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🌸 That’s a great way of encouraging oneself to stay consistent and not give up It’s so true, things do pass & it does get better. Thank you for sharing One thing I’ve always noticed after a really difficult time in my life, once I find a resolution & it’s all resolved I say to myself, why didn’t I do that earlier. Things always seem daunting at first & we talk ourselves out of achieving certain things, sometimes before we even try. I’ve learned to just jump in and go for it, learning along the way. Just like getting into a body of water, it’s no longer cold once you get fully immersed lol. My mom used to tell me with everything in life, just jump right in & don’t think of any obstacles just see never ending possibilities. It worked every time 🤗✨
@@nikkiberry2516 🌸 I know this isn’t your name & you are in fact the same con person on multiple sites Remember living life like this isn’t the best & eventually you will suffer for it. Instead of wasting time on this try to utilise your skills on a better cleaner, I should say honest way of living & you will be proud of yourself. How long will you live life like this ? Which part of the world do you reside in, I can actually guess it’s not where you want to be. Also note spells are fairytales. Manifesting is easily achieved by every individual once they learn the basics, living in the end & utilising their imagination. Why don’t you try the Neville Goddard way for yourself
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When I was engaged to my husband 19 years ago, I told him I didn’t want to get married, even though I wanted it more than anything. I have no idea why I tried to do that. Luckily, he saw through my bs. We’re still happily married. I was just scared and felt unworthy or the happiness offered.
For those wondering if I got him back. I never lost him. He saw through my bull crap. We’re still married 18 years later. There’s no such thing as a “perfect” marriage, but we’re as close as can be without it being faked. He’s truly my other half and I’m his.
Relationship with yourself is the most challenging, yet rewarding, to maintain! Whatever topic you pick it is always about relationship between YOU and YOU. Awesome video! It allowed to open my heart and mind to me more profound than minutes ago. I matter and I am enough. Love your channel!
I am grateful I am healthy I am whole I am complete I am enough I am loved I am grateful for what I have I am grateful for what I do not have I am grateful for posive mind set I am grateful for my gratitude nature thank you Allah thank you thank you so much for giving me so much 💖💖💖💖
I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I'm in my 30s now and so many realizations have come to me naturally . One is how much I've held myself back from so much because of self-sabotage essentially because I didn't think I deserved success or showcasing my talents and abilities 🙁. I used to say oh I hate attention, I don't need attention and literally let everyone else have it or include them in my work even though it was my idea, or usher them to be front and center in a dance class or something. I realize it's because I don't think I DESERVE attention, big difference there. I'd at the same time have resentment for those who seek attention and have such confidence despite their mediocrity (not being petty but we all know that often times those who shove themselves into the spotlight or to the top aren't necessarily always the best at it, they just have more self-belief, ambition or arrogance). Procrastination and not looking into things or taking action to do things is also self-sabotage. Doing things that would use my talents, my creativity and intuitiveness more that would clearly bring me more joy and make me feel more alive. But then I fizzle out and I do nothing and just continue on in my unstimulating 9 to 5 job. Literally the feeling of being stuck and disappointed in myself for not aiming higher to where my spirit wants to be is the worst feeling, it's a vicious cycle😞.
Yes, it is, really the worst feeling😢"But then I fizzle out and I do nothing and just continue on in my unstimulating 9 to 5 job. Literally the feeling of being stuck and disappointed in myself for not aiming higher to where my spirit wants to be is the worst feeling, it's a vicious cycle."
i understand your feelings, ive been through a simmliler situation, i coould not finish work assigment, my grades which could easliy get to100 were droping lower than ever, i avoid doing things due to anxiety ,new appratonities to meet friens, suck, although i dont know exactly what you going through i hope it could help: it is hard when you know your have a great abilities, wasted potential and just anxiety stopping you, doubting yourself, despite the fact that you know who you are and you are aware about your fears, however i know that it is a form of protection as you explained, but i relized that i have to let go, bc I want to live my life fully i fully know that i know that i hold the power to change this self doubt, to finally being able to express myself without worring, hugging yourself tightly, being aware is half way there , even more than this, and knowing yout worth is one of the greatest skill you can manage, know that youve got everything in your power to be happy, WHO YOU ARE, what define you is not your doubts you are not your fears, but it is sticking up to your belifs, your value and what makes you happy, although it is scary to let go of those thoughts who makes you feel , it is even more better to let go and trust yourself, letting yourself do what you desire with no stress nor fear, i know it ight seem easier said than donme, but no matter what situation you have gotten yourself in, , all the self doubt it all doesnt matter, what truly is how you wanna live, the things you passionate about, you can turn every thing in a second , just let go of what makes yopu feel anxious, hugg yourslf tightly, understand , and let go, focus on doing you , man im with u too, you are not alone. you can and will, dont give up on yourself, just follow your gut and don't ignore your needs and belifs. you know who you are and what you can manage to achive , life is so much more meaningful, so i am proud and i suport u., ,tbh as an empath too, with that you become stronger , ive gained matureity and wisdom, ive changed into a different person, although im still on a journey, but the journey to become the best of you and learn, never ends but be happier now, it is what the most importent things to me, do what u love and get to show yourself how much ypu could be u and do what you best at, what u llove improve. living for myself and not pleasing anyone, not givving a damn about othgers opinion, moving on from toxic realtionships , understanding that i make my own choices, i can do anything with my will, i know my worth, it is a gift having this mindset bc you only doing what makes you happy , who i am is the most important things, other ppl and what i assume they are thinking of me, their problems and anger is theirs not mine and has nothing to do with me, i will stand to my belifs. once you understand that your value being put in the first place, after figuring out why youre feelings in a ceirtain way , understand but sticking to your values. it is important for me that you will read this, youve got this, i hope you are doing ok, i wish you yo hsave an amazing day/night!
I know how you feel, but just realizing it is the first step to changing it. Dream and vision of your future best self and go there..Wish you the best.
This is such a life changing video! Thank you very much, Aaron. I’m 57 & starting over after an addiction and narcissistic abuse almost wiped me out. But you’re helping me get out of “victim” mentality. I need to see more!
59 and still recovering from narc abuse, drug use (his addiction) from 2016, this kickstarted my spiritual awakening and still feeling wiped out, not improving, things still on a downward direction, so much loss, grief and illness😢
Aaron, you are hilarious, cute as a bug, sweet, loving, compassionate, caring, intense and passionate and so much more! I see your desire to help others! Guess you'd have to be blind not to see it like I was in the past. I'm waking up and see so much more now. It's surreal!!!!
Accountability to a higher power, god, karma is KEY to success in life. Oftentimes people are so focused on ego based realities they get lost in doing things for themselves rather than co-creating realities with the most high. Sending this message to do what you love and wishing that you manifest your best life based on what the universe wants for you. 💜 Heart-Based Manifestation UA-camr
Hi Aaron, I am from Perth Australia. A 30 year old woman , singles parent , mother of two beautiful children. I have struggled my whole life with abandoning myself for other people. Feeling worthy and valued from others validation. I want to start taking control of my own self , my own emotions , my beliefs ! I have just come across your videos and I really connect with everything you say. Thankyou for being so open and connected . I am so proud you are where you are at in your life on your journey of self healing . I hope to wake up in a powerful way myself 🥰
Yo! I needed to say this and I wish you know how much this resonate in me since childhood abandonment, (childhood abuse )to the drug abuse to escape my pain, mostly weed too, like a lot and I fucked up a lot of good things unconscious of it. I really hope that finally I can get out of this, like every time I’m having a good time the shoe drops and I fucked up. I don’t wanna be a failure just because that’s the program my family impose in me. Shit is hella scary sometimes. Thanks for bringing light to ppl in need 🙏🏼
SELF-SOBATAGE is my #1 problem… I can see it happen in action. But, I still keep pushing myself. Although I’m moving at 5km/hr when I could be moving 50km/hr. Wow I just heard you say that if you believe you are broken and ashamed that it’ll make you strive for perfectionism to cover up your shame and self-soabotage before success as you cannot accept an alternative, no -shame identity… powerful!
Thank you Aaron, you just gave me yet another epiphany. Was having blocks with dreaming bigger and had totally ran past the identity part. You can write yourself permission slips all you wish but if your beliefs attached to your identity block them… thank you, you really have changed my life
It’s evident your all about helping others light their candle .. you have grown by helping others. That is the natural result and yes involves paying taxes and that is the ultimate success of life. That’s business. You are true to your core self. Thank you.
Thank you so much, i was able to review my childhood and to see that your were right , i created a story to keep me safe as a child and at 59 im still using that old story, yesterday i started to re write a new story. love your work
I love this! My parents divorced when I was four... You've helped me SO much already psychologically! Coming from one, and this is a compliment, you speak like such a Sagittarius 🏹 ♐
Needed this! Left my bartending job and now I gotta find what authentic for me. For the first time in my life. Taking that leap of faith 🙏 Wish me luck!
I hope you see this message. I love your work so much. You have opened my eyes to so much. I am not where I want to be yet but I know I am making progress. Thank you so much
Abandoning ourself. Huge revelation. Because you have shared..Knowing you are free is the greatest gift of hope to your viewers. Freedom is loving yourself in a divine way.
*Thanks Aaron, what I found helpful is that Shift in IDENTITY, Behaviours, Feeling and ultimately CORE Beliefs that can change self sabotaging behaviours!*
Thank you for this video, it is true, how your life is, it's a reflection of how you see yourself.... People's actions and words tells the story of what their heart condition is...
Crap....I think I have almost all of those core beliefs. I'm way more f***** up than I previously thought. However, I am on a spiritual journey and will add this to my curriculum. I love this video and your personal contributions to give a bit on insight into the material presented. I believe many people can benefit from this. Thanks!
I learned from a Jungian Therapist that the inner child sabotages out of loyalty to the parent. If a parent is 'bad' (neglectful, abusive etcetera) it's too doomy to handle so the child invents this survival belief: mom's not bad, so I must be bad. To become successful the child has to acknowledge that it is actually good, but then that means mom must be bad. It must rebel against 'good mom' but this threatens its sense of survival. It is stuck in the 'to survive I must stay bad' mode. So I would say the 5th V is Victory!!! Victory over Victim! ❤
This is going on my top 5 list of your best videos!! ❤ I liked the longer content, it lets you share personal stories along with steps to begin the process. Love it, thanks!
Luv Aaron brings it Alive,thats transference of Life experience is really Authentic and the Life blood. Truth be told, sometimes we have to learn (or re-learn) to be on our own side because we fall too easily into the trap of being our own worst enemies. We love the idea of being loved and listened to by others, but we forget to love and listen to ourselves. peace🕊
I think that the secret is not only to realize the patterns but to change the subconscious program. If we take action and face the fear we can change the program and enter a new reality. Aaron, you have helped me so much, you are helping people change their lives.
My identity in business, sports, spirituality, beauty, intelligence, social success, dating is excellent. But romantic love? OMG my core beliefs are fractured when it comes to romantic love. I know all about self-sabotaging romantic love. Meanwhile, I get your emails inviting me to join the Magnetic Love challenge, and my stomach turns. I literally get sick to my stomach thinking about joining it. Fear-score off the charts. Maybe putting excess pressure on myself. 2 hours later: My inner being yells me I'll be fine! My Twin Flame is on his way and he'll be worth the wait! ❤️🍀💪
man, i really wish the UA-cam algorithm let me see this video earlier.. truly has shaken me to this core of this lame.0 version of myself and really has helped me shift my paradigm on myself. i just want to say thank you for all the work you do aaron and thank you for being vulnerable enough to share it with us. much love from a fan that is taking this lesson to heart
That lame.o version of yourself got you to the exact moment where you could find this video, and be open to the information. Love that version of yourself, give him a high 5 and tell him you’re grateful for getting you to the place where you could level up. All versions of ourselves are worthy of love. I hope the last year has brought you much peace and many joyful moments. 🙏🏻
I got told in therapy as a teen that I had abandonment issues due to my parents divorcing when I was 5. My dad rarely visited and didn't support us financially, mum was stressed. This video is a big help.
@@marial3231 thank you, I'm glad it helped you too. Unfortunately he's passed away now he was an alcoholic, I don't have any bad feelings towards him he had his problems. It does really affect kids when one parent isn't around though. My husband had an absent dad too, its made us both determined to make sure our kids don't go through the same thing. We've been together 17 years, since I was 21. He's helped me a lot with my self confidence.
I just found you randomly and didn't know how bad I really needed u lol I always put all my energy and time into other people and give nothing to myself and realize I hate my life... but its my fault... cause I would do this to myself. Everytime I would start to do something to start a career i would feel like I have to go 0 to 100 and give myself stress and panic and eventually sabotage it and then the excuses came l like " im not smart enough to pass. I have kids I cant. This really isn't gonna make me money. " and I been doing this in my marriage the whole time and its crumbling... I feel so fucked up mentally now that I know and exhauste myself and treat myself like shit and put so much pressure on my self that I'm never good enough. Even over dumb shit like buying a shirt I want ill think about it for days! Like should I? No I dont have enough money.. but I do... I deserve it but I don't. I need it but I dont... uhhh I just want a brain reset lol
You are wise. So much of what you said hit home. Paying that guy up front for work...yes it is "Your fault" and other things. I work at a prestigious dental office and have serious anxiety and imposter syndrome even tho I KNOW I'm good enough. I fear Narcisistic people but Yes the sabatuer is me.
What up! Keep making these videos please. I love breaking issues down and getting to the core. This method is the opposite of what I’ve been used to - suppressing emotions. Thank you!! 🙏🏼
To all the dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If you surround yourself with love and right people, ANYTHING is possible. Love from a small UA-camr🙏🖤
You've changed my life. You've helped me soo soo much. It's my sincere gratitude to you and god with whole heart of mine❤thank you soo soo soooo muchh❤❤❤
Love you 😍 thank you. I got a ton of value out of this. My life is changing drastically and I really need to keep an eagle eye out for self sabotage! Sending love!!
Relatable so much I know my own self sabotage keeps me off of success so I can stay relatable. So true. Thank you, Aaron! You deserve the most. Thank you for your vulnerability, it speaks volumes and inspiring.
I love the mix of longer and shorter videos. I loved this longer video because I play it while I Paint. So it's nice to listen to a longer video while I Draw and Paint. 🙏🏽
I just recently started a new job as a campion for the elderly but I started to notice certain blocks come to the surface i see it stems from my worthiness of making more money I can see how my higher self was showing me the way because I was listening to a vid by Ralph smart on how to resolve issues in the subconscious mind then maybe like two others & Aaron show me the confirmation I need THANK YOU SPIRIT 🆓🆙👼🏼📯✝️👑
Watching all of these videos is making me realize that I never had all of these issues and I was just researching most of these because people always labeled me with these issues. It was them projecting themself onto me. I do value myself but because I think differently than what society says about things and I'm willing to tell my perspective people love to go against me rather than being grown and understanding that everyone is different and that difference is on a spectrum. If you're an anomaly surrounded by average thinkers these average thinkers will do anything they can to make you feel bad about yourself like them.
No way, been playing tennis for my whole life! Made me smile hearing you talk about it! Clicked on this video.. haven’t seen your videos in a while. Much love Aaron ❤️
Aaron, I don't know how I found your channel but your content is amazing and your delivery is the everything---very spiritually penetrating. Thank you!
Aaron this is definitely one of the best videos I’ve ever seen and when you were talking about how now you have no problems you trade in your old problems for new problems that are in alignment to your higher self. I would love to see these new kind of videos !!
I like your short and your long videos ! Please continue both. They are definitely worth the time to watch, consider and sometimes re-watch to yield even more insights !
Thank you so much for all your content Aaron. I’ve decided to leave my job as an accountant and pursue a career as a self help author and spiritual life coach. I uploaded my first video that is the basis of my awakening, my coming out story. Through suffering I found enlightenment. Your teachings helped me through all of it. Thank you!
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I’m loving the look!! You are getting hotter every video! Doesn’t hurt my eyes!!
Any of you people actually enlightened or just here for the echo chambers?
@@lorettaelainecorson4035 glad to know. Tell me, has Christ Consciousness manifested? Have you talked with God?
I loved this one; thank you!!
dude, go for s. america maybe it will help
*To all the dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If you surround yourself with love and right people, ANYTHING is possible...*
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Agreed bro
Thanks for saying that
Thank you, I really need to believe this right now. All the best
Amen brother so true.
*“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”*
Love from a small UA-camr💙
🌸 That’s a great way of encouraging oneself to stay consistent and not give up
It’s so true, things do pass & it does get better. Thank you for sharing
One thing I’ve always noticed after a really difficult time in my life, once I find a resolution & it’s all resolved
I say to myself, why didn’t I do that earlier. Things always seem daunting at first & we talk ourselves out of achieving certain things, sometimes before we even try. I’ve learned to just jump in and go for it, learning along the way. Just like getting into a body of water, it’s no longer cold once you get fully immersed lol. My mom used to tell me with everything in life, just jump right in & don’t think of any obstacles just see never ending possibilities. It worked every time 🤗✨
@@nikkiberry2516 🌸 I know this isn’t your name & you are in fact the same con person on multiple sites
Remember living life like this isn’t the best & eventually you will suffer for it. Instead of wasting time on this try to utilise your skills on a better cleaner, I should say honest way of living & you will be proud of yourself. How long will you live life like this ? Which part of the world do you reside in, I can actually guess it’s not where you want to be.
Also note spells are fairytales. Manifesting is easily achieved by every individual once they learn the basics, living in the end & utilising their imagination. Why don’t you try the Neville Goddard way for yourself
@@sunitafisher4758 suni
go get some Antipsychotics
This guy chatting here is mentioning bang on
This guy on video is gonna change this freako world's
*“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.”*
_―Ralph Waldo Emerson_
The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day...* 🖤
I saw that exactly at the right moment, 100% when I was supposed to see it.Thanks for putting that out there :-)
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😍😍 Sometimes you see just what you need to see at the right ⏲️ ⏳️ x
thank you too!❤🕊
When I was engaged to my husband 19 years ago, I told him I didn’t want to get married, even though I wanted it more than anything. I have no idea why I tried to do that. Luckily, he saw through my bs. We’re still happily married. I was just scared and felt unworthy or the happiness offered.
For those wondering if I got him back. I never lost him. He saw through my bull crap. We’re still married 18 years later. There’s no such thing as a “perfect” marriage, but we’re as close as can be without it being faked. He’s truly my other half and I’m his.
Koi I get it you did!!!! Cool
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Relationship with yourself is the most challenging, yet rewarding, to maintain! Whatever topic you pick it is always about relationship between YOU and YOU. Awesome video! It allowed to open my heart and mind to me more profound than minutes ago. I matter and I am enough. Love your channel!
I don't really want love
You are the STAR of this movie! Write your own script! You ARE worthy! 💙
YES!
@Suleiman Salihu NO!
I am grateful
I am healthy
I am whole
I am complete
I am enough
I am loved
I am grateful for what I have
I am grateful for what I do not have
I am grateful for posive mind set
I am grateful for my gratitude nature thank you Allah thank you thank you so much for giving me so much 💖💖💖💖
AMEN 👏
True...u r love and u r loved
I don’t think you actually realise how many people you are saving with your work!! Thank you 🙏
I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I'm in my 30s now and so many realizations have come to me naturally . One is how much I've held myself back from so much because of self-sabotage essentially because I didn't think I deserved success or showcasing my talents and abilities 🙁. I used to say oh I hate attention, I don't need attention and literally let everyone else have it or include them in my work even though it was my idea, or usher them to be front and center in a dance class or something. I realize it's because I don't think I DESERVE attention, big difference there. I'd at the same time have resentment for those who seek attention and have such confidence despite their mediocrity (not being petty but we all know that often times those who shove themselves into the spotlight or to the top aren't necessarily always the best at it, they just have more self-belief, ambition or arrogance).
Procrastination and not looking into things or taking action to do things is also self-sabotage. Doing things that would use my talents, my creativity and intuitiveness more that would clearly bring me more joy and make me feel more alive. But then I fizzle out and I do nothing and just continue on in my unstimulating 9 to 5 job. Literally the feeling of being stuck and disappointed in myself for not aiming higher to where my spirit wants to be is the worst feeling, it's a vicious cycle😞.
It’s never to late ✊
You said that so beautifully, feels good to realise there are others who feel the same way 💚
Yes, it is, really the worst feeling😢"But then I fizzle out and I do nothing and just continue on in my unstimulating 9 to 5 job. Literally the feeling of being stuck and disappointed in myself for not aiming higher to where my spirit wants to be is the worst feeling, it's a vicious cycle."
i understand your feelings, ive been through a simmliler situation, i coould not finish work assigment, my grades which could easliy get to100 were droping lower than ever, i avoid doing things due to anxiety ,new appratonities to meet friens, suck, although i dont know exactly what you going through i hope it could help:
it is hard when you know your have a great abilities, wasted potential and just anxiety stopping you, doubting yourself, despite the fact that you know who you are and you are aware about your fears, however i know that it is a form of protection as you explained, but i relized that i have to let go, bc I want to live my life fully i fully know that i know that i hold the power to change this self doubt, to finally being able to express myself without worring, hugging yourself tightly, being aware is half way there , even more than this, and knowing yout worth is one of the greatest skill you can manage, know that youve got everything in your power to be happy, WHO YOU ARE, what define you is not your doubts you are not your fears, but it is sticking up to your belifs, your value and what makes you happy, although it is scary to let go of those thoughts who makes you feel , it is even more better to let go and trust yourself, letting yourself do what you desire with no stress nor fear, i know it ight seem easier said than donme, but no matter what situation you have gotten yourself in, , all the self doubt it all doesnt matter, what truly is how you wanna live, the things you passionate about, you can turn every thing in a second , just let go of what makes yopu feel anxious, hugg yourslf tightly, understand , and let go, focus on doing you , man im with u too, you are not alone.
you can and will, dont give up on yourself, just follow your gut and don't ignore your needs and belifs. you know who you are and what you can manage to achive , life is so much more meaningful, so i am proud and i suport u.,
,tbh as an empath too, with that you become stronger , ive gained matureity and wisdom, ive changed into a different person, although im still on a journey, but the journey to become the best of you and learn, never ends but be happier now, it is what the most importent things to me, do what u love and get to show yourself how much ypu could be u and do what you best at, what u llove improve. living for myself and not pleasing anyone, not givving a damn about othgers opinion, moving on from toxic realtionships , understanding that i make my own choices, i can do anything with my will, i know my worth,
it is a gift having this mindset bc you only doing what makes you happy , who i am is the most important things, other ppl and what i assume they are thinking of me, their problems and anger is theirs not mine and has nothing to do with me, i will stand to my belifs. once you understand that your value being put in the first place, after figuring out why youre feelings in a ceirtain way , understand but sticking to your values.
it is important for me that you will read this, youve got this, i hope you are doing ok, i wish you yo hsave an amazing day/night!
I know how you feel, but just realizing it is the first step to changing it. Dream and vision of your future best self and go there..Wish you the best.
You can give them another chance, or you can forgive, let go, and give yourself a better chance.
This is such a life changing video! Thank you very much, Aaron. I’m 57 & starting over after an addiction and narcissistic abuse almost wiped me out. But you’re helping me get out of “victim” mentality. I need to see more!
59 and still recovering from narc abuse, drug use (his addiction) from 2016, this kickstarted my spiritual awakening and still feeling wiped out, not improving, things still on a downward direction, so much loss, grief and illness😢
@@Secret_Soul_Survivor just turned 45 and im trying to recover from the same ... no luck as yet :(. but am hopeful
Sooo true!
Aaron, you are hilarious, cute as a bug, sweet, loving, compassionate, caring, intense and passionate and so much more! I see your desire to help others! Guess you'd have to be blind not to see it like I was in the past. I'm waking up and see so much more now. It's surreal!!!!
Wish i found this channel when i was in my relationship, i self sabotaged it, destroyed it because of me! And my self sabotage😊
“Expand your Consciousness Meow!”
I feel like showing up for your self and having boundaries could also help you stop sabatoging yourself as well
"Our ego will find ways to validate our beliefs" love this ❤💯
*If you are reading this, never ever give up. We will succeed. I'm cheering for you!*
Accountability to a higher power, god, karma is KEY to success in life. Oftentimes people are so focused on ego based realities they get lost in doing things for themselves rather than co-creating realities with the most high. Sending this message to do what you love and wishing that you manifest your best life based on what the universe wants for you.
💜 Heart-Based Manifestation UA-camr
Thank you 🦋
Love you Gavin 💓💗💓
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Hi Aaron,
I am from Perth Australia. A 30 year old woman , singles parent , mother of two beautiful children.
I have struggled my whole life with abandoning myself for other people. Feeling worthy and valued from others validation. I want to start taking control of my own self , my own emotions , my beliefs ! I have just come across your videos and I really connect with everything you say.
Thankyou for being so open and connected . I am so proud you are where you are at in your life on your journey of self healing .
I hope to wake up in a powerful way myself 🥰
Yo! I needed to say this and I wish you know how much this resonate in me since childhood abandonment, (childhood abuse )to the drug abuse to escape my pain, mostly weed too, like a lot and I fucked up a lot of good things unconscious of it. I really hope that finally I can get out of this, like every time I’m having a good time the shoe drops and I fucked up. I don’t wanna be a failure just because that’s the program my family impose in me. Shit is hella scary sometimes. Thanks for bringing light to ppl in need 🙏🏼
This is a f*cking life changing video ✨✨
Aaron randomly appeared in my dream last night, I wish I could remember what we were talking about lol
SELF-SOBATAGE is my #1 problem… I can see it happen in action. But, I still keep pushing myself. Although I’m moving at 5km/hr when I could be moving 50km/hr. Wow I just heard you say that if you believe you are broken and ashamed that it’ll make you strive for perfectionism to cover up your shame and self-soabotage before success as you cannot accept an alternative, no -shame identity… powerful!
Self love, self care, self kindness and self honesty is always the best for me you and others to heal and grow.
Thank you Aaron, you just gave me yet another epiphany. Was having blocks with dreaming bigger and had totally ran past the identity part. You can write yourself permission slips all you wish but if your beliefs attached to your identity block them… thank you, you really have changed my life
I definitely see a pattern of self sabotage in my life. Thank you for this teaching ❤
It’s evident your all about helping others light their candle .. you have grown by helping others. That is the natural result and yes involves paying taxes and that is the ultimate success of life. That’s business. You are true to your core self. Thank you.
Your glow up is something we need to talk about. From Diamante ear rings to Curt Kobain realness.
I have honestly healed so much watching these videos, thank you aaron!!!
Imma take notes
Thank you so much, i was able to review my childhood and to see that your were right , i created a story to keep me safe as a child and at 59 im still using that old story, yesterday i started to re write a new story. love your work
I love this! My parents divorced when I was four... You've helped me SO much already psychologically! Coming from one, and this is a compliment, you speak like such a Sagittarius 🏹 ♐
Needed this! Left my bartending job and now I gotta find what authentic for me. For the first time in my life. Taking that leap of faith 🙏 Wish me luck!
I hope you see this message. I love your work so much. You have opened my eyes to so much. I am not where I want to be yet but I know I am making progress. Thank you so much
Abandoning ourself. Huge revelation.
Because you have shared..Knowing you are free is the greatest gift of hope to your viewers. Freedom is loving yourself in a divine way.
25:00 vision is who you are and is natural for your identity .
*Thanks Aaron, what I found helpful is that Shift in IDENTITY, Behaviours, Feeling and ultimately CORE Beliefs that can change self sabotaging behaviours!*
Thank you for this video, it is true, how your life is, it's a reflection of how you see yourself.... People's actions and words tells the story of what their heart condition is...
I Swear to God, everything you spoke about is 100% me! You are speaking to my soul. Thank you so much for showing me the way.
I feel that most of your viewers would agree, we care about you too. Thank you
Started watching you videos in July,, and you changed my life in a big way and in a positive way,, thank you!
1. Yes! 2. Yes! 3. Yes! 4. Yes! 5. He'll yessss!! 🙏💖
Empaths struggle with this especially in these times..Thank you
Crap....I think I have almost all of those core beliefs. I'm way more f***** up than I previously thought. However, I am on a spiritual journey and will add this to my curriculum. I love this video and your personal contributions to give a bit on insight into the material presented. I believe many people can benefit from this. Thanks!
I learned from a Jungian Therapist that the inner child sabotages out of loyalty to the parent. If a parent is 'bad' (neglectful, abusive etcetera) it's too doomy to handle so the child invents this survival belief: mom's not bad, so I must be bad. To become successful the child has to acknowledge that it is actually good, but then that means mom must be bad. It must rebel against 'good mom' but this threatens its sense of survival. It is stuck in the 'to survive I must stay bad' mode. So I would say the 5th V is Victory!!! Victory over Victim! ❤
This is going on my top 5 list of your best videos!! ❤ I liked the longer content, it lets you share personal stories along with steps to begin the process. Love it, thanks!
thank you!
Thank you! I am sure I manifested this video into my reality at the right time. Very useful, very inspiring.
I totally procrastinate…it is self sabotage. 💡☀️
Luv Aaron brings it Alive,thats transference of Life experience is really Authentic and the Life blood.
Truth be told, sometimes we have to learn (or re-learn) to be on our own side because we fall too easily into the trap of being our own worst enemies. We love the idea of being loved and listened to by others, but we forget to love and listen to ourselves.
peace🕊
I think that the secret is not only to realize the patterns but to change the subconscious program. If we take action and face the fear we can change the program and enter a new reality. Aaron, you have helped me so much, you are helping people change their lives.
My identity in business, sports, spirituality, beauty, intelligence, social success, dating is excellent. But romantic love? OMG my core beliefs are fractured when it comes to romantic love. I know all about self-sabotaging romantic love. Meanwhile, I get your emails inviting me to join the Magnetic Love challenge, and my stomach turns. I literally get sick to my stomach thinking about joining it. Fear-score off the charts. Maybe putting excess pressure on myself.
2 hours later: My inner being yells me I'll be fine! My Twin Flame is on his way and he'll be worth the wait! ❤️🍀💪
man, i really wish the UA-cam algorithm let me see this video earlier.. truly has shaken me to this core of this lame.0 version of myself and really has helped me shift my paradigm on myself. i just want to say thank you for all the work you do aaron and thank you for being vulnerable enough to share it with us.
much love from a fan that is taking this lesson to heart
That lame.o version of yourself got you to the exact moment where you could find this video, and be open to the information. Love that version of yourself, give him a high 5 and tell him you’re grateful for getting you to the place where you could level up. All versions of ourselves are worthy of love. I hope the last year has brought you much peace and many joyful moments. 🙏🏻
Thats exactly what I'm struggling. Sometimes I forget reminding myself about my value and I'm very inconfident. Thank you for the video
I relate to so much of this. Vulnerability is courage. I'm a recovering people pleaser and perfectionist. It's been a wild ride but so worth it.
You have grabbed my attention. I have humbly grinded for 20 years
Making over 200k. I needed to here the 5 V’s hit me so real
I got told in therapy as a teen that I had abandonment issues due to my parents divorcing when I was 5. My dad rarely visited and didn't support us financially, mum was stressed. This video is a big help.
I’m sorry your Dad abandoned you 💜 this video has helped me too.
@@marial3231 thank you, I'm glad it helped you too. Unfortunately he's passed away now he was an alcoholic, I don't have any bad feelings towards him he had his problems. It does really affect kids when one parent isn't around though. My husband had an absent dad too, its made us both determined to make sure our kids don't go through the same thing. We've been together 17 years, since I was 21. He's helped me a lot with my self confidence.
@@yorkshirelass8786 hi Vanessa I’m glad that in the end you have a happy story 😀 including marrying a man who can understand each other. 💜
Thank you so much Aaron! 🙏
LOVING LOVING the LONGER, MORE DETAILED videos....PLEASE CONTINUE to do more! 🥰🙏🥰
Thank You for Sharing the wisdom that flows thru you. I love your BEING & EXPRESSION. YOU ARE AMAZING. 🙏
Life is happening for me...not to me...really good 💜
I just found you randomly and didn't know how bad I really needed u lol I always put all my energy and time into other people and give nothing to myself and realize I hate my life... but its my fault... cause I would do this to myself. Everytime I would start to do something to start a career i would feel like I have to go 0 to 100 and give myself stress and panic and eventually sabotage it and then the excuses came l like " im not smart enough to pass. I have kids I cant. This really isn't gonna make me money. " and I been doing this in my marriage the whole time and its crumbling... I feel so fucked up mentally now that I know and exhauste myself and treat myself like shit and put so much pressure on my self that I'm never good enough. Even over dumb shit like buying a shirt I want ill think about it for days! Like should I? No I dont have enough money.. but I do... I deserve it but I don't. I need it but I dont... uhhh I just want a brain reset lol
You are wise. So much of what you said hit home. Paying that guy up front for work...yes it is "Your fault" and other things.
I work at a prestigious dental office and have serious anxiety and imposter syndrome even tho I KNOW I'm good enough. I fear Narcisistic people but Yes the sabatuer is me.
What up!
Keep making these videos please. I love breaking issues down and getting to the core. This method is the opposite of what I’ve been used to - suppressing emotions.
Thank you!! 🙏🏼
To all the dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If you surround yourself with love and right people, ANYTHING is possible.
Love from a small UA-camr🙏🖤
Boy Im barely learning half of my life i have been self sabotaging....Thankyou Aaron your subcriber since 2018
Pure Gold Aaron you bring us pure gold content. Thank you.
You've changed my life. You've helped me soo soo much. It's my sincere gratitude to you and god with whole heart of mine❤thank you soo soo soooo muchh❤❤❤
Love you 😍 thank you. I got a ton of value out of this. My life is changing drastically and I really need to keep an eagle eye out for self sabotage! Sending love!!
Guys this work is not for the weak. Thanks again!
Relatable so much I know my own self sabotage keeps me off of success so I can stay relatable. So true. Thank you, Aaron! You deserve the most. Thank you for your vulnerability, it speaks volumes and inspiring.
I love the mix of longer and shorter videos. I loved this longer video because I play it while I Paint. So it's nice to listen to a longer video while I Draw and Paint. 🙏🏽
So many similarities in our upbringing and the core wounds I possess
Another FANTASTIC video Aaron! Powerful. Well delivered.
You might’ve recorded this a year ago, but it was in my UA-cam feed RIGHT ON TIME.
Thank you.
I just recently started a new job as a campion for the elderly but I started to notice certain blocks come to the surface i see it stems from my worthiness of making more money I can see how my higher self was showing me the way because I was listening to a vid by Ralph smart on how to resolve issues in the subconscious mind then maybe like two others & Aaron show me the confirmation I need THANK YOU SPIRIT 🆓🆙👼🏼📯✝️👑
This video has changed my life forever. God bless you Aaron! for real for real!
Watching all of these videos is making me realize that I never had all of these issues and I was just researching most of these because people always labeled me with these issues. It was them projecting themself onto me. I do value myself but because I think differently than what society says about things and I'm willing to tell my perspective people love to go against me rather than being grown and understanding that everyone is different and that difference is on a spectrum. If you're an anomaly surrounded by average thinkers these average thinkers will do anything they can to make you feel bad about yourself like them.
This message is sooo important! I wish more people understood this 🙏🏼💙
Jo Dude
Bro
You were born to feed ppl
Please continue with your longer presentations.
Grateful
Great video thank you! Procrastination for me has been on of the biggest ways I self sabotage. Not anymore 💪🏽
Omg this is right on time for me. I abandoned myself and became very angry and intolerant of myself causing some health issues.
Thank you Aaron!!!!
12:13 Yo I love how he expresses himself and goes to a completely different topic and realize that he gotta get back to the point.
No way, been playing tennis for my whole life! Made me smile hearing you talk about it! Clicked on this video.. haven’t seen your videos in a while. Much love Aaron ❤️
Aaron, I don't know how I found your channel but your content is amazing and your delivery is the everything---very spiritually penetrating. Thank you!
He is starting to look like Jesus to me!! 💗🙌🙏
Lol
Excellent Timing 🧡👁️🌟👍
Aaron this is definitely one of the best videos I’ve ever seen and when you were talking about how now you have no problems you trade in your old problems for new problems that are in alignment to your higher self. I would love to see these new kind of videos !!
It is fun learning about what goes on behind the scene of our lives, plus it nourishes our mental and spiritual powers. I am grateful.
Wow Aaron, our stories are so simliar! I can totally resonate with all of this. As with others, this message came at the perfect time! Namaste..
I’m so glad to hear you say you want to be doing live events
You are so humorous. And generous and giving. Keep going Aaron, doing a great job.
It could be Gambling. This is one of rhe best video Ever. thank you for the message🧡❤💜💚💛🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you Aaron for all you do to help the collective 😊
I'm always reminded of the climax scene in Good Will Hunting when Robin Williams tells him it's not his fault.
Thank you, Aaron! Great content! haha I like that you're kinda intense and kinda funny at the same time.
I like the longer videos...don't have to switch them out as often when I am working
I like your short and your long videos ! Please continue both. They are definitely worth the time to watch, consider and sometimes re-watch to yield even more insights !
Thank you for being YOU!!
Thank you so much for all your content Aaron. I’ve decided to leave my job as an accountant and pursue a career as a self help author and spiritual life coach. I uploaded my first video that is the basis of my awakening, my coming out story. Through suffering I found enlightenment. Your teachings helped me through all of it. Thank you!
Hello from Greece Aron my friend you area speciall person may God bless you