Hello, Gemma. I only just found your video here; I remember the horror & extreme sadness I felt when I learned the news of Caroline Flack taking her own life, after the horrible treatment she received... I have to say, you are VERY BRAVE, and it is BRILLIANT that you have taken the time with this video to SPEAK THE TRUTH against bullying. What you are doing is VERY INSPIRATIONAL. I'm in my 40s and I'm well impressed by you. Stay Strong, keep doing what you're doing. Remember that other people's words (especially when they are wrong or lying) are just a show of their IGNORANCE, of how little they think they "know" about you, and it's important to remember that their "opinions" ARE NOT YOUR TRUTH. Remember who you are, and that you are NOT what they say you are, especially when they are saying horrible things, and/or telling lies. You are Right - Words can Hurt. Harsh words can have lasting negative effects. In a similar way, though, Kind Words can make a Positive Difference. Yes; let's all #BeKind, again, in THIS year, in 2022.
Hey !!! Thank you so much and I totally agree with you these words I needed to hear today so it really means a lot I have felt like I’m in a constant struggle with trying to make changes for people with disabilities and mental health issues. As you know I’m on the autism spectrum so I am very passionate about helping people
In America it is isn’t it? If you can prove their actions caused the suicide ie “why don’t you hang yourself” “ok” and then she did.... feel like that should be a crime
Beata Wlodarczyk oh certainly, some companies are promoting things” like let’s talk about mental health” and there are still bully colleagues and bosses.
Oh definitely! It’s just as bad, if you don’t have a thick skin or are sensitive you have no chance. People don’t realise adults can be bad or worse than kids! Probably these people have kids that are bullies!
I agree bullying in the work place takes place, I have been a victim. I was also bullied as a child. Bullies need to understand that what they do can harm people for the rest of their lives. Please be kind people.
Any kids found bullying other kids the parents should be called into school and put under caution and taken seriously. Police everything . Its not taken seriously enough
The 1st one has got me in tears ☹️☹️☹️💔 such a gorgeous kind boy☹️ can’t imagine how his mum feels. I’m not just feeling sad over the boy as I’m watching the rest it’s also hurting omg this world 💔🥺
This is just absolutely heartbreaking. These poor parents and their poor children who could see no other way. Bullies destroy lives and it's abhorrent how they get away with it. Parents of these monsters....sort your kids out!
Panther 8282 I know it made me cry watching it felix looked like a gorgeous lad and son his poor mum is heartbroken and the other lady and her girls suicide . So sad. Bullies won’t realise until parents are fined criminally charged and the adults and teens and also once they meet parents where there have been suicide they need to face these parents and be told bluntly about their actions
This is also a failure by teachers who just cannot be bothered to tackle this problem. They should talk to children about this ganging up. This happened to my son. I was able to nip it in the bud by going to the main bullies parents who spoke to their child after my son was ostracised on a coach trip. I introduced him to meditation and mindfulness and he was also the go to person to help other children. I took his phone away. 10 years later he is strong has amazing friends and retains his kindness. He is also autistic. I am so proud of him
Bullying goes on in the work place too if a child bullies at school they go on to bully at work. Its so sad people take there lives through it. The bullies should be proscuted. Have to say my last job the owner and manager were the bullies so you could not go higher to complain.
Karen H I absolutely agree I was lucky enough to never be bullied in school, but then I was bullied terribly by my manager when I was 21 and the feeling of helplessness was horrible. I don’t understand how children can have the coping mechanisms when adults struggle. It’s a sad world at times.
@@yeahgirl3955 I was bullied at school when i was about 14 for a while i think because i was pretty they were jealous they would pull my long hair, and say they were going to get me after school! i was scared as hell never told my parents as i was ashamed which now i know is common. But at least there was no internet so when i went home i felt safe, but poor kids now are getting bullied 24/7 on social media and that is awful! Bullying ruins peoples lifes why do people have to be nasty. Also even at work people side with the bully because they are scared, we should all come together and stamp out bullying.
@@yeahgirl3955 I know. I think its even harder for kids because they can't not go to school. Adults can quit a job if this is happening, as hard as that may be for a host of reasons, adults are more in control of their life. Kids who are bullied must really feel there is no way out, its just so sad.
I absolutely despise bullies I know how it feels for evil cruel people to make your life hell!! Bullies are vile, childish, cruel and abusive and just want nothing more than making life so miserable and difficult for people! There’s nothing wrong with being kind, being kind doesn’t make you a loser or a nerd or what not, it makes you a good, down to earth, caring human being.
I am a 53-year-old woman, I was bullied when I was 11 years old. My mother was dying of cancer at the time, so I couldn't say anything, Till this day I am still that 11-year-old girl. Bullying affects you long after it stops!!!
As a mother of 3 small children I recently made the decision to delete social media as it wasnt productive in my day as a mother. I'm dreading the day my kids learn about social media and become and age where they are asking me to have social media accounts. It definelty wont be something that is taken lightly it will be a sit down conversation about the dangers and what having a social media account means and what can happen and the consequences of other peoples words/actions and our own words and actions online and how they effect other people and ourselves
Being kind should apply to everybody. When Meghan Markle was being bullied online and in the media no one ran to her defence. I'm not trying to detract from the death of Caroline but we need to take care of everybody.
Your not trying to detract from Caroline. Why are you detracting from the ex partner she tried to kill. Why is everyone forgetting him?? Caroline deserves nothing. She's that weak, she took her own life. And you & a bunch of others are trying to change the narrative. Poor Caroline. What about the guy she tried to kill in his sleep. She was about to go to prison & crapped her pants. Plain & simple
MrAden1307 if she’d tried to kill him she’d have been charged with attempted murder. She wasn’t. You are exactly the kind of person she’s talking about, you’ve twisted and embellished what you’ve heard in the media ( not the facts by the way, only Caroline and her partner knew the facts) you’ve just proved her point. Well done! Btw you don’t go to prison for a first offence of common assault, and you don’t get a sentence of any kind unless you’re found guilty. In this country there is a presumption of innocence. Check your facts and go and troll somewhere else, your appearance here is distasteful.
@@4legsalex706 Here we go. The SJW behaviour. She abused him. And then assaulted him while he was sleeping. She committed suicide because she crapped her pants as was about to get put down by the CPS. She couldn't handle the scrutiny & process. She was weak. Not even accountable for her actions. You people & the media trying to change the narrative because she's female. She expressed classic abusive behaviour. Checked out because she couldn't control the outcome. Why the f**k are you defending an abuser? Is it because she's a female or a celebrity. Don't come at me. I'm no abuser. Caroline was. And she was also a coward. I'm glad she's gone. Nobody else will be abused You people and your selective grief. Amazing how your justifying someone else's actions. What a clown
@@4legsalex706 I'm exactly the type of person she was talking about hahaha what, you mean an observer of someone who uses the media for vanity & making money. Then wants to cry when the public find out about her toxic personal life hahaha She's weak & a control freak. She was exposed. Just because your emotionally attached to someone who doesn't even know you. It doesn't change the facts CPS got involved. Are you going to say she was innocent? Hahaha innocent until proven guilty hahaha oh she never abused him while he was sleeping? Haha wow! Thank God he never died. Unfortunately she took her own life like a coward & evaded a prison sentence.. What a clown you are. If she was getting bullied ONLINE! Why didn't she SIGN OUT or delete the APP. Come away from social media A generation of weak people controlled by digital tools. Creating snowflake behaviours of all ages Caroline was a predator who went for younger men because she could control them. Abusers usually commit suicide when their faced with prison. That's what she did. What a coward. I'm glad she's gone. One less c**t to watch out for..
MrAden1307 oh dear, it’s never wise to take on a criminal lawyer in a rant about how the justice system works. The difference between you and me is that I deal in facts (not tabloid crap) and understand the position the CPS were in, and the likely outcome. You on the other hand are furious with someone you didn’t know, without the FACTS and are choosing this campaign to show exactly how ugly you are. You are the problem, or did you only focus on the part of the video about a woman you know nothing about. Did you miss the part about online trolling killing children? You are that troll, only you’re worse because her taking her own life still isn’t enough for a leech like you to leave it alone.
Bullying is the most indescribable hurt people can't imagine. If I hadn't had my family turn me to my passion, I don't know what I would have done. I'm so grateful that I didn't have to deal with social media when I was younger!. Kindness costs absolutely nothing!. Why can't kindness be celebrated, rather than hate!. ✌ and love. Being the go to girl/boy can be exhausting!. Blessings to all those who have been hurt. Stay strong. You are better than any bully. Stay Blessed, stay healthy and be yourselves!. You are all beautiful. Those with hate in their hearts are not beautiful!. ✌ to all!.
I’m terribly sorry for what that poor kid went through. It’s just so heartbreaking. I feel so bad for his parents. Bullies are nothing but a bunch of cowardice assholes. They get so much pleasure out of making people feel low just to feel big. Bullying is something very serious and must be treated as a crime. Bullying seriously scars people for life. I pray that he finds peace.!
Children who bully are filling a void. Their parents need to be better parents in the first place and teach their children the values of kindness, compassion, equality and love. To a child reading this who is currently being bullied, please know that this will pass and better days are coming soon. You are brave and strong more than you know and more than you give yourself credit for. Now be one step even braver and speak to a parent/family member and it will lessen the pain and start your journey of healing. You got this ❤
#Bekind As someone who dealt with bullying for 11 years and almost taking my own life on several occasions, it is so important to be mindful in the way we interact with people. Just be a good person, be kind, be aware. Be the bigger person. Look out for others. Life is so short, so precious. 💕🙏Good video
I was bullied every single day in High School . It was horrible. Even though it’s been 12 years since I left High School I suffer with anxiety and depression. I’m on daily medication. In 2012 I did try to take my own life due to thinking that nothing would ever get better. #BeKind
When we see bullying, whether at school or in the workplace, please, please, if you are at all able, stand up for that person who can’t or won’t stand up for themselves. Who knows, it might just save their life and just maybe you can become the friend to them that they so desperately need.
I did that and the bully turned on me. ...It's so difficult subject! All in the hands of management which as we know don't really want to deal with bullying! Don't understand what motivates people bullying others!
I cant even listen to this without breaking down! I am so sorry to hear this . I was bullied for years in school and got out and away of this, but it has left a massive negative impact on me,#bekind
Words hurt! I was raised in an abusive environment where I was always being shouted out and was told I was useless and no good. When I got into my teens I believed I was useless and no good. Words hurt and cut deep right into a person's soul. I Hope Gemma is doing well.
You know it really is a sad day when a person has to belittle/bully/harass another person in order to feel good or get the attention they are lacking or whatever their issues are isn’t it? But if we don’t stand up for ourselves and tell an adult or seek advice from your church, preacher or priest and yes stand up for being kind! As the mother of Felix said “it really is simple, just be KIND”. I admire you for doing this Gemma. You are so loved. XO
as someone who was severely bullied to the point of attempted suicide, this breaks my heart as i know exactly how they felt and i think that the offenders should get life in prison much thanks for posting this x
What about her abused victim. In your eyes hahaha so you turn a blind eye to actual victims & praise perpetrators who cowardly commit suicide to evade prison. What a loser..
Thank you for your efforts to upload and share with all of us Gemma. I think you are wonderful. Here you are with all what people have done to you, still standing strong, full of kindness and fighting for this important cause. You are inspiring. I send you love.
Gemma I think you bloody brilliant!! Your words and the way you have put this together is amazing, I couldn't of said it better!! Keep up your good work❤❤❤
I was bullied in school. Thought about suicide once or twice. Its horrible. This has broke my ❤. Soooo sad. The schools and police need to do more to stop this, Bullying breaks you down. Makes you feel worthless. That's how I felt. Very sad listening to these two mothers. I have two sons. My son is being mentally abused by his girlfriend. She makes fun of his illness. He suffers from depression and OCD . I haven't seen him smile in 10yrs. Me and his dad are supporting him along with his psychologist.
This was so beautiful, it made me cry. Thank you for sharing this. Those who watch and do nothing whilst others are being bullied are just as bad as the bullies. Please everyone be kind and step up
Fully behind the Be kind campaign and my heart goes out to anyone effected by suicide, but I won't be sharing this video with my child as suggested; I wouldn't want to plant the idea. I think there are other ways. Part of the problem is that children do not understand that emotions change, because they are still developing emotional maturity and it is this that makes them vulnerable. This is developmental so there is not alot we can do about this apart from be mindful and help them to develop here.
😢 watching this is emotional, my heart goes out to these parents, I’m tired of the amount negativity and unkindness that’s out there, we have to talk and be kinder to each other #BeKind
Thank you for sharing this Gemma, very well said and brave of you to share your thoughts and feelings towards this. Please put yourself first and look after yourself, take a break from social media is needed. It can be very refreshing
This was heart breaking to watch, I hope that the young generation start to stand up from others are support each other sometimes it only takes one person to stop the bullying ❤️
I live in Ireland. My daughter was been bullied from an early age. She was 5 when it first started. They were comments, for example, calling her names. She is half Filipino so she has tanned skin. This went on for years. I kept on speaking to teachers and spoke to the principal. Anyway, she started, 1st year in August 2019. We thought the bullying would stop knowing the girls had gone to another school. I was wrong, the main leader, txting her on Snapchat when tho, she blocked her. She did it from someone else's phone or account. It got so bad, my daughter said out of the blue, how would they feel, if I wasn't around anymore. She is 13 now. I got so mad. The following morning, I rang the other school, spoke to the vice principal. To make this short, she rang me back and told me that she spoke to the parents and spoke to the children. They said, it won't happen again. I said if it does, I will go to the guards about it. Nothing has happened since. Thank god. I told my daughter from an early age to tell me, if anyone was bullying her and she did from the start, because I was mentally and physically bullied at school and I didn't want her to go through the same thing. You have to speak up, or nothing will be done.
Gemma Mcinerney I bet she’s absolutely beautiful and the bullies are just dead jealous ! This should be made a criminal offence to bully people .More needs to be done
I'm so sorry to hear that happened to your little girl in the land of my birth. I would say it's jealousy for sure. Shame on bullies and shame on their parents for not raising them better. Bless you 💚
Bullys are just damaged people. They may have been treated this way as a child or experienced this kind of behaviour from parents. It's easy to say ignore, which is the best form of action to these people. But how a person develops starts at grass roots. If you are a parent then think about how these things start with your child and raise your child to be a kind, considerate, loving person. Praise your child for who they are not just for achievements and raise a person who goes out into the world as self assured and inner belief. And in turn treats people well. There has to be something that can be done about bullying and vindictive people and it starts at the beginning of someone's life. I was truly blessed to have amazing parents but not everyone has this experience. It's never too late to mend who you are 😊
Beverley Roberts yes the bullies at school even tried to re bully me a year ago and I’m 42 now ! I told them where to go and stick it where the sun don’t shine and I also told them they were mean to me at secondary school too and I never liked them bullying me ! They soon have shut up since
Well done to all sharing there loss as never easy Powerful message out to everyone to stop bullying & for people to speak out My empathy goes out to all & thoughts & prayers with Caroline's family & all going thru similar hurts Loss hits us all Great to see a fantastic compaign & support to everyone Very heart felt & hard no to hold tears back listening to others pain & loss Much love to you all 💜⭐💜⭐💜⭐💜
I write with tears and a blurred screen.... I am a mum of a 15 year old girl and to think about losing her like the mum was speaking about broke me.... no parent should have to deal with what these parents have. Suicide because of bullying?? WTFFFFFF kids have to stop bullying each other. And adults too. They do it behind their screens and think it’s okay. Maybe everyone who has an account on any social media platform should have to give their real identity so we can track who is saying this stuff? I’m sorry for what you have had to deal with too. And thank you for speaking out about this. Sending much love 💕
Well done a very kind caring message ,let’s hope it starts to sink in with these bullies and their parents,we really have to stop and think how would you feel if you were the one being bullied.
Powerful speech. Well done, and so true. We are all so sad about Caroline , this tragic event should never have happened. Who ever sold a story to the press, and caused unbearable stress to Caroline and her family and invented their own narrative have blood on their hands today. Who ever alerted the press and earned money from this story have blood money on their hands. The heartbreak you have caused to Caroline's Mum and Dad brother and Sisters . They will never recover, and her close friends. They are heartbroken. A talented and lovely human being has been taken from us because of gutter press and who ever alerted the gutter press. in the first place to earn a quick buck. How could Caroline have had a fair trial. This case should have been dealt with differently, and ultimately dropped. Why did that not happen?. So many questions. Why wasn't she publicly supported more by her management.? A public statement should have been made to support her and demand the gutter press to back off, however that didn't happen. Was Caroline made an example of by the CPS because she was famous?All too late now, Caroline felt she had no option but to take her own life. Shame on everyone who didn't help and the trolls , gutter press, who made her life unbearable, people who alerted the press for their own selfish agenda. Shame on you who ever you are.
Totally agree with you Ellie. Caroline's suicide has shattered me. I even went to her propertie's to lay some flower's and pay my respect's. I've suffered 3 year of feeling suicidal after haveing my Earthly life shattered by other people's mistake's. Costing me Everything. This is a Awful disgusting BARBARIC world. God Rest Your Soul Caroline and for all us Good Human Being's that have been forced into takeing there own LIFE'S. May you rest in peace safe In Heaven away from this awful world. Made awful this world because of some of the most barbaricly evil people makeing this world just awful for us Good. These scum walking amongst us Good that are not in our league of decency. Peace and love to all us Good in this Earthly life time. Until all of us good meet again in Heaven Amen xxx
Good for you Gemma. The world has just gone completely mad and it scares me to be honest. I have two small children and I really do worry for their futures. Continue to be the beautiful person you are. You are a sweetheart 😘
Aww bless you Gemma for sharing this 💜.. This is really tragic what happened to Caroline.. I have cried its soo sad 😢💔... I'm so sorry you have gone through bullying, I also had as a child at school.. Take care lovely Gemma 💜💖
So,so sorry for your loss,thank you so much for your Angels,someone always comes to show the way.no consolation I know ,my heart is broken for ye,xxxxx💖💖💖💖
Well said. You never know what's going on in someone's life behind the scenes, or how they're feeling. Even those who come across as the happiest and most confident people are often struggling with anxiety, loneliness or low self-esteem in their lives. Even the bullies - a lot of them behave that way because they themselves are lonely and insecure. Obviously some are just sadistic narcissists who just derive pleasure from causing suffering to others, but a lot of people think what they're doing is funny or clever, and don't realise the damage it's doing. Things need to change.
Thank you so much for your testimony Gemma! I am really sorry that we encourage bullying in our schools! The teaching profession is one of the most brutal, and is about bitching teachers! What hope is there for us to support those students who are being bullied in the classroom, with the bullying culture in our schools primarily affecting us teachers?
So sad, my hearts breaks. My friend ended his life in December. People dont realise the reality until it happens to them. We need to stand up to bullying, and help those who are struggling to cope with life, whether it's a stranger or friend. Bullying at school, work, social media, it's a very real subject in life. We need to be kind above anything else. Live, breathe, preach kindness.
Hello beautiful Gemma! Well done for this video and being so well articulated! It takes courage to do what you do! You are amazing! My daughter is on the spectrum too and thank god everyone loves her at school! She is the kindest soul but I am proud of you Gemma for doing what you do! Keep going and know that you have a lot more people who loves you than people who are trolling! Love yourself deeply so that you can love others freely 💖💖💖
It is so important to raise awareness ... thank you for taking the time to create and post this video. People need to see this to show the real people who are being affected by bullying and trolling #BeKind
Thank you Gemma. Very important message at the end. ❤️ I'm so sorry you've been a victim of trolling. I do hope online becomes a kinder place in the future for everyone's benefit and it's such a shame that Caroline felt there was no way out.
Phillip, good to see you weathering it, don't take any of the horrible things on board. My late !!! was at least as big an household name as you are today, over 5 decades of fame and a life of secrets for us both and yes, I was only 16 in 1966!!!!!! My choice, my life, our love and now, 13 years after he left, its still rips me apart. You now have more in terms of human understanding and comfort to offer than you had a week ago. Good luck and don't worry about people saying that you can be hard to work with: true professionals always are because nothing works for their performance but the very best. All right, right? good luck. p
I think u r great. Keep spreading the love and stopping the hate. Bullying is terrible. Words are powerful let's use them for kindness not to bully or upset.
You are amazing!!! Bullys should be exposed. And 3 strikes and your out off shoulder media..account shut down if people report you 3 times for bullying. You're doing amazing #bekind
hobbies and passions exactly we need to keep campaigning for bullying to be a criminal offence I’ve suffered bullying since I was a teenager just Cos of my hair colour
As a mother of two this breaks my heart. Its completely unimaginable to think of this happening. I was bullied from the age of 7 to 13. For a child you really do think that you dont have any other escape. It crossed my mind on various occasions. I wish now id spoken to my parents because they could have helped. Anyone reading this PLEASE speak to someone, anyone. You are precious and mean the world to someone. Ive grown up to be happy and have a beautiful family. You are loved x
I also think schools should be more strict on bully’s. I’m not proud to admit this but I found out 4 years ago my son was been saying horrible things to a boy after the school phoned it was a 2 way bulling has he was also saying things to my son, but this other boy had taken it to heart.when the school phoned me to say my child was doing this my heart dropped as many parents you think no not my child I brought him up not to bully,any way i went into school and in front of the teachers told my son I’m not happy with him and when he got home I made him write the boy a letter saying sorry and I told my son what impact bully does to people.luckily since they are now good friends and had no issues with my son since. So don’t always make sure your child not just getting bullied but also not been a bully both are just as important. Just be kind !
It doesn't seem like your son was bullying him. I think they were 2 kids who were arguing. That's not the same. I get that it's a slippery slope and commend you for acting straight away but your kid wasn't a bully. Maybe if more parents acted like you their kids would not be so cruel. It took me to threaten my sons bully father to get him to stop. He was a police officer and I told him that I was going to go to his superior and report him for not stopping his child. The parents only cared when it directly impacted them.
I think you've just proved bullying isn't going anywhere & it's just a part of life haha get over it or check out. If people can't get over it. We've got another weak generation ahead..
@@kelleyspartiatis5323 So your a single mum then. No man around aye. This comment section is rife with females all saying the same thing. They have no solutions other than to put it on schools. This woman Claire Littewood just admitted her own are at it. No mention of what their DAD has done about it Seems to me mothers of 2020 can't discipline their offspring & need government/school. The "patriarchy" to help them. As usual And folks are wondering why nothing has changed.. There's a single mum epidemic going on in this country.. It's directly related..
@@MrAden1307 A whole lot of assumptions and conclusions based on a narrative that starts with a red herring. No I am not a single parent. Regardless, that's irrelevant. I raised wonderful people. They were not bullies. Schools should absolutely bullying done on the school premises. If they did I would not have had to threaten his father. Why didn't my husband approach the dad, you're thinking, right? He didn't because it would have looked confrontational and the parents attitudes as they were I knew my husband would break the guys face. So I didn't tell him what I was doing so he didn't end up in prison. I get that you're a woman hater. The feminazis really piss you off. News flash, most sane women hate them too. I'm not anti men but I will make an exception for you. You probably were the school bully. You've got nothing to say and you're saying it too loud so pipe down.
Well done Gemma, well said. Bullies need to realise what total cowards they really are, and how they would feel if someone was bullying there brothers or sisters etc and they took there own life. Please think long and hard what you are actually doing to another human being. PLEASE STOP 😢🙏
bullying is not acceptable think about what you write on social media it could seriously impact Lives no more bullying no more abuse full stop .r.i.p caroline flack and all the others #be kind
Well said Gemma, it’s so sad what is happening r.i.p Caroline flack and to all the others that has suffered from this it’s awful , be kind people please xx👍🏻🏴💞😢
K 8 - this is not the same as Flack. She committed a crime & was charged. Suddenly she’s some sort of hero. This poor schoolboy was completely innocent. It’s not the same.
@@cindywebb5053 Well no she didn't they lied he wasn't even bleeding there are pictures of him showing his head there's no blood that blood was personal to her and the press used it
Hello, Gemma. I only just found your video here; I remember the horror & extreme sadness I felt when I learned the news of Caroline Flack taking her own life, after the horrible treatment she received...
I have to say, you are VERY BRAVE, and it is BRILLIANT that you have taken the time with this video to SPEAK THE TRUTH against bullying. What you are doing is VERY INSPIRATIONAL. I'm in my 40s and I'm well impressed by you.
Stay Strong, keep doing what you're doing.
Remember that other people's words (especially when they are wrong or lying) are just a show of their IGNORANCE, of how little they think they "know" about you, and it's important to remember that their "opinions" ARE NOT YOUR TRUTH. Remember who you are, and that you are NOT what they say you are, especially when they are saying horrible things, and/or telling lies.
You are Right - Words can Hurt. Harsh words can have lasting negative effects.
In a similar way, though, Kind Words can make a Positive Difference. Yes; let's all #BeKind, again, in THIS year, in 2022.
Hey !!! Thank you so much and I totally agree with you these words I needed to hear today so it really means a lot I have felt like I’m in a constant struggle with trying to make changes for people with disabilities and mental health issues. As you know I’m on the autism spectrum so I am very passionate about helping people
Felix looked like such a nice lad, what a tragic waste
Why aren’t those bullies charged, it’s criminal.
I agree if someone dies by bullies they should be charged
@Nate Conner how do you know they are non threatening
I think it’s a kind of coercive control they went through. That is a criminal offence.
In America it is isn’t it? If you can prove their actions caused the suicide ie “why don’t you hang yourself” “ok” and then she did.... feel like that should be a crime
Nate Conner rude of you to assume I wouldn’t be the one jumping In the first place xoxo
Can we talk about bullying at work too!? Not much is being said in the media about this huge problem!!!
Beata Wlodarczyk oh certainly, some companies are promoting things” like let’s talk about mental health” and there are still bully colleagues and bosses.
I agree!!
@@Svetlana-says-it-as-it-is. Totally agree with you
Oh definitely! It’s just as bad, if you don’t have a thick skin or are sensitive you have no chance. People don’t realise adults can be bad or worse than kids! Probably these people have kids that are bullies!
I agree bullying in the work place takes place, I have been a victim. I was also bullied as a child. Bullies need to understand that what they do can harm people for the rest of their lives. Please be kind people.
Any kids found bullying other kids the parents should be called into school and put under caution and taken seriously. Police everything . Its not taken seriously enough
The 1st one has got me in tears ☹️☹️☹️💔 such a gorgeous kind boy☹️ can’t imagine how his mum feels. I’m not just feeling sad over the boy as I’m watching the rest it’s also hurting omg this world 💔🥺
What a beautiful young man, such a loss to the world ❤️ My deepest
sympathies with the family, RIP 👼🏻
This is just absolutely heartbreaking. These poor parents and their poor children who could see no other way. Bullies destroy lives and it's abhorrent how they get away with it. Parents of these monsters....sort your kids out!
Panther 8282 I know it made me cry watching it felix looked like a gorgeous lad and son his poor mum is heartbroken and the other lady and her girls suicide . So sad. Bullies won’t realise until parents are fined criminally charged and the adults and teens and also once they meet parents where there have been suicide they need to face these parents and be told bluntly about their actions
This is also a failure by teachers who just cannot be bothered to tackle this problem. They should talk to children about this ganging up. This happened to my son. I was able to nip it in the bud by going to the main bullies parents who spoke to their child after my son was ostracised on a coach trip. I introduced him to meditation and mindfulness and he was also the go to person to help other children. I took his phone away. 10 years later he is strong has amazing friends and retains his kindness. He is also autistic. I am so proud of him
Bullying goes on in the work place too if a child bullies at school they go on to bully at work. Its so sad people take there lives through it. The bullies should be proscuted. Have to say my last job the owner and manager were the bullies so you could not go higher to complain.
Karen H I absolutely agree I was lucky enough to never be bullied in school, but then I was bullied terribly by my manager when I was 21 and the feeling of helplessness was horrible. I don’t understand how children can have the coping mechanisms when adults struggle. It’s a sad world at times.
@@yeahgirl3955 I was bullied at school when i was about 14 for a while i think because i was pretty they were jealous they would pull my long hair, and say they were going to get me after school! i was scared as hell never told my parents as i was ashamed which now i know is common. But at least there was no internet so when i went home i felt safe, but poor kids now are getting bullied 24/7 on social media and that is awful! Bullying ruins peoples lifes why do people have to be nasty. Also even at work people side with the bully because they are scared, we should all come together and stamp out bullying.
@@yeahgirl3955 I know. I think its even harder for kids because they can't not go to school. Adults can quit a job if this is happening, as hard as that may be for a host of reasons, adults are more in control of their life. Kids who are bullied must really feel there is no way out, its just so sad.
Harry -H I absolutely agree. And I think children can be even worse bullies because they may not understand the consequences of their actions.
Karen H adult bullies are the worse !
I absolutely despise bullies I know how it feels for evil cruel people to make your life hell!! Bullies are vile, childish, cruel and abusive and just want nothing more than making life so miserable and difficult for people! There’s nothing wrong with being kind, being kind doesn’t make you a loser or a nerd or what not, it makes you a good, down to earth, caring human being.
Oh my gosh, my eyes are flooded. I am a teenager and this hit close to home. I feel so awful for the families❤️
I am a 53-year-old woman, I was bullied when I was 11 years old. My mother was dying of cancer at the time, so I couldn't say anything, Till this day I am still that 11-year-old girl. Bullying affects you long after it stops!!!
MARTINE HOLLAND big hugs I’m glad to hear ur here to tell the tale x
YOU ARE A WONDERFUL,POWERFUL YOUNG LADY.GOD BLESS YOU . LOVE FROM AUSTRALIA🌈🦄🙈🙉🙊
As a mother of 3 small children I recently made the decision to delete social media as it wasnt productive in my day as a mother. I'm dreading the day my kids learn about social media and become and age where they are asking me to have social media accounts. It definelty wont be something that is taken lightly it will be a sit down conversation about the dangers and what having a social media account means and what can happen and the consequences of other peoples words/actions and our own words and actions online and how they effect other people and ourselves
Being kind should apply to everybody. When Meghan Markle was being bullied online and in the media no one ran to her defence. I'm not trying to detract from the death of Caroline but we need to take care of everybody.
Your not trying to detract from Caroline. Why are you detracting from the ex partner she tried to kill. Why is everyone forgetting him?? Caroline deserves nothing. She's that weak, she took her own life. And you & a bunch of others are trying to change the narrative. Poor Caroline. What about the guy she tried to kill in his sleep. She was about to go to prison & crapped her pants. Plain & simple
MrAden1307 if she’d tried to kill him she’d have been charged with attempted murder. She wasn’t. You are exactly the kind of person she’s talking about, you’ve twisted and embellished what you’ve heard in the media ( not the facts by the way, only Caroline and her partner knew the facts) you’ve just proved her point. Well done! Btw you don’t go to prison for a first offence of common assault, and you don’t get a sentence of any kind unless you’re found guilty. In this country there is a presumption of innocence. Check your facts and go and troll somewhere else, your appearance here is distasteful.
@@4legsalex706 Here we go. The SJW behaviour. She abused him. And then assaulted him while he was sleeping. She committed suicide because she crapped her pants as was about to get put down by the CPS. She couldn't handle the scrutiny & process. She was weak. Not even accountable for her actions.
You people & the media trying to change the narrative because she's female. She expressed classic abusive behaviour. Checked out because she couldn't control the outcome.
Why the f**k are you defending an abuser? Is it because she's a female or a celebrity.
Don't come at me. I'm no abuser. Caroline was. And she was also a coward. I'm glad she's gone. Nobody else will be abused
You people and your selective grief. Amazing how your justifying someone else's actions. What a clown
@@4legsalex706 I'm exactly the type of person she was talking about hahaha what, you mean an observer of someone who uses the media for vanity & making money. Then wants to cry when the public find out about her toxic personal life hahaha
She's weak & a control freak. She was exposed. Just because your emotionally attached to someone who doesn't even know you. It doesn't change the facts
CPS got involved. Are you going to say she was innocent? Hahaha innocent until proven guilty hahaha oh she never abused him while he was sleeping? Haha wow!
Thank God he never died. Unfortunately she took her own life like a coward & evaded a prison sentence..
What a clown you are. If she was getting bullied ONLINE! Why didn't she SIGN OUT or delete the APP. Come away from social media
A generation of weak people controlled by digital tools. Creating snowflake behaviours of all ages
Caroline was a predator who went for younger men because she could control them.
Abusers usually commit suicide when their faced with prison. That's what she did. What a coward. I'm glad she's gone. One less c**t to watch out for..
MrAden1307 oh dear, it’s never wise to take on a criminal lawyer in a rant about how the justice system works. The difference between you and me is that I deal in facts (not tabloid crap) and understand the position the CPS were in, and the likely outcome. You on the other hand are furious with someone you didn’t know, without the FACTS and are choosing this campaign to show exactly how ugly you are. You are the problem, or did you only focus on the part of the video about a woman you know nothing about. Did you miss the part about online trolling killing children? You are that troll, only you’re worse because her taking her own life still isn’t enough for a leech like you to leave it alone.
Gemma you have such a gift at speaking. You're so bright and caring. You're beautiful inside and outside
Totally agree kathy shes very good x
Its parents responsibility to teach their kids to be kind.
Bullying is the most indescribable hurt people can't imagine. If I hadn't had my family turn me to my passion, I don't know what I would have done. I'm so grateful that I didn't have to deal with social media when I was younger!.
Kindness costs absolutely nothing!.
Why can't kindness be celebrated, rather than hate!. ✌ and love.
Being the go to girl/boy can be exhausting!.
Blessings to all those who have been hurt. Stay strong. You are better than any bully.
Stay Blessed, stay healthy and be yourselves!. You are all beautiful. Those with hate in their hearts are not beautiful!. ✌ to all!.
I’m terribly sorry for what that poor kid went through. It’s just so heartbreaking. I feel so bad for his parents. Bullies are nothing but a bunch of cowardice assholes. They get so much pleasure out of making people feel low just to feel big. Bullying is something very serious and must be treated as a crime. Bullying seriously scars people for life. I pray that he finds peace.!
Children who bully are filling a void. Their parents need to be better parents in the first place and teach their children the values of kindness, compassion, equality and love.
To a child reading this who is currently being bullied, please know that this will pass and better days are coming soon. You are brave and strong more than you know and more than you give yourself credit for. Now be one step even braver and speak to a parent/family member and it will lessen the pain and start your journey of healing. You got this ❤
Absolutely heartbreaking, I hope and pray your message gets through to people and saves so many young lives. Love to you all ❤️❤️❤️
Jesus we need a solution, I am so sorry 💔
#Bekind As someone who dealt with bullying for 11 years and almost taking my own life on several occasions, it is so important to be mindful in the way we interact with people. Just be a good person, be kind, be aware. Be the bigger person. Look out for others. Life is so short, so precious. 💕🙏Good video
Well Done Gemma. We support you and anyone else who needs some kindness in times of darkness 🌻
I was bullied every single day in High School . It was horrible. Even though it’s been 12 years since I left High School I suffer with anxiety and depression. I’m on daily medication. In 2012 I did try to take my own life due to thinking that nothing would ever get better. #BeKind
When we see bullying, whether at school or in the workplace, please, please, if you are at all able, stand up for that person who can’t or won’t stand up for themselves. Who knows, it might just save their life and just maybe you can become the friend to them that they so desperately need.
I did that and the bully turned on me. ...It's so difficult subject! All in the hands of management which as we know don't really want to deal with bullying!
Don't understand what motivates people bullying others!
I cant even listen to this without breaking down! I am so sorry to hear this . I was bullied for years in school and got out and away of this, but it has left a massive negative impact on me,#bekind
R.i.p felix :( i feel so sad you had to go through this
Everybody should be kind to one another. Let us all do this ✌️❤️👍
I'm supporting the movement, #bekind will spread positivity towards everyone on social media, and will avoid negative effects happening.
Words hurt! I was raised in an abusive environment where I was always being shouted out and was told I was useless and no good. When I got into my teens I believed I was useless and no good. Words hurt and cut deep right into a person's soul. I Hope Gemma is doing well.
I’m doing ok thank you I hope your doing good too ? Thank you for commenting
You know it really is a sad day when a person has to belittle/bully/harass another person in order to feel good or get the attention they are lacking or whatever their issues are isn’t it? But if we don’t stand up for ourselves and tell an adult or seek advice from your church, preacher or priest and yes stand up for being kind! As the mother of Felix said “it really is simple, just be KIND”. I admire you for doing this Gemma. You are so loved. XO
as someone who was severely bullied to the point of attempted suicide, this breaks my heart as i know exactly how they felt and i think that the offenders should get life in prison much thanks for posting this x
God Bless You Amen xxxxxxx XXXXXXX And God Bless Your Earthly Life Time And Earthly Family Amen xxxxxxx XXXXXXX
Thank you for putting this video together and sharing the awareness of kind words. Xxx
You are a very brave lady! My compliments! You are phenomenal! Keep it up!
CAROLINE 🌟in my eyes u were a legend 🌟will never forget about u
What about her abused victim. In your eyes hahaha so you turn a blind eye to actual victims & praise perpetrators who cowardly commit suicide to evade prison. What a loser..
Someone once said in a short speech for a fashion award event, It use to be cool to be cruel, but now it's cool to be Kind. (Meghan Markle).
Thank you for making this video and spreading the awareness. I have shared to my social media.
You are amazing!
Thank you for your efforts to upload and share with all of us Gemma.
I think you are wonderful. Here you are with all what people have done to you, still standing strong, full of kindness and fighting for this important cause.
You are inspiring. I send you love.
Gemma I think you bloody brilliant!! Your words and the way you have put this together is amazing, I couldn't of said it better!! Keep up your good work❤❤❤
You are a beautiful human! I hope the word can be kinder 😢 keep being your amazing self 💜
I was bullied in school. Thought about suicide once or twice. Its horrible. This has broke my ❤. Soooo sad. The schools and police need to do more to stop this, Bullying breaks you down. Makes you feel worthless. That's how I felt. Very sad listening to these two mothers. I have two sons. My son is being mentally abused by his girlfriend. She makes fun of his illness. He suffers from depression and OCD . I haven't seen him smile in 10yrs. Me and his dad are supporting him along with his psychologist.
This was so beautiful, it made me cry. Thank you for sharing this. Those who watch and do nothing whilst others are being bullied are just as bad as the bullies. Please everyone be kind and step up
Thank you Gemma. This is very important will be sharing this with my children.
Fully behind the Be kind campaign and my heart goes out to anyone effected by suicide, but I won't be sharing this video with my child as suggested; I wouldn't want to plant the idea. I think there are other ways. Part of the problem is that children do not understand that emotions change, because they are still developing emotional maturity and it is this that makes them vulnerable. This is developmental so there is not alot we can do about this apart from be mindful and help them to develop here.
BE Kind.we must start to love too eachother.send a lot love to you all
😢 watching this is emotional, my heart goes out to these parents, I’m tired of the amount negativity and unkindness that’s out there, we have to talk and be kinder to each other #BeKind
Thank you for sharing this Gemma, very well said and brave of you to share your thoughts and feelings towards this.
Please put yourself first and look after yourself, take a break from social media is needed. It can be very refreshing
This was heart breaking to watch, I hope that the young generation start to stand up from others are support each other sometimes it only takes one person to stop the bullying ❤️
Oh Felix,
You beautiful human.. I was watching this thinking I’d love to have been your friend 😢
Wonderful mum too
We need more people like you in this world 🥰
I live in Ireland. My daughter was been bullied from an early age. She was 5 when it first started. They were comments, for example, calling her names. She is half Filipino so she has tanned skin. This went on for years. I kept on speaking to teachers and spoke to the principal. Anyway, she started, 1st year in August 2019. We thought the bullying would stop knowing the girls had gone to another school. I was wrong, the main leader, txting her on Snapchat when tho, she blocked her. She did it from someone else's phone or account. It got so bad, my daughter said out of the blue, how would they feel, if I wasn't around anymore. She is 13 now. I got so mad. The following morning, I rang the other school, spoke to the vice principal. To make this short, she rang me back and told me that she spoke to the parents and spoke to the children. They said, it won't happen again. I said if it does, I will go to the guards about it. Nothing has happened since. Thank god. I told my daughter from an early age to tell me, if anyone was bullying her and she did from the start, because I was mentally and physically bullied at school and I didn't want her to go through the same thing. You have to speak up, or nothing will be done.
Gemma Mcinerney I bet she’s absolutely beautiful and the bullies are just dead jealous ! This should be made a criminal offence to bully people .More needs to be done
I'm so sorry to hear that happened to your little girl in the land of my birth. I would say it's jealousy for sure. Shame on bullies and shame on their parents for not raising them better. Bless you 💚
Thanks for sharing this x God bless those affected
Beautifully said. Huge congratulations. 🥰
Bullys are just damaged people. They may have been treated this way as a child or experienced this kind of behaviour from parents. It's easy to say ignore, which is the best form of action to these people. But how a person develops starts at grass roots. If you are a parent then think about how these things start with your child and raise your child to be a kind, considerate, loving person. Praise your child for who they are not just for achievements and raise a person who goes out into the world as self assured and inner belief. And in turn treats people well. There has to be something that can be done about bullying and vindictive people and it starts at the beginning of someone's life. I was truly blessed to have amazing parents but not everyone has this experience. It's never too late to mend who you are 😊
Beverley Roberts yes the bullies at school even tried to re bully me a year ago and I’m 42 now ! I told them where to go and stick it where the sun don’t shine and I also told them they were mean to me at secondary school too and I never liked them bullying me ! They soon have shut up since
some people are just sociopaths who don't feel compassion and who enjoy harming others. not every bully has a sob story.
You are doing a great job Gemma! Well done. You should be proud of yourself and your achievement. May God protect you always. All the best! Xxx
Thank you for sharing this and what a lovely girl you are Gemma, stay strong honey.
Well done to all sharing there loss as never easy
Powerful message out to everyone to stop bullying & for people to speak out
My empathy goes out to all & thoughts & prayers with Caroline's family & all going thru similar hurts
Loss hits us all
Great to see a fantastic compaign & support to everyone
Very heart felt & hard no to hold tears back listening to others pain & loss
Much love to you all
💜⭐💜⭐💜⭐💜
I write with tears and a blurred screen.... I am a mum of a 15 year old girl and to think about losing her like the mum was speaking about broke me.... no parent should have to deal with what these parents have. Suicide because of bullying?? WTFFFFFF kids have to stop bullying each other. And adults too. They do it behind their screens and think it’s okay. Maybe everyone who has an account on any social media platform should have to give their real identity so we can track who is saying this stuff? I’m sorry for what you have had to deal with too. And thank you for speaking out about this. Sending much love 💕
Well done a very kind caring message ,let’s hope it starts to sink in with these bullies and their parents,we really have to stop and think how would you feel if you were the one being bullied.
Powerful speech. Well done, and so true. We are all so sad about Caroline , this tragic event should never have happened. Who ever sold a story to the press, and caused unbearable stress to Caroline and her family and invented their own narrative have blood on their hands today. Who ever alerted the press and earned money from this story have blood money on their hands. The heartbreak you have caused to Caroline's Mum and Dad brother and Sisters . They will never recover, and her close friends. They are heartbroken. A talented and lovely human being has been taken from us because of gutter press and who ever alerted the gutter press. in the first place to earn a quick buck. How could Caroline have had a fair trial. This case should have been dealt with differently, and ultimately dropped. Why did that not happen?. So many questions. Why wasn't she publicly supported more by her management.? A public statement should have been made to support her and demand the gutter press to back off, however that didn't happen. Was Caroline made an example of by the CPS because she was famous?All too late now, Caroline felt she had no option but to take her own life. Shame on everyone who didn't help and the trolls , gutter press, who made her life unbearable, people who alerted the press for their own selfish agenda. Shame on you who ever you are.
Totally agree with you Ellie. Caroline's suicide has shattered me. I even went to her propertie's to lay some flower's and pay my respect's. I've suffered 3 year of feeling suicidal after haveing my Earthly life shattered by other people's mistake's. Costing me Everything. This is a Awful disgusting BARBARIC world. God Rest Your Soul Caroline and for all us Good Human Being's that have been forced into takeing there own LIFE'S. May you rest in peace safe In Heaven away from this awful world. Made awful this world because of some of the most barbaricly evil people makeing this world just awful for us Good. These scum walking amongst us Good that are not in our league of decency. Peace and love to all us Good in this Earthly life time. Until all of us good meet again in Heaven Amen xxx
Good for you Gemma. The world has just gone completely mad and it scares me to be honest. I have two small children and I really do worry for their futures. Continue to be the beautiful person you are. You are a sweetheart 😘
Aww bless you Gemma for sharing this 💜.. This is really tragic what happened to Caroline.. I have cried its soo sad 😢💔... I'm so sorry you have gone through bullying, I also had as a child at school.. Take care lovely Gemma 💜💖
Why are you not crying for her victim who almost lost his life while he was sleeping
😢 it’s so sad, my heart goes out to the families, it is so upsetting 😭 we as People MUST be kinder #beKIND
I remember this .. it's heartbreaking ... Such a beautiful soul ..sad for you mom .x
This is heartbreaking I'm in tears Please always be kind to each other 😭😭😭💗💔💔💔
So,so sorry for your loss,thank you so much for your Angels,someone always comes to show the way.no consolation I know ,my heart is broken for ye,xxxxx💖💖💖💖
Yes , please be kind. You don't know who is on the edge. Why cause added stress.
Thanx Gemma , this is very important 💛
Well said. You never know what's going on in someone's life behind the scenes, or how they're feeling. Even those who come across as the happiest and most confident people are often struggling with anxiety, loneliness or low self-esteem in their lives. Even the bullies - a lot of them behave that way because they themselves are lonely and insecure. Obviously some are just sadistic narcissists who just derive pleasure from causing suffering to others, but a lot of people think what they're doing is funny or clever, and don't realise the damage it's doing. Things need to change.
You are amazing my lovely! If you ever need someone to talk to, let me know. You come across so well and passionate. Beautiful!
It might be on the screen for 1 second but in their minds forever. You cant unsee whats been seen💔Dont do it. 🐝kind
So sad. Sending love to Lucy and the rest of Felix' family. Bullies PLEASE stop - this is what you can do to people.
Spending love. You are so right. Everyone be kind. 💞
Thank you so much for your testimony Gemma! I am really sorry that we encourage bullying in our schools! The teaching profession is one of the most brutal, and is about bitching teachers! What hope is there for us to support those students who are being bullied in the classroom, with the bullying culture in our schools primarily affecting us teachers?
So sad, my hearts breaks. My friend ended his life in December. People dont realise the reality until it happens to them. We need to stand up to bullying, and help those who are struggling to cope with life, whether it's a stranger or friend. Bullying at school, work, social media, it's a very real subject in life. We need to be kind above anything else. Live, breathe, preach kindness.
Yasmin Khan indeed I agree . I’m sick of bullies be it adults teenagers etc not enough is being done
Sorry to hear about ur friend my friend a few years ago took his life because he has alcoholism
Hello beautiful Gemma! Well done for this video and being so well articulated! It takes courage to do what you do! You are amazing! My daughter is on the spectrum too and thank god everyone loves her at school! She is the kindest soul but I am proud of you Gemma for doing what you do! Keep going and know that you have a lot more people who loves you than people who are trolling! Love yourself deeply so that you can love others freely 💖💖💖
You're a very articulate and lovely girl 🥰♥️ Don't listen to the bullies!
Thanks Gemma, you are doing great work. Take care.
Heartbreaking absolutely heartbreaking. How can anyone do this to each other? You're a brave and beautiful girl Gemma keep strong xxx
Be kind ❤
It is so important to raise awareness ... thank you for taking the time to create and post this video. People need to see this to show the real people who are being affected by bullying and trolling #BeKind
Well done Gemma, you're really brave, thank you for speaking out about this. Your words make a difference.
Thank you Gemma. Very important message at the end. ❤️ I'm so sorry you've been a victim of trolling. I do hope online becomes a kinder place in the future for everyone's benefit and it's such a shame that Caroline felt there was no way out.
Phillip, good to see you weathering it, don't take any of the horrible things on board. My late !!! was at least as big an household name as you are today, over 5 decades of fame and a life of secrets for us both and yes, I was only 16 in 1966!!!!!! My choice, my life, our love and now, 13 years after he left, its still rips me apart. You now have more in terms of human understanding and comfort to offer than you had a week ago. Good luck and don't worry about people saying that you can be hard to work with: true professionals always are because nothing works for their performance but the very best. All right, right? good luck. p
Well said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thanks for sharing ❤️
I think u r great. Keep spreading the love and stopping the hate. Bullying is terrible. Words are powerful let's use them for kindness not to bully or upset.
You are amazing!!! Bullys should be exposed. And 3 strikes and your out off shoulder media..account shut down if people report you 3 times for bullying. You're doing amazing #bekind
make bullying serious criminal offence no matter the age!!!!
hobbies and passions exactly we need to keep campaigning for bullying to be a criminal offence I’ve suffered bullying since I was a teenager just Cos of my hair colour
Thanks for sharing this... its sad to see children go though such a hard time... just why bully people to people who bully
You are amazing my lovely!
Thank you, lovely young lady for speaking out. I'm also against this kind of digusting behaviours.❤🙏
As a mother of two this breaks my heart. Its completely unimaginable to think of this happening. I was bullied from the age of 7 to 13. For a child you really do think that you dont have any other escape. It crossed my mind on various occasions. I wish now id spoken to my parents because they could have helped. Anyone reading this PLEASE speak to someone, anyone. You are precious and mean the world to someone. Ive grown up to be happy and have a beautiful family. You are loved x
I also think schools should be more strict on bully’s. I’m not proud to admit this but I found out 4 years ago my son was been saying horrible things to a boy after the school phoned it was a 2 way bulling has he was also saying things to my son, but this other boy had taken it to heart.when the school phoned me to say my child was doing this my heart dropped as many parents you think no not my child I brought him up not to bully,any way i went into school and in front of the teachers told my son I’m not happy with him and when he got home I made him write the boy a letter saying sorry and I told my son what impact bully does to people.luckily since they are now good friends and had no issues with my son since. So don’t always make sure your child not just getting bullied but also not been a bully both are just as important. Just be kind !
It doesn't seem like your son was bullying him. I think they were 2 kids who were arguing. That's not the same. I get that it's a slippery slope and commend you for acting straight away but your kid wasn't a bully. Maybe if more parents acted like you their kids would not be so cruel. It took me to threaten my sons bully father to get him to stop. He was a police officer and I told him that I was going to go to his superior and report him for not stopping his child. The parents only cared when it directly impacted them.
I think you've just proved bullying isn't going anywhere & it's just a part of life haha get over it or check out. If people can't get over it. We've got another weak generation ahead..
@@MrAden1307 I pray that you are not a parent.
@@kelleyspartiatis5323 So your a single mum then. No man around aye. This comment section is rife with females all saying the same thing. They have no solutions other than to put it on schools. This woman Claire Littewood just admitted her own are at it. No mention of what their DAD has done about it
Seems to me mothers of 2020 can't discipline their offspring & need government/school. The "patriarchy" to help them. As usual
And folks are wondering why nothing has changed.. There's a single mum epidemic going on in this country..
It's directly related..
@@MrAden1307 A whole lot of assumptions and conclusions based on a narrative that starts with a red herring.
No I am not a single parent. Regardless, that's irrelevant. I raised wonderful people. They were not bullies. Schools should absolutely bullying done on the school premises. If they did I would not have had to threaten his father. Why didn't my husband approach the dad, you're thinking, right? He didn't because it would have looked confrontational and the parents attitudes as they were I knew my husband would break the guys face. So I didn't tell him what I was doing so he didn't end up in prison.
I get that you're a woman hater. The feminazis really piss you off. News flash, most sane women hate them too. I'm not anti men but I will make an exception for you. You probably were the school bully. You've got nothing to say and you're saying it too loud so pipe down.
In a world where you can be anything be kind 💕
My mother sent me this and I feel bad for people that have to go through this 🥺
Well done Gemma, well said. Bullies need to realise what total cowards they really are, and how they would feel if someone was bullying there brothers or sisters etc and they took there own life. Please think long and hard what you are actually doing to another human being. PLEASE STOP 😢🙏
Stop bulling theres no room in this world for it caroline fly high #bekind this as to end tougher laws on bullies 💔💔💔🕯
bullying is not acceptable think about what you write on social media it could seriously impact
Lives no more bullying no more abuse full stop .r.i.p caroline flack and all the others #be kind
Thankyou for sharing ❤️
Well said Gemma, it’s so sad what is happening r.i.p Caroline flack and to all the others that has suffered from this it’s awful , be kind people please xx👍🏻🏴💞😢
K 8 - this is not the same as Flack. She committed a crime & was charged. Suddenly she’s some sort of hero. This poor schoolboy was completely innocent. It’s not the same.
@@cindywebb5053 Well no she didn't they lied he wasn't even bleeding there are pictures of him showing his head there's no blood that blood was personal to her and the press used it
@@cindywebb5053 it's still suicide #bekindn
Ben Willetts - suicide doesn’t absolve wrongdoings
@@cindywebb5053 Well you obviously believe everything you read so you are pretty stupid