How to innocently give HER butterflies

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  • @lukebmx4lyf
    @lukebmx4lyf 3 роки тому +34010

    Guy *gives her a caterpillar”
    Girl : what’s this for?
    Guy : giving you future butterflies

  • @borgexd
    @borgexd 9 місяців тому +1866

    This is like getting fishing advice from a fish

    • @kashkinn
      @kashkinn 6 місяців тому +34

      😂😂😂

    • @jakecastro3485
      @jakecastro3485 4 місяці тому +59

      How’s getting fishing advice from the fisher going for you?

    • @borgexd
      @borgexd 4 місяці тому

      @@jakecastro3485 caught a fish

    • @tedk.6420
      @tedk.6420 3 місяці тому +13

      Bro this should just come natural to you. This advice is literally useless.

    • @DannyBanasiewicz
      @DannyBanasiewicz 3 місяці тому

      ​@@tedk.6420i was gonna say damn ig im just a fire bf

  • @HerBlonde
    @HerBlonde 2 роки тому +4628

    Can confirm this is for once you've already got her.
    Do NOT try on a random girl, you will have a restraining order be put on you.

    • @heetburad3546
      @heetburad3546 Рік тому +40

      too funnyy

    • @chloemajouee
      @chloemajouee Рік тому +47

      Did you try that on a random girl??!!😂

    • @ysbrandd
      @ysbrandd Рік тому +39

      ​@@chloemajoueeI mean the title insinuates it works, I can confirm jail time is at the end of it...

    • @acc3LYT
      @acc3LYT Рік тому +27

      Rizzstraining

    • @SouvenTuduCODOH
      @SouvenTuduCODOH Рік тому +2

      Yes

  • @cam.mie.
    @cam.mie. 2 місяці тому +209

    also!!!
    1. when they smile at you with their genuine smile. ITS SO GENUINE AND SWEET OML
    2. when they don’t move their leg when it hits yours and js lets it sit there ITS SUCH A BUTTERFLY GIVER
    3. hugs. hugs. hugs. hugs.

    • @NCTaeyongIsNOTurbiasHesmine
      @NCTaeyongIsNOTurbiasHesmine 2 місяці тому +3

      OMG YESSSS ALL OF THESE 😫🦋🦋🦋

    • @chaitanyagupta6668
      @chaitanyagupta6668 2 місяці тому

      Remember boys she is thinking of a chad. This isn't gonna work if you're average

    • @Phoenix-t5c
      @Phoenix-t5c Місяць тому

      @cam.mie. 𝔂𝓮𝓼. 𝓘 𝓱𝓪𝓿𝓮 𝓪 𝓱𝓾𝓰𝓮 𝓬𝓻𝓾𝓼𝓱 𝓸𝓷 𝓼𝓸𝓶𝓮𝓫𝓸𝓭𝔂 𝓲𝓷 𝓶𝔂 𝓬𝓵𝓪𝓼𝓼 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓞. 𝓜. 𝓖! 𝓗𝓮'𝓼 𝓼𝓸 𝓬𝓾𝓽𝓮! 𝓗𝓮 𝓰𝓲𝓿𝓮𝓼 𝓶𝓮 𝓫𝓾𝓽𝓽𝓮𝓻𝓯𝓵𝓲𝓮𝓼! 𝓑𝓾𝓽 𝓼𝓪𝓭𝓵𝔂 𝓱𝓮 𝓱𝓪𝓼 𝓪 𝓰𝓲𝓻𝓵𝓯𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓷𝓭 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @FacingOneself
      @FacingOneself 21 день тому +2

      @@chaitanyagupta6668 Uh, but it really depends on perspective and also character of person is a boost to looks

    • @FacingOneself
      @FacingOneself 12 днів тому

      @@Strawberry_dogo wth

  • @ranman7688
    @ranman7688 3 роки тому +12515

    She left out the part where she has to be madly in love with you first.

    • @JadetheGoober
      @JadetheGoober 2 роки тому +284

      Just plain interest works as well

    • @irshman1845
      @irshman1845 2 роки тому +63

      LMAO

    • @isiahaf1359
      @isiahaf1359 2 роки тому +84

      @@JadetheGoober not even

    • @theokguy9837
      @theokguy9837 2 роки тому +2

      *YEAH SPENCER IS TRASHY...WENT TO SCHOOL WITH HER, SHE HAS BEEN WITH OVER 15 DUDES AT MY SCHOOL, ALONE.*

    • @rnt45t1
      @rnt45t1 2 роки тому +10

      LOL

  • @artemtsarevskiy2785
    @artemtsarevskiy2785 Рік тому +1693

    “Don’t just sit there like a rock”
    My honest reaction: 🗿

  • @Ah-64_apache_helicopter
    @Ah-64_apache_helicopter 2 роки тому +4911

    “Don’t just sit there like a rock”
    Every man out there: bruh that’s all I know how to do

  • @MrStoney69
    @MrStoney69 2 місяці тому +63

    Instructions unclear...
    My grandma now thinks I'm a creep...

  • @ipark-edjim-in710
    @ipark-edjim-in710 2 роки тому +1798

    "kissing her neck"
    Sweety i thought it was "innocently" in the captions

    • @OomegaLuL
      @OomegaLuL 2 роки тому

      That is innocent. You just happen to sexualize it in your head you blood bastard

    • @cjthomas4102
      @cjthomas4102 2 роки тому +153

      "How to innocently give her butterflies"
      5 seconds later
      "Rub her thigh/stomach, kiss her neck, and hug her from behind"

    • @sterl2093
      @sterl2093 2 роки тому +17

      How is this not innocent

    • @cjthomas4102
      @cjthomas4102 2 роки тому +41

      @@sterl2093 I guess it really depends on the context behind innocent but it's definitely not innocent in my dirty mind lmao

    • @wesleysavary3313
      @wesleysavary3313 2 роки тому +10

      Does it really have to be dirty? No

  • @Asimo44
    @Asimo44 Рік тому +1672

    If I actually said "that's my girl" a full octave lower than my speaking voice, I would just sound like a demonic frog.

    • @Asimo44
      @Asimo44 Рік тому

      @Harry try to do it. You have to croak it out like a demon

    • @Variant703
      @Variant703 Рік тому +9

      Lol

    • @timmytimonia
      @timmytimonia Рік тому +38

      honestly DO NOT say that to anyone as a girl speaking about this. all they will probably do is cringe.

    • @monmagog
      @monmagog Рік тому

      Hot

    • @callmemistahcrypt2220
      @callmemistahcrypt2220 Рік тому +15

      As a person with a deep voice. I think this is completely true. When I’m singing to myself some song in my regular speaking voice and the tune of the song goes lower, so I have to make my voice lower. I’m just talking out of my throat and it just gets creaky and sounds like a croak. I don’t know-it’s all over the place.

  • @Razepage
    @Razepage 3 роки тому +7963

    I have edited this so no one can know what I said that was so controversial

    • @anshumanagrawal346
      @anshumanagrawal346 3 роки тому +66

      lol yeah

    • @psrsasalehi3390
      @psrsasalehi3390 3 роки тому +201

      I just looked at a girl for more than 2 seconds once that's the most🤣

    • @anshumanagrawal346
      @anshumanagrawal346 3 роки тому +174

      @@psrsasalehi3390 Bro, that's like a lot, my high score is like 1.3 seconds

    • @Xoydilmucizkogddyxksxktx
      @Xoydilmucizkogddyxksxktx 3 роки тому +45

      You guys look straight in the eye!!!!!

    • @okramra
      @okramra 3 роки тому +29

      @@Xoydilmucizkogddyxksxktx straight up savages 😳💯

  • @124jwjdbd
    @124jwjdbd 7 місяців тому +27

    oh my gosh i LOVE when he does the little circular thigh rub, and the that’s my girl, and the hands squeeze.. to die for ❤

  • @cantcomeupwithaname1579
    @cantcomeupwithaname1579 Рік тому +1584

    Instructions unclear i am now im prison for assault

  • @jaycase8029
    @jaycase8029 Рік тому +467

    Just stare into her eyes when she smiles and makes her feel like a princess ❤❤

    • @speakgames35
      @speakgames35 Рік тому +28

      Or makes us guys look like a creep or a stalker.

    • @Jt_Jesus_is_king4orever
      @Jt_Jesus_is_king4orever 11 місяців тому +5

      @@speakgames35nah fr bro

    • @NarutoUchiha7147
      @NarutoUchiha7147 Місяць тому +1

      Lol😂​@@Viviofthevalley-1

    • @Phoenix-t5c
      @Phoenix-t5c Місяць тому

      @@jaycase8029 𝔂𝓮𝓪. 𝓘'𝓶 𝓪 𝓰𝓲𝓻𝓵 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝔀𝓲𝓵𝓵 𝓶𝓪𝓴𝓮 𝓶𝓮 𝓯𝓮𝓮𝓵 𝓵𝓲𝓴𝓮 𝓪 𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼

    • @LillianWorkman-w3n
      @LillianWorkman-w3n 16 днів тому

      My man's can just looks at me and ill blush and smile like he will be playing a video game while we are on call (video call) hell just look up not say anything and I'll blush say oh my god your cute like ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @doodskie999
    @doodskie999 2 роки тому +2898

    Me: proceeds to rub my crush's belly in circles
    Her: hello 911

    • @helpmereach69subs74
      @helpmereach69subs74 2 роки тому +23

      😂😂

    • @supriyapfft
      @supriyapfft 2 роки тому +87

      The advices were for girlfriend not crush...like why would you kiss or hug your crush out of nowhere💀

    • @Mariannab.
      @Mariannab. 2 роки тому +2

      Yea yea

    • @Eri_blue06
      @Eri_blue06 2 роки тому +8

      ​@@supriyapfftDepends on the person who is flirting;-;

    • @oliviaaa961
      @oliviaaa961 2 роки тому

      thats what i was thinking

  • @AubrieGibbens
    @AubrieGibbens 15 днів тому +1

    This is all so so true.

  • @Herb615
    @Herb615 3 роки тому +2255

    These are really charming and cute tips and her input is really appreciated. With that being said, she should’ve made a disclaimer that this is should only be applied once you are in a relationship or situationship with the woman. As cute as these tips are, doing this to random strangers may not be appreciated.

    • @bustinjieber9539
      @bustinjieber9539 3 роки тому +121

      Yeah totally. Learned that the hard way

    • @anshumanagrawal346
      @anshumanagrawal346 3 роки тому +67

      @@bustinjieber9539 lol what

    • @albertmarqz6501
      @albertmarqz6501 3 роки тому +145

      Can confirm, this is my third day in the county jail waiting for my bail

    • @gracewayman824
      @gracewayman824 3 роки тому +24

      Oh my gosh 😂 yes you are right. Outside of a relationship it would be weird.

    • @yayo0
      @yayo0 3 роки тому +4

      @@bustinjieber9539 HELP????

  • @noahm6782
    @noahm6782 2 роки тому +4491

    Reply to this comment if you like oiled up black men:

  • @nothanks3577
    @nothanks3577 3 роки тому +223

    Me as a male: That's my girl.
    The random girl in front of me: *signalling security*

  • @nightshade19347
    @nightshade19347 День тому

    THE CIRCLE THING IS WHAT GETS ME SM.
    I always love it when he does that to me as we’re cuddling, it just makes me so happy for some reason 😊

  • @blnt4ce
    @blnt4ce 2 роки тому +1802

    Seems like these are tips for when you already have a girlfriend lol

    • @jasonshih3633
      @jasonshih3633 2 роки тому +27

      yeah sounds like some guys missed it

    • @divyaparmar6909
      @divyaparmar6909 2 роки тому +14

      As a girl, I can confirm for you, that is not true. You can use most of the auditory ones to get a girl though🤫

    • @uglyhindu1761
      @uglyhindu1761 2 роки тому +64

      ​@@divyaparmar6909 as a guy, we don't want to risk being arrested. No thanks

    • @betxengi5388
      @betxengi5388 2 роки тому +9

      No. I had a friend who went with me to the wedding, before that we met about 2-3 times only for 10minutes, barely text each other (he is more of a friend of my sister than mine. In my culture, when you're 17 or older, it's expected that you'll show up with an accompanying person at a wedding. He was my companion).
      When we were a little drunk, we went outside because he was hot. I was cold because it was night, so he hugged me to make me warmer.
      After a few seconds of whispering (we talked quietly) I realized how romantic it was and immediately started thinking about it. Then he suddenly kissed my neck and started whispering again about me being cold. We weren't good friends, we just knew each other well enough to go together and he knew about that. This little situation gave me a lot of butterflies. I didn't feel anything for him before, but because of what he did, he woke up butterflies inside me And he made me feel like him. You can call it infatuation, because so far nothing else has happened. However, so far when we see each other (not on dates, because we are not meeting in arranged dates, but it happens accidentally) I still have the impression that he likes me, and that's why he did it. Everyone says he's constantly staring at me. It seems that none of us wants to take a step further.
      So it doesn't depend on whether the other person loves you, it depends on how you do it. You need to feel it and choose the right moment, so that it will not be strange.

    • @alaster1403
      @alaster1403 2 роки тому +6

      Quite an advanced step

  • @haroondaman7162
    @haroondaman7162 3 роки тому +3708

    Just walked up to a lady on the bus and started kissing her neck and rubbing her thigh in a circular motion.
    This sh*t is cap, she just started screaming and threatened to call the cops if I didn't get off the bus.

  • @ellsbells_09
    @ellsbells_09 2 роки тому +510

    If you want her to notice you (coming from a girl):
    1. Look at her/STARE at her, when she looks at you look away
    2. Randomly compliment her or ask her to help you, little conversations
    3. Play with your hair, it’s attractive (idk why) and it brings attention to you. If she watches you enough when you do it you can ask why she’s looking at you
    4. Don’t be someone you’re not
    5. If she says something in a conversation, remember it and bring it up days or even weeks later, she will know you were really listening and take note of that!
    Your Welcome!

    • @4MyTube4Ever
      @4MyTube4Ever 2 роки тому +26

      yea thats not enough cuz shes doing that with 3 another dudes. and once she just ditch you.
      thank you for the ideas though

    • @mateuszwezik5290
      @mateuszwezik5290 2 роки тому +14

      How is avoiding eye contact attractive xd

    • @SnerMerNer
      @SnerMerNer 2 роки тому +21

      Sounds like what women do, not what men do.

    • @army4ever908
      @army4ever908 2 роки тому +4

      so true💯💯(coming from a girl too)

    • @4MyTube4Ever
      @4MyTube4Ever 2 роки тому


      So yea... happend to me before few times so try to explain me this.
      ​ @army4ever💜💜 i had co worker we were 100% eye locking ,eye contact she was 99% of time only speaking about her self all the talking we had was mostly made by her because everytime i came she didnt speak...
      i was supportive to her because she quit the job i was also hugging her few times to show i support her and that i care i let her choose next step to go further and have relationship or no (because everytime i tried to communicate with her to even get to say somthing so i wouldnt be direct with out proper pre talk...).
      things changed all of the sudden she got mad on me for nothing, once she came to me to speak with me and she was looking at her shoes 100% of the time.
      the last day she got mad on me first thing she saw me for a stupid reason because i resay what my co worker said (because it wasnt very nice.. and i choose nicer words and said you should say it like that) and she got mad like i was "mocking her" we didnt spoke for whole 12 hours
      at the end of the day she came to me told me was nice meeting(knowing) you.
      and we had a long strong hug
      (she was the one that slowly let go the hug not me)(i hugged her with out looking her in the eyes) (because i was pissed off she got mad on me for zero reason (and i was too emotional for her leaving... (wouldnt end well if i looked her in eyes..) )
      before going with our older co worker to a drink before us
      she said to all of us that were working meet me outside for a drink..
      i didnt go to the drink because my last bus was leaving and also i was soo mad it wouldnt be well to go with them (would be to awkward and emotional for me)..
      she left with out any contact,phone number what soo ever...
      my co worker gave her my number few months after this she wanted to buy laptop
      i told her whats best to buy cuz i work in tech shop
      asked her how her life goes and all the stuff she told me
      she said good she asked me about my health cuz i had some health problems prior meeting her and told her
      (even though i asked her like 5 questions she did answer them all (4-6hours apart...) but asked me just one..)
      she ask me how i work in 2 weeks all set she said ill come well see each other all ready
      nothing happend zero explenation
      Month later i ask her whats up with the laptop i still got it here should i put it back to sell it or
      she needed 16 hours to answer... i sent at around 16:00 she answer at around 8:00
      all she said hey how are you
      yea you probably can put it back on the shell i dont think my male friend gonna buy it
      Ill ask him
      and i never contacted her again
      Keep in mind i bought her small gift for b day thats was first time we hugged because she asked for a hug after gift.
      and she didnt even wish me happy b day (my b day happend like 2 weeks after first sms for laptop.)

  • @M4X_ArrowPaw
    @M4X_ArrowPaw 10 місяців тому +2

    YALL DUDES: WE LOVE THE KISSING ON THEEE NECKK- THE HUGGING FROM BEHIND- THE GRABING OUR WAIST (Not hard- We luv gentle 😀-)
    We absolutely love TALL guys; since we are usually shORt- unlike me 🥲- and we hate most mulet hair cuts: they look crappy on yall, NO OFFENSE! 💙

  • @madelynwood2008
    @madelynwood2008 3 роки тому +409

    Oh my gosh the hugging from behind- I mean, just reading books that have this in it gives me butterflies, let me have this UGHHH

  • @thefitnessgrampacertest9057
    @thefitnessgrampacertest9057 3 роки тому +1242

    spencer: **says number two**
    me: **squeals**
    my mom: “what’s wrong?”
    me: *”NONO NOTHING MOMM”

  • @_.JermJerm._
    @_.JermJerm._ 2 роки тому +202

    If you touch me in circles for too long, I will combust into atoms for the amount of annoyance it gives me

    • @freaksam10
      @freaksam10 2 роки тому +4

      😂

    • @dripcolors8756
      @dripcolors8756 Рік тому

      if I touch a girl in general, she would combust into atoms for the amount of annoyance it gives her.

  • @ccfam8691
    @ccfam8691 6 днів тому +1

    This really helped😂😂😂

  • @feitw
    @feitw 2 роки тому +775

    "Youre not just gonna sit there like a rock."
    Dwayne "the rock" Johnson: :(

  • @zoefoley6818
    @zoefoley6818 2 роки тому +69

    how to innocently give her butterflies:
    1. be tom holland

    • @mnlight8308
      @mnlight8308 2 роки тому +6

      Nope.

    • @shahirali1662
      @shahirali1662 Рік тому +1

      @@mnlight8308 i mean... he did pull zendaya

    • @romanmakarevych4483
      @romanmakarevych4483 11 місяців тому +1

      But 20 cm taller

    • @zoefoley6818
      @zoefoley6818 11 місяців тому +2

      @@romanmakarevych4483 I don’t really care about height. Well, actually that’s true most of the time but I’m 5’6 and I would rather you be taller than me or the same height 😭😂

    • @romanmakarevych4483
      @romanmakarevych4483 11 місяців тому +1

      @zoefoley6818 ye, heard that from many girls around your height and below - and almost every time some mysterious force made them end up with boyfriends who were a whole head above their own height (if not more) and this was expecially true for those who were 5'4 and shorter - not trying to claim you don't know your own preferences, just an interesting observation

  • @murd3ring._hyde
    @murd3ring._hyde 2 роки тому +458

    My crush: *Makes eye contact with me for literally a millisecond*
    Me the whole day: 🤩💗😊🥰💞💕😆💖💝💞💕❤️‍🔥

    • @whatseatontim918
      @whatseatontim918 2 роки тому +11

      That has happened to me so many times as well; didn't turn out so well in the end every time I made a move because boom, instant rejection! I had never been given a chance since my teenage years to prove how great of a catch I could be for a woman. Didn't find love until I was 36 years old, because I met the most wonderful Filipina in 2021 & she loves me more than any of those other shallow judgmental women I've known ever could. We have been dating ever since & we are very much in love; I have never been this happy before in all of my miserable life. I pray and hope that all guys like me will find their soul mate like I did. I prayed to God my whole life to bring me someone special and after 21 years or so, he finally answered my prayers; I had always been attracted to Asian women, but didn't expect it would be a Filipina; God really surprised me with her, because it was love at first sight for me, and I have never believed in that notion until it happened to me. Her name is Sarina and I love her to death..
      🇺🇸💙👫💜🇵🇭

    • @murd3ring._hyde
      @murd3ring._hyde 2 роки тому +6

      @@whatseatontim918 Im glad you found yourself the perfect woman ^^

    • @valian8985
      @valian8985 Рік тому +1

      ​@@whatseatontim918 Yeah geting rejected freaking suck... But well its also taking the risk its maybe work...

    • @tabled-emo
      @tabled-emo Рік тому +1

      omgg thats my friend she send me this :me when im not with (them): 😭 me when i am with them: 😍💖😁 me and them in my dreams 👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏽

    • @specialgamerguy4693
      @specialgamerguy4693 Рік тому

      Stay focused my brother

  • @Bailey-rr3bh
    @Bailey-rr3bh 5 місяців тому +3

    It’s the hug from behind! ❤❤❤❤

  • @surajrohra2927
    @surajrohra2927 3 роки тому +48

    "Even if you don't give a shit, ask her questions", that's my girl🙃

  • @justmebeingweird
    @justmebeingweird Рік тому +17

    my pe teacher in 5th and half of 7th grade always said "atta girl" and it always creeped me out. he genuinely made me uncomfy lol

  • @Shungarui
    @Shungarui 3 роки тому +285

    I love how her thing is being high energy and expressive. It's impossible her to go back normal since now viewers expect her to act this way every video.

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino 3 роки тому +13

      If she falters in high energy even a little her viewers will think she's depressed and was broken up with

    • @1Chasg
      @1Chasg 3 роки тому +18

      She's annoying. Imagine living with that 24/7 lol. Would drive you mad.

    • @youtuber2928
      @youtuber2928 3 роки тому

      @@1Chasg yeah it can be annoying.

    • @Sebastian-sd1om
      @Sebastian-sd1om 3 роки тому

      @@1Chasg hell

    • @wesleywashington1251
      @wesleywashington1251 2 роки тому

      Love how you think all girls are alike in this regard! These are things YOU like. I'd get slapped in the face for half this shit!!

  • @t_amajiki
    @t_amajiki 2 роки тому +39

    the hug from behind is soooo accurate 🫠😩

    • @4120306
      @4120306 Рік тому +5

      Make sure she knows who you are first.

    • @t_amajiki
      @t_amajiki Рік тому

      ​@@4120306Yeah 😅

  • @23simmon
    @23simmon Рік тому +10

    "Thats my girl."
    Arthur Morgan be like:

  • @kbanzzz000
    @kbanzzz000 3 роки тому +45

    YOUR NOT GONNA SIT THERE LIKE A ROCK- even if you don’t give a shit 😂 got me

  • @deadliersheep7697
    @deadliersheep7697 2 місяці тому +1

    “atta girl👹”

  • @hibiscus_lps
    @hibiscus_lps 2 роки тому +254

    my crush and i made eye contact, he did this cute little half-side smile and omg my heart literally melted lol😌✨

    • @Hewasnumber1
      @Hewasnumber1 2 роки тому +49

      You might want to get that checked out, it’s a miracle you’re still alive.

    • @spicyavocado8164
      @spicyavocado8164 2 роки тому +15

      @@Hewasnumber1 LMAOOO UNDERRATED AF

    • @birb.of.fatness
      @birb.of.fatness 2 роки тому +5

      aww that’s so cute 😭😭😭

    • @cocoacat.pngggg
      @cocoacat.pngggg 2 роки тому +1

      awwwww

    • @jorgecorado3061
      @jorgecorado3061 2 роки тому +2

      I have a crush with a girl I met 4 weeks ago every time i made eye contact with her , she smile and said stop looking at me .

  • @thejunkdrawerqueen
    @thejunkdrawerqueen 3 роки тому +145

    AMEN i’m so single and this did not help with the loneliness…

    • @isaacgarcia3328
      @isaacgarcia3328 3 роки тому +2

      Cheer up ❤️

    • @owyemen9367
      @owyemen9367 3 роки тому +4

      @@isaacgarcia3328 I don't think that'll help but we appreciate it

    • @sparkyblue7016
      @sparkyblue7016 3 роки тому +1

      This is all that we fangirls get. To be single😭😭!!!!!!

  • @One_RandomCommenter
    @One_RandomCommenter Рік тому +209

    "turn your voice down one octave and say....."
    Most guys don't even know what octave is.

    • @HIHELLO72915
      @HIHELLO72915 Рік тому +23

      i dont think she knows what an octave is thats a little too deep for most guys and sounds forced😭

    • @Ueecho
      @Ueecho Рік тому

      ​@@HIHELLO72915he'll deffo sound like a demonic frog

    • @McpeBeanAddict
      @McpeBeanAddict Рік тому +1

      Is s fish

    • @AlakazamStarz-ln9qw
      @AlakazamStarz-ln9qw 11 місяців тому +2

      You know just saying “at a girl” sound awkward, and the lower your voice goes the more awkward it becomes. Just say it out loud. I’d rather say “good girl”

    • @Chad-Hannah
      @Chad-Hannah 11 місяців тому +5

      if you don’t know an octave is when the same note is played lower. A way to find octaves is humming something, then humming deeper and lower to where the high humming and the low humming sound the same even though one is higher and one is lower.

  • @FaaizRajpoot
    @FaaizRajpoot 3 місяці тому +3

    Wore Midnight Outlaw Pheromone Cologne to a party and suddenly I’m the center of attention.

  • @swanletsecondchannel8533
    @swanletsecondchannel8533 2 роки тому +17

    Instructions unclear, kissed a girl's neck and now I'm in court

  • @Chriz0
    @Chriz0 Рік тому +33

    "Hugging her in the back"
    💀

    • @SStupendous
      @SStupendous 11 місяців тому

      🤗😉

    • @Prstnnn
      @Prstnnn 9 місяців тому +6

      We going to jail with this one🫡🫡🔥🔥

    • @Carlisios
      @Carlisios 8 місяців тому

      Guess who

    • @upyours83yearsago32
      @upyours83yearsago32 7 місяців тому

      ​@@Prstnnn thus allowing access to the back doors too

  • @divyaparmar6909
    @divyaparmar6909 2 роки тому +18

    Yes, yes, yes! I can confirm just thinking about these makes me giddy and excited! Guys, take notes!

  • @That_girl48
    @That_girl48 24 дні тому +1

    The first to no but the rest mmmm yes butterflies start attacking me😆

  • @gaiaispupz
    @gaiaispupz 2 роки тому +206

    "rubbing leg or squeezing hand"
    Me with a sensory processing disorder:
    So that's gonna be a *no*

    • @ginnyeacho7570
      @ginnyeacho7570 2 роки тому

      Omg same!!!

    • @gorillakiller19
      @gorillakiller19 2 роки тому

      What's that?

    • @gaiaispupz
      @gaiaispupz 2 роки тому +8

      @@gorillakiller19 so I have autism and sensory things like rubbing, squeezing, making noises, etc. have a certain affect on me. So for example someone rubbing my leg would make me super uncomfortable. Not all people with autism have sensory processing issues and not all people with sensory processing disorders have autism though! I just process different sensory differently than most people.

    • @gorillakiller19
      @gorillakiller19 2 роки тому +2

      @@gaiaispupz thank you for answering!

    • @zoefoley6818
      @zoefoley6818 2 роки тому +1

      I have sensory processing disorder too and people touching me in general is usually a HUGEE no. However….if it isn’t like squeezing my leg or hugging me a lot, stuff like holding hands and hugging occasionally is fine.

  • @armoredlumberjack1999
    @armoredlumberjack1999 Рік тому +7

    Can confirm, all of these work, ive used them to manipu- uhh... i mean, to show my girlfriends love

  • @forestgoblin4850
    @forestgoblin4850 3 роки тому +68

    I only wanna hear “that’s my girl” if it’s Howl from Howl’s Moving Castle saying it.

    • @russelcastro3811
      @russelcastro3811 3 роки тому +4

      Girl, same.

    • @forestgoblin4850
      @forestgoblin4850 3 роки тому +4

      @@russelcastro3811 right? Like I do not want these random men being able to say that line. They’re unworthy.🥺

    • @namsailavnai9611
      @namsailavnai9611 2 роки тому +1

      @@forestgoblin4850 nobody's gonna say that to you, don't worry.

    • @forestgoblin4850
      @forestgoblin4850 2 роки тому

      @@namsailavnai9611 good. Thanks for making that point. That’s my girl.

    • @namsailavnai9611
      @namsailavnai9611 2 роки тому

      @@forestgoblin4850 dayum assumptions can be dangerous, and you sure are a great example 🥶🥶

  • @Muddyman.2024
    @Muddyman.2024 7 місяців тому +1

    I swere im hugging her

  • @CeciDoesStuff
    @CeciDoesStuff Рік тому +30

    THIS IS SOOO TRUE… a few more things
    • Talk to us don’t be awkward abt it
    • If you tell us we like you there’s a 50% chance we already like you. If you tell us and we don’t like you, you’ll be on our mind from telling us and we could start to gain feelings
    • Ask us QUESTIONS
    • be ur self
    • don’t be shy
    • just go for it
    Ask me any questions I’ll answer!
    Hope this helps!

    • @gottagofastest
      @gottagofastest 8 місяців тому +3

      lol there is not a 50% chance you like some random ass dude, you're thinking strictly the hot dudes

    • @rumtreiberin3050
      @rumtreiberin3050 5 місяців тому

      Girl, telling guys that a girl either already likes them or will gain feelings after they tell them can go wrong really fast. A lot of girls aren't into some random guys (definitely not a 50% chance) and they should be allowed to say no and be respected without being expected to change their mind

    • @robwoodring9437
      @robwoodring9437 5 місяців тому

      ....and if this hypothetical guy isn't Tom Brady hot and does all your suggested tips, you'll have him in handcuffs.

    • @GrayscaleStudios7
      @GrayscaleStudios7 5 місяців тому

      Real

    • @huntergehrke4224
      @huntergehrke4224 29 днів тому

      Don’t be shy and just go for it ?? Frick that the only thing ima get from that is a broken heart when guys genuinely like a girl they put there ENTIRE heart into that’s why it’s hard so no I ain’t just gonna put everything at risk until I’m sure she might feel the same way

  • @beatricefisher2879
    @beatricefisher2879 Рік тому +17

    She said innocent ways 😅

    • @TheHardR
      @TheHardR 10 місяців тому +4

      RIGHTTTT LIKE NECK KISSING? YALL ALREADY IN DEEP

  • @Theyfwbailey
    @Theyfwbailey 3 роки тому +33

    Me over here: I don’t need to show him this his fucking existence gives me butterflies.

    • @sparkyblue7016
      @sparkyblue7016 3 роки тому

      Yes, having a bf alone is enough to give me butterflies 🦋

  • @madi-l1n
    @madi-l1n 10 місяців тому +1

    Dude my crush does some of this and it makes me kick my legs and giggle

  • @greeneve4993
    @greeneve4993 Рік тому +5

    I was put in jail for sexualy harassing six women
    Thanks for the advice 😊

  • @BeeWithSunglasses
    @BeeWithSunglasses 2 роки тому +94

    This is why I’m not in a relationship

  • @christopherpooler5398
    @christopherpooler5398 2 роки тому +5

    Why is she the cutest girl I’ve ever seen?

  • @Ranch_4_life
    @Ranch_4_life 11 місяців тому +1

    You got me sweating with the hugging from behind 😅

  • @wv_bearded_basser252
    @wv_bearded_basser252 2 роки тому +9

    Can’t wait to try this, been watching a girl for a few weeks now and this was just the video I needed! ❤️

    • @ImortalSkape
      @ImortalSkape 2 роки тому +2

      💀

    • @bruv8801
      @bruv8801 2 роки тому

      Are you still alive?

    • @wv_bearded_basser252
      @wv_bearded_basser252 2 роки тому +3

      @@bruv8801 Yup, but I skipped straight to step 4 and unfortunately she’s no longer with us, I guess I didn’t know my own strength.

    • @nteta10k
      @nteta10k 2 роки тому

      😂😂😂😭 rip

  • @spicyrice3307
    @spicyrice3307 2 роки тому +519

    I first watched this expecting it to be something like people who are not in a relationship yet, and as I watch this I was just like
    Ō-Ō

    • @DeMarcus_Cluzins
      @DeMarcus_Cluzins 2 роки тому +34

      Fr. ‘Rub her thigh, lower your voice and say atta girl.’ I mean like thanks I guess but I was kinda hoping for help with a future girl

    • @KalpakChakraborty
      @KalpakChakraborty 2 роки тому +3

      I was like... Ohh... This stuff 'bout post production basically

    • @xhawk8456
      @xhawk8456 2 роки тому +5

      I was thinking the same when it started but imagine trying this with anyone but a girlfriend 😂 how to catch a case

    • @UncleSlimJimmy
      @UncleSlimJimmy 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah bro I’m a single 17 year old we got this we just gotta stay strong

    • @Squirtleman49
      @Squirtleman49 2 роки тому

      Same

  • @That_1_yapper
    @That_1_yapper Рік тому +34

    Hear me out when he see you laughing at something he did, and always doing it again and looking back at you after ( the cutest thing)

  • @N30N.uk.
    @N30N.uk. 9 місяців тому +1

    YESS but for the last one depends on what it’s about BUT NEVER IGNORE OR ACT LIKE YOU DONT CARE (unless your a fictional character that’s a villain and hot I’m not saying names) (Dabi)

  • @galacticstar1335
    @galacticstar1335 3 роки тому +28

    ADD: Putting a hair behind her ear... my crush did this to me once and I got immediate butterflies (I was young too). OR Leaning on her shoulder (arm rest) is calming for some reason. My best guy friend did this today and I felt so comforted and much happier.
    I have a lot of close guy friends... probs weird but whatever... (None of us are dating!!) but they always say “atta girl” or something like that.

  • @aggressivecatnamedtiny2462
    @aggressivecatnamedtiny2462 2 роки тому +4

    When he texts you first yes it show that he actually cares and thought about you 🤩

    • @ElBURRO105
      @ElBURRO105 2 роки тому

      We literally think about the other way who is gonna go first💀

  • @yuribezminov2825
    @yuribezminov2825 3 роки тому +261

    Wtf you described everything I do to my girlfriend like is this just something I didn't know about like this isn't like something guys just do?

    • @appfan3397
      @appfan3397 3 роки тому +15

      No. Not at all I’m single

    • @yuribezminov2825
      @yuribezminov2825 3 роки тому +11

      I'm confused honestly

    • @yuribezminov2825
      @yuribezminov2825 3 роки тому +6

      Why this isn't just normal

    • @ok6114
      @ok6114 3 роки тому +1

      What does uhh giving butterflies mean

    • @ExOhz
      @ExOhz 3 роки тому +4

      Right Christian iv always just naturally done these things, kinda figured it was a normal guy / relationship thing

  • @xoxo.annagail
    @xoxo.annagail 5 місяців тому +1

    No but when ima catch him staring ❤❤❤

  • @silent6292
    @silent6292 2 роки тому +9

    "Don't sit there like a rock"
    Me: 🗿

  • @Olivia-qg4bx
    @Olivia-qg4bx 3 роки тому +42

    “Your not going to sit there like a rock”

  • @nogenderjustfreg7738
    @nogenderjustfreg7738 2 роки тому +71

    'Correct me if I'm wrong-'
    Its my time to shine 💃✨

  • @serenzside9364
    @serenzside9364 3 роки тому +137

    My boyfriend asked me to react to this with him before he watched it and so we sat and watched this and on THE FIRST ONE (sayin “atta girl” or “that’s my girl” etc) I screamed YESSS because it gives me crazy butterflies 🦋

  • @DefNotLexie
    @DefNotLexie Рік тому +71

    Damn, if a guy cam up to me at started touching my face and attempting to move his finger is circular motions on my thigh, I would have him running straight to jail

    • @Manuela.a
      @Manuela.a Рік тому +2

      I would be traumatised😭

    • @ebuslamentee5963
      @ebuslamentee5963 Рік тому +2

      Naw id dash tf out of there if I did that😂😂😂😂

    • @luxuryoflull
      @luxuryoflull 5 місяців тому

      Frrrr. I immediately thought that was terrible advice lmao

  • @leafylaceEditz
    @leafylaceEditz 2 роки тому +13

    I just love how she says "Mm!" Before every video. It's so unique

    • @giovannigimmillaro3265
      @giovannigimmillaro3265 2 роки тому +1

      Johnny yes Katie is the first to be a good thing for you and YES JOHNNY YES Katie bikinis women bikinis gum leggings and YES JOHNNY YES Katie bikinis women bikinis gum leggings and YES JOHNNY cash yes bikinis and Kaite to swimming pool 👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👍💋❤

    • @giovannigimmillaro3265
      @giovannigimmillaro3265 2 роки тому

      Johnny yes Katie and YES it is a good thing for you and YES JOHNNY cash yes bikinis and Kaite bikinis cass leggings Katie bikinis women bikinis gum leggings and YES JOHNNY cash yes bikinis and Kaite bikinis cass leggings Katie bikinis women bikinis gum leggings and YES JOHNNY YES Katie bikinis women bikinis and the same time to be in the same time to be in the same time to be a good idea to 👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙❤💋👍👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙

  • @TheMusicKid1010
    @TheMusicKid1010 9 місяців тому +1

    ...when your strangers dude..... Your just gone get a restraining order

  • @novemberrobinson5584
    @novemberrobinson5584 3 роки тому +21

    Yess!!! Spencer!!!! I was literally nodding maniacally and saying yes yes yes yes soo much that my parents are giving me weird looks now. But that's besides the point, everything is soo true. Like the hug from behind gives me butterflies just by reading books. And I'm single as a pringle

  • @nataly4644
    @nataly4644 3 роки тому +37

    For me it's just when my crush looks deep in my eyes and smile shily

  • @princess_hijiri
    @princess_hijiri 7 місяців тому +2

    Instructions unclear.
    Sitting in jail.
    😰😰😰

  • @abby-zm5vl
    @abby-zm5vl 3 роки тому +5

    ily

  • @jess_5377
    @jess_5377 2 роки тому +4

    Anything with their hair just gives me that feeling 😩

  • @luvmishka5381
    @luvmishka5381 Рік тому +4

    This literally gave me the butterflies! 😆🤭🦋

  • @Mair-xq4xl
    @Mair-xq4xl 7 місяців тому +1

    Even if you don’t give a sh#t lol.. had me from bed to floor 😂.
    Those who felt the same.!
    👇🏼

  • @_Observer_961
    @_Observer_961 2 роки тому +5

    "What did you get in prison for?"
    "I tried to give a girl butterflies"

  • @anyataubman8217
    @anyataubman8217 3 роки тому +4

    This is literally the stuff of my daydreams about my crush when my mind drifts off in maths lessons.

  • @tiktok4youxoxo
    @tiktok4youxoxo 8 місяців тому +4

    -when they smile and they have dimples omf gosh
    -when they get caught staring at u they look away and blush it's cute
    -when they give us small compliments like "i like ur necklace" or sum
    -when they don't change there attitude towards u when there friends r around 😭💗💗

    • @amirdervisevic1487
      @amirdervisevic1487 9 днів тому

      For me it was always the first look with a girl that I was completely in love with her but sometimes it was really hard to accept that the girl didn't want me even though I had the feeling that I and she were made for each other

  • @Kim-f6s7o
    @Kim-f6s7o 3 дні тому

    Just casually drop your business card that has your occupation of brain surgeon. If she picks it up and notices that you are a brain surgeon, it will go directly to her heart.

  • @brunoguerreiro4570
    @brunoguerreiro4570 Рік тому +14

    I am watching this at 4 am and I have never felt more depressed in my entire life.

  • @eleinawilson6592
    @eleinawilson6592 3 роки тому +9

    Dude literally everything I would want a guy to do if I were in a relationship
    I LOVE YOU SPENCER

  • @julianbracey778
    @julianbracey778 2 роки тому +35

    So true…
    P.S love this girl! Her energy is 10/10 and she is so underrated!💙

  • @Edits-g2d
    @Edits-g2d 3 місяці тому

    Some guy rubbing on me gently.. Me WTF are you doing?!? *me pretending that I am mad*

  • @glassesonabunny
    @glassesonabunny 3 роки тому +60

    My s.o. does these. He's so sweet. We have wildly different hobbies and he will watch makeup videos to help give me ideas. And I like to draw Pokemon for him. I just finished a fall Bulbasaur.🥰

  • @esegall91
    @esegall91 2 роки тому +5

    Wife loves all of these. I think caressing and hug from behind are her favorites

  • @aleciahall6601
    @aleciahall6601 3 роки тому +40

    I low-key thought I wasn’t going to be affected by what you said but then I ended up getting butterflies and choked on my spit so yeah what you said was right

  • @krazykilla1030
    @krazykilla1030 11 днів тому +1

    instructions unclear i have a restraining order placed on me

  • @shreyarairawat
    @shreyarairawat 3 роки тому +52

    We need more of this extremely educative content for men! They are clueless out there- as women we have been privileged enough to learn how to please men from early childhood! More power to u and the good work here😊👍😅

    • @ladagspa2008
      @ladagspa2008 3 роки тому +1

      Need only 2 things to please a man
      1. Not be annoying
      2. Say ok to the man's request 70% of the time or more.
      That's it

  • @leomcshizzlepjocastdeserve1631
    @leomcshizzlepjocastdeserve1631 2 роки тому +5

    here’s more:
    1. text first! it makes us feel so good when we aren’t always texting first
    2. smile when you see us! it makes us feel so nice
    3. instead of saying we look pretty or nice or whatever. say “i can tell you took your time picking your outfit” because it shows that you acknowledge the work we put in to look nice
    4. “you have pretty eyes”
    5. “you have a vibe that’s hard to find” when someone told me this (and it wasn’t even a guy, it was my friend) i got butterflies
    6. standing near us or having open body language and turning yourself towards us as we talk
    7. listening closely to us as we talk
    8. listening to the music we like and or showing interests in our interests
    9. hugging us when you see us
    10. just being genuinely sweet. i can tell you if you are just a kind person and treat everyone around you nice than we will like you

    • @ryugaforever7713
      @ryugaforever7713 2 роки тому

      Gen z In a nutshell smh🤔🤨😐😑

    • @leomcshizzlepjocastdeserve1631
      @leomcshizzlepjocastdeserve1631 2 роки тому

      @@ryugaforever7713 w-what?

    • @ryugaforever7713
      @ryugaforever7713 2 роки тому

      @@leomcshizzlepjocastdeserve1631 why so many expectations re?

    • @leomcshizzlepjocastdeserve1631
      @leomcshizzlepjocastdeserve1631 2 роки тому

      @@ryugaforever7713 they aren’t expectations…
      they’re more things that you can do to give a girl butterflies
      it’s a video about it
      if you’re watching it you are either a girl who’s agreeing or a guy who wants to know how
      take your negative energy elsewhere

    • @ryugaforever7713
      @ryugaforever7713 2 роки тому +2

      @@leomcshizzlepjocastdeserve1631 what did I say that's negative 🌚

  • @tayrae5044
    @tayrae5044 3 роки тому +21

    She said innocent and then started talking about kissing… mixed signals 😂

  • @lgt.jne3
    @lgt.jne3 9 днів тому

    Be a listener, ask questions, be touchy (arms, hair or hands)... These definitely does it for me

  • @skiingchickens766
    @skiingchickens766 3 роки тому +4

    Y'know, I never really found use for these until I was in a relationship. Now my eyes have been opened.

  • @Sjduwbsk
    @Sjduwbsk 2 роки тому +6

    Also for me I love it when someone calls me “baby girl”

    • @eshal1.
      @eshal1. 2 роки тому

      noo that’s the weirdest one ☠️😭

  • @lillian_joy5482
    @lillian_joy5482 2 роки тому +6

    My boyfriend does almost all of these and every time he does, AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH☺️💜