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  • Опубліковано 23 лис 2024

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  • @Grayson_Phoenix
    @Grayson_Phoenix 2 роки тому +7

    Hello, Gemma. I only just found your video here; I remember the horror & extreme sadness I felt when I learned the news of Caroline Flack taking her own life, after the horrible treatment she received...
    I have to say, you are VERY BRAVE, and it is BRILLIANT that you have taken the time with this video to SPEAK THE TRUTH against bullying. What you are doing is VERY INSPIRATIONAL. I'm in my 40s and I'm well impressed by you.
    Stay Strong, keep doing what you're doing.
    Remember that other people's words (especially when they are wrong or lying) are just a show of their IGNORANCE, of how little they think they "know" about you, and it's important to remember that their "opinions" ARE NOT YOUR TRUTH. Remember who you are, and that you are NOT what they say you are, especially when they are saying horrible things, and/or telling lies.
    You are Right - Words can Hurt. Harsh words can have lasting negative effects.
    In a similar way, though, Kind Words can make a Positive Difference. Yes; let's all #BeKind, again, in THIS year, in 2022.

    • @GemmasJourneyGrace
      @GemmasJourneyGrace  2 роки тому +4

      Hey !!! Thank you so much and I totally agree with you these words I needed to hear today so it really means a lot I have felt like I’m in a constant struggle with trying to make changes for people with disabilities and mental health issues. As you know I’m on the autism spectrum so I am very passionate about helping people

  • @christopherbird2739
    @christopherbird2739 4 роки тому +79

    Felix looked like such a nice lad, what a tragic waste

  • @beatawlodarczyk3405
    @beatawlodarczyk3405 4 роки тому +225

    Can we talk about bullying at work too!? Not much is being said in the media about this huge problem!!!

    • @Svetlana-says-it-as-it-is.
      @Svetlana-says-it-as-it-is. 4 роки тому +16

      Beata Wlodarczyk oh certainly, some companies are promoting things” like let’s talk about mental health” and there are still bully colleagues and bosses.

    • @mr_spookypants
      @mr_spookypants 4 роки тому +8

      I agree!!

    • @thokoziletapambwa509
      @thokoziletapambwa509 4 роки тому +6

      @@Svetlana-says-it-as-it-is. Totally agree with you

    • @softshallow7435
      @softshallow7435 4 роки тому +11

      Oh definitely! It’s just as bad, if you don’t have a thick skin or are sensitive you have no chance. People don’t realise adults can be bad or worse than kids! Probably these people have kids that are bullies!

    • @christinegriffin4131
      @christinegriffin4131 4 роки тому +13

      I agree bullying in the work place takes place, I have been a victim. I was also bullied as a child. Bullies need to understand that what they do can harm people for the rest of their lives. Please be kind people.

  • @annashaw8219
    @annashaw8219 3 роки тому +3

    I absolutely despise bullies I know how it feels for evil cruel people to make your life hell!! Bullies are vile, childish, cruel and abusive and just want nothing more than making life so miserable and difficult for people! There’s nothing wrong with being kind, being kind doesn’t make you a loser or a nerd or what not, it makes you a good, down to earth, caring human being.

  • @alex16xox93
    @alex16xox93 4 роки тому +19

    The 1st one has got me in tears ☹️☹️☹️💔 such a gorgeous kind boy☹️ can’t imagine how his mum feels. I’m not just feeling sad over the boy as I’m watching the rest it’s also hurting omg this world 💔🥺

  • @pam164
    @pam164 4 роки тому +107

    Bullying goes on in the work place too if a child bullies at school they go on to bully at work. Its so sad people take there lives through it. The bullies should be proscuted. Have to say my last job the owner and manager were the bullies so you could not go higher to complain.

    • @yeahgirl3955
      @yeahgirl3955 4 роки тому +8

      Karen H I absolutely agree I was lucky enough to never be bullied in school, but then I was bullied terribly by my manager when I was 21 and the feeling of helplessness was horrible. I don’t understand how children can have the coping mechanisms when adults struggle. It’s a sad world at times.

    • @pam164
      @pam164 4 роки тому +8

      @@yeahgirl3955 I was bullied at school when i was about 14 for a while i think because i was pretty they were jealous they would pull my long hair, and say they were going to get me after school! i was scared as hell never told my parents as i was ashamed which now i know is common. But at least there was no internet so when i went home i felt safe, but poor kids now are getting bullied 24/7 on social media and that is awful! Bullying ruins peoples lifes why do people have to be nasty. Also even at work people side with the bully because they are scared, we should all come together and stamp out bullying.

    • @harry-h5427
      @harry-h5427 4 роки тому +3

      @@yeahgirl3955 I know. I think its even harder for kids because they can't not go to school. Adults can quit a job if this is happening, as hard as that may be for a host of reasons, adults are more in control of their life. Kids who are bullied must really feel there is no way out, its just so sad.

    • @yeahgirl3955
      @yeahgirl3955 4 роки тому +2

      Harry -H I absolutely agree. And I think children can be even worse bullies because they may not understand the consequences of their actions.

    • @misslaurap
      @misslaurap 4 роки тому +2

      Karen H adult bullies are the worse !

  • @jennyseery
    @jennyseery 4 роки тому +8

    What a beautiful young man, such a loss to the world ❤️ My deepest
    sympathies with the family, RIP 👼🏻

  • @Shimasoni-Vlogs
    @Shimasoni-Vlogs 4 роки тому +24

    Any kids found bullying other kids the parents should be called into school and put under caution and taken seriously. Police everything . Its not taken seriously enough

  • @franceslock1662
    @franceslock1662 4 роки тому +89

    Why aren’t those bullies charged, it’s criminal.

    • @NC-zy7mo
      @NC-zy7mo 4 роки тому +4

      I agree if someone dies by bullies they should be charged

    • @NC-zy7mo
      @NC-zy7mo 4 роки тому

      @Nate Conner how do you know they are non threatening

    • @softshallow7435
      @softshallow7435 4 роки тому +1

      I think it’s a kind of coercive control they went through. That is a criminal offence.

    • @analuvzya7
      @analuvzya7 4 роки тому +1

      In America it is isn’t it? If you can prove their actions caused the suicide ie “why don’t you hang yourself” “ok” and then she did.... feel like that should be a crime

    • @poppyr9759
      @poppyr9759 4 роки тому

      Nate Conner rude of you to assume I wouldn’t be the one jumping In the first place xoxo

  • @LoneWolf.6.9.9.6.
    @LoneWolf.6.9.9.6. 4 роки тому +29

    This is just absolutely heartbreaking. These poor parents and their poor children who could see no other way. Bullies destroy lives and it's abhorrent how they get away with it. Parents of these monsters....sort your kids out!

    • @misslaurap
      @misslaurap 4 роки тому +2

      Panther 8282 I know it made me cry watching it felix looked like a gorgeous lad and son his poor mum is heartbroken and the other lady and her girls suicide . So sad. Bullies won’t realise until parents are fined criminally charged and the adults and teens and also once they meet parents where there have been suicide they need to face these parents and be told bluntly about their actions

  • @pennyroyalt2542
    @pennyroyalt2542 3 роки тому +2

    Bullying is the most indescribable hurt people can't imagine. If I hadn't had my family turn me to my passion, I don't know what I would have done. I'm so grateful that I didn't have to deal with social media when I was younger!.
    Kindness costs absolutely nothing!.
    Why can't kindness be celebrated, rather than hate!. ✌ and love.
    Being the go to girl/boy can be exhausting!.
    Blessings to all those who have been hurt. Stay strong. You are better than any bully.
    Stay Blessed, stay healthy and be yourselves!. You are all beautiful. Those with hate in their hearts are not beautiful!. ✌ to all!.

  • @mercwindow
    @mercwindow 4 роки тому +5

    This is also a failure by teachers who just cannot be bothered to tackle this problem. They should talk to children about this ganging up. This happened to my son. I was able to nip it in the bud by going to the main bullies parents who spoke to their child after my son was ostracised on a coach trip. I introduced him to meditation and mindfulness and he was also the go to person to help other children. I took his phone away. 10 years later he is strong has amazing friends and retains his kindness. He is also autistic. I am so proud of him

  • @Missyprincess719
    @Missyprincess719 3 роки тому +8

    I’m terribly sorry for what that poor kid went through. It’s just so heartbreaking. I feel so bad for his parents. Bullies are nothing but a bunch of cowardice assholes. They get so much pleasure out of making people feel low just to feel big. Bullying is something very serious and must be treated as a crime. Bullying seriously scars people for life. I pray that he finds peace.!

  • @user-wh2gp8ky6e
    @user-wh2gp8ky6e 4 роки тому +28

    Oh my gosh, my eyes are flooded. I am a teenager and this hit close to home. I feel so awful for the families❤️

  • @emmamillband328
    @emmamillband328 4 роки тому +16

    As a mother of 3 small children I recently made the decision to delete social media as it wasnt productive in my day as a mother. I'm dreading the day my kids learn about social media and become and age where they are asking me to have social media accounts. It definelty wont be something that is taken lightly it will be a sit down conversation about the dangers and what having a social media account means and what can happen and the consequences of other peoples words/actions and our own words and actions online and how they effect other people and ourselves

  • @davidbosquette2940
    @davidbosquette2940 4 роки тому +1

    Children who bully are filling a void. Their parents need to be better parents in the first place and teach their children the values of kindness, compassion, equality and love.
    To a child reading this who is currently being bullied, please know that this will pass and better days are coming soon. You are brave and strong more than you know and more than you give yourself credit for. Now be one step even braver and speak to a parent/family member and it will lessen the pain and start your journey of healing. You got this ❤

  • @annarichardson6100
    @annarichardson6100 4 роки тому +7

    Absolutely heartbreaking, I hope and pray your message gets through to people and saves so many young lives. Love to you all ❤️❤️❤️

  • @charlottecope6999
    @charlottecope6999 4 роки тому +4

    I was bullied every single day in High School . It was horrible. Even though it’s been 12 years since I left High School I suffer with anxiety and depression. I’m on daily medication. In 2012 I did try to take my own life due to thinking that nothing would ever get better. #BeKind

  • @kathymaxted6151
    @kathymaxted6151 4 роки тому +23

    Gemma you have such a gift at speaking. You're so bright and caring. You're beautiful inside and outside

  • @maga8307
    @maga8307 2 роки тому +1

    I was bullied in school. Thought about suicide once or twice. Its horrible. This has broke my ❤. Soooo sad. The schools and police need to do more to stop this, Bullying breaks you down. Makes you feel worthless. That's how I felt. Very sad listening to these two mothers. I have two sons. My son is being mentally abused by his girlfriend. She makes fun of his illness. He suffers from depression and OCD . I haven't seen him smile in 10yrs. Me and his dad are supporting him along with his psychologist.

  • @Cat-zq6iy
    @Cat-zq6iy 4 роки тому +32

    Jesus we need a solution, I am so sorry 💔

  • @TheMazulits
    @TheMazulits 4 роки тому +6

    I cant even listen to this without breaking down! I am so sorry to hear this . I was bullied for years in school and got out and away of this, but it has left a massive negative impact on me,#bekind

  • @Phnx-ki6kj
    @Phnx-ki6kj 4 роки тому +23

    R.i.p felix :( i feel so sad you had to go through this

  • @kelliemurphy7933
    @kelliemurphy7933 4 роки тому +12

    When we see bullying, whether at school or in the workplace, please, please, if you are at all able, stand up for that person who can’t or won’t stand up for themselves. Who knows, it might just save their life and just maybe you can become the friend to them that they so desperately need.

    • @beatawlodarczyk3405
      @beatawlodarczyk3405 4 роки тому

      I did that and the bully turned on me. ...It's so difficult subject! All in the hands of management which as we know don't really want to deal with bullying!
      Don't understand what motivates people bullying others!

  • @martineholland8762
    @martineholland8762 4 роки тому +11

    I am a 53-year-old woman, I was bullied when I was 11 years old. My mother was dying of cancer at the time, so I couldn't say anything, Till this day I am still that 11-year-old girl. Bullying affects you long after it stops!!!

    • @misslaurap
      @misslaurap 4 роки тому +3

      MARTINE HOLLAND big hugs I’m glad to hear ur here to tell the tale x

  • @hayleyannamathieson4209
    @hayleyannamathieson4209 4 роки тому +1

    #Bekind As someone who dealt with bullying for 11 years and almost taking my own life on several occasions, it is so important to be mindful in the way we interact with people. Just be a good person, be kind, be aware. Be the bigger person. Look out for others. Life is so short, so precious. 💕🙏Good video

  • @carolyoung8677
    @carolyoung8677 4 роки тому +1

    YOU ARE A WONDERFUL,POWERFUL YOUNG LADY.GOD BLESS YOU . LOVE FROM AUSTRALIA🌈🦄🙈🙉🙊

  • @mohsinraza3712
    @mohsinraza3712 4 роки тому +9

    Its parents responsibility to teach their kids to be kind.

  • @paulwilliamson4480
    @paulwilliamson4480 3 роки тому +1

    😢 watching this is emotional, my heart goes out to these parents, I’m tired of the amount negativity and unkindness that’s out there, we have to talk and be kinder to each other #BeKind

  • @skygazer6898
    @skygazer6898 Рік тому +1

    Words hurt! I was raised in an abusive environment where I was always being shouted out and was told I was useless and no good. When I got into my teens I believed I was useless and no good. Words hurt and cut deep right into a person's soul. I Hope Gemma is doing well.

    • @GemmasJourneyGrace
      @GemmasJourneyGrace  Рік тому +1

      I’m doing ok thank you I hope your doing good too ? Thank you for commenting

  • @RWhit774
    @RWhit774 3 роки тому +1

    You know it really is a sad day when a person has to belittle/bully/harass another person in order to feel good or get the attention they are lacking or whatever their issues are isn’t it? But if we don’t stand up for ourselves and tell an adult or seek advice from your church, preacher or priest and yes stand up for being kind! As the mother of Felix said “it really is simple, just be KIND”. I admire you for doing this Gemma. You are so loved. XO

  • @madamahmood4409
    @madamahmood4409 4 роки тому +12

    BE Kind.we must start to love too eachother.send a lot love to you all

  • @victoriabridger2289
    @victoriabridger2289 4 роки тому +15

    as someone who was severely bullied to the point of attempted suicide, this breaks my heart as i know exactly how they felt and i think that the offenders should get life in prison much thanks for posting this x

    • @scottandrewhorne4655
      @scottandrewhorne4655 10 місяців тому

      God Bless You Amen xxxxxxx XXXXXXX And God Bless Your Earthly Life Time And Earthly Family Amen xxxxxxx XXXXXXX

  • @andymac9944
    @andymac9944 4 роки тому +13

    Fully behind the Be kind campaign and my heart goes out to anyone effected by suicide, but I won't be sharing this video with my child as suggested; I wouldn't want to plant the idea. I think there are other ways. Part of the problem is that children do not understand that emotions change, because they are still developing emotional maturity and it is this that makes them vulnerable. This is developmental so there is not alot we can do about this apart from be mindful and help them to develop here.

  • @lewislewis4811
    @lewislewis4811 4 роки тому +5

    CAROLINE 🌟in my eyes u were a legend 🌟will never forget about u

    • @MrAden1307
      @MrAden1307 4 роки тому

      What about her abused victim. In your eyes hahaha so you turn a blind eye to actual victims & praise perpetrators who cowardly commit suicide to evade prison. What a loser..

  • @taslimchowdhury431
    @taslimchowdhury431 4 роки тому +3

    This was so beautiful, it made me cry. Thank you for sharing this. Those who watch and do nothing whilst others are being bullied are just as bad as the bullies. Please everyone be kind and step up

  • @beverleyroberts1025
    @beverleyroberts1025 4 роки тому +10

    Bullys are just damaged people. They may have been treated this way as a child or experienced this kind of behaviour from parents. It's easy to say ignore, which is the best form of action to these people. But how a person develops starts at grass roots. If you are a parent then think about how these things start with your child and raise your child to be a kind, considerate, loving person. Praise your child for who they are not just for achievements and raise a person who goes out into the world as self assured and inner belief. And in turn treats people well. There has to be something that can be done about bullying and vindictive people and it starts at the beginning of someone's life. I was truly blessed to have amazing parents but not everyone has this experience. It's never too late to mend who you are 😊

    • @misslaurap
      @misslaurap 4 роки тому +1

      Beverley Roberts yes the bullies at school even tried to re bully me a year ago and I’m 42 now ! I told them where to go and stick it where the sun don’t shine and I also told them they were mean to me at secondary school too and I never liked them bullying me ! They soon have shut up since

    • @bikeshop2002
      @bikeshop2002 3 роки тому

      some people are just sociopaths who don't feel compassion and who enjoy harming others. not every bully has a sob story.

  • @diaryofanotdgirl89
    @diaryofanotdgirl89 4 роки тому +1

    I write with tears and a blurred screen.... I am a mum of a 15 year old girl and to think about losing her like the mum was speaking about broke me.... no parent should have to deal with what these parents have. Suicide because of bullying?? WTFFFFFF kids have to stop bullying each other. And adults too. They do it behind their screens and think it’s okay. Maybe everyone who has an account on any social media platform should have to give their real identity so we can track who is saying this stuff? I’m sorry for what you have had to deal with too. And thank you for speaking out about this. Sending much love 💕

  • @122willywonka
    @122willywonka 4 роки тому +12

    I remember this .. it's heartbreaking ... Such a beautiful soul ..sad for you mom .x

  • @EmilySmith-ye3jf
    @EmilySmith-ye3jf 4 роки тому +4

    This was heart breaking to watch, I hope that the young generation start to stand up from others are support each other sometimes it only takes one person to stop the bullying ❤️

  • @ellie5901
    @ellie5901 4 роки тому +11

    Powerful speech. Well done, and so true. We are all so sad about Caroline , this tragic event should never have happened. Who ever sold a story to the press, and caused unbearable stress to Caroline and her family and invented their own narrative have blood on their hands today. Who ever alerted the press and earned money from this story have blood money on their hands. The heartbreak you have caused to Caroline's Mum and Dad brother and Sisters . They will never recover, and her close friends. They are heartbroken. A talented and lovely human being has been taken from us because of gutter press and who ever alerted the gutter press. in the first place to earn a quick buck. How could Caroline have had a fair trial. This case should have been dealt with differently, and ultimately dropped. Why did that not happen?. So many questions. Why wasn't she publicly supported more by her management.? A public statement should have been made to support her and demand the gutter press to back off, however that didn't happen. Was Caroline made an example of by the CPS because she was famous?All too late now, Caroline felt she had no option but to take her own life. Shame on everyone who didn't help and the trolls , gutter press, who made her life unbearable, people who alerted the press for their own selfish agenda. Shame on you who ever you are.

    • @scottandrewhorne4655
      @scottandrewhorne4655 4 роки тому +4

      Totally agree with you Ellie. Caroline's suicide has shattered me. I even went to her propertie's to lay some flower's and pay my respect's. I've suffered 3 year of feeling suicidal after haveing my Earthly life shattered by other people's mistake's. Costing me Everything. This is a Awful disgusting BARBARIC world. God Rest Your Soul Caroline and for all us Good Human Being's that have been forced into takeing there own LIFE'S. May you rest in peace safe In Heaven away from this awful world. Made awful this world because of some of the most barbaricly evil people makeing this world just awful for us Good. These scum walking amongst us Good that are not in our league of decency. Peace and love to all us Good in this Earthly life time. Until all of us good meet again in Heaven Amen xxx

  • @gemmamcinerney9677
    @gemmamcinerney9677 4 роки тому +6

    I live in Ireland. My daughter was been bullied from an early age. She was 5 when it first started. They were comments, for example, calling her names. She is half Filipino so she has tanned skin. This went on for years. I kept on speaking to teachers and spoke to the principal. Anyway, she started, 1st year in August 2019. We thought the bullying would stop knowing the girls had gone to another school. I was wrong, the main leader, txting her on Snapchat when tho, she blocked her. She did it from someone else's phone or account. It got so bad, my daughter said out of the blue, how would they feel, if I wasn't around anymore. She is 13 now. I got so mad. The following morning, I rang the other school, spoke to the vice principal. To make this short, she rang me back and told me that she spoke to the parents and spoke to the children. They said, it won't happen again. I said if it does, I will go to the guards about it. Nothing has happened since. Thank god. I told my daughter from an early age to tell me, if anyone was bullying her and she did from the start, because I was mentally and physically bullied at school and I didn't want her to go through the same thing. You have to speak up, or nothing will be done.

    • @misslaurap
      @misslaurap 4 роки тому +2

      Gemma Mcinerney I bet she’s absolutely beautiful and the bullies are just dead jealous ! This should be made a criminal offence to bully people .More needs to be done

    • @davidbosquette2940
      @davidbosquette2940 4 роки тому +1

      I'm so sorry to hear that happened to your little girl in the land of my birth. I would say it's jealousy for sure. Shame on bullies and shame on their parents for not raising them better. Bless you 💚

  • @kamstilldabest2003
    @kamstilldabest2003 4 роки тому +11

    I'm supporting the movement, #bekind will spread positivity towards everyone on social media, and will avoid negative effects happening.

  • @sarahsummers207
    @sarahsummers207 4 роки тому +10

    Well Done Gemma. We support you and anyone else who needs some kindness in times of darkness 🌻

  • @marthasandersparker8848
    @marthasandersparker8848 4 роки тому +9

    Someone once said in a short speech for a fashion award event, It use to be cool to be cruel, but now it's cool to be Kind. (Meghan Markle).

  • @mistressravenclaw9114
    @mistressravenclaw9114 4 роки тому +2

    This is heartbreaking I'm in tears Please always be kind to each other 😭😭😭💗💔💔💔

  • @walzawalt550
    @walzawalt550 4 роки тому +5

    Everybody should be kind to one another. Let us all do this ✌️❤️👍

  • @clairelittlewood4085
    @clairelittlewood4085 4 роки тому +9

    I also think schools should be more strict on bully’s. I’m not proud to admit this but I found out 4 years ago my son was been saying horrible things to a boy after the school phoned it was a 2 way bulling has he was also saying things to my son, but this other boy had taken it to heart.when the school phoned me to say my child was doing this my heart dropped as many parents you think no not my child I brought him up not to bully,any way i went into school and in front of the teachers told my son I’m not happy with him and when he got home I made him write the boy a letter saying sorry and I told my son what impact bully does to people.luckily since they are now good friends and had no issues with my son since. So don’t always make sure your child not just getting bullied but also not been a bully both are just as important. Just be kind !

    • @kelleyspartiatis5323
      @kelleyspartiatis5323 4 роки тому +1

      It doesn't seem like your son was bullying him. I think they were 2 kids who were arguing. That's not the same. I get that it's a slippery slope and commend you for acting straight away but your kid wasn't a bully. Maybe if more parents acted like you their kids would not be so cruel. It took me to threaten my sons bully father to get him to stop. He was a police officer and I told him that I was going to go to his superior and report him for not stopping his child. The parents only cared when it directly impacted them.

    • @MrAden1307
      @MrAden1307 4 роки тому

      I think you've just proved bullying isn't going anywhere & it's just a part of life haha get over it or check out. If people can't get over it. We've got another weak generation ahead..

    • @kelleyspartiatis5323
      @kelleyspartiatis5323 4 роки тому

      @@MrAden1307 I pray that you are not a parent.

    • @MrAden1307
      @MrAden1307 4 роки тому

      @@kelleyspartiatis5323 So your a single mum then. No man around aye. This comment section is rife with females all saying the same thing. They have no solutions other than to put it on schools. This woman Claire Littewood just admitted her own are at it. No mention of what their DAD has done about it
      Seems to me mothers of 2020 can't discipline their offspring & need government/school. The "patriarchy" to help them. As usual
      And folks are wondering why nothing has changed.. There's a single mum epidemic going on in this country..
      It's directly related..

    • @kelleyspartiatis5323
      @kelleyspartiatis5323 4 роки тому +1

      @@MrAden1307 A whole lot of assumptions and conclusions based on a narrative that starts with a red herring.
      No I am not a single parent. Regardless, that's irrelevant. I raised wonderful people. They were not bullies. Schools should absolutely bullying done on the school premises. If they did I would not have had to threaten his father. Why didn't my husband approach the dad, you're thinking, right? He didn't because it would have looked confrontational and the parents attitudes as they were I knew my husband would break the guys face. So I didn't tell him what I was doing so he didn't end up in prison.
      I get that you're a woman hater. The feminazis really piss you off. News flash, most sane women hate them too. I'm not anti men but I will make an exception for you. You probably were the school bully. You've got nothing to say and you're saying it too loud so pipe down.

  • @kanoraidon8238
    @kanoraidon8238 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for your efforts to upload and share with all of us Gemma.
    I think you are wonderful. Here you are with all what people have done to you, still standing strong, full of kindness and fighting for this important cause.
    You are inspiring. I send you love.

  • @tanyaaldous6442
    @tanyaaldous6442 4 роки тому +19

    bullying is not acceptable think about what you write on social media it could seriously impact
    Lives no more bullying no more abuse full stop .r.i.p caroline flack and all the others #be kind

  • @marycor3640
    @marycor3640 4 роки тому +1

    So,so sorry for your loss,thank you so much for your Angels,someone always comes to show the way.no consolation I know ,my heart is broken for ye,xxxxx💖💖💖💖

  • @002lisamarie
    @002lisamarie 4 роки тому +1

    So sad. Sending love to Lucy and the rest of Felix' family. Bullies PLEASE stop - this is what you can do to people.

  • @carlahansen9090
    @carlahansen9090 4 роки тому +2

    It might be on the screen for 1 second but in their minds forever. You cant unsee whats been seen💔Dont do it. 🐝kind

  • @NoName.._.
    @NoName.._. 4 роки тому +6

    Stop bulling theres no room in this world for it caroline fly high #bekind this as to end tougher laws on bullies 💔💔💔🕯

  • @IK-wi3dp
    @IK-wi3dp 4 роки тому +4

    You are a beautiful human! I hope the word can be kinder 😢 keep being your amazing self 💜

  • @paulwilliamson4596
    @paulwilliamson4596 3 роки тому

    😢 it’s so sad, my heart goes out to the families, it is so upsetting 😭 we as People MUST be kinder #beKIND

  • @88Katiem
    @88Katiem 4 роки тому +2

    As a mother of two this breaks my heart. Its completely unimaginable to think of this happening. I was bullied from the age of 7 to 13. For a child you really do think that you dont have any other escape. It crossed my mind on various occasions. I wish now id spoken to my parents because they could have helped. Anyone reading this PLEASE speak to someone, anyone. You are precious and mean the world to someone. Ive grown up to be happy and have a beautiful family. You are loved x

  • @handsonhooyo8490
    @handsonhooyo8490 4 роки тому +7

    You are doing a great job Gemma! Well done. You should be proud of yourself and your achievement. May God protect you always. All the best! Xxx

  • @ericablake4905
    @ericablake4905 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for putting this video together and sharing the awareness of kind words. Xxx

  • @kerriesilcock2069
    @kerriesilcock2069 4 роки тому +1

    When I was ten years old I moved to another school I had never experienced extreme bullying, only the odd tease. I was laughed at the second I walked in the class because I had squint teeth (which were later fixed with braces) but from then people constantly excluded me. I would mentor younger children so I would not be alone at lunch time. I once got told that I should stay in my room and lock myself away because nobody cares about me and nobody ever will I felt my existence was nothing, this was only two years of my life but it impacted my teenage years especially in a different school. I eventually made some great friends at 12 but still. No one should ever have any experience with bullying you have no idea how words can affect people...

    • @misslaurap
      @misslaurap 4 роки тому

      Kerrie Silcock u poor thing I know how u feel I was bullied a lot about my hair since primary secondary school etc

  • @engelasan
    @engelasan 4 роки тому +1

    You are a very brave lady! My compliments! You are phenomenal! Keep it up!

  • @syrakaan
    @syrakaan 4 роки тому +1

    We need more people like you in this world 🥰

  • @softiegacha877
    @softiegacha877 4 роки тому +12

    My mother sent me this and I feel bad for people that have to go through this 🥺

  • @SRMannion92
    @SRMannion92 4 роки тому +7

    You are amazing my lovely! If you ever need someone to talk to, let me know. You come across so well and passionate. Beautiful!

  • @naomimilliken4981
    @naomimilliken4981 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you for sharing this Gemma, very well said and brave of you to share your thoughts and feelings towards this.
    Please put yourself first and look after yourself, take a break from social media is needed. It can be very refreshing

  • @georginahughes2754
    @georginahughes2754 10 місяців тому

    Oh Felix,
    You beautiful human.. I was watching this thinking I’d love to have been your friend 😢
    Wonderful mum too

  • @hobbiesandpassions9137
    @hobbiesandpassions9137 4 роки тому +8

    make bullying serious criminal offence no matter the age!!!!

    • @misslaurap
      @misslaurap 4 роки тому +1

      hobbies and passions exactly we need to keep campaigning for bullying to be a criminal offence I’ve suffered bullying since I was a teenager just Cos of my hair colour

  • @legend_aga-_-1660
    @legend_aga-_-1660 4 роки тому +63

    For anyone who give thumbs down to this video< what is wrong with you?

    • @CourtneyDraddy
      @CourtneyDraddy 4 роки тому +5

      probs bullys

    • @aquablushgirl
      @aquablushgirl 4 роки тому

      They are basically disgusting and moronic.

    • @carolworkman664
      @carolworkman664 4 роки тому +2

      I think this is a sign of support for the message the parents are giving. My heart goes out to the families!

    • @4legsalex706
      @4legsalex706 4 роки тому

      It’s because of the reference to Caroline Flack. The lies about her are still being peddled and believed even when they’ve killed her with them.

    • @legend_aga-_-1660
      @legend_aga-_-1660 4 роки тому

      Lipbalmaddict 01 I don’t get it. This episode is not about that. This is about parents who list their children to online abuse and bullying

  • @teresachaikf7943
    @teresachaikf7943 4 роки тому

    Thank you, lovely young lady for speaking out. I'm also against this kind of digusting behaviours.❤🙏

  • @safireaksarayli7558
    @safireaksarayli7558 4 роки тому

    Felix was all the news in my town because he was in the upper school that is just across the road from my middle school. We held a minutes silence for him, even though we didn’t know him we were all shocked and we were all sad and felt sorry for him.

  • @Kkstravelandeducationvlogs7951
    @Kkstravelandeducationvlogs7951 Місяць тому +2

    I am sooo sorry to hear that this people ℹ give you so much hate hope you have a wonderful day ❤❤

  • @lynnmitzy1643
    @lynnmitzy1643 4 роки тому +13

    Yes , please be kind. You don't know who is on the edge. Why cause added stress.
    Thanx Gemma , this is very important 💛

    • @tjfSIM
      @tjfSIM 4 роки тому +1

      Well said. You never know what's going on in someone's life behind the scenes, or how they're feeling. Even those who come across as the happiest and most confident people are often struggling with anxiety, loneliness or low self-esteem in their lives. Even the bullies - a lot of them behave that way because they themselves are lonely and insecure. Obviously some are just sadistic narcissists who just derive pleasure from causing suffering to others, but a lot of people think what they're doing is funny or clever, and don't realise the damage it's doing. Things need to change.

  • @monicanath4859
    @monicanath4859 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for your testimony Gemma! I am really sorry that we encourage bullying in our schools! The teaching profession is one of the most brutal, and is about bitching teachers! What hope is there for us to support those students who are being bullied in the classroom, with the bullying culture in our schools primarily affecting us teachers?

  • @maureenpaterson6657
    @maureenpaterson6657 4 роки тому +1

    In a world where you can be anything be kind 💕

  • @elizabethburns3778
    @elizabethburns3778 4 роки тому +6

    Well done Gemma, well said. Bullies need to realise what total cowards they really are, and how they would feel if someone was bullying there brothers or sisters etc and they took there own life. Please think long and hard what you are actually doing to another human being. PLEASE STOP 😢🙏

  • @K8james
    @K8james 4 роки тому +36

    Well said Gemma, it’s so sad what is happening r.i.p Caroline flack and to all the others that has suffered from this it’s awful , be kind people please xx👍🏻🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿💞😢

    • @cindywebb5053
      @cindywebb5053 4 роки тому +2

      K 8 - this is not the same as Flack. She committed a crime & was charged. Suddenly she’s some sort of hero. This poor schoolboy was completely innocent. It’s not the same.

    • @IloveAliBromley
      @IloveAliBromley 4 роки тому +1

      @@cindywebb5053 Well no she didn't they lied he wasn't even bleeding there are pictures of him showing his head there's no blood that blood was personal to her and the press used it

    • @IloveAliBromley
      @IloveAliBromley 4 роки тому

      @@cindywebb5053 it's still suicide #bekindn

    • @cindywebb5053
      @cindywebb5053 4 роки тому

      Ben Willetts - suicide doesn’t absolve wrongdoings

    • @IloveAliBromley
      @IloveAliBromley 4 роки тому

      @@cindywebb5053 Well you obviously believe everything you read so you are pretty stupid

  • @starlightsky222
    @starlightsky222 4 роки тому

    Well done to all sharing there loss as never easy
    Powerful message out to everyone to stop bullying & for people to speak out
    My empathy goes out to all & thoughts & prayers with Caroline's family & all going thru similar hurts
    Loss hits us all
    Great to see a fantastic compaign & support to everyone
    Very heart felt & hard no to hold tears back listening to others pain & loss
    Much love to you all
    💜⭐💜⭐💜⭐💜

  • @hayleyayres4909
    @hayleyayres4909 4 роки тому +4

    Gemma I think you bloody brilliant!! Your words and the way you have put this together is amazing, I couldn't of said it better!! Keep up your good work❤❤❤

  • @juliagagan1176
    @juliagagan1176 4 роки тому

    Well done a very kind caring message ,let’s hope it starts to sink in with these bullies and their parents,we really have to stop and think how would you feel if you were the one being bullied.

  • @chickencat1559
    @chickencat1559 4 роки тому +1

    In society, it is always about showing support to the bully which to me is disgraceful when it's the victim it effects.

  • @georgia8592
    @georgia8592 4 роки тому +24

    Be kind ❤

  • @PC24800
    @PC24800 4 роки тому +1

    Phillip, good to see you weathering it, don't take any of the horrible things on board. My late !!! was at least as big an household name as you are today, over 5 decades of fame and a life of secrets for us both and yes, I was only 16 in 1966!!!!!! My choice, my life, our love and now, 13 years after he left, its still rips me apart. You now have more in terms of human understanding and comfort to offer than you had a week ago. Good luck and don't worry about people saying that you can be hard to work with: true professionals always are because nothing works for their performance but the very best. All right, right? good luck. p

  • @clairberkon4834
    @clairberkon4834 4 роки тому

    Good for you Gemma. The world has just gone completely mad and it scares me to be honest. I have two small children and I really do worry for their futures. Continue to be the beautiful person you are. You are a sweetheart 😘

  • @Celeste-wx8ce
    @Celeste-wx8ce 4 роки тому +1

    Well done Gemma, you're really brave, thank you for speaking out about this. Your words make a difference.

  • @002lisamarie
    @002lisamarie 4 роки тому

    Sending love to Felix, Megan and Caroline's family and friends. Rest in peace xx

  • @scottpeacock5492
    @scottpeacock5492 4 роки тому +1

    I'm So Sorry for what has happen to these people and Caroline Flack isn't the only person to suffer her faith, We live in a nasty trolling and self focus society and we need to end the misery of other people from taking their own life, Be Kind people.

  • @jessbaldwin
    @jessbaldwin 4 роки тому

    Spending love. You are so right. Everyone be kind. 💞

  • @annettephillipsdelaney4023
    @annettephillipsdelaney4023 4 роки тому

    My heart breaks for both these mothers. Kids are cruel and even though the schools are doing programmes on bullying, its not getting trough to these kids. My own daughter went through the most horrific bullying in school. I thought the instigator would be suspended. I was told not the first time but if it continued after it was addressed. So as I see it, kids can do whatever they want to other kids for a lengthy time before anything is done. Its crazy. Because by that stage the damage is done

  • @heidimelissa5352
    @heidimelissa5352 4 роки тому +1

    'Why are some children SO nasty & heartless!? 🙄 It's usually because they are angry, Sad & suffering themselves! But, Why then inflict that pain onto others? I'd be horrified if I found out my Son was a bully! 😔 Children really need to learn empathy!!'

    • @bikeshop2002
      @bikeshop2002 3 роки тому

      I agree but some people are sociopaths who cannot be taught empathy. it's a rare but serious mental condition with no cure. so we need to teach victims how to be resilient when sociopaths target them as well.

  • @chinamoon33
    @chinamoon33 4 роки тому +2

    Aww bless you Gemma for sharing this 💜.. This is really tragic what happened to Caroline.. I have cried its soo sad 😢💔... I'm so sorry you have gone through bullying, I also had as a child at school.. Take care lovely Gemma 💜💖

    • @MrAden1307
      @MrAden1307 4 роки тому

      Why are you not crying for her victim who almost lost his life while he was sleeping

  • @nataliecourage7170
    @nataliecourage7170 4 роки тому

    Heartbreaking absolutely heartbreaking. How can anyone do this to each other? You're a brave and beautiful girl Gemma keep strong xxx

  • @Kkstravelandeducationvlogs7951
    @Kkstravelandeducationvlogs7951 Місяць тому +2

    Wow 😮 i love you ❤❤❤❤

  • @lucymurphy8822
    @lucymurphy8822 3 роки тому

    Always BEKind help is out there don’t be scared just tell a grownup or friends or family be that one person to stand out because social media is very cruel at the moment just be so careful 💕💔😭

  • @MyWanderingDreams
    @MyWanderingDreams 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you Gemma. Very important message at the end. ❤️ I'm so sorry you've been a victim of trolling. I do hope online becomes a kinder place in the future for everyone's benefit and it's such a shame that Caroline felt there was no way out.

  • @tinabee7013
    @tinabee7013 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you Gemma. This is very important will be sharing this with my children.

  • @sarahfitzpatrick4022
    @sarahfitzpatrick4022 4 роки тому +1

    I'm so very sorry for both your losses, I too was bullied every day throughout my secondary school years. Some of the names i was called have never left me and I'm 31 now. I turned to self harming and after nearly ending my life it was the biggest wake up call for me, I realized no matter how much people bullied me I loved life and no one had the power to take that from me. Honesty just be kind it costs nothing even if you're feeling low yourself just one word of kindness can have the biggest impact. ❤💙

  • @carmenhudlud6304
    @carmenhudlud6304 4 роки тому +1

    There is a song I have been listening to regularly and I thought this might catch your attention to this
    The song I have been listening to is Forgettable by Olivia and it has a great more than great message it's a powerful message and my favorite part of the song is your not alone and that means there is a bunch of people who is standing up what they believe in themselves and I over that part of the song I love Olivia and I hope you might get to listen to this if you ever get a chance to do this

  • @jayrod3607
    @jayrod3607 4 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing this x God bless those affected

  • @shanereilly9216
    @shanereilly9216 10 місяців тому

    Wow this is heartbreaking 💔 that poor guy he must of been in such a helpless point xx

  • @metanoiabooks3729
    @metanoiabooks3729 4 роки тому

    My daughter too has autism and she was locked in a bathroom her extreme panic and my anger and pain when I saw her so distraught was so painful. I don't want her to feel that way. I took it further as that girl was doing it alot and was removed from the school. If we stick together and encourage kindness and point out what is wrong and support people who need lifting up. We can fight it. Change people's mindsets and judgments.