Do Not Let Relapse Destroy Your Life
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- Опубліковано 8 сер 2016
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I nearly relapsed about two weeks ago now, I'm over 6 months clean, it was so hard to say no to it man, this is why I still watch Ryan's videos every single day without fail. He's still keeping people safe and saving many lives man, rest easy Ryan ❤
RIP RYAN, I PRAY THE WIFE AND FAMILY ARE OK. YOU ARE NOT HERE WITH US BUT THANK YOU FOR ALL THIS SUPPORT AND INFORMATION. FROM THE UK.
I think you should just keep reminding yourself all the hell you been through it's all in our minds be strong. Ryan really got to me ☺
relapsing is so defeating and depressing. Ive done it several times 😞 you feel like such a failure. I went years before relapsing. Im back on the road to recovery. And im clean. Listen to Ryan, dust yourself off and start again. Ryan, you truly helped me stay focused during the withdrawals and I watch your videos to remind myself..I can do this! I can beat the struggles of addiction. Blessings Ryan 💘
Did anybody else notice his camera tried to "cut" him off when he was talking about getting "cut" off. Lmao. That was great, but if you think about it, it fits perfectly to what he was saying, he didn't stop when he had a miss hap, he just kept going, just like in recovery!! So it's a sign guys and girls, let's keep this moving and keep heading down the right road!!! Glad you kept this video Ryan! It's perfect like recovery is, just stayed humble and kept going!!
When you said "down by the river" I immediately thought of Chris Farleys in a van down by the river skit. Made me smile. great video Ryan.
Lol
Me too! Lol.
A great topic and sadly relapsing is a part of addiction and that's why you always have to stay green in your recovery process for the rest of your life. To be completely honest this past month has been the hardest month of my life what I've gone through personally. This was a true test to my sobriety and you just have to continue to fight like hell. If a person does relapse seek out help immediately and don't go down the rabbit hole and just remember that you have to stay green to living a sober life. If anybody out there needs someone to talk to get ahold of Ryan and he will send you my contact information. Thank you Ryan for all your help Brother.
Hey Jason. Glad to see you're back and better! You have my deepest condolences. Much love n respect for going through all you did, and remaining sober! Very inspiring, thank u. Take care.
+Avy Taylor thank you so much for your kind words, it truly means a lot to me.
Jason, sadly I can not reach out to Ryan.😢 but I am facing some challenges that I'd really appreciate some advice on. Are you still available to talk?
Jason you were the 1st person on Ryan's channel that made me feel welcome and even though I found out about Ryan on 10/9/19 and I'm devastated....I can't stop crying, there is an emptiness inside of me that is just broken. Strange how we all felt like we knew him. However, I never forgot you kind words of encouragement ...You name I always remembered..Thank You! I hope you're doing okay, and I'm sorry you lost such a great friend...Much peace and kove....
I am proud of what you are doing. You have made it thru the withdrawal part of addiction. You must be tougher than most that is for sure. I have not be that tough and always give in because of I am utterly terrified of going thru those devil inspired demon withdrawals. I have failed every single time and give in to the urge. I would like to talk to you but I am at a loss for words. No one truly understands addictions like people that are addicted. My family sure does not. Just say no or just quit right. It is that easy. It is not a disease it is a weakness and you are weak. So says my family.
rob i totally understand. ive used oxy and H for years and have tried multiple times to quit but it's incredibly hard. and my family too just doesn't understand that i DON'T WANT to live this way,spending all my money,feeling sick and calling off from work when i can't get any smh i want my life back. im going to try inpatient treatment. ..but it's when i come home OUT of treatment that im worried about. good luck to ya
People with an all-or-nothing mindset, like myself, use relapse as an excuse to binge.
We must change our mindset to focus on the present moment and where we’re at.
I needed to hear this thanks Ryan 🙏🏼
Thank you Ryan for another great video ... You are the most genuine guy on here
Watching these all over again because I miss you and well, ya know... I need the reinforcement. Love you, Ryan.
Thanks bro!! And I love how you broke down the mental guilt aspect of relapse. So true! Thanks again!
I relapsed tonight after 3 months of progress, I will not relapse again and will retain said progress. Thank you for this
How to doing now?
I needed to hear this, thank you
great video and great message. Ive just started watching your videos and wow you really have got a great attitude and empathy the world needs more people like you :-D Relapse is something I often talk to people about, failing is a big part of recovery and people do let it get them down and I always say just keep going you will get there in the rnd and it is just part of the process. anyways thank you for your enthusiasm and dedication you a doing a great job many thanks from new zealand
What a great setting for a video-great topic which does need talking about frequently - for me I need to always see myself as 'in recovery' no matter how much time I have
Great video .... I needed to hear this one too. Currently know several people also trying to get clean and it's a struggle to know how to react to their relapses, how or if I can help them, while myself holding tight w 71 days. This helps me understand that it's all part of their journey.... Thank you for this.
Ps. I emailed you about a week ago.. will re-send to make sure it didn't get lost in cyberspace!
I'm glad I found your videos. I am dealing with this right now and your words r truly helping me really think about what I need to be doing in my life. I want to be sober again and stop chasing a stupid , expensive high. Thank u so much I will continue to watch ur videos and hopefully heal again.
Shannon, I just noticed this comment is three weeks old, so....how are you doing??
Thanks for another great video Ryan.
I needed this tonight. I've relapsed so many times. Thank you 😊
God bless you Ryan.
🌈 This gentleman has such a beautiful pretense about him and the way he talks real. People who have been through these sorts of things, “walked the walk and talking the talk” are the people who sincerely help others. Real talk. Sad he is no longer with us but clearly, his legacy lives on 🙏
god bless u Ryan u the man amen
Yeah- I detoxed from oxymorphone and heroin back in 2014- went 8-9 weeks sober... I felt AWESOME... So one day me and my unc are goin to the store, he wanted to swing by the dopemans house, I said to myself.."I can do ONE bag and ill be aight..." Boy was I wrong. Now 2 years later and with a iv dope habit I am on day 5 sober(no opiates, weed galore)... And my energy is starting to resurface little by little. I know if I relapse again- I will die. Gotta stay strong.
Great video Ryan... relapse scares the crap out of me...so far so good but I watched my husband relapse 3 times...I have wished a couple times for that energy just one more time..but I know how that would end..beautiful setting✌
this video is soo important full of good info. i didn't know about the tolerance thing(even though it's common sense) it just don't have that much knowledge about medicines, substances, drugs. So thanks for sharing that. now I know lol. When you fall, pick yourself right back up. Don't stay down & dig even further. You can't keep a good man down. :)))
If Ryan's wife sees this im so very sorry for your loss. My best friend passed away just before Ryan and it took me hearing about Ryan to actually accept it. Im sorry. RIP
This is what happened to me. I was sober for a long time and had a kidney stone removed. I was diligent with the opiates prescribed. But then thought I was fine to just take a blue here and there. Obviously I knew that wouldn't work but continued.
I am on day one of detox after 8 months of relapse. Definitely not feeling great, just pushing myself through this.
oh those blues are my weakness man. had one this,morning and like he said I didn't even get high,just felt guilty and stupid
Completely agree about the view on counting days clean. Everyone has the same amount of time--this day!
Also, when I shared my story I found it really helpful to get it off my chest-if highly recommend it if anyone is on the fence
Great points! Ahhhh the shame of relapse.
I am a mom of an adult male herion addict. Your videos are very well done and very appreciated.
This video was a perfect metaphor for the topic of "relapsing"........you started out with great intentions for a shoot down near the river.....only to be met with unexpected setbacks. ( ants, no tripod, etc. ) same holds true for those of us who tried to get clean only to be met with setbacks........
bro u r the best
Thanks man .
I love the background!!!😊♥️ I think that we all, need to have a plan.
Cindy Moore Hi Cindy. Hope you’re ok. There’s a guy called George asking for help 3 weeks ago at the bottom of this comment section & left his number. I’m in U.K. but have give some advice and updated him on situation with Ryan so he doesn’t feel ignored. I also told him to message you for support as you were so kind to me. Hope that’s ok. 🙏🏼♥️
Andrew Moreton, That’s fine, Andrew! I’ll see what I can do to help him. I’m doing good, and I hope you are, too! We Must carry on. Ryan wouldn’t want any of us, to fall back because of the loss of him. Take good care of you and Have a Beautiful Weekend, Andrew!😊♥️✌️
your awesome Ryan.
Been watching a Lot of your videos & they are a huge part of my recovery so 🙏🏼thank you! I’m on day 15 & theirs just a hella mind game at this point....I would rather the physical pain days1-7 again then go threw this stage I’m inn.....any advice?
The process of starting over
I seem to do good for 5 years then slip,then have start all over. I had 5 1/2 years clean and I was in wrong house where people were using and I had 1 slip. I was honest and told my family, back on track,but now I hurt the people I love the most my family and they're all mad at me.. well that's norm al,I'm mad at myself to but It's not healthy to stay stuck.. you need move forward. My son won't even talk to me. I don't know what yo do he feels betrayed by me again. This hurts so much. 💔
I would love to have someone to talk to. I just came out of detox which gave me 5 solid days clean and got me much healthier but of course its not over in 5 days. I slept last night but my stomach is still messed up but I can eat. I play music live alot and decided to make myself go out and play last night. had 2 beers. think thats the main reason for the stomach discomfort today. but I'm not as depressed or lethargic. id love to talk to some one to go into further detail. I was clean for four years before relapse. I know I can do this. id love to divulge into further detail of my situation privately with some one.
You can't have a 'one last hurrah' it won't work you get the feeling & it's there shit..... Don't do it guys!!!
Such good advice. 👍. We are only Hunan
Ryan I have an idea for a video. Talk about rituals -- how do you break rituals?! I have heard of people with needle fixations just shooting water just because it is a part of their ritual.
Hey ryan I'm having a hard time i am on day 5 of recovery from opioids oxy 10s Norco10s for 7 mothns using i had a nasty 24 a day I just wanted to let you know your videos are very encouraging brother i just really really really want to stay clean dude anything other advice you can give me a very appreciated i wanna thank you for posting your videos my name is Lawrence James no shame i am the blame once i realize that I can cope and move on and not have pity for myself and won't want to relapse but just these 5 days are extremely difficult if you have time to respond to me that would be great if not i understand to thank you God bless👍🙏
I was driving down the road the downpouring rain from work the other day when a white bunny rabbit was right in the middle of the road with big ears looking straight at me I had a decision I went around it did not destroy life you might as well been a sign on the on the road
clean 45 days, used 2 days, clean 2 weeks used 2 days, clean 3 weeks used 4 days. i just kept having to reevaluate things. luckily it didnt send me back into acute Withdrawal but god it has made the PAWS extended though. Just gotta keep going.
Thank you for that! Just got clean from a 10 year cycle of methadone and heroin, less than 2 months. I thought I could put it down for good. Yesterday I relapsed for 2 days. I want to stay clean now... have wanted this for a year at least. Relieving to know you go through it too. I have a strong PAWS this time around and am concerned how much I've added to it.
thanks
Flip-flops ~ the 2nd worse thing next to opiate withdrawal 😄. RIP Ryan...you DID and STILL are making a difference.
Yeah three step two steps up three steps back with covering relax your beat
Don't be afraid to fall he said
Crown and I would like to do more of that where I go out and get pretty backgrounds and new videos and stuff but back to the topic I'm talking on this subject I think this has a lot of
hey! I've just recently come across your videos. I am starting on this journey of recovery.....I would love to get plugged in with some people for support during this difficult first week.
I need this. I'm spiritually bankrupt. If ever I was ready for God and recovery.....its now.
I appreciate ANY help at all!!!!
Miss Dorris....well you are in the right place! And couldn't have picked a better person than, Ryan to ask for help! Good Luck to u!
I'm just recovering from another relapse I'm from Scotland but this is a worldwide messege folks your not the only one and though its dark maybe you have to pass thru hell to find heaven
Hey Ryan I know this is an old video but I'm frying to quit a 19 year opiate addiction I have managed to cut way down to like 2 percs a day for the last 3 days just enough to help me function cuz my mom is having surgery today and I'm the only one to take care of her.I'm really down on myself cuz I feel I'm not accomplishing anything. Anyway any advice would be greatly appreciated..
I’m so jealous of I right now. I can’t even count how many days withdraw I’m going through. When does it end. If feel like I want to die.
Do not destroy life
I just had a relapse ... and the f needle too:( but it only last 2 days . I cant take this shit anymore, my stomach is hurting . And i dont want to eat , because of the shit i took ..... thanx for the video. I cant do it anymore . And yeah why the f do i do good some time and then i do that shit again . I never learn!!
I love your Videos I am on Day 14 off Roxi & Subs. I am having a hard time sleeping though. Working Out everyday. Everyday I want something, but I keep my phone off, so nobody can text me that they have anything. My biggest problem is the sleep thing. I might get 2 hours a night. Did you have this problem.
Mike Owens magnesuim we are all deficient .. it helps restless legs and depression, helps with sleep and relaxing...
Dude part of the whole cycle of addiction is " learning to come bk from a re lapse .. U do it once . U can do it again .
8:30 Story of my life the last 6 months
Ryan, I'm so scared and I don't know who to ask for help and it's like I'm inside a nightmare and I don't know who to get answers from?
George Giordano Hi George. Hope you’re doing better. There will be services in your area such as NA, CA or AA where you can go for support and stay anonymous. They can share their experiences, you can offload and find a way out of this nightmare. They will also know of treatment options in your area. Can you confide in your GP or a close friend? Trust me it does get better, recovery is possible for all of us and I know you will make it too. It’s early days for me but feel free to ask me anything. Andy
i wouldnt be able to do this if it wasnt for you brother......day 7 almost 8
Maybe that's why I'm seeing a rabbit but I don't know where I went wrong
The mindset of having “x” amount of days clean is what messes people up when they relapse. They’re tracking progress by perfection, which is stupid.
ryan i know this video is old but im going to be sending you an email of my story.
Today is a very dark day :(
hey Ryan I am in that situation right now getting over the pitty party. it would be great if I could talk to you please thank u
Hey Rachael, Ryan's email is in the description.....
Well not to sound redundant, but just like all the other comments, this was a great one, Ryan! So true. So true. I had OD'd a few years back after I had about 90+ days. Was found in a public restroom, and EMS revived me w/ the Narcan, of course. I did 3 bags; which was like a third of what I did in active addiction. But after 3 months- 3 bags took me out! And by the grace of God, I'm still here! So just goes to show you how true all that is! Thanks for the attempt at the beautiful view!
Hey I relapse I need help
This video is like relapse... seemed like a good idea until the camera falls off and the bugs start biting you... then you just gotta pick your shit up and get back in the car haha
I'm not a druggie I pay my bills. Just hide behind booze
I wish there was a way to contact you ..
Ouji board?
I wish there was too :'( I could use Ryan's help. R.I.P. Ryan
@@justinTime077 thats a pretty horrible joke, lol
@@borderlinebipolarbear aha in all seriousness I was very hurt when I heard about him dying.
Well fix the problem before it gets worse
help
8:30 I really feel that I relapsed after 30 days clean 🧼 & I took 1 oxy 10 & didn’t feel it so I immediately told myself ima atleast make the relapse worth it 🤦🏾♂️ I slammed 5 of them & went right back too taking 5 at a time !!! I’m currently on day 2 no opiates it is so bad but I am fighting it cold turkey and taking care of my 2yr old son