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  • Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
  • Child Predators: Grooming & Pedophile Tactics
    During her 2013 Walk in My Shoes journey across the state, Lauren will be highlighting a different key aspect of child sexual abuse each week. We'll be releasing educational web videos based on each topic featuring experts, survivors and a convicted child molester - we'll be releasing a new video each week.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 97

  • @simonegoncalves2002
    @simonegoncalves2002 3 роки тому +72

    They also go after kids with special needs specially the non verbal ones. Watch out

    • @McQueen1217
      @McQueen1217 2 роки тому +3

      Yup and that's why I became a stay at home mom, the only ones that I trust with my kids besides my husband and parents are my aunt who has experience with special needs children, my M-I-L, and a few other people.

    • @joyisvegan
      @joyisvegan 2 роки тому +2

      Yep!

  • @2020Bookworm
    @2020Bookworm Рік тому +18

    Sometimes strangers are safer than the people you know, or thing that you know.

    • @GordainedG
      @GordainedG 3 місяці тому

      Strangers are safer

  • @insengunoiupda
    @insengunoiupda 3 роки тому +23

    Parents should not for a second neglect their child

  • @kaylaschroeder1
    @kaylaschroeder1 Рік тому +6

    We need Good, Kind, Safe and Strong FATHERS and MOTHERS in this world.

  • @monicahijatobar9616
    @monicahijatobar9616 2 роки тому +22

    My husband and myself go for breakfast out to the same coffee shop every day with our 3 year old.
    Since 3 weeks an old man started to casually give her a flower from the garden once in a while and it develop to everyday bringing her something, each time more elaborated. He comes, drop his present and goes very casually...he doesn't even talk to her. Drops the little thing and goes to his table.
    Today we test to ask him not to give her things every day, and he tried to fight it... casually saying that yesterday was Sunday and and he doesn't see her on Sundays!!!
    The comment itself scared us!! What it look something like inocent now sounded more and more strange....so we will cut him completely, just in case ..

    • @johnatkinson74
      @johnatkinson74 Рік тому +2

      Why have you let it go on for so long?

    • @monicahijatobar9616
      @monicahijatobar9616 Рік тому +2

      @@johnatkinson74 it takes some time to join the dots...it was very subtle...the good news is that he doesn't even come anymore since months...

    • @nataliegillmore7436
      @nataliegillmore7436 Рік тому +4

      On summer I went for a swim, a little girl asked if she can borrow my inner tube, I told her no because she shouldn't borrow things from strangers.

  • @libertasinveritas3198
    @libertasinveritas3198 4 роки тому +50

    We need to protect our children by building a trusting relationship wuth them. If they know they can tell us everything, it decreases the likelihood of them becoming victims.

    • @aedincorpe1060
      @aedincorpe1060 4 роки тому +3

      That trust can be the biggest blindfold for parents, because you think you can trust your child back and pedos know it, and use very evil ways to use that against them. I have been labeled a vigilante in California for hunting these sick people, and exposing them, they even blackmail familys that find out into silence, or threaten the child, so yeah... Teach your child more than trust; be vigilant over what people can find out about you, and your children, and teach them not to be too open, online, with a nieghbor, or even family that fit the common M.O.

    • @libertasinveritas3198
      @libertasinveritas3198 4 роки тому +3

      @@aedincorpe1060 There is no "being too open". I don't do anything I would be ashamed about and that is what I'm teaching my children. Don't ever do something you would be ashamed to confess.

    • @aedincorpe1060
      @aedincorpe1060 4 роки тому

      @@libertasinveritas3198 From what you said, I believe you are on point; a very strong, wise, and intelligent Momma 🐻! I hope you didnt think I was challanging any notion you have, just expanding on it so anyone who may not be so equipped doesnt find themselves betrayed by trust. For example, recently I caught a friends 15 y/o hanging out with a nieghbor without her fathers knowledge, because she knew he trusted her to comply with his rules when he was away. Well turned out that nieghbor who even won over his trust too, turned out to be a Sex offender who never reported his address change from another state.

  • @nareeeely
    @nareeeely 2 роки тому +11

    If a grown man wants to spend time with your child to "have fun and play" .. Get that perv out of your life. I had to break my uncle off, signs were too much, 60 year old man has no reason to play wrestling with a 2 year old child, let alone showing up to my house just to spend time with my son. Not on my watch. I straight told him to stay away from my home and my children. He got offended, but im not taking any chances buddy.

  • @donnasanchez5484
    @donnasanchez5484 2 роки тому +6

    My grandparents home became a play ground for my uncle because there was always my cousin's more girls than boys. I was told when I was 22yrs old that it was too late to do anything about it.

  • @trcy1977
    @trcy1977 5 років тому +26

    A purge needs to occur, i.e., the cycle needs to end. These people are everywhere. They give me anxiety.

  • @esel8270
    @esel8270 6 років тому +22

    Good video. Makes me upset and sick, and angry. I want to help fighting this. I must.
    I promise.

    • @redbutthole1317
      @redbutthole1317 3 роки тому

      What have you done to keep your promise? It's been 3 years have you had 3-4 fights or more? Do not stop until you fight every pedophile in your country! I believe in your promise and I believe in you!

  • @ag5amanda
    @ag5amanda Рік тому +2

    I know a guy who got close to one of his students after she had a breakdown, he gave her his number and told her she can reach out to him whenever she needs to talk to someone. The 13 yr old girl did reach out and they became “friends” eventually he groomed by buying her stuff, and they both had a 2 month “relationship”. Thankfully her classmates noticed the weird interactions and they reported it to the school authorities. That guy is free on bail but I know justice will be serve for all involved. He’ll go jail soon I hope and pay for all he did.

  • @katyhardy1434
    @katyhardy1434 3 роки тому +5

    I love the work of Lauren Book! She's a hero!

  • @dianerose7631
    @dianerose7631 5 років тому +8

    I am a woman. Going to change facts slightly to protect my identity.
    I was groomed by a teacher in the 90s. Age 14. He took me outside the classroom for silly errands with him at least once. And so much more. He threatened to use corporal punishment on me and it’s illegal in my state. Looking back I know it was about power control and sex. I told him no and you’re not allowed. Because he knew I would say something maybe he didn’t go further. He acually asked me if I would like it. He has a special nickname for me even when I told him to stop. He paid me all he attention groomed victims get. He also showed me a photo of a former female student he said is one of his old favorites (another sign of a pedophile). I believe I was groomed and luckily when he saw I would fight the first big contact he stopped a little. I’m scared even now to come out because he is still important part of community and more than a teacher

    • @Harlem55
      @Harlem55 4 роки тому

      Quit lying.

    • @annasamuel9422
      @annasamuel9422 4 роки тому

      John Doe rude

    • @Harlem55
      @Harlem55 4 роки тому

      @@annasamuel9422 Its called telling it how it is.

  • @asbaran
    @asbaran 6 років тому +17

    This video is enlightening but the idea of children being violated like that makes me want to vomit.

    • @Harlem55
      @Harlem55 4 роки тому

      This video is entirely B.S.

    • @unclemurphy3552
      @unclemurphy3552 4 роки тому

      @@Harlem55 how???

    • @Harlem55
      @Harlem55 4 роки тому +1

      @@unclemurphy3552 Because this video attempts to correlate sociopathy and psychopathy with pedophilia which is a theory the more recent research explicitly disproves. While a pedophile CAN be a psychopath or sociopath (e.g. Westley Dodd) the fact remains that the majority of pedophiles aren't particularly dangerous on that magnitude. Rather this video is nothing more than fear mongering and presupposes a harm which does not concretely exist in the real world.

    • @unclemurphy3552
      @unclemurphy3552 4 роки тому +2

      @@Harlem55 I agree with you they ain't all monsters

    • @sarasawyer2816
      @sarasawyer2816 2 роки тому

      @@Harlem55 sus

  • @DarkerSideOfDawn
    @DarkerSideOfDawn 2 роки тому +2

    Heart breaking

  • @regplasma7906
    @regplasma7906 10 місяців тому +2

    2 : 13 Erika's got the biggest ears i've ever seen.

  • @gloomyvibrations
    @gloomyvibrations 3 роки тому +3

    This can help kids to know if there getting groomed and the parents to know but this video might help a predator groom children so in my opinion this video is a double edged sword

  • @auroresboreales8984
    @auroresboreales8984 5 років тому +6

    Purge

  • @drewmckinney7843
    @drewmckinney7843 4 роки тому +4

    Scum bag groomers must be destroyed, no matter their technological expertise

  • @loop6913
    @loop6913 3 роки тому +1

    JONNY, JONNY, YOU DON'T HAVE TO DO THIS

  • @robertelee675
    @robertelee675 2 роки тому

    Poor kids have a higher percent of being touched so please watch for signs depression,being scared of someone,not wanting to leave the bedroom,not letting adults see the childs cell phone..............please please please GO THROUGH YOUR CHILDS PHONE PICTURES VIDEOS AND ALL APPS

  • @hughjass8383
    @hughjass8383 6 років тому +6

    Roman Polanski and Jared Fogle are taking notes on this video

    • @Harlem55
      @Harlem55 4 роки тому

      um... No, they're not. Because this video is total B.S.

  • @angelabarff1548
    @angelabarff1548 5 років тому +1

    ALL THANKS TO HUMBOLDT COUNTY HE IS STILL GETTING AWAY WITH IT : SHAME ON ALL OF YOU !!! YOUR DISGUSTING. MAY GOD GET JUSTICE & VENGEANCE FOR MY DAUGHTERS.

  • @university-666
    @university-666 4 роки тому +16

    Joe Biden

  • @JessT-vg7ib
    @JessT-vg7ib 8 місяців тому

    resistance is futile

  • @ark198989
    @ark198989 Рік тому +1

    LORD JESUS COME!!! 🥲🙏🌹

  • @CottonBoxer
    @CottonBoxer 4 роки тому +1

    i'm looking for information on how to help catch child predators and human traffickers

    • @Harlem55
      @Harlem55 4 роки тому

      look at yourself, because you are one.

    • @angelinarodriguez006
      @angelinarodriguez006 2 роки тому +1

      @@Harlem55 or YOU are

    • @Harlem55
      @Harlem55 2 роки тому

      @@angelinarodriguez006 Yeah sure, what the fuck ever I'm gonna make like Dahmer and eat my freshly killed chicken dinner now. (was up in the KFC chicken 🍗 coup this morning) You're welcome to join if you like, asshole. Or are you scared of KFC because Gacy owned one? FUCKING AS IF. Maybe we should all post Gacy photos all over the doors of the KFC as we order bucket after bucket like the chicken raping KFC bucket fucking assholes that we have certain other perjorative terms for. STOP FUCKING CHICKENS. That shit will give you an infection.

    • @xinpingdonohoe3978
      @xinpingdonohoe3978 2 роки тому

      ​@@angelinarodriguez006 but it could also be *YOU*

    • @brentmathie3271
      @brentmathie3271 Рік тому

      @@xinpingdonohoe3978
      Clown 🤡

  • @meghanfox4491
    @meghanfox4491 2 роки тому

    Right birdman

  • @hmmfat
    @hmmfat Рік тому

    Their tactics are being nice to the family and offering brownies? Yeah thanks, because we were worried you were going to be vague.Click bait.

  • @ndjesuslives
    @ndjesuslives 2 роки тому +1

    Jesus is coming soon REPENT and accept Jesus TODAY

  • @BrawnyBuddha
    @BrawnyBuddha 5 років тому

    I'm thinking of a name and it rhymes with 'brake.'

  • @Harlem55
    @Harlem55 4 роки тому +4

    I would disagree with this- because IF this is true then every parent or relative is guilty of so-called "groming" behavior. Furthermore, given that much of pedophilia occurs within the nuclear family, much of this is inapplicable. Rather, this concept of "grooming" may be innocuous or it may not depending on the specific circumstances.

    • @jworld8691
      @jworld8691 2 роки тому

      Ha

    • @sarasawyer2816
      @sarasawyer2816 2 роки тому +2

      sus

    • @johnlucas6413
      @johnlucas6413 2 роки тому +1

      No kidding right. Dad's don't spend time with your daughter's....

    • @Harlem55
      @Harlem55 Рік тому

      @john goskowicz I really wish people like you would pass abnormal psych 102 as to be able to realize how profoundly ignorant the OP's position really is. And Im sure that the idea of telling it exactly how it is displeases you and others due to being uncomfortable with the subject matter, but that in no way justifies your accusations as being anything other than a cheap and ill-advised ad hominem attack, which only works to further demonstrate the weakness and/or patent falsity of your own argument.
      The problem for the OPs argument is that if we take the argument that grooming is a distinct pathology, then by import of definition of what the pathology of the disorder is in scientific terms (e.g. the entire line of all biological and psychological processes which directly or indirectly result in, or which function as a discrete testable marker said to be a risk factor of, a diagnosible condition having a discrete set of symptoms said to define the disorder)
      We must then be able to distinguish it in every respect from all similar states which we agree to be nonpathological.
      This is to say that for grooming to be pathological we must distingish its elements to completely opperate distinctly differently from the construct of dating behavior which is not an independent pathology, such that we can objectively state that A in no way, shape, or form, overlaps B unless the overlap is at least three steps removed from each other in the analysis.
      In turn, that means we cannot argue that because grooming is accessory to pedophila such that grooming is then per se pathological because the functional behavior is identical for all scientific purposes to what we call dating in the adult context apart from the difference of the objective of the intention - which is either an adult or a child. This is to say that It is the objective intention (e.g. adult vs. Child) which constitutes the pathology, not the methodology of obtaining it unless the methodology is only seen in relation to the disorder and is seen absolutely nowhere else.
      So unless you can identify how the behaviors themselves are distinctly different such that we cannot correctly call it dating behavior apart from the context of a child, we cannot then call grooming - which has no detailed objective standardized definition as to be able to systematically diagnose it - a pathology, because ends vs. means are seperate, distinct, and independent inquiries.
      Therefore, please kindly fuck off.

  • @arab6226
    @arab6226 2 роки тому +1

    Omg this is exactly what joe Biden does

    • @toromontana8290
      @toromontana8290 2 роки тому +1

      Pretty much impossible because this is a long process and Sleepy Joe forgets what he did the day before.