Why is TLC UK releasing the previous episodes!? We would like to know the current state of Tammy, whether she's facing the consequences of her actions or not.
Amy is real proof that a person truly can change for the better! I hope she reads through these comments and see how proud we are of her! She’s truly an inspiration 🤍
This is the most frustrating part like Tammy over eating yourself into this state isn't "you" it is not who you are the center of your being and you are not living freely
Omg u made me LOL so hard just now!!! 🤣🤣🤣 For real tho, she’s basically saying “let me live ‘free’ while u take care of me and do everything for me”. Sounds like real freedom to me...🙄 lmao
I'm so proud of Amy, she has grown up so much. We all know that Tammy is lazy, and doesn't care. But, Amy is proof that hard work will get you to your goals. Gage is proof, and he's so sweet.♥️
I'm so proud of Amy! I completely forgot how big she was. It's a lot taking care of a baby AND a grown ass woman who only cares about herself. Amy's forgetting to take care of herself so the doctor just wants her to stay on track
@@thapoppyman and? So ur expecting someone that’s doing a lot of shot just to loose all the weight just like that? Well I’m sorry but she’s doing the best she can u don’t need to shame someone just bc they’re loosing weight
@@thapoppyman yes but she made a lot of progress. She still had weight to lose but got pregnant & had a baby & it's not easy to lose baby weight for some. She's trying & that's the most important thing
Seeing her cry over the blanket really hit home. I know exactly how she feels because I’m in the same situation with my grandpa. He was really into knitting and he continued to knit up until his death. I have tons of stuff from him that I can see and hold without getting emotional but the second I pick up anything that he knitted I completely break down and cry. I used to watch him knit while he told me stories about his childhood. I miss him so much and it’s really painful
I agree with Tammy on one thing, let her be! She doesn’t want to live a long life, she doesn’t want to stop eating the way she does and she doesn’t want to do anything for herself. Don’t waste time on someone who doesn’t want any help.
@tq231442 Ohh yes they are! The older sister's are ok but let's be real tammy & Amy are some cold looking females not only that look at the way they are shaped with that extra fat sack under there belly's! It takes a special man to be hitting that!
I was trying to lose weight and I was told I was having my fifth baby I don’t want no more kids I thank the lord for my kids but I don’t want no more cause I’m trying to lose weight
Kristina, please you're hearing what your saying !!!! First theres way to protect yourself not to have b.b. Second you don't have b,b, just because the fun of it being responsable is the key. You already have 4, use common sense and for the losing weight You have to make it happen with diet exercises and under guidanse of a professional, good luck !!!
I like Amanda! She's a no BS, I'm gonna say it and you just gonna have to deal with it. She's gonna say her piece and it's from the heart. You take it and listen if you want
Yeah I like Amanda also.... I love how she be putting Tammy's big ass in her place! Amy is hard hard-headed, that doctor have told so many times having kids can be fatal and she doesn't listen 😕! Amy's a nice girl and everything but sometimes I wish I could slap the shit out of her.
I’m like that too. I say what I gotta say and no BS. Just the truth. But everyone don’t want a real honest friend now a days. They want sweet talk, fake, friends 😒
I wish I had 1/10 of the support Tammy has. She should be a lot more Appreciative of her family wanting to help her she could have nobody or anything in her life.
2:54 I think your sister giving you that blanket was a sign that SHE, your SISTER, is still here, that SHE hasn’t given up on you, that your SISTER still loves you. Look at the wonderful people you have now, while you still have them.
I wonder if Tammy & Amy are from the same father of that sister because she looks good, calm, collected and aware, sharp. And then the other 2 are just sluggish, eyes out of place, tired, and morbidly obese. Those were faulty genes. That's why liomesses, birds, animals always pick the best male mate. Its called survival of the fittest. I remember using those same exact words to my crush too "I'd only pick the best one for my kids father" talking about male prospects that he thought/assumed I had. I would also NEVER pick an ugly man for my kids father. I wouldn't make my kids suffer because of my choices.
I stopped caring a long time ago too, yet I can’t stop watching!!!!🙈 I think it’s cuz watching her miserable life makes me feel better about my own miserable life lol. I just think- well at least I Can drive, shower, and walk to the mailbox without difficulty. I don’t even think she can stand long enough to make herself a sandwich...😳
@@kayleigh3648 I hope she inspires you to actually change your miserable life 🤔😂🤣 some people do use others to feel better about themselves but it’s all a delusion. Misery is misery is misery.
@@leahmoonbeamflower333 Ya, but seeing someone more miserable than you certainly makes u see that u don’t have it as bad as u think! I get depressed for being 15lbs overweight, then I see Tammy and feel like I got the best body in the world!!! 😬😂 I don’t enjoy seeing others miserable, it just makes me more appreciative of my own life. Im sure you and many others can relate 😉
@@kayleigh3648 Honestly, I personally can’t relate because I honestly like seeing people not miserable. Also, when I do it doesn’t make me appreciate my life anymore than I do. It is what it is. People are just people and in one day, anything could change. I just try to work on myself the best way I can with what I have. The way people live all these different lives is definitely fascinating 🧐 but I don’t use other’s misery to make me feel better about a different misery that may be my own. It’s okay if you do. I was just wondering if you used it to actually help whatever you’re miserable about or if you just stay the way you are and watch this show to just feel more okay about it…
How I found out I was pregnant was I went to the E.R with my back hurting..I was over 400 lbs and I couldn't get pregnant also but then I lost weight I got down to 210 lbs and that's when I got pregnant...I was 40 years old and 3 months pregnant when I found out...I had my Daughter Randi Lee exactly 30 days early but she still weighed 6 lbs and 8 ounces...I am a very proud momma she has changed my life for the better so I can relate to Amy's struggle with weight loss and having a baby... keep up the great work not only for yourself but also for Gage who is counting on you for the rest of his life 💙💙
Her baby really truly is a beautiful little guy. I’m so happy for her and her hubby. Her new baby is also beautiful. I wish her sister could get herself to this goal too 😢
She probably doesn’t even recognise why she doesn’t want to change & cheating death so many times no doubt makes her feel somewhat invincible. It’s not just about giving up junk food & alcohol, she’d have to become independent, learn to take care of herself. She’s probably scared that she’d lose all the attention she gets now & without her “lethally obese” persona, who would she be? Even if she’s never confronted all her fears, there’s a whole load of them at the core of her. Quite possibly all stemming from their mother abandoning them when she was young. If you push people away, it’s supposed to hurt less if they abandon you (it doesn’t of course). If you surround yourself in some kind of armour, in her case 550 extra pounds of it, then subconsciously it’s you holding people away from you, not them rejecting you. If the only men who are attracted to you are fetishists, then it doesn’t really matter if you break up because they didn’t really care about you. She’s a whole textbook full of abandonment issues made flesh unfortunately. And so very sad because she’s got a big family full of siblings who care about her. But even then, she makes them prove it constantly by being selfish & an ungrateful b^%# to them. Unless she gets some serious therapy, nothing’s going to help her unfortunately.
@@allisonjames2923 it’s like she just don’t care, after my first near death experience where the doctor tells me “u was suppose to die” I’m changing my life
I know that Amy is pregnant. Gage is so adorable and so cute, I hear that she is having a boy..well that's sweet for Gage to have a little brother 👶🏻❤️🙏
I knew she was pregnant cuz no one announces on tv of suspicion of being pregnant. All my times being preg, I never told a single soul til I got at least 3 positive tests lol. Plus, she wouldn’t show her testing herself on live tv like that if she didn’t know what the result was gonna be. Imagine going on and on about ur cravings and moodyness and how u really think u are preg in front of the whole world and it comes out negative? Ya no normal woman would do that lol.
Come on Amy, we know you can do it! Try to get healthy again so your kiddos will be able to play with their mom and have her around for a long time. I'm glad that the doctor cares as much as he does. Shows that he's a good doctor. I hope you are able to get below 200 pounds. Just get on birth control and work on your health after baby #2 comes.
I get people being frustrated with Tammy behaviour. It’s understandable. But I think at this point she has made her wishes completely clear. Even though she will die earlier it is her choice. I think her family needs to accept that they cannot change her. They should spend these last months or years just being there for her and making happy memories instead of the last leg of her life being remembered as a miserable battle. Obviously pushing her had never worked and I would argue it’s made her weight increase. They should let go and let her define how she wants to exist. They can do that and not agree with her. Both can exist.
How can Tammy be free and be herself when she depends on EVERYONE for Everything!!! Even the government to pay her bills..uugghh lazy and selfish brat is what Tammy is!!
I think she’s severely depressed & has given up. She needs therapy & alcohol/drug rehab just to get to a headspace where she wants to be alive. I’ve been there, you give up & just wait to die. It’s a dark place. I hope she finds help.
And this is the biggest hurdle in Tammy's life. She thinks doing anything is only to 'please others'. She completely ignores the fact that it is for herself. She is so stubborn that she will not do anything for anyone. However nobody is going to die if she drinks and parties and eats lots of fatty food. Nobody but her. Maybe if they did all stop telling her the obvious, it would hit home and she wouldn't feel it's for others. Damn, how can you be so disconnected from your own self...Tammy, if you want to live YOU have to change. Not for others, for YOURSELF!
many reasons why she could be disconnected from herself, depression, no self esteem, no sense of self, anxiety, trauma, fear of success, etc... She needs therapy but she has to want it.
They are her enablers. With any other addict you have to wash your hands of them, unfortunately they are not and I makes everyone's life worse with her being so bullheaded
@@Adrienne926 She said she is sick and tired to please others. Pleasing others here means having to be healthy and lose weight. She isn't dissociated, she has either given up or doesn't want to do what others tell her, not realising that she should be doing these things for herself.
I do think they need to stop getting in her face about it. They are right in their intentions and what they're saying, but it's not working. They can't make her eat better or exercise. They can't make her confront her emotional demons. It has to come from her. She just has to find some internal motive to work on herself. She has to care like they all do.
I just have so much love an admiration for Amy , she's a legend and I'm so dam proud of her !!! Keep at it Amy you can do it for you and hopefully baby No.2 and Little Gage. take care and please keep going we believe in you !!
Does anyone else get the vibe that Tammy genuinely has given up and don't want to get better? She's had health scare after health scare and she KNOWS that all the drinking is slowly killing her but it still doesn't scare her awake. It's so damn sad. She has DEFINITELY given up
I hope Amy gets back to her weight loss journey since the birth of her kids. She's still technically obese and I know she wants to be healthy for her kids.
When Tammy admits to "partying," she almost looks like she's gloating or maybe she feels good watching her family express concern, even if it's negative?
As somebody who struggles with PTSD, I honestly feel bad for Tammy, but the only person who can help her is herself. All the doctors and rehabs in the world cannot force her to address the trauma that led to her abusing herself like this (let's be real, "partying" and eating like she does at her weight is basically self-injury whether she realizes it or not). Professional help is all well and good, but ultimately it's her own choice to put in the work to get better and build a better life. I can only imagine how her family feels watching her destroy herself this way.
8:00 why didn't Dr. Proctor give Amy a pregnancy test in the office? Even though he's a bariatric doctor, you'd think they'd keep a couple pregnancy tests just in case.
Amy has come such a long way but the Dr. is right to be concerned. She is currently facing the most subtle but most difficult challenge in weight loss, or in any habit breaking lifestyle change. That is being able to find balance and stay consistent even when you're under high stress and not able to dedicate as much time or brain space to meeting your goals. This is where most people fail in lifestyle changes and undo all their hard work. They think their self improvement has gone well up to now so they start relaxing their requirements a bit, especially when there is a lot going on they need to handle. But, when they're not consciously thinking about their choices as much anymore they are just going to start defaulting to learned habits either because they're easy, safe, familiar, feel good, or reduces stress. You can get to the point where a healthy habit becomes your default habit but it's going to take a long time. After all, you are undoing a lifetime of bad habits, it could take another lifetime just to replace them with good habits. If you haven't found a good balance, before you know it it's: *oops I'm back to smoking a cigarette everyday", "oops I'm back to eating fast food everyday", "oops I missed another workout today." Now those bad habits have taken over again. A lot of people experience that and go "well today's a lost cause might as well go all in on a cheat day. I'll get back on track tomorrow." "Well this week is shot, I'll do better next week." "This has been a rough year but I'm still better off overall." And then look at that they're back to square 1. I believe Amy has the ability to be self critical and be firm with herself in saying "no" to bad habits. I'm just not sure if she can identify when those bad habits are starting to invade her brain space again. Bad habits are sneaky sons of bitches. I have no doubt she'll see it and know she needs to course correct but the issue will be how long do they keep control of her life before she stops it and how much will they set her back. (FYI this is why the therapy side of lifestyle changes is so important so you can identify when you're slipping back early on)
The fact that Tammy hasn’t seen the doctor after they said “you either work or don’t come back” it really shows that she gives 0 shits. She thinks that getting healthy is for other people like wtf they are telling you this stuff in order to get you healthy cause they love you. Tammy thinks it’s all about control
They always allow her to come back. There are no consequences for Tammy at ALL. She talks to anyone the way she wants and no consequences. She stuffs her face, mistreatment of every single person around her…she’s disgusting inside and out! They need to ditch her like a rotten potato!
the part when amanda gave tammy a quilted blanket made me sad cuz her grandma passes away and maybe the blanket reminds tammy of her grandma! we luv u tammy and amy♡
I hate that they upload old clips. Amy had her baby boy Gabe a long time ago. I see the title and get so excited thinking she is pregnant again but it's just click bait. They need to only upload new stuff so we don't get confused. 😒
Amanda loves you and cares about you Tammy. Just be nice and stop being mean. If Amanda didn’t care about you and being a good sister to you. Be glad your family loves you and cares about you as much as they do.
I am not one to watch programmes normally about weight issues,but I warmed to Amy and Tammy for some reason.My husband like's watching as well,I was looking forward to seeing them losing weight as weight loss can be very hard I think especially for poor Tammy,I feel so sorry for her,she must find it so hard.Amy has a gorgeous baby Gage now and is losing weight,Tammy has her food and a lovely family trying to help her..I hope Tammy ignores horrible comments here and see's nice comments to encourage her not to give up.I want to see more programmes of Amy and Tammy and to see Tammy settled down happily. XX
The one thing Tammy's needs to hear is shes loved beyond words. When she gets that message that shes loved and shes worth that love she will start looking after herself.
i think she understands she is loved, and unfortunately abuses that to manipulate her family into enabling her behaviours. she definitely needs therapy, she's hurt by something for sure which most likely fuels her eating. her family do so much for her and it seems like tammy takes this for granted and expects help whenever she needs it. her family needs to live their own lives instead of trying to look after tammy's as well, where advice clearly isn't wanted or listened to. tammy needed to stay in rehab and unlearn many bad habits and learn to deal with emotion without using food. unfortunately she doesn't seem to realise how serious her situation is, she needs a reality check, and you'd think needing regular hospital visits over something you have done to yourself would set you straight but it seems to just be part of her routine now. i hope she can find the strength to take on her weight loss, because it seems like she will never take it seriously with everyone fawning her.
Speaking from experience if you havnt been raised correctly with love and or without neglect. You end up abusing those things that make you feel better in the short term. So I think the last thing Tammy's bothered about is manipulating anyone.
I feel like the family should also see Tammy’s mental state. She seems to just be going through the motion in life as in it is what it is and not what it’s not and her expression of a dream in fact deja vu really brung tears to my eyes. I love Amy’s transformation she’s all giggles happiness and motherhood I love it for her.
was 300 pounds and I've been there. No hope no ambition, and hope she finds something deep down inside to turn it around. Putting in the work is a good thing.
You and your husband have worked so hard. Keep up the good work momma. You guys are an inspiration for us that change can lead to better. 💞 love how you guys love Gage. Now! Are you PG? Lol. Video stopped short. Can’t wait to hear. Either way you will make it below 200!! You guys are keep up the good work on together with your family! That includes health. 💝💖💪🏼
These people are such enablers. She literally is such a slave to her addictions that she can't breathe on her own. As someone who has dealt with the loss of several close friends to addiction, everything about these people is so frustrating to watch. No one is saying or doing the right things for these women. I wonder how long before they succumb to their addictions?
I love Tammy x Peole love her and dont want anything to happen to her ❤ But if she wants to live her life they way she wants thats her Decision & she needs to make it no one else xx
. The weight loss journey is real and very difficult. I pray and hope that you can both continue to get better and encourage each other to not give up. Keep pushing each other and hold yourselves accountable. You might inspire others in similar situations to make efforts to improve their lives. God bless you both. -PL
You remember the little things they helped you along with life's surprises. And my parents are in heaven but their spirit's are always around me when I'm down. My wind chime goes off all the time from both my uncle and dad and all my angles in heaven. So many times me and my son was driving too town and all of a sudden a car pulled out in front of us. But with a quit watch out in my ear we avoided the crash. And my son said mom I'm glad you are driving or we would've died. I always try too drive a little under the speed limit. Cause me and my husband was t- bones by a Ford ranger truck. And it messed our bodies up badly. But that day dad and my farther in law was the angles watching over us. God bless you all throughout your journeys. Prayers are always going out for you all.
Why is TLC UK releasing the previous episodes!? We would like to know the current state of Tammy, whether she's facing the consequences of her actions or not.
I would just look them up on the interwebs, as far as I know they have both pulled out of the show 😔 I also hope they are at a better point in life
Do u have discovery plus they do the new episodes the either the same day as America or just a couple days later xx
She has gained more weight she still aint worked on loosing weight....
@@staceyjuliesmith6707 but she says she is lmfao 😂 but that's a lie
Tammy may not want them too, but I know what you mean. I been looking for them too.
Amy is real proof that a person truly can change for the better! I hope she reads through these comments and see how proud we are of her! She’s truly an inspiration 🤍
Anyone can change
@@dnxx503 changing and changing for the better are different bud
@@well.826 im confused
@@dnxx503 change can either be good or bad, but changing for the better is more positive, I think they tried to say. ❤️
She is completely selfish having kids without a single care in the world.
she said “let me be “ “ let me live free” GIRL HOW?! you can’t even move
This is the most frustrating part like Tammy over eating yourself into this state isn't "you" it is not who you are the center of your being and you are not living freely
As she lives off tax payer money.
Let me be free but do everything for me, including pushing my wheelchair
Omg u made me LOL so hard just now!!! 🤣🤣🤣 For real tho, she’s basically saying “let me live ‘free’ while u take care of me and do everything for me”. Sounds like real freedom to me...🙄 lmao
@@kundriagallo7902 Lol. Live free to abuse her family & emotionally blackmail them into looking after her with no thanks
I'm so proud of Amy, she has grown up so much. We all know that Tammy is lazy, and doesn't care. But, Amy is proof that hard work will get you to your goals. Gage is proof, and he's so sweet.♥️
Amy could of lost a lot more weight. 👍
Don’t be so hard to Tammy I think she really has … problems
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Amy was thinner than she is now but gained weight during her pregnancy
Yeah good job amy
I love their Dr. He’s just so genuine & caring, but straightforward.
I LOVE UR PFP🥹
Amy is not watching her diet, and she sounds like she,s losing it…always telling lies, to the Dr. And herself..she has to watch what she’s eating…..😕
don't forget fine 😩
@@whatthehellisthatyo LMAO
@@dianaharding5819 yes, but she had a kid and she has alredy lost a lot of weight and i think she isnt like tammy
I'm so proud of Amy! I completely forgot how big she was. It's a lot taking care of a baby AND a grown ass woman who only cares about herself. Amy's forgetting to take care of herself so the doctor just wants her to stay on track
She's still big
@@thapoppyman and? So ur expecting someone that’s doing a lot of shot just to loose all the weight just like that? Well I’m sorry but she’s doing the best she can u don’t need to shame someone just bc they’re loosing weight
@@thapoppyman she may be but shes lost a third of her weight. Especially since she has had a baby.
@@thapoppyman yes but she made a lot of progress. She still had weight to lose but got pregnant & had a baby & it's not easy to lose baby weight for some. She's trying & that's the most important thing
@@thapoppyman fun fact: loosing weight doesnt take 2 weeks
Seeing her cry over the blanket really hit home. I know exactly how she feels because I’m in the same situation with my grandpa. He was really into knitting and he continued to knit up until his death. I have tons of stuff from him that I can see and hold without getting emotional but the second I pick up anything that he knitted I completely break down and cry. I used to watch him knit while he told me stories about his childhood. I miss him so much and it’s really painful
I agree with Tammy on one thing, let her be! She doesn’t want to live a long life, she doesn’t want to stop eating the way she does and she doesn’t want to do anything for herself. Don’t waste time on someone who doesn’t want any help.
She doesn’t want it but she needs it...
Some people don't care let them fry in their own oil.!!!!
You never change people they're have to do it themselves.!!
@@elviragonzalez428 👏 👏 👏 That’s right! 100%!
I’m with you on that one. I got a feeling she wants to die anyways.
Son true
Tammy is so blessed to have a family that is so supportive. She needs to appreciate them a lot more
SOMEONE in that supportive family is enabling her to continue to eat like that.
@@pettytoni1955 nah it’s the boyfriends that she is choosing that is enabling her.
Gage is so cute!!! He is the best looking person in the whole family.
@tq231442 Ohh yes they are! The older sister's are ok but let's be real tammy & Amy are some cold looking females not only that look at the way they are shaped with that extra fat sack under there belly's! It takes a special man to be hitting that!
@tq231442 this is true. If these people were at their optimal weights some of them would be considered attractive
Gage is definitely a cute baby!!!
@tq231442
The sister in this video (Amanda?) and Chris are both attractive but, as you said, they're so dang big, their facial features are obscured.
"Can't we just celebrate because today is another day?" Love that!!
Congratulations Amy on your second baby. Can't wait to see what it looks like because Gage is a cutie.
Yes and she's having Another Boy she does have a channel.
I was trying to lose weight and I was told I was having my fifth baby I don’t want no more kids I thank the lord for my kids but I don’t want no more cause I’m trying to lose weight
Kristina, please you're hearing what your saying !!!!
First theres way to protect yourself not to have b.b.
Second you don't have b,b, just because the fun of it being responsable is the key.
You already have 4, use common sense and for the losing weight
You have to make it happen with diet exercises and under guidanse of a professional, good luck !!!
@@elviragonzalez428 I don't believe in abortion or adoption I lay down and made a baby I'm going to take care of it that's how i was brought up
@@elviragonzalez428 I try every kind of birth control don't do shite for my body birth control not 100 percent
I like Amanda! She's a no BS, I'm gonna say it and you just gonna have to deal with it. She's gonna say her piece and it's from the heart. You take it and listen if you want
Yeah I like Amanda also.... I love how she be putting Tammy's big ass in her place! Amy is hard hard-headed, that doctor have told so many times having kids can be fatal and she doesn't listen 😕! Amy's a nice girl and everything but sometimes I wish I could slap the shit out of her.
She’s the voice of reason
I’m like that too. I say what I gotta say and no BS. Just the truth. But everyone don’t want a real honest friend now a days. They want sweet talk, fake, friends 😒
Chris too
@@G.of.J. your right Chris too
I wish I had 1/10 of the support Tammy has. She should be a lot more Appreciative of her family wanting to help her she could have nobody or anything in her life.
2:54 I think your sister giving you that blanket was a sign that SHE, your SISTER, is still here, that SHE hasn’t given up on you, that your SISTER still loves you.
Look at the wonderful people you have now, while you still have them.
I’m pretty sure Tammy means both…
I wonder if Tammy & Amy are from the same father of that sister because she looks good, calm, collected and aware, sharp. And then the other 2 are just sluggish, eyes out of place, tired, and morbidly obese. Those were faulty genes. That's why liomesses, birds, animals always pick the best male mate. Its called survival of the fittest. I remember using those same exact words to my crush too "I'd only pick the best one for my kids father" talking about male prospects that he thought/assumed I had. I would also NEVER pick an ugly man for my kids father. I wouldn't make my kids suffer because of my choices.
I don’t know why anybody is still concerned over Tammy’s health. She has checked out physically and mentally and soon spiritually!!
i think she is extremely depressed tbh. self destruction, needing to hit rock bottom that sort of thing
I stopped caring a long time ago too, yet I can’t stop watching!!!!🙈 I think it’s cuz watching her miserable life makes me feel better about my own miserable life lol. I just think- well at least I Can drive, shower, and walk to the mailbox without difficulty. I don’t even think she can stand long enough to make herself a sandwich...😳
@@kayleigh3648 I hope she inspires you to actually change your miserable life 🤔😂🤣 some people do use others to feel better about themselves but it’s all a delusion. Misery is misery is misery.
@@leahmoonbeamflower333 Ya, but seeing someone more miserable than you certainly makes u see that u don’t have it as bad as u think! I get depressed for being 15lbs overweight, then I see Tammy and feel like I got the best body in the world!!! 😬😂 I don’t enjoy seeing others miserable, it just makes me more appreciative of my own life. Im sure you and many others can relate 😉
@@kayleigh3648 Honestly, I personally can’t relate because I honestly like seeing people not miserable. Also, when I do it doesn’t make me appreciate my life anymore than I do. It is what it is. People are just people and in one day, anything could change. I just try to work on myself the best way I can with what I have. The way people live all these different lives is definitely fascinating 🧐 but I don’t use other’s misery to make me feel better about a different misery that may be my own. It’s okay if you do. I was just wondering if you used it to actually help whatever you’re miserable about or if you just stay the way you are and watch this show to just feel more okay about it…
How I found out I was pregnant was I went to the E.R with my back hurting..I was over 400 lbs and I couldn't get pregnant also but then I lost weight I got down to 210 lbs and that's when I got pregnant...I was 40 years old and 3 months pregnant when I found out...I had my Daughter Randi Lee exactly 30 days early but she still weighed 6 lbs and 8 ounces...I am a very proud momma she has changed my life for the better so I can relate to Amy's struggle with weight loss and having a baby... keep up the great work not only for yourself but also for Gage who is counting on you for the rest of his life 💙💙
Congratulations mama 🤎😘
Her baby really truly is a beautiful little guy. I’m so happy for her and her hubby. Her new baby is also beautiful. I wish her sister could get herself to this goal too 😢
She had like 4 near death experiences and she still won’t get help smh
She probably doesn’t even recognise why she doesn’t want to change & cheating death so many times no doubt makes her feel somewhat invincible. It’s not just about giving up junk food & alcohol, she’d have to become independent, learn to take care of herself. She’s probably scared that she’d lose all the attention she gets now & without her “lethally obese” persona, who would she be? Even if she’s never confronted all her fears, there’s a whole load of them at the core of her. Quite possibly all stemming from their mother abandoning them when she was young. If you push people away, it’s supposed to hurt less if they abandon you (it doesn’t of course). If you surround yourself in some kind of armour, in her case 550 extra pounds of it, then subconsciously it’s you holding people away from you, not them rejecting you. If the only men who are attracted to you are fetishists, then it doesn’t really matter if you break up because they didn’t really care about you. She’s a whole textbook full of abandonment issues made flesh unfortunately. And so very sad because she’s got a big family full of siblings who care about her. But even then, she makes them prove it constantly by being selfish & an ungrateful b^%# to them. Unless she gets some serious therapy, nothing’s going to help her unfortunately.
@@allisonjames2923 it’s like she just don’t care, after my first near death experience where the doctor tells me “u was suppose to die” I’m changing my life
the doctors face when he asked if amy thinks she might be pregnant was like he was heartbroken because he loves Amy lmao
He's one of the rare Doctors that cares
I know that Amy is pregnant. Gage is so adorable and so cute, I hear that she is having a boy..well that's sweet for Gage to have a little brother 👶🏻❤️🙏
Their having a boy
@@myriahmichalski3362 owww ok..wow somehow I thought it was a girl..I'll change that thanx 😊 🙏 👍
@@julieannejoolz yeah these are old shows, I don't know why they don't keep us current
I knew she was pregnant cuz no one announces on tv of suspicion of being pregnant. All my times being preg, I never told a single soul til I got at least 3 positive tests lol. Plus, she wouldn’t show her testing herself on live tv like that if she didn’t know what the result was gonna be. Imagine going on and on about ur cravings and moodyness and how u really think u are preg in front of the whole world and it comes out negative? Ya no normal woman would do that lol.
Come on Amy, we know you can do it! Try to get healthy again so your kiddos will be able to play with their mom and have her around for a long time. I'm glad that the doctor cares as much as he does. Shows that he's a good doctor.
I hope you are able to get below 200 pounds. Just get on birth control and work on your health after baby #2 comes.
I get people being frustrated with Tammy behaviour. It’s understandable. But I think at this point she has made her wishes completely clear. Even though she will die earlier it is her choice. I think her family needs to accept that they cannot change her. They should spend these last months or years just being there for her and making happy memories instead of the last leg of her life being remembered as a miserable battle. Obviously pushing her had never worked and I would argue it’s made her weight increase. They should let go and let her define how she wants to exist. They can do that and not agree with her. Both can exist.
A 600 woman in pain is not "who are you" Tammy so it frustrates me to hell to hear her say "I just wanna be me and be free"
She'll be free soon.
How can Tammy be free and be herself when she depends on EVERYONE for Everything!!! Even the government to pay her bills..uugghh lazy and selfish brat is what Tammy is!!
I think she’s severely depressed & has given up. She needs therapy & alcohol/drug rehab just to get to a headspace where she wants to be alive. I’ve been there, you give up & just wait to die. It’s a dark place. I hope she finds help.
And this is the biggest hurdle in Tammy's life. She thinks doing anything is only to 'please others'. She completely ignores the fact that it is for herself. She is so stubborn that she will not do anything for anyone. However nobody is going to die if she drinks and parties and eats lots of fatty food. Nobody but her. Maybe if they did all stop telling her the obvious, it would hit home and she wouldn't feel it's for others. Damn, how can you be so disconnected from your own self...Tammy, if you want to live YOU have to change. Not for others, for YOURSELF!
many reasons why she could be disconnected from herself, depression, no self esteem, no sense of self, anxiety, trauma, fear of success, etc... She needs therapy but she has to want it.
They are her enablers. With any other addict you have to wash your hands of them, unfortunately they are not and I makes everyone's life worse with her being so bullheaded
@@Adrienne926 She said she is sick and tired to please others. Pleasing others here means having to be healthy and lose weight. She isn't dissociated, she has either given up or doesn't want to do what others tell her, not realising that she should be doing these things for herself.
@@greeneyedgal8270 I think her friends aren't friends either. They are abusing her. Free parties and a bit of tv fame. I've seen that type before.
I do think they need to stop getting in her face about it. They are right in their intentions and what they're saying, but it's not working. They can't make her eat better or exercise. They can't make her confront her emotional demons. It has to come from her. She just has to find some internal motive to work on herself. She has to care like they all do.
A "twelve tale sign," so cute. I love Amy's malapropisms.
Awwww. I wish I got a gift just cuz 😘. Tammy needs to appreciate that ❤️
Amy is the definition of hard work
I just have so much love an admiration for Amy , she's a legend and I'm so dam proud of her !!! Keep at it Amy you can do it for you and hopefully baby No.2 and Little Gage. take care and please keep going we believe in you !!
Does anyone else get the vibe that Tammy genuinely has given up and don't want to get better? She's had health scare after health scare and she KNOWS that all the drinking is slowly killing her but it still doesn't scare her awake. It's so damn sad. She has DEFINITELY given up
I hope Amy gets back to her weight loss journey since the birth of her kids. She's still technically obese and I know she wants to be healthy for her kids.
Shes come so far I hope she makes it all the way
Gage is the cutest baby
Why do they even bother with trying to help her? She does not care,just let her go.....
I wonder if Tammy realizes her Grandma would want her to be happy.
and healthy.
@@gsmith6026 exactly.
So touching that Tammy was given the handmade Quilt! Emotional!
I’m guessing this video is older because Amy actually is pregnant already and she is about 31 weeks today ! and she’s having another boy🤍✨
*WOW!* Thanks for the update!
Yes cause I was about ask
God bless this great Doctor
When Tammy admits to "partying," she almost looks like she's gloating or maybe she feels good watching her family express concern, even if it's negative?
I think she likes the attention
She looked a fool hanging out with them young ass kids. I felt second hand embarrassment when she was trying to use as I call it "young people talk"🤡
Tammy is partying? Alone isn’t called partying. Get it done Tammy. You can heal!
Tammy doesn't want to her fatness got her famous 🤣
There was some video of her partying with a bunch of dudes.
Whether it's done alone or in the company of others, it's just binge drinking.
@@ScarletBrimstone true dat brotha
@@pkay4113 I don't wanna say it but that's whacta called a feeder gangbang
I’d give anything to have Amanda and Amy as my sisters. You need to be thankful for your sisters and your brother, Tammy. ✌️
As somebody who struggles with PTSD, I honestly feel bad for Tammy, but the only person who can help her is herself. All the doctors and rehabs in the world cannot force her to address the trauma that led to her abusing herself like this (let's be real, "partying" and eating like she does at her weight is basically self-injury whether she realizes it or not). Professional help is all well and good, but ultimately it's her own choice to put in the work to get better and build a better life. I can only imagine how her family feels watching her destroy herself this way.
you have PTSD..Tamny doesnt...she Inflicts it on others
8:00 why didn't Dr. Proctor give Amy a pregnancy test in the office?
Even though he's a bariatric doctor, you'd think they'd keep a couple pregnancy tests just in case.
Whether you like it or not people remind you cause they love you heck I go through it everyone goes through it
Amy and Family continue ❤ to support, Tammy and help her She got to be very depressed and need help. That weight got to be depressing.!!!!!!
Such a beautiful baby, a beautiful family ♥️. I wish you many years of good health and happiness 🥰♥️
That doctor is Gorgeous!
Amy has come such a long way but the Dr. is right to be concerned. She is currently facing the most subtle but most difficult challenge in weight loss, or in any habit breaking lifestyle change. That is being able to find balance and stay consistent even when you're under high stress and not able to dedicate as much time or brain space to meeting your goals.
This is where most people fail in lifestyle changes and undo all their hard work. They think their self improvement has gone well up to now so they start relaxing their requirements a bit, especially when there is a lot going on they need to handle. But, when they're not consciously thinking about their choices as much anymore they are just going to start defaulting to learned habits either because they're easy, safe, familiar, feel good, or reduces stress. You can get to the point where a healthy habit becomes your default habit but it's going to take a long time. After all, you are undoing a lifetime of bad habits, it could take another lifetime just to replace them with good habits. If you haven't found a good balance, before you know it it's: *oops I'm back to smoking a cigarette everyday", "oops I'm back to eating fast food everyday", "oops I missed another workout today." Now those bad habits have taken over again. A lot of people experience that and go "well today's a lost cause might as well go all in on a cheat day. I'll get back on track tomorrow." "Well this week is shot, I'll do better next week." "This has been a rough year but I'm still better off overall." And then look at that they're back to square 1.
I believe Amy has the ability to be self critical and be firm with herself in saying "no" to bad habits. I'm just not sure if she can identify when those bad habits are starting to invade her brain space again. Bad habits are sneaky sons of bitches. I have no doubt she'll see it and know she needs to course correct but the issue will be how long do they keep control of her life before she stops it and how much will they set her back. (FYI this is why the therapy side of lifestyle changes is so important so you can identify when you're slipping back early on)
Very well said. 👍
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Tammy has no concept consequences, bc she’s living in denial. She understands them at the same time she doesn’t. She doesn’t want to get better.
Tammy will never lose that weight and everyone knows that but.. HER!
Amy is awesome. I wish someone loved me that much! Don’t take her for granted, Tammy!❤️💛❤️💛❤️💛
awww I cried when she got the blanket
The fact that Tammy hasn’t seen the doctor after they said “you either work or don’t come back” it really shows that she gives 0 shits. She thinks that getting healthy is for other people like wtf they are telling you this stuff in order to get you healthy cause they love you. Tammy thinks it’s all about control
They always allow her to come back. There are no consequences for Tammy at ALL. She talks to anyone the way she wants and no consequences. She stuffs her face, mistreatment of every single person around her…she’s disgusting inside and out! They need to ditch her like a rotten potato!
the part when amanda gave tammy a quilted blanket made me sad cuz her grandma passes away and maybe the blanket reminds tammy of her grandma! we luv u tammy and amy♡
Tammy seems jealous of the families especially Amy’s relationship with Gage, being as though she was the main priority and baby for so long.
Tammy plays the baby roll to much her family loves her she needs to understand and I LOVE this sister here shes up front ❗❗❤
That’s why she’s jealous of her families relationship with gage.
if Amy can loose weight then so can Tammy!
I hate that they upload old clips. Amy had her baby boy Gabe a long time ago. I see the title and get so excited thinking she is pregnant again but it's just click bait. They need to only upload new stuff so we don't get confused. 😒
She is pregnant again with a healthy baby boy and she's about 31-34 weeks!
How is it old? Gage is in the video.
@@asthtic5106 wow I didn't know! Thanks for letting me know!!!
@@BettyAnne2402 np!
He good doctor he cares about them and there health
For anyone wondering, yes she's pregnant again!
I miss them, hope a new season soon. Tammy needs to listen to them
Partying and hurting yourself by drinking, overeating, etc is NOT happiness. I really hope she realizes that soon.
I sure wish I had a sister like her❤
Amanda loves you and cares about you Tammy. Just be nice and stop being mean. If Amanda didn’t care about you and being a good sister to you. Be glad your family loves you and cares about you as much as they do.
I am not one to watch programmes normally about weight issues,but I warmed to Amy and Tammy for some reason.My husband like's watching as well,I was looking forward to seeing them losing weight as weight loss can be very hard I think especially for poor Tammy,I feel so sorry for her,she must find it so hard.Amy has a gorgeous baby Gage now and is losing weight,Tammy has her food and a lovely family trying to help her..I hope Tammy ignores horrible comments here and see's nice comments to encourage her not to give up.I want to see more programmes of Amy and Tammy and to see Tammy settled down happily. XX
God Bless you Tammy. Ignore all the haters
CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 AMY AND FAM ON your new baby boy 7/5/22
Awww Gage is the cutest thing ever and I’m so proud of Amy!
The one thing Tammy's needs to hear is shes loved beyond words. When she gets that message that shes loved and shes worth that love she will start looking after herself.
i think she understands she is loved, and unfortunately abuses that to manipulate her family into enabling her behaviours. she definitely needs therapy, she's hurt by something for sure which most likely fuels her eating. her family do so much for her and it seems like tammy takes this for granted and expects help whenever she needs it. her family needs to live their own lives instead of trying to look after tammy's as well, where advice clearly isn't wanted or listened to. tammy needed to stay in rehab and unlearn many bad habits and learn to deal with emotion without using food. unfortunately she doesn't seem to realise how serious her situation is, she needs a reality check, and you'd think needing regular hospital visits over something you have done to yourself would set you straight but it seems to just be part of her routine now. i hope she can find the strength to take on her weight loss, because it seems like she will never take it seriously with everyone fawning her.
Hasn't worked. She prefers treating everyone like a servant.
Speaking from experience if you havnt been raised correctly with love and or without neglect. You end up abusing those things that make you feel better in the short term. So I think the last thing Tammy's bothered about is manipulating anyone.
Nice to see Dr. Procter again! 😍
Dr.Proctor is daddy af! Anyway, I'm so happy for Amy. She finally got everything she wanted.
This is an old clip. How is Tammy doing TODAY?
She is in a health rehab centre
@@SHROOMlE Ok , thank you.
Amanda is a real one ❤️
I love how Tammy family loves her.
I hate how Tammy refuses to acknowledge it.
Tammy is like a little child!
Beautiful gift just hopes it changes Tammy for the good
Seeing Dr Proctor hold gage brought a tear to my eye. That must be so vindicating.
she’s legit beautiful despite her weight!
I feel like the family should also see Tammy’s mental state. She seems to just be going through the motion in life as in it is what it is and not what it’s not and her expression of a dream in fact deja vu really brung tears to my eyes. I love Amy’s transformation she’s all giggles happiness and motherhood I love it for her.
Boy oh boy he is a cute doctor Lord makes me warm and fuzzy all over.
was 300 pounds and I've been there. No hope no ambition, and hope she finds something deep down inside to turn it around. Putting in the work is a good thing.
I think Tammy's happy to see herself out.
You and your husband have worked so hard. Keep up the good work momma. You guys are an inspiration for us that change can lead to better. 💞 love how you guys love Gage. Now! Are you PG? Lol. Video stopped short. Can’t wait to hear. Either way you will make it below 200!! You guys are keep up the good work on together with your family! That includes health. 💝💖💪🏼
The title was hilarous and savage when I first read it 😭
These people are such enablers. She literally is such a slave to her addictions that she can't breathe on her own. As someone who has dealt with the loss of several close friends to addiction, everything about these people is so frustrating to watch. No one is saying or doing the right things for these women. I wonder how long before they succumb to their addictions?
We want to see the current. Espisodes not the old ones!!
As Amy steps into the room she looks so pretty!
🤥🤥
Omg I love gage so much such a cutie pie 😩😩😍
I love Tammy x Peole love her and dont want anything to happen to her ❤ But if she wants to live her life they way she wants thats her Decision & she needs to make it no one else xx
. The weight loss journey is real and very difficult. I pray and hope that you can both continue to get better and encourage each other to not give up. Keep pushing each other and hold yourselves accountable. You might inspire others in similar situations to make efforts to improve their lives.
God bless you both.
-PL
I love Amy☺️☺️
Gage is a very cute little guy!!
Tammy knows the truth about her healthy. tammy feel criticize and judge by other ppl. Tammy needs to believe in for yourself.
I miss you guys!!! Your on my bucket list to meet you! Love you guys!!!
THAT’S THE TWELVE TALE SIGN
You remember the little things they helped you along with life's surprises. And my parents are in heaven but their spirit's are always around me when I'm down. My wind chime goes off all the time from both my uncle and dad and all my angles in heaven. So many times me and my son was driving too town and all of a sudden a car pulled out in front of us. But with a quit watch out in my ear we avoided the crash. And my son said mom I'm glad you are driving or we would've died. I always try too drive a little under the speed limit. Cause me and my husband was t- bones by a Ford ranger truck. And it messed our bodies up badly. But that day dad and my farther in law was the angles watching over us. God bless you all throughout your journeys. Prayers are always going out for you all.
Awww Tammy is doing so good rn this episode is old btw
Tammy has been taken care of her whole life, it’s hard to break that because she don’t know how to care for herself
Tammy can live free but her family certainly can not. They have to take care of her.
Amy looks like a young version of my grandma the lazy eye and everything 😂😢
Hahahaha
It's time to walk away from Tammy she'll never change