Wife or Mother - Who Is First? - Mufti Menk

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  • @rosalieorit8887
    @rosalieorit8887 3 роки тому +2129

    I'm a new Islam and today April 14 ,2021 my first time fasting. I'm little bit scared but I know my Allah will guide me, bismellah inshaallah 🤲🤲

    • @faizadoutie5998
      @faizadoutie5998 3 роки тому +39

      Algamdullilah may Allah make it easy for u.. an remember u can always lean on another when things feel tough. May u be rewarded for ur efforts an love of Islam🙏

    • @marryraja4228
      @marryraja4228 3 роки тому +20

      MASHALLAH MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU

    • @rosalieorit8887
      @rosalieorit8887 3 роки тому +11

      @@faizadoutie5998 alhumdurillah mam

    • @rosalieorit8887
      @rosalieorit8887 3 роки тому +5

      @@marryraja4228 alhumdurillah

    • @marryraja4228
      @marryraja4228 3 роки тому +8

      Its ALHAMDULILLAH 😊

  • @shrawanpanday4126
    @shrawanpanday4126 3 роки тому +2199

    I m not Muslim but I like his lecture.very inspiring to become good human.

    • @ahmadyaseen2617
      @ahmadyaseen2617 3 роки тому +88

      Allah may give you Imaan
      Aameen

    • @fakhrulalam5762
      @fakhrulalam5762 3 роки тому +31

      If you have questions you can ask. In Sha Allah you will get a good answer.

    • @douche6969
      @douche6969 3 роки тому +4

      @@LearnIslamNoetic I said it in public with full mindfulness

    • @douche6969
      @douche6969 3 роки тому +6

      @@LearnIslamNoetic cause I followed Zakir Naik for 2 months in d quarintine nd i liked his lectures

    • @douche6969
      @douche6969 3 роки тому +2

      @@LearnIslamNoetic many people in yt were saying horrible stuff like he is a moron xyz
      I thought it was just islamophobia

  • @chillifavuzza1385
    @chillifavuzza1385 2 роки тому +398

    My son puts his wife and children first. I get on with my life and I support them as much as I can. I don't interfere in their lives

    • @azkazf7318
      @azkazf7318 2 роки тому +23

      That's great, I hope you get the best life ☺

    • @yakobadamovich1813
      @yakobadamovich1813 2 роки тому +22

      Im sorry but your son is just ungrateful

    • @SA-tv2eb
      @SA-tv2eb 2 роки тому +31

      That is amazing! May Allah bless you for your kindness and love! I wish there were more mother in laws like you 🥰

    • @himadkumar4498
      @himadkumar4498 2 роки тому +14

      They will love you more

    • @husnashaikh163
      @husnashaikh163 2 роки тому +14

      MashaAllah. May Allah bless you with the rewards for your patience, aameen.

  • @TwinsandMother
    @TwinsandMother 3 роки тому +978

    I got divorced after 4 months of my marriage, for him his mother is everything n they never included me as the part of their family n specially he for whom I left my house, my family. He never took stand for me, he doesn't have justice inside him, he blindly follows whatever his mother says.
    Thanks for giving us such valuable knowledge, we need to learn more about all these.

    • @abdoulaybah8463
      @abdoulaybah8463 3 роки тому +53

      Oh sorry about that may Allah make it easy for you my dear!

    • @mahamaabdulkahad7441
      @mahamaabdulkahad7441 3 роки тому +22

      So sorry dear
      May Allah find you a blessing place for you

    • @rainbowdreams4837
      @rainbowdreams4837 3 роки тому +39

      Yes there are some men’s who give their mums side a lot I agree with you because I’ve seen a lot , even though one does a lot for their family but there is no appreciation that’s when it comes to bad terms may Allah Tallah have mercy on everyone Ameen 🤲🏼

    • @dailyduaandreminder9700
      @dailyduaandreminder9700 3 роки тому +14

      Me to sis but hope ALLAH PAK muje aise husband NAWAZ de Jo sab ko haq Dena janta do and mother Ghar nahi todti but sas tod deti hai jealously ki waje se but hope RAB BHETERIN NAWAZ DE

    • @Avadiherbs
      @Avadiherbs 3 роки тому +35

      Some one waiting for u better then him

  • @persephone3309
    @persephone3309 3 роки тому +1983

    I asked my mum this too. She said: your mother raised you and brought you onto this world, your wife has left all her family and everything to come start a new life with you. You should be good to both and somehow try your hardest to be good to both and take care of both.

    • @ashuashu3843
      @ashuashu3843 3 роки тому +14

      True!!!!

    • @johnlemon1977
      @johnlemon1977 3 роки тому +31

      What did the wife leave? Because it's really just part of growing up and evolving to move out ouf your family's house and a make a life for yourself. It's not some big sacrifice.
      I'm not trying to argue who should come first but I'm trying to point out that doesn't really make sense.

    • @nabzk6682
      @nabzk6682 3 роки тому +115

      @@johnlemon1977 she left her whole family, her friends, everyone she knows behind for her husband, she left the comfort of her own home to serve her husband and in-laws, at maternal home, girls more at ease, but at in laws house, the girl has a thousand responsibilities on her head and has thousands of expectations from husband and in laws. So yes the wife has made way more sacrifices than a man could ever. The husband can easily live with his parents and then allow his parents to boss his wife around and treat the wife as a slave but would the husband do the same for his wife? Would the husband leave his family behind and move to his wife's city?

    • @nabzk6682
      @nabzk6682 3 роки тому +53

      @@johnlemon1977 truth is...girls are EXPECTED to make the sacrifices, we have to sacrifice our careers, or wants and desires, just so our husbands and his family and our kids can stay happy. While the man could do what he wants.

    • @nabzk6682
      @nabzk6682 3 роки тому +44

      @JH men physically are a lot stronger but women are more stronger by heart. Women can endure more that's why Allah has made women give birth not men. Yes I'm not denying men do have to make sacrifices but women have to make waaaay more. Did you know some men end up either getting a second wife or having affairs because either they are bored of the wife or wife has had a baby and her body is not the same. Men have way more privileges and advantages then women hence why men can go out late and women cant hence why when a women's reputation is tainted it's a lot harder for her compared to a man who has way more privileges and the upper hand. Islamically I know men and women are equal and women are not oppressed but I'm talking about culture here. Culture wise? Men have the upper hand and that is a fact. The women always gets blamed if something goes wrong. The women is expected and demanded to serve his whole family when she doesnt have to. To put it simple culture has made daughter in laws slaves.

  • @hafsabint-i-bilal1498
    @hafsabint-i-bilal1498 3 роки тому +1617

    You are one of the very few Muftis who actually speak for women rights
    Peace upon you
    JazakAllah

    • @Wandererjamal
      @Wandererjamal 3 роки тому +1

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    • @Ab-bd1bb
      @Ab-bd1bb 3 роки тому +1

      @@JahannamHellfire what do u mean by saying its only a hadith?... these words that uve written are harsh ...only if u understand and also if u r a muslim...
      U could've written in a better way if u wanted to express ur thoughts...

    • @woodsrs5
      @woodsrs5 3 роки тому +8

      @@JahannamHellfire How would we know how to pray without Hadith?

    • @Sam82397
      @Sam82397 3 роки тому +8

      @JH this is just between parents not mother and wife

    • @woodsrs5
      @woodsrs5 3 роки тому +2

      @@JahannamHellfire Huh sister? Im not following your logic...

  • @pinky_wanchi_sangma7064
    @pinky_wanchi_sangma7064 3 роки тому +490

    I'm christian but I love the way he speak the truth of life's reality. Mashallah

  • @amreensultana703
    @amreensultana703 2 роки тому +32

    I jst have tears in my eyes coz my husband alwys sy no matter what her mother do's(negative) to me I need to bare evrything no matter what.... may Allah swt guide him the right path n bless our marriage....

    • @nurulalamtamal8183
      @nurulalamtamal8183 2 роки тому

      Nice

    • @user-om3vq6bm1m
      @user-om3vq6bm1m 2 місяці тому +1

      Same sis Same!

    • @sadiyakhatoon7948
      @sadiyakhatoon7948 2 місяці тому +3

      My husband never accepted his sister’s faults and whenever I complain about her, he starts fighting with me. May allah (s.w.t) guide him too and make him an honest judge.

  • @t-renallux3125
    @t-renallux3125 3 роки тому +532

    It's always best to stand for 'justice' against anyone, no matter who the person is to you, I believe that Allah like the people that always stands for 'justice' and in anyway.

    • @sarak4217
      @sarak4217 3 роки тому +4

      With respect and kindness

    • @t-renallux3125
      @t-renallux3125 3 роки тому +2

      @@sarak4217 : Yes, you are 'right'. You need to start by doing it respectfully but you also need to understand that some 'unfair' people are intensely evil to a point they would not appreciate you showing them respect in this case, so this means that it would get to a point where you would need to use force or aggression in this case.

    • @kedaifoc9049
      @kedaifoc9049 3 роки тому

      Well.No matter 《'Mom na Wife》still the same.Coz.it's still SAME coz both ** WOMENs** Soo.it depends situations/Justice《.WaAllah hualaam'》❤sabrr aje laa🤔🌻

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      @youtubechillsuk1326 3 роки тому

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    • @t-renallux3125
      @t-renallux3125 3 роки тому

      @@youtubechillsuk1326 : Salam. What is this link about? please!

  • @supercitizen2021
    @supercitizen2021 3 роки тому +446

    "Justice comes first" ~ Mufti. I will hold this close to my heart up to the day I will marry.

    • @aliyumd8904
      @aliyumd8904 3 роки тому

      @JH if dats

    • @aliyumd8904
      @aliyumd8904 3 роки тому +5

      @JH if that is the case go and marry your mother and be a good company to her...nonsense!!!

    • @thanku21
      @thanku21 3 роки тому +9

      Ur mother deserve ur good company doesn't mean u hv to be injust to ur wife or any body else fr dat matter. Ther is one more hadith 'the best amongest you is the one who is best to ur wife' , dnt frgt dat. Ther r certain situations wher justice has no role in those situations parents (for men) should be given the preference.

    • @fs5297
      @fs5297 3 роки тому +2

      @JH There are many Hadees about being good to your family n Wife! Why are you comparing it! It is just like someone remembers the Hadees he/she likes n forget all others which he/she don't like! Your mother n your wife are both important n have different but equally important place in your life ! Don't compare

    • @fs5297
      @fs5297 3 роки тому +2

      @JH Don't you remember your wife is mother of your children! Your children will love you for respecting her! Your wife is Jannah of your children! You are ignoring it

  • @raicheljen5522
    @raicheljen5522 3 роки тому +74

    Assalamualaikum ❤️
    I am a recent revert Islam. I have heard allot of speeches from different preachers. But this person is something unique and the way he put up the words is very convincing. Everyday I watch his videos on different topics and get the feel that the day got fulfilled. To be honest by watching his videos my respect and bonding towards Islam spiritually increases.
    Subhan Allah!
    May peace be upon you to all my brothers and sisters ❤️

    • @SA-tv2eb
      @SA-tv2eb 2 роки тому +1

      Welcome to Islam sister!💚

    • @Scapone2001
      @Scapone2001 Рік тому

      What religion were you before

    • @reefaana2866
      @reefaana2866 Рік тому

      May Allah forever shower His blessings upon you

  • @FieldMarshalRommel23
    @FieldMarshalRommel23 Рік тому +44

    I’m a Christian but this guy is a treasure to Islam.

    • @rihanulkarim3997
      @rihanulkarim3997 10 місяців тому +1

      Hello, Do You mind if I share a brief overview of Islam?

    • @FieldMarshalRommel23
      @FieldMarshalRommel23 10 місяців тому +1

      @@rihanulkarim3997 of course not, go ahead brother.

    • @rihanulkarim3997
      @rihanulkarim3997 10 місяців тому

      @@FieldMarshalRommel23
      Who is Allah?
      He is Allah, the One and Only;
      Allah, the Eternal, Absolute;
      He begets not, nor was He begotten;
      And there is none like unto Him.
      (Quran 112)
      What is Islam?
      Islam simply means submission to one and only Allah, the creator, the sustainer, the most merciful, the lord of the heaven and the earth. Followers of Islam called Muslim.
      Allah sent many prophets and messenger (approximately 124000, but only 25 of them mentioned in the Quran) throughout the human history to guide people to submit to one God (Allah).
      Adam was his first human creation, first human being and first prophet of Allah. We are the children of Adam and Hawa(Eve). Actually, Muslims believe in prophethood, they came one after another. Some of them are,
      Adam-Adam, Noah-Nuh, Abraham-Ibraheem,
      Ishmael-Ismael,
      Issac-Ishaq, Jacob-Yakub,
      Moses-Musa, David-Dawood,
      Solomon-Suleiman, Jesus-Isa and Muhammad.
      Allah also send revelation(scriptures) to his messengers. Such as,
      Moses (Musa) got Torah/Taorat
      David (Dawood) got Psalms/Zabur
      Jesus (Isa) got Gospels/Injeel
      Muhammad got Quran.
      Prophets and Messengers of Allah came to earth for a specific time to guide specific people.
      For example, After Moses(Musa), Jesus(Isa) came to guide people of Israel(Jews). After Jesus(Isa), Muhammad came to guide the whole mankind not only for Arabs or Asians. He is known as the last and final prophet of Allah. So, today we need to follow teachings of prophet Muhammad.

      Allah Allmighty gave miracles to Prophets. Some of the famous one are, Noah's Ark, Moses's Splitting the Sea, Jesus's miraculous birth, Muhammad's Journey to Heaven.
      All the prophets, came to guide people to worship one lord, Allah. And Islam means submission to the will of Allah. So, all the prophets preached the religion of "Islam" and they all were Muslim.
      'Islam' (submission to one lord) is not a new religion, it began with prophet Adam. It is the religion of Adam, Abraham, Moses, Jesus & Muhammad. (Peace be upon them)

    • @Albert_Wesker7
      @Albert_Wesker7 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@FieldMarshalRommel234 months later, still no answer

  • @khaledabdulwahab5599
    @khaledabdulwahab5599 3 роки тому +86

    First stand for justice wether mother or wife

  • @fathimaaaisha9966
    @fathimaaaisha9966 3 роки тому +325

    Does any one else notice how mufti menk's thumbnails are always on point 💯 😂 .....Masha Allah

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      @OmogeVblogTV 3 роки тому

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      @secretvldeoxvx7419 3 роки тому

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    • @ahmetnavd2432
      @ahmetnavd2432 3 роки тому +1

      @JH also Prophet(peace and blessings be upon him) said "Amongst you, the best is the one who is best to their spouses"

    • @ahmetnavd2432
      @ahmetnavd2432 3 роки тому +1

      Yes, I was just tellin that to my sister yesterday 😄

    • @zunairafahad6074
      @zunairafahad6074 3 роки тому +1

      Mashaa Allah

  • @azlinaabdaziz7329
    @azlinaabdaziz7329 3 роки тому +50

    Thank you, as a daughter I miss my father n mother for so long😭

  • @amyoogii1184
    @amyoogii1184 3 роки тому +166

    Just love every single one of your videos! I’m planning on taking my shahada soon, watching your videos really further proves just how amazing Islam is 😌 please never stop making videos.

    • @naziashaikh9153
      @naziashaikh9153 3 роки тому +2

      May Allah help u.

    • @yasirmuhammedrk5208
      @yasirmuhammedrk5208 3 роки тому +1

      Mashallah, welcome ❤️👍, what about u now?

    • @itk8297
      @itk8297 3 роки тому +1

      Masha allah welcome

    • @anisahahmed1290
      @anisahahmed1290 2 роки тому +1

      Dear sister,
      Alhamdulillah Allah has shown you the truth..I am so happy for you..
      Pray Almighty make your journey easy and keep you on islam till the end..
      Sincerely Anisah

    • @abduulahiadamusuleja5972
      @abduulahiadamusuleja5972 2 роки тому +1

      May ALLAH make it easy for you to accept the shahada please the sooner the better

  • @candy-ir5ui
    @candy-ir5ui 3 роки тому +94

    "Justice! " I love this word🌺

  • @khaledabdulwahab5599
    @khaledabdulwahab5599 3 роки тому +162

    Yesterday i message in live video asking these question, Ma Sha Allah mufti menk brought a video today. JazakAllahu Khair.

  • @ruheenashah6625
    @ruheenashah6625 3 роки тому +40

    Folks, remember your mother is the way to Jannah but you will be accompanying your wife in Jannah not your mother. Think about it this way. Mufti Menk is right. Jazak Allah khair for this. Justice, justice and sincere justice,

    • @happyguy201
      @happyguy201 Рік тому

      @ruheena Shah What do you mean you will not be accompanying your mother in jannah? insha'Allah we will be with all our loved ones in jannah not just with our wives.

    • @ruheenashah6625
      @ruheenashah6625 Рік тому

      @@happyguy201. Happy guy, simple and common sense, as a mother do not have one child, she might have several children, so if your brother and sister are all in jannah and who will she be with. Will she be divide into 4 or 5 parts. Then your wife is with you as well in jannah and her mother will have the same problem. Will her mother be divided onto 4 or 5 or even more. Then your mother and her mother will have their mothers with them in jannah and the chain will go on and on and on and then there will be only one room in jannah over crowded until we all eventually be with our original father Adam and mother Hawwa. So be sensible. That’s why Allah s.w.t. The most High said that we will only be with our spouses in Jannah. Got it. 👍

    • @happyguy201
      @happyguy201 Рік тому

      @@ruheenashah6625 both my parents have gained highest ranks in jannah. Most recently our beutiful beloved mother age 63 on 14th Ramadhan/Friday 15th April 2022 just before jummah. Are you telling me that we her children will not see our parents in jannah? And which verse says in Qur'an that we will only be in jannah?

    • @jeonghanandbaekhyunsWife
      @jeonghanandbaekhyunsWife 29 днів тому +1

      @@happyguy201 dude your mother has a husband too right?? her husband ( your father) will accompany her the same way you do with your wife, and yeah you'll see each other there too but you'll have to accompany your partners. that's how JANNAH IS BUILT.

  • @sidrarafique5149
    @sidrarafique5149 3 роки тому +5

    Jazak Allah! This couldn't be answered more beautifully. The way you narrated it from Quran and with examples, I must say you've done it well. Peace upon you

  • @gulsloft7323
    @gulsloft7323 3 роки тому +281

    May Allah bless the unmarried a spouse who is pious and who has good character and conduct. Ameen

  • @AishaRosalie
    @AishaRosalie 3 роки тому +20

    Mashallah! Thank you for helping me find Islam :)

    • @lifeandliving9251
      @lifeandliving9251 Рік тому

      M following u on your your youtube channel. U r such a beautiful women

  • @yanyanamaraja6081
    @yanyanamaraja6081 3 роки тому +62

    "JUSTICE COMES FIRST; NAVIGATE THE WATER WITH A LOT OF RESPECT"
    For our sisters living with the presence of their Mother-in-law, there's no need to let the husband choose between you two, just do not close the Door of Jannah of your husband.
    And to our Mothers, treat your daughter-in-law like your own child and how you want your daughter to be treated by their in-laws.

    • @jenniferally5548
      @jenniferally5548 2 роки тому +4

      Alhamdulillah

    • @happyguy201
      @happyguy201 2 роки тому +2

      Mashallah great comment. Fully agree with what you said. It's both ways.

  • @victordcosta6320
    @victordcosta6320 3 роки тому +5

    This is really a eyes opener explanation for thousands of families. may Allah bless you and thank you.

  • @ShamzKSA
    @ShamzKSA 3 роки тому +108

    Also cultural twists playing a big part too.

    • @exposedthem9272
      @exposedthem9272 3 роки тому

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    • @nosheenqureshi5021
      @nosheenqureshi5021 3 роки тому +7

      @JH the best among u is the one who is at best behaviour with his wives.. Prophet PBUH

    • @nosheenqureshi5021
      @nosheenqureshi5021 3 роки тому +2

      @JH ok so what exactly is ill manner here? Crying on floor throwing tantrum? It applies vice versa.. some men need discipline too.. it applies to increase iman and knowledge... and also a woman is said to be born from tilted rib doesnt needs to be straighten...

    • @Teepu_Sultan-Mohammad22
      @Teepu_Sultan-Mohammad22 3 роки тому

      @JH It was regarding Parents,not between Wife and Mother.

  • @karishmamalik4630
    @karishmamalik4630 3 роки тому +459

    I just wanna talk to those 9 people who disliked this absolutely correct video.

    • @ebrimafadera1866
      @ebrimafadera1866 3 роки тому +13

      Make that 15 people and may Allah forgive them inshallah

    • @bjobe5405
      @bjobe5405 3 роки тому +9

      Why would they dislike something about allah. MAy Allah forgive them for this.

    • @audaciousifti
      @audaciousifti 3 роки тому +37

      they are probably just those very possessive and controlling mothers and aunties lol

    • @mehtabansari1722
      @mehtabansari1722 3 роки тому

      25

    • @MS-Hussain
      @MS-Hussain 3 роки тому +2

      One sided people may be

  • @aljunuds8638
    @aljunuds8638 3 роки тому +187

    Wow! Who comes first? Mom or wife? Peeps: what a deadly question! What's the answer?
    Mufti menk: justice comes first!

    • @aljunuds8638
      @aljunuds8638 3 роки тому +7

      Amazing fact : Someone liked my comment

    • @serveteguze1473
      @serveteguze1473 3 роки тому +3

      This is not a deadly question only to those that are put in a position where the wife or mother makes you decide.. mother should be happy you found someone you love and not to mix into the relationship as husband and wife and Wife should respect the mother.. but the moms become very judgmental from the beginning if the wife is good enough for her son ..

    • @aljunuds8638
      @aljunuds8638 3 роки тому +1

      @@serveteguze1473 helo

  • @HamadBenaicha
    @HamadBenaicha Рік тому +6

    This Imam is like no others I ever heard in any mosque and I am over 50 years old, mashaAllah, he is very smart and funny from time to time! May Allah blesses him and protect him and may all imams learn from him, especially on how to communicate and to approach the newer generations online! He is truly a one of a kind!

  • @rizwanamolazam5425
    @rizwanamolazam5425 3 роки тому +57

    Honestly when I ever listened to you my heart feels so peaceful.

  • @rehapillay7445
    @rehapillay7445 3 роки тому +29

    I'm not a Muslim either but love watching his video's. He's so inspiring and encouraging. His teachings make us feel connected with God, makes us feel like we can all make the world a better place. Thank you so much mufti menk 🙏 God bless you 😊🙏🙏🙌

    • @rihanulkarim3997
      @rihanulkarim3997 10 місяців тому

      Hello, Do You mind if I share a brief overview of Islam?

  • @sitifaridah1901
    @sitifaridah1901 Рік тому +1

    I respect and love the way Mufti Menk gives his preachings and I never miss any of his videos. Its beautiful. Subhanallah

  • @monaawad6250
    @monaawad6250 3 роки тому +4

    Please keep my Children and I in your Sincere Du’a, and Prayers!

  • @unknown_T2
    @unknown_T2 3 роки тому +43

    This is a problem between many couples
    JazakAllahu khairen for addressing us
    😘😍😍

  • @saminsuhas2403
    @saminsuhas2403 3 роки тому +9

    Along with his advice,his recitation of the Quran is amazing as well❤

  • @kimstacie7410
    @kimstacie7410 2 роки тому +27

    I'm not a Muslim but i the speech of this mufti sahab he speek very sweet my interest in Islam is increasing day by day

    • @MyInstaID-islamonly30
      @MyInstaID-islamonly30 2 роки тому

      May Allah guide you better towards righteous path and makes easy to understand and accept Islam one day , best wishes , any help or advice most welcome

    • @kherona
      @kherona Рік тому

      Great, may Allah guide you and strengthen you.

    • @rihanulkarim3997
      @rihanulkarim3997 10 місяців тому

      Hello, Do You mind if I share a brief overview of Islam?

  • @idowukhadijah5672
    @idowukhadijah5672 2 роки тому

    May Almighty Allah continue to increase your widom and understanding inshallah....
    Much Love from Nigeria❤
    Thanks for sharing this with us

  • @umarfarzan6392
    @umarfarzan6392 3 роки тому +71

    Masha Allah Mufti Menk, I really admire the way you strike a balance in every aspect of a situation or cause 💯

    • @fathimaaaisha9966
      @fathimaaaisha9966 3 роки тому

      Indeed

    • @secretvldeoxvx7419
      @secretvldeoxvx7419 3 роки тому

      *Company Of People With You In Heaven & Hell | Feeling Of Terrifying Loneliness In Hell*
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    • @itsdemidy5439
      @itsdemidy5439 3 роки тому

      @JH 💯

    • @Bombo505
      @Bombo505 2 роки тому

      Especially striking the balance between a mother in law and daughter in law. So simply said. If everyone listened to this man, surely thered be far less divorces. ❤️

  • @khaledabdulwahab5599
    @khaledabdulwahab5599 3 роки тому +4

    At last mufti menk end with Salaam Alaikum and the smile makes lots of ummahs also smile and answering you Wa Alaikum Salaam with smile. Ma Sha Allah.

  • @zainabamani1169
    @zainabamani1169 3 роки тому +5

    I have addicted to your bayan.. in these days my exam is going on.. but my hand always touches UA-cam to come to this channel.. 😊 ma sha allah.. ❤️

  • @nellyM86
    @nellyM86 3 роки тому +2

    So wise! I love this man and his teachings.

  • @mujahidalikhan4301
    @mujahidalikhan4301 3 роки тому +19

    Stand for justice...so rightly said...what is wrong is wrong...be kind n respectful to your parents...jazakallah for reminding us...

    • @secretvldeoxvx7419
      @secretvldeoxvx7419 3 роки тому

      *Amazing Blessings Of Muharram & The Best Way To Celebrate It!*
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    • @mujahidalikhan4301
      @mujahidalikhan4301 3 роки тому

      @@secretvldeoxvx7419 jazakallah

    • @mujahidalikhan4301
      @mujahidalikhan4301 3 роки тому

      @@JahannamHellfire Don't oppress your wife.. He said stand for justice..

    • @mujahidalikhan4301
      @mujahidalikhan4301 3 роки тому

      @Rider101ism exactly.true

  • @sherazlatif1515
    @sherazlatif1515 3 роки тому +28

    Thank You, Mufti Menk, for guiding us. Today you have talked upon a very delicate matter I hope that all of us able to understand it and apply it in our lives. May we all follow the path of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) as he expected from us.

  • @samuche7752
    @samuche7752 Рік тому +2

    Wow, you are filled with so much wisdom, I haven't even finished watching this video but I had to pause to comment, I'm a Christian and I honestly appreciate this honest, truthful and wisdom filled teaching. May God bless you

    • @rihanulkarim3997
      @rihanulkarim3997 10 місяців тому

      Hello, Do You mind if I share a brief overview of Islam?

  • @saraafreen4824
    @saraafreen4824 3 роки тому +2

    It's very important topic to discuss. I'm really happy that you made a video on this. Thank you soo much...May Allah guide us on right path..ameen

  • @MOHAMMADALI-lb5oq
    @MOHAMMADALI-lb5oq 3 роки тому +121

    I'm Indian Muslim, I'm big fan of you....

    • @rforroasting275
      @rforroasting275 3 роки тому +1

      Me too

    • @lisaa7096
      @lisaa7096 3 роки тому +2

      Same🇮🇳❤️

    • @subiaansari5840
      @subiaansari5840 3 роки тому +9

      @JH Yes, also goes for women-
      1. Mother (not husband)
      2. Mother (not husband)
      3. Mother (not husband)
      4. Father (not husband)

    • @DanishTroll87
      @DanishTroll87 3 роки тому

      we dont care about your race.

    • @fgsbro5365
      @fgsbro5365 3 роки тому +5

      @@subiaansari5840 for women first husband then her parents delete your comment speaking out of knowledge

  • @zainabzaib9140
    @zainabzaib9140 3 роки тому +180

    Unfortunately in Pakistan this is the main issue due to which most couples could not make their relation long lasting and they divorced each other.....like my ex mother in law and sister in law dragged our marriage to divorced and finally we divorced each other.....I am wondering that the parents who love their children so much and they Use to do anything for their happiness and prosperity why dont they think that they are making their children to have haram relation after divorce and it will have bad consequences in this world and In hereafter:(......may Allah grant understanding to all of us...ameen

    • @Mdua80
      @Mdua80 3 роки тому +12

      Very unjust , Allah swt will deal with them, culture has to die!!!

    • @Mdua80
      @Mdua80 3 роки тому +10

      Emotionally and mentally harming and blackmailing them Disgusting, Allah swt is with the oppressed!!!

    • @Mdua80
      @Mdua80 3 роки тому +4

      Love is not ruining the lives of innocent people!!!!!!!

    • @alinaakhter1609
      @alinaakhter1609 3 роки тому +11

      You didn't need a man like that anyway who couldn't support you and honour you as his wife!

    • @zainabzaib9140
      @zainabzaib9140 3 роки тому +16

      @mr system I am not a child neither this is just in my family....I am from Pakistan and I know that what's happening there.....I am not saying its happening in all over Pakistan but 80% families have the same issue.....you must observe who is childish and who is using disgraceful words in comments...

  • @shiulybegam7507
    @shiulybegam7507 3 роки тому +2

    I literally don't understand d fact behind unliking d videos by such a wonderful preacher. He's so just, perfectly speaks n wow of all Mufti. He's my fav n I can't resist seeing his videos. Blessings n love from India ❤️✨

  • @geethikachandran500
    @geethikachandran500 3 роки тому +2

    'Stand up for justice'. True. Your videos are great!

  • @annemariefarrugia
    @annemariefarrugia 3 роки тому +54

    I'm a Roman Catholic but I still love hearing Mufti Menk.

    • @therehabilitateroad3010
      @therehabilitateroad3010 3 роки тому +1

      Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
      Check us out for Islamic reminders... In Sha Allah you will benefit from it!😇
      Jazkumullahu Khairan!🌟

    • @nikhatsultana4736
      @nikhatsultana4736 2 роки тому +1

      What ever the religion is if it teaches good and we have to appreciate according to me every religion has just good teachings

    • @electricalengineer6530
      @electricalengineer6530 2 роки тому

      Better listen Dr zakir naik

    • @arifzaman4167
      @arifzaman4167 Місяць тому

      No. But I respect him.​@@electricalengineer6530

  • @user-gx1wl8xo2k
    @user-gx1wl8xo2k 3 роки тому +7

    Sheikh I swear by Allah I start my days after fajr and recitation of Quran, start it listening to you. Subhanallah what a amazing! I am abdur razzaq. I am a graduate of alazhar university in Egypt. Insha Allah I will start an UA-cam channel very soon In order to upload Islamic videos both in Arabic and English. Dear sheikh my dear brothers and sisters please pray for me. Sheikh mufti menk you are my inspiration. Much love from the bottom of my heart 💗💗💗💗

  • @thuthasworldworld137
    @thuthasworldworld137 3 роки тому +1

    Maa shaa Allah wel presented. Jazaka Allah kheir🤲

  • @ahmedmohtashim5974
    @ahmedmohtashim5974 2 роки тому

    JazakAllah Khair!!! May Allah increase u in your darajaat!! you have helped me alot by the grace of Almighty!!! subhanAllah!!!

  • @mariar.h1032
    @mariar.h1032 3 роки тому +3

    Neve before such Harsh reality is explained so beautifully.
    Allah bless you brother that you explain the actual beauty and practice of our Deen.
    JazakAllah khair!

  • @aatinabhat1238
    @aatinabhat1238 3 роки тому +8

    Sir, when you said "respect your mother in law as she is the mother of your spouse", it hit me real hard.. May Allah always bless you.. You make things so easy to understand.

  • @ammielrodgers9853
    @ammielrodgers9853 2 роки тому

    You speak wisdom, love and understanding. All praises to Ya

  • @rukhsanatanzeem9049
    @rukhsanatanzeem9049 3 роки тому

    Masha Allah excellent speech
    JazakAllah khair

  • @islamicpro8842
    @islamicpro8842 3 роки тому +3

    May Allah bless mufti keeping us updated in Lifes most important issues

  • @samrahabid
    @samrahabid 3 роки тому +16

    I have been tortured for dowry,money, al sorts of materialistic things alot instead of being so called well educated......the food i eat was being counted.....by my husband stood by me always.....alhamdullilah i just love him for standing by me always🤗

    • @Abid_x7
      @Abid_x7 3 роки тому +1

      Who is first mom or wife please tell me

    • @englishexpert1989
      @englishexpert1989 2 роки тому

      @@Abid_x7 - Mother

    • @happyguy201
      @happyguy201 2 роки тому

      Alhumdulilah you have supporting husband but very unfortunate what you went through may Allah bless you your husband and guide the wrong doers.

    • @happyguy201
      @happyguy201 2 роки тому

      @@englishexpert1989 your profile name is in fact insulting the mother's.

    • @user-ix7rj3pc7r
      @user-ix7rj3pc7r 2 місяці тому

      ​@Abid_x7 Watch the video Mufti Menk explains it well

  • @ghazdaley2728
    @ghazdaley2728 3 роки тому +2

    I admire you beyond words ...you actually give the correct interpretation of islam

  • @Junaid_Zaman
    @Junaid_Zaman 3 роки тому

    I love your videos so much, Ramadan 2021 here and MashAllah may Allah bless you with the biggest blessings.

  • @abdever2140
    @abdever2140 3 роки тому +12

    May Allah forgive, guide, provide and elevate our mothers, sisters and wives. Ameen

    • @happyguy201
      @happyguy201 2 роки тому

      Aameen. I lost my parents and one my sister's. Father in march 1997 when I was small primary school kid and sister age 36 in 2016 due to cancer and we lost our beloved mother just recently this Ramadhan Friday 15 April 2022/14 Ramadhan 1443. Please do dua for them myself and our family and we will do dua for you your family and entire ummah aameen.

  • @socialpiratekeyboardwarrio6546
    @socialpiratekeyboardwarrio6546 3 роки тому +3

    Big love to the ummah from Ireland 🇮🇪

  • @aroojmalik944
    @aroojmalik944 3 роки тому +1

    How I wish everyone would see this and act upon it. So eye opening. Thank You!

    • @venitasingh1382
      @venitasingh1382 2 роки тому

      I feel bad 😭😭😭 my brother wishing our mom bad things for her to die just because of his wife, arguing with parents and spouse is family matters but wishing mom bad is a sin

  • @sureahraza7787
    @sureahraza7787 2 роки тому

    Masha Allah good teaching.may Allah protect him from the evil eyes

  • @abdulahiibrahim7695
    @abdulahiibrahim7695 3 роки тому +9

    Amazing advice. Alhamdulilah. May Allah protect you, Mufti

    • @sakipt3
      @sakipt3 3 роки тому

      I try my best but to do the just thing, but sometimes its about perspective of being right or wrong... How do you convince someone what is right, when their perspective itself is wrong

    • @lovepeace2373
      @lovepeace2373 2 роки тому

      Amin

  • @shalizamohammed868
    @shalizamohammed868 10 місяців тому +5

    Daily Dhikr Reminder ♥️🌼Bismillah
    1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah
    3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar

  • @gentjanahoxha5157
    @gentjanahoxha5157 3 роки тому

    Until today I have never seen a Mufti to talk the right in the way you do .
    Thank you very much for your advices .
    They are really worthy .

  • @sabaarfat8500
    @sabaarfat8500 3 роки тому +1

    Jazak Allah khair you nailed it mufti menk🙂❤👍

  • @shanaskitchen8459
    @shanaskitchen8459 3 роки тому +4

    Mashaallah, being a women , Thk u so much for ur perfect speech, let every men should follow ur opinion abt justice.

  • @shivani4634
    @shivani4634 2 роки тому +9

    Please explain us the difference of love and responsibility of what a mother has and a wife should get💗

  • @sameersayyad9071
    @sameersayyad9071 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks to Allah for sending mufti menk in my life. You completely transformed my life.
    Thank you mufti menk for your efforts.
    May Allah be content with you.

  • @user-jx4nu5bc7y
    @user-jx4nu5bc7y 3 роки тому +1

    Love you with immense love . Your knowledge is so inspiring. May allah preserve you.

  • @itwtpofficegh8022
    @itwtpofficegh8022 3 роки тому +5

    Mufti menk may Allah bless you,I wish to see you one day in Ghana

  • @royaneekhalil6488
    @royaneekhalil6488 3 роки тому +28

    Exactly: BOTH COME FIRST. Every relationship has its own place and all are equal. Your duty to your parents, spouse, kids and siblings is always your duty and you can't ignore one duty for the sake of others. Ignoring duty to parents for sake of your spouse is wrong and vice versa. You must be JUST in all relations, whether a man or woman, husband or wife.

    • @happyguy201
      @happyguy201 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly well said

    • @mathewjavela479
      @mathewjavela479 Рік тому +8

      It’s true but mother transitions from being closest to you when you are a child to second closest when you are a man. Wife takes that role, like you are not going to spend every day with your mom anymore, you will do with your wife. It is the relationship which you will nurture the most. Even kids will grow up and also move on. At the end you are left with your spouse only.

    • @priyakarthik1666
      @priyakarthik1666 Рік тому +1

      No wife is everything the truth that to be expecting in more positive way rest of your son's life with his wife is greater than from the days since he born to you. Wife can be a good mom for his husband and his children too than his mom but no mom can be a wife.

  • @rehanac
    @rehanac 2 роки тому

    May Allah Subhan’Allah Bless Mufti Ismail Menk.

  • @salnajbatuaan5623
    @salnajbatuaan5623 3 роки тому +1

    I'm so thankful to this daawah

  • @Neiruzz
    @Neiruzz 3 роки тому +6

    I would love sheikh mufti to talk about depression during postpartum and stress, please Sheikh mufti help your Muslim sisters on how they can overcome this issues, May Allah s.w bless you and grant you paradise. Ameen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Servant__of__Allah
    @Servant__of__Allah 2 роки тому +10

    I am extremely happy to be a Muslim by born. May Allah bring more people into Islam.

  • @aliakbarrizvi06
    @aliakbarrizvi06 4 дні тому

    BEAUTIFULLY EXPLAINED .....JUSTICE
    BEAUTIFUL ADVICE ....❤

  • @shaistasyed7715
    @shaistasyed7715 3 роки тому +1

    Ma sha Allah Sir what a nice understanding of Quran you have

  • @mridulsingh5790
    @mridulsingh5790 Рік тому +17

    im not muslim, but this guys awesome dude

    • @rihanulkarim3997
      @rihanulkarim3997 10 місяців тому

      Hello, Do You mind if I share a brief overview of Islam?

  • @someshwarbanerjee9632
    @someshwarbanerjee9632 3 роки тому +14

    love you so much Sir. I am Hindu, but your words and allah subhana watala !! all the words are the solutions of my all kinds of problems

    • @shakirsohail1681
      @shakirsohail1681 2 роки тому +1

      Please read (aapki amanat aapki sewa me in hindi), you can download or install it insha allah, its only 30 pages probably you can read it in 10 minutes insha allah.

    • @someshwarbanerjee9632
      @someshwarbanerjee9632 2 роки тому

      @@shakirsohail1681 thanx bro

  • @shamlyshukoor
    @shamlyshukoor 3 роки тому +1

    Masha Allah
    Great guidance for everyone those who always ignore this and act selfish

  • @fazlindazain731
    @fazlindazain731 2 роки тому +2

    Wonderful and beautiful explanation. Justice come first. As wife, respect MIL and be kind to her. Spread love and respect … May Allah guide and bless all of us..

  • @sarahsiddiqui9591
    @sarahsiddiqui9591 3 роки тому +12

    My husbands family literally told him "wives come and go, but you only have one family"
    Deplorables

  • @annaray1165
    @annaray1165 3 роки тому +8

    I might have gotten divorce in 1st week of my marriage because of my sister in law. Despite its a love marriage after 3 years of love. But i never knew that there's so much poison and envy living inside my sis in law for me. Even my mother in law did so many things that at some point my husband got confuse that who is right. She even disrespected my family when they visit me. All i did was sabar. And it was fruitful. They both got what they sown for a long time.
    Now my husband knows who is right and who is wrong

  • @fatimasillah2394
    @fatimasillah2394 3 роки тому

    It's really great to listen to your lecture may God Almighty bless you and all the Muslims around the world.

  • @graceking9986
    @graceking9986 2 роки тому +1

    You are the best Mufti.
    You are so right.
    Thank you for correct explaition.

  • @nicoista7074
    @nicoista7074 3 роки тому +7

    Whoever asked this question is an intelligent person

  • @MrsMWanke
    @MrsMWanke 2 роки тому +27

    I am a Christian but I truly value this advice. Thank you 🙏

    • @nidashaikh8390
      @nidashaikh8390 8 місяців тому

      Islam has solutions to all mankind problems.

  • @halimainayah3765
    @halimainayah3765 2 роки тому

    Mashallah...,may allah bless all of the intelligent people like Mufti Menk.

  • @GhufranOth
    @GhufranOth 2 роки тому

    MashaAllah.💖 The BEST answer to this question I've ever heard 👍

  • @sie.2446
    @sie.2446 Рік тому +3

    True and wise words.

  • @halimakongira5185
    @halimakongira5185 3 роки тому +19

    I really like this man am a muslim he is always saying the true

  • @mot6394
    @mot6394 3 роки тому

    Barak ALLAH O FIK Mufti Menk. I am living this problem now. But Alhamdou LiLLAH

  • @sayeedmsj
    @sayeedmsj 3 роки тому

    Masha Allah... Beautifully explained

  • @DeadliciousCookingStudio
    @DeadliciousCookingStudio 3 роки тому +8

    Whoever is reading this, may Allah bless you with long and righteous life and make you obedient servant of Him.

  • @hooyoymacan8165
    @hooyoymacan8165 3 роки тому +3

    Respect every women of is ur mother,sister, wife or daughter ♥️

  • @wherestreethasnoname
    @wherestreethasnoname 3 роки тому

    Masha Allah, Its Always very nice to listen to him.

  • @monakhan8205
    @monakhan8205 3 роки тому +51

    After hearing this I feel wife has so many rights when compared to the mothe in law but in my case my mother in law decides what has to be done in my matter
    I need help as my husband never listens to me ,I am always the last priority and my kids .please pray for me and my kids.
    Jazakallah

    • @nadyahutangalong1371
      @nadyahutangalong1371 3 роки тому +4

      Try to let him listen to this.. i pray for u..

    • @monakhan8205
      @monakhan8205 3 роки тому +3

      @Nadya HutangAlong he doesn’t .I always make him listen but he behaves as if it’s not for him.thanks sister
      Jazakallah

    • @sajnashameer4698
      @sajnashameer4698 3 роки тому

      Very useful as I am a wife I always face many situation

    • @saturn6912
      @saturn6912 3 роки тому

      Leave him in couple of days, when he is doin again unjustice to you, only that he sees tbat he is wrong

    • @imranazmat8428
      @imranazmat8428 3 роки тому +2

      If you are living abroad sister. Then try to make him understand. If mother in law stays in pakistan or if she lives with you try to talk to him in private