*PREMIS MATEMATIKA* *Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper *Saran :* NIKAH PREMISNYA Fungsi NIKAH = SEX Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi Padahal Fungsinya itu Logika Kesimpulan 😂
Amazing teaching. I come from a Muslim background where everything is one way and have wondered about this topic and have been nervous to get into a relationship and have been practicing purity but my heart does desire a godly husband one day and i am growing and learning and I hope the Lord is preparing a husband for me😊 God bless you both. ❤ Every message from Pastor Vlad is incredible. I thank the Lord for your teachings 🙏
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA* *Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper *Saran :* NIKAH PREMISNYA Fungsi NIKAH = SEX Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi Padahal Fungsinya itu Logika Kesimpulan 😂
Jesus...read the books of proverbs you shall know them by theur fruits. StDS are running v wild in Canada and also down in Texas abd masaxhusetts.. these places are loaded with men and females age 18 to 29 loaded with idolatry and filth. Ive been staying pure but I have been isolated too much by my mother now she wants to throw me out like in a burden..
I have never watched a porn video. Ex justified his cheating calling me “boring”. I have been ridiculed by many people YET I continue to remain strong in what does not resonate with me. Always be authentic.
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA* *Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper *Saran :* NIKAH PREMISNYA Fungsi NIKAH = SEX Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi Padahal Fungsinya itu Logika Kesimpulan 😂
Absolutely necessary message for every couple to hear. My Pastor taught this to my husband and I 12 years ago right when we got married. My husband and I are both ministers now faithfully serving the Lord in a godly marriage.
My mother is now in stage 4 cancer, please include her in your prayers. I'm crying right now as I type this. But I am hopeful that Lord will heal her. God bless us all!
Prayers for her 🙏 I RECOMMEND that if she is also going through Chemo and other things... That you try to change her diet a little bit.but also follow what the Dr says. Also Cancer feeds on sugar so cut the sugar down...
As a childfree, single woman, I Thank you both so very much!❤ Many of us have been bingoed to death by family and church members who weaponize scripture against us for choosing this lifestyle and it's not right - it is downright exhausting!
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA* *Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper *Saran :* NIKAH PREMISNYA Fungsi NIKAH = SEX Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi Padahal Fungsinya itu Logika Kesimpulan 😂
Something I love about watching you two is that you're so on the same page and united in your message. God bless your marriage as He has used you to bless mine!
I just turned 28 and I'm still a virgin. I've neglected many opportunities to meet women and build social skills. I regret this, as my passion and sexual urges are high. I guess, it doesn't matter if I become a 30 year old virgin male or a 40 year old virgin male. I'm trying trying so hard to hold onto hope to do what's right and wait to marriage. But it just doesn't seem it's gonna happen, and I'm afraid I may die a virgin. One of the most important blessings God has given us. Sex in the marriage bed, as the biological clock ticks away, here I am.
Keep holding brother I was addicted to porn for 7 years since the age of 11 and it destroyed my life and relationships Jesus saved me and set me free at 19 and staying pure is something I wish I could have done but keep going man I’m telling you it’s the best thing you can do to yourself and future wife 🙏🙏💪
Hey, don't get discouraged. Sometimes things dont happen because we still need deliverance. Ask God to reveal every little thing that is making you not find love. Maybe you still need to get deliverance in some areas of your life (example: finances, mental, health, etc) and that could be an obstacle. Dont give up, pray constantly for God to reveal everything and be humble when God corrects you and shows you something you need to improve. Im in that process right now and it is unbelievable how many things God has shown me... i have been fixing issues that i had no idea needed fixing (i thought i was ready and perfect... but... nope) and i know i still have a long way to go... but since it is God who is preparing me, i can see progress every day and get so motivated in the "waiting"
Remember Paul said that we should all be like him! Unless we can control ourselves!! Serve the Lord Look toward the lord and He will make your paths straight!
Thank you pastor Vlad and Ms Lana . I have never heard it this way from pastor marriage, is awesome. Is things I’ve been practicing lately specially our communication and that I’ve notice that when communication gets better the intimacy gets better too. Thank Lord
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA* *Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper *Saran :* NIKAH PREMISNYA Fungsi NIKAH = SEX Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi Padahal Fungsinya itu Logika Kesimpulan 😂
You two are amazing, yes our marriage has changed to us both understanding this true meaning once we accepted Jesus as our Savior and put Him in our marriage. We now understand how God wants us to love eachother. ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA* *Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper *Saran :* NIKAH PREMISNYA Fungsi NIKAH = SEX Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi Padahal Fungsinya itu Logika Kesimpulan 😂
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA* *Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper *Saran :* NIKAH PREMISNYA Fungsi NIKAH = SEX Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi Padahal Fungsinya itu Logika Kesimpulan 😂
Thank you SO MUCH for speaking out on this topic! Married for 20 years and I still have so many questions, but no Christians talk about this stuff. Please keep this topic open! Thanks Vlad and Lana. ✝️🙏
Thank you both for the teaching. I don't see a lot of teaching in sexual purity and explained at that. Definitely recommend to whom ever to give this a watch. 💯 God bless.
I love your thumbnail! I’m a wedding photographer and it’s so cute! I didn’t realize it was you guys at first! Thank you so much for the way your approach this topic.
Thank you for sharing this!!! Sex has never been a topic I could ever talk about even with my husband. It always felt shameful! This helps a lot!! My marriage is so broken. My husband cheated years ago and I have never recovered!! You’re so right to everything you both have said!! Prayers needed for healing!! How do we pray for this?🙏🏻❤️🩹
Angie, I will pray for you and your husband. What is impossible for us, is absolutely possible for God, and God loves you and your husband and wants to heal and renew your marriage. It is my prayer that your husband allow the Holy Spirit to lead you together towards God and believe and allow God to work all things out for your good.
To be healed, you must forgive. If you have things you need to repent for and apologize to your husband for, do that too. That’s the beginning and the foundation of all healing. And then begin to pray for your husband every day. Set alarms in your phone to remind you. Declare into the atmosphere the things you want in your marriage- life and death are in the power is the tongue! Never again say that your marriage is broken; Speak life, and hope and peace and blessings!
Same here..my husband cheated on me for other young girls...praying that God forgive our sins and make us get United in the name.of our Lord Jesus Christ..
A subject matter that many tend to overlook especially in our Nigerian context. Spouses hardly discuss this matter and yet it is eating deep into the very fabric of marriage. I recommend that spouses grasp a copy of "Why am I Afraid to Tell you who I really am?" by John Powell and read from cover to cover
Thank you. It was very informative and it put both the feelings and needs of husband and wife in the conversation.Very helpful and thank you for backing it up with scriptures
This is what I needed I have been seeing many of the actions of those around me that are not in accordance with the word. I been so hesitant because sadly my husband has been of walking in such a tio s that I know to not be the way of the Lord. It troubles me because I have been one in the same. However I have chose to turn from our past. And have been struggling and been on the receiving end of domestic abuse. And being told that I must obey him ( my husband) that how he interprets the word for our life. I pray that our father will see us through and bring us back into what he has for us according to his word. That my husband will have his eyes opened and know beyond any doubt what he and I must do to walk with God in the cool of the evening. That he will use us mightly for his purpose. Send our comfort to guide us together and/or separate. Here I am Lord. What would you have me to do. Amen
Finally. The first beneficial video on the topic of intimacy. Thank you. Theres too many videos on christians who give their opinions. Love this video, so pure so founded on truth. Thank you. 😊
34:14 Surprised to hear non-Africans talk about marine spirits and such activities. As an African and a Nigerian living in Nigeria I can confirm for free that they are real! Well done guys for this balanced all encompassing Bible teaching.
Good talk, thanks. It is also worth noting that if something is wrong it becomes a bondage and a bondage is something that controls you. If a sexual practice becomes insistent, ie obsessive and dominant then be careful, something is wrong. God bless you all.
Hi pastor please 🙏 pray for us we married last 3and half years still waiting for baby blessing we got love marriage and praise Lord Jesus and follow him waiting for his mercie on us
Hi Vlad, I love your ministries. There are some married couples that can not, you know. Due to some physical conditions and such. The physical will pass. Jesus is the Blessing. You just have to deaden the flesh spiritually. It works. Praise Jesus! ✝️ 📖 ❤️🔥🙏
I'm not being rude, but That's a fine line. Got hates divorce and as long as the spouse of a divorced person is still living, it's considered adultery for the spouse and fornication for the unmarried person who's having relations with the divorce person. This is what I was told as I'm currently in a relationship with a divorced person. I didn't know that I was guilty until a pastor broke it down to me. Now we're headed to Splitsville... 😫💔
Thanks for your response but that’s not true if you understand the Jewish culture and understand what and why the law of Moses talked about no divorce then you’ll understand more about why Jesus said it as well then Paul explained it more protecting women from what the men at that time did, now it is not designed to be divorced but I had biblical grounds to divorce, my marriage was abusive and I’m not staying in abusive marriage but thank you for your reply. And you are not guilty so if there is shame etc in Jesus name I break it with the blood of Jesus!
Help her with the work around the house is considered some form of affection to make things easy on her and it makes it easy for her to want to give to you find a way to stir her heart and she will open the door to what you need
Dear pastor, blessings to you . Great video. Please, can you make a presentation about the ways, methods of contraception that are pleasing before God. This is very important, given that sometimes there are inclinations, such as illness, aging, the age difference of the spouses, or the decision not to want a child. Doctors also have their own opinion when you come to them for a check-up. That is why I ask you for some presentation, advice on acceptable ways to protect against pregnancy, and a healthy sexually intimate life for the rest of the spouse's life.
1 Corinthians 7:5 5 Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it's for the purposes of prayer and fasting - but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it.
As a Christian, I do not believe in oral and anal sex. I have come across tooooo many Christians whose opinion differs from mines. What do you think about anal and oral sex in Christianity? I'd really love to know.
It’s important to note that sex for procreative purposes is no longer the case for those who are beyond their childbearing years. Older folks can still enjoy the other aspects of sexual intimacy.
Frist of all, I want to convey you two are so super, and the lord is evident in your lives. There is truly a warmth of the holy spirit you both have that is wonderful! I just have some things I want to say. If I come off like I'm trying to disrespect anyone, that is totally far from what I'm saying. I'm just trying to point out somethings since this topic is about sexuality and marriage. It is widely believed by Christians today who believe the Song of Solomon is like a guide for marriage and sexuality in marriage. My father is a bible theologian, and he got saved when he was 17 years old around 70 years ago. Since he got saved all those years ago, he has constantly studied, read the scriptures, gone to bible school, and never ceased studying since. He knows the bible to the very acute detail, and what does it all mean in Revelation. BTW, my dad never ever takes any credit. He says he is just a vessel for the lord and its all the lord God not him. Anyway, out of all the years of being a believer, he has never heard any minister, pastor, teacher, etc. say that the Song of Solomon is a sexual guide for marriage. Years ago, if that were true, they would have said so. However, its only been in fairly recent times that ministers, pastors, teachers, etc. have claimed this as fact. My dad said the Song of Solomon is God's love expressed for Israel and for believers. Yes, sex is good and created by God, but the lord would never put something like that in his holy book. Also, I believe believers should never engage in oral sex, and another type of sex act. Those are homosexual sex acts, and I think believers should not mimic homosexuals. Believers should be different and clean than the world. I believe when believers express homosexuals are practicing perversion, I think believers should be totally right standing to make that judgment. Yes, homosexuality is sexuality between two people of the same sex, and therefore that is twisted. But, again, the sex acts alone are perverted, and that is how homosexuals sexually express their sexuality. I think just becuase it's a marriage between a man and a woman doesn't mean those sex acts have changed being no longer perverted. It is what it is.
It's not. Martial rape is forcing yourself onto her your with without consent not stating hey I am horny and you have withholding yourself far to long lets have sex. Sex is a right for both parties 1 Corinthians chapter 7 clearly states that
Everything Lana says I agree and identify. I feel the love she has for God and how Holy Spirit flows through her. She has fire. I'm new to this channel and wondering if she does Bible Study specifically for us Women?
My husband only wants sex about 4 times a year. He constantly rejects me. Almost from the time we got married and for 6 and 1/2 years. I feel like throwing up but now I do not want him touching me. He would rather do things with himself in the shower. What's wrong with this picture? Sick.
Sorry. I guess men aren't the only ones that struggle. My wife only wants it a couple times a year as well nothing we can do, right! It is kind of unfair if you knew everything you would go through you would of married someone else, right!!! And that other person would go marry someone else that wants sex only four times a year, and then those two can be happy... and you could be married to the person that wants it 2 or 3 times a week like you do.
I see this happening a lot.. men are becoming less active and don't want the real thing for some odd reason they wat nothing to do with the real deal. They want more and more fantasies and keep to themselves. This is actually something happening on a grand scale.
I totally agree that sex is not to seek pleasure for myself. But when you have one space that withholds sex because "I am too tired" for months or years. And the other spoce is hungry for intimacy. How do you solve this problem. This has severely damaged our relationship.
Thank you bro for serving the lord. Bro I have a question which bathers me is it right men and women to use their mouths in private part while their making?
Hi Vlad, I just wonder, what to do if you have urges being single, it feels like once in a month you can't stand the urges and leads to sin? Still don't know what to do feel ashamed... I mean when Yeshua brings you in solitude season as a being, as a man I am clueless.
Great content, thank you..I would like to add my opinion towards somethings mentioned..I believe things like using toys, anal, oral sex may be touchy subject. These may have the intention to satisfy your partner (the pleasure aspect), but it can most of the time can be taken as indulging in pleasure, in gluttonous manner..It can be fulfilling more of lust and not of love with your partner.. Sometimes even performing acts you have seen in a porn flick in the past..Which can open doors...Thoughts?
I agree. Sounds like an unhealthy mind and heart to get into things of that nature or too carried away… perhaps subconsciously changing the way you view your partner, and cause someone to crave MORE or even other experiences with different people.
I have so much to pray😢. God didn't give us children. I'm almost 43. I stop asking God for children cause my husband doesn't want to pray with me. I have tried praying alone for my brothers and sister.. I feel as if God wants me to just trust in him. I wanted to at least feel loved by my husband but no sex and he seems so excited about my sisters conversations and new look. I feel so insignificant 😢😢 I feel like I'm so broken and everything is broken around me. I'm no body. I thought Iif I married a Christian man, I'd be loved and safe, but that is not true. I'm a nobody . 16 years in marriage.
I have been happily married for 45 years. I am a retired medical professional. Beautiful message Vlad and Lana.
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Please...how did you do it...I want a long fulfilling marriage myself ❤
Amazing teaching. I come from a Muslim background where everything is one way and have wondered about this topic and have been nervous to get into a relationship and have been practicing purity but my heart does desire a godly husband one day and i am growing and learning and I hope the Lord is preparing a husband for me😊
God bless you both. ❤
Every message from Pastor Vlad is incredible. I thank the Lord for your teachings 🙏
Just look to Jesus
Wow!
Keep teaching that people may know the truth! and the truth will make them free!
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Jesus...read the books of proverbs you shall know them by theur fruits. StDS are running v wild in Canada and also down in Texas abd masaxhusetts.. these places are loaded with men and females age 18 to 29 loaded with idolatry and filth. Ive been staying pure but I have been isolated too much by my mother now she wants to throw me out like in a burden..
@vladsavchuk can u please expand on this u glossed over (I think):
"Demons (incubus n sucubus?) watch 4 unclean spirits behind sex"
I have never watched a porn video. Ex justified his cheating calling me “boring”. I have been ridiculed by many people YET I continue to remain strong in what does not resonate with me. Always be authentic.
Whats up me if you don't mind we can mingle
Porn is the cause of many negative feelings and depression and anxieties. Never watch it and never be tempted, it is sooo NOT WORTH IT!
This is helpful for me as a pastor, knowing that sexual perversion has become so rampant in society.
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Absolutely necessary message for every couple to hear. My Pastor taught this to my husband and I 12 years ago right when we got married. My husband and I are both ministers now faithfully serving the Lord in a godly marriage.
Vlad's illustration comparing love and lust to soil and dirt was revolutionary and resolved something within my spirit.
As a single woman of God, I thank God you published this video, and I watched this video. 🙏🏼
This has been very informative study through Bible.I liked it much Thank u so much.
My mother is now in stage 4 cancer, please include her in your prayers. I'm crying right now as I type this. But I am hopeful that Lord will heal her. God bless us all!
she is healed. Praying for her restoration now.
I join in prayer with you.
Draw near to god and he will draw near to you.
💓💓💓
Prayer went up. God makes all things work together.
Prayers for her 🙏 I RECOMMEND that if she is also going through Chemo and other things... That you try to change her diet a little bit.but also follow what the Dr says. Also Cancer feeds on sugar so cut the sugar down...
As a childfree, single woman, I Thank you both so very much!❤
Many of us have been bingoed to death by family and church members who weaponize scripture against us for choosing this lifestyle and it's not right - it is downright exhausting!
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Something I love about watching you two is that you're so on the same page and united in your message. God bless your marriage as He has used you to bless mine!
I just turned 28 and I'm still a virgin. I've neglected many opportunities to meet women and build social skills. I regret this, as my passion and sexual urges are high. I guess, it doesn't matter if I become a 30 year old virgin male or a 40 year old virgin male. I'm trying trying so hard to hold onto hope to do what's right and wait to marriage. But it just doesn't seem it's gonna happen, and I'm afraid I may die a virgin. One of the most important blessings God has given us. Sex in the marriage bed, as the biological clock ticks away, here I am.
Brother, congratulations on keeping yourself pure. Don't give up now. Your wife will thank you and God will bless you.
Keep holding brother I was addicted to porn for 7 years since the age of 11 and it destroyed my life and relationships Jesus saved me and set me free at 19 and staying pure is something I wish I could have done but keep going man I’m telling you it’s the best thing you can do to yourself and future wife 🙏🙏💪
Hey, don't get discouraged. Sometimes things dont happen because we still need deliverance. Ask God to reveal every little thing that is making you not find love. Maybe you still need to get deliverance in some areas of your life (example: finances, mental, health, etc) and that could be an obstacle. Dont give up, pray constantly for God to reveal everything and be humble when God corrects you and shows you something you need to improve. Im in that process right now and it is unbelievable how many things God has shown me... i have been fixing issues that i had no idea needed fixing (i thought i was ready and perfect... but... nope) and i know i still have a long way to go... but since it is God who is preparing me, i can see progress every day and get so motivated in the "waiting"
Do you attend church? Are you actively seeking Christian women?
Remember Paul said that we should all be like him! Unless we can control ourselves!! Serve the Lord Look toward the lord and He will make your paths straight!
Thank you pastor Vlad and Ms Lana . I have never heard it this way from pastor marriage, is awesome. Is things I’ve been practicing lately specially our communication and that I’ve notice that when communication gets better the intimacy gets better too. Thank Lord
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
You two are amazing, yes our marriage has changed to us both understanding this true meaning once we accepted Jesus as our Savior and put Him in our marriage. We now understand how God wants us to love eachother. ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
This is exactly what I needed. I appreciate you both taking the time to share this message. ❤
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Thank you SO MUCH for speaking out on this topic!
Married for 20 years and I still have so many questions, but no Christians talk about this stuff. Please keep this topic open!
Thanks Vlad and Lana.
✝️🙏
Thank you both for the teaching. I don't see a lot of teaching in sexual purity and explained at that. Definitely recommend to whom ever to give this a watch. 💯
God bless.
Thank you both! Bless you. Ignore the negative immature comments. Thank you everyone that has kept the comment section decent and respectful
You have a wonderful co-host and wife... she explained from a woman's perspective so well.... great job guys🔥🔥🔥🔥
This answered so many questions me & my wife both had & cleared up a lit as well..
Thank you guys for tgis video & thank you Jesus for the word.
I love your thumbnail! I’m a wedding photographer and it’s so cute! I didn’t realize it was you guys at first! Thank you so much for the way your approach this topic.
Thank you for sharing this!!! Sex has never been a topic I could ever talk about even with my husband. It always felt shameful! This helps a lot!!
My marriage is so broken. My husband cheated years ago and I have never recovered!! You’re so right to everything you both have said!! Prayers needed for healing!! How do we pray for this?🙏🏻❤️🩹
Angie, I will pray for you and your husband. What is impossible for us, is absolutely possible for God, and God loves you and your husband and wants to heal and renew your marriage. It is my prayer that your husband allow the Holy Spirit to lead you together towards God and believe and allow God to work all things out for your good.
To be healed, you must forgive. If you have things you need to repent for and apologize to your husband for, do that too. That’s the beginning and the foundation of all healing. And then begin to pray for your husband every day. Set alarms in your phone to remind you. Declare into the atmosphere the things you want in your marriage- life and death are in the power is the tongue! Never again say that your marriage is broken; Speak life, and hope and peace and blessings!
Leave him the f.k out...!!...what da h3ll are u waiting for!!???
Same here..my husband cheated on me for other young girls...praying that God forgive our sins and make us get United in the name.of our Lord Jesus Christ..
@@poppylove3673Thank you!!!!! ❤
The little bit about men being a fountain and women being a well is a gem.
Thank you Pastor Vlad and Lady Lana! Love hearing your perspectives from the Word of GOD! 🙌🏾
A subject matter that many tend to overlook especially in our Nigerian context. Spouses hardly discuss this matter and yet it is eating deep into the very fabric of marriage. I recommend that spouses grasp a copy of "Why am I Afraid to Tell you who I really am?" by John Powell and read from cover to cover
Thank you. It was very informative and it put both the feelings and needs of husband and wife in the conversation.Very helpful and thank you for backing it up with scriptures
I am so glad you guys made a video on this topic. It's answered a ton of questions I've had over the past 20 years or so. Thank you!
Thank you for this good conversation. Thank you for opening up. So importand...
God bless your marriage and your ministry!
Cheers from Germany
Thank You for sharing your comprehensive personal knowledge and feelings about intimacy in Marriage from a Christian Perspective.
This is what I needed
I have been seeing many of the actions of those around me that are not in accordance with the word. I been so hesitant because sadly my husband has been of walking in such a tio s that I know to not be the way of the Lord. It troubles me because I have been one in the same. However I have chose to turn from our past. And have been struggling and been on the receiving end of domestic abuse. And being told that I must obey him ( my husband) that how he interprets the word for our life. I pray that our father will see us through and bring us back into what he has for us according to his word. That my husband will have his eyes opened and know beyond any doubt what he and I must do to walk with God in the cool of the evening. That he will use us mightly for his purpose. Send our comfort to guide us together and/or separate. Here I am Lord. What would you have me to do. Amen
Thank you, I’m so grateful to hear your teaching on sexual intimacy from a Christian Perspective with Biblical Scriptural References.
God bless, great discussion. May the Lord continue using you. 🙏
Finally. The first beneficial video on the topic of intimacy. Thank you. Theres too many videos on christians who give their opinions. Love this video, so pure so founded on truth. Thank you. 😊
Sex is about serving not selfishness
...LOVE this conversation...Thank you for bringing this biblical..truthfilled..frank...real talk 2 the people...love you two!!!
I love these videos. They are beautiful and mature. A good pastor speaks wisdom in many areas of life.
If we have questions, who can we reach out to? I love your ministry and respect your direction. Thank you!
34:14 Surprised to hear non-Africans talk about marine spirits and such activities. As an African and a Nigerian living in Nigeria I can confirm for free that they are real! Well done guys for this balanced all encompassing Bible teaching.
Thank you pastor Vlad and Mrs Lana ❤️
Good talk, thanks. It is also worth noting that if something is wrong it becomes a bondage and a bondage is something that controls you. If a sexual practice becomes insistent, ie obsessive and dominant then be careful, something is wrong. God bless you all.
Hi pastor please 🙏 pray for us we married last 3and half years still waiting for baby blessing we got love marriage and praise Lord Jesus and follow him waiting for his mercie on us
So helpful! Im getting married in August and we ve been waiting for marriage :)
Thank you for this video. It’s so needed right now in my own personal life.
Thanks for the clarity, this is very very interesting, encouraging and informative.
May the Lord continue to guide you and bless you both.
Hi Vlad, I love your ministries. There are some married couples that can not, you know. Due to some physical conditions and such. The physical will pass. Jesus is the Blessing. You just have to deaden the flesh spiritually. It works. Praise Jesus! ✝️ 📖 ❤️🔥🙏
Would you both do a lesson on dating as a Christian definitely after divorce? All of your lessons have been a blessing to me thank you so much.
I'm not being rude, but That's a fine line. Got hates divorce and as long as the spouse of a divorced person is still living, it's considered adultery for the spouse and fornication for the unmarried person who's having relations with the divorce person. This is what I was told as I'm currently in a relationship with a divorced person. I didn't know that I was guilty until a pastor broke it down to me. Now we're headed to Splitsville... 😫💔
*God hates divorce. Sorry autocorrect.
Thanks for your response but that’s not true if you understand the Jewish culture and understand what and why the law of Moses talked about no divorce then you’ll understand more about why Jesus said it as well then Paul explained it more protecting women from what the men at that time did, now it is not designed to be divorced but I had biblical grounds to divorce, my marriage was abusive and I’m not staying in abusive marriage but thank you for your reply. And you are not guilty so if there is shame etc in Jesus name I break it with the blood of Jesus!
@@amberh7167 God bless you Amber
Love this word! Amen. Thank you so much. This is a blessing to my marriage!
Help her with the work around the house is considered some form of affection to make things easy on her and it makes it easy for her to want to give to you find a way to stir her heart and she will open the door to what you need
Wonderful, I'm still waiting onto God for marriage
Thank you so much for this message. This is extremely helpful for me. God bless you both.
I understand about not forcing. Yes i understand.
Dear pastor, blessings to you . Great video. Please, can you make a presentation about the ways, methods of contraception that are pleasing before God. This is very important, given that sometimes there are inclinations, such as illness, aging, the age difference of the spouses, or the decision not to want a child. Doctors also have their own opinion when you come to them for a check-up. That is why I ask you for some presentation, advice on acceptable ways to protect against pregnancy, and a healthy sexually intimate life for the rest of the spouse's life.
Fruitful = Multiplication ❤
Is this in order of priority? Procreation
Pleasure
Protection
Comfort
Intimacy
I am so happy to be here.
I truly Believe God has led us to your Channel here on UA-cam. Thank You.
This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing. Every married couple should watch this. 💯❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥
Very informative this information is needed to be heard.
1 Corinthians 7:5
5 Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it's for the purposes of prayer and fasting - but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it.
Thank you soo much for this teaching because im planning to married and have a strong and healthy life by lord father production 🙏✝️
Thank you for good scriptures and information to walk with Christ in purity
Is your wife from Russia? She has an accent although I’m not sure where that accent is from
This is such a bold and important topic to discuss.. Thanks for this video❤
I have alot of abuse in my past .you are my right about not punishing your spouse.
He just quoted T.D. Jakes.
(Seriously?)
I am also concerned about this....
Even a broken clock is right twice a day
Really? I’ll have to listen
This is excellent. Thank you for such a thorough and thoughtful session. Very well done!!
Thank you so much pastor Vlad and Lana
As a Christian, I do not believe in oral and anal sex. I have come across tooooo many Christians whose opinion differs from mines. What do you think about anal and oral sex in Christianity? I'd really love to know.
It’s important to note that sex for procreative purposes is no longer the case for those who are beyond their childbearing years. Older folks can still enjoy the other aspects of sexual intimacy.
Wish my wife understood the importance of this!!!!!!!!
Me to Jason...
Show her this video
agree.. show her this video, be loving and forgiving , do not withhold affection... draw the water out ❤
Thank you so much for addressing this topic!
Again. I really reall LOVE this video and love you guys getting into all the details. Just so nicely put together
PRAISE THE LORD .,
Thank you guys . This have been one of the most helpful video that I have see so far about sex in marriage. GOD BLESS YOU
2. Proverbs 5.18-19 - Pleasure
God is absolutely good ☝🏻🙏🏻
Frist of all, I want to convey you two are so super, and the lord is evident in your lives. There is truly a warmth of the holy spirit you both have that is wonderful!
I just have some things I want to say. If I come off like I'm trying to disrespect anyone, that is totally far from what I'm saying. I'm just trying to point out somethings since this topic is about sexuality and marriage. It is widely believed by Christians today who believe the Song of Solomon is like a guide for marriage and sexuality in marriage. My father is a bible theologian, and he got saved when he was 17 years old around 70 years ago. Since he got saved all those years ago, he has constantly studied, read the scriptures, gone to bible school, and never ceased studying since. He knows the bible to the very acute detail, and what does it all mean in Revelation. BTW, my dad never ever takes any credit. He says he is just a vessel for the lord and its all the lord God not him. Anyway, out of all the years of being a believer, he has never heard any minister, pastor, teacher, etc. say that the Song of Solomon is a sexual guide for marriage. Years ago, if that were true, they would have said so. However, its only been in fairly recent times that ministers, pastors, teachers, etc. have claimed this as fact. My dad said the Song of Solomon is God's love expressed for Israel and for believers. Yes, sex is good and created by God, but the lord would never put something like that in his holy book.
Also, I believe believers should never engage in oral sex, and another type of sex act. Those are homosexual sex acts, and I think believers should not mimic homosexuals. Believers should be different and clean than the world. I believe when believers express homosexuals are practicing perversion, I think believers should be totally right standing to make that judgment. Yes, homosexuality is sexuality between two people of the same sex, and therefore that is twisted. But, again, the sex acts alone are perverted, and that is how homosexuals sexually express their sexuality. I think just becuase it's a marriage between a man and a woman doesn't mean those sex acts have changed being no longer perverted. It is what it is.
Thank you for clarification on the marital rape. I didn't know that was a thing.
It's not. Martial rape is forcing yourself onto her your with without consent not stating hey I am horny and you have withholding yourself far to long lets have sex. Sex is a right for both parties 1 Corinthians chapter 7 clearly states that
Beautiful couple and very good godly counsel.
Everything Lana says I agree and identify. I feel the love she has for God and how Holy Spirit flows through her. She has fire. I'm new to this channel and wondering if she does Bible Study specifically for us Women?
My husband only wants sex about 4 times a year. He constantly rejects me. Almost from the time we got married and for 6 and 1/2 years. I feel like throwing up but now I do not want him touching me. He would rather do things with himself in the shower. What's wrong with this picture? Sick.
Sorry. I guess men aren't the only ones that struggle. My wife only wants it a couple times a year as well nothing we can do, right! It is kind of unfair if you knew everything you would go through you would of married someone else, right!!! And that other person would go marry someone else that wants sex only four times a year, and then those two can be happy... and you could be married to the person that wants it 2 or 3 times a week like you do.
I see this happening a lot.. men are becoming less active and don't want the real thing for some odd reason they wat nothing to do with the real deal. They want more and more fantasies and keep to themselves. This is actually something happening on a grand scale.
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God bless you for leading the righteous way
Praise the Lord ❤
Thanks for such an important message - 🙏🏻✨
Thanku very well done very well said God bless yau and your marriage , this was very informative much appreciated!!!
Sex is not God
Sex is not gross
Sex is a gift
I totally agree that sex is not to seek pleasure for myself. But when you have one space that withholds sex because "I am too tired" for months or years. And the other spoce is hungry for intimacy. How do you solve this problem. This has severely damaged our relationship.
Sodomy is prohibited by Scripture.
I knew a Christian couple that was doing sodomy and the wife was having abdominal pains.
What do you describe as sodomy?
Thank you bro for serving the lord. Bro I have a question which bathers me is it right men and women to use their mouths in private part while their making?
Hi Vlad, I just wonder, what to do if you have urges being single, it feels like once in a month you can't stand the urges and leads to sin? Still don't know what to do feel ashamed... I mean when Yeshua brings you in solitude season as a being, as a man I am clueless.
Thank you God-bless you This is so helpful for my Spiritual life
Thank you for that holy message and explaination
Great content, thank you..I would like to add my opinion towards somethings mentioned..I believe things like using toys, anal, oral sex may be touchy subject. These may have the intention to satisfy your partner (the pleasure aspect), but it can most of the time can be taken as indulging in pleasure, in gluttonous manner..It can be fulfilling more of lust and not of love with your partner.. Sometimes even performing acts you have seen in a porn flick in the past..Which can open doors...Thoughts?
Yeah I often wondered about that. Like is it also important the way you have sex? Like different positions and like what you mentioned.
I agree. Sounds like an unhealthy mind and heart to get into things of that nature or too carried away… perhaps subconsciously changing the way you view your partner, and cause someone to crave MORE or even other experiences with different people.
Love this blessed couple of servent's of the Lord Jesus Christ💑
The next question is where do you find a half way decent woman to marry.
I love this!! ❤
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Thank you for your depth, clarity and insight. God bless you Pastor Vlad and your dear wife.
I needed this. Thank you
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Thank you for this message pastor vlad / Lana ❤
Pastor need to speak when you come to Houston
I have so much to pray😢. God didn't give us children. I'm almost 43. I stop asking God for children cause my husband doesn't want to pray with me. I have tried praying alone for my brothers and sister.. I feel as if God wants me to just trust in him. I wanted to at least feel loved by my husband but no sex and he seems so excited about my sisters conversations and new look. I feel so insignificant 😢😢 I feel like I'm so broken and everything is broken around me. I'm no body. I thought Iif I married a Christian man, I'd be loved and safe, but that is not true. I'm a nobody . 16 years in marriage.
Beautiful message thank you...