Algamdullilah may Allah make it easy for u.. an remember u can always lean on another when things feel tough. May u be rewarded for ur efforts an love of Islam🙏
I asked my mum this too. She said: your mother raised you and brought you onto this world, your wife has left all her family and everything to come start a new life with you. You should be good to both and somehow try your hardest to be good to both and take care of both.
What did the wife leave? Because it's really just part of growing up and evolving to move out ouf your family's house and a make a life for yourself. It's not some big sacrifice. I'm not trying to argue who should come first but I'm trying to point out that doesn't really make sense.
@@johnlemon1977 she left her whole family, her friends, everyone she knows behind for her husband, she left the comfort of her own home to serve her husband and in-laws, at maternal home, girls more at ease, but at in laws house, the girl has a thousand responsibilities on her head and has thousands of expectations from husband and in laws. So yes the wife has made way more sacrifices than a man could ever. The husband can easily live with his parents and then allow his parents to boss his wife around and treat the wife as a slave but would the husband do the same for his wife? Would the husband leave his family behind and move to his wife's city?
@@johnlemon1977 truth is...girls are EXPECTED to make the sacrifices, we have to sacrifice our careers, or wants and desires, just so our husbands and his family and our kids can stay happy. While the man could do what he wants.
@JH men physically are a lot stronger but women are more stronger by heart. Women can endure more that's why Allah has made women give birth not men. Yes I'm not denying men do have to make sacrifices but women have to make waaaay more. Did you know some men end up either getting a second wife or having affairs because either they are bored of the wife or wife has had a baby and her body is not the same. Men have way more privileges and advantages then women hence why men can go out late and women cant hence why when a women's reputation is tainted it's a lot harder for her compared to a man who has way more privileges and the upper hand. Islamically I know men and women are equal and women are not oppressed but I'm talking about culture here. Culture wise? Men have the upper hand and that is a fact. The women always gets blamed if something goes wrong. The women is expected and demanded to serve his whole family when she doesnt have to. To put it simple culture has made daughter in laws slaves.
I got divorced after 4 months of my marriage, for him his mother is everything n they never included me as the part of their family n specially he for whom I left my house, my family. He never took stand for me, he doesn't have justice inside him, he blindly follows whatever his mother says. Thanks for giving us such valuable knowledge, we need to learn more about all these.
Yes there are some men’s who give their mums side a lot I agree with you because I’ve seen a lot , even though one does a lot for their family but there is no appreciation that’s when it comes to bad terms may Allah Tallah have mercy on everyone Ameen 🤲🏼
Me to sis but hope ALLAH PAK muje aise husband NAWAZ de Jo sab ko haq Dena janta do and mother Ghar nahi todti but sas tod deti hai jealously ki waje se but hope RAB BHETERIN NAWAZ DE
@@JahannamHellfire what do u mean by saying its only a hadith?... these words that uve written are harsh ...only if u understand and also if u r a muslim... U could've written in a better way if u wanted to express ur thoughts...
It's always best to stand for 'justice' against anyone, no matter who the person is to you, I believe that Allah like the people that always stands for 'justice' and in anyway.
@@sarak4217 : Yes, you are 'right'. You need to start by doing it respectfully but you also need to understand that some 'unfair' people are intensely evil to a point they would not appreciate you showing them respect in this case, so this means that it would get to a point where you would need to use force or aggression in this case.
Well.No matter 《'Mom na Wife》still the same.Coz.it's still SAME coz both ** WOMENs** Soo.it depends situations/Justice《.WaAllah hualaam'》❤sabrr aje laa🤔🌻
This Imam is like no others I ever heard in any mosque and I am over 50 years old, mashaAllah, he is very smart and funny from time to time! May Allah blesses him and protect him and may all imams learn from him, especially on how to communicate and to approach the newer generations online! He is truly a one of a kind!
Assalamualaikum ❤️ I am a recent revert Islam. I have heard allot of speeches from different preachers. But this person is something unique and the way he put up the words is very convincing. Everyday I watch his videos on different topics and get the feel that the day got fulfilled. To be honest by watching his videos my respect and bonding towards Islam spiritually increases. Subhan Allah! May peace be upon you to all my brothers and sisters ❤️
Ur mother deserve ur good company doesn't mean u hv to be injust to ur wife or any body else fr dat matter. Ther is one more hadith 'the best amongest you is the one who is best to ur wife' , dnt frgt dat. Ther r certain situations wher justice has no role in those situations parents (for men) should be given the preference.
@JH There are many Hadees about being good to your family n Wife! Why are you comparing it! It is just like someone remembers the Hadees he/she likes n forget all others which he/she don't like! Your mother n your wife are both important n have different but equally important place in your life ! Don't compare
@JH Don't you remember your wife is mother of your children! Your children will love you for respecting her! Your wife is Jannah of your children! You are ignoring it
I jst have tears in my eyes coz my husband alwys sy no matter what her mother do's(negative) to me I need to bare evrything no matter what.... may Allah swt guide him the right path n bless our marriage....
My husband never accepted his sister’s faults and whenever I complain about her, he starts fighting with me. May allah (s.w.t) guide him too and make him an honest judge.
May Allah guide you better towards righteous path and makes easy to understand and accept Islam one day , best wishes , any help or advice most welcome
Just love every single one of your videos! I’m planning on taking my shahada soon, watching your videos really further proves just how amazing Islam is 😌 please never stop making videos.
Dear sister, Alhamdulillah Allah has shown you the truth..I am so happy for you.. Pray Almighty make your journey easy and keep you on islam till the end.. Sincerely Anisah
I'm not a Muslim either but love watching his video's. He's so inspiring and encouraging. His teachings make us feel connected with God, makes us feel like we can all make the world a better place. Thank you so much mufti menk 🙏 God bless you 😊🙏🙏🙌
Especially striking the balance between a mother in law and daughter in law. So simply said. If everyone listened to this man, surely thered be far less divorces. ❤️
Jazak Allah! This couldn't be answered more beautifully. The way you narrated it from Quran and with examples, I must say you've done it well. Peace upon you
@@FieldMarshalRommel23 Who is Allah? He is Allah, the One and Only; Allah, the Eternal, Absolute; He begets not, nor was He begotten; And there is none like unto Him. (Quran 112) What is Islam? Islam simply means submission to one and only Allah, the creator, the sustainer, the most merciful, the lord of the heaven and the earth. Followers of Islam called Muslim. Allah sent many prophets and messenger (approximately 124000, but only 25 of them mentioned in the Quran) throughout the human history to guide people to submit to one God (Allah). Adam was his first human creation, first human being and first prophet of Allah. We are the children of Adam and Hawa(Eve). Actually, Muslims believe in prophethood, they came one after another. Some of them are, Adam-Adam, Noah-Nuh, Abraham-Ibraheem, Ishmael-Ismael, Issac-Ishaq, Jacob-Yakub, Moses-Musa, David-Dawood, Solomon-Suleiman, Jesus-Isa and Muhammad. Allah also send revelation(scriptures) to his messengers. Such as, Moses (Musa) got Torah/Taorat David (Dawood) got Psalms/Zabur Jesus (Isa) got Gospels/Injeel Muhammad got Quran. Prophets and Messengers of Allah came to earth for a specific time to guide specific people. For example, After Moses(Musa), Jesus(Isa) came to guide people of Israel(Jews). After Jesus(Isa), Muhammad came to guide the whole mankind not only for Arabs or Asians. He is known as the last and final prophet of Allah. So, today we need to follow teachings of prophet Muhammad.
Allah Allmighty gave miracles to Prophets. Some of the famous one are, Noah's Ark, Moses's Splitting the Sea, Jesus's miraculous birth, Muhammad's Journey to Heaven. All the prophets, came to guide people to worship one lord, Allah. And Islam means submission to the will of Allah. So, all the prophets preached the religion of "Islam" and they all were Muslim. 'Islam' (submission to one lord) is not a new religion, it began with prophet Adam. It is the religion of Adam, Abraham, Moses, Jesus & Muhammad. (Peace be upon them)
Wow, you are filled with so much wisdom, I haven't even finished watching this video but I had to pause to comment, I'm a Christian and I honestly appreciate this honest, truthful and wisdom filled teaching. May God bless you
@JH ok so what exactly is ill manner here? Crying on floor throwing tantrum? It applies vice versa.. some men need discipline too.. it applies to increase iman and knowledge... and also a woman is said to be born from tilted rib doesnt needs to be straighten...
@@anl4s0u77 Hope you find our vids beneficial! Do shrae for others to benefit, In Sha Allah! We will be posting more soon, In Sha Allah. Stay tuned! Jazakallahu Khairan!
Sheikh I swear by Allah I start my days after fajr and recitation of Quran, start it listening to you. Subhanallah what a amazing! I am abdur razzaq. I am a graduate of alazhar university in Egypt. Insha Allah I will start an UA-cam channel very soon In order to upload Islamic videos both in Arabic and English. Dear sheikh my dear brothers and sisters please pray for me. Sheikh mufti menk you are my inspiration. Much love from the bottom of my heart 💗💗💗💗
Please read (aapki amanat aapki sewa me in hindi), you can download or install it insha allah, its only 30 pages probably you can read it in 10 minutes insha allah.
I have been tortured for dowry,money, al sorts of materialistic things alot instead of being so called well educated......the food i eat was being counted.....by my husband stood by me always.....alhamdullilah i just love him for standing by me always🤗
I would love sheikh mufti to talk about depression during postpartum and stress, please Sheikh mufti help your Muslim sisters on how they can overcome this issues, May Allah s.w bless you and grant you paradise. Ameen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sir, when you said "respect your mother in law as she is the mother of your spouse", it hit me real hard.. May Allah always bless you.. You make things so easy to understand.
Thank you for these honest and insightful teachings. I am not Muslim, but I enjoy and learn something from each one. I really appreciate that you do not have judgemental views and see women in an honest and respectful way.
Assalamalaikum my husband always takes the side of his family i he never see my side not even his children's in his family daughters in laws are outsiders even when it comes to family pictures we all have to stand aside and let mother and her children take the pictures my husband came home from work and heard his mother swearing at me and kicking me out of the house he never said a word to her instead he went to her and huged and kiss her while i stood there and looked on every one thinks he is such a good person because that's the face he shows on the outside
Thanks to Allah for sending mufti menk in my life. You completely transformed my life. Thank you mufti menk for your efforts. May Allah be content with you.
Folks, remember your mother is the way to Jannah but you will be accompanying your wife in Jannah not your mother. Think about it this way. Mufti Menk is right. Jazak Allah khair for this. Justice, justice and sincere justice,
@ruheena Shah What do you mean you will not be accompanying your mother in jannah? insha'Allah we will be with all our loved ones in jannah not just with our wives.
@@happyguy201. Happy guy, simple and common sense, as a mother do not have one child, she might have several children, so if your brother and sister are all in jannah and who will she be with. Will she be divide into 4 or 5 parts. Then your wife is with you as well in jannah and her mother will have the same problem. Will her mother be divided onto 4 or 5 or even more. Then your mother and her mother will have their mothers with them in jannah and the chain will go on and on and on and then there will be only one room in jannah over crowded until we all eventually be with our original father Adam and mother Hawwa. So be sensible. That’s why Allah s.w.t. The most High said that we will only be with our spouses in Jannah. Got it. 👍
@@ruheenashah6625 both my parents have gained highest ranks in jannah. Most recently our beutiful beloved mother age 63 on 14th Ramadhan/Friday 15th April 2022 just before jummah. Are you telling me that we her children will not see our parents in jannah? And which verse says in Qur'an that we will only be in jannah?
@@happyguy201 dude your mother has a husband too right?? her husband ( your father) will accompany her the same way you do with your wife, and yeah you'll see each other there too but you'll have to accompany your partners. that's how JANNAH IS BUILT.
I try my best but to do the just thing, but sometimes its about perspective of being right or wrong... How do you convince someone what is right, when their perspective itself is wrong
"JUSTICE COMES FIRST; NAVIGATE THE WATER WITH A LOT OF RESPECT" For our sisters living with the presence of their Mother-in-law, there's no need to let the husband choose between you two, just do not close the Door of Jannah of your husband. And to our Mothers, treat your daughter-in-law like your own child and how you want your daughter to be treated by their in-laws.
Aameen. I lost my parents and one my sister's. Father in march 1997 when I was small primary school kid and sister age 36 in 2016 due to cancer and we lost our beloved mother just recently this Ramadhan Friday 15 April 2022/14 Ramadhan 1443. Please do dua for them myself and our family and we will do dua for you your family and entire ummah aameen.
I literally don't understand d fact behind unliking d videos by such a wonderful preacher. He's so just, perfectly speaks n wow of all Mufti. He's my fav n I can't resist seeing his videos. Blessings n love from India ❤️✨
Allahu Akbar! Ya Mufti... It's like you just spoke directly to me! Me & my wife were kicked out of home by my own parents after 8 months of nikkah without any valid reason & they haven't spoke a word with us for more than a year now - despite all my genuine attempts🥺😢 Me & my wife stay now in my wife's home. PLS MAKE DHUA for us to reunite with my parents! 🤲🏻
Thank You, Mufti Menk, for guiding us. Today you have talked upon a very delicate matter I hope that all of us able to understand it and apply it in our lives. May we all follow the path of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) as he expected from us.
Sister please read (aapki amanat aapki sewa me in hindi) you can download or install it in hindi, its only 30 pages probably you can read it in 10 minutes insha allah.
Exactly: BOTH COME FIRST. Every relationship has its own place and all are equal. Your duty to your parents, spouse, kids and siblings is always your duty and you can't ignore one duty for the sake of others. Ignoring duty to parents for sake of your spouse is wrong and vice versa. You must be JUST in all relations, whether a man or woman, husband or wife.
It’s true but mother transitions from being closest to you when you are a child to second closest when you are a man. Wife takes that role, like you are not going to spend every day with your mom anymore, you will do with your wife. It is the relationship which you will nurture the most. Even kids will grow up and also move on. At the end you are left with your spouse only.
No wife is everything the truth that to be expecting in more positive way rest of your son's life with his wife is greater than from the days since he born to you. Wife can be a good mom for his husband and his children too than his mom but no mom can be a wife.
This is not a deadly question only to those that are put in a position where the wife or mother makes you decide.. mother should be happy you found someone you love and not to mix into the relationship as husband and wife and Wife should respect the mother.. but the moms become very judgmental from the beginning if the wife is good enough for her son ..
Wonderful and beautiful explanation. Justice come first. As wife, respect MIL and be kind to her. Spread love and respect … May Allah guide and bless all of us..
I might have gotten divorce in 1st week of my marriage because of my sister in law. Despite its a love marriage after 3 years of love. But i never knew that there's so much poison and envy living inside my sis in law for me. Even my mother in law did so many things that at some point my husband got confuse that who is right. She even disrespected my family when they visit me. All i did was sabar. And it was fruitful. They both got what they sown for a long time. Now my husband knows who is right and who is wrong
A mother should be thankful that Allah gave her son a Muslima who will love him not in the ways she loves him but in ways she can not. Alhamdullilh And be thankful to Allah the HE and only HE brought them together for what HE wanted. Alhamdullilah I say this because many mother in laws "want" children, and that may not be what Allah wants. And so on.....Alhamdullilah May Allah give us all understanding and accept who Allah brings into their children's lives. Amin
JH “the best of you are those who are best to their spouse” (not mother). We can play this game all day. Just accept your wife has rights and move on...
@JH Quran 29:8 And We have enjoined upon man goodness to parents. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them. To Me is your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do. Quran 31:14-15 ..And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them but accompany them in [this] world with appropriate kindness and follow the way of those who turn back to Me [in repentance]. Then to Me will be your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do. I do pray that if you have a daughter or a sister that their husbands only have the heart and mind of following Allah's unchanging words. And will not become like many women who are oppressed by their spouse and their spouses family. Because they view the wife as less than human, even less than a slave. Adhubillah And we ALL must remember, we are ALL the slaves of Allah. Alhamdullilah We are ALL to be treated with respect, no matter who we are in the family. Alhamdullilah And don't worry, Allah has GIVEN everyone their rights, so there is no need to be greedy or oppressive. InshaAllah
@JH I would suggest that you read Surah 7,8,9, and 47 to get a clear understanding. InshaAllah Surah 4:75..And what is wrong with you that you fight not in the Cause of Allah, and for those weak, ill-treated and oppressed among men, women, and children, whose cry is: "Our Lord! Rescue us from this town whose people are oppressors; and raise for us from You one who will protect, and raise for us from You one who will help." Allah's words ALWAYS come first, they are unchanging. Alhamdullilah And Allah even warns the Prophet (saw) about those Prophet (as) before him (saw) who Shaytan put in words and took out words, And Allah left them in order to test the believers. Alhamdullilah There is NO "playing" victim when women and children are being beaten and raped and preyed upon. 4:148..Allah does not love the loud (expression) of odious words except for him who has been done an injustice, and Allah has been Ever-Hearing, Ever-Knowing. It is the man's responsibility to protect women and children and not beat them and "use" them. Adhubillah And not just their close family members, but the women of this Ummah. InshaAllah So instead of condemning a believer, a male especially, should think twice before uttering a word against Allah's words. If the words do not line up with the UNCHANGING words of Allah then they are not sahih. Allah says, Both believing men and women will enter Jannah. Alhamdullilah He never put a number on either sex. Alhamdullilah That is HIS decision, not ours. And from the standpoint of this Ummah today, it looks like the men have failed in their duties and obligations to Allah. Adhubillah But if one were to take in account that for every male they will have two wives in Jannah then I would say just out of reasonable logic that there will be more women then men. Allahu alam. It was narrated from Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The lowest of the people of Paradise in status will be a man whose face Allaah will turn away from the Fire towards Paradise, and make a shady tree appear before him. … Then he will enter his house and his two wives from among al-hoor al-‘iyn will enter after him. They will say: ‘Praise be to Allah Who has created you for us and us for you.’ And he will say: ‘No one has been given the like of that which I have been given.’” Narrated by Muslim, 188. And the point is, it does not matter in the next life how many men or women will be there. Those who succeed won't care. Alhamdullilah What matters is what Allah commands and how we follow HIS commands, both men and women so that we can get there InshaAllah . Allah states, And I will fill hell with both Jinn and mankind. All but a few. Alhamdullilah Not my words, but Allah's (swt) And Shaytan says that he will mislead all but a few. Adhubillah May Allah guide us to the straight path. Amin
Unfortunately in Pakistan this is the main issue due to which most couples could not make their relation long lasting and they divorced each other.....like my ex mother in law and sister in law dragged our marriage to divorced and finally we divorced each other.....I am wondering that the parents who love their children so much and they Use to do anything for their happiness and prosperity why dont they think that they are making their children to have haram relation after divorce and it will have bad consequences in this world and In hereafter:(......may Allah grant understanding to all of us...ameen
@mr system I am not a child neither this is just in my family....I am from Pakistan and I know that what's happening there.....I am not saying its happening in all over Pakistan but 80% families have the same issue.....you must observe who is childish and who is using disgraceful words in comments...
Your speeches very available.iam listening whole day even it doesn't get bored of me.its motivate me alot.iam searching for some answers . today I got it.
After hearing this I feel wife has so many rights when compared to the mothe in law but in my case my mother in law decides what has to be done in my matter I need help as my husband never listens to me ,I am always the last priority and my kids .please pray for me and my kids. Jazakallah
If you are living abroad sister. Then try to make him understand. If mother in law stays in pakistan or if she lives with you try to talk to him in private
There is this quote (I can't recall who from) about juggling between two responsibilities. The key is to recognize, when you are juggling, that some balls are made of glass and will break if they are dropped, while some are made of plastic so it's okay to drop them since they will just bounce back up. Sometimes you have to let go of the plastic ball in order to catch the glass ball. Sound advice, I think, since its never all or nothing; it's choosing which things are important at that moment.
As a wife who lives with her in laws in a joint family, alhamdoulilah I am grateful that Mufti Menk is giving such good advice to all especially husbands/sons. And as a sister with a brother and sister in law myself and alhamdoulilah both parents, I am also grateful that Mufti Menk is giving such sound advice that I would be happy for my brother to follow with my own parents. Ya Allah, allow us to all be worthy, honourable and kind children, spouses and parents when in shaa Allah the time comes, and let all parents live a life of dignity and love especially in their older years. Ameen, ameen, Allahumma ameen ❤️
I hope insha'Allah you are happy with husband and in-laws and they are happy with you. If not than may Allah help you, remove all your difficulties and make you happy insha'Allah aameen.
@@happyguy201 ameen ameen, Allahumma ameen. Jazakh'Allah khayr brother for your duahs and I wish the same for you if you're married and if not, then one day when you are. It really is a skill maintaining a marriage and even more complex when you have the added layers of extended family living with you even when they are perfectly reasonable and respectful - like adult children in their parents' home rather than married adults running their own households. May Allah swt make it easy for us all, esp those couples struggling with each other or with their parents/in laws, AND those parents struggling with children and their spouses. Allahumma ameen
@@fj3158 my parents passed and one of my older sisters at 36 in 2016 due to cancer. We lost our father 25 years ago when I was primary school kid and just this month in this blessed month of Ramadhan we lost our beloved mother on 15 April 2022/14th Ramadhan 1443 at 68 due to heart attack. And no my sis I'm not married yet my mum really wanted to see me married happy and play with my children. She even spoke about two days before returning to Allah but that will not happen.
I'm a new Islam and today April 14 ,2021 my first time fasting. I'm little bit scared but I know my Allah will guide me, bismellah inshaallah 🤲🤲
Algamdullilah may Allah make it easy for u.. an remember u can always lean on another when things feel tough. May u be rewarded for ur efforts an love of Islam🙏
MASHALLAH MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU
@@faizadoutie5998 alhumdurillah mam
@@marryraja4228 alhumdurillah
Its ALHAMDULILLAH 😊
I asked my mum this too. She said: your mother raised you and brought you onto this world, your wife has left all her family and everything to come start a new life with you. You should be good to both and somehow try your hardest to be good to both and take care of both.
True!!!!
What did the wife leave? Because it's really just part of growing up and evolving to move out ouf your family's house and a make a life for yourself. It's not some big sacrifice.
I'm not trying to argue who should come first but I'm trying to point out that doesn't really make sense.
@@johnlemon1977 she left her whole family, her friends, everyone she knows behind for her husband, she left the comfort of her own home to serve her husband and in-laws, at maternal home, girls more at ease, but at in laws house, the girl has a thousand responsibilities on her head and has thousands of expectations from husband and in laws. So yes the wife has made way more sacrifices than a man could ever. The husband can easily live with his parents and then allow his parents to boss his wife around and treat the wife as a slave but would the husband do the same for his wife? Would the husband leave his family behind and move to his wife's city?
@@johnlemon1977 truth is...girls are EXPECTED to make the sacrifices, we have to sacrifice our careers, or wants and desires, just so our husbands and his family and our kids can stay happy. While the man could do what he wants.
@JH men physically are a lot stronger but women are more stronger by heart. Women can endure more that's why Allah has made women give birth not men. Yes I'm not denying men do have to make sacrifices but women have to make waaaay more. Did you know some men end up either getting a second wife or having affairs because either they are bored of the wife or wife has had a baby and her body is not the same. Men have way more privileges and advantages then women hence why men can go out late and women cant hence why when a women's reputation is tainted it's a lot harder for her compared to a man who has way more privileges and the upper hand. Islamically I know men and women are equal and women are not oppressed but I'm talking about culture here. Culture wise? Men have the upper hand and that is a fact. The women always gets blamed if something goes wrong. The women is expected and demanded to serve his whole family when she doesnt have to. To put it simple culture has made daughter in laws slaves.
I m not Muslim but I like his lecture.very inspiring to become good human.
Allah may give you Imaan
Aameen
If you have questions you can ask. In Sha Allah you will get a good answer.
@@LearnIslamNoetic I said it in public with full mindfulness
@@LearnIslamNoetic cause I followed Zakir Naik for 2 months in d quarintine nd i liked his lectures
@@LearnIslamNoetic many people in yt were saying horrible stuff like he is a moron xyz
I thought it was just islamophobia
I got divorced after 4 months of my marriage, for him his mother is everything n they never included me as the part of their family n specially he for whom I left my house, my family. He never took stand for me, he doesn't have justice inside him, he blindly follows whatever his mother says.
Thanks for giving us such valuable knowledge, we need to learn more about all these.
Oh sorry about that may Allah make it easy for you my dear!
So sorry dear
May Allah find you a blessing place for you
Yes there are some men’s who give their mums side a lot I agree with you because I’ve seen a lot , even though one does a lot for their family but there is no appreciation that’s when it comes to bad terms may Allah Tallah have mercy on everyone Ameen 🤲🏼
Me to sis but hope ALLAH PAK muje aise husband NAWAZ de Jo sab ko haq Dena janta do and mother Ghar nahi todti but sas tod deti hai jealously ki waje se but hope RAB BHETERIN NAWAZ DE
Some one waiting for u better then him
I'm christian but I love the way he speak the truth of life's reality. Mashallah
Ma Sha Allah
You're welcome in Islam inshaallah
May ALLAH lead you to the truth path insha ALLAH.
MashAllah
And iam muslim
You are one of the very few Muftis who actually speak for women rights
Peace upon you
JazakAllah
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@@JahannamHellfire what do u mean by saying its only a hadith?... these words that uve written are harsh ...only if u understand and also if u r a muslim...
U could've written in a better way if u wanted to express ur thoughts...
@@JahannamHellfire How would we know how to pray without Hadith?
@JH this is just between parents not mother and wife
@@JahannamHellfire Huh sister? Im not following your logic...
It's always best to stand for 'justice' against anyone, no matter who the person is to you, I believe that Allah like the people that always stands for 'justice' and in anyway.
With respect and kindness
@@sarak4217 : Yes, you are 'right'. You need to start by doing it respectfully but you also need to understand that some 'unfair' people are intensely evil to a point they would not appreciate you showing them respect in this case, so this means that it would get to a point where you would need to use force or aggression in this case.
Well.No matter 《'Mom na Wife》still the same.Coz.it's still SAME coz both ** WOMENs** Soo.it depends situations/Justice《.WaAllah hualaam'》❤sabrr aje laa🤔🌻
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@@youtubechillsuk1326 : Salam. What is this link about? please!
My son puts his wife and children first. I get on with my life and I support them as much as I can. I don't interfere in their lives
That's great, I hope you get the best life ☺
Im sorry but your son is just ungrateful
That is amazing! May Allah bless you for your kindness and love! I wish there were more mother in laws like you 🥰
They will love you more
MashaAllah. May Allah bless you with the rewards for your patience, aameen.
This Imam is like no others I ever heard in any mosque and I am over 50 years old, mashaAllah, he is very smart and funny from time to time! May Allah blesses him and protect him and may all imams learn from him, especially on how to communicate and to approach the newer generations online! He is truly a one of a kind!
Assalamualaikum ❤️
I am a recent revert Islam. I have heard allot of speeches from different preachers. But this person is something unique and the way he put up the words is very convincing. Everyday I watch his videos on different topics and get the feel that the day got fulfilled. To be honest by watching his videos my respect and bonding towards Islam spiritually increases.
Subhan Allah!
May peace be upon you to all my brothers and sisters ❤️
Welcome to Islam sister!💚
What religion were you before
May Allah forever shower His blessings upon you
"Justice comes first" ~ Mufti. I will hold this close to my heart up to the day I will marry.
@JH if dats
@JH if that is the case go and marry your mother and be a good company to her...nonsense!!!
Ur mother deserve ur good company doesn't mean u hv to be injust to ur wife or any body else fr dat matter. Ther is one more hadith 'the best amongest you is the one who is best to ur wife' , dnt frgt dat. Ther r certain situations wher justice has no role in those situations parents (for men) should be given the preference.
@JH There are many Hadees about being good to your family n Wife! Why are you comparing it! It is just like someone remembers the Hadees he/she likes n forget all others which he/she don't like! Your mother n your wife are both important n have different but equally important place in your life ! Don't compare
@JH Don't you remember your wife is mother of your children! Your children will love you for respecting her! Your wife is Jannah of your children! You are ignoring it
"Justice! " I love this word🌺
Yesterday i message in live video asking these question, Ma Sha Allah mufti menk brought a video today. JazakAllahu Khair.
Ma sha Allah 👍🏻
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I jst have tears in my eyes coz my husband alwys sy no matter what her mother do's(negative) to me I need to bare evrything no matter what.... may Allah swt guide him the right path n bless our marriage....
Nice
Same sis Same!
My husband never accepted his sister’s faults and whenever I complain about her, he starts fighting with me. May allah (s.w.t) guide him too and make him an honest judge.
I'm not a Muslim but i the speech of this mufti sahab he speek very sweet my interest in Islam is increasing day by day
May Allah guide you better towards righteous path and makes easy to understand and accept Islam one day , best wishes , any help or advice most welcome
Great, may Allah guide you and strengthen you.
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Does any one else notice how mufti menk's thumbnails are always on point 💯 😂 .....Masha Allah
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@JH also Prophet(peace and blessings be upon him) said "Amongst you, the best is the one who is best to their spouses"
Yes, I was just tellin that to my sister yesterday 😄
Mashaa Allah
@JH b
Mashallah! Thank you for helping me find Islam :)
M following u on your your youtube channel. U r such a beautiful women
Stand for justice...so rightly said...what is wrong is wrong...be kind n respectful to your parents...jazakallah for reminding us...
@Hell Is Hotter jazakallah
@@JahannamHellfire Don't oppress your wife.. He said stand for justice..
@Rider101ism exactly.true
Thank you, as a daughter I miss my father n mother for so long😭
😭😭😭😭
I'm Christian but I love following the teachings of Islam...very particular and on point
May Allah guide you sis
Honestly when I ever listened to you my heart feels so peaceful.
Ameen
Good sister
May Allah bless the unmarried a spouse who is pious and who has good character and conduct. Ameen
Aameen
Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Check us out for Islamic reminders... In Sha Allah you will benefit from it!😇
Jazkumullahu Khairan!🌟
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Just love every single one of your videos! I’m planning on taking my shahada soon, watching your videos really further proves just how amazing Islam is 😌 please never stop making videos.
May Allah help u.
Mashallah, welcome ❤️👍, what about u now?
Masha allah welcome
Dear sister,
Alhamdulillah Allah has shown you the truth..I am so happy for you..
Pray Almighty make your journey easy and keep you on islam till the end..
Sincerely Anisah
May ALLAH make it easy for you to accept the shahada please the sooner the better
I'm not a Muslim either but love watching his video's. He's so inspiring and encouraging. His teachings make us feel connected with God, makes us feel like we can all make the world a better place. Thank you so much mufti menk 🙏 God bless you 😊🙏🙏🙌
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This is really a eyes opener explanation for thousands of families. may Allah bless you and thank you.
Masha Allah Mufti Menk, I really admire the way you strike a balance in every aspect of a situation or cause 💯
Indeed
@JH 💯
Especially striking the balance between a mother in law and daughter in law. So simply said. If everyone listened to this man, surely thered be far less divorces. ❤️
Jazak Allah! This couldn't be answered more beautifully. The way you narrated it from Quran and with examples, I must say you've done it well. Peace upon you
Big love to the ummah from Ireland 🇮🇪
I’m a Christian but this guy is a treasure to Islam.
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@@rihanulkarim3997 of course not, go ahead brother.
@@FieldMarshalRommel23
Who is Allah?
He is Allah, the One and Only;
Allah, the Eternal, Absolute;
He begets not, nor was He begotten;
And there is none like unto Him.
(Quran 112)
What is Islam?
Islam simply means submission to one and only Allah, the creator, the sustainer, the most merciful, the lord of the heaven and the earth. Followers of Islam called Muslim.
Allah sent many prophets and messenger (approximately 124000, but only 25 of them mentioned in the Quran) throughout the human history to guide people to submit to one God (Allah).
Adam was his first human creation, first human being and first prophet of Allah. We are the children of Adam and Hawa(Eve). Actually, Muslims believe in prophethood, they came one after another. Some of them are,
Adam-Adam, Noah-Nuh, Abraham-Ibraheem,
Ishmael-Ismael,
Issac-Ishaq, Jacob-Yakub,
Moses-Musa, David-Dawood,
Solomon-Suleiman, Jesus-Isa and Muhammad.
Allah also send revelation(scriptures) to his messengers. Such as,
Moses (Musa) got Torah/Taorat
David (Dawood) got Psalms/Zabur
Jesus (Isa) got Gospels/Injeel
Muhammad got Quran.
Prophets and Messengers of Allah came to earth for a specific time to guide specific people.
For example, After Moses(Musa), Jesus(Isa) came to guide people of Israel(Jews). After Jesus(Isa), Muhammad came to guide the whole mankind not only for Arabs or Asians. He is known as the last and final prophet of Allah. So, today we need to follow teachings of prophet Muhammad.
Allah Allmighty gave miracles to Prophets. Some of the famous one are, Noah's Ark, Moses's Splitting the Sea, Jesus's miraculous birth, Muhammad's Journey to Heaven.
All the prophets, came to guide people to worship one lord, Allah. And Islam means submission to the will of Allah. So, all the prophets preached the religion of "Islam" and they all were Muslim.
'Islam' (submission to one lord) is not a new religion, it began with prophet Adam. It is the religion of Adam, Abraham, Moses, Jesus & Muhammad. (Peace be upon them)
@@FieldMarshalRommel234 months later, still no answer
Wow, you are filled with so much wisdom, I haven't even finished watching this video but I had to pause to comment, I'm a Christian and I honestly appreciate this honest, truthful and wisdom filled teaching. May God bless you
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First stand for justice wether mother or wife
Also cultural twists playing a big part too.
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@JH the best among u is the one who is at best behaviour with his wives.. Prophet PBUH
@JH ok so what exactly is ill manner here? Crying on floor throwing tantrum? It applies vice versa.. some men need discipline too.. it applies to increase iman and knowledge... and also a woman is said to be born from tilted rib doesnt needs to be straighten...
@JH It was regarding Parents,not between Wife and Mother.
At last mufti menk end with Salaam Alaikum and the smile makes lots of ummahs also smile and answering you Wa Alaikum Salaam with smile. Ma Sha Allah.
I respect and love the way Mufti Menk gives his preachings and I never miss any of his videos. Its beautiful. Subhanallah
Thanks!
This is a problem between many couples
JazakAllahu khairen for addressing us
😘😍😍
I like him verry much he have learend me verry much, may Allah bles all of the muslim ummah.
I am verry proud to be a muslim alhamdulilah
Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Check us out for Islamic reminders... In Sha Allah you will benefit from it!😇
Jazkumullahu Khairan!🌟
The Rehabilitate Road inchalah
@@anl4s0u77 Hope you find our vids beneficial!
Do shrae for others to benefit, In Sha Allah!
We will be posting more soon, In Sha Allah. Stay tuned!
Jazakallahu Khairan!
Sheikh I swear by Allah I start my days after fajr and recitation of Quran, start it listening to you. Subhanallah what a amazing! I am abdur razzaq. I am a graduate of alazhar university in Egypt. Insha Allah I will start an UA-cam channel very soon In order to upload Islamic videos both in Arabic and English. Dear sheikh my dear brothers and sisters please pray for me. Sheikh mufti menk you are my inspiration. Much love from the bottom of my heart 💗💗💗💗
love you so much Sir. I am Hindu, but your words and allah subhana watala !! all the words are the solutions of my all kinds of problems
Please read (aapki amanat aapki sewa me in hindi), you can download or install it insha allah, its only 30 pages probably you can read it in 10 minutes insha allah.
@@shakirsohail1681 thanx bro
'Stand up for justice'. True. Your videos are great!
I'm a Roman Catholic but I still love hearing Mufti Menk.
Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Check us out for Islamic reminders... In Sha Allah you will benefit from it!😇
Jazkumullahu Khairan!🌟
What ever the religion is if it teaches good and we have to appreciate according to me every religion has just good teachings
Better listen Dr zakir naik
No. But I respect him.@@electricalengineer6530
Along with his advice,his recitation of the Quran is amazing as well❤
Daily Dhikr Reminder ♥️🌼Bismillah
1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah
3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar
Mufti menk may Allah bless you,I wish to see you one day in Ghana
I have been tortured for dowry,money, al sorts of materialistic things alot instead of being so called well educated......the food i eat was being counted.....by my husband stood by me always.....alhamdullilah i just love him for standing by me always🤗
Who is first mom or wife please tell me
@@Abid_x7 - Mother
Alhumdulilah you have supporting husband but very unfortunate what you went through may Allah bless you your husband and guide the wrong doers.
@@englishexpert1989 your profile name is in fact insulting the mother's.
@Abid_x7 Watch the video Mufti Menk explains it well
Please explain us the difference of love and responsibility of what a mother has and a wife should get💗
I would love sheikh mufti to talk about depression during postpartum and stress, please Sheikh mufti help your Muslim sisters on how they can overcome this issues, May Allah s.w bless you and grant you paradise. Ameen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sir, when you said "respect your mother in law as she is the mother of your spouse", it hit me real hard.. May Allah always bless you.. You make things so easy to understand.
Thank you for these honest and insightful teachings. I am not Muslim, but I enjoy and learn something from each one. I really appreciate that you do not have judgemental views and see women in an honest and respectful way.
Assalamalaikum my husband always takes the side of his family i he never see my side not even his children's in his family daughters in laws are outsiders even when it comes to family pictures we all have to stand aside and let mother and her children take the pictures my husband came home from work and heard his mother swearing at me and kicking me out of the house he never said a word to her instead he went to her and huged and kiss her while i stood there and looked on every one thinks he is such a good person because that's the face he shows on the outside
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I admire you beyond words ...you actually give the correct interpretation of islam
Please keep my Children and I in your Sincere Du’a, and Prayers!
I am extremely happy to be a Muslim by born. May Allah bring more people into Islam.
muslim as born what it mean?
@@adilblake254 Born from a Muslim family.
@@Servant__of__Allah oh same
Mashaallah, being a women , Thk u so much for ur perfect speech, let every men should follow ur opinion abt justice.
Thanks to Allah for sending mufti menk in my life. You completely transformed my life.
Thank you mufti menk for your efforts.
May Allah be content with you.
Folks, remember your mother is the way to Jannah but you will be accompanying your wife in Jannah not your mother. Think about it this way. Mufti Menk is right. Jazak Allah khair for this. Justice, justice and sincere justice,
@ruheena Shah What do you mean you will not be accompanying your mother in jannah? insha'Allah we will be with all our loved ones in jannah not just with our wives.
@@happyguy201. Happy guy, simple and common sense, as a mother do not have one child, she might have several children, so if your brother and sister are all in jannah and who will she be with. Will she be divide into 4 or 5 parts. Then your wife is with you as well in jannah and her mother will have the same problem. Will her mother be divided onto 4 or 5 or even more. Then your mother and her mother will have their mothers with them in jannah and the chain will go on and on and on and then there will be only one room in jannah over crowded until we all eventually be with our original father Adam and mother Hawwa. So be sensible. That’s why Allah s.w.t. The most High said that we will only be with our spouses in Jannah. Got it. 👍
@@ruheenashah6625 both my parents have gained highest ranks in jannah. Most recently our beutiful beloved mother age 63 on 14th Ramadhan/Friday 15th April 2022 just before jummah. Are you telling me that we her children will not see our parents in jannah? And which verse says in Qur'an that we will only be in jannah?
@@happyguy201 dude your mother has a husband too right?? her husband ( your father) will accompany her the same way you do with your wife, and yeah you'll see each other there too but you'll have to accompany your partners. that's how JANNAH IS BUILT.
Amazing advice. Alhamdulilah. May Allah protect you, Mufti
I try my best but to do the just thing, but sometimes its about perspective of being right or wrong... How do you convince someone what is right, when their perspective itself is wrong
Amin
"JUSTICE COMES FIRST; NAVIGATE THE WATER WITH A LOT OF RESPECT"
For our sisters living with the presence of their Mother-in-law, there's no need to let the husband choose between you two, just do not close the Door of Jannah of your husband.
And to our Mothers, treat your daughter-in-law like your own child and how you want your daughter to be treated by their in-laws.
Alhamdulillah
Mashallah great comment. Fully agree with what you said. It's both ways.
May Allah forgive, guide, provide and elevate our mothers, sisters and wives. Ameen
Aameen. I lost my parents and one my sister's. Father in march 1997 when I was small primary school kid and sister age 36 in 2016 due to cancer and we lost our beloved mother just recently this Ramadhan Friday 15 April 2022/14 Ramadhan 1443. Please do dua for them myself and our family and we will do dua for you your family and entire ummah aameen.
I literally don't understand d fact behind unliking d videos by such a wonderful preacher. He's so just, perfectly speaks n wow of all Mufti. He's my fav n I can't resist seeing his videos. Blessings n love from India ❤️✨
May Allah SWT pleased with mufti menk amen sum amen
Allahu Akbar! Ya Mufti... It's like you just spoke directly to me!
Me & my wife were kicked out of home by my own parents after 8 months of nikkah without any valid reason
& they haven't spoke a word with us for more than a year now - despite all my genuine attempts🥺😢 Me & my wife stay now in my wife's home.
PLS MAKE DHUA for us to reunite with my parents! 🤲🏻
@ sheikh fareed may Allah make it easy for you and your wife and guide your parents but why would your parents kick you out for no reason?
Thank You, Mufti Menk, for guiding us. Today you have talked upon a very delicate matter I hope that all of us able to understand it and apply it in our lives. May we all follow the path of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) as he expected from us.
I just wanna talk to those 9 people who disliked this absolutely correct video.
Make that 15 people and may Allah forgive them inshallah
Why would they dislike something about allah. MAy Allah forgive them for this.
they are probably just those very possessive and controlling mothers and aunties lol
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One sided people may be
Everyone need to understand these words with full respect.
May the Almighty grant mufti menk long happy life so he can update us on world troubling issues..Ameen
I am a sikh but I love his teachings.
Sister please read (aapki amanat aapki sewa me in hindi) you can download or install it in hindi, its only 30 pages probably you can read it in 10 minutes insha allah.
I am not muslim but im following because u have very inspiring topic.
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I'm Indian Muslim, I'm big fan of you....
Me too
Same🇮🇳❤️
@JH Yes, also goes for women-
1. Mother (not husband)
2. Mother (not husband)
3. Mother (not husband)
4. Father (not husband)
we dont care about your race.
@@subiaansari5840 for women first husband then her parents delete your comment speaking out of knowledge
May Allah Subhan’Allah Bless Mufti Ismail Menk.
May Allah bless you with the best in this world and with the highest ranks in jannah for raising this issue Aameen
Hope lots of brothers got a knowledge, It may be easy in future.
I agree brother
Aameen
Exactly: BOTH COME FIRST. Every relationship has its own place and all are equal. Your duty to your parents, spouse, kids and siblings is always your duty and you can't ignore one duty for the sake of others. Ignoring duty to parents for sake of your spouse is wrong and vice versa. You must be JUST in all relations, whether a man or woman, husband or wife.
Exactly well said
It’s true but mother transitions from being closest to you when you are a child to second closest when you are a man. Wife takes that role, like you are not going to spend every day with your mom anymore, you will do with your wife. It is the relationship which you will nurture the most. Even kids will grow up and also move on. At the end you are left with your spouse only.
No wife is everything the truth that to be expecting in more positive way rest of your son's life with his wife is greater than from the days since he born to you. Wife can be a good mom for his husband and his children too than his mom but no mom can be a wife.
Wow! Who comes first? Mom or wife? Peeps: what a deadly question! What's the answer?
Mufti menk: justice comes first!
Amazing fact : Someone liked my comment
This is not a deadly question only to those that are put in a position where the wife or mother makes you decide.. mother should be happy you found someone you love and not to mix into the relationship as husband and wife and Wife should respect the mother.. but the moms become very judgmental from the beginning if the wife is good enough for her son ..
@@serveteguze1473 helo
Mufti menk u changed my life with your advice
Wonderful and beautiful explanation. Justice come first. As wife, respect MIL and be kind to her. Spread love and respect … May Allah guide and bless all of us..
Hindus and indians really need to watch it
Yes sister
I might have gotten divorce in 1st week of my marriage because of my sister in law. Despite its a love marriage after 3 years of love. But i never knew that there's so much poison and envy living inside my sis in law for me. Even my mother in law did so many things that at some point my husband got confuse that who is right. She even disrespected my family when they visit me. All i did was sabar. And it was fruitful. They both got what they sown for a long time.
Now my husband knows who is right and who is wrong
I really like this man am a muslim he is always saying the true
I'm so thankful to this daawah
BEAUTIFULLY EXPLAINED .....JUSTICE
BEAUTIFUL ADVICE ....❤
A mother should be thankful that Allah gave her son a Muslima who will love him not in the ways she loves him but in ways she can not. Alhamdullilh And be thankful to Allah the HE and only HE brought them together for what HE wanted. Alhamdullilah I say this because many mother in laws "want" children, and that may not be what Allah wants. And so on.....Alhamdullilah May Allah give us all understanding and accept who Allah brings into their children's lives. Amin
@JH you probably skipped this part of the video. 1:35
JH 1:35
JH “the best of you are those who are best to their spouse” (not mother). We can play this game all day. Just accept your wife has rights and move on...
@JH Quran 29:8 And We have enjoined upon man goodness to parents. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them. To Me is your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.
Quran 31:14-15 ..And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them but accompany them in [this] world with appropriate kindness and follow the way of those who turn back to Me [in repentance]. Then to Me will be your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.
I do pray that if you have a daughter or a sister that their husbands only have the heart and mind of following Allah's unchanging words. And will not become like many women who are oppressed by their spouse and their spouses family. Because they view the wife as less than human, even less than a slave. Adhubillah And we ALL must remember, we are ALL the slaves of Allah. Alhamdullilah We are ALL to be treated with respect, no matter who we are in the family. Alhamdullilah And don't worry, Allah has GIVEN everyone their rights, so there is no need to be greedy or oppressive. InshaAllah
@JH I would suggest that you read Surah 7,8,9, and 47 to get a clear understanding. InshaAllah Surah 4:75..And what is wrong with you that you fight not in the Cause of Allah, and for those weak, ill-treated and oppressed among men, women, and children, whose cry is: "Our Lord! Rescue us from this town whose people are oppressors; and raise for us from You one who will protect, and raise for us from You one who will help." Allah's words ALWAYS come first, they are unchanging. Alhamdullilah And Allah even warns the Prophet (saw) about those Prophet (as) before him (saw) who Shaytan put in words and took out words, And Allah left them in order to test the believers. Alhamdullilah
There is NO "playing" victim when women and children are being beaten and raped and preyed upon. 4:148..Allah does not love the loud (expression) of odious words except for him who has been done an injustice, and Allah has been Ever-Hearing, Ever-Knowing.
It is the man's responsibility to protect women and children and not beat them and "use" them. Adhubillah And not just their close family members, but the women of this Ummah. InshaAllah
So instead of condemning a believer, a male especially, should think twice before uttering a word against Allah's words. If the words do not line up with the UNCHANGING words of Allah then they are not sahih.
Allah says, Both believing men and women will enter Jannah. Alhamdullilah He never put a number on either sex. Alhamdullilah That is HIS decision, not ours.
And from the standpoint of this Ummah today, it looks like the men have failed in their duties and obligations to Allah. Adhubillah
But if one were to take in account that for every male they will have two wives in Jannah then I would say just out of reasonable logic that there will be more women then men. Allahu alam. It was narrated from Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The lowest of the people of Paradise in status will be a man whose face Allaah will turn away from the Fire towards Paradise, and make a shady tree appear before him. … Then he will enter his house and his two wives from among al-hoor al-‘iyn will enter after him. They will say: ‘Praise be to Allah Who has created you for us and us for you.’ And he will say: ‘No one has been given the like of that which I have been given.’” Narrated by Muslim, 188.
And the point is, it does not matter in the next life how many men or women will be there. Those who succeed won't care. Alhamdullilah
What matters is what Allah commands and how we follow HIS commands, both men and women so that we can get there InshaAllah . Allah states, And I will fill hell with both Jinn and mankind. All but a few. Alhamdullilah Not my words, but Allah's (swt) And Shaytan says that he will mislead all but a few. Adhubillah
May Allah guide us to the straight path. Amin
Unfortunately in Pakistan this is the main issue due to which most couples could not make their relation long lasting and they divorced each other.....like my ex mother in law and sister in law dragged our marriage to divorced and finally we divorced each other.....I am wondering that the parents who love their children so much and they Use to do anything for their happiness and prosperity why dont they think that they are making their children to have haram relation after divorce and it will have bad consequences in this world and In hereafter:(......may Allah grant understanding to all of us...ameen
Very unjust , Allah swt will deal with them, culture has to die!!!
Emotionally and mentally harming and blackmailing them Disgusting, Allah swt is with the oppressed!!!
Love is not ruining the lives of innocent people!!!!!!!
You didn't need a man like that anyway who couldn't support you and honour you as his wife!
@mr system I am not a child neither this is just in my family....I am from Pakistan and I know that what's happening there.....I am not saying its happening in all over Pakistan but 80% families have the same issue.....you must observe who is childish and who is using disgraceful words in comments...
I am a Christian but I truly value this advice. Thank you 🙏
Islam has solutions to all mankind problems.
It's very important topic to discuss. I'm really happy that you made a video on this. Thank you soo much...May Allah guide us on right path..ameen
Your speeches very available.iam listening whole day even it doesn't get bored of me.its motivate me alot.iam searching for some answers . today I got it.
Try and respect both and lean with who is right 😇
on another note ...
I love my mother in law, she is the sweetest lady I've ever met 💗🌷🍁🌴🌾⚘🍂
Mashallah! May Allah always keep it that way
Whoever asked this question is an intelligent person
IAM a Christian but I like the speech of this Man of God 🙌 mashalla
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May Almighty Allah continue to increase your widom and understanding inshallah....
Much Love from Nigeria❤
Thanks for sharing this with us
Masha Allah good teaching.may Allah protect him from the evil eyes
I have addicted to your bayan.. in these days my exam is going on.. but my hand always touches UA-cam to come to this channel.. 😊 ma sha allah.. ❤️
My allah my easy to your exams
Whoever is reading this, may Allah bless you with long and righteous life and make you obedient servant of Him.
After hearing this I feel wife has so many rights when compared to the mothe in law but in my case my mother in law decides what has to be done in my matter
I need help as my husband never listens to me ,I am always the last priority and my kids .please pray for me and my kids.
Jazakallah
Try to let him listen to this.. i pray for u..
@Nadya HutangAlong he doesn’t .I always make him listen but he behaves as if it’s not for him.thanks sister
Jazakallah
Very useful as I am a wife I always face many situation
Leave him in couple of days, when he is doin again unjustice to you, only that he sees tbat he is wrong
If you are living abroad sister. Then try to make him understand. If mother in law stays in pakistan or if she lives with you try to talk to him in private
Selamliyorum
I love you Sheik, you are an honest man who speaks from the heart,
may Allah bless you your family and your loved ones.
Depends on the situation. It could be either or.
Respect every women of is ur mother,sister, wife or daughter ♥️
There is this quote (I can't recall who from) about juggling between two responsibilities. The key is to recognize, when you are juggling, that some balls are made of glass and will break if they are dropped, while some are made of plastic so it's okay to drop them since they will just bounce back up.
Sometimes you have to let go of the plastic ball in order to catch the glass ball. Sound advice, I think, since its never all or nothing; it's choosing which things are important at that moment.
May Allah keep you for very long time I don’t what our life would be with out people like you.
Assalamualaikum everyone recite surah shams after fajr prayer isko parhne se itna sawab Hy ke jese ap ne saari dunya ke khazanon ka sadqa kia hy
As a wife who lives with her in laws in a joint family, alhamdoulilah I am grateful that Mufti Menk is giving such good advice to all especially husbands/sons. And as a sister with a brother and sister in law myself and alhamdoulilah both parents, I am also grateful that Mufti Menk is giving such sound advice that I would be happy for my brother to follow with my own parents. Ya Allah, allow us to all be worthy, honourable and kind children, spouses and parents when in shaa Allah the time comes, and let all parents live a life of dignity and love especially in their older years. Ameen, ameen, Allahumma ameen ❤️
I hope insha'Allah you are happy with husband and in-laws and they are happy with you. If not than may Allah help you, remove all your difficulties and make you happy insha'Allah aameen.
@@happyguy201 ameen ameen, Allahumma ameen. Jazakh'Allah khayr brother for your duahs and I wish the same for you if you're married and if not, then one day when you are. It really is a skill maintaining a marriage and even more complex when you have the added layers of extended family living with you even when they are perfectly reasonable and respectful - like adult children in their parents' home rather than married adults running their own households. May Allah swt make it easy for us all, esp those couples struggling with each other or with their parents/in laws, AND those parents struggling with children and their spouses. Allahumma ameen
@@fj3158 my parents passed and one of my older sisters at 36 in 2016 due to cancer. We lost our father 25 years ago when I was primary school kid and just this month in this blessed month of Ramadhan we lost our beloved mother on 15 April 2022/14th Ramadhan 1443 at 68 due to heart attack. And no my sis I'm not married yet my mum really wanted to see me married happy and play with my children. She even spoke about two days before returning to Allah but that will not happen.