Like one time me and my boyfriend going to give me away something stupid and he kept on following me he and I slammed the door in his face and then And he pulled the get out the house card and I said no so then what do I do about it
And another situation he said he tried to disrespect me by trying to cheat on me in my face and I cussed him out and told him no he not while I’m taking care of our baby,you not
Can we just pause for a moment and acknowledge Rick's WISDOM!! Each time I listen to this podcast, he drops some serious gems and that's much appreciated. I truly value his insight. Aside from the jokes, he seems like a person who may not say much, but when they do speak, it's something you want to listen to. Big shoutout to you Rick!
Oh yes, when I was going through a miscarriage my husband pushed his feelings to the side because he thought his feelings were invalid. Almost 3 years later, he still thinks and believes that he doesn’t deserve to grieve since he wasn’t carrying and didn’t go through what I went. This happened to him too and I have to remind him that it’s okay to feel your feelings. I can’t emphasize enough how good this episode was and I gotta show my husband this one as well.
also i love how rick knows exactly who he is and what he wants. he’s so big on communication and considerate of other ppls feelings and how they were to receive it. he just seems like an all over great friend to have, if he ever decides to have a kid, i feel like he’d be such a great father! validate that yes you are a man, yes you have a responsibility of taking care of your family etc. but that it’s also okay to express your feelings other wise your other half doesn’t know.
Shoutout to Rick for being the Rosetta Stone of the whole episode, killing them questions .... cuz I’m like Tim when it comes to explaining something 😂😂😂 the ting ting
When I had a twin miscarriages alot of people totally forgot about my fiance. We both had to talk about pain of losing twins. To see my fiance go through this and it was his first. Took it hard, then we both discussed about having another child. Now we have a beautiful daughter. He loves her so much.
Yo Rick was on point with literally everything this whole episode. I’ve always felt that way Rick… obviously not all women but the majority are brought up that way. When I hear men talk about a woman they love they speak about who she is as a woman. On the other hand, its far more common to hear how a man is treating her or what kind of lifestyle they are able to live bc of all the things he has to offer. You fall in love with someone’s personality. You marry someone’s character. Which Nikki kinda said in her follow up.
As a man especially a father having a good support system is extremely necessary but unfortunately a lot of men don’t have that. So you guys speaking for men and shedding light on these issues is what we need. Great episode y’all need to extend these another hour 🙏🏼😂
The whole power dynamic between couples in a relationship because of financial status is definitely a really hard challenge to overcome. I've seen it play out with my parents. My mom was the bread winner and my dad wasn't but my mom wanted him to be. They hated each other.
Wow Rick was dropping some knowledge and relationship truth bombs that had me thinking about myself. Great episode, thanks for finding those questions Nikki. Tim and Rick are pretty enlightened.
ricks wisdom and analogy is mind blowing. it’s like he always knows what tim is trying to explain but doesn’t have the words for, and he’ll be right there to help him! also, hes wayyyy funnier with his slick joke comments!! rick appreciation post! 🤍
I'm glad everyone in the comments finally acknowledging Rick. I've been saying for years now how this man is so wise, knowledgeable, and well spoken just as he is hilarious
I’m late to this but this is by far my favorite episode out of any podcasts I’ve listened to this gives insight on both sides of the party the questions were on point the answers were clarifying and made me feel so much better about myself
57:43 hit home for me. My husband and I lost our son in 2020 and there was such an outpouring for ME for losing MY son and it made me feel like I couldn’t grieve at home because my husband “had” to swallow his grief to support me. We honestly never discussed it (because he asked me not to bring it up to him and I wanted to respect him). We’re better now and have silently been each others rock which brought us together but at the same time, stuff like this rips families apart. It’s so sad we, as a society, don’t check in with and support men the way we do women especially after the loss of a child.
Damn im 37 weeks pregnant now and I'm crying. Thank you for this podcast. I've been focused on how my body's changed and the physical and emotional toll it's taken on my body, I never stopped and thought about how my husband's feeling (from the outside, looking in).
Amazing episode ♥️ I feel like people in general really be in their feelings too much and they gotta take a step back. Because I see that a lot and noticed that in my past self, what it comes down to is literally stop with assuming and not thinking what you're doing to make this situation this way. EVERYONE IS GOING THROUGH SOMETHING. It's not a competition. People like to only focus on themselves and what people are doing to them but not stepping back and looking at all the aspects of the situation. Maybe you had an attitude because you're not communicating and not seeing it or listening to what the situation is. There's time and place AND TONE! Empathy and compassion goes a long way. I just wish more people realized people all deserve that shit, regardless of gender🤷🏻♀️
Damn Tim and Rick thanks for this podcast!! That’s how I’ve been feeling like!! Even sometime when we tell our partner how we feel, we’ll get the grow up princess.. we just need that comforts sometimes!!! Just like Rick said we don’t need no congrats we just need that Acknowledgement.. and the putting us down when y’all mad at us especially in front of peers.
I'm a vegan, white girl & bruh. Is it child neglect or are they rich? 😂 I eat clean and work out, I don't smell bad if I skip a shower...but NEVER in my life would I purposely not shower hahaha
I watch a board certified dermatologist on youtube (Dr. Dray) and she says that you don't really need to scrub, but rather the running water and your hands are enough to clean skin unless there is visible dirtiness on your skin. She also says body soaps often times aren't good for your skin and dry you out and towels/cloths/loofas are too aggressive on your skin. I still use body soap, but just an interesting perspective I've heard. I will say when I stopped using towels/cloths on my face it calmed down the redness.
I don't know if I should be saying this on the internet, but I relate to Tim so hard because I am Thai too. The past two ex's I've had, I always shut the lid to the toilet cause of particles. I get distracted as well. Needless to say... For my 90lb self, I've gotten the same shocked reaction of "AHHH how are you alive!?"
One thing I learned from a couple I absolutely loveeeee who have a yt channel: Josh & Isi. They have “Miami moments” which is a code word for a serious talk that needs to be had where you say the real $hit and you’re letting them know it’s not meant to come off mean, it’s just for the better that it’s said on the real & not sugarcoated. It can happen if it’s in the middle of something going on like a moment where you feel something needs to be addressed absolutely right then regardless, or just a moment that needs a real straight to the point type of talk if it’s built up and there’s been no progress made without the speaking up. So I’d thought I’d share it in regards to the ending comments yall spoke on. It seems like a good tool to help with communication for those who don’t do well with “confrontation” cause that seems to be where the issue stems from sometimes, which is the negative connotation behind being ‘confronted’ when it’s really just a sit down that needs to be had, which should help not hinder.
My ex and I had a miscarriage on April Fool's day. I was there the whole time crying in the bathroom. I agree the mother matters more. She matters more. But no one asked and now I live with this dark joke for life.
Vegan here, but not white, I always shower twice a day, after my morning work out and when I come back from work in the evening. But I lived with someone before who only showered ever other day (white, but not vegan), I only found this out cause they questioned why I showered twice a day and specifically why for more than 10 minutes 🙃
You got CPS kicking on doors of parents with smelling kids, talking about neglect but celebrities can publicly say they forget when they last bathed your kids?
About expressing what you feel to your woman. If it's something serious or if she is also sensitive and she feels bad about it or whatever then the focus goes on her feeling and you gotta support her through it and at the end of the day your problem is left to the side. So most times it's better to take the -2 and keep it than saying it and having -4.
I don’t use a wash cloth or a lufa for scrubbing. I use my nailed to scrape dead skin so I can tell how clean I really am and then I use the lufa to make sure my skin don’t stink
In the beginning of my relationship fresh in the beginning, I did say something where he said "You wanna fight?" Playfully, and I said,"I meannnn if we did, I'd win lol." And it hurt his ego, and I felt hella bad. But I wasn't trying to say he's not strong or couldn't fight, but it's my background of Growing up with Martial Arts throughout my life, and I know (used to before my car accident this year) my strength.
this episode was AMAZING, please more of random questions! 🙏
Like one time me and my boyfriend going to give me away something stupid and he kept on following me he and I slammed the door in his face and then And he pulled the get out the house card and I said no so then what do I do about it
And another situation he said he tried to disrespect me by trying to cheat on me in my face and I cussed him out and told him no he not while I’m taking care of our baby,you not
Can we just pause for a moment and acknowledge Rick's WISDOM!! Each time I listen to this podcast, he drops some serious gems and that's much appreciated. I truly value his insight. Aside from the jokes, he seems like a person who may not say much, but when they do speak, it's something you want to listen to. Big shoutout to you Rick!
I said “he spittin” like several times during this. Especially the last question.
Rick is known to know how to explain stuff to slow people lol
I think we found rick’s alt account
exactly! he seems like he’d be such an amazing and understanding father!
Oh yes, when I was going through a miscarriage my husband pushed his feelings to the side because he thought his feelings were invalid. Almost 3 years later, he still thinks and believes that he doesn’t deserve to grieve since he wasn’t carrying and didn’t go through what I went. This happened to him too and I have to remind him that it’s okay to feel your feelings.
I can’t emphasize enough how good this episode was and I gotta show my husband this one as well.
Nikki Blades so naturally gorgeous. The curls are poppin this episode!
I’d buy her onlyfans
Yaaaaaas!
Her curls are so pretty !! 😍😍
@@Duweeadyale
Does she have OnlyFans?
This has to be the first podcast I’ve heard that showed open support for men in relationships and fathers during pregnancy. Love this pod 🙏🏾
also i love how rick knows exactly who he is and what he wants. he’s so big on communication and considerate of other ppls feelings and how they were to receive it. he just seems like an all over great friend to have, if he ever decides to have a kid, i feel like he’d be such a great father! validate that yes you are a man, yes you have a responsibility of taking care of your family etc. but that it’s also okay to express your feelings other wise your other half doesn’t know.
Shoutout to Rick for being the Rosetta Stone of the whole episode, killing them questions .... cuz I’m like Tim when it comes to explaining something 😂😂😂 the ting ting
I love the singing at the beginning of each episode
When I had a twin miscarriages alot of people totally forgot about my fiance. We both had to talk about pain of losing twins. To see my fiance go through this and it was his first. Took it hard, then we both discussed about having another child. Now we have a beautiful daughter. He loves her so much.
Yo Rick was on point with literally everything this whole episode. I’ve always felt that way Rick… obviously not all women but the majority are brought up that way. When I hear men talk about a woman they love they speak about who she is as a woman. On the other hand, its far more common to hear how a man is treating her or what kind of lifestyle they are able to live bc of all the things he has to offer. You fall in love with someone’s personality. You marry someone’s character. Which Nikki kinda said in her follow up.
As a man especially a father having a good support system is extremely necessary but unfortunately a lot of men don’t have that. So you guys speaking for men and shedding light on these issues is what we need. Great episode y’all need to extend these another hour 🙏🏼😂
The whole power dynamic between couples in a relationship because of financial status is definitely a really hard challenge to overcome. I've seen it play out with my parents. My mom was the bread winner and my dad wasn't but my mom wanted him to be. They hated each other.
Wow Rick was dropping some knowledge and relationship truth bombs that had me thinking about myself. Great episode, thanks for finding those questions Nikki. Tim and Rick are pretty enlightened.
ricks wisdom and analogy is mind blowing. it’s like he always knows what tim is trying to explain but doesn’t have the words for, and he’ll be right there to help him! also, hes wayyyy funnier with his slick joke comments!! rick appreciation post! 🤍
The singing in the beginning always gets to me LMFAOO 😂
I'm glad everyone in the comments finally acknowledging Rick. I've been saying for years now how this man is so wise, knowledgeable, and well spoken just as he is hilarious
Really enjoyed Nikki's questions here, great cadence in the conversation.
Is Rick a relationship counsellor or something cause he's on point with some of these questions. That inside of your cheek suggestion was the best.
counselor rick!
Amazing episode!!! One of my favorites!!! This open communication is great to listen and learn a little of how you think.
I’m glad Nikki brought up these questions. I really enjoyed the tail end of this podcast, you all were stating facts! 👏🏼
This is hands down one of my favorite episodes for sure
this episode was deep! appreciate y’all and the podcast. rick was definitely the mvp this episode
GREAT EPISODE GUYS. NIKKI, YOU WERE SUCH A NATURAL FOR THIS SEGMENT. AND RICK RICK RICK....PREACH!!!!!
Bruh. Such a good episode! Rick was dropping gems til the last minute. Relationship convo was on point y’all🔥
I’m late to this but this is by far my favorite episode out of any podcasts I’ve listened to this gives insight on both sides of the party the questions were on point the answers were clarifying and made me feel so much better about myself
49:30 Rick really dropping knowledge! 💯
57:43 hit home for me. My husband and I lost our son in 2020 and there was such an outpouring for ME for losing MY son and it made me feel like I couldn’t grieve at home because my husband “had” to swallow his grief to support me. We honestly never discussed it (because he asked me not to bring it up to him and I wanted to respect him). We’re better now and have silently been each others rock which brought us together but at the same time, stuff like this rips families apart. It’s so sad we, as a society, don’t check in with and support men the way we do women especially after the loss of a child.
This has to be the best episode yet!! Tim's been keeping it real since the Ford Fiesta days. 💯💯
Some topics you guys got into were some things I needed to hear & helped me by listening so thank you 🙏🏽.
THIS EPISODE WAS SO GOOD. YO Y'ALL NEED THESE TYPES OF DISCUSSIONS!!!!
This was a great Episode by all 3 of yall. Very much needed. Thank you for Rick for those Gems
Damn im 37 weeks pregnant now and I'm crying. Thank you for this podcast. I've been focused on how my body's changed and the physical and emotional toll it's taken on my body, I never stopped and thought about how my husband's feeling (from the outside, looking in).
Amazing episode ♥️ I feel like people in general really be in their feelings too much and they gotta take a step back. Because I see that a lot and noticed that in my past self, what it comes down to is literally stop with assuming and not thinking what you're doing to make this situation this way. EVERYONE IS GOING THROUGH SOMETHING. It's not a competition. People like to only focus on themselves and what people are doing to them but not stepping back and looking at all the aspects of the situation. Maybe you had an attitude because you're not communicating and not seeing it or listening to what the situation is. There's time and place AND TONE! Empathy and compassion goes a long way. I just wish more people realized people all deserve that shit, regardless of gender🤷🏻♀️
I loved this episode 🙏🏼 thank you for the insight and Rick always dropping some knowledge !!! More topics like this please
Not gonna lie i love when its just the 3 of yall talking bout stuff like this
Damn Tim and Rick thanks for this podcast!! That’s how I’ve been feeling like!! Even sometime when we tell our partner how we feel, we’ll get the grow up princess.. we just need that comforts sometimes!!! Just like Rick said we don’t need no congrats we just need that Acknowledgement.. and the putting us down when y’all mad at us especially in front of peers.
I'm a vegan, white girl & bruh. Is it child neglect or are they rich? 😂
I eat clean and work out, I don't smell bad if I skip a shower...but NEVER in my life would I purposely not shower hahaha
Just came here to thank our token vegan white homegirl for clearing this up 😂😂😂
“My skin is very complicated” Nikki. Felt that ✊🏾😂BLM
i love this episode a lot of big facts were said in this one especially
I watch a board certified dermatologist on youtube (Dr. Dray) and she says that you don't really need to scrub, but rather the running water and your hands are enough to clean skin unless there is visible dirtiness on your skin. She also says body soaps often times aren't good for your skin and dry you out and towels/cloths/loofas are too aggressive on your skin. I still use body soap, but just an interesting perspective I've heard. I will say when I stopped using towels/cloths on my face it calmed down the redness.
Really enjoyed this episode. Rick and Tim are my dawgs but Nikki actually listening and taking in a man's perspective, love her even more!!!
One of your best episodes
YES! When you hear "That's Crazy!" Wrap it up B. Thank you for saying it. R.
We need time stamps in this bih my guy. Love y'all from Hawaii.
Best podcast on UA-cam 💯💯💯💯
Rick has been preaching this whole episode!!
Dayam RICK.. I had no idea. You're deep. Very insightful 💯
Dropping gems! Great team work in elaborating about these topics. 👏
first time listening to the podcast 👌🏽 easy listening and engaging
This put a lot of things into perspective for me, wow thank y’all
quality conversation here. thanks as always!
I don't know if I should be saying this on the internet, but I relate to Tim so hard because I am Thai too. The past two ex's I've had, I always shut the lid to the toilet cause of particles. I get distracted as well. Needless to say... For my 90lb self, I've gotten the same shocked reaction of "AHHH how are you alive!?"
😂😂
I live with my dad & little brother they forget too often so I feel chias pain 😭
Not alone. I have used the restroom then hopped in the shower and forget to flush after my shower.
This was a really good ep yall...Just started watched them recently. Good Job and keep up the good work having good convos.
LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS ENTIRE PODCAST
the Q&A part of the episode was very insightful
One thing I learned from a couple I absolutely loveeeee who have a yt channel: Josh & Isi. They have “Miami moments” which is a code word for a serious talk that needs to be had where you say the real $hit and you’re letting them know it’s not meant to come off mean, it’s just for the better that it’s said on the real & not sugarcoated. It can happen if it’s in the middle of something going on like a moment where you feel something needs to be addressed absolutely right then regardless, or just a moment that needs a real straight to the point type of talk if it’s built up and there’s been no progress made without the speaking up. So I’d thought I’d share it in regards to the ending comments yall spoke on. It seems like a good tool to help with communication for those who don’t do well with “confrontation” cause that seems to be where the issue stems from sometimes, which is the negative connotation behind being ‘confronted’ when it’s really just a sit down that needs to be had, which should help not hinder.
Rick took me out with “I f***ed a lot of apple pies, that cherry though” Lmaoooo
Bruh! Ricky droppin multiple knowledge bombs!! Homie got real cerebral on this one!!!
My ex and I had a miscarriage on April Fool's day. I was there the whole time crying in the bathroom. I agree the mother matters more. She matters more. But no one asked and now I live with this dark joke for life.
This episode had some real gems. I loved it
Vegan here, but not white, I always shower twice a day, after my morning work out and when I come back from work in the evening. But I lived with someone before who only showered ever other day (white, but not vegan), I only found this out cause they questioned why I showered twice a day and specifically why for more than 10 minutes 🙃
More episodes like this! Loved the questions.
I really dont know how im late to this podcast! Been backtracking on some episodes and im a huge fan now 🤞🏽
Please don't ever stop signing in the beginning i love the intro! I swing along with you guys!
I was literally thinking of that I love Lucy episode when Tim mentioned it. I’m in the right place
Rick just said some gems at the end of this episode. What the heck!!! I felt that.
GREAT EPISODE !!! SPREAD THAT KNOWLEDGE 🔥🖤
You got CPS kicking on doors of parents with smelling kids, talking about neglect but celebrities can publicly say they forget when they last bathed your kids?
DANGGGGGG! Rick was preaching during the last 10 mins .... Tell us about ourselves!!!!
Really enjoyed this episode 🙏 keep on educating.. much love
About expressing what you feel to your woman. If it's something serious or if she is also sensitive and she feels bad about it or whatever then the focus goes on her feeling and you gotta support her through it and at the end of the day your problem is left to the side. So most times it's better to take the -2 and keep it than saying it and having -4.
This was a great episode! Def one of the best this year
1:03:51 Ricky Shucks dropping bombs !!!!
Dude Ric is wise af...the last ten minutes tho....sheesh
never stop the singing from starting the show
one of the best episodes. Keep up the great work
Good conversation guys!
Ricky 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 thank you.
30:25 "BLOOP bloop" -Nikki Blades 😂😂😂😂 I laughed so hard!
Don’t stop singing! It’s such a great intro!😂😂😂😂
Will you guys ever do a "call in" sort of show where fans can call in and ask questions/ probe the minds of you guys?
Great episode, this is why I keep coming back! 💯
There ain't NO way Nicky sat in that position for an hour.
Nikki blades is an exceptional woman. Most women wouldn't even care enough to ask those questions about the male perspective.
I love you Tim and Rick sooo fucking much! & Nikki behind all the questions is absolutely refreshing to see and hear! So good!
I don’t use a wash cloth or a lufa for scrubbing. I use my nailed to scrape dead skin so I can tell how clean I really am and then I use the lufa to make sure my skin don’t stink
Always a great watch & listen 💪🏿👊🏿🔥
Can we get Tim to using two wash clothes now? Flipping it does not separate the bacteria. Plus, how do you know which side you used the next time?
Lol I use a new one every time
Great!! I was getting nervous for you. Lol
the thumbnail is hilarious with rick being cut out and put back in at the bottom
Absolutely love you three!!
what a banger of bangers... hope i remember some of this
Inquiring minds want to know... finally the hard hitting journalism we need
Great episode guys!
In the beginning of my relationship fresh in the beginning, I did say something where he said "You wanna fight?" Playfully, and I said,"I meannnn if we did, I'd win lol." And it hurt his ego, and I felt hella bad. But I wasn't trying to say he's not strong or couldn't fight, but it's my background of Growing up with Martial Arts throughout my life, and I know (used to before my car accident this year) my strength.
So I appreciate you guys addressing that, how you shouldn't joke about stuff like that
Those were some good ass questions and some good ass answers.
I would love to be on an episode the energy y'all put out makes me wanna be on the show
I live for a new ep each week!!!!
This was a fire episode!
love this episode guys and Rick I feel like your very emotionally intelligent brother.
During the height of the pandemic I sometimes would wash my hair for quite a few days but I would always wash my face and body at least once a day