I was a victim of revenge porn (my ex husband decided to do it after I filled divorce). Most of the content of the videos were false and wasn't me. It was a woman that look a lot like me. He is an IT specialist. This happened 4 years ago and still affecting my self esteem and my anxiety. He published my full name, address, job, and other person info. Legally is very hard to do something and hard to prove that was the person. Girls this can happen to ANY BODY. I am very afraid of things that can happen to others with the AI.
@@miyangtangwan7046 It is. Taylor have the money and legal help to work with this. I feel bad for all the young ladies that have been or will be living a situation like this just because of a bitter man.
AI is extremely scary. Now there is the deep fake corn. I am never going to post pictures of myself. AI and the internet should have never been invented.
If his true nature is to a jerk, the jerk will come out in due course. There’s only so much of a facade one can put on before they revert to their true nature. If his good treatment of her continues then the other ones were just occupying time till he finds the one he truly likes.
@@stubdteauzgautugauxMy question is; Is it not possible that it took him awhile to realize the girl wasn’t a good fit for him? I know I haven’t been able to figure that out right away because I just didn’t have the right information. You don’t always know how to undo the programming quick enough. I am sure the exes are feeling bitter. But it seems to me Travis is just seeking his own level.
@@stubdteauzgautugaux I don’t think anyone on the outside of a couple can do research. I know people have lied about me my whole life. I don’t try to correct anyone’s impression of me I just go on with my life. I don’t try to expose others. I let “karma” do it’s job. I’m not saying that’s the best way but it’s my way. I wouldn’t be surprised if he mistreated women because I don’t believe the hype around celebrities or any individual. He does have a good relationship with his family that he is very proud of. I know many narcissists so I’ve seen that act too. We just can’t know people we don’t know. I’m not against judging people. It’s a really important tool. We should judge people to determine who and what belongs in our life.
Men: "You should have kids! Aren't you scared of dying alone?!" Also Men: "Well it's her fault for gaining weight and becoming unattractive after having a baby so I turned her into a single mom lol"
There is also AI designed to "redignifying" women. Puts on more covering clothes, erases tattoos and piercing. Women who want to show their body are being covered, women who don't want to are being uncovered... It's never about the clothes it seems. I'm not sure if it's still about women even. Just about control.
you also forgot to add that this AI also adds more boobs, smooths skin and changes the shape of the features. Apparently dignified women also have to be prettier for some reason
My running theory about that thing is that it isn’t really about “dignity” or “purity” but really just an excuse to spend hours looking at OF/Insta models, another weird sexual fetish as usual, weirdly managed homosexual impulses, and like you said yourself, control.
I heard there was a young 14yo girl who's classmates made such AI images of her and she ended her life because of it....I cried, these men have no soul.
@@buuny2233 Unfortunately there's probably people who would argue that since it's not "real" (even though it should constitute as a form of child pornography since you are sexualizing a child that exists), it shouldn't be illegal. But these would probably be the same predators who defend the existence of the french film Cuties (2020), the Netflix film that sexploited children because it was 'entertainment' and 'free expression' because the film preaches against the hypersexualization, even though the sexualized children they used convey this message were *real* which negates the entire message of the movie (doing the thing you say you're against to prove how bad it is an absurd and nonsensical approach, and makes you as just bad if not worse than the people you say you're opposed to). The producers, casting directors, and every other adult who had collaborated on that project should have been indicted for child sexual exploitation, along with Netflix. Unfortunately it didn't because Hollywood tends to abuse poorly defined grey areas in law to get away with all sorts of exploitation entertainment, they can pretentiously dress it up as "provoking art", rather than acknowledging the pedophilic exploitative content that it is. They don't call it _Hollyweird_ for no reason, it's run to the brim with predators, pedophiles, and child/adolescent abusers. Additionally, it received more positive reception throughout France and the rest of Europe because pedophilia is more normalized there due to their obsession with 'sexual liberation and free sexual expression' (ie. take a look at their ages of consent). Ideally, U.S. laws should be updated so that child sexploitation in entertainment (film, TV, music, dance, pictures, books, comedy, etc) is not protected by free expression and will face charges. If a grown adult woman can't even go out in public topless in a non-sexualized manner during the summer time when it is burning hot without facing charges of indecent exposure like men can - her rights to free expression revoked (free speech absolutism is childish, purely idealistic, and lacks discernment - by the way), then there's no reason why this [Cuties, AI CP] which is at least a literally thousand times worse, should be allowed.
9:48 this is the same reason toxic men hate on Ciara's husband. He treats her and her son from a previous relationship really well, publically and enthusiastically, without any trace of irony.
This always surprises me because when my parents met, my mom already had a daughter (my older sister) from her previous marriage and my dad didn't mind at all. And no one can ever doubt his self worth or masculinity. Red pill men talk about being confident but then list 3949392 things you shouldn't do in order not to be a simp or "beta"(? or whatever. Healthy men who aren't chronically online don't care about this. Because they are THE REAL confident men who don't need to desperately prove their masculinity to other people!
Another celeb who did this is penn badgley, literally superman, met fell in love with and married his wife when she already had a son. They are still happily together and he REFUSES to perform explicit/numerous/unecessary sx scenes out of respect for his marriage “It's important to me in my real life to not have them,” Badgley added about swearing off sex scenes. “My fidelity in my relationship. It's important to me. And actually, [sex scenes] was one of the reasons that I initially wanted to turn the role down [in 'You']"
Isnt that done by sadist? Grape is an act of sadism if i remember correctly. Purposely harming others and wanting to enact power over them to get off is 100% sadism
Yep it's just about control which is why I think it's so stupid to blame rape on the type of clothes someone wears it doesn't matter if a man wants to rape you he will do so clothes isn't going to stop you from being raped
That one guy who said the woman should be smaller/shorter and fear him because he is stronger and could throw her into the wall sounds dangerous and a total loser. No gentleman would even think of doing that to another human being.
Yeah they have strength but we have something they can never even attempt to even compete with , we give life including their own and it bothers them that they came from a woman because quiet as kept…a thing that came from something can never be greater than what it came from by default, we are greater that’s why they have an obsession with humbling, belittling and reducing us to a level they are at to be their equals. It’s like it bothers them that they came from a woman so instead of projecting their shame onto the woman that birthed them, they direct it at any other woman.
Men might have physical strength but they nowhere near have our mental strength (even tho they tell us that we don’t have it purely because we’re more emotional).
@@Wonderer888 I kind of think ‘better’ contributes to the problem. We are simply different. Men have things we women don’t and visa versa. I agree with everything else you said though.
@veebliss1266 💯 it kind of gives them an illusion of some wierd sense of power when they bully and talk shit about women! It Makes me wonder,if it is completely a mental thing,or a spiritual one. How is it that it feels so empowering to them to do these things? Don't they ever think about these acts when they are alone?
Even if a male is a VP, president, or business owner, you can bet the knives are gonna come out against the woman if his status is threatened. This has happened at every place (Army and construction) I’ve ever worked. They’ll naturally go after the woman, because she’s seen as the weakest “man” in the group. You’ll be the first one these males come to for advice and to do their work for them, but they will stab you in the back when their position is threatened.
As a black women corporate life was so hard. Mainly due to high status but useless usually Caucasian men (but including other races too) who had it easy and women of other races feeling threaten by someone they were groomed to believe was beneath them proving them wrong in real time. Now I’ll be working for myself !
Yep only about two percent of the male population is datable but I guess women are hopeful that we have the one good one and learn the hard way he’s just like all the others
It's insane that there are SO many pretty smart funny kind women out there (that is the average for women really)...all a man has to do is be a GOOD generous loving man and he could have his picking...and yet they REFUSE to. But we are NOT lowering our standards, because that is the only way they even have a CHANCE of learning to be good men. Like elle says, if we give in we are robbing them of self development @@danidiaz2377
@@danidiaz2377 two is quite high 😂After the honeymoon phase, less than 1% are datable. They start to show their consuming, conquering nature after they consider the relationship to be secure.
Bad men choose to remain miserable and bitter while continuing to dunk on women just because they see women as a threat to their male-made hierarchy. Meanwhile, there are good ones that continue to thrive and live relatively peaceful and unbothered. Misogyny is a skill issue.
Its not about a "patriarchy" its about them being weak and unable to fix themselves up to be attractive to women. Its easier to be bitter and blame women, than it is to go to the gym every day and having a succesful job. 😊
It’s so true tho. I once saw profile pic of the ugliest guy and he was saying how this woman was a 3 or a 0 and acting like a 10 or expecting 10 treatment. I was like “SIR! You are a negative 10!”
@@schuylergeery-zink1923 it’s always projection with them. It’s why they like to pit women against each other; they hate how we build each other up as fast as they can tear us down
Today something happened that really made me sick and scared. There was a video where a podcast "bro" said he didn't want to date a muscular woman. I joked with other girls that that bro wouldn't date me, someone who enjoys boxing and Muay Thai, I'm too masculine for him although I enjoy dressing in pink and pilates. Some dude in the comments said I could not overpower anyone being a girl, no matter how skilled I was. But his comment was literally "I would break your face, your bones, and make sure you don't have children again ) - I was sick, and maybe there's a good thing for girls to learn martial arts, these men are really weird trying to "humble women", to the point of unliving women like you preach. Sorry for the long comment I NEEDED TO VENT!
I was joking with friends at some girls tiktok so I wasn't even on those podcast bro pages, just reacting to stuff ... Even when you joke around they still want to humble you@@hollymartinez1911
That's why I have always encouraged other women to learn to fight (I have done 20+ years of martial arts). Kickboxing, BJJ, MT are all great but the best way how to defeat a man is to fight with a staff or a long sword (they lose some of their brute force when they are at a distance...plus, we women are much faster and smarter using weapons). A good punch in the nose or hit in the balls with a staff is the only thing these men understand. Don't get scared!- that exactly what these men want you to feel. Fear will not help you...but confidence in your MA skills will. That's how you win any fight (even before it starts).
Men have greater upper body strength. Artemisia4718 is right! Keep up with your workouts, but also get a Glock 9mm. Women tend to be better shots than men, even without practice. I can annihilate a bullseye with a rifle, Robin-Hooding shot after shot, while my boyfriend can hit everything around it. BTW, he has YEARS of experience, whereas I only have a few sessions at the range.
More like “because they know they can’t be her” Imho a lot of these guys are literally jealous of women and that’s why they’re so angry. They think girls/women have it easy and so they want to make it harder for them, like it’s hard for men. But men are the ones making it hard for themselves 😵💫
They want to believe that an ambitious woman in her 30s can't be happy or offer any value as a partner but that's simply not true. That's why they're mad.
Yes, we have our own money. I'm not rich, I'm 53, my choices are shit man or no man, easy decision, but I have my job, my home, my daughter, my friends, yoga, pilates, my hobbies (dressmaking, clay figures) my brother helps me out if I rarely need help. I am so fine with my own income, savings, I will have a pension. Men hate hate hate that ordinary women don't need to put up with them, that we can assess that the choice is shit man or no man and know that No Man is the obvious answer. None of my friends is about to lift pizza boxes out of the way to get to their gun collection and go on a rampage
This is dangerous thinking. Any man has the potential to harm. There aren't kinds or types of men. Mostly they don't harm when there are consequences if they do.
Unfortunately almost all men oppression, control and dominate. Just look at all the interviews where men feel the need to humble the interviewee. I told a dude that he ruined his teenhood and future for being a teen dad, and guess who came to his rescue? Men. Teen moms are called bad parents, used good goods, the S and the W word but men always get protected from bad judgement.
men, no matter how feminist or mature, would never be able to digest a successful woman, and since now there are many, there is a need in them to prove themselves as alpha...
Point blank, a lot of this is also blatantly political. When Taylor Swift encouraged women to exercise their right to vote on Twitter, she never once told people WHO to vote for, NEVER. However the GOP is acutely aware of the fact that their policies are not very popular with young people and especially young women now that they have severely limited access to reproductive care for millions of women in the United States of America. So, when she encouraged people to vote they automatically stressed out because they were worried that her fan base which is predominantly young women we’re going to register to vote in large numbers, which they did and the last thing the GOP wants is large numbers of young women voting because they know that their policies are very unpopular with a lot of young women. The GOP only wins when voting is restricted as much as possible. The most important Thing you can do as a young woman right now is exercise your right to vote.
While noble right now neither left nor right are friend of women. The left has had decades to solidify body autonomy for women and girls but instead kept it dangling handy for election times. Now look where we are. Nothing w orse than supporting those who'd bury a knife in your back.
Yes and I’m a Libertarian now used to be Democrat. The Dems and GOP play games with our voting rights for their own benefit. I’m sus of both of them. But everyone should register to vote and educate themselves on the issues AND the candidates. Bc I’ve been in a position that if the candidates have similar ideas I will opt for the candidate that gives me good vibes/intuition and usually I’ll opt for the woman bc we need more lady leaders in office to have parity. I won’t vote for a woman that doesn’t align with my principles, but I will always be supportive to her (ie if someone tries to disparage her and I say you go girl! To any lady running for office bc they face more ick than men do. I know bc I ran for office, too).
They did the same with Oprah Winfrey decades ago. Because she had an army of women who'd watch her show, and had influence. So the gop types and men did their best to mock and degrade her as an "ugly" single bitter successful woman.
Elle is spot on. I learned this lesson from an essay called” There is No Heirarchy of Oppression” written by Audre Lord. Supporting that mob mentality of watching or encouraging them to take down any woman is just opening the door for the mob to turn on every woman. I hope all the wives and girlfriends of these males that are celebrating this stuff stick up for Taylor and let the men in their lives know it’s not a joke and it’s not ok because it could happen to anyone including them.
I find it ridiculous chauvinistic and downright misogynistic overtones thrown at every successful woman, to be completely over the top, absolutely ridiculous and more than a little disturbing!
Remember these few things my ladies: 1. Never ask for male validation, validate yourself and that's enough validation. 2. If a man brings you down enter your bad bitch mood, don't take that shit and never laugh or smile when they try to disrespect you (because i have seen some ladies who want to be validated by males and when a guy disrespect them they take it and just smile or get awkward) it's upto you what you wanna do, things i do which make them feel intimidated are: dont say anything just give them a death stare while they are speaking and when they stop roll your eyes say "i dont give a shit" or you can completely ignore them act like they are non existent or if they are crossing the limits say whatever savage stuff you have in your mind and just when they start replying leave. It's better to be alone then being in a group where you have been disrespected and if you are in a group having a one on one with a guy and nobody in the group tries to take your side leave that group no matter what because they are not your real friends if they were they have tried to stop. Again it's better to be alone than being disrespected in a group.
It's not the women's fault for reacting a certain way yes of course it's all good and well but they can hurt us and are crazy so women have to protect themselves as best they can it's not always because they won't do it, it's because they aren't easily capable of reacting the real way they want
My only nit pick about this is that acting openly hostile can get a woman physically assaulted by the man. You'd be surprised how quickly and often people, even other women, will take the man's side if you end up getting hit if they find out you were "reacting with hostility first." Even if the man was being openly insulting toward you.
Why does everyone share a disclaimer that they’re not her fan before showing support for her? It’s like you’re scared of people assuming you’re her fan for standing up for her and it seems counter productive for women’s rights. Not trying to start a fight, just something I’ve been seeing A LOT.
I attended a male highschool, only 3 girls in my class, the guys who we talked to were the most bullied and called gay by the other male classmates, who happened to be the most ugly and vulgar, it was fascinating and sad, they are immature kids in a more powerful body. Another fascinating thing was that they were terrified of me and other girls they didn't even looked at us
It’s getting to the point where I don’t think online corn should exist, if men want to see that stuff they should be forced to go to the corn shop, and buy physical dvds by professional performers.
People choose their addiction, unfortunate internalized self-hatred. It could be corn, cigarettes, alcohol, gambling, toxic relationships, overeating junk food, etc. and banning things just causes black markets (ie: prohibition) so there will always be corn online for those who can find it.
@@schuylergeery-zink1923the difference is that all other stuff demand you go in person and face the consequences. Corn is all in the comfort of your home.
@schuylergeery-zink1923 Also I wouldn't say addictions (not counting toxic relationships and maybe corn) are caused by self hatred (they can be but there are other reasons). Gambling usually falls desperation, the hope (and dopamine) of winning and the sinking ship/sunk cost fallacy (Which is the idea that if you invested a certain amount into something, you have come to far to give up because then you would have wasted the time/effort/money you put into it.) If a person spent £2000 on gambling already then another £10 for the chance to win £100000 doesn't seem like that much. Then when they're £2010 down then another £10 to win the £100000 doesn't seem that bad. (That's how they think) but it adds up (which is how they ended up with £2000 wasted in the first place). Cigarettes and alcohol both have addictive substance in them (nicotine for cigarettes, alcohol is the alcohol) which makes it harder to quit and overeating (any food) can be done for many reasons.
Corn should not exist in the first place the corn industry is literally abusing women and sends not the best message to the people who watch that shii girl
Especially all that fan girling with those jerseys! Like, they won’t adopt our maiden names, but will gladly wear another guys name on their backs! Like Elle said, It’s giving 💅🏼 🌈
This video is so important!!! Also it’s so hilarious to me that men will be like who’s going to PrOteCt you if there's war. Like wtf do they think war is? 9 times out of 10 it’s what happens when men fail to prioritise the peace and safety of their communities because they couldn’t control their egos. That’s literally the opposite of protecting! Like wars are started by grown adults who still don’t know how to solve problems with their words. Also men like the ones who say we need their protection are the first ones in line to r word women when war breaks out. Protect just means keep for themselves as if we’re a resource, not people
spot on, if you look into the war accounts of women soldiers during war r word both women and girls from their own nations and the enemy nations. War is hell for women on both sides of the war regardless if their nations wins or not.
They view her as a threat because she has far more power and influence than they do, and that bothers them to no end. They are power hungry and malicious
That whole bit explained why they want small women, thin women who they can beat if they want, and get away with it. I was so disgusted. I don't know how the woman he talking to didn't gag!🤢🤢🤢
I was a martial artist too. He told me I should quit because I’m learning to defend myself with men. (Close body contact with other men) I understood him and quit. (Also because I wasn’t that comfortable to be that close to men anyways). Then he continued on to abuse me for years. Really miss the days where I used to do arts. The confidence to protect myself wasn’t there either. Usually I just took it and asked him to stop and he shouldn’t act like that. I’m planning to start again if I have the chance. Moral: don’t quit your passion even if it makes sense to do so.
Does anyone remember every man's obsession with Miley Cyrus at one point? She was trying to break free from the "Disney mold". I was still a kid when the horrible trolling and harassment that went on, everyone was dog piling on her, just because she was doing what she liked and was getting successful of off it. It was brutal!
@@pizzadogmatrue true the appropriation was real. She was doing everything she could to distance herself from her childhood image. I wish her team could have found a different way to do that.
@@pizzadogmaThose men and most women degraded her because she was a woman, not because they were so concerned about cultural appropriation. Even if they acknowledged it they mostly used it as an excuse. Discussing and calling out racism is important but so is seeing when it’s just used as a green light to be misogynistic.
Exactly ,stranger men don't see you as a human being. How do I know? In my home city my father owns his bussines and a lot of people know that I'm his daughter. I didn't expirience any other treatment from men then high respect and well mannered men . When I moved to another city to study I felt different male attraction , from older and younger males .. they see you as a lust object drooling behind you like sn animal. Discussting.
Yes they respected your father and knew if they misbehaved they’d be in for it. But I also think now living in a small town that people generally behave better bc it’s your neighbor. Everyone knows each other so if you are disrespectful it gets around and you will be shamed for it.
the point you made about weaker ugly men knowing theyd be next if not for woman applies SO MUCH to my violent ex. he was always vying for male validation and would try to engragiate himself to any man that would tolerate him, and he would try to behave well around them but he struggled to make male friends. He was VILE to women especially me and those women close to him such as his mother. I have a restraining order now, but he did so much damage. And what you said has helped so much to understand more, he KNEW he was an outcast and the only possible power he could have was over women and would disparage women to any man that would listen to feel like he was secure in not being the weakest of all. This man groomed me, was much older and he WAS objectively unattractive, lacked stability, had poor social skills and had achieved little in life. I think he chose me as a victim as when he met me I was so vibrant, independant and adventurous and had just returned from travelling. He think he was jealous of what I was, so he took it away. But I'm getting it back now
what attracted you to him? or what got you to start dating him? did you pitty date him or did he bully/intimidate you into dating him? You dont have to tell me if you dont have to . I am glad you came out of that alive and are building yourself back up. I am only asking because from a young age I learned to learn from others experinecs especially when it comes to men to keep myself as safe as possible. It is partially almost an obsession with me due to not being in romantic relationships with men but having had destructive/volatile men in my family and in my community. Which is why out of principle I never even bat an eye at men who are more then 3 to 5 years older and when i was in my late teens and early 20s I only was interested in guys 1 to 2 years older or younger at most. Maybe because my mother had age gaps in both her destructive and abusive relationship, i grew up with almost a revulsion for older men and also because i look quite young and am small predatory men like to lurk around me especially when I was younger. But yeah, I have learned it is key to avoid men who have too many advantages over you or rather to try and equalise the dynamic ie avoid age gaps or big age gaps, avoid too big of a gap in class/personal resources/income (financial abuse is the Nr.1 go to for abusive men), avoid too much of a gap in intellect/experiences/skills (to avoid codependece, incompatability, or not having the skills and smart to have your own back in case they try to use their skills and intelligence against you). I know it sound horrible to be this calculating and not romantic but one has to be when there are vile animals in the dating pool
Red flag if the man doesn’t have friends 🚩 my husband has more guy friends than I have girl friends. He is well adjusted, respected among his peers, and well-socialized despite being awkward at times (brain injury when he was a kid but he’s a pretty good communicator and very sweet puppy dog vibes). Your man should be invited to weddings and funerals bc of his network. It’s always super sus if a man has no friends and his family is mistreated!
@rene3759 She mentioned it in her comment. He groomed her (manipulated her into getting into a relationship with him when she was too young to know better/know she could say no).
It hurts my soul to see women hate on her too for some stupid reason. It’s so sad seeing women pave way for misogyny just because they think she’s annoying, untalented, or preferred wearing sneakers over high heels in her one song year ago.
Fundies and trads absolutely hate her! She was supposed to be one of them, but she chose to be a self-made billionaire with cats instead. Bad role model for their daughters.
True, even the people who claim to not like her music, I don’t believe. She has so many songs in different genres, I feel like it’s a lie to say you don’t like ONE song. I think there’s something for everyone and I’m not a Swifite, just a casual listener.
Former “not-like-other-girls” anti-Taylor fan here. I see her and respect her so much. 🥰This change happened for me way back when Bad Blood came out because she brought on all these beautiful, strong women and made femininity look kick-ass! Mariska Hargitay appearing as “Justice” still makes me cry. 🥹 Back when it was “Love Story” era, I was anti-pink, but I woke up and realized that I was just being a hater. Yes gurl! Let them have it!
There were a bunch of men defending this vile act as freedom of speech, claiming that they cannot issue legislation against people's imagination. One even said "you cannot control a horny person". It was disgusting to read, and the fact that there were so many who were agreeing with this, or making light of it, just makes me not want to have any men at all in my inner circle.
at the same time, they have the audacity to be in the moral high ground to project and lecture about morals and principles to women (religious or secular)
Thank you for speaking out on this. I have been mistreated by women my whole life. It began with my mother who isolated and abused me. I was and still am beautiful and she hated me for it. I have been confused as to why there has been so much vitriol towards Taylor and Travis. I think your explanation is correct. 🧿
When a daughter hears her father say "I can't believe they keep showing taylor swift on screen! They need to focus on the game" what that daughter is thinking is "i need to make myself small and unassuming in order to fit in" and what a scathingly dangerous thing to say knowingly or unknowingly
That's a stretch. The game isn't about Taylor nor was that hockey game in Canada about Prince Harry. Show the game. Show the performance that's happening. Stop focusing on the audience so much. We didn't tune in to see that - it's like the same thing w/talent contests shows when they show the judges instead of the performer on stage.
@@silververnallbells191 what a short sighted view. The more attention you give it the more money everyone makes. Not just the NFL, but news outlets, UA-camrs, engagement farm Tiktokers. More clicks/views = more profit. You’re right, this has nothing to do with Taylor and everything to do with the public. Stop engaging and the news cycle will move on. But also y’all would actually convince me it wasn’t about her if people weren’t specifically attacking her as a person. If the talking points started and ended with what you just said, it would be obvious it wasn’t hateful.
We all know if women started doing it to men there would be legal consequences. If men were being violated by other men... their worst fear- things would change. Sad, sad, sad.
Travis was am ass to Kayla, so he's not a great man either. He's just great to Taylor because of WHO she is. Lets not be mistaken. The only thing I'd say is, many men are only good to certain types of women, esp if its their dream woman (until they know that she isn't going anywhere ofc). Nonetheless I'm here for the positive reinforcement of good men.
SO TRUE!!! Wish they'd lose their 'mask' sooner. My late dh met me at the summit of my being, caught me, then whittled me down. It always baffled me, the feeling of why did you pick ME?! When you knew i was fire? Now you're mad BECAUSE I'm fire? WTAF It was like someone sticking a racehorse in a stall forever. Then when he was dying my fire came in handy watching out for him. Little did I know. I've got to watch out projecting in the positive.
A mainstream news outlet in Australia used AI to tweak a photo of a female politician who they ideologically disagree with. They used an image almost identical to an offical photo she uses on her website, except they edited it so her breasts looked slightly larger and changed her dress into a crop top so she would look under-dressed for a politician. After blaming AI doing it automatically, the AI company essentially said they cannot make changes without human intervention, meaning the news outlet did it on purpose. The news outlet then apologised. For some reason I just find these very, very subtle changes to a photo far more disturbing and insidious than any overtly explicit deepfake. They also aired these images at prime viewing time.
The comment "they don't see us as humans with agency and feelings and coices. They see us as objects to degrade and plunder" is dead on. I have experienced that for a long time. I saw a documentary, I don't remember either subject or title, but one scene had a transgender (woman to man) who remarked how their testosterone shots actually caused them to view women as less than human. It was fascinating.
Are you freaking serious? No wonder a documentary once mentioned that men with empathy who nurtured their kids and worked closely to support their wives or partners after childbirth reported lower levels of testosterone. Also, men are advised to not have sex before games and matches to keep their levels of testosterone high (oxytocin produce during love making competes with testosterone). There is an entire UA-cam documentary on testosterone. I need to go watch it.
Women have tesosterone too, I wonder how this theory works then. Testosterone is linked with aggression so perhaps it just amplified their prior beliefs about women? They might have adapted misogyny in order to fit in with cis men, I've heard many trans men say they thought that would help them be accepted.
"Guys don't like girls who like football. Guys like girls wearing tight sports jerseys bringing them beers and getting the terminology wrong." Zoey Deutch, "Set It Up"
“This video isn’t about that, ok?… back to the topic-“ 😭 I’m getting so tired of the main points just getting lost in the sauce of obvious disclaimers & side tangents to try to appease the Nellies. You won’t appease them, they thrive on trying to discredit & invalidate. The extra pandering fluff some well meaning youtubers feel they have to include, is so jarring at times. Like if you have a different experience/opinion politely share in the comments and openly discuss with anyone who can be arsed, by all means, it boosts the algorithm after all . That being said, it’s not always about you! Because you didn’t create the video ffs!
@@GrungeGalacticaexactly, it gives ‘I’m main character syndrome.’ Like stfu haha…stay on topic too. If folks wanna go off tangent so much, make their own video ffs
I worked as a lobbyist and even ran for state legislature… Once at a legal clinic I was chatting with the intern who also worked as a page in the legislature. She told me EVERYTHING she knew first hand and from other pages about every Senator’s dirty secrets and the creepers you don’t want to be trapped in a hallway or elevator with 🤢 women tell women what is up to keep us safe! A staffer at the state legislature found out that a senator kept creepy photos of her on his computer. She went to their version of HR/admin and they refused to take action. My lawyer colleague who is a gentleman and committee counsel leaked the controversy to the press and finally the senator resigned due to public outcry. He said it’s unfortunate that the young lady was not taken seriously in her own right and power privately. He says things like “you men should pump gas in the car for your lady” when he gives know your rights presentations. He’s very tall like over 6’, a lawyer, provides for his wife and has two adorable and intelligent children. He takes BOTH his son and daughter hunting and shows them how to use firearms responsibly. He’s a libertarian daddy! He also plays violin and the mandolin and is a gentle soul. Very much “lead from behind” good man vibes. This kind of man would freak any bbmle man out 😂 he gave my husband and I a rifle for our wedding gift :3
Love that you called out these guy hobbies like watching sport also fishing, golf etc as an excuse to hide from their responsibilities for hours. And if we women dare question it, “ah it’s a man thing, you wouldn’t understand” 🙄. I’ve always thought it was fishy that these men invest so much time and emotion, into an outcome they have little to no control over. Yet they’d much rather do that than pour that same energy & quality time into their families. Like isn’t that supposed to be your so called legacy, bro? Not to mention the violence, boozing & misogyny of football hooliganism, (I’m from the UK) that we’re just all supposed to accept “cause football innit”; is nuts. As women we do need to have each others backs. We’re all unified in the struggle after all. So many men will blindly fight for some guy they don’t even know, but because they’re a man, the troops are ready. We need to adopt this method for ourselves. Another eye opening video Elle ❤
Another excellent video. I lol at your mob extortion racket example i have been saying exactly that for years. Also i saw a tweet that said how Travis got a $70k bonus for one of his football games so no wonder Taylor is with him (gold digger) 😂😂😂 her cat is worth more than her boyfriend. Taylor probably made 70k in the time it took "something something alpha male" to write that tweet. Pathetic! Keep up the good work.
This is so true. I hate when women are pitted against each other instead of becoming sisters and friends, especially in TV and movies. And more need to be aware they are helping the XYs by continuing to engage in that kind of behavior
ugh i needed this video yesterday!! i literally wrote an essay for my english class about nasty little men and used two of your videos as references and this one would’ve been a nice plus😅 i love all your videos though and your message is so helpful to younger girls like me so tysm for what you dooo
I mean, some men were raised to believe that all it takes is to show women the bare minimum of human decency and in exchange women should feel so grateful for it that they should be at their feet, just for being treated like a human being. A lot of them think that as long as a guy has some sort of access to the woman he desires he should be able to have her.
Thank you so much for your work! Just today I had a grossest interaction with a taxi driver. It was literally this situation you explained here. Small man making women feel small, so they could feel better about their loser selves. Fuck no
I don't understand why she gets so much hate! And the way they dragged her online with those photos is disgusting! It's just crazy how there were so many comments(from men) saying the creator who generated and publicly shared those photos cannot be sued because it is 'just Ai' and her image is 'free use.'!!!!! I hope that is not true! That was plain evil! And the same men bashing her were the same men proudly saying how they have saved all the images on their phones!!! . Around that time,I even saw one Ai generated photo of Celine Dion,being mocked for having a disease!!!i am just happy for her,after seeing her grammy photos,she looked healthy and recovering.. Everyday,these men are reaching a higher level of appalling!
13:59 about that - I remember seeing sooo many girls saying somewhere is tthe comment section "when you realise that he could choke you to death any second, but somehow he doesn't " was lways insane... why they even thought about such things??
12:23 THIS!!!! Never thought about it like that. It’s healthy to have hobbies outside of your family. But growing up in the Midwest men took this to the extreme; I saw many of my friends neglected by their fathers because they were more concerned about the success of their fantasy football team than spending time with their children. I’m excited for a new generation of sports fans to share their spaces with different types of people. This will only make them stronger, if they had brain cells they would see the clout that’s being transferred to their brands.
Yes a man can leave for several days to race cars or spend hours and hours on fantasy football, but when I ask my sister if she’s had a few hours to herself this month taking care of a toddler she’s like ummm no.
Hey Manifestelle, if it's alright with you, can you do a video of older men obsessed with younger women in college? If you haven't made yet! It would mean a lot to me to understand what I'm feeling better because I see women still defending them and it terrifies me to see them seeing nothing wrong with these older men. Hope you have a good day!
Most young women/girls don't have much experience, so it is easier for men to impress them and some men also believe that they can "train" the woman to be as they want them to be.
The craziest thing is that if someone talked about men in that way as no matter how successful they were they are still men and let us remind them of this this men would talk about all of the systems of oppression the school system not being fair and so on the hypocrisy is so apparent.
Travis Kelce isn’t a good man either. He threatened his coach and pushed him, this is a huge red flag of domestic abusers. Some men pretend to be a good guy to get what they want, then treat them like shit in private.
My bf and I went to a sports bar to watch the ravens vs chiefs game. We’re from bmore, so people were pretty hyped up and biased towards the ravens. When things started going south for the ravens, the men (majority sitting at the bar) started getting super pissed. My bf said he overheard the guy next to him say he was going to “get her and bend her over” amongst a bunch of other really demeaning and just graphic things. He wasn’t the only guy saying these kinds of things either. Some of the men there had girlfriends and we’re getting mad at her too, despite being with their gfs. Really weird and just uncomfortable. We left early, needless to say
the fact there are people in this world, that hate her SO MUCH, for no other reason than just to HATE - that would do this? Now, listen, I heard tons of rumors there were specific pictures generated to make it looked like she was getting assaulted, and i take it with a grain of salt because 1.) i will not search for these images. and 2.) people tend to spread rumors. BUT it doesn't make any of this okay. Especially considering the fact the hate towards her from these people DOES come off as violent. (i used to be someone like that, so it's also coming from experience. when she got 'cancelled' by kim and kanye, i was delusional enough to be HAPPY) people are allowed to not be a fan of her music. we all have opinions. but take it from a former hater. if you come across someone who has no merit behind their dislike, run, and run FAR. it is NOT NORMAL to hate a random person that much
It is sad to think that this is actually the world we live in. Nevertheless, it's good that we are all waking up to this now. Thank you for opening my eyes 🙏💕
This situation reminds me of the big deep fake problem that happened to a lot of female content creators. I hope more people realize that, truly, nobody is safe. Taylor Swift’s fans represent an interesting demographic, as she speaks to so many women of many different ages. I hate that she was victimized, but hope this at least opens people’s eyes. At the very least, it’s a good litmus test for the men in our lives. Ask them how they feel about the situation and then let them cook.
I especially don’t understand why you would hate on Taylor Swift if her public platform is benefitting football. Women are often the community builders, are they not? A smart move wouldn’t be to shame women for showing interest in your community. I understand wanting your own space, wanting boys nights and girls nights, that sort of thing. But do they really think no woman watches football? Have they not been to the South in the US? my state is honestly divided between Clemson Tigers and USC Gamecocks. It’s a huge thing
*Wow, you are such a sh*tty option that the world has to be near ending for women to even consider you.* 11:40 OMG YES, I love that and will remember it for the next time this ridiculous point gets brought up. This was one of your best videos btw! 👏🏻
There is something that I've learned from this and is: women shouldn't want to participate in male dominant areas that much. Why? Because you are showing them that they matter. That what they do is cool (like football). I think that using dark psychology and making it seem like is not that deep, interesting or important would kick their ego. And it would make you feel more feminine.
Well I was wondering about that nuance of privileged men lol. I just wanted to understand more how they fit in the totem pole because I know when I talk about low status men harming women, I know what to say when people say “we’ll what high status men” their questions can get me confused and I need to stay on top of the points. So thank you for pointing out the nuances!
Even a man who has a lot externally may not have much internally and this kind of dissonance… no matter how much money or influence someone has that doesn’t account for their SPIRIT or emotional maturity or other issues. Ie someone can be stingy whether they are rich or poor. Someone can be violent whether they are rich or poor. But a rich man has more to lose in influence and money if society frowns on violence, so he will be better at hiding it or bribing people to stay silent than go off on the internet or publicly. He’s spending his time making money, not coming after women in the comments section. But behind closed doors? That’s a different matter.
Elle what are your thoughts on twitter women thirsting over Victoria Monet's husband for simply picking up their daughter during the grammy's? I saw it and I just remembered what you said about the bare minimum.
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I was a victim of revenge porn (my ex husband decided to do it after I filled divorce). Most of the content of the videos were false and wasn't me. It was a woman that look a lot like me. He is an IT specialist. This happened 4 years ago and still affecting my self esteem and my anxiety. He published my full name, address, job, and other person info. Legally is very hard to do something and hard to prove that was the person.
Girls this can happen to ANY BODY. I am very afraid of things that can happen to others with the AI.
Thank you for sharing 🥺🫶🏽
This is heartbreaking.
@@miyangtangwan7046 It is. Taylor have the money and legal help to work with this. I feel bad for all the young ladies that have been or will be living a situation like this just because of a bitter man.
This man belongs in prison.
AI is extremely scary. Now there is the deep fake corn. I am never going to post pictures of myself. AI and the internet should have never been invented.
"Men who feel inferior to other men are always the most anxious to assert their superiority over women" -Mary Wollstonecraft
Except they’re not superior over women either is the issue.
I don't see Turnbull as genuine as he has mistreated his black girlfriends, but treats the hwhite woman with respect
If his true nature is to a jerk, the jerk will come out in due course. There’s only so much of a facade one can put on before they revert to their true nature. If his good treatment of her continues then the other ones were just occupying time till he finds the one he truly likes.
@@Wonderer888 If you're using someone to occupy your time (5 years), you are a jerk.
@@stubdteauzgautugauxMy question is; Is it not possible that it took him awhile to realize the girl wasn’t a good fit for him? I know I haven’t been able to figure that out right away because I just didn’t have the right information. You don’t always know how to undo the programming quick enough. I am sure the exes are feeling bitter. But it seems to me Travis is just seeking his own level.
@@brigitte9999 please do research on how he treated them.
@@stubdteauzgautugaux I don’t think anyone on the outside of a couple can do research. I know people have lied about me my whole life. I don’t try to correct anyone’s impression of me I just go on with my life. I don’t try to expose others. I let “karma” do it’s job. I’m not saying that’s the best way but it’s my way. I wouldn’t be surprised if he mistreated women because I don’t believe the hype around celebrities or any individual. He does have a good relationship with his family that he is very proud of. I know many narcissists so I’ve seen that act too. We just can’t know people we don’t know. I’m not against judging people. It’s a really important tool. We should judge people to determine who and what belongs in our life.
This is your most powerful one so far 🤎
Men: "You should have kids! Aren't you scared of dying alone?!"
Also Men: "Well it's her fault for gaining weight and becoming unattractive after having a baby so I turned her into a single mom lol"
REAL.
Or
Men : should've picked better 😂 now you're a single mom and struggling.
Also men: lower your standards
Male logic
Seriously like the boy math is crazy
Boy Math is Crazy😂😂😂😂
@@gitanefilleI'm a guy but that's funny as hell 🤣😂.
These men truly underestimated Taylor and her own desire for vengeance against men that hurt her. (That's her brand.) They are in for a wild ride.
I'm buckling in. Go taylor
Yeah they picked the wrong woman to mess with for sure.
I don't like her music, but I will root for her in this court case til the cows come home.
There is also AI designed to "redignifying" women. Puts on more covering clothes, erases tattoos and piercing. Women who want to show their body are being covered, women who don't want to are being uncovered... It's never about the clothes it seems. I'm not sure if it's still about women even. Just about control.
you also forgot to add that this AI also adds more boobs, smooths skin and changes the shape of the features. Apparently dignified women also have to be prettier for some reason
Couldn’t agree more with your comment.
It's always about control
My running theory about that thing is that it isn’t really about “dignity” or “purity” but really just an excuse to spend hours looking at OF/Insta models, another weird sexual fetish as usual, weirdly managed homosexual impulses, and like you said yourself, control.
It seems at this point that it’s about traumatising people or make them traumatise each other
I heard there was a young 14yo girl who's classmates made such AI images of her and she ended her life because of it....I cried, these men have no soul.
I wonder why there wasn't a bigger stink about that. They technically made AI CP, which is illegal
@@buuny2233Boys will be boys eh?
@@buuny2233 Unfortunately there's probably people who would argue that since it's not "real" (even though it should constitute as a form of child pornography since you are sexualizing a child that exists), it shouldn't be illegal. But these would probably be the same predators who defend the existence of the french film Cuties (2020), the Netflix film that sexploited children because it was 'entertainment' and 'free expression' because the film preaches against the hypersexualization, even though the sexualized children they used convey this message were *real* which negates the entire message of the movie (doing the thing you say you're against to prove how bad it is an absurd and nonsensical approach, and makes you as just bad if not worse than the people you say you're opposed to). The producers, casting directors, and every other adult who had collaborated on that project should have been indicted for child sexual exploitation, along with Netflix. Unfortunately it didn't because Hollywood tends to abuse poorly defined grey areas in law to get away with all sorts of exploitation entertainment, they can pretentiously dress it up as "provoking art", rather than acknowledging the pedophilic exploitative content that it is. They don't call it _Hollyweird_ for no reason, it's run to the brim with predators, pedophiles, and child/adolescent abusers. Additionally, it received more positive reception throughout France and the rest of Europe because pedophilia is more normalized there due to their obsession with 'sexual liberation and free sexual expression' (ie. take a look at their ages of consent). Ideally, U.S. laws should be updated so that child sexploitation in entertainment (film, TV, music, dance, pictures, books, comedy, etc) is not protected by free expression and will face charges. If a grown adult woman can't even go out in public topless in a non-sexualized manner during the summer time when it is burning hot without facing charges of indecent exposure like men can - her rights to free expression revoked (free speech absolutism is childish, purely idealistic, and lacks discernment - by the way), then there's no reason why this [Cuties, AI CP] which is at least a literally thousand times worse, should be allowed.
god I hate that phrase so much @@rejectionisprotection4448
9:48 this is the same reason toxic men hate on Ciara's husband. He treats her and her son from a previous relationship really well, publically and enthusiastically, without any trace of irony.
This always surprises me because when my parents met, my mom already had a daughter (my older sister) from her previous marriage and my dad didn't mind at all. And no one can ever doubt his self worth or masculinity.
Red pill men talk about being confident but then list 3949392 things you shouldn't do in order not to be a simp or "beta"(? or whatever.
Healthy men who aren't chronically online don't care about this. Because they are THE REAL confident men who don't need to desperately prove their masculinity to other people!
@@valeriab4100 we men aren't pick me's and we are decentering wmn, treating anyone with affection is pick me energy.
Another celeb who did this is penn badgley, literally superman, met fell in love with and married his wife when she already had a son. They are still happily together and he REFUSES to perform explicit/numerous/unecessary sx scenes out of respect for his marriage
“It's important to me in my real life to not have them,” Badgley added about swearing off sex scenes. “My fidelity in my relationship. It's important to me. And actually, [sex scenes] was one of the reasons that I initially wanted to turn the role down [in 'You']"
@@tracythorn2337 I don't understand what you're trying to say in your comment.
@@tracythorn2337did your Mom hug you?
They exclude women and are surprised that they are now alone with no woman 😂
They can’t seem to create their own SELF-esteem without using another body as an object. It needs to be studied more.
@@LoneWulf278 Sam Vaknin explains their behaviors in his videos.
That's why they're invading our spaces now.
@@reedy_9619bathrooms, spas, women support groups, changing rooms, women gyms, women only music festivals, women movie screening the list goes on :)
They dont exculde women, they get rejected by women and bitterness is easier than working on themselves.
I actually think this is what drives some rapists too. They want to take you down because they think you think too much of yourself.
Isnt that done by sadist? Grape is an act of sadism if i remember correctly.
Purposely harming others and wanting to enact power over them to get off is 100% sadism
Yep it's just about control which is why I think it's so stupid to blame rape on the type of clothes someone wears it doesn't matter if a man wants to rape you he will do so clothes isn't going to stop you from being raped
@@Genesisorgin Stupid is an understatement. Blaming rape on clothing is predatory and uncivilized.
That one guy who said the woman should be smaller/shorter and fear him because he is stronger and could throw her into the wall sounds dangerous and a total loser. No gentleman would even think of doing that to another human being.
i find it weird that a species with god given physical strength find women threatening, like why are these men obsessed with us failing
Yeah they have strength but we have something they can never even attempt to even compete with , we give life including their own and it bothers them that they came from a woman because quiet as kept…a thing that came from something can never be greater than what it came from by default, we are greater that’s why they have an obsession with humbling, belittling and reducing us to a level they are at to be their equals. It’s like it bothers them that they came from a woman so instead of projecting their shame onto the woman that birthed them, they direct it at any other woman.
their ego is fragile that's why
Men might have physical strength but they nowhere near have our mental strength (even tho they tell us that we don’t have it purely because we’re more emotional).
@@Wonderer888 I kind of think ‘better’ contributes to the problem. We are simply different. Men have things we women don’t and visa versa. I agree with everything else you said though.
It's in their nature to compete
Insecure men need to work on themselves instead of trying to bully women.
They GET OFF on bullying !!!! They are sadistic and NOT going to stop
@@veebliss1266 typical psychopathic people do that. More awareness on that needs to be taught to women
YESSSS‼️👏🏼💯
@veebliss1266 💯 it kind of gives them an illusion of some wierd sense of power when they bully and talk shit about women! It Makes me wonder,if it is completely a mental thing,or a spiritual one. How is it that it feels so empowering to them to do these things? Don't they ever think about these acts when they are alone?
Will never happen.
Even if a male is a VP, president, or business owner, you can bet the knives are gonna come out against the woman if his status is threatened. This has happened at every place (Army and construction) I’ve ever worked. They’ll naturally go after the woman, because she’s seen as the weakest “man” in the group. You’ll be the first one these males come to for advice and to do their work for them, but they will stab you in the back when their position is threatened.
As a black women corporate life was so hard. Mainly due to high status but useless usually Caucasian men (but including other races too) who had it easy and women of other races feeling threaten by someone they were groomed to believe was beneath them proving them wrong in real time. Now I’ll be working for myself !
I think a man who is high status in moral/spiritual/ emotional sense will never degrade women no matter what his finances are.
Unicorns
@@anka6356 for real
Yep only about two percent of the male population is datable but I guess women are hopeful that we have the one good one and learn the hard way he’s just like all the others
It's insane that there are SO many pretty smart funny kind women out there (that is the average for women really)...all a man has to do is be a GOOD generous loving man and he could have his picking...and yet they REFUSE to. But we are NOT lowering our standards, because that is the only way they even have a CHANCE of learning to be good men. Like elle says, if we give in we are robbing them of self development @@danidiaz2377
@@danidiaz2377 two is quite high 😂After the honeymoon phase, less than 1% are datable. They start to show their consuming, conquering nature after they consider the relationship to be secure.
Bad men choose to remain miserable and bitter while continuing to dunk on women just because they see women as a threat to their male-made hierarchy. Meanwhile, there are good ones that continue to thrive and live relatively peaceful and unbothered. Misogyny is a skill issue.
MISOGYNY IS A SKILL ISSUE omg that’s funny fr
MISOGYNY IS A SKILL ISSUE
😂yes let's bring back the skill issue thing ❤🎉#MISOGYNY IS A SKILL ISSUE
Your comment made me like Woww..so very true!!!👏
Its not about a "patriarchy" its about them being weak and unable to fix themselves up to be attractive to women. Its easier to be bitter and blame women, than it is to go to the gym every day and having a succesful job. 😊
“The men who look like they snuck onto earth” took me out 🤣🤣🤣
It’s so true tho. I once saw profile pic of the ugliest guy and he was saying how this woman was a 3 or a 0 and acting like a 10 or expecting 10 treatment. I was like “SIR! You are a negative 10!”
@@schuylergeery-zink1923 it’s always projection with them. It’s why they like to pit women against each other; they hate how we build each other up as fast as they can tear us down
Wow, I think the same way about certain guys sneaking on earth. Let's just call them "phantom males" or...a "Sneaks" or "sneak."
"Sneak weasles"
Today something happened that really made me sick and scared. There was a video where a podcast "bro" said he didn't want to date a muscular woman. I joked with other girls that that bro wouldn't date me, someone who enjoys boxing and Muay Thai, I'm too masculine for him although I enjoy dressing in pink and pilates. Some dude in the comments said I could not overpower anyone being a girl, no matter how skilled I was. But his comment was literally "I would break your face, your bones, and make sure you don't have children again ) - I was sick, and maybe there's a good thing for girls to learn martial arts, these men are really weird trying to "humble women", to the point of unliving women like you preach. Sorry for the long comment I NEEDED TO VENT!
Sounds like he felt threatened. What a sad, sick little man. Sorry this happened to you.
I was joking with friends at some girls tiktok so I wasn't even on those podcast bro pages, just reacting to stuff ... Even when you joke around they still want to humble you@@hollymartinez1911
“Men like you are what guns are made for”
That's why I have always encouraged other women to learn to fight (I have done 20+ years of martial arts). Kickboxing, BJJ, MT are all great but the best way how to defeat a man is to fight with a staff or a long sword (they lose some of their brute force when they are at a distance...plus, we women are much faster and smarter using weapons). A good punch in the nose or hit in the balls with a staff is the only thing these men understand. Don't get scared!- that exactly what these men want you to feel. Fear will not help you...but confidence in your MA skills will. That's how you win any fight (even before it starts).
Men have greater upper body strength. Artemisia4718 is right! Keep up with your workouts, but also get a Glock 9mm. Women tend to be better shots than men, even without practice. I can annihilate a bullseye with a rifle, Robin-Hooding shot after shot, while my boyfriend can hit everything around it. BTW, he has YEARS of experience, whereas I only have a few sessions at the range.
The men degraded Ms. Swift, because they know that they cannot have her.
Just like they did to Marilyn Monroe after her death. Men who couldn't get near her in life desecrated her body in death.
More like “because they know they can’t be her” Imho a lot of these guys are literally jealous of women and that’s why they’re so angry. They think girls/women have it easy and so they want to make it harder for them, like it’s hard for men. But men are the ones making it hard for themselves 😵💫
@@rejectionisprotection4448Can you explain what happened? Thank you!
They want to believe that an ambitious woman in her 30s can't be happy or offer any value as a partner but that's simply not true. That's why they're mad.
Yes, we have our own money. I'm not rich, I'm 53, my choices are shit man or no man, easy decision, but I have my job, my home, my daughter, my friends, yoga, pilates, my hobbies (dressmaking, clay figures) my brother helps me out if I rarely need help. I am so fine with my own income, savings, I will have a pension. Men hate hate hate that ordinary women don't need to put up with them, that we can assess that the choice is shit man or no man and know that No Man is the obvious answer. None of my friends is about to lift pizza boxes out of the way to get to their gun collection and go on a rampage
Good men NEVER try to hurt or manipulate a woman. There’s good men, and there’s bad. No in between.
Most m3n act the same when they realise that they can’t access a woman that they have set their sights on.
This is dangerous thinking. Any man has the potential to harm. There aren't kinds or types of men. Mostly they don't harm when there are consequences if they do.
@@manifest2203 They were never good men in the first place
Unfortunately almost all men oppression, control and dominate. Just look at all the interviews where men feel the need to humble the interviewee. I told a dude that he ruined his teenhood and future for being a teen dad, and guess who came to his rescue? Men. Teen moms are called bad parents, used good goods, the S and the W word but men always get protected from bad judgement.
@@Celeste-cc3hu yep.
Her power infuriates and scares the hell out of them and her whole brand is so clearly not centered on them. It’s WONDERFUL.
men, no matter how feminist or mature, would never be able to digest a successful woman, and since now there are many, there is a need in them to prove themselves as alpha...
Not all right ?
Point blank, a lot of this is also blatantly political. When Taylor Swift encouraged women to exercise their right to vote on Twitter, she never once told people WHO to vote for, NEVER. However the GOP is acutely aware of the fact that their policies are not very popular with young people and especially young women now that they have severely limited access to reproductive care for millions of women in the United States of America. So, when she encouraged people to vote they automatically stressed out because they were worried that her fan base which is predominantly young women we’re going to register to vote in large numbers, which they did and the last thing the GOP wants is large numbers of young women voting because they know that their policies are very unpopular with a lot of young women. The GOP only wins when voting is restricted as much as possible. The most important Thing you can do as a young woman right now is exercise your right to vote.
While noble right now neither left nor right are friend of women.
The left has had decades to solidify body autonomy for women and girls but instead kept it dangling handy for election times. Now look where we are.
Nothing w orse than supporting those who'd bury a knife in your back.
Yes and I’m a Libertarian now used to be Democrat. The Dems and GOP play games with our voting rights for their own benefit. I’m sus of both of them. But everyone should register to vote and educate themselves on the issues AND the candidates. Bc I’ve been in a position that if the candidates have similar ideas I will opt for the candidate that gives me good vibes/intuition and usually I’ll opt for the woman bc we need more lady leaders in office to have parity. I won’t vote for a woman that doesn’t align with my principles, but I will always be supportive to her (ie if someone tries to disparage her and I say you go girl! To any lady running for office bc they face more ick than men do. I know bc I ran for office, too).
They did the same with Oprah Winfrey decades ago. Because she had an army of women who'd watch her show, and had influence. So the gop types and men did their best to mock and degrade her as an "ugly" single bitter successful woman.
The more I go though the video the more you verbalize things i thought about for a long time but couldn't express with words, thank you!
Thank you 🥹🥹
Same
Elle is spot on. I learned this lesson from an essay called” There is No Heirarchy of Oppression” written by Audre Lord. Supporting that mob mentality of watching or encouraging them to take down any woman is just opening the door for the mob to turn on every woman. I hope all the wives and girlfriends of these males that are celebrating this stuff stick up for Taylor and let the men in their lives know it’s not a joke and it’s not ok because it could happen to anyone including them.
But why is it always the women that have to fight the men should just not be horrible smh apparently it's asking for too much
@@alexusskIt is, unfortunately.
These men are getting out of line
Born out of line
They are never in line 😂
I find it ridiculous chauvinistic and downright misogynistic overtones thrown at every successful woman, to be completely over the top, absolutely ridiculous and more than a little disturbing!
Remember these few things my ladies:
1. Never ask for male validation, validate yourself and that's enough validation.
2. If a man brings you down enter your bad bitch mood, don't take that shit and never laugh or smile when they try to disrespect you (because i have seen some ladies who want to be validated by males and when a guy disrespect them they take it and just smile or get awkward) it's upto you what you wanna do, things i do which make them feel intimidated are: dont say anything just give them a death stare while they are speaking and when they stop roll your eyes say "i dont give a shit" or you can completely ignore them act like they are non existent or if they are crossing the limits say whatever savage stuff you have in your mind and just when they start replying leave.
It's better to be alone then being in a group where you have been disrespected and if you are in a group having a one on one with a guy and nobody in the group tries to take your side leave that group no matter what because they are not your real friends if they were they have tried to stop.
Again it's better to be alone than being disrespected in a group.
It's not the women's fault for reacting a certain way yes of course it's all good and well but they can hurt us and are crazy so women have to protect themselves as best they can it's not always because they won't do it, it's because they aren't easily capable of reacting the real way they want
My only nit pick about this is that acting openly hostile can get a woman physically assaulted by the man. You'd be surprised how quickly and often people, even other women, will take the man's side if you end up getting hit if they find out you were "reacting with hostility first." Even if the man was being openly insulting toward you.
Not a fan of her music in general but can we talk about how amazing it is to see right wing men absolutely terrified of this powerful woman?
The fear does nothing but polarize them more and make them act more hateful, so what are we really winning at here?
yesssss
@@lilyofthelabyrinthwhat I read here is "let's stay small so we are safe"
How dare a woman to be powerful, right.
I don't like her music either but i heard she is one of the kindest, sweetest celeb out there :)
Why does everyone share a disclaimer that they’re not her fan before showing support for her? It’s like you’re scared of people assuming you’re her fan for standing up for her and it seems counter productive for women’s rights. Not trying to start a fight, just something I’ve been seeing A LOT.
I attended a male highschool, only 3 girls in my class, the guys who we talked to were the most bullied and called gay by the other male classmates, who happened to be the most ugly and vulgar, it was fascinating and sad, they are immature kids in a more powerful body. Another fascinating thing was that they were terrified of me and other girls they didn't even looked at us
It’s getting to the point where I don’t think online corn should exist, if men want to see that stuff they should be forced to go to the corn shop, and buy physical dvds by professional performers.
People choose their addiction, unfortunate internalized self-hatred. It could be corn, cigarettes, alcohol, gambling, toxic relationships, overeating junk food, etc. and banning things just causes black markets (ie: prohibition) so there will always be corn online for those who can find it.
@@schuylergeery-zink1923 I didn’t say ban corn, I just said it can’t be allowed online for free.
@@schuylergeery-zink1923the difference is that all other stuff demand you go in person and face the consequences. Corn is all in the comfort of your home.
@schuylergeery-zink1923
Also I wouldn't say addictions (not counting toxic relationships and maybe corn) are caused by self hatred (they can be but there are other reasons).
Gambling usually falls desperation, the hope (and dopamine) of winning and the sinking ship/sunk cost fallacy
(Which is the idea that if you invested a certain amount into something, you have come to far to give up because then you would have wasted the time/effort/money you put into it.)
If a person spent £2000 on gambling already then another £10 for the chance to win £100000 doesn't seem like that much. Then when they're £2010 down then another £10 to win the £100000 doesn't seem that bad. (That's how they think) but it adds up (which is how they ended up with £2000 wasted in the first place).
Cigarettes and alcohol both have addictive substance in them (nicotine for cigarettes, alcohol is the alcohol) which makes it harder to quit and overeating (any food) can be done for many reasons.
Corn should not exist in the first place the corn industry is literally abusing women and sends not the best message to the people who watch that shii girl
Especially all that fan girling with those jerseys! Like, they won’t adopt our maiden names, but will gladly wear another guys name on their backs! Like Elle said, It’s giving 💅🏼 🌈
This video is so important!!! Also it’s so hilarious to me that men will be like who’s going to PrOteCt you if there's war. Like wtf do they think war is? 9 times out of 10 it’s what happens when men fail to prioritise the peace and safety of their communities because they couldn’t control their egos. That’s literally the opposite of protecting! Like wars are started by grown adults who still don’t know how to solve problems with their words. Also men like the ones who say we need their protection are the first ones in line to r word women when war breaks out. Protect just means keep for themselves as if we’re a resource, not people
spot on, if you look into the war accounts of women soldiers during war r word both women and girls from their own nations and the enemy nations. War is hell for women on both sides of the war regardless if their nations wins or not.
Spot on!
@@rene3759 exactly!!
They view her as a threat because she has far more power and influence than they do, and that bothers them to no end. They are power hungry and malicious
I do like a man larger than me as a sexual preference. But I'm also a martial artist and could flip a man twice my size.
Please educate them.
That whole bit explained why they want small women, thin women who they can beat if they want, and get away with it. I was so disgusted. I don't know how the woman he talking to didn't gag!🤢🤢🤢
@@mstoni269 oh yeah it's not news
I was a martial artist too. He told me I should quit because I’m learning to defend myself with men. (Close body contact with other men) I understood him and quit. (Also because I wasn’t that comfortable to be that close to men anyways).
Then he continued on to abuse me for years.
Really miss the days where I used to do arts. The confidence to protect myself wasn’t there either. Usually I just took it and asked him to stop and he shouldn’t act like that.
I’m planning to start again if I have the chance.
Moral: don’t quit your passion even if it makes sense to do so.
@@JustMe-vs1kj start again!! you're an inspiration to women like me, i wish i had a background in self defence!
“who look like they snuck into earth” I am dead. Deceased. 😂
Does anyone remember every man's obsession with Miley Cyrus at one point? She was trying to break free from the "Disney mold". I was still a kid when the horrible trolling and harassment that went on, everyone was dog piling on her, just because she was doing what she liked and was getting successful of off it. It was brutal!
She was still a kid too. All that ire these grown men had her for her was repulsive.
At least she finally got her flowers last night 😌💓
Miley did all that at the expense of black culture so idk if she is a good person
@@pizzadogmatrue true the appropriation was real. She was doing everything she could to distance herself from her childhood image. I wish her team could have found a different way to do that.
@@pizzadogmaThose men and most women degraded her because she was a woman, not because they were so concerned about cultural appropriation. Even if they acknowledged it they mostly used it as an excuse. Discussing and calling out racism is important but so is seeing when it’s just used as a green light to be misogynistic.
Exactly ,stranger men don't see you as a human being. How do I know? In my home city my father owns his bussines and a lot of people know that I'm his daughter. I didn't expirience any other treatment from men then high respect and well mannered men . When I moved to another city to study I felt different male attraction , from older and younger males .. they see you as a lust object drooling behind you like sn animal. Discussting.
and if they leave you alone because you have a boyfriend, it's not to respect you, it's to respect the man who owns you. That's how they see it.
They felt like that in your home city too. They just knew better than to display it because of the relationship.
Yes they respected your father and knew if they misbehaved they’d be in for it. But I also think now living in a small town that people generally behave better bc it’s your neighbor. Everyone knows each other so if you are disrespectful it gets around and you will be shamed for it.
Watching football is covert homosexuality.
Hating and degrading women is covert homosexuality.
Just date each other already!
Like it’s 2024, be who you AREEEEE FOR YOUR PRIDEEEEEEEE 🌈🏳️🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜👨❤️💋👨👨❤️💋👨👨❤️💋👨👨❤️💋👨👨❤️💋👨
Its so obvious at this point.
This!
Yassss mamaaa slayyyyyy🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Wait explain the football comment… but agree with the rest lol
the point you made about weaker ugly men knowing theyd be next if not for woman applies SO MUCH to my violent ex. he was always vying for male validation and would try to engragiate himself to any man that would tolerate him, and he would try to behave well around them but he struggled to make male friends. He was VILE to women especially me and those women close to him such as his mother. I have a restraining order now, but he did so much damage. And what you said has helped so much to understand more, he KNEW he was an outcast and the only possible power he could have was over women and would disparage women to any man that would listen to feel like he was secure in not being the weakest of all. This man groomed me, was much older and he WAS objectively unattractive, lacked stability, had poor social skills and had achieved little in life. I think he chose me as a victim as when he met me I was so vibrant, independant and adventurous and had just returned from travelling. He think he was jealous of what I was, so he took it away. But I'm getting it back now
what attracted you to him? or what got you to start dating him? did you pitty date him or did he bully/intimidate you into dating him? You dont have to tell me if you dont have to . I am glad you came out of that alive and are building yourself back up. I am only asking because from a young age I learned to learn from others experinecs especially when it comes to men to keep myself as safe as possible. It is partially almost an obsession with me due to not being in romantic relationships with men but having had destructive/volatile men in my family and in my community. Which is why out of principle I never even bat an eye at men who are more then 3 to 5 years older and when i was in my late teens and early 20s I only was interested in guys 1 to 2 years older or younger at most. Maybe because my mother had age gaps in both her destructive and abusive relationship, i grew up with almost a revulsion for older men and also because i look quite young and am small predatory men like to lurk around me especially when I was younger. But yeah, I have learned it is key to avoid men who have too many advantages over you or rather to try and equalise the dynamic ie avoid age gaps or big age gaps, avoid too big of a gap in class/personal resources/income (financial abuse is the Nr.1 go to for abusive men), avoid too much of a gap in intellect/experiences/skills (to avoid codependece, incompatability, or not having the skills and smart to have your own back in case they try to use their skills and intelligence against you). I know it sound horrible to be this calculating and not romantic but one has to be when there are vile animals in the dating pool
Red flag if the man doesn’t have friends 🚩 my husband has more guy friends than I have girl friends. He is well adjusted, respected among his peers, and well-socialized despite being awkward at times (brain injury when he was a kid but he’s a pretty good communicator and very sweet puppy dog vibes). Your man should be invited to weddings and funerals bc of his network. It’s always super sus if a man has no friends and his family is mistreated!
@rene3759
She mentioned it in her comment. He groomed her (manipulated her into getting into a relationship with him when she was too young to know better/know she could say no).
It hurts my soul to see women hate on her too for some stupid reason. It’s so sad seeing women pave way for misogyny just because they think she’s annoying, untalented, or preferred wearing sneakers over high heels in her one song year ago.
Candace Owens entered the chat. She's obsessed with Tayrol and literally can't stop talking about her.
@@ohmissbeliever2015😂😂we are talking about normal human women,not the others
Fundies and trads absolutely hate her! She was supposed to be one of them, but she chose to be a self-made billionaire with cats instead. Bad role model for their daughters.
True, even the people who claim to not like her music, I don’t believe. She has so many songs in different genres, I feel like it’s a lie to say you don’t like ONE song. I think there’s something for everyone and I’m not a Swifite, just a casual listener.
@@canesugar911I never thought Candace wasn't normal, but after your comment.... It's time to think twice 😂
This AI technology works better with women pica than men . It means it was trained heavily using women pics as main training data 🤢
U so right
Which is why women need to be in power. Also, i do wonder if women used it against them if they would then ask for legislation to end it
@catcat9582 Probably.
Former “not-like-other-girls” anti-Taylor fan here. I see her and respect her so much. 🥰This change happened for me way back when Bad Blood came out because she brought on all these beautiful, strong women and made femininity look kick-ass! Mariska Hargitay appearing as “Justice” still makes me cry. 🥹
Back when it was “Love Story” era, I was anti-pink, but I woke up and realized that I was just being a hater.
Yes gurl! Let them have it!
There were a bunch of men defending this vile act as freedom of speech, claiming that they cannot issue legislation against people's imagination. One even said "you cannot control a horny person". It was disgusting to read, and the fact that there were so many who were agreeing with this, or making light of it, just makes me not want to have any men at all in my inner circle.
at the same time, they have the audacity to be in the moral high ground to project and lecture about morals and principles to women (religious or secular)
Thank you for speaking out on this. I have been mistreated by women my whole life. It began with my mother who isolated and abused me. I was and still am beautiful and she hated me for it. I have been confused as to why there has been so much vitriol towards Taylor and Travis. I think your explanation is correct. 🧿
Thank you for sharing 🫶🏽
When a daughter hears her father say "I can't believe they keep showing taylor swift on screen! They need to focus on the game" what that daughter is thinking is "i need to make myself small and unassuming in order to fit in" and what a scathingly dangerous thing to say knowingly or unknowingly
That's a stretch. The game isn't about Taylor nor was that hockey game in Canada about Prince Harry. Show the game. Show the performance that's happening. Stop focusing on the audience so much. We didn't tune in to see that - it's like the same thing w/talent contests shows when they show the judges instead of the performer on stage.
I think they're just trying to watch the game there.
@@silververnallbells191 what a short sighted view. The more attention you give it the more money everyone makes. Not just the NFL, but news outlets, UA-camrs, engagement farm Tiktokers. More clicks/views = more profit. You’re right, this has nothing to do with Taylor and everything to do with the public. Stop engaging and the news cycle will move on.
But also y’all would actually convince me it wasn’t about her if people weren’t specifically attacking her as a person. If the talking points started and ended with what you just said, it would be obvious it wasn’t hateful.
Children experience trauma from things that sometimes the adult doesn't even realize they are doing. I've realized this, too.
What's wrong with people
A lot I’m afraid and the scary thing is they do not get the impact.
@@hemanownsyou ...cries the lonely from a deep, dark pit of despair of their own creation.
😭
No, what's wrong with them
I’m worried for our future ❤ literally nothing else I can say.
Also sending good vibes and good morning lol 😂
It's terrorism.
We all know if women started doing it to men there would be legal consequences. If men were being violated by other men... their worst fear- things would change. Sad, sad, sad.
Travis was am ass to Kayla, so he's not a great man either. He's just great to Taylor because of WHO she is. Lets not be mistaken. The only thing I'd say is, many men are only good to certain types of women, esp if its their dream woman (until they know that she isn't going anywhere ofc). Nonetheless I'm here for the positive reinforcement of good men.
SO TRUE!!!
Wish they'd lose their 'mask' sooner. My late dh met me at the summit of my being, caught me, then whittled me down. It always baffled me, the feeling of why did you pick ME?! When you knew i was fire? Now you're mad BECAUSE I'm fire? WTAF
It was like someone sticking a racehorse in a stall forever.
Then when he was dying my fire came in handy watching out for him.
Little did I know. I've got to watch out projecting in the positive.
So true, the couple of men who treated me well, their was a x they hadn't treated well
A mainstream news outlet in Australia used AI to tweak a photo of a female politician who they ideologically disagree with. They used an image almost identical to an offical photo she uses on her website, except they edited it so her breasts looked slightly larger and changed her dress into a crop top so she would look under-dressed for a politician. After blaming AI doing it automatically, the AI company essentially said they cannot make changes without human intervention, meaning the news outlet did it on purpose. The news outlet then apologised. For some reason I just find these very, very subtle changes to a photo far more disturbing and insidious than any overtly explicit deepfake. They also aired these images at prime viewing time.
The comment "they don't see us as humans with agency and feelings and coices. They see us as objects to degrade and plunder" is dead on. I have experienced that for a long time. I saw a documentary, I don't remember either subject or title, but one scene had a transgender (woman to man) who remarked how their testosterone shots actually caused them to view women as less than human. It was fascinating.
Are you freaking serious? No wonder a documentary once mentioned that men with empathy who nurtured their kids and worked closely to support their wives or partners after childbirth reported lower levels of testosterone.
Also, men are advised to not have sex before games and matches to keep their levels of testosterone high (oxytocin produce during love making competes with testosterone). There is an entire UA-cam documentary on testosterone. I need to go watch it.
@@miyangtangwan7046 wow what’s the name of the documentary I’d like to watch.
Who works with dogs already knows all of this you know...
Women have tesosterone too, I wonder how this theory works then. Testosterone is linked with aggression so perhaps it just amplified their prior beliefs about women? They might have adapted misogyny in order to fit in with cis men, I've heard many trans men say they thought that would help them be accepted.
That's not fasinating that's horrifying
If not all women are safe. No woman is safe. So powerful.
"Guys don't like girls who like football. Guys like girls wearing tight sports jerseys bringing them beers and getting the terminology wrong." Zoey Deutch, "Set It Up"
@@duckyh9712 What if they watch the game just because of her? They can do whatever tf they want. You sound ridiculous, smh.
The no nuance Nellie's getting told off always cracks me up.😂
For real though we all know someone that it applies to.
She gathers all the Nellies before they can make an argument.😂😂😂
Yes😊
“This video isn’t about that, ok?… back to the topic-“ 😭 I’m getting so tired of the main points just getting lost in the sauce of obvious disclaimers & side tangents to try to appease the Nellies. You won’t appease them, they thrive on trying to discredit & invalidate. The extra pandering fluff some well meaning youtubers feel they have to include, is so jarring at times. Like if you have a different experience/opinion politely share in the comments and openly discuss with anyone who can be arsed, by all means, it boosts the algorithm after all . That being said, it’s not always about you! Because you didn’t create the video ffs!
@@GrungeGalacticaexactly, it gives ‘I’m main character syndrome.’ Like stfu haha…stay on topic too. If folks wanna go off tangent so much, make their own video ffs
11:40 "you are such a shitty option that the world has to be near ending for women to even consider you “👏👏👏👏
Louder! Yes! I cannot tell you how much your channel has helped me wake up and deprogram from the bs of the patriarchy!! ✊🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I worked as a lobbyist and even ran for state legislature… Once at a legal clinic I was chatting with the intern who also worked as a page in the legislature. She told me EVERYTHING she knew first hand and from other pages about every Senator’s dirty secrets and the creepers you don’t want to be trapped in a hallway or elevator with 🤢 women tell women what is up to keep us safe!
A staffer at the state legislature found out that a senator kept creepy photos of her on his computer. She went to their version of HR/admin and they refused to take action. My lawyer colleague who is a gentleman and committee counsel leaked the controversy to the press and finally the senator resigned due to public outcry. He said it’s unfortunate that the young lady was not taken seriously in her own right and power privately. He says things like “you men should pump gas in the car for your lady” when he gives know your rights presentations. He’s very tall like over 6’, a lawyer, provides for his wife and has two adorable and intelligent children. He takes BOTH his son and daughter hunting and shows them how to use firearms responsibly. He’s a libertarian daddy! He also plays violin and the mandolin and is a gentle soul. Very much “lead from behind” good man vibes. This kind of man would freak any bbmle man out 😂 he gave my husband and I a rifle for our wedding gift :3
Love that you called out these guy hobbies like watching sport also fishing, golf etc as an excuse to hide from their responsibilities for hours. And if we women dare question it, “ah it’s a man thing, you wouldn’t understand” 🙄. I’ve always thought it was fishy that these men invest so much time and emotion, into an outcome they have little to no control over. Yet they’d much rather do that than pour that same energy & quality time into their families. Like isn’t that supposed to be your so called legacy, bro? Not to mention the violence, boozing & misogyny of football hooliganism, (I’m from the UK) that we’re just all supposed to accept “cause football innit”; is nuts. As women we do need to have each others backs. We’re all unified in the struggle after all. So many men will blindly fight for some guy they don’t even know, but because they’re a man, the troops are ready. We need to adopt this method for ourselves. Another eye opening video Elle ❤
Another excellent video. I lol at your mob extortion racket example i have been saying exactly that for years.
Also i saw a tweet that said how Travis got a $70k bonus for one of his football games so no wonder Taylor is with him (gold digger) 😂😂😂 her cat is worth more than her boyfriend. Taylor probably made 70k in the time it took "something something alpha male" to write that tweet. Pathetic!
Keep up the good work.
lol I’m Taylor Swift has a WAYYY bigger net worth than Travis 😂
A male acquaintance actually showed me the AI images of her to get a reaction out of me 🤢 all I can say is Thank youuuu bestiiiiie 💚
I hope he's blocked.
Stay away from him. And if he's so desperate for a reaction, suddenly you don't remember he exists (at all). :))) be safe girl
I once saw a video about men making their partners sad on purpose or sad enough but not enough to leave them, you know what the term was?
A tolerable level of permanent unhappiness
@@jinaolen786 that! Thanks!
I would love to see more about this.
@@Lppt87 I think there's quite a bit on YT if you search it up
This is so true. I hate when women are pitted against each other instead of becoming sisters and friends, especially in TV and movies. And more need to be aware they are helping the XYs by continuing to engage in that kind of behavior
ugh i needed this video yesterday!! i literally wrote an essay for my english class about nasty little men and used two of your videos as references and this one would’ve been a nice plus😅 i love all your videos though and your message is so helpful to younger girls like me so tysm for what you dooo
I mean, some men were raised to believe that all it takes is to show women the bare minimum of human decency and in exchange women should feel so grateful for it that they should be at their feet, just for being treated like a human being. A lot of them think that as long as a guy has some sort of access to the woman he desires he should be able to have her.
Love your videos thank you for uploading so consistently.
Thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I love how she calls them below minimum bare minimum effort 😂
Going after Taylor Swift was the worst thing they ever did. BECAUSE NOW US WOMEN ARE GOING TO DIG OUR HEELS IN. AN OUR AIM WILL BE TRUE AND STRAIGHT!
Thank you so much for your work! Just today I had a grossest interaction with a taxi driver. It was literally this situation you explained here. Small man making women feel small, so they could feel better about their loser selves. Fuck no
These men have a bit too much of free time, I'm afraid. Yet they can't do anything positively productive.
I don't understand why she gets so much hate! And the way they dragged her online with those photos is disgusting! It's just crazy how there were so many comments(from men) saying the creator who generated and publicly shared those photos cannot be sued because it is 'just Ai' and her image is 'free use.'!!!!! I hope that is not true! That was plain evil! And the same men bashing her were the same men proudly saying how they have saved all the images on their phones!!!
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Around that time,I even saw one Ai generated photo of Celine Dion,being mocked for having a disease!!!i am just happy for her,after seeing her grammy photos,she looked healthy and recovering..
Everyday,these men are reaching a higher level of appalling!
This is a much deeper issue and we all need to get involved with how AI is being used and embraced.
“Any violation of a woman's body can become sex for men; this is the essential truth of pornography.”
― Andrea Dworkin
13:59 about that - I remember seeing sooo many girls saying somewhere is tthe comment section "when you realise that he could choke you to death any second, but somehow he doesn't " was lways insane... why they even thought about such things??
12:23 THIS!!!! Never thought about it like that. It’s healthy to have hobbies outside of your family. But growing up in the Midwest men took this to the extreme; I saw many of my friends neglected by their fathers because they were more concerned about the success of their fantasy football team than spending time with their children. I’m excited for a new generation of sports fans to share their spaces with different types of people. This will only make them stronger, if they had brain cells they would see the clout that’s being transferred to their brands.
Yes a man can leave for several days to race cars or spend hours and hours on fantasy football, but when I ask my sister if she’s had a few hours to herself this month taking care of a toddler she’s like ummm no.
SO CONSISTENT LESSGOOO
👏🏽👏🏽
Men and women should live in separate societies.
The women-only society would show the world how it's done ✨👑
Who else agrees ?
🤮🤮🤮
Hey Manifestelle, if it's alright with you, can you do a video of older men obsessed with younger women in college? If you haven't made yet! It would mean a lot to me to understand what I'm feeling better because I see women still defending them and it terrifies me to see them seeing nothing wrong with these older men. Hope you have a good day!
Most young women/girls don't have much experience, so it is easier for men to impress them and some men also believe that they can "train" the woman to be as they want them to be.
@@cristinaratiu4535 I do know for sure that the main factor for their attraction to younger women is purely that they're naive and inexperienced.
This exact situation happened in Perú last year. The victims were little girls 😢
The craziest thing is that if someone talked about men in that way as no matter how successful they were they are still men and let us remind them of this this men would talk about all of the systems of oppression the school system not being fair and so on the hypocrisy is so apparent.
Travis Kelce isn’t a good man either. He threatened his coach and pushed him, this is a huge red flag of domestic abusers. Some men pretend to be a good guy to get what they want, then treat them like shit in private.
My bf and I went to a sports bar to watch the ravens vs chiefs game. We’re from bmore, so people were pretty hyped up and biased towards the ravens. When things started going south for the ravens, the men (majority sitting at the bar) started getting super pissed. My bf said he overheard the guy next to him say he was going to “get her and bend her over” amongst a bunch of other really demeaning and just graphic things. He wasn’t the only guy saying these kinds of things either. Some of the men there had girlfriends and we’re getting mad at her too, despite being with their gfs. Really weird and just uncomfortable. We left early, needless to say
For a lot of men sex is about domination and power.
What happened with Taylor Swift I didn’t understand can someone explain?
Someone made a fake deep AI corn image of her and it was spreading amongst the internet
the fact there are people in this world, that hate her SO MUCH, for no other reason than just to HATE - that would do this? Now, listen, I heard tons of rumors there were specific pictures generated to make it looked like she was getting assaulted, and i take it with a grain of salt because 1.) i will not search for these images. and 2.) people tend to spread rumors. BUT it doesn't make any of this okay. Especially considering the fact the hate towards her from these people DOES come off as violent. (i used to be someone like that, so it's also coming from experience. when she got 'cancelled' by kim and kanye, i was delusional enough to be HAPPY) people are allowed to not be a fan of her music. we all have opinions. but take it from a former hater. if you come across someone who has no merit behind their dislike, run, and run FAR. it is NOT NORMAL to hate a random person that much
This is so depressing I wonder why even who are waking up want anything to do with men at all still
Such a great video and valid points. That male podcaster is low key crazy. "Slamming into the wall" WTH
Why aren't THOSE videos taken down?
It is sad to think that this is actually the world we live in. Nevertheless, it's good that we are all waking up to this now.
Thank you for opening my eyes 🙏💕
This situation reminds me of the big deep fake problem that happened to a lot of female content creators.
I hope more people realize that, truly, nobody is safe. Taylor Swift’s fans represent an interesting demographic, as she speaks to so many women of many different ages. I hate that she was victimized, but hope this at least opens people’s eyes.
At the very least, it’s a good litmus test for the men in our lives. Ask them how they feel about the situation and then let them cook.
I especially don’t understand why you would hate on Taylor Swift if her public platform is benefitting football. Women are often the community builders, are they not? A smart move wouldn’t be to shame women for showing interest in your community. I understand wanting your own space, wanting boys nights and girls nights, that sort of thing. But do they really think no woman watches football? Have they not been to the South in the US? my state is honestly divided between Clemson Tigers and USC Gamecocks. It’s a huge thing
*Wow, you are such a sh*tty option that the world has to be near ending for women to even consider you.* 11:40 OMG YES, I love that and will remember it for the next time this ridiculous point gets brought up. This was one of your best videos btw! 👏🏻
I never saw AI as anything else than threat and eerie shit that is gonna only deeper wreck humanity .
✨Daddy Travis✨ 😂
I will never date a man obsessed with football. Or sports video games like FIFA or 2K.
i have a lot of issues with taylor swift, but i was shocked when this happened. this incident was horrible and disgusting.
Dammit AMEN. So done with losers …
There is something that I've learned from this and is: women shouldn't want to participate in male dominant areas that much. Why? Because you are showing them that they matter. That what they do is cool (like football). I think that using dark psychology and making it seem like is not that deep, interesting or important would kick their ego. And it would make you feel more feminine.
Well I was wondering about that nuance of privileged men lol. I just wanted to understand more how they fit in the totem pole because I know when I talk about low status men harming women, I know what to say when people say “we’ll what high status men” their questions can get me confused and I need to stay on top of the points. So thank you for pointing out the nuances!
Even a man who has a lot externally may not have much internally and this kind of dissonance… no matter how much money or influence someone has that doesn’t account for their SPIRIT or emotional maturity or other issues. Ie someone can be stingy whether they are rich or poor. Someone can be violent whether they are rich or poor. But a rich man has more to lose in influence and money if society frowns on violence, so he will be better at hiding it or bribing people to stay silent than go off on the internet or publicly. He’s spending his time making money, not coming after women in the comments section. But behind closed doors? That’s a different matter.
Elle what are your thoughts on twitter women thirsting over Victoria Monet's husband for simply picking up their daughter during the grammy's? I saw it and I just remembered what you said about the bare minimum.