I did the dog thing with my dog, too. She wasn't a senior, but it was so incredibly cold out. I cried buckets when I realized what I'd done, but she was no worse for wear. Also, my son now understands that if I'm cooking I can't physically leave the kitchen or I will forget that I'm cooking and start a kitchen fire.
I left an entire case of raw chicken in the foyer for hours and hours. Very expensive mistake. Shortly after that episode, I was talking to my clinical psychologist husband about how his ADHD clients sounded so much like me, haha, and after a long silence, he said, "We should probably look into this."
How I ruined everyone’s morning and got a little bit of free gas: I drove at that time a little Honda which ran on fumes for fuel- so a fuel light coming on wouldn’t make me think of urgency. I decided on my drive into town before stopping for gas to stop at a drive thru for a nice little treat before work. Because my dopamine gremlin decided to prioritize that over gas. Thus blocking a Tim hortins drive thru in morning rush when I ran out one spot before the window. When I say crowds of cars were there I mean it. A very awesome guy got super pissed off and gave me a little gas from a Jerry can of his to get moving when he realized the problem for the block up. But not before a line of like almost 40 cars full of angry drivers built up. The line was spilling into coexisting parking lots.
I'm honestly amazed that I never got toxic shock syndrome when I could tolerate wearing tampons because I constantly forgot to take them out on time and yes, I absolutely did the 2 tampons 1 who-ha trick at least once too.
Same. I left one in there super long once but that was for like my entire cycle. How did I not get TSS or any kind of infection? I don't know. But I learned a lesson then. That thing was NASTY! I did do the double tampon once or twice after that but always noticed fairly quickly. I always double check at the end of my period now. 😅
I have to have a specific spot for my cup so I can double check its there and not still inside me. Tampons I could always feel as present and occupying space in my body
My youngest son takes toys home from school and then is like 'Oh, that's ours from home.' but my autistic side knows every single diecast toy car we own already so I can see through his defence. I've not sent him to jail yet.
One time I had to go get something at the store, so I rushed out to go get it really quick and came right back. Turns out I left my door wide open with no one at home. Not JUST the door, but the screen door was also propped open for about 30 minutes 🤦 luckily nothing was stolen and my cat was still there but I was mortified
I left the state for 3 days with front door open (glass door closed but unlocked and side door open (inside) but screen door unlocked 😂😂😂 nothing stolen
Hayley, you are really in the zone with this one! You’ve hit the sweet spot in terms of production value-it’s just incredible what you do. This video was such an art form that I had to put my headphones on to fully enjoy all the sound effects and music. The intentionality behind every detail is mind-blowing, and it truly shows your expertise. Watching this was a complete feast for my dopamine system-just a joy for both the eyes and ears! Your theater background really shines through in your storytelling, which is absolutely one of a kind. This level of quality feels like a breakthrough, and it’s incredibly inspiring for all of us neurodivergent creators. Thank you so much for everything you do-it’s clear how much you care about this community, and it means the world. 💫🐝
ARE YOU KIDDING THIS IS THE NICEST COMMENT EVER 😭😭😭 I originally had hired a videographer and editor for this video but they bailed and so I did all the filming and editing and felt so stressed about it so THIS COMMENT means the absolute WORLD to me 😭💛 thank you for the love and support you are a light in this world!!
@@hayley.honeyman Oh my god, your reply really touched me 🥹 What really gets me is the care you have for this community-it shines through everything you do, and it means so much. I’m so glad my comment resonated with you. Honestly, that makes me so happy. I wish you an amazing day, and I just want you to know that we were definitely missing you! I don’t want to activate your PDA (no pressure, of course), but seeing your content again has been a real joy. That post about going to the lake to journal the other day made me smile-I’m just really glad you’re doing okay. Not that you need to be okay all the time, but still, it’s comforting to know you’re here, doing your thing. I’m grateful we’re in this community together. This space you’re helping build is amazing, and it’s giving so many of us strength. Oh, and if you’re up for it, I’d love if you could check out my content and maybe even subscribe-it would mean the world to me! No pressure, obviously, but I’m working on growing my channel as a content creator from Belgium while also doing my master’s thesis in psychology. I’m focusing on identity, especially autistic identity, because it’s such a refreshing and meaningful lens-definitely less anxiogenic (😂) than thinking about stigma. Honestly, it’s a bit tough here in Belgium since there aren’t many people openly embracing their autistic identity yet, so being part of this community is helping me a lot to shift my perspective. I laughed so hard when you talked about how identity matters-even down to the clipboard, haha. That really hit home for me. You’ve got this incredible way of bringing your personality and identity into your content so naturally-it feels effortless and unforced. But I know that’s just the tip of the iceberg, and behind that natural flow is all the hard work, expertise, and intentionality you’ve cultivated over years. Your dedication, self-reflection, and continual growth really shine through in every video, and it’s inspiring to witness. I even made a post on Instagram recently talking about this aspect of continual growth and authenticity of autistic content creators-so funny that I’m already thinking like that with only one video posted on UA-cam! 😅 But I’ve got a lot in the works and can’t wait to share more soon. Thanks again for your reply, Hayley. It really made my day and got me all emotional. The care you bring to this community-and the care I feel for it too-it’s just the best. It really is. Thanks for everything, Hayley. You’re amazing. ❤️
The tampon story will never happen to me only because I was traumatized by a model's story about how she was bedridden from an illness during her period and wasn't able to remove her tampon and got TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome), was basically comatose in her bed for a couple days until someone (I think her mother) checked on her. She ended up having to get her leg amputated. I've become super compulsive about checking because of that XD That's why they suggest you change them every 6-8 hours, any longer and you could get a fatal infection.
my adhd crime: I misread a line on my tax return and misreported my pandemic unemployment benefits by accident. Ended up owing the IRS over 2k$ because of it. That was..... *checks watch* 3 years ago? I kept forgetting to check on it and call them and at this point I still owe them about 1400$ but now I'm jobless again and can't pay it off anymore. I'm assuming straight to jail with this one XD
Hello as an AuDHD adult, I still love LPS so much that I work at a vintage toy store primarily with LPS. Also to those who don't know, the original style LPS are back in stores if you want to relive them.
I had to start wearing cups for my periods because of that! I would forget that I had one in and leave a tampon in for way too long or put another one in with it! I also switched to an IUD because I kept forgetting my birth control pills.
When I was a kid I'd sneak things into the checkout line at the grocery store--I got in big big trouble. I also stole candy from my favorite auntie 😅And I have DEFINITELY done the double tampon thing before. I have no idea how it happened either. We're also not going to talk about the amount of times I've refused to use the bathroom because I'm too busy trying to get a task done 🙈
Not really a confession, but Monday last week, a colleague kindly reminded me that I taken that week off. It was a bit embarrassing. Btw. Love your content. Reminds me of my inner dialogue with a song that’s running on repeat (we got the moves - electric callboy)
Yesterday, I was and hour late to work because my time blindness, hyperfocus, and nerves decided to combine. I lost track of time in the practice room hyperfixating on my conducting for my conducting class today. For context, I'm a full time Music Education major, and I work part time in food for extra cash. Lesson: next time set a timer! And, yes it went well today😂
I once forgot that I was boiling some eggs and went upstairs to put the kids to bed. I heard some strange noise downstairs and told my husband I thought someone had broken into the house. He goes downstairs, weapon in hand to see eggs exploding out of the boiled dry pot. I felt like such an idiot and spent the next day scraping dried egg splatter off the kitchen ceiling.
I also forgot about eggs once, went to chill in bed and fell asleep. Woke up to the sound of explosion. Somehow also burned the pot so much i had to throw it out.
Dude I've done the tampon thing, how did it even happen? Honestly I'm starting to think there's 2 in one, some kind of manufacturing error.. Yes I'm blaming them
Left a burner on when I went to run errands.. came home and took a nap, and then started working on homework. Also managed to leave my car running for 8hrs while I was in classes, luckily only lost about 1/4 tank of gas!
My confession: dissociating from a conversation so hard that I stepped in front of the two-seated swing we were swinging while talking and getting my teeth broken. Hahahaaaa…
My sister and I’s adhd teamed up when we were kids and playing video games at a friends house. Our friends and us both had the same super Mario DS game but our friend’s version had every island unlocked and we still needed to unlock 2 of our islands. So we dead ass conspired to distract them and switch the games from their case to our DS before we left that day. I still have that super Mario game😅 To my defense I was younger than my sister and she thought it was a good idea. I don’t think it was the worst because our games were identical besides the islands you have to beat bosses to unlock
I don't think the ADHD stealing one should be jail. I definitely did this growing up. But I was more like (there is this ONE pen in the classroom that feels ok to write with, the others are awful). So this pen is mine now. Also. Littlest Pet Shops!!!!! Those were my JAM. I had (actually still have) SO many of those.
I've done the tampon thing only with disposable contact lenses, multiple times. You ever just randomly find an extra shrivelled up contact lens underneath your eyelid? Just me?
The only thing I found really bad was leaving the poor doggo out in the rain😢 I have never stolen something as a child, but once as a teenager because others told me to proove I am brave enough. It was a packet of chewing gum (like Wrigleys) at a drugstore and I felt sooo guilty and was in panic. But I learned as a mother that some children do and it is seen "normal" (but I never saw my son did), so I guess that's not so bad. I did never pee in as an adult, but often don't go to the toilet when I should and know the "pee dance". But I am trained to go to the toilet before leaving home or office, restaurants, whatever. And mostly stay home.
When you told the littlest pet shop story the only thing I could think about was being that girl and falling into an OCD episode when I couldn’t find the 2 missing toys I KNEW I had and I KNEW I had been with my other toys 😅 I would have had a full blown panic attack and torn the house apart looking for them🤣
I do a lot of pet sitting and I am so paranoid I let the indoor-only cat out or that I didn't give them fresh water or something. That was a very polite dog to not shout about it :D
When I was a baby I would constantly steal this toy chicken from daycare. My mom would take it back, apologize, rinse, repeat. It was such a problem they eventually gave me the chicken. I wish I still had it too. It was cute somehow 😅
An interesting experiment might be to take that unpaid labour and hire someone to do a portion of it and spend that time working and see if you are any better off as a result
I once had a dream I was playing that water squirting game at Chuck E. Cheese. You know the one? Anyway, I had this dream, I was winning ofc. And I woke up to myself pissing my pants. I was 17😂😂😂😂
I missed the window for my mid year review for the first time and was so embarrassed. Then I somehow I also missed the year end window and had to tell my boss. At least my actual performance and mandatory training were great . I remembered the stuff important for other people but not myself 🤦
Socks in sand can be a really nice feeling. But you need to change into different socks before you go back into your shoes. So always have spare socks with you!
Okay, so I often locked my keys in my car at university. But one time I was running late to class and when I got back to the lot where my car was, not only were my keys in the car and locked in there… they were in the ignition and my car was running the entire time I was in class- 4 hours!!!! Omg, so embarrassing getting the campus emergency auto people out there.
@@rainbowconnectedAre they super squishy? I can't stand that texture. It looks firm enough to mold like Play Doh but without it drying out which is perfect!
OMG the pee story! who hasn't been there LOL!I was just making jokes with my bro(also ADHD) about needing to go pee but waiting until the last second because you were busy gaming and completely forget it's a thing you gotta do until you get up👀 why I love seeing and connecting with other Neurodiverse peeps😅 also what are you playing with in your Akiflow scene!? looks better than a stress ball!?🤔
Omg, I can relate with the tampon story so much. So I use a menstruation cup, and every month, on my light flow days I just don't empty it. And I can continue to wear it for like 3 or 4 days in a row, even after my period has already ended. And I don't forget, I mean, I know it's in there. But I just don't feel like executing the task of taking it out. If you know what I mean.
When i went to the store with my mum she kinda didn't know where I last stopped following her cause I got distracted by putting the stuff in the right order or to the right place
I love mine (the pastels) sooo much! Have baught some neons for a friend and now wait for my series II glow in the dark and am again exited! It really IS the best fidget for me. Before it was the Tangle one.
I'm so thankful that I'm not the only one who has peed themselves in a public place because they forgot to go to the bathroom. I was on my way home and I spontaneously decided to do a bit of supermarket shopping and all of a sudden.... I needed to pee so so badly that I couldn't hold it in. I was so so unbelievably mortified I left the supermarket in tears and I didn't tell anybody what I had done, I just left. I was beyond embarrassed.
My Question: How can I help keep Family Room Space Organized? I have a tendency to keep notebooks out on the family room table that I use on a near daily basis & I live w/my mom where it is understandable that it does bug her where I try my best to live it in an organized pile rather than scattered all over the table (I have a tendency to do this & it stays like that for months on end). I have *tried* to explain how my brain/mind works in regards to that, but my mom doesn't seem willingly enough to learn more about ADHD, autism and other types of learning disabilities that exist out there in order to be able to understand it in. Idk about non-ADHD'ers per se because I feel like the majority of them are generally pretty clean on their own. But I've noticed w/most who do have, when they *know* they have guests coming over-they go into a very quick "cleaning frenzy," including myself. And tbh, I want to know Why we do that.?-for anyone who may have an answer for that. 1 day, my mom went somewhere and I was gone and admittedly, the house was def. a bit of a mess, but neither my mom nor I knew we had guests coming over. So guests came over and my mom did her best to make the space appear cleaner. Basically, the reason I leave it out is b/c for me: "Outta sight = outta mind," which in turn means I rarely use it or no longer use it. My brain/personality also has a major habit of using a planner for abt. 3 mos straight, scrapping using it for abt. 1-2 mos. and abt. 1-2+ mos. later = I go back to using as an attempt to stay organized. Technology organization is actually worse for me than written organization despite the on/off use of my planners 🤣. So by any chance, would anyone have any suggestions that could help keep that space clear and organized where it could work for both my mom and I? My mom understandably wants a clear table, but I want to be able to not forget to use them if that makes any sense at all.
A couple ideas: 1) you have a box always on the table and every time you move away from the planner it can go in the box. If you forget, your mum will also know she can just dump it in the box 2) having a place where your mum puts things that you forgot so if she needs a clean space she can just dump it in one place (my mum created her own after I forgot to tidy things up too often and it helped keep the peace a bit lol) 3) have strict "sides" of the table so your workspace is restricted and you don't allow yourself to spread over the whole table. She'll at least always have half a table left for her if she needs to work and you can even draw a line with masking tape or something
@@innominativecompany4231 Thank you so much for the tips. And I'll try it out because I do want to be able to work with her on it. But she prefers a fully clear table. over a half clear one which I've done before, but I can try placing it maybe above my computer. She's fine w/my computer on the table since there's no proper place for it.
Ugg boots are kinda technically the solution. Like they were popular among Australian surfers to warm their feets on thr beach. I already hate thst sherpa texture, and wet skin against dry fsbric that isnt a rough towel... but i get it. I mean i get sand in my shoes, id get it in a calf high boot, and id never wear socks either. I dont like sand or beaches... only specifically damp sand. And i hate hot sand. But no not the socks. Jail.
Idk abt ADHD confessions per se, but my mom told me I used to be mean when I was 4 yrs. old. Also, I know everyone is different where ik that one doesn't necessarily have to have ADHD nor Autism, but I was born 3 weeks early (my pt. to that is that I didn't say 1 word until I was 3 yrs. old)-so from my perspective, idk there's a potential correlation between being born early & mild developmental delays or not. Anyways, my mom told me that there was 1 time I was at someone else's house and literally thought *Their* toys were My Toys & apparently I didn't share their own toys with them. And apparently, I used to push ppl b/c my mom got other kids' parents literally telling her: "your daughter's mean." Abt. the sock thing on the beach & I 100% understand sensory issues since I have quite a few myself. But wouldn't sand literally End up Inside the socks anyways? So at that point wearing socks on sand is a little useless imho esp. when there's a faucet thing to rinse ur feet off when walking back to your/your parents car. Apparently when I was younger, I never let my parents put *anything* on my head (I'd constantly take things off) up until I became a teenager and occasionally wore headbands, but they'd be coming off within the hour though. Now as an adult, I can only wear one for prob. about 30 mins. or so, but other than that it's coming right off my head.
@@hayley.honeyman I legitimately think it's the sock in the sand one but I don't have confirmation and I MUST KNOW IT IS GOING TO STAY WITH ME UNTIL I KNOW. 🤣
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I did NOT realise how crucial having a strong bladder is to me surviving with adhd 😭 I’m so sorry everyone. Even I’ve had close calls! It should be a 2 for 1 deal. You get adhd, you get a strong bladder I’m guilty of both tampon crimes though. It was accidental until my periods got so heavy I intentionally used 2 tampons and a pad. I have a menstrual cup now. Buuuut I’ve also used a menstrual cup, a tampon, and a pad to get by safely for 6 hours when I wouldn’t have access to a bathroom 🫠 Is oversharing online a crime? We’re so guilty
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I did the dog thing with my dog, too. She wasn't a senior, but it was so incredibly cold out. I cried buckets when I realized what I'd done, but she was no worse for wear. Also, my son now understands that if I'm cooking I can't physically leave the kitchen or I will forget that I'm cooking and start a kitchen fire.
“Have we all piddled a little, here and there? *WHEEZE*” I love her 😂😂😂
I left an entire case of raw chicken in the foyer for hours and hours. Very expensive mistake. Shortly after that episode, I was talking to my clinical psychologist husband about how his ADHD clients sounded so much like me, haha, and after a long silence, he said, "We should probably look into this."
How I ruined everyone’s morning and got a little bit of free gas:
I drove at that time a little Honda which ran on fumes for fuel- so a fuel light coming on wouldn’t make me think of urgency. I decided on my drive into town before stopping for gas to stop at a drive thru for a nice little treat before work. Because my dopamine gremlin decided to prioritize that over gas. Thus blocking a Tim hortins drive thru in morning rush when I ran out one spot before the window. When I say crowds of cars were there I mean it. A very awesome guy got super pissed off and gave me a little gas from a Jerry can of his to get moving when he realized the problem for the block up. But not before a line of like almost 40 cars full of angry drivers built up. The line was spilling into coexisting parking lots.
These cases are why I check things 4 billion times and things take even longer they already do lol
I agree there needs to be an after dark version!! Whether it's dark humour or spicy stuff it's gotta be shared!! 😆
Dude… there were SO MANY SPICY CONFESSIONS
@@hayley.honeyman and it will be hilarious watching you try to get through them!! 😂
@@warriormonk2611oh my god okay
I'm honestly amazed that I never got toxic shock syndrome when I could tolerate wearing tampons because I constantly forgot to take them out on time and yes, I absolutely did the 2 tampons 1 who-ha trick at least once too.
Same. I left one in there super long once but that was for like my entire cycle. How did I not get TSS or any kind of infection? I don't know. But I learned a lesson then. That thing was NASTY! I did do the double tampon once or twice after that but always noticed fairly quickly. I always double check at the end of my period now. 😅
I have to have a specific spot for my cup so I can double check its there and not still inside me. Tampons I could always feel as present and occupying space in my body
I literally switched to a cup because of this - only own one so it's impossible to make that mistake again
My youngest son takes toys home from school and then is like 'Oh, that's ours from home.' but my autistic side knows every single diecast toy car we own already so I can see through his defence.
I've not sent him to jail yet.
Honestly, the socks would make it even worse because then the sand gets stuck in the socks 😖 I get sensory issues just by imagining it 💀
One time I had to go get something at the store, so I rushed out to go get it really quick and came right back. Turns out I left my door wide open with no one at home. Not JUST the door, but the screen door was also propped open for about 30 minutes 🤦 luckily nothing was stolen and my cat was still there but I was mortified
I did this but for 5 HOURS and I live in a dodgy area. No idea how we weren’t robbed.
I left the state for 3 days with front door open (glass door closed but unlocked and side door open (inside) but screen door unlocked 😂😂😂 nothing stolen
i’ve done this
Hayley, you are really in the zone with this one! You’ve hit the sweet spot in terms of production value-it’s just incredible what you do. This video was such an art form that I had to put my headphones on to fully enjoy all the sound effects and music. The intentionality behind every detail is mind-blowing, and it truly shows your expertise.
Watching this was a complete feast for my dopamine system-just a joy for both the eyes and ears! Your theater background really shines through in your storytelling, which is absolutely one of a kind. This level of quality feels like a breakthrough, and it’s incredibly inspiring for all of us neurodivergent creators. Thank you so much for everything you do-it’s clear how much you care about this community, and it means the world. 💫🐝
ARE YOU KIDDING THIS IS THE NICEST COMMENT EVER 😭😭😭 I originally had hired a videographer and editor for this video but they bailed and so I did all the filming and editing and felt so stressed about it so THIS COMMENT means the absolute WORLD to me 😭💛 thank you for the love and support you are a light in this world!!
@@hayley.honeyman Oh my god, your reply really touched me 🥹 What really gets me is the care you have for this community-it shines through everything you do, and it means so much. I’m so glad my comment resonated with you. Honestly, that makes me so happy. I wish you an amazing day, and I just want you to know that we were definitely missing you! I don’t want to activate your PDA (no pressure, of course), but seeing your content again has been a real joy. That post about going to the lake to journal the other day made me smile-I’m just really glad you’re doing okay. Not that you need to be okay all the time, but still, it’s comforting to know you’re here, doing your thing.
I’m grateful we’re in this community together. This space you’re helping build is amazing, and it’s giving so many of us strength. Oh, and if you’re up for it, I’d love if you could check out my content and maybe even subscribe-it would mean the world to me! No pressure, obviously, but I’m working on growing my channel as a content creator from Belgium while also doing my master’s thesis in psychology. I’m focusing on identity, especially autistic identity, because it’s such a refreshing and meaningful lens-definitely less anxiogenic (😂) than thinking about stigma. Honestly, it’s a bit tough here in Belgium since there aren’t many people openly embracing their autistic identity yet, so being part of this community is helping me a lot to shift my perspective.
I laughed so hard when you talked about how identity matters-even down to the clipboard, haha. That really hit home for me. You’ve got this incredible way of bringing your personality and identity into your content so naturally-it feels effortless and unforced. But I know that’s just the tip of the iceberg, and behind that natural flow is all the hard work, expertise, and intentionality you’ve cultivated over years. Your dedication, self-reflection, and continual growth really shine through in every video, and it’s inspiring to witness. I even made a post on Instagram recently talking about this aspect of continual growth and authenticity of autistic content creators-so funny that I’m already thinking like that with only one video posted on UA-cam! 😅 But I’ve got a lot in the works and can’t wait to share more soon.
Thanks again for your reply, Hayley. It really made my day and got me all emotional. The care you bring to this community-and the care I feel for it too-it’s just the best. It really is.
Thanks for everything, Hayley. You’re amazing. ❤️
2:26 and then they kissed is WILD 😂😂😂 forgot how missed your content lol
NO I MISSED U MORE
The tampon story will never happen to me only because I was traumatized by a model's story about how she was bedridden from an illness during her period and wasn't able to remove her tampon and got TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome), was basically comatose in her bed for a couple days until someone (I think her mother) checked on her. She ended up having to get her leg amputated. I've become super compulsive about checking because of that XD That's why they suggest you change them every 6-8 hours, any longer and you could get a fatal infection.
my adhd crime: I misread a line on my tax return and misreported my pandemic unemployment benefits by accident. Ended up owing the IRS over 2k$ because of it. That was..... *checks watch* 3 years ago? I kept forgetting to check on it and call them and at this point I still owe them about 1400$ but now I'm jobless again and can't pay it off anymore.
I'm assuming straight to jail with this one XD
Hello as an AuDHD adult, I still love LPS so much that I work at a vintage toy store primarily with LPS.
Also to those who don't know, the original style LPS are back in stores if you want to relive them.
Omg 😮
I had to start wearing cups for my periods because of that! I would forget that I had one in and leave a tampon in for way too long or put another one in with it! I also switched to an IUD because I kept forgetting my birth control pills.
Same!
When I was a kid I'd sneak things into the checkout line at the grocery store--I got in big big trouble. I also stole candy from my favorite auntie 😅And I have DEFINITELY done the double tampon thing before. I have no idea how it happened either. We're also not going to talk about the amount of times I've refused to use the bathroom because I'm too busy trying to get a task done 🙈
Not really a confession, but Monday last week, a colleague kindly reminded me that I taken that week off. It was a bit embarrassing.
Btw. Love your content. Reminds me of my inner dialogue with a song that’s running on repeat (we got the moves - electric callboy)
Yesterday, I was and hour late to work because my time blindness, hyperfocus, and nerves decided to combine. I lost track of time in the practice room hyperfixating on my conducting for my conducting class today. For context, I'm a full time Music Education major, and I work part time in food for extra cash. Lesson: next time set a timer! And, yes it went well today😂
I can go all day without peeing, hyperfocused, totally identify with that story... And then I go to a movie and have to get up 11 times to pee.
I once forgot that I was boiling some eggs and went upstairs to put the kids to bed. I heard some strange noise downstairs and told my husband I thought someone had broken into the house. He goes downstairs, weapon in hand to see eggs exploding out of the boiled dry pot. I felt like such an idiot and spent the next day scraping dried egg splatter off the kitchen ceiling.
I also forgot about eggs once, went to chill in bed and fell asleep. Woke up to the sound of explosion. Somehow also burned the pot so much i had to throw it out.
@ oh yeah the pot was ruined
Dude I've done the tampon thing, how did it even happen? Honestly I'm starting to think there's 2 in one, some kind of manufacturing error.. Yes I'm blaming them
Left a burner on when I went to run errands.. came home and took a nap, and then started working on homework. Also managed to leave my car running for 8hrs while I was in classes, luckily only lost about 1/4 tank of gas!
NOT THE SECOND TAMPON I CANNOTTTTT
LIKE HELLO?? HOW DID YOU GET IN THERE??
@@hayley.honeyman STRAIGHT 2 JAIL FOR HAYLEY
@@hayley.honeymanI have discovered a bonus pon on occasion 😅
You can get swim socks which help with walking on sand too. Sand is worst
My confession: dissociating from a conversation so hard that I stepped in front of the two-seated swing we were swinging while talking and getting my teeth broken. Hahahaaaa…
One time I left home and got down the road and pulled out my vape which was actually my Roku remote 🙃
2:56 I've forgotten dogs outside more than once while house sitting. I feel so so bad😭😂
This is SO funny omg. And the edits, chefs kiss, magnifique
My sister and I’s adhd teamed up when we were kids and playing video games at a friends house. Our friends and us both had the same super Mario DS game but our friend’s version had every island unlocked and we still needed to unlock 2 of our islands. So we dead ass conspired to distract them and switch the games from their case to our DS before we left that day. I still have that super Mario game😅 To my defense I was younger than my sister and she thought it was a good idea. I don’t think it was the worst because our games were identical besides the islands you have to beat bosses to unlock
The kleptomania thing is so real. Like I think we all have that story and it was probably the undiagnosed adhd impulses fueling me. 😂
YEP 😂😂
I did it a few times until the memory of the shame of getting caught overpowered the need for the thing.
Yes, what’s up with that?
I don't think the ADHD stealing one should be jail. I definitely did this growing up. But I was more like (there is this ONE pen in the classroom that feels ok to write with, the others are awful). So this pen is mine now. Also. Littlest Pet Shops!!!!! Those were my JAM. I had (actually still have) SO many of those.
Tampon tracking hard relate, though 30 hours is a very high bar
I've done the tampon thing only with disposable contact lenses, multiple times. You ever just randomly find an extra shrivelled up contact lens underneath your eyelid? Just me?
we need a part 2!!
One time I left my keys in the door... for several days and I didn't realize until I needed to go out again
I have also done this
The only thing I found really bad was leaving the poor doggo out in the rain😢
I have never stolen something as a child, but once as a teenager because others told me to proove I am brave enough. It was a packet of chewing gum (like Wrigleys) at a drugstore and I felt sooo guilty and was in panic. But I learned as a mother that some children do and it is seen "normal" (but I never saw my son did), so I guess that's not so bad.
I did never pee in as an adult, but often don't go to the toilet when I should and know the "pee dance".
But I am trained to go to the toilet before leaving home or office, restaurants, whatever.
And mostly stay home.
I love this!! New series???
I think it might have to be!!
When you told the littlest pet shop story the only thing I could think about was being that girl and falling into an OCD episode when I couldn’t find the 2 missing toys I KNEW I had and I KNEW I had been with my other toys 😅 I would have had a full blown panic attack and torn the house apart looking for them🤣
This was hilarious! Best way to start the day! (For me it's 5am now) xDD
thank you for the SVU reference, it was perfect 💕
Not sure if it's the worst one but I left my menstrual cup in for three days before realizing I never took it out (luckily my flow was basically over)
I started setting timers
I was so cynical today that I got a warning for hate speech from Meta.
I do a lot of pet sitting and I am so paranoid I let the indoor-only cat out or that I didn't give them fresh water or something. That was a very polite dog to not shout about it :D
PLEASE make this a series! I beg!
When I was a baby I would constantly steal this toy chicken from daycare. My mom would take it back, apologize, rinse, repeat. It was such a problem they eventually gave me the chicken. I wish I still had it too. It was cute somehow 😅
An interesting experiment might be to take that unpaid labour and hire someone to do a portion of it and spend that time working and see if you are any better off as a result
The tampon stuff is really dangerous. Please take care of yourself guys! Use an alternative like pads, cups or period underwear.
Would like to point out you can also get toxic shock syndrome from cups
I don't know which is the worst I've done them all, but leaving the senior dog out would cause me the most distress and ignite my self hate 😫😢
I KNOW I WOULD CRY
The tampon story, ahhh! I imagined that WAY to visual 😂😂😂
I peed my bed at 15 at 6am because I coming back from a dinner I had drank coke in and hadn't gone all day I was too exausted to go to the bathroom
I once had a dream I was playing that water squirting game at Chuck E. Cheese. You know the one? Anyway, I had this dream, I was winning ofc. And I woke up to myself pissing my pants. I was 17😂😂😂😂
I know you didn’t ask but I felt the need to share anyway. That adhd I guess!
love this style of vid!
I missed the window for my mid year review for the first time and was so embarrassed. Then I somehow I also missed the year end window and had to tell my boss. At least my actual performance and mandatory training were great . I remembered the stuff important for other people but not myself 🤦
I used to line up all my Litte Pet Shops 😂😂😂
Omg, I’ve done a few of these. 🤣 never admitted it until now! 😂 So relieving to know it’s my ADHD.
Socks in sand can be a really nice feeling. But you need to change into different socks before you go back into your shoes. So always have spare socks with you!
Okay, so I often locked my keys in my car at university. But one time I was running late to class and when I got back to the lot where my car was, not only were my keys in the car and locked in there… they were in the ignition and my car was running the entire time I was in class- 4 hours!!!! Omg, so embarrassing getting the campus emergency auto people out there.
I NEED to know what that purple gel-like, cuboid stress ball thing is. Please.
It's a Nee Doh cube. Squishies like this are the best! They make other shapes too.
@@rainbowconnectedAre they super squishy? I can't stand that texture. It looks firm enough to mold like Play Doh but without it drying out which is perfect!
Could you maybe make a video on doing things when they cause you so much anxiety? For me it’s showering….
1. not bad
2. JAIL
3. not bad
4. not bad
5. JAIL
6. not bad
Honestly such a valid response
OMG the pee story! who hasn't been there LOL!I was just making jokes with my bro(also ADHD) about needing to go pee but waiting until the last second because you were busy gaming and completely forget it's a thing you gotta do until you get up👀 why I love seeing and connecting with other Neurodiverse peeps😅
also what are you playing with in your Akiflow scene!? looks better than a stress ball!?🤔
Forgetting to eat for multiple days at a time. Oh. And doing the same thing with drinking water.
Omg, I can relate with the tampon story so much. So I use a menstruation cup, and every month, on my light flow days I just don't empty it. And I can continue to wear it for like 3 or 4 days in a row, even after my period has already ended. And I don't forget, I mean, I know it's in there. But I just don't feel like executing the task of taking it out. If you know what I mean.
When i went to the store with my mum she kinda didn't know where I last stopped following her cause I got distracted by putting the stuff in the right order or to the right place
Hayley I’m getting stigmagz tomorrow! I can’t wait!
YAY!! Tell me how you like them!!
I got some last year and I really liked them but my adhd ass lost them within a few months 💀
I love mine (the pastels) sooo much! Have baught some neons for a friend and now wait for my series II glow in the dark and am again exited!
It really IS the best fidget for me.
Before it was the Tangle one.
Mine are on their way too! Can't wait to try them!
I got them! They are amazing! 🩷😄
I'm so thankful that I'm not the only one who has peed themselves in a public place because they forgot to go to the bathroom. I was on my way home and I spontaneously decided to do a bit of supermarket shopping and all of a sudden.... I needed to pee so so badly that I couldn't hold it in. I was so so unbelievably mortified I left the supermarket in tears and I didn't tell anybody what I had done, I just left. I was beyond embarrassed.
bro the amount of things i stole is a child i am surprised no one threw me in juvie..... It was always like cute stationary or stamps too haha
The tampon noises!😆
My Question: How can I help keep Family Room Space Organized? I have a tendency to keep notebooks out on the family room table that I use on a near daily basis & I live w/my mom where it is understandable that it does bug her where I try my best to live it in an organized pile rather than scattered all over the table (I have a tendency to do this & it stays like that for months on end). I have *tried* to explain how my brain/mind works in regards to that, but my mom doesn't seem willingly enough to learn more about ADHD, autism and other types of learning disabilities that exist out there in order to be able to understand it in.
Idk about non-ADHD'ers per se because I feel like the majority of them are generally pretty clean on their own. But I've noticed w/most who do have, when they *know* they have guests coming over-they go into a very quick "cleaning frenzy," including myself. And tbh, I want to know Why we do that.?-for anyone who may have an answer for that.
1 day, my mom went somewhere and I was gone and admittedly, the house was def. a bit of a mess, but neither my mom nor I knew we had guests coming over. So guests came over and my mom did her best to make the space appear cleaner. Basically, the reason I leave it out is b/c for me: "Outta sight = outta mind," which in turn means I rarely use it or no longer use it. My brain/personality also has a major habit of using a planner for abt. 3 mos straight, scrapping using it for abt. 1-2 mos. and abt. 1-2+ mos. later = I go back to using as an attempt to stay organized. Technology organization is actually worse for me than written organization despite the on/off use of my planners 🤣. So by any chance, would anyone have any suggestions that could help keep that space clear and organized where it could work for both my mom and I? My mom understandably wants a clear table, but I want to be able to not forget to use them if that makes any sense at all.
A couple ideas:
1) you have a box always on the table and every time you move away from the planner it can go in the box. If you forget, your mum will also know she can just dump it in the box
2) having a place where your mum puts things that you forgot so if she needs a clean space she can just dump it in one place (my mum created her own after I forgot to tidy things up too often and it helped keep the peace a bit lol)
3) have strict "sides" of the table so your workspace is restricted and you don't allow yourself to spread over the whole table. She'll at least always have half a table left for her if she needs to work and you can even draw a line with masking tape or something
@@innominativecompany4231 Thank you so much for the tips. And I'll try it out because I do want to be able to work with her on it. But she prefers a fully clear table. over a half clear one which I've done before, but I can try placing it maybe above my computer. She's fine w/my computer on the table since there's no proper place for it.
Ugg boots are kinda technically the solution. Like they were popular among Australian surfers to warm their feets on thr beach. I already hate thst sherpa texture, and wet skin against dry fsbric that isnt a rough towel... but i get it. I mean i get sand in my shoes, id get it in a calf high boot, and id never wear socks either. I dont like sand or beaches... only specifically damp sand. And i hate hot sand. But no not the socks. Jail.
Idk abt ADHD confessions per se, but my mom told me I used to be mean when I was 4 yrs. old. Also, I know everyone is different where ik that one doesn't necessarily have to have ADHD nor Autism, but I was born 3 weeks early (my pt. to that is that I didn't say 1 word until I was 3 yrs. old)-so from my perspective, idk there's a potential correlation between being born early & mild developmental delays or not.
Anyways, my mom told me that there was 1 time I was at someone else's house and literally thought *Their* toys were My Toys & apparently I didn't share their own toys with them. And apparently, I used to push ppl b/c my mom got other kids' parents literally telling her: "your daughter's mean."
Abt. the sock thing on the beach & I 100% understand sensory issues since I have quite a few myself. But wouldn't sand literally End up Inside the socks anyways? So at that point wearing socks on sand is a little useless imho esp. when there's a faucet thing to rinse ur feet off when walking back to your/your parents car. Apparently when I was younger, I never let my parents put *anything* on my head (I'd constantly take things off) up until I became a teenager and occasionally wore headbands, but they'd be coming off within the hour though. Now as an adult, I can only wear one for prob. about 30 mins. or so, but other than that it's coming right off my head.
Someone did create socks for the sand, i watched a TikTok about it… can’t remember the company or creator though
It had some very mixed reactions in the comments
JAIL
6:20 But doesn’t this make it super overwhelming when you see everything at once?
I have perpetrated both tampon stories 😶
WAIT, WHICH ONE WAS YOURS HELLO???
Hehehehehe which one do you think?
@@hayley.honeyman I legitimately think it's the sock in the sand one but I don't have confirmation and I MUST KNOW IT IS GOING TO STAY WITH ME UNTIL I KNOW. 🤣
hi danielle
I love your last name, it make you look like a sweet-Cinnamon-roll❤
I'm so glad I just wear pads😅
Relatable
Was it once or twice though??? 🤔 Once forgiven, twice... 🤨
Hahah I love to walk in the sand with socks! But also barefoot! But try the socks ! ;)
I have peed in two churches. Not enough public toilets God says.
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I did NOT realise how crucial having a strong bladder is to me surviving with adhd 😭 I’m so sorry everyone. Even I’ve had close calls! It should be a 2 for 1 deal. You get adhd, you get a strong bladder
I’m guilty of both tampon crimes though. It was accidental until my periods got so heavy I intentionally used 2 tampons and a pad. I have a menstrual cup now. Buuuut I’ve also used a menstrual cup, a tampon, and a pad to get by safely for 6 hours when I wouldn’t have access to a bathroom 🫠 Is oversharing online a crime? We’re so guilty
love how "i pissed myself in the elevator" is yeah whatever, we all do that but "socks on sand" and we agree INSTANT JAIL🫠 adhd is wild lmao