These boys are a handful. Their mom has infinite patience and compassion. Her calm and steady approach to parenting is very impressive. Crisis averted!!
@@Fraser-vi4ux I don't know about that. Its true that some people are narcissistic but some people just like to share their experiences on the Internet because they find it fun and enjoyable.
Great mom! Spending this time to instruct and guide is absolutely worth it in years to come. Moms please note: As the mother of adult children, teacher of preschoolers, English tutor to middle and high schoolers, church director of kids’ ministry, parenting educator, at-risk youth mentor….please, please have your children say, “I’m sorry” and not just “Sorry.” It makes a difference. For some reason this trend started somewhere in the 1990’s, early 2000’s. Prefacing the statement with “I’m” personalizes it and causes one to assume actual ownership of it, whereas “Sorry” is just a word, or even just an observation.
Well done Mom! Teaching empathy is so important at this age. Many people just make their child say sorry but that is just a word, it doesn't teach them anything.
even the big brother seems to be relieved and so happy to give some love instead of anger. and the small brother could take it because there are no deep issues between them - just some spontaneous anger, no deep hatred or such. this can be healed well. and it is such a great job to lead them to love again.
I'm teaching my 4-year-old, if you cause a problem, you must fix it. Whether it is spilling and cleaning something up or running over her little brother and going back to apologize and help him up. As adults, all of our actions have consequences or rewards, so we can never teach them too early. And when she doesn't want to, I tell her it doesn't always feel good to do right, but it is still right. We must instill this in our children, right is always right, wrong is never right. Kindness is a rule in our home, carelessness is not ok, accidents must be fixed, bad behavior must change. When you lead by example, they will automatically follow. Even if it takes times. We parents need more patience....
I am estranged from my brother. The way this wonderful mom is able to have the young siblings be reconciled is truly uplifting, and makes me weep. The wise parents of these boys are planting that which will bear good fruit in the lives of their future adult sons. God bless this family.
Toddlers don't know what sorry means and they haven't grown a conscience yet, so there is no point in forcing a sorry on them this young... But any age knows what consequences feel like, so that's a message that always hits clear and straight to the heart! And i'm not condoning physical punishment nor even spanking i'm saying take away what they like and put them to bed early or without food i'm saying they get the message fast and their behavior will correct as they will want what is lost back that they desire and need in their life... Consequences are consequences for a reason and a part of life. So don't deny your children the real lessons or life will teach those lessons but at a far higher price!
i pray my boys have this loving relationship my 2yo is barely coming around to his 6month old brother by showing him his toys or just being closer to him. one time my 6month old was sneezing and my 2yo was in the same room as him n my 2yo didnt kno his brother sneezes a min of 5times so it kinda scared him n he spun around n looked at his brother like u ok???? n then gave him his recycling-pick up truck n then showed him how his fast cars wheels spin. they may b mean to one another but they sure do love one another
I absolutely love her examples of parenting. They have taught me a lot.❤ However, I do wonder what it's like for the little kids to be filmed when they are vunerable and possibly embarrassed. Just something I think about ....
Children raised this way grow to need explanations and justification for little things. Children need to find our solutions on their own, sometimes too.
Shouldn't they? If you can't explain why it needs to be done, why do I need to do it? I think this method of parenting teaches kids to ask questions. And what's wrong with asking questions?
That's a freaking toddler and his brother is probably not even older than 5 at most. They can sort out their own problems when they're older. And siblings should learn to admit their mistakes.
It breeds a world of kids who say “sorry” to get out of something rather than actually feeling remorseful for what they’ve done. I see it every day. If you’re going to force a child to say sorry, ask them what they’re saying sorry for. Guarantee half of them won’t have clue.
The understanding can come later, just because they don't understand right now in this very moment, as they grow it will begin to click more. How else are you supposed to teach your kid the importance? Almost anything a child does, they don't understand the reason for it since they are just mimicking the things around them.
I’m a preschool teacher and the pedagogy of this generation of teachers is to not encourage children of this age to say “I’m sorry.” I disagree. For 30 years, I’ve encouraged the practice of saying “I’m sorry” and bringing the aggrieved child and the child who did the hurting together. This is important in helping to build a civil society.
She'd teaching these little dudes how to communicate which is hood. But, mom trust me 3 boys ARE going to scrap, fight and tussle together, like a litter of puppies. As they grow ot gets more aggressive too. Try to direct them into sports or gymnastics as an outlet for their energy!!
"Forcing a child to say sorry doesn't convey true empathy". Excellent that you get this seeing as your methods in some videos are less than ideal. So good on you for this one!
Yes "sorry brother" said the older brother, then younger brother pushing him out of the way, to continue walking as a winner 🤦🏼♀️ poor Hudson, he will be so resentful to see that Everytime his younger brother cry ,Hudson has to perform something for mum. Worst for the younger one that will present 0 resilience in life . He should probably be given up the "binky" anyway , too babyish for a toddler.
Practicing is not forcing....so what do you do when they won't say it? I feel like I have been modeling apologies to my twins since forever. I apologize to them if I accidentally bump them, I model them apologizing to each other. They're 2.5, and still nothing. No thank yous, no sorrys.
As a therapist and a parent, I'm asking you to please stop this. Your children are crying and you are filming them. If you want to educate others on parenting techniques that work for you, you could reenact this scenario. You could discuss it after the fact. You could recommend books, podcasts or educational videos. You could be present for them in the moments they are upset. At the very least you could blur their faces. But now all these videos of them having big feelings are online forever, connected to their names. When they are in middle school, any of their friends or bullies will be able to see this. Any random adult can watch them grow up, see their private moments, knows their names, watches them give each other affection and feels entitled to information about them..... gentle parenting is about treating your children with respect and autonomy, not violating their privacy and monetizing them.
@@johnmcginley5862 this therapist is also a mom and would never pull out a camera when my children are crying. You realize she had to set that up right? Every time she posts videos of her kids crying she had to stop and setup a camera. Yeah she's really focused on mothering.... think twice about the pictures people present on social media. There's no excuse for violating your children's privacy this way.
@@hkandm4s23 She has a husband and older kids. In all those "in situation" videos, it is very clear that the camera is being handheld by someone. It is shaky and sometimes it moves closer or farther. So she's not stopping to film herself, someone else is doing it while she is focusing on parenting.
This is interesting because it's a case of becoming authentically empathetic, as opposed to mental-health-symptom empathetic. A person can be really really well-intentioned, & intentionally selfless all the time, but because of how they were brought up, they actually lack empathy
I need some advice please, my toddler it's having big emotions, crying all the time, doing bad behavior and she doesn't listen even when I give her a time out
It seems this older brother is constantly messing with his younger brother who is crying in every video. More at play here than meets the eye. Taking your brother’s binky away is recreational meanness.
Children need to let minor things go by without so much fuss. Always redirecting and stopping to evaluate, makes them to feel judge constantly. Besides the “victim” fells exactly that!! Someone runs to comfort him. Be careful! He needs to be strong. I do not agree with these methods
She's a treasure, grooming such a great breed of men in this generation❤
Yeah. It's called mind control...
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No it’s called manners!! Something lacking in today’s society.
Why do you think that way?
“Practicing is not forcing”, yes girl! 👍🏻
you do this now, so that when they are old, they will not depart from it
I appreciate how you walk them through each step rather than just telling them and expecting them to understand and know what to do.
No anger/ no yelling/ no fear of mistakes. Beautiful parenting
When he hugged and kissed him.., immediately heart melted ❤🥰
Fr 😢 😭
Yes, especially when the younger one continues to walk and push him out of the way, without having to apologize 🤦🏼♀️
These boys are a handful. Their mom has infinite patience and compassion. Her calm and steady approach to parenting is very impressive. Crisis averted!!
Trust me i've been around toddlers... They are lil menaces! I'll never have children keep my sanity and life intact........
They are little darlings. Good mommy❤
Beautiful job mom!Hope you all had a great day! Love your shorts.
It so important for kids to learn what's meant by saying "sorry". ❤
Yes exactly 💯
Yeah clearly this child understands the meaning of sorry and is not just repeating the word
Only a narcissist would post there kids all over the place looking for a your great 😢
@@Fraser-vi4ux I don't know about that. Its true that some people are narcissistic but some people just like to share their experiences on the Internet because they find it fun and enjoyable.
@@deborah.q poor kids then
Great mom! Spending this time to instruct and guide is absolutely worth it in years to come. Moms please note: As the mother of adult children, teacher of preschoolers, English tutor to middle and high schoolers, church director of kids’ ministry, parenting educator, at-risk youth mentor….please, please have your children say, “I’m sorry” and not just “Sorry.” It makes a difference. For some reason this trend started somewhere in the 1990’s, early 2000’s. Prefacing the statement with “I’m” personalizes it and causes one to assume actual ownership of it, whereas “Sorry” is just a word, or even just an observation.
That's the biggest hearted mom on UA-cam the children are great its mom that will make you cry ❤
When they hug and kiss.. what a sweet moment 💞👶
She’s the best parent and mom ever
❤yes yes Amen ❤
Best best & Sweetest hug ever♥️♥️♥️
Well done Mom! Teaching empathy is so important at this age. Many people just make their child say sorry but that is just a word, it doesn't teach them anything.
Good point.
even the big brother seems to be relieved and so happy to give some love instead of anger. and the small brother could take it because there are no deep issues between them - just some spontaneous anger, no deep hatred or such. this can be healed well. and it is such a great job to lead them to love again.
I'm teaching my 4-year-old, if you cause a problem, you must fix it. Whether it is spilling and cleaning something up or running over her little brother and going back to apologize and help him up. As adults, all of our actions have consequences or rewards, so we can never teach them too early. And when she doesn't want to, I tell her it doesn't always feel good to do right, but it is still right. We must instill this in our children, right is always right, wrong is never right. Kindness is a rule in our home, carelessness is not ok, accidents must be fixed, bad behavior must change. When you lead by example, they will automatically follow. Even if it takes times. We parents need more patience....
I do this with my two daughters 1 and 3, it’s almost like watching them🥲
I am estranged from my brother. The way this wonderful mom is able to have the young siblings be reconciled is truly uplifting, and makes me weep. The wise parents of these boys are planting that which will bear good fruit in the lives of their future adult sons. God bless this family.
Thank you SO MUCH for your woderful and lifechanging advice!
Omg they are the cutest 🥹
سبحان الله العظيم ❤
سبحان ارحم الراحمين ❤
سبحان الخالق ❤
سبحان المصور ❤
سبحان الهادي ❤
we will bring a great generation of humans in this world with that kind of parenting ❤
Good mom❤❤❤❤❤😊
Adorable little ones and mom's calming lessons❤
I'm glad that you emphasized that it wasn't a nice thing for him to do.
Such wonderful parenting ❤
So important! ❤ Great parenting! Empathy is crucial.
This boys are in good hands 😊
Absolutely...as if a child is just going to one day say sorry...it does need to be felt of course but also needs to be taught first!
Toddlers don't know what sorry means and they haven't grown a conscience yet, so there is no point in forcing a sorry on them this young... But any age knows what consequences feel like, so that's a message that always hits clear and straight to the heart! And i'm not condoning physical punishment nor even spanking i'm saying take away what they like and put them to bed early or without food i'm saying they get the message fast and their behavior will correct as they will want what is lost back that they desire and need in their life... Consequences are consequences for a reason and a part of life. So don't deny your children the real lessons or life will teach those lessons but at a far higher price!
You don't teach someone empathy... It's just something they either have or they don't... You're born with it, you can't teach it...
The kiss and hug is so precious 🥺
You're a great mom to be honest ✨
So cute when older brother says he took his binky, the baby realizes it and puts his finger by his mouth. 😍 she has adorable kids.
Omg! So stinkin' CUTE! Their lil piggies, aw! ❤❤❤
oohhh , Sweet boys ( Kuya Hudson and River ) 💚
You are so good mom your boys will be so thankfull when they grow up
I love this. I wish my parents taught this conflict resolution to my btothers and I. ❤️
Good Mommy!!!!❤❤❤❤ Big brother will be sharing to his little brother what Mommy taught him❤❤❤❤
i pray my boys have this loving relationship my 2yo is barely coming around to his 6month old brother by showing him his toys or just being closer to him. one time my 6month old was sneezing and my 2yo was in the same room as him n my 2yo didnt kno his brother sneezes a min of 5times so it kinda scared him n he spun around n looked at his brother like u ok???? n then gave him his recycling-pick up truck n then showed him how his fast cars wheels spin. they may b mean to one another but they sure do love one another
Parabéns mamãe. Suas atitudes são realmente maravilhosas. São marcantes na vida adulta dos seus filhos. Que Deus os abençoe. Beijos do🇧🇷
May I add my vote for her as mother of the year? What a smart lady she is!!😅😅
Aww adorable baby brothers ❤may Allah bless them
VERY VERY WELL DONE MOMMY👌❤️EXCELLENT LESSON TO KIDS❤️APOLOGIZING TO MAKE AMENDS IS THE RIGHT WAY TO BUILD LASTING RELATIONS❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Much freindlier voice from mom today resulting in good outcome😊🎉🎉🎉
oh my God they are so sweet
I learn so much with your videos
Beautiful family 💙❤️
Teaching children to say sorry when appropriate is critical. And channel the guilt they feel with positive reinforcement after. Great parenting.
You are so lucky to have kids!! It’s the most amazing job a women can do!
I absolutely love her examples of parenting. They have taught me a lot.❤ However, I do wonder what it's like for the little kids to be filmed when they are vunerable and possibly embarrassed. Just something I think about ....
When I was little I'd forget to say thank you,my mom would tell me to say thanks When I get something or they help me and ect.
How can you be a good mom and you are so calm and tried everythime
So adorable 🥰
The youger Bro Is an angel ❤good sweet
Your kids are soo cute
Great job mom
Children raised this way grow to need explanations and justification for little things.
Children need to find our solutions on their own, sometimes too.
Shouldn't they? If you can't explain why it needs to be done, why do I need to do it? I think this method of parenting teaches kids to ask questions. And what's wrong with asking questions?
that is so untrue
That's a freaking toddler and his brother is probably not even older than 5 at most. They can sort out their own problems when they're older. And siblings should learn to admit their mistakes.
He is teaching his🥰brother to be a big boy, he don't need his binky. But that was still sweet listening to mom.
Sorry buddy! 😊❤❤❤
Maybe Hudson realized that his brother is way too old for a binkey and did what mom should have!! 🤷🏻♀️😂
Good Mum ❤
It’s amazing how you have the camera going at the right moment for all of these Incidents.
Good job, Mom!❤
It breeds a world of kids who say “sorry” to get out of something rather than actually feeling remorseful for what they’ve done. I see it every day. If you’re going to force a child to say sorry, ask them what they’re saying sorry for. Guarantee half of them won’t have clue.
The understanding can come later, just because they don't understand right now in this very moment, as they grow it will begin to click more. How else are you supposed to teach your kid the importance? Almost anything a child does, they don't understand the reason for it since they are just mimicking the things around them.
Proper parenting 👏 👌
I’m a preschool teacher and the pedagogy of this generation of teachers is to not encourage children of this age to say “I’m sorry.” I disagree. For 30 years, I’ve encouraged the practice of saying “I’m sorry” and bringing the aggrieved child and the child who did the hurting together. This is important in helping to build a civil society.
The little forehead kiss ahh😭😭😭 I'm melting 🥺♥️
She'd teaching these little dudes how to communicate which is hood. But, mom trust me 3 boys ARE going to scrap, fight and tussle together, like a litter of puppies. As they grow ot gets more aggressive too. Try to direct them into sports or gymnastics as an outlet for their energy!!
"Forcing a child to say sorry doesn't convey true empathy". Excellent that you get this seeing as your methods in some videos are less than ideal. So good on you for this one!
Yes "sorry brother" said the older brother, then younger brother pushing him out of the way, to continue walking as a winner 🤦🏼♀️ poor Hudson, he will be so resentful to see that Everytime his younger brother cry ,Hudson has to perform something for mum. Worst for the younger one that will present 0 resilience in life . He should probably be given up the "binky" anyway , too babyish for a toddler.
When I was at this age I was never treated like this instead I used to jump in ponds with my friends
The binkie should be left in the crib when baby starts to crawl, pull up, is also learning sounds and words at this time
You are a supercool Mom
Two words Good Mum
Practicing is not forcing....so what do you do when they won't say it? I feel like I have been modeling apologies to my twins since forever. I apologize to them if I accidentally bump them, I model them apologizing to each other. They're 2.5, and still nothing. No thank yous, no sorrys.
As a therapist and a parent, I'm asking you to please stop this. Your children are crying and you are filming them. If you want to educate others on parenting techniques that work for you, you could reenact this scenario. You could discuss it after the fact. You could recommend books, podcasts or educational videos. You could be present for them in the moments they are upset. At the very least you could blur their faces. But now all these videos of them having big feelings are online forever, connected to their names. When they are in middle school, any of their friends or bullies will be able to see this. Any random adult can watch them grow up, see their private moments, knows their names, watches them give each other affection and feels entitled to information about them..... gentle parenting is about treating your children with respect and autonomy, not violating their privacy and monetizing them.
I hope to Gid you completely ignore the complete bozo calling himself a therapist.
You've got the mom thing down perfectly.
@@johnmcginley5862 this therapist is also a mom and would never pull out a camera when my children are crying. You realize she had to set that up right? Every time she posts videos of her kids crying she had to stop and setup a camera. Yeah she's really focused on mothering.... think twice about the pictures people present on social media. There's no excuse for violating your children's privacy this way.
@@hkandm4s23 She has a husband and older kids. In all those "in situation" videos, it is very clear that the camera is being handheld by someone. It is shaky and sometimes it moves closer or farther. So she's not stopping to film herself, someone else is doing it while she is focusing on parenting.
Sadly mom won’t listen to you even though you are right as she only cares about views, likes and money
@@tinygold772 I know, but perhaps my comment will cause her followers to think twice about how creepy it is to cheer on this exploitative behavior.
It is not easy to handle 7 kids nicely 🧿
So sweet
The youngest one got his pay back by pinching big brother when walking away😂.
Stop sharenting!
This is interesting because it's a case of becoming authentically empathetic, as opposed to mental-health-symptom empathetic. A person can be really really well-intentioned, & intentionally selfless all the time, but because of how they were brought up, they actually lack empathy
Nah I love how the baby pushes him away after😂
Yeah, I laughed re-watching it as well 🤣🤣
I need some advice please, my toddler it's having big emotions, crying all the time, doing bad behavior and she doesn't listen even when I give her a time out
this isn’t to be rude i promise but have you tried behavioral health? maybe there’s something going on
ex: adhd
How do you give her a time-out? I'm asking because many parents do it wrong.
Alll good boys..❤❤
so cute
But he actually did a good thing by taking the binky away 😂😂
It seems this older brother is constantly messing with his younger brother who is crying in every video. More at play here than meets the eye. Taking your brother’s binky away is recreational meanness.
Aw♥️♥️♥️
Children need to let minor things go by without so much fuss.
Always redirecting and stopping to evaluate, makes them to feel judge constantly.
Besides the “victim” fells exactly that!! Someone runs to comfort him.
Be careful! He needs to be strong.
I do not agree with these methods
Maybe he's trying to help him comunícate without the binky
that line of forcing my child to say sorry is questionable
Did you took his toy Away
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Something reminds me of the mom of that just went to jail for abuse
But you did force him to say “sorry”. You told him to say it.
I mean you shouldn't keep giving him it so he can get used to having it give him a iced wash cloth instead
What do you do when you don't have the patience to walk through these emotions with them?
Either don't have kids or take anger management classes
Is this the new eight passengers?
This is so creepy. She just must stop putting these kids out there. They don't need a reality show in their home!