't seen it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
Extremely disrespectful to all the men who've had their lives ruined because of sexual harassment claims against them
@@Scottydoesntknow1989keyword is “CLAIMS.” Sexual harassment CLAIMS. “False” is redundant because, well, no sh*t.
But you probably were under the impression that men generally think sexual harassment is okay, and to be punished for it is misandry.
@@Scottydoesntknow1989 That is a really dishonest take and you know it, but good to know you are doing a good job allowing this whole "don't approach women" spread further with such takes. Please continue with the bad faith takes. The lonelier they all get, more the truth will shine over the world.
@@Scottydoesntknow1989 Reading comprehension isn't a strong skill for you, is it? He was talking about sexual HARASSMENT, not sexual assault. Two totally different things.
Don’t waste your time with this “never stop improving” guy. He clearly hasn’t had bad experiences that we’ve all had and thinks he knows better than we do. He wants us to believe him over our lying eyes.
@@Scottydoesntknow1989 Except I’m talking about things that we’ve experienced in real life not videos on UA-cam. All those videos do is show we’re not the only ones to go through it.
Girls step up and approach guys then tell us how easy/acceptable it is
i heard, on social media, that only undesirabIe Iow vaIue mascuIine women approach men.
This times 1000!
Fuck it. Make them do it. Oh wait, we wouldnt have any ppl left cuz they wouldn't anyways.
Every time I approach a guy he acts like I am a god, and stutters and freaks out, and then never forgets me. Personally, I love it, and think it’s so sweet how much men appreciate it when I approach them first.
@@StaciaDurree yes 😅
Got falsely accused
Slandered on a local social media page
Interrogated by corporate HR.
Have to hire an attorney
Luckily event was in a public recorded place
Career has stalled and small town rep ruined.
All my applications to other positions in the same company mysteriously get rejected quickly after applying.
Yeah nah we good fam
I got called out for hitting on girls on Facebook. You do one thing some self entitled woman doesn't like and she'll go apshit on you. Bunch of bs if I want to approach girls on fb that's my right
Even had guys messaging saying are you just going to message random girls on fb? Lol
Billie, Billie, Billie…you just don’t get it, do you? Sure, you may not get the cops called on you, but it’s definitely a possibility. I’ve had women overreact just by my saying hi. Labor got called just cause I literally asked a woman how her day was going and that somehow made her feel uncomfortable. Take my word at face value, no embellishment. Lecture your own on this one, men are moving on. Your condescending words and tone aren’t helping anyone, nor are winning any over to your cause.
That’s right Billie & how do you think you have a life’s worth of experience to be giving advice about when you’re what- 25?
S@@Hot-Springs-MLK-ExpresswayShe's Right About Some Things I Must Say
Billie, I've had people go to folks in authority on me literally for the simple fact I exist, in itself, and I'm not even exaggerating or being unreasonable or being funny. It actually happened, multiple times, throughout life, and I'm sure that some of it is on record somewhere, and that's without it being a dating thing. It had me not wanting to exist, let alone talk to ladies. Just because you SAY we're not having cops called on us doesn't mean cops AREN'T being called on us. They ARE being called on us. This is just YOU SAYING that we're not being called on. You might still not believe that, even after multiple stories from multiple guys tell you in the comments that it's happening, but that doesn't change the fact that it's happening.
Let's talk about bailing on arguments too, while we're on the topic.
If my girlfriend starts yelling, I leave the building. Cuz all it takes is for my neighbors to call the cops, and say "I think I hear DV". Then my ass gets to enjoy a jail cell for the night....
This Is The Way.
Might I suggest getting a quieter (non-yelling) model?
If that is how your GF deals with things then you need to talk to her about it and if she isn't willing to act like an adult then leave.
I literally had a girl call the cops on my friend when we were all out as a big group. She freaked out and called the cops telling them my friend assaulted her. Cops obviously saw how drunk she was and rest of the group told them she was just being a B. The "chance" is not as low as you think. This is real life. Not making it up.
Going to reject this for the fact that a woman actually did call the cops on me. Yes.. it happened, no.. I didn't deserve it, yes.. it did end in my favor, no.. she was never punished. No one can ever change the fact that it happened, twice.
I'm not a super attractive guy, I'm not rich. But I have a decent job, I have my own house, and I have a comfortable life.
If a woman finds a man attractive, she is flattered. If she doesn't find a man attractive, she is creeped out. A simple "no thanks" goes a long way. But I did find myself in a court room over a woman, on two separate occasions. So please stop gaslighting men.
You are absolutely right b
This essentially happened to my older brother and he almost got kicked out of college. He was able to prove his innocence and not kicked out, thus graduating, but this essentially destroyed his confidence and doesn’t even try to approach women anymore. I don’t blame him because a lot of women aren’t worth approaching to begin with.
Bro, been there! Most of the time I was told no woman will ever like you. This came from my mom, dad, sister, kids at school, friends, from before elementary school to my professional life. I did finally get married so if I can do it anyone can. Basically my wife was building her career up so she didn’t have time to date or meet anyone until we finally met which she said she was looking around for over a year. She compromised so it probably best worked for me.
Funny thing is, I’ve never been really depressed about this, not at all. I couldn’t do anything about not being very attractive to women so, I just let it roll off and met a good woman.
@@xxkrnplaysxx1683Good on you for rising above all the negativity. Your family seems like a real bunch of winners! 😧
I got the cops called on me on Santa Monica for talking to girls.
Never happened.
Did it really happen
Um... of what age I may ask...?
Meanwhile they don't even show up for bums rampaging through the stores... our city is weird..
Hopefully no jail time hopefully the charges were dropped
And why does she care if guys decide to not pursue and pass up opportunities? She has no personal stake in their life decisions. I'm going to continue doing what I think is right for me. I find her message to be condescending like she's insulting a man's ability to make judgement calls about these things.
Well said! BRB thinks she knows better than every man who’s been through it with women. She’s very skilled at gaslighting I’ll give her credit for that.
i think they are realizing men arent approaching them how they used to and are trying to get them to approach more, ive literally stopped completely
There is some hidden self interest benefit to any woman trying to talk a guy into approaching them. Women have more to gain than men do if men take this advice.
Nice sunburn. Also, telling guys to be realistic when most girls are raised to be a princess. If you raise your daughter as a princess, that's how she will act
Yes, many parents even address their daughter as princess!
And then later, they're referred to as Queens.
Lol
Well ladies welcome to the equvilant of the bear question.
If women see men as more dangerous than a bear which would eat them.
Then men can see women as to risky to their life quality to take a chance on.
I just asked a girl for just a number or some sort of communication I got rejected hard... for years I haven't done this..and i tell you now, what they say ' just be yourself and introduce blabla ...' it doesnt work...don't do it in public...humiliated af
when they say just approach they are refering to the guys they want to run over while they go chase the guys who have money and clout
its not rejection, its the risk of making a woman uncomfortable, the risk of violating her boundaries or not wanting to scare her, tons of men get labeled creepy even when these men had kind good intentions going into the interaction, one of my friends from the UK, i believe him, he told me he literally had a woman pour soda on him just because he approached her, and he did it in a kind warm manner.
Jesus, ladies in the UK are also like that? Sounds like something that could only happen in America lol
@@aidanoneill3730 do you know of incidents happening like that in America?
@@initiatorhater0688 it wouldn’t surprise me. Plenty of guys here in the comments have mentioned getting the cops called on them just for approaching a girl. One even mentioned that his friend got pepper sprayed when he asked her to sit at their table
You're entirely wrong on this. I have physically watched a woman pepper spray one of my friends because he asked her to come sit at our table. SHE LITERALLY PEPPER SPRAYED HIM. Because he was ugly. That's the only reason.
😂 the leading cause of death for pregnant Americans is afraid of a lil mace? I doubt it.
Yeah I’ve never been physically attacked but I’ve had women say some nasty shit to me just for asking them out/for a number. Not the norm obviously and you shouldn’t get caught up on it but still the worst she can say is not “no”😂
It sounds like he was being creepy. Any other woman would've done the same thing.
@@asiandude8361 so aproaching is being creepy. Got it always knew 😂
"Physically watched" XD
After 18 years my GF left, with that I am too nice and boring, for tall bad boy. I am 5'4 fitness rat. I approached 43 Girls over 9 months, 2 said "I have BF", 1 said no, the rest ridiculed me, humiliated me or yelled at me, that I should grow up or dwarves shouldnt ask girls out etc. And the last one actually called gardai(police) that she felt sex. harrased. All I did, was asking if she would like to go on date. So, you are right, not every girl will do it, but I learned my lesson.
Legion of Men stay strong. We will win this.
once I heard that women sue men who save them with cpr going and talking to anyone is a no. y'all strong and independent save yourself
Lifeguard had this happen. Real life already.
You're absolutely right, but it only takes one time until it becomes something you will never do again. Men are also very unified and team oriented in the sense that once a large enough group of men decided that something aint right, the rest will follow suit. We dont call it "the council" for nothing. If we see some bullshit a woman does to our fellow homeboys, then we aint gonna play those games ourselves
And yet we say that women are more prone to group think.
I’m even a women and I refuse to ask for guys numbers after one guy made a huge stink and embarrassed me when I did it once! Now I just tell the guy I like him in hopes he asks me, but I am too terrified to do the same thing again. Women act like men don’t have feelings.
It's not the gym videos, it's the look in her eyes when she sees you aren't 6' 4" tall.
News flash, if you are over 6ft then you're intimidating and rapey.
It only takes one chick though and your life could be ruined. That’s not a good risk to take….
You sound like the feminists who say the same thing about men. It's just dumb.
dead ass had this one lady get her swole ass friend to come to her job to "protect her" when I would frequent this one restaurant.... it was a popular OPEN TO PUBLIC RESTUARANT THAT WAS PRETTY POPULAR!!!!!!! I knew she worked there but I had no intentions on ever talking to her, never even tried to make a move just there to get my damn food. shit pisses me off to this day knowing they really do this and some women really post videos like this
My ex called the cops during our divorce to give her leverage in Court. Unfortunately, it happens all the time, and guys never know when it'll happen until it's too late....
My ex-wife used false allegations to get me escorted out of my own house by armed cops and to gain leverage in the divorce. It is standard procedure now for women's divorce attorneys to encourage this...its called the Deluth Model. Happens EVERY DAY to men.
Being called a creep and being lied to about them having a boyfriend over and over gets old fast. Getting ghosted and mistreated/cheated on over and over gets old fast. Losing my job or coming close to it because a girl told other coworkers I was harassing her.. which NEVER happened, is NOT worth it. It happened to me, and I try to be a good person. It happens ALL the time.
And I'm just supposed to man up and act like that stuff doesn't destory me each time? No.
I really feel you on this and yet what makes me angry more is that people in society still think it's better to be a man at the end of the day even when it comes to dating
Seeing something on social media doesn't negate it actually happing 💀
Hate to break it to you but you're just wrong.
I hit on a girl and she freaked out. I just asked if she was single and she freaked. I walked away.
The last time a woman flirted with me and my first response was to email her a sonnet on Valentine's Day. No, she didn't call the cops. But she did dedicate the next month to sending me abusive texts. I became ostracised from our mutual friends. The job agency that brought us together never gave me another day of work. The last time I selflessly supported a woman through a really rough patch, she didn't call the cops. However, heaps of threatening people started demanding that I leave her alone. Stop gaslighting men.
"She not going to call the cops"
Must just be me then.
Not really, but in the past I had a girl run from me when I said "Hi, how are you?" during a wedding reception. She took one look at me and literally ran across the reception hall. It was embarrassing, bc everyone assumes you said or did something freakish to scare her. So I just stood there in my tux, turning red. Then one of the other groomsmen came over and said, "Don't worry about it. That's the bride's sister. She has a mental illness." I was like, yeah, leave it to me to try to strike up a conversation with a nutjob at the reception. Cute but nuts. At least I found out early. And that pretty much sums up my experience with women.
Stop gaslighting these poor boys
You're gaslighting yourselves.
@@Ev1L_Scotsman: My memories serve to the contrary.
@@DozerfleetProdbecause you either did it wrong or you’re not in a place to approach women. You’re probably out of shape and don’t have yourself put together. If she’s saying you’re harassing her you probably kept ogling her. Only crazy women would do something to an innocent man. I highly doubt every interaction you’ve had has been with a crazy woman. If it has, pick better.
@@DozerfleetProd c'mon, who are you going to believe: @Alex-od6cl - or your own lying eyes?
You might want to look up stats before making a vid like this.
In 2022, 3/5 of women claimed they were harassed at the gym, and in 2023 more than half the women claimed that they were harassed at the gym.
This "harassment" included things like staring. As in a man looking straight ahead while working out when there was a woman exercising on equipment in front of the equipment the man was using, and often the woman began exercising after the man did.
Concern. Bowl of candy. Full. If I tell you I have poisoned ONE piece with a fatal dose, would you take one? How many pieces would you take? How many vids have you seen with women going psycho over guys?
I was falsely accused back in the 90s of sexual harassment. Never got my confidence or self esteem back. But now I look back as a lesson. I have savings, I have an excellent credit score. Don't have kids so no child support. Car is paid off. No alimony to worry about. What would I get if I got a relationship? Constantly kissing ass. And broke in no time. Don't trust the staff at Hull high.
How did this happen was this from a result of approaching women or from something else
Live your best life my dawg
Dumb question: why are you raging against the guys who have stopped trying to engage women? How are they ruining things for _you_?
I have two children and a divorce and I am very happy in my own space. "Rage" doesn't come close to addressing how women can harm men these days. I hope it changes in time for my two boys. Thanks for your work.
Over a year ago, I had cops called on me for going on a college campus. One of the ladies I approached was calling and I was told as much. I got a warning. Just because they usually won't, doesn't mean it can't happen.
You’re right she probably won’t JUST call the cops.
Not when she has so many other options.
Get you fired for work…
File a false accusation…
Make a viral TikTok about you, ruining any future career OR relationship prospects you might have…
Yeah, you clearly don't know what you're talking about.
Many women will call the cops just because they see a man on his own in the park.
This is absolute truth
A man cannot even live as a free person anymore just enjoying his life without some stupid woman thinking it’s suspicious for a man to exist
How about the false accusations at work? I went through that. They act kind to my face then stab me in the back.
How did that happen to you? I'm interested in hearing your story because then maybe this could support the cause of men no longer being forced to approach women due to getting negative and awkward reactions from women
@@nobodysperfect06 I used to work at a college near me. I worked in a dining hall so we would have student workers. I did my best to get along with everyone and show kindness regardless of gender or age. Well unfortunately little did I know at the time certain girls didn’t like it and decided to go behind my back and accuse me of staring at them when I did no such thing. Like I said I only made conversation with them like I did anyone. Hell some of them even said hi to me first before the fact. Thankfully my boss saw right through it because he knew I talked to everyone. He told me just that. It didn’t go anything beyond being pulled into the office and him letting me know what had been reported to him. Because of that my friendliness toward women slowly deteriorated over the next few years to the point where I only talk to them if I absolutely have to. If they say hi I just partially nod my head and keep doing what I’m doing.
that act kind part is spot on
it fills me with anger and rage on how people and society expect men to have natural common sense for knowing what is creepy behavior and what is not when approaching/interacting with women, because of that, no wonder lots of men swear off on talking to women forever due to negative, bad experiences, from when approaching, interacting with women, not because of rejection, but because their approaches or advances were viewed as dangerous or uncomfortable, weird, their advances get called creepy or labeled as predators, made the woman uncomfortable.
It angers me a lot because, lots of men get perceived that way and they unfortuneately never knew, they were never aware of what they did wrong when approaching or interacting with women, they just didn't know, because of that, i have the mindset that, men are the only gender that have to go through social failure, make painful mistakes socially in order to get better at talking to or interacting with the other sex, not women. Its impossible for women to get labeled creepy or weird, uncomfortable by men, that is a fact.
Thats how it looks like or seems like, yes im aware that women have their own problems to deal with, men and women have different problems when it comes to dating, but for women, messing up socially when interacting with men that causes the other sex to feel uncomfortable, creeped out or weird, is never an issue for women.
Yet people still think it's better to be a man at the end of the day and that just fills me with a lot of anger and rage yeah sometimes I get angry and pissed off that I was born a man.
Because men have to do all the work in dating and courtship and seduction, and when people say so what or that's the way it is that just pisses me off a lot and yet people and Society say that men are supposed to enjoy and embrace taking the lead and I will never understand and never get it why men are supposed to love that role
Yeah, you don't get the struggle of men, clearly. I had a group of mothers call the police on me for taking my son to the park claiming i was a predator.
There isn't a snowballs''' chance in hell I am actually going to DO or SAY something directed at any stranger ever after wasting a few hours trying to convince the police I was just taking care of my son.
This video does not apply to the workplace. Asking a female coworker out is legitimately more risky.
Of course...? But the risk mostly comes from management who might catch a whiff of "something going on" between the two of you, and there are often policies against inter-coworker affairs.
The workplace policy is a moot point if a female coworker is not interested to begin with.
I get your point that even if there is verified mutual interest then it is still risky trying to date at work.
Also in a situation where she is not interested and complains to HR she has no control over the outcome of that complaint. Even if she only intended for him to get a warning but not get him fired HR still makes the final decisions for discipline. It's out of her hands.
This is the wrong take, homie, you couldn't be more wrong, stop spreading this misinformation to these poor young men
Whats the good information? Never talk to women and die alone?
@@TheIrishnyIt sure beats having your trust broken and her taking half of your assets with her.
Woman: "Let me put the cops on hold, I gotta see this short."
I gave up on it when i said hi to someone while out and she said "...ew"..
This is clearly a case of "if I haven't seen it, it doesn't happen". Men are TELLING YOU it happens! Believe men!
"The slimmest of odds" can get you fired or in jail; Don't impose your belief in detriment of reality...
Why most of her viewers aren't subscribed.
Keep telling yourself that, hon. We aren't the ones who will be replaced by AI in a few years.
Better idea, let the women approach the men. How many men have ever called the cops on women approaching them in a reasonable way? 0
Nah. Twice married, twice divorced, why on earth would I give a woman the opportunity to interfere with my own personal peace? I'll stick with rescuing Great Danes and going to the range whenever I want.
That end part sounds like a dream
@@GrassyBoy It's actually pretty nice. They're always happy to see me, always happy to go anywhere I decide to go - only drawback is that they are absolute bed hogs.
All it takes is one time, doesn't matter if it's not happening all the time. Once is more than enough.
Sounds like the slimest of odds matter when it comes to a bear in the forest but not to woman who will ruin your life
I've had a woman accuse me of stalking her. No, I was not. I was simply going about my business at work, but she decided I was stalking her!
I've seen plenty of girls threaten to call the bouncer for just being approached
Nah, my fiance just pulled this and took off with my daughter. A couple of "viral TikToks" ruined a generation.
She so tough online 😂
It isn't a tik tok trend men heard to freak them out. It's real life experience.
At BEST she rejects?! That's a lose-lose scenario!! 😂
Haven't seen girls call the cops, but I have seen them claim that "Approaching me when I don't consent is rape." And then take a picture and claim rape on Twitter. My best friend lost his job, house, and eventually his life for asking a girl if he could buy her a drink. It's way worse than a couple of TikToks...
Even when they make the first move it isn't safe. We all know how they are. A nano second later they change their mind. Protect yourselves and stay away from them.
I approached two women back in college years ago and they were rude and disrespectful to me
That ship done sailed. Not worth the consequences that come from trying to talk to women. If she wants to talk then she'll approach me. Or not. It doesn't matter either way to me anymore.
Lol I'm building a fortress of solitude
100% chance she will bring more drama than she's worth.
Please tell me you're being intentionally facetious.
I will tell you why many men don't approach. Being a man is not easy, you have to be someone. Maybe it sounds weird, but is not that we think we are not worth it, we just want to focus on ourselves and prefer to focus that energy somewhere else.
Now she's just making up scenarios, typical woman.
This is a mindset I've had for years now as women get older and when they hit the wall, their SMV declines.
My mindset I have at times as women hit the wall and their sexual market value declines is that I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way of dealing women karma for all of the times they labeled a man creepy or weird or labeled a man a predator or just accused of making them feel uncomfortable just when the man was approaching them and making advances on them.
Because a lot of men unfortunately get perceived that way negatively by women when many of those men had good intentions going into the interaction, they were never trying to hurt anyone and they never meant any harm but those men were just kind of socially awkward or socially inept.
And the cruel thing about it is that women can get away with not being socially calibrated or women can get away with having their social awkwardness or social ineptness never be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy when interacting with the opposite sex. Women can get away with having poor social skills when interacting with the opposite sex, men can't get away with it.
I know I'm in good company in which people agree with me and that is women don't risk having their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy when interacting with the opposite sex but men do unfortunately.
So I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way of dealing with karma for all of the times they reacted negatively towards men for approaching them or making advances on them when many of those men never meant any harm and would never have hurt a fly but they just didn't know any better socially.
And it's the reminder that women can get away with having poor social skills or just being poorly socially calibrated, but men can't get away with it since nature and reality dictates that men have to do the pursuing and making advances.
I'm aware that it makes sense as to why men are the only gender that get thrown the creepy label or the weird label or are the ones more likely to get labeled as making a member of the other sex being uncomfortable because men are on average physically bigger and stronger than women and because of that they can be perceived as a danger or a threat in a woman's eyes but the reverse is normally not true as much.
But yeah overall I've had this mindset for years now that I like to think that as women lose their attractiveness or as their mate value declines I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way for all of the times they reacted negatively to men when a lot of those men never meant any harm and were never trying to hurt anyone.
They just didn't know any better socially, and like I said before, women can get away with not being smart socially or just having a poor social IQ, not understanding social cues or boundaries in regards to interactions with the other sex since women don't risk having their awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or perceived as weird or creepy, or uncomfortable when interacting with the other sex.
To sum it up it's not rejection that hurts it's the way that it happens that has the biggest impact.
I know I'm in good company in which people agree with me that women don't risk having their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy or uncomfortable when interacting with the other sex.
Women can get away with that but men can't unfortunately since the burden for all time of men always having to do the pursuing and chasing or making advances.
So yeah to sum it up it's not being angry at women for rejecting men but it's more so for the way or the manner or behavior in which the women would reject or react, and the fact that women can get away with like I already said in which women don't risk having their social ineptness or social awkwardness be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy, uncomfortable when interacting with the other sex.
Basically labeling men as creepy or weird or dangerous when many of those men had good intentions going into the interaction, never meant any harm, they never tried to rape or they never tried to assault the woman, the woman still labeled the man's advances as creepy or stalkerish.
Another reminder of what women can get away with but men can't when it comes to interacting with the other sex.
A wise man once said, "I'd rather be safe than sorry..." #metoo 🤷♂️
Ive had more than one woman freak out when i approached them politely. Im a good looking guy, and most women ive asked have said so. Normally, its the ugly friend that causes a scene when her hot friend gets propositioned
Since you are so strong and independent, you can approach men; or bears-whichever works for you.
It is also interesting to note the reaction to men’s concerns in the comments; mostly dismissive even when bad things have personally to men who in essence followed her advice. This is more telling than men’s lack of “courage”.
If you are truly jacked-up looking and you try to talk to her, she’ll endanger your life by getting other dudes involved, not the Cops!
At what point does the man ever have any control?? She literally lost me at that point.
Cool and having been in the boat with said crazy not once, but twice in my life along with having a partner of five years who cheated on me and tried to get the cops on me because it was "my fault" she cheated... ya, some trust issues have arisen. You are absolutely right, most women have been very respectful towards me when they have rejected me; however, it only takes one crazy nutter to destroy your life and punishment for her is often a slap on the wrist and no recuperation of damages done to the guy.
Besides, a lot of this also stems deeper with the knowledge that even if you do stay together and things look amazing after several years and you finally propose that there is a coin flip between success and divorce and the odds that she will be the one to call it a failure for some of the most "interesting" of reasons is WAY too high for the risk. Young men like to be risky and have fun, but after about 25, most men are looking to build security and statistically, women do not bring that and are often a liability.
In college I had this flirtation thing with a girl in a few of my classes. Shortly before graduation I ran into her and she started screaming at me that I should go away. I did and haven't had any interaction with her since...and that was literally decades ago.
I can almost guarantee everyone here has had the cops called on them. everyone. here. has at least one story. not from the internet, from real life. they have been fired, bared from campuses, kicked out of their appartenments.
I once had a pastor sit me down a berate me for being creepy. I didn't even see the girl in the room. (no seriously, I was late, it was crowded, I grabbed the first open spot I saw. bad idea, apparently)
how about you give us tips to figure out whos going to bring some manner of authority down us and whos not? or maybe give the sane women tips on how to let men know their safe to approach?
“My anecdotal experience negates your statistics and your life experiences”
…Billie, you understand that when people (women in particular, y’all are egregious with this) pull this line of thinking, it makes people hate them, right?
Here's a question:
Why take that chance?
Tell my ex-wife that.
I have seen it a few times. The headache and financial drain isn't worth it.
Honestly I’ve never been afraid for a second on “cops” or anything remotely like that. The humiliation of some types of rejection is a much scarier scenario. It’s like if we find you attractive but you don’t find us attractive we’re doing something wrong. I’m sure more in our heads than anything else.
I dont approach women because i have extremely low self esteem and I almost guarantee they will reject me
Social media has destroyed society. At least you’re fighting it (with social media) lol
Sometimes you gotta fight fire with fire
@@noriakikakyoin1423 exactly 🙏
@@noriakikakyoin1423 It’s the only way to reach a lot of brain washed youth these days too
@@Scottydoesntknow1989 Tis sad really
The begging is cute, but I'm sorry, it's just not worth losing my job and subsequently losing my house.
I don't agree with saying "It isn't happening". We have to keep in mind that everyone lives in a different city and is accustomed to different kinds of people, etc. But what I *will* say is that if you're in a place where women act like that, you need to go elsewhere or double-check your approach, maybe even your appearance.
Or even worse, we get together, and she hyper analyzes all of my decisions just like this.
Mine has been due to reality, I have had the throw up look and she walks away up to women saying “disgusting” then they walk away. I have gone up to women and literally have a legit work question, approach them and say, I’ve got a question and they freeze up like a deer about to be run over and want to run away but can’t. Luckily by that time I was rejected so many times and told no women will ever like me so many times that it didn’t bother them anymore and definitely not now. I did finally get married in my 30’s, probably because I was the only man not married around my wife that we started to date, so there is still hope for guys in my unfortunate situation. Luckily my wife was busy building her career up that she wasn’t looking for a husband until I met her.
True as this may be women need to learn a harsh lesson. Careful what you wish for.
girls arn't calling the Cops, their calling a Lawyer..
Women should approach men they are interested in. It's only fair. It's long overdue.
Or men have to keep approaching the wrong women, cause that's what happens.
The sunglasses tan line kinda hits
I don't think those odds are that slim, especially me being black, i would say those chances are very high
I'm black as well - and don't try to hit on them unless I get clear indicators of their interest.
@@PriestApostateeven then I wouldn't, because there's those women who's emotions change faster than NYC weather