1. Women are human lie detectors 2. Ignore stupid Qs - don't reward with your attention 3. Never argue logically - women are not logical unless it is convenient 4. Don't stonewall or say NO - instead pivot with a conditional YES which need her to get into your frame (don't entertain unfair requests) 5. Do not get emotional Thanks Damien for highlighting a non-confrontational approach -easily one of the best advice on handling shit tests. Be in a mindset of having fun in the moment....Game On! Make no apologies for your manly desires - being single is much better than wishing you were ! 😀 If possible please do a video of NOT being subversive. Thanks Damien!
if a woman said to me "we are lesbians" I would think "what a strange person!" if she said "are you a player?" i would think she has no manners. if she said "buy me/my friend a drink", I would think she has no manners. if she said "please pick me up on our date" I would have no problem doing so. However a first date should be a chat over coffee or a walk in the park, not an expensive dinner.
Women always are like this because they want to test your confidence. That’s just how they’re hard wired in this emasculated western society. Why doesn’t she had manners when she says “are you a player”. What’s wrong with asking that?
In a guided assertive communication framework there are many options on how to answer a question. In its most strategic form it is use to communicate with men in a corporate setting. Things like answering part of the question or reframing the question, to not answering the question. When you apply the framework to social interaction with women you find that many questions designed to test a man are not questions that are specifically looking for an answer. The question is to provoke an emotional response from the man, women are not looking for answers to tests. I know this sounds disrespectful but most women will not be offended by not getting a proper answer. I often ask myself, what would they do with an honest answer even if they got one? most of the time the answer is not fruitful to any line of reasoning. You also have the option of answering a question with a question. Like: Are you always so emotional? Could you please be more respectful? and the killer question: Why do you want to know? If you don't know what to say use the first response as a fallback: Are you always so emotional? This will buy you some time. You can redirect the conversation by not answering the question. Make a statement which moves the conversation in a direction you want. I cannot recall any woman in this mating banter say, but you did not answer my question. I have come to the conclusion that the conversation in its entirety for a combative woman is a test. You must take control of the conversation and have it focus on positive topics. Like learning about each other. Every time she tries to derail you, put the conversation back on course. You want to make a determination if the tests are because she finds you very attractive, or she is just being belligerent. I have found if a woman is really attracted to a man, a test will come very quickly. Maybe two. But then she will tone down a bit.
Idk. I don’t really like my question being ignored. I notice it, I let it go, but trust is broken right there. I wouldn’t ask if he was a player but if I did, and he said something like, “I’ve had my moments.” That’s honesty and some trust would be gained.
That sounds like very immature logic to me - It's a very childish mindset that I promise you most women over 21 wouldn't think. If a woman has that thought proces you should walk away immediately because it won't be the only act of extreme insecurity she'll exhibit.
First off. Women do not default to logic. That's not an attack. They just do not think the same way as we do. The problem is we try to project our line of thinking on each other even tho we know it is destructive. Women think they want us to be emotional and men think that want Women should think more logical. That's a fuck up up. She does these shit tests to see if your going to flake under the first sign of trouble. But they do it subconsciously and by emotion. I don't believe they even know why they do it. By the way I used to think like this and from time to time I catch my self doing it this day. It only breeds resentment and bitterness.
This video is the old paradigm, if a woman gives a man a shit test, walk away. When enough men start doing this women will actually start being civil rather than behaving like they have the holy grail between their legs. MGTOW have a lot more self respect than this kind of "please like me" routine. By the way, "NO" is a very healthy word, politically correct doublespeak is just a weak-chinned maze. The last time a woman asked me if I was a player, I replied "That's quite rude, how would you feel if I asked you that question?" She apologised. It's time we started treating women like equals rather than "answering questions that they haven't asked like politicians". Since when were politicians our role models?? Most are scumbags. Respect to the lecturer, he has his "method" but I disagree with his approach. "Shit" is not meant to be negotiated or "tested", it meant to be flushed down the pan.
Arun wow what a virgin. MGTOW and feminist are the same they want to change biology and nature. Women are hard wired to look for alpha men and they test men without even realizing(women don’t know that they’re testing dumbass) women will always be like this. Feminism is a gigantic shit test, but MGTOW isn’t a shit test it’s just incels hating women.
CHESCOchannel gotta disagree, I’ve met foreign women from different countries and the women from my country and I can say that I never dealt with any shit tests, I’ve dealt with shit tests from western women and the question I have is why put up with that bullshit. The west made relationships and dating so complicated. The east made it simple and straight to the point, that’s why marriages in eastern countries workout better than they do in the west.
1. Women are human lie detectors
2. Ignore stupid Qs - don't reward with your attention
3. Never argue logically - women are not logical unless it is convenient
4. Don't stonewall or say NO - instead pivot with a conditional YES which need her to get into your frame (don't entertain unfair requests)
5. Do not get emotional
Thanks Damien for highlighting a non-confrontational approach -easily one of the best advice on handling shit tests. Be in a mindset of having fun in the moment....Game On! Make no apologies for your manly desires - being single is much better than wishing you were ! 😀
If possible please do a video of NOT being subversive. Thanks Damien!
are you a player... yes, I play bowling, volleyball, and pool
lmao! that "we are lesbians" line was tried on my by two chicks the other day. I just didn't react with any emotion and said "nice try"
if a woman said to me "we are lesbians" I would think "what a strange person!"
if she said "are you a player?" i would think she has no manners.
if she said "buy me/my friend a drink", I would think she has no manners.
if she said "please pick me up on our date" I would have no problem doing so. However a first date should be a chat over coffee or a walk in the park, not an expensive dinner.
Women always are like this because they want to test your confidence. That’s just how they’re hard wired in this emasculated western society.
Why doesn’t she had manners when she says “are you a player”. What’s wrong with asking that?
"Are you a player?" "If you mean do I live a life of honesty and enjoy growing as a person, then call me 007/damn right."
I would like some chicken please.
Keep it up man!!!
In a guided assertive communication framework there are many options on how to answer a question. In its most strategic form it is use to communicate with men in a corporate setting. Things like answering part of the question or reframing the question, to not answering the question.
When you apply the framework to social interaction with women you find that many questions designed to test a man are not questions that are specifically looking for an answer. The question is to provoke an emotional response from the man, women are not looking for answers to tests. I know this sounds disrespectful but most women will not be offended by not getting a proper answer. I often ask myself, what would they do with an honest answer even if they got one? most of the time the answer is not fruitful to any line of reasoning.
You also have the option of answering a question with a question.
Like: Are you always so emotional? Could you please be more respectful? and the killer question: Why do you want to know?
If you don't know what to say use the first response as a fallback: Are you always so emotional? This will buy you some time.
You can redirect the conversation by not answering the question. Make a statement which moves the conversation in a direction you want. I cannot recall any woman in this mating banter say, but you did not answer my question.
I have come to the conclusion that the conversation in its entirety for a combative woman is a test. You must take control of the conversation and have it focus on positive topics. Like learning about each other. Every time she tries to derail you, put the conversation back on course. You want to make a determination if the tests are because she finds you very attractive, or she is just being belligerent.
I have found if a woman is really attracted to a man, a test will come very quickly. Maybe two. But then she will tone down a bit.
Idk. I don’t really like my question being ignored. I notice it, I let it go, but trust is broken right there. I wouldn’t ask if he was a player but if I did, and he said something like, “I’ve had my moments.” That’s honesty and some trust would be gained.
It's simple,tell her what she wanted to hear and it works everytime!! Sometimes you better say yes sometimes you better say no!!
good shit!!
Guy with the medium brown hair had one hell of a thick set of hair
Obviously a dude who doesn’t have much sugar in his diet. Good on him!
just not worth the stress. women logic "will he love me if i cheat on him?"
That sounds like very immature logic to me - It's a very childish mindset that I promise you most women over 21 wouldn't think. If a woman has that thought proces you should walk away immediately because it won't be the only act of extreme insecurity she'll exhibit.
First off. Women do not default to logic. That's not an attack. They just do not think the same way as we do. The problem is we try to project our line of thinking on each other even tho we know it is destructive. Women think they want us to be emotional and men think that want Women should think more logical. That's a fuck up up. She does these shit tests to see if your going to flake under the first sign of trouble. But they do it subconsciously and by emotion. I don't believe they even know why they do it. By the way I used to think like this and from time to time I catch my self doing it this day. It only breeds resentment and bitterness.
When a woman ask me am I player I've then respond to her by asking are you a lesbian. It gets them everytime.
her "you are X" Me "thanks, what else do you like about me?"
you are fat... yes, I am getting ready to be santa at xmas
That intro! ;)
This video is the old paradigm, if a woman gives a man a shit test, walk away. When enough men start doing this women will actually start being civil rather than behaving like they have the holy grail between their legs. MGTOW have a lot more self respect than this kind of "please like me" routine. By the way, "NO" is a very healthy word, politically correct doublespeak is just a weak-chinned maze. The last time a woman asked me if I was a player, I replied "That's quite rude, how would you feel if I asked you that question?" She apologised. It's time we started treating women like equals rather than "answering questions that they haven't asked like politicians". Since when were politicians our role models?? Most are scumbags. Respect to the lecturer, he has his "method" but I disagree with his approach. "Shit" is not meant to be negotiated or "tested", it meant to be flushed down the pan.
Amen to that Andrew!
Arun wow what a virgin.
MGTOW and feminist are the same they want to change biology and nature. Women are hard wired to look for alpha men and they test men without even realizing(women don’t know that they’re testing dumbass) women will always be like this. Feminism is a gigantic shit test, but MGTOW isn’t a shit test it’s just incels hating women.
CHESCOchannel gotta disagree, I’ve met foreign women from different countries and the women from my country and I can say that I never dealt with any shit tests, I’ve dealt with shit tests from western women and the question I have is why put up with that bullshit. The west made relationships and dating so complicated. The east made it simple and straight to the point, that’s why marriages in eastern countries workout better than they do in the west.
I’ve never asked someone to buy me a drink. Lol. Yes. Unfair request. Rude to ask.
some of it i agree with
if she annoys me with shittesting she actually is the one losing cause ill disengage.
Is this your effing life chasing women
It's my company that teaches men the social skills required to attract women.
@@SchoolOfAttraction needed skill
in 2020 I guess
Wow, so much and such a waste of effort.......just go do fun stuff and let the women come to you. Pick and choose then
how silly
whats on that fucking white screen ?