@@wolfgang2380 how is this lefty journalism? Literally apart from the fact that it's on the guardian it's not even remotely left wing. I can tell you literally don't know anything about politics, that's coming from a politics graduate and conservative .
@@richiecramiun I don't know what you think the Guardian is. They are predominantly left of centre, not the extreme left. We're not talking about how the Daily Mail is very right-wing (not far-right but not far off)
Had an interesting thought, what about speaking to/examining banking/city boy culture? The group are all about posturing and masculinity. It’d be interesting to hear from people who really buy into the boyish culture and also from people who feel that they might not fit into that mould, despite working in that industry
Is that still the case? It certainly was thirty years ago but the banks now are obsessed with wokeness and are being run by their compliance departments so I'd be surprised if the city boy culture isn't long gone.
JCstone1000 that’s a very very small segment of men to hone in on. It’s almost feels like a desperate attempt to find a toxic male so a lot of the woke nonsense can be justified
That young man in the barbers chair (the one who started therapy) is truly a breath of fresh air! If you are reading this, keeping going on, keep pushing!
This made me talk to my dad about the problems that I have with the way he has acted through my life and we are stronger for it, I talk to my dad more than I ever did before becaus of this, thank you
This is the best journalism from the guardian I've ever seen. A lot of journalists can learn a lot from this lady. Really positive, I admire people like her.
From 10:05 to 10:58 The way he talks, and expresses his views, there's something about him that makes me feel like he understands something I don't. That's the kind of masculinity that I want to have, that makes someone look so humble, confident and happy at the same time.
Iman thank you again, your videos make me cry. I find it profoundly moving that these conversations are being had, and feel solidarity in just knowing you and the wonderful people you talk to are also thinking so much about this stuff.
Thank you for another excellent, insightful and thought-provoking episode. I was particularly intrigued by the brief discussion on faith as an intrinsic foundation and strength that enables men to be vulnerable. For me, exploring masculinity and vulnerability is a really important route to shifting damaging expectations of stoic, strong men who never share their feelings and bottle up emotion. Is this something you could explore further by interviewing men who have traditional religious faith, and comparing to men who have other forms of faith such as humanist faith? Also, could compare to men who have no explicit 'faith' framework, but follow a more individualistic philosophy. I am thinking of faith as a more abstract concept rather than just religious faith in a deity/deities.
@@imanamrani5959 I have found your approach to the often divisive 'masculinity' topic really useful and innovative. It has msde me reflect on my own research into parenting and the influence of masculinity. Am happy to discuss further if you are interested in that avenue too.
I think I understand what you mean when you talk about "stoic, strong men", but I feel there is a tendency to mischaracterize Stoicism via the conventional use of the word. Personally, I have fallen under the category of those with "humanist faith" for most of my life. Without a clearly defined philosophical framework, such as that provided by a traditional religion, I have at times felt a bit lost and rudderless, particularly at turbulent times in my life. More recently, after some research, I found Stoicism to be a useful tool in helping to guide my thoughts and actions. Particularly, the Stoic virtues of Wisdom, Courage, Temperance and Justice have provided a foundation to build my own moral imperatives and principles upon. It isn't inherently prescriptive, so how you interpret those virtues is entirely up to you. For me, courage includes being willing to admit if I'm wrong or to seek help when I'm in emotional distress. However, I suppose the freedom to interpret the virtues differently could lead to negative or destructive mindsets. I think that's why Wisdom is usually listed first, as you need to be aware and critical of the ways you practice Courage, Temperance and Justice.
@@owenturner3919 Where have you learn't about the Stoic principles and values. I'm reading Meditations at the moment whcih is great but is there any websites or podcasts in particular you would reccomend for practicing/consoilidating understanding?
@@jbagger331 Two tier challenge: 1) Link ANY article in the guardian which says all men have raped 2) Link any NON-Opinion piece which says all men have raped.
@@jbagger331 The way you can comment about not answering whilst completely ignoring the initial "two-tier challenge" comment addressed to yourself is extremely illuminating. EXTREMELY. Fewer people than you think fall for this type of nonsense, dude. Like, really. Carry on though.
Praise to Iman Amrani for generating awareness and thought-provoking discussion around the importance of men, of any demographic, addressing, coming to terms with, evaluating and processing their emotions in a healthy and constructive manner. The ritualistic notion that any man who knows how to identify and process his emotions in a healthy way is somehow "less than a man" needs to be corrected. The world would have been in a much healthier state if this approach was properly implemented.
Certainly going to be showing this to my students. I'm a teacher in a West London school having to teach my sixth form tutor group about relationships as part of their PSHE once a week. It's interesting as my tutor group this year is more boys than girls and the atmosphere is certainly different, where once there would be conversations, now the atmosphere is stilted. The openness has gone to be replaced with I think maybe a certain fear about voicing what they are thinking, but also it's interesting what the guy said....maybe they don't even know yet that there is another way to be, another way to think, maybe they just don't know that yet. Anyway thanks for these interviews, they are great.
I love everything about this video. The journalist, the people, the barbershop, the location, the culture, the language, the vibe. Everything. Thank you, Guardian. Kudos to Imam!
It's amazing seeing different layers of masculinity. Even alpha male has to choose when to be a provider and how to do it. No one can be an alpha in all circumstances. It's really touching to see the tender care and empathy for one's fellow beings but at the same time struggling to cope with the limitation of one's ability to "provide".
Another interesting episode. One of the best things about this whole series and the first series, is the time you give them to talk it through and really listen. I appreciate the space they're given, because some of the speakers get there in the end but it takes them a while to articulate what they're trying to say. Someone else would jump on the first line, take it as a soundbyte, and that's a clickbait headline. I enjoyed Mark talking about his heritage and how cultural norms around being a man, behaving towards others and family, are passed down from father to son. Sometimes there is definitely a disconnect between generations. I don't want to get into a what makes someone "British" nonsense, but we all get stuff from our fathers about how we're expected to behave that's not from the society we're living in. How men balance that and honouring their fathers/ancestors with the 'modern world' would be interesting to explore. Does that make sense?
@@gordusmaximus4990 This must be your first video...but one of the first videos was with a white barber and all the other videos had different ethnicities represented in a very natural way though.
Such a great episode Iman! I think reaching out to veterans would be an interesting direction to go next. The conversations from that space will probably yield a lot of challenging and unexpected themes I think. Thanks for doing such a great job on this series!
@Aces I was saying in general if people listened more they would understand other perspectives (on both sides of every issue). Or maybe that is ignorant of the fact that people are inherently selfish and don't care. Regardless, people should listen more and try to understand.
Imam you are a fantastic journalist, you make me want to write more and be more curious about things around me, and this series has broached a really necessary conversation.
I know this is video focused mostly on black masculinity, but I am struck by how universal a lot of the core concepts of masculinity is across various culture. I notice the need for men to be an alpha male, as one gentleman put it, across various groups.
Really enjoyed this, refreshing perspective and style. Enjoyed the flow of the Interviews, felt like a real conversation rather than a structured question and answer that gave each persons view more breathing room. I'm binging 👏
I can't help but feel that this is a series about traditional masculinity in the modern world. Granted that is interesting and worth exploring but it would be great to see more on men who are operating outside of those traditional confines or men who have suffered as a result of those things. I understand that people are tired of hearing 'toxic masculinity' but perhaps this series could serve as an opportunity to illuminate the meaning of that term or to explore the structures in society that enforce those borders.
That's part of the discussion though, right? For all its benefits and drawbacks so many men are still operating on traditional masculinity. As much as men are aware of what that means, I suspect there are plenty of women out there who aren't aware or have a very slanted view of it. That said, I also agree that it'd be nice to see more alternate views on masculinity. (One video on that subject that I will whole-heartedly endorse is: ua-cam.com/video/C4kuR1gyOeQ/v-deo.html )
@@vegigun Yeah I agree. But I think part of the problem is that while the media, especially vaguely left wing media, left wing people, people of the LGBTQ+ community and upper class people have seen an opening in how men are expected to behave, that has not penetrated to all areas of society.
I think there’s an overwhelming amount of that present in the media today. Heck, the newspaper that produces this series has published many articles talking about this. If you wish to find an article or program talking about the negative aspects of traditional masculinity, it won’t be difficult. What we need is something championing traditional masculinity rather than demonizing it.
Whats clear is that most people that talk here about toxic masculinity have no clue what it is, but as always these always seem to talk about really small subset of men and how they view this.
Very interesting vid. I liked the honesty of the guys you spoke to. It’s as if they all see strength as being masculine although what defines strength differs; being the alpha, protecting others, the strength to be open about feelings and the strength of having faith. Interesting. Thanks.
Thanks so much for this really fascinating series! Binge watched all of them a couple of days ago. Was psyched to see another one today! I grew up in cities, but now live in a more rural/northern context. It would be really interesting to hear from men in rural communities, who are also (in a different way) an underrepresented group.
As a white guy from Scotland I didn’t get much from this one but I still found it interesting to see another bunch of men’s experiences. Mind you if I go on there and start talking boxing or a bunch of other stuff I bet in 5 mins nobody is seeing anyone’s colour right? I feel like this series is just scratched the surface and wish it was longer.
Really nice and interesting, as always with this series. Got kind of a superficial question though, and i ask this as i foreigner fascinated by the different speech patterns and motives in british culture, where's the hostess accent from?
@Patrick Neve hahahahaha I enjoyed this breakdown. I am notorious for switching my accent depending on who I am talking too - it's a bit of a running theme in the series...
What exactly is "traditional masculinity"? It means different things to different people. For sure it means the man goes out and works and provides, but does it also mean he needs a woman to do the shopping, cooking, washing, and ironing for him? I pride myself (admittedly as a single male living alone) that I don't depend on anyone to do household chores for me (and admittedly they don't always get done). And maybe I'm reacting against traditional Asian male and female roles... On a different subject, I did like the customer saying "it's no excuse for not trying" being followed by "yes it is". I like these discussions!
But are we really protecting our women? I consider myself alpha however I feel we are letting women down... We are NOT seeing them as our sisters, mothers, partners. We are sexualizing and demonizing them constantly. Let's be real alphas and assist them, walk beside them, listen to them... As equals.
I'm sure I just saw you in walking with your family (I won't say where just in case it was you) In the last 3 years I have become a UFC fan and a Jordan Peterson follower so seeing you connect these things has really caught my attention. Love that you're exploring these areas but would like you to present some developed conclusions to discuss /ponder.
@Trouble Came Calling What's wrong with following someone's lectures and talks? Why is that 'cringe'? I thought people came here to exchange ideas and maybe gain some insight they didn't previously have.
New York is such a varied city with so many ethnicities that the response would be much more varied, that lets says asking men in Iowa,Kansas,Nebraska,Pennsylvania or Michigan ,where you really get into the circumcision belt .Even the response between New York City and Upstate New York would vary greatly
Watch the rest of the series ► ua-cam.com/play/PLa_1MA_DEorE9YESXIL1rN3jJ6qzaG40i.html
The Guardian = famous for hating white/english people .... que deletion of comment in 5 .. 4 .. 3 .. 2 .. 1!.
@@alethby5421 you're still here buddy
Iman is exactly what you want from a journalist. I hope that inspiring young journalists take her approach when tackling difficult issues.
No not really lefty journalism isn't popular in the UK
@@wolfgang2380 how is this lefty journalism? Literally apart from the fact that it's on the guardian it's not even remotely left wing. I can tell you literally don't know anything about politics, that's coming from a politics graduate and conservative .
@@matthewomalley6732 she is part of the Common Sense Brigade. I hope she remains a member and the Guardian dont turn her.
@@richiecramiun I don't know what you think the Guardian is. They are predominantly left of centre, not the extreme left. We're not talking about how the Daily Mail is very right-wing (not far-right but not far off)
Iman, you are a very good interviewer. You put people at ease.
Thanks Eileen, I think I'm lucky that I can use this for my job growing up I would get in trouble for being too chatty but now I do it for a living 😅
Iman Amrani honestly like how genuine of a person you seem, just chill and non judgmental.
It's partly because she is so attractive.
@@imanamrani5959 Thank you for the videos and for being great.
@@Pezerinno Most men aren’t put to ease by how attractive people are
Was so fed up of overly hearing the subject of "toxic masculinity" I forgot we could be masculine without it being a trap or "wrong."
Yeah. Not gonna lie I came to this video with my guard up.
Masculinity is beautiful.
Had an interesting thought, what about speaking to/examining banking/city boy culture? The group are all about posturing and masculinity. It’d be interesting to hear from people who really buy into the boyish culture and also from people who feel that they might not fit into that mould, despite working in that industry
Is that still the case? It certainly was thirty years ago but the banks now are obsessed with wokeness and are being run by their compliance departments so I'd be surprised if the city boy culture isn't long gone.
JCstone1000 that’s a very very small segment of men to hone in on. It’s almost feels like a desperate attempt to find a toxic male so a lot of the woke nonsense can be justified
@@1brenmaster
It may be a reality check to those who think that men wearing skull rings is toxic behaviour.
That young man in the barbers chair (the one who started therapy) is truly a breath of fresh air! If you are reading this, keeping going on, keep pushing!
'I was my first client' is the best line ever...
This made me talk to my dad about the problems that I have with the way he has acted through my life and we are stronger for it, I talk to my dad more than I ever did before becaus of this, thank you
She’s really such a role model for how a journalist should be
which is rare to find coming from the guardian
This is the best journalism from the guardian I've ever seen. A lot of journalists can learn a lot from this lady. Really positive, I admire people like her.
From 10:05 to 10:58
The way he talks, and expresses his views, there's something about him that makes me feel like he understands something I don't. That's the kind of masculinity that I want to have, that makes someone look so humble, confident and happy at the same time.
The thing about the father-son bond and how that informs your masculinity really hits me deeply.
Being a man is dominance, respect, responsibility (for your self and your family), discipline and exercising patience specially if you are married
Iman thank you again, your videos make me cry. I find it profoundly moving that these conversations are being had, and feel solidarity in just knowing you and the wonderful people you talk to are also thinking so much about this stuff.
I don't remember the name of the barbershop owner but he's so emotionally intelligent. It's amazing
Thank you for another excellent, insightful and thought-provoking episode.
I was particularly intrigued by the brief discussion on faith as an intrinsic foundation and strength that enables men to be vulnerable. For me, exploring masculinity and vulnerability is a really important route to shifting damaging expectations of stoic, strong men who never share their feelings and bottle up emotion. Is this something you could explore further by interviewing men who have traditional religious faith, and comparing to men who have other forms of faith such as humanist faith? Also, could compare to men who have no explicit 'faith' framework, but follow a more individualistic philosophy. I am thinking of faith as a more abstract concept rather than just religious faith in a deity/deities.
Hi Mark, really glad you liked the episode and I also find all of that really interesting. It's definitely an area we could look into further.
@@imanamrani5959 I have found your approach to the often divisive 'masculinity' topic really useful and innovative. It has msde me reflect on my own research into parenting and the influence of masculinity. Am happy to discuss further if you are interested in that avenue too.
I think I understand what you mean when you talk about "stoic, strong men", but I feel there is a tendency to mischaracterize Stoicism via the conventional use of the word.
Personally, I have fallen under the category of those with "humanist faith" for most of my life. Without a clearly defined philosophical framework, such as that provided by a traditional religion, I have at times felt a bit lost and rudderless, particularly at turbulent times in my life. More recently, after some research, I found Stoicism to be a useful tool in helping to guide my thoughts and actions. Particularly, the Stoic virtues of Wisdom, Courage, Temperance and Justice have provided a foundation to build my own moral imperatives and principles upon. It isn't inherently prescriptive, so how you interpret those virtues is entirely up to you. For me, courage includes being willing to admit if I'm wrong or to seek help when I'm in emotional distress. However, I suppose the freedom to interpret the virtues differently could lead to negative or destructive mindsets. I think that's why Wisdom is usually listed first, as you need to be aware and critical of the ways you practice Courage, Temperance and Justice.
@@owenturner3919 Where have you learn't about the Stoic principles and values. I'm reading Meditations at the moment whcih is great but is there any websites or podcasts in particular you would reccomend for practicing/consoilidating understanding?
Why has this got so many downvotes already? This was a pretty informative and non-judgmental video I thought.
Some people see 'the Guardian' and a word like 'masculinity' then instantly and reactively click dislike, I'm afraid.
Incels gotta incel, i suppose.
@@jbagger331 Two tier challenge:
1) Link ANY article in the guardian which says all men have raped
2) Link any NON-Opinion piece which says all men have raped.
@@baratoplata7050 -
Hmm, why does it have to be a non-opinion piece?? Should they be giving a platform to such opinions in the first place?? 🤔🤔
@@jbagger331 The way you can comment about not answering whilst completely ignoring the initial "two-tier challenge" comment addressed to yourself is extremely illuminating. EXTREMELY.
Fewer people than you think fall for this type of nonsense, dude. Like, really. Carry on though.
What a connective conversations. To be proud of, not polarising or toxic in any way. Great !!! Thank you very much for putting this online !
Praise to Iman Amrani for generating awareness and thought-provoking discussion around the importance of men, of any demographic, addressing, coming to terms with, evaluating and processing their emotions in a healthy and constructive manner. The ritualistic notion that any man who knows how to identify and process his emotions in a healthy way is somehow "less than a man" needs to be corrected. The world would have been in a much healthier state if this approach was properly implemented.
I think its really important for boys to have positive male role models.
Nice work Iman. Really impressed with Mark, with his smile, compassion and positivity.
Certainly going to be showing this to my students. I'm a teacher in a West London school having to teach my sixth form tutor group about relationships as part of their PSHE once a week. It's interesting as my tutor group this year is more boys than girls and the atmosphere is certainly different, where once there would be conversations, now the atmosphere is stilted. The openness has gone to be replaced with I think maybe a certain fear about voicing what they are thinking, but also it's interesting what the guy said....maybe they don't even know yet that there is another way to be, another way to think, maybe they just don't know that yet. Anyway thanks for these interviews, they are great.
That's just to be expected and entirely natural. Men and women are wired differently as they evolved to perform different roles in their groups.
I love everything about this video. The journalist, the people, the barbershop, the location, the culture, the language, the vibe. Everything. Thank you, Guardian. Kudos to Imam!
Got excited as soon as I opened youtube and saw another addition to this great series. Fantastic journalism.
That is fabulous. The whole thing about Mark's shop, the men who go there, their conversation. Very sweet and real.
I find it very inspiring to hear the man in the chair between 10:00 and 11:00 talk so strongly about his faith.
'I am a provider and I am not because HE is'. Would love to have a convo with that guy. Also, Iman, careful with the coffee spill.
It's amazing seeing different layers of masculinity. Even alpha male has to choose when to be a provider and how to do it. No one can be an alpha in all circumstances. It's really touching to see the tender care and empathy for one's fellow beings but at the same time struggling to cope with the limitation of one's ability to "provide".
Honest conversations are a gem!!!
Another interesting episode. One of the best things about this whole series and the first series, is the time you give them to talk it through and really listen. I appreciate the space they're given, because some of the speakers get there in the end but it takes them a while to articulate what they're trying to say. Someone else would jump on the first line, take it as a soundbyte, and that's a clickbait headline.
I enjoyed Mark talking about his heritage and how cultural norms around being a man, behaving towards others and family, are passed down from father to son. Sometimes there is definitely a disconnect between generations. I don't want to get into a what makes someone "British" nonsense, but we all get stuff from our fathers about how we're expected to behave that's not from the society we're living in. How men balance that and honouring their fathers/ancestors with the 'modern world' would be interesting to explore. Does that make sense?
Iman, thank you for giving men of colour the space to talk and express themselves
Rafael Acosta These ppl are so obsessed with color 😂 white is a color if black is
Yes, let's bring race into this.
@@ReasonAboveEverything they didnt brought race to this, the video did. She should interviewed also white people and asians about this subject
João Silva she has made more than one episode where she interviewed white men.
@@gordusmaximus4990 This must be your first video...but one of the first videos was with a white barber and all the other videos had different ethnicities represented in a very natural way though.
How are you so tuned in and self-aware talking about this?! Great series.
Such a great episode Iman! I think reaching out to veterans would be an interesting direction to go next. The conversations from that space will probably yield a lot of challenging and unexpected themes I think. Thanks for doing such a great job on this series!
loved that you talked to different people with different opinion.
I like her. She reasonable and respectful
This series is the best output from the guardian and one of my fav UA-cam series at the moment - keep it up!
The barber is spot on about the differences between men and women. Smart guy
The first sane title about masculinity I have come accross this month
Love how organic it is, also Slider has come so far in his career and in life overall. #RESPECTTHEGUARDIANANDSLIDER
This needs a lot more views.
Iman is amazing! This is true journalism, she’s like a unicorn these days. Thank you for this series Iman.
If more people were willing to listen and understand the world would be a better place.
@Aces I was saying in general if people listened more they would understand other perspectives (on both sides of every issue). Or maybe that is ignorant of the fact that people are inherently selfish and don't care. Regardless, people should listen more and try to understand.
Imam you are a fantastic journalist, you make me want to write more and be more curious about things around me, and this series has broached a really necessary conversation.
Poor bloke didnt event get to eathis pizza
We can confirm that he did eat a bit of it!
All I could look at in that segment :D
What a great series - and journalist. Thank you, Guardian!
I know this is video focused mostly on black masculinity, but I am struck by how universal a lot of the core concepts of masculinity is across various culture. I notice the need for men to be an alpha male, as one gentleman put it, across various groups.
Keeping the non corny non finger wagging vibe. noice
Gonzo journalism.
Really enjoyed this, refreshing perspective and style. Enjoyed the flow of the Interviews, felt like a real conversation rather than a structured question and answer that gave each persons view more breathing room. I'm binging 👏
Iman is a great example of what journalists should be.
One of the last true journalists left
Great journalist and journalism, they all talking from inside and i was getting same feeling how they are feeling.
I would definitely agree that masculinity is very hard to talk about. The thing is it needs to be talked about.
Excellent discussion....intimate topics. Great series.
Great series, hope for more episodes and more deep issues regarding masculinity!
It's not that deep. Masculinity like any identity statement is do what thou wilt.
Iman on point yet again. Great series, keeps getting better, big love to yuz.
I found the snippets from client interviews poignant. Thanks for the video.
I'm really glad they resonated. Very interesting guys and honest conversation.
Yeah. The young bloke who talked about his faith and being weak but strong was especially moving.
Timmy Red
Ya. That resonated w/ me
Timmy Red
Ya. That resonated w/ me
I’m loving these series 🙌🏾
From now I'll be looking for someone like Iman
I can't help but feel that this is a series about traditional masculinity in the modern world. Granted that is interesting and worth exploring but it would be great to see more on men who are operating outside of those traditional confines or men who have suffered as a result of those things. I understand that people are tired of hearing 'toxic masculinity' but perhaps this series could serve as an opportunity to illuminate the meaning of that term or to explore the structures in society that enforce those borders.
That's part of the discussion though, right? For all its benefits and drawbacks so many men are still operating on traditional masculinity. As much as men are aware of what that means, I suspect there are plenty of women out there who aren't aware or have a very slanted view of it.
That said, I also agree that it'd be nice to see more alternate views on masculinity. (One video on that subject that I will whole-heartedly endorse is: ua-cam.com/video/C4kuR1gyOeQ/v-deo.html )
@@vegigun Yeah I agree. But I think part of the problem is that while the media, especially vaguely left wing media, left wing people, people of the LGBTQ+ community and upper class people have seen an opening in how men are expected to behave, that has not penetrated to all areas of society.
I think there’s an overwhelming amount of that present in the media today. Heck, the newspaper that produces this series has published many articles talking about this. If you wish to find an article or program talking about the negative aspects of traditional masculinity, it won’t be difficult.
What we need is something championing traditional masculinity rather than demonizing it.
Excellent once again.
If the journalism didn't work out she can definitely become a shrink, she's amazing in getting people to open up and speak their mind.
The apologetic tone in which she said "I think it's fine to do two barber shops" was just adorable.
10:07 this dude has his head on right. Top lad!
Compared to who?
I can feel it in the way he talks and thinks. He gets something I don't.
This is a great episode. This series is so important, keep it up!
Thanks Andrew!
Awesome conversations with wonderful men, fabulous series.
Whats clear is that most people that talk here about toxic masculinity have no clue what it is, but as always these always seem to talk about really small subset of men and how they view this.
Very interesting vid. I liked the honesty of the guys you spoke to. It’s as if they all see strength as being masculine although what defines strength differs; being the alpha, protecting others, the strength to be open about feelings and the strength of having faith.
Interesting. Thanks.
I see how beautiful and masculine black men are no matter where they are or come from. A women from St. Louis, Mo 😘 to men all over the earth.
Woah did she just say she didn't wanna do identity politics. Are we sure this is a Guardian reporter!? :)
Jokes aside another interesting watch.
Thanks so much for this really fascinating series! Binge watched all of them a couple of days ago. Was psyched to see another one today!
I grew up in cities, but now live in a more rural/northern context. It would be really interesting to hear from men in rural communities, who are also (in a different way) an underrepresented group.
Great series! Find this conversation really insightful
Awsome we want more videos about this topic!!
When is the guardian going to do a series on TOXIC femininity the modern pseudo feminism that drives it?
A ray of light from the guardian. Have a word with Owen Jones will you.
Lots of inspiring voices here.
Great series, keep on going please.
Like, Comment and Subscribe so that we can! (You already commented but still :) )
5:35 Unwillingness of men to talk about their feelings is the text book definition of toxic masculinity
Our choice, women should stay out of this
Fantastic material. Thank you.
As a white guy from Scotland I didn’t get much from this one but I still found it interesting to see another bunch of men’s experiences. Mind you if I go on there and start talking boxing or a bunch of other stuff I bet in 5 mins nobody is seeing anyone’s colour right? I feel like this series is just scratched the surface and wish it was longer.
keep doing this amazing work Iman 👍
Another interesting one.Very charismatic barber!
This was a wonderful piece, fantastic, more please!
great journalism!
Imani thank you
This is fantastic
Really nice and interesting, as always with this series. Got kind of a superficial question though, and i ask this as i foreigner fascinated by the different speech patterns and motives in british culture, where's the hostess accent from?
her accent is from London
@Patrick Neve Amazing. Just the kind of thorough explanation i was looking for. Thank you.
@Patrick Neve hahahahaha I enjoyed this breakdown. I am notorious for switching my accent depending on who I am talking too - it's a bit of a running theme in the series...
@Patrick Neve yeah I grew up around a lot of different influences so it's second nature but always gets commented on!
Another great video 😊 thank you xx
What exactly is "traditional masculinity"? It means different things to different people. For sure it means the man goes out and works and provides, but does it also mean he needs a woman to do the shopping, cooking, washing, and ironing for him? I pride myself (admittedly as a single male living alone) that I don't depend on anyone to do household chores for me (and admittedly they don't always get done). And maybe I'm reacting against traditional Asian male and female roles...
On a different subject, I did like the customer saying "it's no excuse for not trying" being followed by "yes it is". I like these discussions!
But are we really protecting our women? I consider myself alpha however I feel we are letting women down... We are NOT seeing them as our sisters, mothers, partners. We are sexualizing and demonizing them constantly. Let's be real alphas and assist them, walk beside them, listen to them... As equals.
Paul Lozano: Great!
No need to protect women
The title is very very true!! 🤓
Great episode and it was brilliant to hear different takes on what is sen as masculinity :-) :-)
This was great!!!
I'm sure I just saw you in walking with your family (I won't say where just in case it was you)
In the last 3 years I have become a UFC fan and a Jordan Peterson follower so seeing you connect these things has really caught my attention. Love that you're exploring these areas but would like you to present some developed conclusions to discuss /ponder.
@Trouble Came Calling What's wrong with following someone's lectures and talks? Why is that 'cringe'? I thought people came here to exchange ideas and maybe gain some insight they didn't previously have.
I connect to so much about in this video as a son of a immigrant although I was born and my parents are from a completely different country
10:09 the only person that has made sense this whole series
I'm not strong, but I am. All at the same time. It's a wonderful paradox.
That it is.
New York is such a varied city with so many ethnicities that the response would be much more varied, that lets says asking men in Iowa,Kansas,Nebraska,Pennsylvania or Michigan ,where you really get into the circumcision belt .Even the response between New York City and Upstate New York would vary greatly
The barber shop owner seems to have a lot of wisdom on this subject.
He always does, life experience is super valuable.
Must be a barber shop owner thing.........
Beautiful. X
Traditional feminity is not a bad thing either.