@@NewEyes25 In Norway we had the same teacher from the 1st to the 4th grade, then the same from 4th to 7th and then 8th to 10th was the same, so in total I had 3 teachers in elementary school, which is 10 years in Norway.
But who knows? She could actually find love??? You never know where and how you can and will find love. 💯💯💯It's worth the risk. You've got to take the chance.
Also, just because he's good with kids, doesn't mean he wants to get with a single mother and someone else's kids. Let the man live a successful, fulfilling life and enjoy his wealth. A lot of us just want to be left alone, we love being single to do as we please, talk to who we want, and go where we want without someone getting in the way of that. MGTOW!
That’s right cause a relationship always ends in marriage....NOT. Don’t be naive. Men are always in a relationship...even if the woman is the only one that sees it that way.
I was married but on paper only, you see as l found out he was in heavy porn and he started cheating with called girls prostitution and then he got to close and started cheating with a woman in the church, he was kicked out of the church said he was done he was going to change but it didn’t he continued and continued his unfaithfulness I kept hoping finding out he was never ever committed to me! 34 years and I emotionally snapped I don’t think I’ll ever remarry again I have not even had a date I did everything I could to be the best wife the best mother to look the best I would run exercise keep my figure in good shape but it didn’t matter! Yeah better get to know that man I guess I have to just Have God is the only void in my life I get very lonely no dates no nothing I’ve never been asked and I guess that’s OK
I say just try to go by what you feel is right for you. Forget about the rules, just let it flow, but it never hurts to learn about how the male mind works how they are triggered and understand their language, yet I don't believe holding yourself short cause of some silly rules that if anything should apply more for young women, not for women over +35, is not the way to go. That would be depriving yourself cause of some ridiculous rules...setup mostly by men. Now, if you're not ready or don't feel comfortable...that's a whole different story. Be confident, strong, and take responsibility for your sexuality...Be empowered. If a man belittles you for whatever reason due to what society has implanted into his system (he let it happened), then he is not worth your time. He hasn't educated himself to understand women of the 21st century nor to respect women for their worth as a person and NOT value her by her sexual experiences. Especially if you have acted responsibly in that field, within reason.
He's using the term seeing someone rather than in a relationship. Seeing someone does not mean relationship. I think that's the angle, not him telling her she should try to take him out of a relationship
idomagirl abahi Seeing someone doesn't necessarily equal a relationship. The man could just be dating. Dating does not necessarily equal a relationship either. So it will be up to the man to tell her whether or not he's just dating or in a "committed" relationship. Then if he is in fact in a "committed" relationship the young lady should move on.
I really don't agree with this one. You shouldn't assume that they are indeed INVOLVED and still continue to tempt and break up the relationship you assume they have. Present yourself to the "hunter" if you assume that he's single but NOT if you assume that he's taken because that means you have a homewrecking mentality and is clearly disrespectful towards their relationship or really down playing it when that might not be the case for them. A respectable wholesome woman does not tempt a taken man especially knowing how possessive and jealous we can and tend to be.
The problem of sinlge moms is looking for a father for their kids instead of a partner. That's why they run away. If he's good to you, he'll be good to your kids.
@@GypsyRock à Man is the leader of the house hold, the problem is that is going to get in a family that is already established and he has to lead it, but if the mom doesn't give him the right thé kids will not and he's most likely going to live in a home that is not his in some sens, for exemple let say thé kid is doing something bad he can't decipline him because the mom would be like "don't tuch my kid" not all the Time but most of time that what happend so it takes to much work without really a hight chance of sucess so Man préfer someone that doesn't have a backgroud already and get a fresh start with them
@@xsbbx5191 ask any long time married man if he or his wife is the leader of the household. He will say his wife, because it's true. Many men know this, you currently don't. Those who do and are serious and ready about kids in a grown up way, do not mind if the lady already has a child. She should absolutely look for someone like that.
This is the first time I REALLY did not like the answer. Just because he is not married does NOT mean he is fair game. She doesn't know if he is so he is fair game now... but if he is in a relationship he should be left alone.
@@lang-ed3bk if someone not married but he talking to someone then you don’t chase him or provoke him but if he chase you then technically you not doing anything wrong
my.sister got divorced the beginning of this year. started dating her twin boys basketball coach. then three months last is dating the second grade teacher. then a few months later she's bopped her way to a 4th grade teacher. Date a teacher. but don't sleep with half the school!
I have five sisters and I would never ever bad mouth them even if we had a rocky relationship. You are wrong to insult your sister like this. We only have your side of the story. Clearly something is broken within you to be this hateful towards your sister. I am shocked what kind sibling are you
It would be very unprofessional for a teacher to date their pupils parents. In certain circumstances where you know the person socially it's different but if they see the school gate as a dating pool it would become a very awkward place very quickly.
And if it is for marriage or something serious? It's because today everyone goes to the bedroom before marriage that relationships became not serious and dating became shameful in some curcumstances. Personally I think that one can date everyone if it is for some serious staff (or to get information at least, to see if the person convenes you).
I thought the same thing. And depending how willing they are to date a parent begs the question of how many other parents have they “dated”. Furthermore how does that play out for your daughter in the long run. Follow your instincts , like you said you don’t want to seem crazy and desperate
My mom dated my history teacher when I was in 9th grade. Then when I went to college HE pursued me! YUCK! He wanted to take me to various countries. I was maybe 19 and politely and firmly told him that was not ever going to be possibilty.
I'm going to present to you another option... I'm going to let you see what you can get and I'm going to make you imagine what you can have... THE HUNTER IN MEN IS TRIGGERED BY THAT... WOW!!! That was deep.
This was the same situation with my current husband... I was 43 divorced-he was 47 divorced but with a girlfriend. A friend thought we would be good together-am values, the same interests. She set us up at line dancing ( shared interest.) . For three months we circled each other..no one making the move. It turns out he had been seeing someone for 4 years...that he never intended to marry as they had never once talked about anything serious! (Hard for me to imagine!) He said it was just convenient for him....It took him three months to let her down slowly and then we began to see one another. We got serious very quickly and were married a year and a half later.
@@moneysfan I believe that if a man has not determined in his heart that you are worth the chase, you will do all you want and he will never see you as a catch. There's something in us men that is triggered when we find a lady that is not just there to occupy space and time but one who can beat companion
jay_rael well said. Id also say that men in their 40s who aren't in a serious relationship are very discerning. Been there done that. It better be awesome lol. (There's also plenty of married men who don't wear a wedding ring)
I would make sure the man is actually single before I do any stupid move. I won’t ever go after a man in a relationship let alone married, I don’t care how good or bad his relationship is, he’s still in it. I am totally convinced doing so is very low.
I love you Steve, but I disagee with you on this one. If she noticed him, I'm sure he has already noticed her also. Imagine how many students mothers and female faculty associates, etc. are also attracted to and interested in Mr. fine! If he's available and interested in her, he will definately find a way to let her know.
the assumption is: She's a mother of one of his students. Good chance she is married. Just as there are some men who are married and do not wear a ring, there are some women who are married and do not wear a ring. (though the married woman without a ring is less common, because women love their rings and other shiny crap.)
@@fhuber7507 That gave me a chuckle. Don't know if you've been paying attention for the last 50 years, but if a black woman has a child it's an almost certain chance that she's a single mother who has never been married.
1. Would you like it if someone(homewrecker) breaks up your relationship? 2. If the guy has a good thing going on with his girlfriend, why would you advise anyone to destroy that and take away the man she loves. 3. In another episode, you told an female audience the ways to fend off other women hitting on her boyfriend. So, which is it?
Seeing someone DOES NOT mean he is in a relationship. If he is in the dating stage, it DOES NOT mean he is in a commited relationship. It just means that he is dating in order to get to know the person and see if it could get to a good relationship. Guys, some of you are soooo exagerated
I say if he is interested He will let her know. Even if he is 40 I believe he knows who he wants by now. Don't ever show a man that you are chasing him, but let him pursue you, ladies. Otherwise, men will not respect a lady who runs him down. He looks at her as being too easy. Respect ourselves and men will respect us.
@Rosetta Jones I agree 100% with everything you said. Women have to stop being desperate and thirsty and let the guys pursue us. If you’ve already been around a guy and he’s seen you then he’s had opportunity to pursue you and if he didn’t it’s likely because he’s just not interested in you
The 90 day Steve has going is unpredictable, a player would watch this and know how to act upon it. Love is not in a book ,someone's story, study, but within one's experience.. Everyone has a different story, never know how yours will begin or end..
Steve's logic is terribly flawed and poor women fall for it. Smh. You can be eligible and single. Some people are not afraid of being single and will remain so until they find someone they connect with.
J Q At 40 though? I think his advice was spot on. Don't go into the situation naively thinking that he's single, keep it classy, and show him what he could be missing out on in case he actually is single. If he likes her enough, he'll take the bait.
Ms. Perfectly Imperfect I agree 100%. Even my married 30-something year old brother in-law told me a few years ago that if a dude I'm looking at is in his 30's and is STILL single and never married, then there might be something up. He didn't say WHAT.... He just said that there MIGHT be something up. Could be he's struggling w/his sexuality, maybe he has a personality flaw, he might be nervous around women, his libido might be low, maybe he has mommy issues, etc..... I didn't take it to mean ALL men in their 30's and up are "defective lifestock"... Just that the likelihood of a man in his 30's who's NEVER been married and is perpetually single might be a sign I should seriously look at. Most men are either seeing someone, in the process of getting a date, or have just gotten out of a relationship and will eventually be moving on to the next. It's very naive for me to think that a man who has all this "great" stuff going for him is still single . And if he is...the next question would be: WHY is he?
@@DestinyC1020 that logic Can get you into trouble. We aren't living in our parents generation anymore, so being single in 30s doesn't hold the weight it might have 20+ years ago. Many people just busy fulfilling their own path and not concerned with dating and such. Keep the mind open and someone good will notice.
@@DestinyC1020 I remember a time when BEING DIVORCED, especially more than once meant people judged you. I think it means you don't make lots of BAD choices.
I don't understand, why would there be an assumption that all 40+ men who are good looking are taken? I am sure there are tons of eligible bachelors at all ages. The lady should casually strike up a conversation with him about a mutual topic, and hopefully he will himself reveal more information about himself. No ring is a good sign. I would even go as far as saying "Would you like to grab a coffee with me?". Absolutely nothing wrong with making the first move, it doesn't even have to mean anything, just friendly conversation over coffee :-)
Steve is usually on point, but missed it this time. She doesn't want to appear crazy or desperate. 1. Going after a man in a relationship is desperate. 2. Going after your child's teacher is also desperate. 3. She's an attractive woman. Be the prey and get hunted. Reversal of roles can also appear desperate. 4. Lastly, "game on", indicates playing. Playing games can get you PLAYED.
That is the thing we us women. We need to date and date often. Don’t set your eyes on one man. Go out meet people. Show how lovely you are. You don’t always need to date a guy you like in the physical area. You can go out and share. Just save your best for the one you really like.
All the women in the world could look at that man but Steve fails to realize that there's only one soulmate and that could have been her. If you walk around saying that every man you're interested in must be married or has a girlfriend you will never give yourself a chance to meet the one that might be for you.
I honestly believe that if you are assuming some man that you are interested in is in a relationship with someone else... then you should back off. If something is going to happen, leave it to fate. It is not fair on the other person who is with that guy if you as a woman are trying to pursue something with her partner or boyfriend. I think ladies we need to respect other ladies and do nothing that we wouldn't want to happen to us. Be fair. The right guy will come.
As a teacher myself….I would NEVER date a parent of one of my students. Maybe once they are out of my classroom. But not while they are still my student.
To a woman, if you're under 6 feet you're automatically no good, so that eliminates about 86% of the male population right there. Then women wonder why they can't find a man, smh...
What "good men?" You mean fat, bald, old, losers who walk past you kid or your dog in your own house? Not like she didn't mention them. Not like they're going anyplace. They have nothing to offer and aren't remotely interesting. Stop saying he's eligible just from being male. Please. Those?
At 40, he’s probably been through countless women and maybe had an “official” marriage or 2. He is probably playing around with a few women for various needs. None of which he intends to marry. She can add her audition. But he’s likely seen everything she offers before. At least 8 times. The “cookie” is not that prized unless you are a virgin. No man has cookies that already made other cookies on a pedestal anywhere. You won’t be married by Christmas unless HE wants to get married. Women can accept or deny sex. Men control marriage, regardless of whether you accept or deny to sleep with him or not. More important will be what the guy is looking for, his own maturity level and thought about marriage, and what she offers that he honestly needs. For instance. Men need to be needed, have a strong position to fulfill in your life, space, and femininity to compliment him (if he is even truly masculine) Just because she is pretty and wants a man doesn’t mean she deserves, understands, or can compliment what a man needs. Plenty of pretty women with children hanging around because they found men who can have sex but don’t have self knowledge, leadership, accountability, and wise values. Also, they realize that many pretty women are hard, controlling, emasculating, boring, unharmonious, emotionally unintelligent, and not comforting past 6 months of initial courting/dating. Women also foolishly think men look for what they look for in relationships. And any player can wait 3 months. Just keep you on some breadcrumbs and have side pieces. No challenge to his game 🙄🙄 Women sold out when they said men can get pseudo marriage for free. Well, see how all that free sex and shacking up turned out for you? Now you are expected to indefinitely audition for any and every man. Full service. And MAYBE he will CONSIDER you… Foolish women…
I was drinking a bottle of water one day in class. A student said ¨My dad drinks that water too!" I said, ¨Ḧe is an intelligent man." The young child quickly said, ¨He's single too!¨ I kept working and said, ¨Get back to work, dear.¨ LOL The above scenario gave me flashbacks.
hmmm. I don't know if I would agree on this..why would you present yourself who is dating someone. you have no respect for yourself and if you could pull him, he obviously has no respect for the lady he's dating! ijs he'll do the same to you. cycle of dog eat dog
It's not about self respect. You're giving him another option, a possibly better one. And I've done that. I confessed to him about my feelings, he respected them and it's been a couple of days to that. I don't know what happens but this is all I could do. Enough closure to move on. Letting the bygones be the bygones.
@@meenakshikhatri8549 Sooo ... he dumps his current girlfriend for "possibly better option". What prevents him to do the same to you after some time? Lack of other "possibly better options" out there? His great character, integrity, and respect for a woman he is with? On the other hand, you are showing no respect neither for yourself nor for the relationships so why would he?
@@sirfoggy7682 Well, I'm not doing anything. I just presented him with another option is all. And of course, he sure can do that to me too in the future and that's life. Survival of the fittest.
You don’t know if he is a boyfriend to that potential women he might be seeing. Seeing someone DOES NOT mean he is in a relationship. They could be just dating in order to trying to figure out if they would be compatible. Dating stage does not mean neither relationship nor sex. You, guys, some of you, are very exagerated
And who the hell told Steve, that just because a MAN doesn't wear a ring means he isn't married, or is married?!. I wear a ring and I am not married. My father is married and he doesn't wear one nor does he likes to wear rings. Who said you have to wear one?!.. Sometimes he comes up with this some ridiculous ideas.
Jay Enrique You're right. But I think Steve is just talking about the norm. Most married people will wear a wedding ring if they are married. Most...but not all. And you are also correct with the fact that some men wear a ring on their ring finger and aren't married. My dad was one of those and I know of a rare few.
Just an FYI Steve wasn’t saying steal him away from a steady girlfriend or relationship. He talks a lot about Multi-dating -ie- talking to multiple people and going out none exclusively. Once committed it’s different. He says that when you start talking to some one or go on date or two that they are most likely talking with multiple people to find someone to date exclusively!!
I have spotted one too so... 1. What color dress is best for to attract the hunter's eye? Red or black? 2. What shape? Bit lose or thigh? 3. How long, on knee or under knee length? 4. Thighs color, light or dark, with or without pattern?
when will women wake up and realize that just walking up and getting straight to the point and telling a man that he's handsome, and you want to invite him over for dinner and a movie, is the easiest way to go. women waste so much time
Now she's gonna try and tempt this man and wreck a relationship but it's ok because Steve said "we'll be married by next Christmas." This is the advice people use to tempt others to cheat on their spouse. Just go find someone else.
Good cooking No nagging No unreasonable demands Be happy. And promise plenty of good sex after marriage. Men love a woman who is happy. And many married men do not wear a ring. Every time I wore a ring it caught on something and had to be cut off to save my finger. I had a friend catch his ring on something just as he slipped and fell down a "ladder" on the aircraft carrier and it took his finger OFF. I had another who had his ring touch an electrical contact and it damn near killed him. For some of us, wearing a ring is just dangerous.
Men: make big money Buy us lots of stuff Clean up after yourself Open all doors for us and pull out our chair Have our bath water drawn and a glass of wine by the tub ready for us every night after work-- Do you see how it sounds? Quit with the list of demands and be an equal partner.
So Steve wants to create a man snatcher? A guy will cheat if he wants to cheat, but Steve is implying that it’s ok if a man is in a relationship - for that woman who wants that man, to gear up and still go after him. No, they may not be married, but don’t be trying to be another man snatcher when there are plenty of single men out there.
Steve was so caught up in his own pseudo philosophical talk that he didn't answer the woman's question. He saw an opportunity to sell a few more books and he dove right in forgetting why she was there. She needed a practical answer, not this ramblings from some book. You could see at the end that she didn't get anything. OMG!
Knight Oyin ...pseudo philosophical? How does that work then? Do you u derstand what the word pseudo means? Do you understand what philosophy is? These are all rhetorical questions by the way, it's quite clear you have no idea about any of this. As for Steve answer, he answered it perfectly in line with his thoughts. Don't blame him if you don't understand the answer.
am i the only one, thinking that dating the teacher of your daughter is a really bad idea?
this can only cause problems.
The daughter is only going to be in that grade for one year.
@@NewEyes25 In Norway we had the same teacher from the 1st to the 4th grade, then the same from 4th to 7th and then 8th to 10th was the same, so in total I had 3 teachers in elementary school, which is 10 years in Norway.
I thought Steve would tell her that like mom you can’t go else where
But who knows? She could actually find love??? You never know where and how you can and will find love. 💯💯💯It's worth the risk. You've got to take the chance.
@@OriginalPuro She's in the U.S.A though so she's good. In this country, we have the same teacher for one year.
just because he is good with kids for his job doesn't mean he would be good with your kid on a personal level
She's obviously very thirsty lol lookin at her kids teacher.
Also, just because he's good with kids, doesn't mean he wants to get with a single mother and someone else's kids. Let the man live a successful, fulfilling life and enjoy his wealth. A lot of us just want to be left alone, we love being single to do as we please, talk to who we want, and go where we want without someone getting in the way of that. MGTOW!
ltsallwood true
And to add on that. He's getting paid to do all that..
She sounds desperate.
Doesnt mean he would be bad with her kid either, She only said he was good with kids, not that he will be good with her kid.
If a man is in a relationship, you don’t want him! “How you get him is how you lose him”!
That’s right cause a relationship always ends in marriage....NOT. Don’t be naive. Men are always in a relationship...even if the woman is the only one that sees it that way.
Not necessarily you might be what he’s looking for
I was married but on paper only, you see as l found out he was in heavy porn and he started cheating with called girls prostitution and then he got to close and started cheating with a woman in the church, he was kicked out of the church said he was done he was going to change but it didn’t he continued and continued his unfaithfulness I kept hoping finding out he was never ever committed to me! 34 years and I emotionally snapped I don’t think I’ll ever remarry again I have not even had a date I did everything I could to be the best wife the best mother to look the best I would run exercise keep my figure in good shape but it didn’t matter! Yeah better get to know that man I guess I have to just Have God is the only void in my life I get very lonely no dates no nothing I’ve never been asked and I guess that’s OK
That's right!
he just answered the lady's plea and how can she get it. but you're right.
Just because he's not wearing a ring DOES NOT mean he's not married!
#princewilliamdoesnotwearaweddingring
that is true
Louisa Byrd you got point nkt everyone does n nkt for wrong reasons
And why not wear his ring in the first place?
That was not the point
“Act like a lady think like a man!” Don’t chase a man. Ever!
Don't expect a lot of men to be chasing women.
Pay, sex and leave.
Then be as single mother with 3 kids
lots of good smart men have taken the red pill these days due to feminists, metoo movements and what not, so good luck to you.
And thats why ur single
If you don't chase we assume your not interested
Steve has an incredible amount of life experience and wisdom. He is very intelligent.
I give up I feel very comfortable alone this is too much pressure,
Girl. And it's too many rules to remember.
I can’t even .Staying single is easier
I say just try to go by what you feel is right for you. Forget about the rules, just let it flow, but it never hurts to learn about how the male mind works how they are triggered and understand their language, yet I don't believe holding yourself short cause of some silly rules that if anything should apply more for young women, not for women over +35, is not the way to go. That would be depriving yourself cause of some ridiculous rules...setup mostly by men. Now, if you're not ready or don't feel comfortable...that's a whole different story.
Be confident, strong, and take responsibility for your sexuality...Be empowered. If a man belittles you for whatever reason due to what society has implanted into his system (he let it happened), then he is not worth your time. He hasn't educated himself to understand women of the 21st century nor to respect women for their worth as a person and NOT value her by her sexual experiences. Especially if you have acted responsibly in that field, within reason.
Lmao 😂
I think you should just let it go as it is
My strategy all the way and it WORKED. I've been happily married 6.5 years and counting. Yes ladies the strategy does work and I'm living proof.
The egg doesn't swim to the cell
If he's seeing someone already how about you respect his relationship and find someone else?
He's using the term seeing someone rather than in a relationship. Seeing someone does not mean relationship. I think that's the angle, not him telling her she should try to take him out of a relationship
idomagirl abahi Seeing someone doesn't necessarily equal a relationship. The man could just be dating. Dating does not necessarily equal a relationship either. So it will be up to the man to tell her whether or not he's just dating or in a "committed" relationship. Then if he is in fact in a "committed" relationship the young lady should move on.
idomagirl abahi 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Yesss
hello
Steve can be so extra sometimes 😂 Love him !
Lol totally agree
I lost it with the cookie 😂
"Let him see what
He can get but
Let him imagine
What he can have
The hunter in us is
Triggered by that
And if you can
Delay the giving.."
Let's him see what he can get? I don't understand see what? Get?
@@blingblingcrystal1938 I thought 'get' is the woman he can get
Ngan Kimmie see who she is internally by talking to her ....getting her intellectually
I dont quite understand what that statement mean? What he is trying to say. What if he's not interested in her?🤷♀️
Let him see what he can get, but « let him imagine what he can have » here it means trust him enough to give her intimacy « cookie » to that man.
“Let him see what he can get, let him imagine what he can have.” - Steve Harvey ✨
Got it 🤔😁
I really don't agree with this one. You shouldn't assume that they are indeed INVOLVED and still continue to tempt and break up the relationship you assume they have. Present yourself to the "hunter" if you assume that he's single but NOT if you assume that he's taken because that means you have a homewrecking mentality and is clearly disrespectful towards their relationship or really down playing it when that might not be the case for them. A respectable wholesome woman does not tempt a taken man especially knowing how possessive and jealous we can and tend to be.
Ok? 💜👌🏻💯
The problem of sinlge moms is looking for a father for their kids instead of a partner. That's why they run away. If he's good to you, he'll be good to your kids.
That’s not always true, are you a single mom?
Well the problem is that for a Man it's not in our preference to get with someone that had already a strong back sotrie
@@xsbbx5191 ??
@@GypsyRock à Man is the leader of the house hold, the problem is that is going to get in a family that is already established and he has to lead it, but if the mom doesn't give him the right thé kids will not and he's most likely going to live in a home that is not his in some sens, for exemple let say thé kid is doing something bad he can't decipline him because the mom would be like "don't tuch my kid" not all the Time but most of time that what happend so it takes to much work without really a hight chance of sucess so Man préfer someone that doesn't have a backgroud already and get a fresh start with them
@@xsbbx5191 ask any long time married man if he or his wife is the leader of the household. He will say his wife, because it's true. Many men know this, you currently don't. Those who do and are serious and ready about kids in a grown up way, do not mind if the lady already has a child. She should absolutely look for someone like that.
This is the first time I REALLY did not like the answer. Just because he is not married does NOT mean he is fair game. She doesn't know if he is so he is fair game now... but if he is in a relationship he should be left alone.
Amanda Jade Holtz ...if you were a hunter, would you care whether the deer has a female/male or fawns. Or would you just want to taste their flesh.
Amanda Jade Holtz . Hi
To be honest, I was also shocked and disappointed at Steve Harvey's answer.
i usually like his answers, but this one sounds like he's lowkey telling women to be homewreckers
@@lang-ed3bk if someone not married but he talking to someone then you don’t chase him or provoke him but if he chase you then technically you not doing anything wrong
my.sister got divorced the beginning of this year. started dating her twin boys basketball coach. then three months last is dating the second grade teacher. then a few months later she's bopped her way to a 4th grade teacher. Date a teacher. but don't sleep with half the school!
lol..and you bet they tell stories about your sis too..oh no
Well, dang! Tell all your sisters business, will you? LOL
What a nasty sibling you must be
Shayne Harvey I dont believe her sister did all that..she chic probaly was trying to sleep with sister's man and got caught now she is bitter!
I have five sisters and I would never ever bad mouth them even if we had a rocky relationship. You are wrong to insult your sister like this. We only have your side of the story.
Clearly something is broken within you to be this hateful towards your sister. I am shocked what kind sibling are you
Don't you know that he might be see this show !!!
Best comment👏🏾
faho0ody wbas I thought the same thing too! Lol
...that's her idea, she wants him to know
That would make it easy for the woman, plus she’s obviously not afraid if she’s approaching him. #Confidence
@@nedudee7861 exactly
Steve, you r a nice person helping all women no matter what age, what background or what situation. Thank u !!!
It would be very unprofessional for a teacher to date their pupils parents. In certain circumstances where you know the person socially it's different but if they see the school gate as a dating pool it would become a very awkward place very quickly.
Alarai Lun True. When I was teaching, we were warned to not fraternize with the parents. Dating my student's parent was taboo.
She could date him after the daughter moves up a grade and changes to another teacher
And if it is for marriage or something serious? It's because today everyone goes to the bedroom before marriage that relationships became not serious and dating became shameful in some curcumstances. Personally I think that one can date everyone if it is for some serious staff (or to get information at least, to see if the person convenes you).
I thought the same thing. And depending how willing they are to date a parent begs the question of how many other parents have they “dated”.
Furthermore how does that play out for your daughter in the long run. Follow your instincts , like you said you don’t want to seem crazy and desperate
My mom dated my history teacher when I was in 9th grade. Then when I went to college HE pursued me! YUCK! He wanted to take me to various countries.
I was maybe 19 and politely and firmly told him that was not ever going to be possibilty.
I'm going to present to you another option... I'm going to let you see what you can get and I'm going to make you imagine what you can have... THE HUNTER IN MEN IS TRIGGERED BY THAT... WOW!!! That was deep.
This was the same situation with my current husband... I was 43 divorced-he was 47 divorced but with a girlfriend. A friend thought we would be good together-am values, the same interests. She set us up at line dancing ( shared interest.) . For three months we circled each other..no one making the move. It turns out he had been seeing someone for 4 years...that he never intended to marry as they had never once talked about anything serious! (Hard for me to imagine!) He said it was just convenient for him....It took him three months to let her down slowly and then we began to see one another. We got serious very quickly and were married a year and a half later.
So your advice is woman shouldnt chase a man, love will come along as it is set to be? I really want to know. Not picking a quarrel. Thank you
@@moneysfan I believe that if a man has not determined in his heart that you are worth the chase, you will do all you want and he will never see you as a catch. There's something in us men that is triggered when we find a lady that is not just there to occupy space and time but one who can beat companion
Wow this man speaks the truth!
Why do i feel that Steve just tells them what the girls wanna hear
That was my same thought as well 🤔
Not always. He isn't afraid of being honest with women.
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Steve logic is flawed sometimes there are plenty of single 40 year old men
jay_rael well said. Id also say that men in their 40s who aren't in a serious relationship are very discerning. Been there done that. It better be awesome lol. (There's also plenty of married men who don't wear a wedding ring)
well bring him to me then. 😂
+Justice Butler . exactly
jay_rael no he said there is no single 40 year old man that don't have it together that's what he said
jay_rael Yep something wrong
Steve is living on Mars. With all the divorces out there, of course, there are single 40+-year-old men out there trying to figure it out. Sheesh.
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I think what he means is that many are still have "relations" with someone until they find someone they truly want 🤷🏾♀️
True, not everyone over 40 who is single is allergic to relationships
I agree with you.
I was a teacher and , I had parents interested in me…. I wouldn’t cross the line and date a parent, because it can get tricky 💁🏾♀️
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I would make sure the man is actually single before I do any stupid move. I won’t ever go after a man in a relationship let alone married, I don’t care how good or bad his relationship is, he’s still in it. I am totally convinced doing so is very low.
also when they break up she will try to get him fired. he dont want her
I love you Steve, but I disagee with you on this one. If she noticed him, I'm sure he has already noticed her also. Imagine how many students mothers and female faculty associates, etc. are also attracted to and interested in Mr. fine!
If he's available and interested in her, he will definately find a way to let her know.
Katnip 09 no suga..... He may see here but only as his student teacher. If she has interest then make it known
That pretty much sums up what he said.
the assumption is: She's a mother of one of his students. Good chance she is married.
Just as there are some men who are married and do not wear a ring, there are some women who are married and do not wear a ring. (though the married woman without a ring is less common, because women love their rings and other shiny crap.)
@@fhuber7507 That gave me a chuckle. Don't know if you've been paying attention for the last 50 years, but if a black woman has a child it's an almost certain chance that she's a single mother who has never been married.
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Break it down Uncle Steve 😂
Right? I yelled "PREACH" bout a hundred times! #Slay Steve
Alright Steve
1. Would you like it if someone(homewrecker) breaks up your relationship?
2. If the guy has a good thing going on with his girlfriend, why would you advise anyone to destroy that and take away the man she loves.
3. In another episode, you told an female audience the ways to fend off other women hitting on her boyfriend. So, which is it?
Seeing someone DOES NOT mean he is in a relationship. If he is in the dating stage, it DOES NOT mean he is in a commited relationship. It just means that he is dating in order to get to know the person and see if it could get to a good relationship. Guys, some of you are soooo exagerated
You're questioning Steve Harvey here, what is he on divorce number 3?
If someone is in a relationship and they are content they will stay with that person.
I say if he is interested He will let her know. Even if he is 40 I believe he knows who he wants by now. Don't ever show a man that you are chasing him, but let him pursue you, ladies. Otherwise, men will not respect a lady who runs him down. He looks at her as being too easy. Respect ourselves and men will respect us.
@Rosetta Jones I agree 100% with everything you said. Women have to stop being desperate and thirsty and let the guys pursue us. If you’ve already been around a guy and he’s seen you then he’s had opportunity to pursue you and if he didn’t it’s likely because he’s just not interested in you
Damn that’s a really nice suit Steve 🔥
Ooh ! Her daughter's teacher?
The 90 day Steve has going is unpredictable, a player would watch this and know how to act upon it.
Love is not in a book ,someone's story, study, but within one's experience..
Everyone has a different story, never know how yours will begin or end..
Aaawww thank you.needed to hear this😘
@@lethaboberenice1272 gosh you are so pretty.
Steve's logic is terribly flawed and poor women fall for it. Smh. You can be eligible and single. Some people are not afraid of being single and will remain so until they find someone they connect with.
J Q At 40 though? I think his advice was spot on. Don't go into the situation naively thinking that he's single, keep it classy, and show him what he could be missing out on in case he actually is single. If he likes her enough, he'll take the bait.
Ms. Perfectly Imperfect I agree 100%. Even my married 30-something year old brother in-law told me a few years ago that if a dude I'm looking at is in his 30's and is STILL single and never married, then there might be something up. He didn't say WHAT.... He just said that there MIGHT be something up. Could be he's struggling w/his sexuality, maybe he has a personality flaw, he might be nervous around women, his libido might be low, maybe he has mommy issues, etc.....
I didn't take it to mean ALL men in their 30's and up are "defective lifestock"... Just that the likelihood of a man in his 30's who's NEVER been married and is perpetually single might be a sign I should seriously look at. Most men are either seeing someone, in the process of getting a date, or have just gotten out of a relationship and will eventually be moving on to the next. It's very naive for me to think that a man who has all this "great" stuff going for him is still single . And if he is...the next question would be: WHY is he?
@@DestinyC1020 that logic Can get you into trouble. We aren't living in our parents generation anymore, so being single in 30s doesn't hold the weight it might have 20+ years ago. Many people just busy fulfilling their own path and not concerned with dating and such. Keep the mind open and someone good will notice.
I'D HAVE TO DISAGREE TOO...I'M OVER 40 AND SINGLE. IT DOESN'T ALWAYS MEAN SOMETHING SECRETIVE OR STRANGE IS GOING ON.
@@DestinyC1020 I remember a time when BEING DIVORCED, especially more than once meant people judged you. I think it means you don't make lots of BAD choices.
I don't understand, why would there be an assumption that all 40+ men who are good looking are taken? I am sure there are tons of eligible bachelors at all ages. The lady should casually strike up a conversation with him about a mutual topic, and hopefully he will himself reveal more information about himself. No ring is a good sign. I would even go as far as saying "Would you like to grab a coffee with me?". Absolutely nothing wrong with making the first move, it doesn't even have to mean anything, just friendly conversation over coffee :-)
good advice!
Because there ARE a lot of great women.
Steve Harvey you the man when it comes to advice
Steve is the best dressed man on TV. I'm fan from Puerto Rico and I'll love to go to a show and get to know him.
Steve is usually on point, but missed it this time. She doesn't want to appear crazy or desperate. 1. Going after a man in a relationship is desperate. 2. Going after your child's teacher is also desperate. 3. She's an attractive woman. Be the prey and get hunted. Reversal of roles can also appear desperate. 4. Lastly, "game on", indicates playing. Playing games can get you PLAYED.
who is here, still single april 2021?
I don't think the guy is willing to put his job in jeopardy for some cookies 🙄
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Oh, you’d be surprised.
that girl gonna get A+😂😂😂
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That is the thing we us women. We need to date and date often. Don’t set your eyes on one man. Go out meet people. Show how lovely you are. You don’t always need to date a guy you like in the physical area. You can go out and share. Just save your best for the one you really like.
Why go out w anyone you're not interested in? What's the point? Just using him. You could go get dinner or go out on your own.
All the women in the world could look at that man but Steve fails to realize that there's only one soulmate and that could have been her. If you walk around saying that every man you're interested in must be married or has a girlfriend you will never give yourself a chance to meet the one that might be for you.
Steve is the best
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Preach it Steve I got involved with with a man who is too perfect and he ended up being married
I honestly believe that if you are assuming some man that you are interested in is in a relationship with someone else... then you should back off. If something is going to happen, leave it to fate. It is not fair on the other person who is with that guy if you as a woman are trying to pursue something with her partner or boyfriend. I think ladies we need to respect other ladies and do nothing that we wouldn't want to happen to us. Be fair. The right guy will come.
Steve crimson and cream suit is sooo on point.
Love Steve's outfit beautiful tie
As a teacher myself….I would NEVER date a parent of one of my students.
Maybe once they are out of my classroom. But not while they are still my student.
Bingo!
I'm 44. Single. Great father. Never been arrested.
Well heres a good tip for all the ladies out there on how to get a man. Be your self
This hurt to hear but I needed to hear this 🥲
Let him see what he can get, let him imagine what he can have, delay and value yourself, we do need advices from man indeed.
What does it means pls?😄🤦♀️
ummmmm steve did u just tell her to try to bust up their relationship by flurtin with a guy that has someone???
Isn't that what Marjorie did?
i disgree with that it is not possible to find a good man half of those good men that women want are in the friendzone today
To a woman, if you're under 6 feet you're automatically no good, so that eliminates about 86% of the male population right there. Then women wonder why they can't find a man, smh...
What "good men?" You mean fat, bald, old, losers who walk past you kid or your dog in your own house? Not like she didn't mention them. Not like they're going anyplace.
They have nothing to offer and aren't remotely interesting. Stop saying he's eligible just from being male. Please.
Those?
At 40, he’s probably been through countless women and maybe had an “official” marriage or 2.
He is probably playing around with a few women for various needs. None of which he intends to marry.
She can add her audition. But he’s likely seen everything she offers before. At least 8 times.
The “cookie” is not that prized unless you are a virgin.
No man has cookies that already made other cookies on a pedestal anywhere.
You won’t be married by Christmas unless HE wants to get married.
Women can accept or deny sex. Men control marriage, regardless of whether you accept or deny to sleep with him or not.
More important will be what the guy is looking for, his own maturity level and thought about marriage, and what she offers that he honestly needs. For instance. Men need to be needed, have a strong position to fulfill in your life, space, and femininity to compliment him (if he is even truly masculine)
Just because she is pretty and wants a man doesn’t mean she deserves, understands, or can compliment what a man needs.
Plenty of pretty women with children hanging around because they found men who can have sex but don’t have self knowledge, leadership, accountability, and wise values.
Also, they realize that many pretty women are hard, controlling, emasculating, boring, unharmonious, emotionally unintelligent, and not comforting past 6 months of initial courting/dating.
Women also foolishly think men look for what they look for in relationships.
And any player can wait 3 months. Just keep you on some breadcrumbs and have side pieces. No challenge to his game 🙄🙄
Women sold out when they said men can get pseudo marriage for free.
Well, see how all that free sex and shacking up turned out for you?
Now you are expected to indefinitely audition for any and every man. Full service. And MAYBE he will CONSIDER you…
Foolish women…
Steve is setting her up.for failure 😟
It's always difficult with kids and single moms
Ola
Have mercy!
Steve Harvey is the best!!!
He is awesome with this advice!!
I love this woman. Am single 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭😂😂😂😂😂
I was drinking a bottle of water one day in class. A student said ¨My dad drinks that water too!" I said, ¨Ḧe is an intelligent man." The young child quickly said, ¨He's single too!¨ I kept working and said, ¨Get back to work, dear.¨ LOL The above scenario gave me flashbacks.
hmmm. I don't know if I would agree on this..why would you present yourself who is dating someone. you have no respect for yourself and if you could pull him, he obviously has no respect for the lady he's dating! ijs he'll do the same to you. cycle of dog eat dog
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It's not about self respect. You're giving him another option, a possibly better one. And I've done that. I confessed to him about my feelings, he respected them and it's been a couple of days to that. I don't know what happens but this is all I could do. Enough closure to move on. Letting the bygones be the bygones.
Exactly as I was thinking, what if another woman presents herself in the same way, couldn't he then be lured away from her too?
@@meenakshikhatri8549 Sooo ... he dumps his current girlfriend for "possibly better option". What prevents him to do the same to you after some time? Lack of other "possibly better options" out there? His great character, integrity, and respect for a woman he is with? On the other hand, you are showing no respect neither for yourself nor for the relationships so why would he?
@@sirfoggy7682 Well, I'm not doing anything. I just presented him with another option is all. And of course, he sure can do that to me too in the future and that's life. Survival of the fittest.
Wasn’t Steve telling her how to rob someone else’s boyfriend?!!
You don’t know if he is a boyfriend to that potential women he might be seeing. Seeing someone DOES NOT mean he is in a relationship. They could be just dating in order to trying to figure out if they would be compatible. Dating stage does not mean neither relationship nor sex. You, guys, some of you, are very exagerated
I love Steve lol he is hilarious
Steve............there ARE viable 40-year-old men who are single!!
Ola
Run, Men, Run!
If he’s watching, I hope he’s watching lol
Read his book - a good book" Act like a lady think like a man". He is so funny
And who the hell told Steve, that just because a MAN doesn't wear a ring means he isn't married, or is married?!. I wear a ring and I am not married. My father is married and he doesn't wear one nor does he likes to wear rings. Who said you have to wear one?!.. Sometimes he comes up with this some ridiculous ideas.
Jay Enrique You're right. But I think Steve is just talking about the norm. Most married people will wear a wedding ring if they are married. Most...but not all. And you are also correct with the fact that some men wear a ring on their ring finger and aren't married. My dad was one of those and I know of a rare few.
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Just an FYI Steve wasn’t saying steal him away from a steady girlfriend or relationship. He talks a lot about Multi-dating -ie- talking to multiple people and going out none exclusively.
Once committed it’s different. He says that when you start talking to some one or go on date or two that they are most likely talking with multiple people to find someone to date exclusively!!
Steve does not know everything!!!
I agree,
but nobody knows everything,
Steve just happens to have quite a bit of experience and wisdom now.
And there is always exceptions to every rule.
I have spotted one too so...
1. What color dress is best for to attract the hunter's eye? Red or black?
2. What shape? Bit lose or thigh?
3. How long, on knee or under knee length?
4. Thighs color, light or dark, with or without pattern?
Preach Steve!! Haven't given the cookie 🍪 in 3 years! That was an awesome message
Three years later what's up m
That cookie must have spider webs
4 years cookie check,
@@toreibowe4262 lol 😂
@@toreibowe4262 not if u treat it right
I'm so going to be reading my book again
"See what he can get and imagine what he can have" perfect!
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This was sooooo clutch! I love it!
when will women wake up and realize that just walking up and getting straight to the point and telling a man that he's handsome, and you want to invite him over for dinner and a movie, is the easiest way to go. women waste so much time
No chick.is going to invite a stranger to her house.
I really like this but I think it's to scarry for me as a woman I feel unconfident to do this eventhough some people do approach me
Now she's gonna try and tempt this man and wreck a relationship but it's ok because Steve said "we'll be married by next Christmas." This is the advice people use to tempt others to cheat on their spouse. Just go find someone else.
Good cooking
No nagging
No unreasonable demands
Be happy.
And promise plenty of good sex after marriage.
Men love a woman who is happy.
And many married men do not wear a ring.
Every time I wore a ring it caught on something and had to be cut off to save my finger.
I had a friend catch his ring on something just as he slipped and fell down a "ladder" on the aircraft carrier and it took his finger OFF.
I had another who had his ring touch an electrical contact and it damn near killed him.
For some of us, wearing a ring is just dangerous.
Men: make big money
Buy us lots of stuff
Clean up after yourself
Open all doors for us and pull out our chair
Have our bath water drawn and a glass of wine by the tub ready for us every night after work--
Do you see how it sounds? Quit with the list of demands and be an equal partner.
Omg! Steve is SO wise!!! 💕
Just ask if he is married or in a relationship..
Talk to him 5 minutes. He'll drop a "we" and you don't have to look stupid.
It's her child's teacher! Bad idea. It could affect his employment with that school!
Self Respect
So Steve wants to create a man snatcher? A guy will cheat if he wants to cheat, but Steve is implying that it’s ok if a man is in a relationship - for that woman who wants that man, to gear up and still go after him. No, they may not be married, but don’t be trying to be another man snatcher when there are plenty of single men out there.
Merry Christmas to the happy couple!
What if he's a 40 year old waiting for ms. right? Steve gives the worst advice sometimes
Ms. Right dont have a look so you cant wait for her you hunt
blahblahblah he told her the guy is seeing someone because he didn't want her to put her hopes up. 🙄
blahblahblah maybe he was divorced and presently and temporarily single. Yap Steve can be wrong.
How many cute, eligible women do you know?
Vs. How many men?
See? Lots of women. Zero men.
I love you Steve! Great answer!✅
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This Christmas I gave you my heart, but the very next day you gave it away~ 😂
Army 💃💃
Never Chase a Man for any reason....value n respect yourself first.
what is meant by 'let him see what he can get, imagine what he can have'?
I love uncle Steve man!🥺
Steve was so caught up in his own pseudo philosophical talk that he didn't answer the woman's question. He saw an opportunity to sell a few more books and he dove right in forgetting why she was there. She needed a practical answer, not this ramblings from some book. You could see at the end that she didn't get anything. OMG!
Knight Oyin ...pseudo philosophical? How does that work then? Do you u derstand what the word pseudo means? Do you understand what philosophy is? These are all rhetorical questions by the way, it's quite clear you have no idea about any of this.
As for Steve answer, he answered it perfectly in line with his thoughts. Don't blame him if you don't understand the answer.
“Tada”😂
Love you Steve!
Great advice
That's suit is tuff fr
I'm 36 year old female trying to figure it out and ain't seeing no one
Hello
I want an update on this one!
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