@@Dub_97 no you absolutely shouldn’t care brother, that was one of my core fears, ocd takes orders from beliefs not you caring or not. My core fear was that maybe God would send me to hell and that society wouldn’t accept me, but by slowly breaking down that fear that even if I was gay it wouldn’t be the end of the world I actually got freedom from that. Ultimate life acceptance has to be applied!
@@Dub_97 this would be compulsive - unfortunately OCD isn’t this simple. It goes for what we want the most , grips and teeth and makes it impossible to just think “I need to live by this value”
for some reason it feels like i actually enjoy the thoughts now idk why and how to fix it, like before when i felt a fake "attraction" to men i would get intense anxiety and now i don't really feel anxious
@@NicolasLopezHerreraI feel you guys to i had such bad anxiety starting. i was panicking everyday i took the mindset of okay whatever now i just don’t know what’s going on. like i still think about my mind now making think oh im attracted to this guy when i know im not but i get feeling down there and im not getting anxiety because i was so use to getting anxiety from a thought. i have a girlfriend she been by my side this whole journey and recovery and recovering slowly i know im not attracted to guys its just thoughts sooner or later i will be thought and free i know im fully 100% straight i will not let my mind or intrusive thoughts or false attraction get to me and change who i really am!
I kissed guy to try this then i came out as bisexual to him and some dorm friends but actually i dont liek men they are ugly i only kissed him even he insist to be in relationship with me ,even called me a homophobe when i refused please help me!!
@@mryuvraj18ifyyeah, it actually works but when my thoughts go crazy when (hey look it's this guy that you could've been, more smart, more cool, and he's looking gay... don't you want to be gay too?) And it freaks me out.
@@JaniumCanium bro just a stupid thought, the gods blessed you with masculinity with a reason! You’re belief in masculinity should be above everything else! You’re a beast and gods want you to live that way! Go conquer the world my friend
Thanks, I'm at that point where I don't obsess much about these thoughts anymore but they still affect me like they did like the day I got them. Though, this December, it's going smoothly. Thanks again. @@mryuvraj18ify
This is so good! I‘m always going into it with the mindset of „I don’t really care if I‘m gay“
Glad you enjoyed it!
@@Dub_97 no you absolutely shouldn’t care brother, that was one of my core fears, ocd takes orders from beliefs not you caring or not. My core fear was that maybe God would send me to hell and that society wouldn’t accept me, but by slowly breaking down that fear that even if I was gay it wouldn’t be the end of the world I actually got freedom from that. Ultimate life acceptance has to be applied!
@@Dub_97 also note that the channel liked the comment 🤣
@@Dub_97 Brother you unfortunately haven’t read the Bible… and if you keep that same mindset you‘ll be stuck forever! I‘m now free ❤️
@@Dub_97 this would be compulsive - unfortunately OCD isn’t this simple. It goes for what we want the most , grips and teeth and makes it impossible to just think “I need to live by this value”
for some reason it feels like i actually enjoy the thoughts now idk why and how to fix it, like before when i felt a fake "attraction" to men i would get intense anxiety and now i don't really feel anxious
Yeah I feel you men, it feels like I enjoy this atractions now, and don't feel anxious about it
Honestly you should get a therapist. I know that there’s a possibility you might be gay but there’s also a possibility HOCD finally convinced you
@@NicolasLopezHerreraI feel you guys to i had such bad anxiety starting. i was panicking everyday i took the mindset of okay whatever now i just don’t know what’s going on. like i still think about my mind now making think oh im attracted to this guy when i know im not but i get feeling down there and im not getting anxiety because i was so use to getting anxiety from a thought. i have a girlfriend she been by my side this whole journey and recovery and recovering slowly i know im not attracted to guys its just thoughts sooner or later i will be thought and free i know im fully 100% straight i will not let my mind or intrusive thoughts or false attraction get to me and change who i really am!
This is soo annoying. I'm just not gay!
I kissed guy to try this then i came out as bisexual to him and some dorm friends but actually i dont liek men they are ugly i only kissed him even he insist to be in relationship with me ,even called me a homophobe when i refused please help me!!
ur not gay or bisexual, if you like women, do that
I have atraction with no anxiety and it feels real
@@Oeieiei827 a lot
@@nicolas19676 are a porn addict if I may ask.
Just to verify something
U are probably gay but see therapist for confirmation
This is so painful...
It’s just a funny thought laugh it out bud
@@mryuvraj18ifyyeah, it actually works but when my thoughts go crazy when
(hey look it's this guy that you could've been, more smart, more cool, and he's looking gay... don't you want to be gay too?)
And it freaks me out.
@@JaniumCanium bro just a stupid thought, the gods blessed you with masculinity with a reason! You’re belief in masculinity should be above everything else! You’re a beast and gods want you to live that way! Go conquer the world my friend
Thanks, I'm at that point where I don't obsess much about these thoughts anymore but they still affect me like they did like the day I got them. Though, this December, it's going smoothly.
Thanks again. @@mryuvraj18ify
@@mryuvraj18ifyunfortunately it’s not that easy bud it tortures the individual I have suffered with this now for 3 years it’s sucks
Not helpful at all..