@@hejalll I agree you. I got my Girlfriend at the age of 15, I bought a little house by myself and repaired all inside and outside, we lived there 5 years, now i sold it and we bought a bigger house what we are right now repairing and last week we married. It is the best way we could possibly gone. I think when you have something like "i have no time for you" in your head you maybe get rich but not happy.
Imagine spending a weekend visiting your parents who miss you a bunch. And as you leave you tell them “thanks for wasting my time. Hope you’re comfortable!”
He didn’t particularly mention family though. And yeah if your family issues are holding you back from achieving success, you can care about them a little less and that’s okay I guess?
Easier said then done, its your family for fucks sake, I want to go off and live life but cant because my family doesnt want it and when I call out that they dont wish for me to be happy they just tell me they love me
@@AyushYadav-ot4ew nope Nope Nope Nope Nope I joke of course. Not in need of help other than my insomnia. I thank you for the kind words though stranger and hope all is well.
This is so true. My partner is like that. Been with her since 15 tho and we are 37 now. One kid together and she ended up in a wheelchair years back. Even before she was chair bound, she was lazy and unorganized. Unnoticeable until we moved into our own house together. I should have went separate ways then but I didn't because I care for her. I still love her. Our goals and ambitions are completely different. I do EVERYTHING, phone calls, working, cleaning, getting our daughter to school, fixing the house, driving ect. Like... Literally everything and especially now that she's in the chair I even carry her to and from the bathroom and help her inside the bathroom. I can't bring myself to leaving her tho as I know her family won't be bothered to take care of her. We had 1 daughter together who is 12 now. I told myself I don't mind being absolutely miserable every day just to make sure my daughter grows up in a 2 parent household and I can deal with it til she's off on her own. However it's easier said than done.
She’s in a chair you’d be a god awful person to have been with her before and then left because she’s handicapped. I don’t know if you care for her or you’ve been doing it so long your numb to it all.
@@vintageoriginallegit I would never leave her BECAUSE she's in the chair now. I wouldn't be able to live with myself because I know her fam would never be there for her. It wouldn't be BECAUSE she's in the chair. It would be everything else and now the extra that goes along with our situation just makes it even more stressful. Yes I do take care of her. She's had advanced RA since she was 20 but only recently past almost 2 years has she been chair bound. I do everything, including helping with her "lady time" and after she's done using the bathroom I have to "clean" her. It's just stressful brother, I've thought about splitting up for probably 10 years or more but she's the mother of my kid so I wouldn't leave her just for that reason. Now she's in the chair I def can't. Still doesn't make it any less stressful. Going to work and coming home every 3 hours to make sure she can use bathroom and eat and all that. Picking up kid from school, coming home helping with homework and cooking dinner then laundry and chores going to bed at 1-2am back up at 530 repeat cycle. It's burning me out
My family has wasted so much of their time caring for me and helping me get through some hard years so I don’t truly believe what this guy is saying. Now that I’ve grown up I just wish more than anything I could pay them back..
I understand your version, but unfortunately not all of us have parents that suport us unconditionaly, that help us. Some people relate to this some don t. And he s ideea is not only parents, is also boy/girlfriend best friends, brothers.
Successfull people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life..
Wohooo. Really thank you so much. Finally universe started helping me again. Thank you guys i needed to hear this. I loved a toxic friend. She badly affected my mental health and now i hope she won't disturb me anymore. I'm good, I've moved on. She's not my concern anymore. This man is saying sooo right.
no it may not always turn out good but you need to be spending time with your loved ones you call it wasting it until they are not there anymore and the time you had is all thats left and the memory of it
He is right. This way my spouse wasted 20 years of my life. I was gifted, was studying to be a designer..was very very intelligent but all I did with those gifts is throw away because he said so, he said he will make me happy keep me safe. He did exactly the opposite. Today I stay 1700 kms away from him with my daughter.
Yes friend! Push away people that love and care about you! Focus on yourself and your ego for material pleasures! It wi ll only be their fault if after a few years of being a hustle slave you ll end up without these people and your goals are still in "progress"
You don't even realise that people who look so sweet and innocent are the same people who are selfish and sympathy seeker. And they are actually putting themself first all the time!!!!
Excellent, excellent, excellent...I couldn't have come up with these words to describe exactly what truly happens, even with the people who are closest to u and that u love the most!
How can spending some moments with someone you love is a waste of time?? You should check your priorities in life… once they’ll be gone you’ll regret it
I hate to say this. But. I had to dump, or let go of my family to move forward. Start thinking about my self, I had to become selfish. Walk away from the shit talking, back stabbing drama..
People love what you are to them. And you only love what people are to you. Our relationships are only built on our perception of one another. And sometimes people you love, who love you, may subconsciously (or consciously) be scared of your growth because it is a threat to their perception of you.
Can't agree to this at all! In my life, my people who love me dearly have sacrificed their decade with me to make sure I do something fruitful. I have done the same thing for people I love. I guess priority needs to be established from both sides, upfront.
@@sethxtekken I agree that I havent had this experience in life, but I dont think hes saying your loved ones are automatically like this, just that it's possible. I also dont know how someone else wastes a whole decade of your life, that to me sounds like more of a personal problem, but I do think it's possible for people who care about you to not necessarily act 100% in your best interest.
@@0oShwavyo0 for example, someone in your family could offer you an internship or apprenticeship at their small business which might be a good temporary fit for both of you in the beginning. But over time, you will want to learn as many skills as you can and move on to a better position, while your family member may never allow you to leave the position. For them, it's too convenient to have you there working, and it feels like a betrayal to them if you leave them behind to chase your own dream, so they make you feel like you're betraying your family if you leave the family business. Something very temporary can eat your dream. How else do you think so many ppl end up working for their parents for their entire lives? Your family wants the best for you, but when it comes down to it, they might want the best for themselves more.
Waste is highly subjective. If someone you loved was gone I’d imagine you’d give decades away for minutes of wasted time. That being said he’s absolutely right.
Yes and no, this is also a very self important view of time. “They’ll waste time” yeah if u expect all the time to be for you. He’s basically saying since people you’re with only value their time, so you should only value your time. Bad view on human relationships. That just means both people will be doin the same thing
Well said. I’m not sure if these people have ever actually succeeded in any of their relationships. Sounds like this guy is just upset about a past relation.🤔
🤔 he’s right. Been there before. Now the new wife is totally different she allows me to do whatever I want and/or need to do so I can succeed in my goals. Truly blessed to really have someone who believes in me.
Many ppl we ourselve is wasting our own time on many meaningless things then to blame others is also not easy. These are great knowledges but still knowing is easy doing is hard. So we need to improve to turn these great knowledge or theory into action💪
I wish I kept this advice in mind. I was in love and was in a 7 year relationship with a nice guy, but he only wanted to do the bare minimum. I thought checking in and communicating daily was enough to insure we’re still on the same page for our goals, only to find out I was the only one dreaming of a better life. Definitely learned a lot through this experience, but wish I would have known sooner. It’s interesting how people can love you and waste your time.
Yes only my parents especially my father is hellbent to explain me that nothing important than your time,they care about my time more than me. You reminded it me again,Thank you.
thats called spending time with your loved ones you call it wasting it until they are not there anymore and the time you had is all thats left and the memory of it
I think I'm doing this to my wife 😔. We're having problems and I tell her I'm working on me but I can see me working on me is causing a larger divide but I can't stop working on me because I'll be unhappy if I do and my happiness is important to me because it'll infect and effect our babies ☹
Once that person is gone, if it is real love, you will be willing to give away 10 more years just to spend another day together. Either way, if this guy really gets paid to say the most obvious things in the world, then I’m not sure how smart his viewers actually are.😅
@@marioburs24 Says someone who types in incomplete sentences while insulting another’s intelligence.😉 You’re prolly in the same boat as this guy! It’s not everyone else’s fault man, okay? She jus didn’t like you.. Jesus Christ… Do I have to be that mean for you to understand that you’re a big part of the viewer demographic that I was pointing out?🤣
@@marioburs24 Not to mention.. If you had to be told any of this, then yes… You just might be the dumb one… lol Unless you’re young in age, then you’re just ignorant. . .👀
If it's a time water then it's a bad relationship because in a good relationship it doesn't feel or actually is a time wasted. Infact even in bad relationships people say they love each other the only thing is compatibility. They may or may not be compatible. That's the point.
Honestly this is sad , clearly he hasn't met someone who genuinely cares. Alot of people in these comments clearly don't know their own worth / the worth of a true partner
I think it’s more about a person who isn’t sacrificing their life to you. If the partner/friend have a full plate you can’t expect them to make decisions for you. That’s what I got from it.
I'll tell you right now I'm with an extremely caring person. But until I really stood up for it my time was not at all respected. Truthfully at a fault of my own because of lack of communication. Respect for your need for time in a relationship is incredibly crucial. And this is a very real thing. The term "settling down" is a term I hate. Because the majority of people believe that a relationship will consume all of your time to accomplish what you want. And it's fucking disgusting. It's unhealthy. And there are tons of people that lose their time because they are unaware of this aspect he is talking about. And they are lying saying they are happy when they aren't. Again not everyone, but many more people than you think. And so in settling down, means also you've settled for something that doesn't make you happy in many many cases, but not all of course.
This could be your mom, it could be your dad, it could be the closest people to you. If you feel like someone you love is negatively affecting you, then they most likely are. I recently, unfortunately, took my Dad out of my life. My sister took him out of her life a year earlier and I was trying to hang on to the relationship, but if you've done all you can to communicate to that person and you notice it's still years of the same shit, then it's time for you to make the hard change. My dad lives 2 hours away from me, I haven't seen him in almost 2 years and he doesn't have words with either of his two kids anymore. I can't say exactly how he feels, but I know I took the right step in the direction I want to go in life.
I truly wasted my 20s on people I care about discouraging me to not be my best with people and opportunities, out of jealousy and envy. and I try to make them feel guilty busy lessening myself.
I think there is some truth to this. Make time for the people you love you don't know how much time you have left. This world is chaotic and you never know what can happen. However be cautious about who you spend time with and what you're doing together. Your time is your ULTIMATE WORTH. You have a limited ammount and you can never get it back. Be careful about those who say they love you, but have you spend all your time with them without much in return. Sometimes when we start to put in the work to make ourselves better, those who are incapable of rising to our level will try to bring us back down. They will hide this under the guise of "love". There is a saying "you are the sum of the 10 people you hang around the most". Pick the people that you want to spend your time with. Those who value your time and those who you can learn from. Once you find those people love the hell out of them and spend as much time as you can with them.
People do what's comfortable for them not what's right for you...
True words..
Indeed.
So what that person is addicted to drugs or suicider not everything is right for u same to kids who don't want to go school .
I feel like that's just not true. Have you never gone out of your comfort zone to please someone else? I have.
@@hejalll I agree you. I got my Girlfriend at the age of 15, I bought a little house by myself and repaired all inside and outside, we lived there 5 years, now i sold it and we bought a bigger house what we are right now repairing and last week we married. It is the best way we could possibly gone. I think when you have something like "i have no time for you" in your head you maybe get rich but not happy.
So true🤫🤔🤥😞
Imagine spending a weekend visiting your parents who miss you a bunch. And as you leave you tell them “thanks for wasting my time. Hope you’re comfortable!”
🤣🤣🤣
Wow
Imagine blaming your family for wasting your time. Dude, if you want to live on an island, go for it. Don't ask for help moving there though.
He didn’t particularly mention family though. And yeah if your family issues are holding you back from achieving success, you can care about them a little less and that’s okay I guess?
Easier said then done, its your family for fucks sake, I want to go off and live life but cant because my family doesnt want it and when I call out that they dont wish for me to be happy they just tell me they love me
Family doesn’t define loyalty .. family sometimes are the worse than friends with talking behind backs and such
@L_B42 __ not everyone’s parents are like that :) some are abusive, tormenting and plain horrible.
@@chloewinnaa1515 bs haha what so you tell your family you want to leave them and they say no you can't but we still love you???? Stfu
"A dream does not become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination, and hard work."
Thanks...needed to hear this
@@yolandabooi8371 You're welcome
But what if the dream is to be lazy
@@d1rtyr3d18 Five things to quit right now:
1. Overthinking
2. Trying to make everyone happy
3. Living in the past
4. Worrying
5. Doubting yourself
@@AyushYadav-ot4ew nope
Nope
Nope
Nope
Nope
I joke of course. Not in need of help other than my insomnia. I thank you for the kind words though stranger and hope all is well.
This is so true. My partner is like that. Been with her since 15 tho and we are 37 now. One kid together and she ended up in a wheelchair years back. Even before she was chair bound, she was lazy and unorganized. Unnoticeable until we moved into our own house together. I should have went separate ways then but I didn't because I care for her. I still love her. Our goals and ambitions are completely different. I do EVERYTHING, phone calls, working, cleaning, getting our daughter to school, fixing the house, driving ect. Like... Literally everything and especially now that she's in the chair I even carry her to and from the bathroom and help her inside the bathroom. I can't bring myself to leaving her tho as I know her family won't be bothered to take care of her. We had 1 daughter together who is 12 now. I told myself I don't mind being absolutely miserable every day just to make sure my daughter grows up in a 2 parent household and I can deal with it til she's off on her own. However it's easier said than done.
She’s in a chair you’d be a god awful person to have been with her before and then left because she’s handicapped. I don’t know if you care for her or you’ve been doing it so long your numb to it all.
So what if you left, with your daughter. To get a better life, for the sake of all of you. And for your daughter.
@@toh1416 would his daughter be better off without the mom just because the dad got tired of the woman.
@@vintageoriginallegit i mean, if the mother is not even capable of doing simple chores like taking care of the daughters needs then yes. Absolutely.
@@vintageoriginallegit I would never leave her BECAUSE she's in the chair now. I wouldn't be able to live with myself because I know her fam would never be there for her. It wouldn't be BECAUSE she's in the chair. It would be everything else and now the extra that goes along with our situation just makes it even more stressful. Yes I do take care of her. She's had advanced RA since she was 20 but only recently past almost 2 years has she been chair bound. I do everything, including helping with her "lady time" and after she's done using the bathroom I have to "clean" her. It's just stressful brother, I've thought about splitting up for probably 10 years or more but she's the mother of my kid so I wouldn't leave her just for that reason. Now she's in the chair I def can't. Still doesn't make it any less stressful. Going to work and coming home every 3 hours to make sure she can use bathroom and eat and all that. Picking up kid from school, coming home helping with homework and cooking dinner then laundry and chores going to bed at 1-2am back up at 530 repeat cycle. It's burning me out
So comforting when someone can clearly explain human nature in such a matter of fact way. It instantly answers a million questions.
That's a lot of questions
My family has wasted so much of their time caring for me and helping me get through some hard years so I don’t truly believe what this guy is saying. Now that I’ve grown up I just wish more than anything I could pay them back..
I understand your version, but unfortunately not all of us have parents that suport us unconditionaly, that help us.
Some people relate to this some don t.
And he s ideea is not only parents, is also boy/girlfriend best friends, brothers.
He said the person you’re with. Not your kids
I'm not a fan of him, but the truth is the truth much respect 🙏
Leaving family who always force u to utilise time in studies.
Successfull people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life..
aamen.
50 th like for you
failed once in 2020/failed again 2021/will roar in 2022
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Amen ❤ and thnku 😊
Wohooo. Really thank you so much. Finally universe started helping me again. Thank you guys i needed to hear this. I loved a toxic friend. She badly affected my mental health and now i hope she won't disturb me anymore. I'm good, I've moved on. She's not my concern anymore. This man is saying sooo right.
@Spy Paimon yeah buddy
no it may not always turn out good but you need to be spending time with your loved ones you call it wasting it until they are not there anymore and the time you had is all thats left and the memory of it
Winners find a WAY,Losers find an EXCUSE!
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This one is better to swallow.KIpidap.
Love your neighbor as yourself!!! Love doesn't waist time,, selfishness does!
Never assume this guy cares as much about the people around him as much as he cares about himself and *HIS TIME! THIS IS REMARKABLY SELFISH!*
He is right. This way my spouse wasted 20 years of my life. I was gifted, was studying to be a designer..was very very intelligent but all I did with those gifts is throw away because he said so, he said he will make me happy keep me safe. He did exactly the opposite. Today I stay 1700 kms away from him with my daughter.
1000% true words...👌👌👌
Yes friend! Push away people that love and care about you! Focus on yourself and your ego for material pleasures! It wi ll only be their fault if after a few years of being a hustle slave you ll end up without these people and your goals are still in "progress"
interesting way of looking at it i agree with you actually
A balance is good
if you can "waste time" on people you love
then you don't love those people
You don't even realise that people who look so sweet and innocent are the same people who are selfish and sympathy seeker. And they are actually putting themself first all the time!!!!
xactly
i absolutely HATE any sort of “motivational” videos - but this one. it is onto something. it hit me like a truck.
This video should say: How to climb the corporate ladder alone
How groundbreaking someone who is not you doesn't realize how important you think you are
Excellent, excellent, excellent...I couldn't have come up with these words to describe exactly what truly happens, even with the people who are closest to u and that u love the most!
No, family is first at all 😌😌😌😌😌
Proof that you love them if youre willing to waste ur time on them
How can spending some moments with someone you love is a waste of time?? You should check your priorities in life… once they’ll be gone you’ll regret it
So true. I've had put friends and family on the temporary "ignore button" to move forward with many goals of mine.
I hate to say this. But. I had to dump, or let go of my family to move forward. Start thinking about my self, I had to become selfish. Walk away from the shit talking, back stabbing drama..
Love is important than money
Even you tend to do what’s comfortable for you than what’s right for you ... unless you’re exceptionally successful
Bro why am I crying? This is exactly what I’m going through right now and this made me feel a but comforted.thanks man
*Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life.*
If you saw this comment, I hope you have an amazing day! 🖤
You spend all your time by advertising your channel like this. You don't care if people have an amazing day, you'd sell your mother for a dollar.
Bold text makes it more impactful
Thanks, I’m running late to school. Hopefully a miracle happens and this tram just goes very fast.
Steve jobs
People love what you are to them. And you only love what people are to you.
Our relationships are only built on our perception of one another. And sometimes people you love, who love you, may subconsciously (or consciously) be scared of your growth because it is a threat to their perception of you.
*"The person who wins, is the person who wants it the most."*
This changed my life.
So true
Stop it
Wow, well said
Ummmm,how?
But the person who cares the least controls the relationship.
This says everything about your own experiences my friend. Don’t make a law out of it!
I feel so pitty for him that he never had a real friend
Lol then how did he just accused the peoples who love
He is so right. Best advise yet.
I don’t think this man met someone who loves him more than themselves. My SO cares about my time more than me!!
I agree with you based on my experience, however, i do not believe it is a common occurrence
*TRANSLATION: MY TIME IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANYONE ELSE!*
ITS ABOUT THAT GRINDDDDD, no human interaction is NEEDED, WE NEEED THE MONIEESSZZS
You'll regret that mindset
@@millinom my comment is all sarcasm
@@justanotherfollower4693 my comment is all stupidity
Can't agree to this at all! In my life, my people who love me dearly have sacrificed their decade with me to make sure I do something fruitful. I have done the same thing for people I love. I guess priority needs to be established from both sides, upfront.
I agree with you. He is just stupid and want to generalize his experience in life with others and enforce it blindly
@@sethxtekken I agree that I havent had this experience in life, but I dont think hes saying your loved ones are automatically like this, just that it's possible. I also dont know how someone else wastes a whole decade of your life, that to me sounds like more of a personal problem, but I do think it's possible for people who care about you to not necessarily act 100% in your best interest.
@@0oShwavyo0 100% correct
@@0oShwavyo0 for example, someone in your family could offer you an internship or apprenticeship at their small business which might be a good temporary fit for both of you in the beginning. But over time, you will want to learn as many skills as you can and move on to a better position, while your family member may never allow you to leave the position. For them, it's too convenient to have you there working, and it feels like a betrayal to them if you leave them behind to chase your own dream, so they make you feel like you're betraying your family if you leave the family business. Something very temporary can eat your dream. How else do you think so many ppl end up working for their parents for their entire lives?
Your family wants the best for you, but when it comes down to it, they might want the best for themselves more.
You think anyone on this planet cares more about your time than you?
It’s important to spend time with your loved ones cause one day they’ll be gone
I literally only bother people if i know it is convenient for them. Guess thats why i dont have many friends 🤷♂️
Waste is highly subjective. If someone you loved was gone I’d imagine you’d give decades away for minutes of wasted time. That being said he’s absolutely right.
Well said
People do what's comfortable for them, not what's right for you...
There are many people in my life like that but I don't let them doing that... awesome video 🔥
Yes and no, this is also a very self important view of time. “They’ll waste time” yeah if u expect all the time to be for you. He’s basically saying since people you’re with only value their time, so you should only value your time. Bad view on human relationships. That just means both people will be doin the same thing
Well said. I’m not sure if these people have ever actually succeeded in any of their relationships. Sounds like this guy is just upset about a past relation.🤔
🤔 he’s right. Been there before. Now the new wife is totally different she allows me to do whatever I want and/or need to do so I can succeed in my goals. Truly blessed to really have someone who believes in me.
🤔 You can do whatever you want??
Yes I can.
If you love a person and have a beautiful moments with them is not wasting of time but a beautiful memories.
IKR, it's almost as though people live their own lives. 🤔
His words echoes through my heart...........
Who is he?
@@Nikhil-ls9dh matew hussey
Was that an attempt at poetry?
This is unbelievably hard to hear, but very true all the same
So true. It's not that deep but it hits very differently especially if you've experienced it.
True! Actially it's not the problem of love, it's the person who love you doesn't know...
Many ppl we ourselve is wasting our own time on many meaningless things then to blame others is also not easy. These are great knowledges but still knowing is easy doing is hard. So we need to improve to turn these great knowledge or theory into action💪
I wish I kept this advice in mind. I was in love and was in a 7 year relationship with a nice guy, but he only wanted to do the bare minimum. I thought checking in and communicating daily was enough to insure we’re still on the same page for our goals, only to find out I was the only one dreaming of a better life. Definitely learned a lot through this experience, but wish I would have known sooner. It’s interesting how people can love you and waste your time.
Depends on what you want to win in life.
U r one of the best person's advice I would ve got. Thanks karl.
Time spend with someone who cares about me is never a waste of time
It isn’t a waste if you enjoy it. The whole purpose of life is to have a good time. A lot of people don’t seem to understand that.
Just like food, they come out of your body as wastes, but it gives energy, taste, satisfaction, and joy to you every single day.
If this has been your only experience with people you're close to, you need to find better friends.
When I learned to put myself in other's shoes, I learned how to start caring about others.
Yes only my parents especially my father is hellbent to explain me that nothing important than your time,they care about my time more than me.
You reminded it me again,Thank you.
Ah yes. True maturity. Blaming the world for how you see time.
This is the one I needed to hear
That's by far the best advice I heard
thats called spending time with your loved ones you call it wasting it until they are not there anymore and the time you had is all thats left and the memory of it
Yooo this shit is the crazy truth. This changed me I was that person waiting someone’s life. I have worked on changing my selfish ways
That's what is different about me, doc. I care about them enough for them to care about me regardless of time.
Feel like something parents would do
This is the best short I have ever watched. And it’s s 100% true…
Now act on it
Kind of on you. Regardless of emotion you decide what you do with your time
I think I'm doing this to my wife 😔. We're having problems and I tell her I'm working on me but I can see me working on me is causing a larger divide but I can't stop working on me because I'll be unhappy if I do and my happiness is important to me because it'll infect and effect our babies ☹
Dammmnn...... that's the saddest thing, I've heard in my life 🙄
But in the end......That's the truth
I will gove my time for people who care about me. I want to be cared about. Thats what i spend my time for.
It’s almost disgusting how much I push up everyone around me and get nothing back
This is so true, it hurts :(
Wow
This is so true for a friend of mine
Bro that's the oddest truth to face
That's the kind of mindset that turns people into bitter, self-absorbed pricks. Time spent with loved ones is time well spent.
Once that person is gone, if it is real love, you will be willing to give away 10 more years just to spend another day together. Either way, if this guy really gets paid to say the most obvious things in the world, then I’m not sure how smart his viewers actually are.😅
Lmao yea this video or this guy isn't as smart as they think they are, real silly lol
you did not understand much of the video, so probabil you ain t that smart.
@@marioburs24 Says someone who types in incomplete sentences while insulting another’s intelligence.😉 You’re prolly in the same boat as this guy! It’s not everyone else’s fault man, okay? She jus didn’t like you.. Jesus Christ… Do I have to be that mean for you to understand that you’re a big part of the viewer demographic that I was pointing out?🤣
@@marioburs24 Not to mention.. If you had to be told any of this, then yes… You just might be the dumb one… lol Unless you’re young in age, then you’re just ignorant. . .👀
@@CajunCouillon it s funny how you say i am ignorant, but you can t see over your version of life.
Stupidd kid.
If it's a time water then it's a bad relationship because in a good relationship it doesn't feel or actually is a time wasted. Infact even in bad relationships people say they love each other the only thing is compatibility. They may or may not be compatible. That's the point.
Honestly this is sad , clearly he hasn't met someone who genuinely cares. Alot of people in these comments clearly don't know their own worth / the worth of a true partner
I think it’s more about a person who isn’t sacrificing their life to you. If the partner/friend have a full plate you can’t expect them to make decisions for you. That’s what I got from it.
@@himynameis3138 100% but this is why people need to make sure they are dating the right one
I'll tell you right now I'm with an extremely caring person. But until I really stood up for it my time was not at all respected. Truthfully at a fault of my own because of lack of communication.
Respect for your need for time in a relationship is incredibly crucial. And this is a very real thing. The term "settling down" is a term I hate. Because the majority of people believe that a relationship will consume all of your time to accomplish what you want. And it's fucking disgusting. It's unhealthy. And there are tons of people that lose their time because they are unaware of this aspect he is talking about. And they are lying saying they are happy when they aren't. Again not everyone, but many more people than you think.
And so in settling down, means also you've settled for something that doesn't make you happy in many many cases, but not all of course.
Just something he has been through. Keep your eyes open and keep it moving.
This could be your mom, it could be your dad, it could be the closest people to you. If you feel like someone you love is negatively affecting you, then they most likely are. I recently, unfortunately, took my Dad out of my life. My sister took him out of her life a year earlier and I was trying to hang on to the relationship, but if you've done all you can to communicate to that person and you notice it's still years of the same shit, then it's time for you to make the hard change. My dad lives 2 hours away from me, I haven't seen him in almost 2 years and he doesn't have words with either of his two kids anymore. I can't say exactly how he feels, but I know I took the right step in the direction I want to go in life.
Some people will but all people aren't the same
No one can make you waste a decade of your life, unless you are being held hostage. We have free will and we choose what we do🌹
That’s what I needed to hear
This is so true man
The only negative people can waste ur time . But the people that they love u and u love them they are gift from Allah
Very well said.
Might be hurting one but Very very true.
“You’re no ones center of the universe except yourselves” - someone I can’t remember who
it is a simple method
WHATEVER U GIVE TIME TO, U WILL BE PERFECT IN THAT THING
it can be ur relationships, ur fav subject or anything!
please have fun in life dont be too much greedy try be yourself and be happy with what you got
whenever i heard this , found bunch of guys around me or in my circle.. bhai aur thoda baat kar lete h, bhai ghar p jaake kya karega,
Being with someone that loves is NOT a waste of time
I truly wasted my 20s on people I care about discouraging me to not be my best with people and opportunities, out of jealousy and envy. and I try to make them feel guilty busy lessening myself.
time spent with your loved ones is the whole reason you live in the first place
This guy genuinely thinks what he is saying is intelligent 😂😂😂😂
Man I'm going through something right now & hearing this made so much sense . 😢. Crazy
“oh i’m sorry, i just liked being around you”
I think there is some truth to this. Make time for the people you love you don't know how much time you have left. This world is chaotic and you never know what can happen. However be cautious about who you spend time with and what you're doing together. Your time is your ULTIMATE WORTH. You have a limited ammount and you can never get it back. Be careful about those who say they love you, but have you spend all your time with them without much in return. Sometimes when we start to put in the work to make ourselves better, those who are incapable of rising to our level will try to bring us back down. They will hide this under the guise of "love". There is a saying "you are the sum of the 10 people you hang around the most". Pick the people that you want to spend your time with. Those who value your time and those who you can learn from. Once you find those people love the hell out of them and spend as much time as you can with them.