Why You Should Never Date an OnlyFans Model
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- Опубліковано 17 вер 2024
- Ancient Roman Relationship Advice
Carl and Connor discuss the poetry of Juvenal (60/55 BCE - 127 CE) and Ovid (43 BC - 17/18 AD) to bring the remarkably wise relationship advice of the Ancient Romans to bear on the miserable landscape of modern dating.
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I find it incredibly amusing how some things just do not change no matter how many millennia pass lol
"Now we suffer the ills of a long peace. Worse for us than war, this luxury stifles us"
Incredible. Words from 2000 years ago still so apt today.
Your new cell phone isn't progress. If people live long enough they mature, then die, leaving anything left to their still immature children.
Society hasn't really changed, the only things has is technology.
This instantly reminded me of the customer complaint tablets to Ea-nasir...
Ending Dialogue of The Neutral Zone episode:
Commander William T. Riker: [about the 20th-century Humans] Having them on board is like a visit from the past.
Captain Jean-Luc Picard: That would take us in the wrong direction. Our mission is to go forward - and it's just begun.
What a stupid take from Picard. I guess that learning about the past is useless then
"If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife"
Hit song from 1963.
I would amend it to however, a woman who is pretty and knows it. The issue as I see it is humility.
Praise the mid wife!
A funny song in the 60s, wise advice in the 2020s.
@@Lonovavir these days you're daft to get married if you're male. There is zero benefit in it, and you bear all the risk. She can take everything you have ever earned/built and most of what you are going to earn, keeping you in perpetual poverty... in some states its for life.
Its not that every woman will do that.. its that every one of them can.
Funny enough that song is in my playlist.
That was advice which was relevant in the 60s. The only sane advice today is "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a woman your wife"
The law and the dating market have changed that old game into this pathological new one.
I remember translating the 'Ars Amatoria' (The Art of Love) in high school Latin class. The one sentence I'll never forget is 'Don't trust the light of the oil lamp.'
What's that mean
@@solisprime2669 I'm guessing, it means you are looking at your lover by your bedside with only the light of an oil lamp illuminating whose next to you- it only shows their outside and not what kind of person they are on the inside
that or it's implying the person next to you in bed only looks attractive because they are currently in bed with you next to the lamp light, if you go outside you'd realise she's not as attractive when the whole wide world is open to you
@@solisprime2669 It's warning men that women may look more attractive at the tavern than they really are.
@@solisprime2669 "beer goggles" or the song "Don't The Girls All Get Prettier At Closing Time."
It's the "when the lights come on in the club" meme.
Women use the dim light to hide their flaws, make you think they are more attractive then they really are.
Today's advice might be don't trust the photoshop/filter/makeup.
Of course there's a possible deeper meaning of what you see in the club, or online, or when she's done up is superficial and only what she wants you to see. It's not who she really is. Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes all the way down to the bone.
Because they're sex workers...
That means:
- they're always going to expect payment for sex as it's been transactional for them. Even if not consciously, they'll still get upset if not rewarded.
- Their pair bonding mechanism is broken. Even if they didn't actually do things with the guys directly, they still simulated it and minds can't tell the difference.
- They have daddy issues (thus the career choice) so they don't know how to relate to men outside of sex.
- It's very likely that everyone either knows or will find out. How would you explain to your parents why your chick is online? How are you going to feel knowing there's a high likelihood that your groomsmen have seen your wife's rear entrance?
- Any kids you have will have to live with the embarrassment.
- there's a lot of crossover in that industry. The only difference between a OF chick and a stripper is the camera instead of a pole. The only difference between a stripper and prostitute is how far she's willing to go and money can be really convincing (I mean, she's already gone so far already so why stop there when more is offered?). The only difference between a prostitute and a pron star is the camera. Etc, etc, etc.
- that industry may do screenings but don't catch anything. (Someone may have caught something since they were last checked but before interacting with others.). Thus risking you getting diseased, possibly with something that's incurable and/or will make you sterile.
- she might have become sterile from previous infections.
I could go on... No thanks!
- She's likely to have an STD or five.
Sex workers are the only women I respect nowadays since they're the most honest.
they are unable to develop any intimacy for their 'partner' if they banged half a dozen dudes a day or showed their butthole to thousands of simps.
I don't know if it's still the case, but a lot of porn stars do porn as marketing for their stripping gigs. Stripping is where the real money is for them. Porn gets their name out there, gets them some fame, then they are a draw. It's similar to musicians making their money in concerts, not albums.
So, sex & intimacy are even more degraded because it's not even to the point of being transactional for a profit--it's just a tool or stepping stone to get to the actual transaction. She'll sell her sex for pittance hoping for a bigger payout later.
The first point can't be stressed enough. So what are you to them, lover or customer? You'll never be sure.
Birth control, no fault divorce and an overly permissive society have got us here
Absolutely.
I think parenting and family values are the problem.
A girl can do birth control and find a good relationship if she had parents that taught her how to be responsible and selective with men that will not treat her like trash.
@@Amantducafe She won't.
1. She's preparing to be a hole.
2. The pill will change her preferences, make her depressed and fatter.
3. If she's selective why does she need the pill?
@@John-kc4cg many teen girls and women also take hormones for painful or difficult periods. I was married and never used birth control but then was put on the pill after I became very anemic due to too much blood loss. There are lots of gyny issues that men know nothing about.
@@John-kc4cg You clearly have never met a woman that had a strong father figure.
I dated a cam girl for just over a year and she treated me like absolute sh!t as soon as the next guy that struck her fancy came along.
she became petty and argumentative in order to manipulate me into breaking up so that she wouldn't have to. I couldn't understand what was happening with us back then, she eventually decided to sleep with him and when i found out about that? she finally worked up the nerve to break up.
Lesson learned. Do not trust women who make their living through sexual behavior. They are awful.
Codi Vore
Not a wise move. Hopefully you learned your lesson.
@@WiseOwl_1408 lessons learned contribute to a life well-lived, sir
She wasn't yours, it was your turn. Learn from the mistake.
hey, you chose her cause she was THAT attractive. and may have even married her if she didn't slp with that guy.
simp.
Besides OF 304’s, stay away from women in fashion/makeup (any narcissist profession), women w/club friends, women w/ghey friends.
What's w/club?
@@Nic01a As in Clubs
it isn't makeup/fashion because unless she wears amish clothes that is unavoidable
the REAL list is
1. selfies especially in weird poses
2. facetune where you can alter your SKULL to look more innocent
3. coloured contacts ESPECIALLY to a lighter colour (baby blues or grey > more trust given by men)
4. CIRCLE LENSES, ALWAYS AVOID. I'd love to see a divorce risk study on those women because it rigs a man's brain to think of her like a baby! Italian Gutter Women used to dropper in belladonna for the same effect.
5. obsession with pink. Not a bit, but refuses to wear anything else. Womanchild.
6. Dog Mom. All the crazy women are now dog moms because it attracts more men.
7. Keeps up with Disney films as an adult. Womanchild.
8. on the Pill with no diagnosed medical reason and is sexually active on it.
9. claims to believe in God (and sins) but won't flee sexual immorality.
10. fake tan or skin bleaching. If you'll lie about your very skin....
@@Nic01a w/ = with
The other day I woke up at 5am to begin the long walk to a job a despise. My girlfriend woke up, got out of bed in our single room, gave me a huge hug and thanked me for what I’m doing for us. That big squeeze of acknowledgment meant more to me than all the onlyfans 1% girls in the world.
Don't be a narcissist and don't marry one. It's that "simple".
I say don't use people and don't be used by people. Same idea.
@@darthlaurel well you can go into something with her and she will be pleasant, supportive, and absolutely wonderful. Then one she has secured your commitment, she will change and start loathing you. She will use you. They pretty much all use us for resources. You could figure out how much she costs per pump, and if she doesn't give up the snot pocket often she gets expensive quick.
flee immorality - Bible
What's striking is how this book is over 2000 yeara old when (Apart from the phrasing and similies) it sounds like it was written last week. I guess some things really do never change.And while history doesn't repeat, for those that fail to learn its lessons, it does often rhyme
it proves we are Rome 2.0.....Rome fell & the West is falling as we speak and there will be no stopping it.
I'm becoming more and more convinced that the "sea people" were just progressive values and that Rome fell due to too many overtolerant Romans.
No, C-people are from Canada ;-)
the moral decline of rome happened centuries before the decline of its military and government.
changing laws failed to even begin to address its problems.
married their slaves from afar
Have you heard the theory that Christianity was Rome’s woke movement?
A fast spreading religion that worships a criminal executed by the Romans that values feminine values like love an acceptance and demonizes the old values and gods of Rome.
The Sea People wrecked the Bronze Age empires.
But you're definitely not wrong about the fall of Western Rome.
Marry for love of character rather than lust for looks
Well it should be a blend of both. I have been happily married for 26 yrs and my husband is still crazy about me and our sex life is still fire 🔥. You can’t commit to someone for the rest of your life that you aren’t strongly sexually attracted to, otherwise you create unhappy women as well as men. You need to look for someone who you find attractive who ALSO has good virtues and character.
@@viviennedunbar3374 That's not true, my parents had a dead beadroom and I help the homeless by throwing molotov cocktails at their tents, and I sometimes punch women in the face in the name of socialism.
@@viviennedunbar3374
True.
In my experience, if I don't find their character and their personality attractive I won't find them physically attractive.
Attraction grows as I start to really get to to know and like someone for who they are.
But I've seen so many men make snap judgements about someone and completely lose the plot over them just on looks alone. Then go so far as marry them, start to fall out with them and STILL have children with them 🤦🏻♀️
I must be going blind. I read that last part as lust for books. 😂
flee immorality....
Bane was right. Peace cost us strenght, victory has defeated us.
I think often of that quote. Maybe the whole west also needs to have it's back broken to learn how to rise again...
@@MrReubenTishkoff The West hasn't had enough adversity in the lives of its people. Not enough character building opportunities, not enough formative pain.
Too easy, too comfortable, too tolerant, too wishy-washy, too feminised, too soft, too safe, too much acceptance, too much coddling, participation trophies, "everyone's a winner", too much GIRL POWER crap, too much of teaching boys to get in touch with their feminine side.
Pathetic. Disgusting. I used to hate the Anglosphere for being such an effective, dominant bully. But they also had my grudging respect for their extraordinary accomplishments. Their insufferable arrogance was backed by a history of exceptionalism as a standard.
But now they are dying, decomposing. From proper men and women which raised generations of winners, to painted wh-or-es and effeminate soy boys, head down, ass up, ready to be taken by any passing bandit and savage.
It's depressing seeing a worthy opponent in such a disgraceful state.
@@mirceazaharia2094 it is honestly terrifying, that such a proud civilization would descend into one massive confused brothel. To kill these people is an act of charity to the dignity of humanity as a whole
I always loved the saying 'absence makes the heart grow fonder', in the modern world there is no such thing as being apart for long periods of time.
Absence makes the heart go wander....
I married a Godly Woman, proverbs 31 style. I was in the military, did six deployments. She stayed faithful the whole time.
When I came home after being gone for 6-18 months, there was always a brief adjustment period (1-2 weeks) but we would typically take a trip just the two of us and work through it. She is awesome!
I supported her the whole time I was in the service payed for her bachelors and masters in nursing, now I stay home and she is the primary breadwinner. I work 4-6 days a weeks half from home but rarely more than 5 hours she works 3 days a week 12 hour shifts. We spend most of the day together. That’s awesome too! I’m about to start a new job in June 2023 and will go back to being the primary and gone a lot.
Just marry a good woman, not necessarily the prettiest. It won’t matter if you’re together all the time or separated, stay faithful and constantly discover new ways to love each other.
“Absinthe makes the heart grow fonder.” - Oscar Wilde
I’ve been engaged to two models, real models not OF girls, women know how to play the tests to appear to be of high moral character. The majority of attractive women have functionally no moral quality but know how to.
if they'll sleep with you before marriage, it's obvious
How can you detect chameleons then, my man? I'm asking for myself. I've never dated in my life for fear of falling deeply in love with an illusion and being gaslit into oblivion. Female chameleons are worse than hungry sharks out at sea, imo.
@@mirceazaharia2094 there’s really no way to detect; you have to understand that all females have the ease of access that allows them to cheat. The vetting you need to do is not of the women themselves, rather her family, upbringing, friends, and frankly everyone around her. With women, one bad apple ruins the bunch. You can’t save women; once introduced to infection they’re going to be bad.
Right now, with leftist ideology being as prevalent as it is, finding a good woman in west civilization is probably 1:250,000
@@mirceazaharia2094 Ask them a question while looking them directly in the eyes. Ignore what they say. Trust your gut. ✌️
In the sacred words of Future
“From the streets did she emerge, and to the streets she will return.
And I say unto you, she is for the streets.
So be not weary, when she must return from whence she came.”
If all women are like that then running human society will be hard for Men.
Only those people will survive who have healthy families.
From As good as it gets.
Woman: How do you write women so well?
Jack Nicholson: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.
Woman: *Surprised Pikachu face*
Having met an Only fans model, there is one behavior that I think goes understated: the desire to act more mature than they actually are. It really jumps out at you if you meet one these woman... and feels weird especially when you juxtapose it between happily married women and young girls who are dating at the same age.
I do not understand this simp language of calling them models when they are not.
Can you give an example? I’m not exactly sure what you mean, but I’ve never met one. They seem to act immature from what I’ve seen on UA-cam
"We're hard enough on the simps."
"Don't be a simp."
British harshness
Definitely notice a pattern with this thanks to Coffeehouse Crime and That Chapter. It's sad. Also I would like to see Carl and Connor have discussions together. Nice chemistry.
Great channel coffee house crime. He is very well researched.
We've got another in the works for next month. Always a pleasure to chat with the boss
@@Con_Tomlinson *squee of joy* Yay! I can't wait!
I keep being reminded of this idea, "Traditions are solutions to forgotten problems." We've been throwing out so many traditions and now old problems are coming back.
I'm an older Gen Z, and the "talking phase" you elude to at the end of this segment is so foreign to me, yet I hear people reference it unironically all the time. I just figure, if we do all the initial talking before even going on a date, especially over as dry a medium as the internet, then that'll just take the surprise away from the date it self.
You don't want surprises and neither does she! Pre-qualify a date thru church etc membership, or do your own research.
I hate it so much. It drives me insane that I'm engaged in "forever conversations" with my girlfriend. At the very beginning of the relationship, I made a habit of taking upwards of 3-4 hours to respond to anything. She's used to it and I'm glad I did it but it still bothers me that we literally never say "goodbye" or "talk to you later."
Speaking as a 32 yr old, btw.
@@williambranch4283
Guess I like surprises.
@crassgop finding 'the one....' ROFL.... man life is gonna chew you up and family court is going to make it so your farts are like sneezing in a wind tunnel. Thanks for that laugh, I needed it today.
@@thewanderer6542 So do I, but gird up your loins first!
You know what's shocking - not that we haven't changed, not that our ancestors remain relevant... but that we assume our ancestors were different people to us, fundamentally. That we assume human society has changed so much in a mere thousand or two thousand years. That these lessons from the past come as some sort of striking revelation.
We are, all of us, stupid children thinking that a year is a long time, asking grandma if the world was black and white when she was young.
We should have always been listening to our forebears.
Moral ineptitude is not wifey material
Or hubby material.
A few years ago Carl was saying that all of them are crazy and saying hang in there. Don’t underestimate how long it can take to unpick your life from a bad partner, even when unmarried.
@6:44 this has to be the single greatest explanation of what it feels like to be on anti depressants. the medicine just keep you from hitting the bottom and spiraling. you are captured in a limbo like state of no highs and no real lows. just a bland existence of no real tangible joy or sorrow
Also never date an actress, a pron star, or anyone famous. Just my opinion.
I think it depends on the person (about actors and famous people). Keanu Reeves said that he doesn't want to be idolized because he doesn't consider himself a good person. Robert Pattinson lives a life away from attention and only joins movies he finds interesting and push his acting limits
The more things change, the more they stay the same.
Conservative wisdom touches truth because it tackles human nature which itself is immutable
3:45 my own mother taught me to value my body and take pride in it, as she would describe to me that a used sock doesn't sell as well as a new one. And that women who show too much devalue what they offer, men like to guess and imagine what's there. A beautiful gown that goes to the floor is more attractive than a cheap short dress that leaves nothing to the imagination of men. There were a number of lessons I was taught when I was young, such as the idea that a woman who sleeps around is a garden tool but a man who does is a player... I my mind, they are both garden tools. She also told me that sex is inherently about trust, if you build that trust with someone to be at your most vulnerable where everything is on display, then you've built a good relationship leading to it, and if he can respect your denies until you're ready then he values you and your body as much as you do. There were a number of little tests I had to do with myself and my husband when we first met, because with hormones and youth, and as we both didn't want to just jump into things we had to learn restraint. I didn't want to make the first move as I was tired of being the one to ask boys out, he picked up his courage and asked me with a kiss (even now he says he's a coward 😂), and then when we're facing passions, we denied going too far as we didn't want to take away the value to the relationship. It would have been like eating desert first, while not enjoying the rest of the meal.
Between social media and feminism, the fun of dating destroyed
dating isn't meant to be fun, it's courtship
"fun" is for children and meant to be wholesome stuff
if you won't filter with dating, you'll end up divorced
I think it's no coincidence that the more people walk away from religion the more devolved society becomes
If the Catholic Church had been willing to reform its worst excesses of corruption and venal abuses, perhaps Christianity wouldn’t have schismed into endless sects. Once that happened religion became a destructive source of endless conflict in western Christendom. On the other hand, the all mighty authority of the Church was holding back scientific and intellectual discovery.
I can see what you mean about a faithless society being linked to its moral decline. But organised religion has a lot to answer for too.
I think people crave certainty about what is expected of them and structure to what gives life meaning and purpose. A lot of people seem unable to cope with complete freedom to find meaning in their existence and want supposedly godly men to take that personal responsibility from them. I can’t think how else to explain the phenomenon of westerners converting to the incredibly prescriptive ideology of Islam with its endless list of haram things.
@@AurumEtAes because philosophically, your freedom solves nothing in the question of morality or meaning, you need a positivist argument that indicates what should be considered good or evil, Religions or political ideologies offer such positivist arguments on matters of morality and enables a human to imbue their actions with meaning.
What is incredulous is that you people in the west have had such an extremely complex and beautiful positivist argument for your civilizations yet you abandoned it with great vigor.
Man the texting thing is so true. Too much communication leading to running out of things to say.
@@amandak.4246 lol i knew someone was going to respond like this. Never huh? All I can say is,I disagree. Eventually you are forced to dip into topics that the other person is probably not that interested in and you have now run out of things to say because you're forcing yourself to say things for the sake of "having things to say".
Perhaps if you're 40 and you've had kids and all then you can tell them about what your kids do or did as extra conversation ammunition, but that matters only if the other person cares.
This is disturbing accurate and relevant.
I should put this as a main comment and not let it stay nested as a reply to another:
A woman pokes and prods and instigates in an attempt to make a guy break up with her. It hurts less when you're the victim of circumstance, even when you're the one that created it. It's the same with most other seemingly random displays of negative emotions. A lot of, I'd honestly say damn near all, women need someone else to act aggressively towards them in order for them to find a way to express themselves or get out of situations that they don't like. We tend not to like feeling as if we are villains; directly confronting a guy about something makes us feel like villains. It doesn't matter that the more indirect ways of getting what we want are objectively more evil and cause more pain- we're not the ones initiating the breakup. It's the guy. He is the villain who is causing the relationship to end, he is the villain that is doing the thing that we are far too often too cowardly to do.
I'm sorry that this is the way things are. I find it important to make sure that guys are able to identify this kind of behavior and either talk with their girls about what is causing them to behave like this, or just leave them and avoid the suffering. For any guys seeing this that are in a relationship with a woman acting this way, there is no shame in wanting the roundabout abuse to stop. Make sure that the people in your life that matter to you understand what's going on, and then confront your girl. Protect yourself and figure out what's going on.
Surprised Ovid didn't just say
"You gotta avoid these 304s my son! ! ! "
One of my dearest friends has been dating a woman with an OF and it's the worst I've ever seen him. I'm hoping he eventually gets out of it because he thinks he's happy but I can tell he's struggling.
Great advice on not assuming instant replies to texts. I would add that you should consider having your phone on silent by default, excepting work or very close but balanced relationships (consider separate phone profiles and/or phones to facilitate that). There should always be a cost associated with your time; even if that is just patience.
I have my phone on silent by default, not just notifications but rings as well.
The only exception is my wife, she can call me anytime, anywhere.
Everybody else will just have to wait(although I have it usually somewhere in sight so I'll catch 90% of the calls as the screen lights up)
The need to be 'constantly online' with. dating apps and feeling like you need to respond immediately is one of the facets of dating apps that makes them unbearable.
Cheers big ears
Oi, I heard that
11:37 bruh as a gen z, this shit struck a nerve. Guys will chat you up for literally WEEKS to never follow through to hang out
Free tip: I stop having any desire to hang out with a woman when she starts calling anyone "bruh" via text.
@@JeffCaplan313 who said I did it via text. I call my guy friends bruh not guys I like lol. I call him something cute
@@mssophiad03 Creating pet names for someone you barely know. Flag right there
@@GodwynDi someone i barely know? I meant my boyfriend
The Romans would be in a mad laughter to see how much the world and it's technology has changed, but people and their petty self have not.
Good women get more attractive the longer you're with them. Character shows on the face, and when you're a good man with a good partner, you create the environment for her to be their best self, and they will perpetually become more beautiful.
It's not just the UK in dire straights, Carl. The whole anglosphere is paying for that long peace.
I met a hot girl at a club and she asked for my number. She seemed a bit too promiscuous for me but she kept asking for my number so I gave it to her. We hung out and hooked up a few times and it was obvious she's been around. We dated casually but exclusively, eventually she was pulling back and I was suspecting she was seeing someone else or at least wanted to.
We were on the phone and she was very rude and combative that night. I was pressing her about her strange stories and behavior because they weren't adding up. She hung up and ghosted me.
Thats what they do :[ sorry, man. You didn't do anything wrong.
She did you a favor by cutting contact. As you get to know more of them, you will find yourself being far less amenable to what they do and how they act. You will end up like I am, where any infraction, any irrational behavior, any semblance of her not being eager to be around you, results in them being released to greater opportunity outside your sphere of influence.
my ex did this, women with a promiscuous past make terrible long term partners. They Constantly hop from guy to guy.
I hope you're not suprised.
"seemed too promiscuous"
"we hooked up a few times"
so you matched perfectly
women believe your actions
"Why you should never date an only fans model" I don't see how this is even a discussion.. the answer is obvious.
The same women that are afraid of their "transparent briefcase" are the same, that do everything in their power, to make the briefcase as transparent as possible.
Nobody values a prize that everyone gets.
Sex is on the guys. Unless you're religious, young women are expected to put out if they want a relationship. It's been that way for a while.
Men will not stick around if they are not getting sex and it can take months to really get to know someone.
Maybe we should bring back chaperones.
Maybe the luxury of being old but I only respond to texts twice a day - after getting up and before going to bed. I don't need the pressure of constant back and forth all the time. I feel bad for you young guys.
I remember my brother and his female friend were talking about the abortion issue in the US and I basically said, if you don't want kids don't have s*x simple, they told me it's not about s*x as we do it for fun.
Zoomers treat sending texts like I treat my Instagram for my business. I know if I don’t keep fresh content coming my audience will drift. They act like there’s an algorithm they need to feed.
This is a great segment! We ignore the wisdom of the past at our peril. But, of course, that is why the Left disparages it at every opportunity. The truth shall make you free. It is the thing the Left fears most.
even if they arent the best looker, cosmetics can fix it, a terrible character on the other hand is much more difficult, and if they're of great enough character looks wont even matter
The RP is getting a whole new meaning ... the Roman Pill.
"If You Wanna Be Happy" Jimmy Soul. Quite a fun song, light hearted and still applicable in this age of IG and OF models.
Two songs for this;
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife!
Or: She's the sorta Sheila for me
No discussion is required for this. It's self evident why not too. She isn't yours if they sell themselves
My mom inlaw is a fine person. Mother like daughter usually.
There are exceptions, some do manage to see the negative example for what it is and choose a different life
Great segment. RIP Albion.
12:20 This is true. I tend not to text a lot, but online discourse over Discord, which is texting++ at this point, has some regimented rules. Not organized explicitly just... an immitation of how everyone else speaks, and is averaged out.
I'm 52, but when I got to Hawaii in my 20s after I joined the Navy, my LPO told me "You can date strippers, but don't marry one." A year of good times and then moving on with my life.
Bros before garden tools.
The lack of having to work and other natural pressures are also what is making so many people depressed. I hear a lot of people talking about UBI or having machines provide for everyone. I always tell them I don't even need to argue against the practicality... You think you want it but you don't. You'll be completely provided for but you'll have nothing to do and no purpose at all.
You are a machine built to survive in harsh environments over the course of millions of years. Every ounce of self worth you have or will ever have comes from fulfilling that function in some way. You stop using a machine for its intended purpose it rusts to dust and blows away.
People have a warp sense of happiness. It's more important to be fulfilled in your life. Happiness shows itself here and there. It is not a constant feeling.
Zoomers love texting
Quick, easy, unambiguous, easy to ignore, easy to avoid confrontation
The problem is that even the low tier and average women engage in the same bullshit behavior. So what’s the solution?
According to your dates in the description box, it appears that Juvenal was about 172 years old when he died.
Its juvenal and ovid.
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I whole heartedly agree. Don't simp. For anyone. I had a friend, who turned into my best friend, and we eventually got feels and shit.. But life is amazing, so stuff came up and I ended up taking care of all bills and everything, like a good "husband/boyfriend/partner/whatever should do.. 2 years of me struggling financially later, I'm 99% sure the relationship is over. Not because things have changed for me, cuz I still got the same feelings and shit, and am annoyingly traditional so I do see it as my duty to take care of it all. But naaah, because she's in a different country dealing with family issues after death, and she withdraw more and more to the point I'm lucky if I get a single sentence of a message once a week.. And the more I tell her she needs to come talk to me more, the longer between messages, and the shorter they become.
I'm obviously gonna continue doing what I am. Cause well, my life is practically over at this point anyway, I got no savings cuz I spent it all over the last 2 years, I got no friends, cuz I'm moronically autistic and don't understand people one bit, so people don't like me. I have no family, cuz the black sheep always get pushed out to give space for the golden boy. I just had to kill my dog after 14 years, cause someone poisoned her. So while I definitely have already lost my relationship, stupid feelings is overriding my logic. I'll go down with the ship, cuz I have nothing else to lose.
Don't be a simp. For anyone.
Don't continue doing the same. Its never too late to take a step back and reorient your life.
@@GodwynDi Sure. You gonna pay for the surgery my back requires, so I can get out of bed? Cuz as I wrote. I got nothing.
We're all gonna die alone lol
Perhaps History keeps repeating itself because most people refuse to learn from it
"What we learn from history is that no one learns from history." - Otto von Bismarck
Yep, every new generation think they know better just because they have invented more tools, conviniently forget that inventing more tools is an inevitable result from accumulation of knowledge gathered from previous generation to present time. Doesn't mean we are more clever than them...
What we severely lack today is wisdom and integrity.
This is something I've mentioned to women who think their body count shouldn't matter.
Let's say we have a daughter, what is her mother going to teach her? I am going to be her father and just like the father in old time movies it's going to be hard to convince me you're good enough for her. I therefore have no interest in a promiscuous woman, in part, and if for no other reason, because I don't want a promiscuous daughter. Men primarily want a companion for themselves and a mother for their children, promiscuous women fail completely at being either one.
texts used to cost money so you'd be less inclined to have an entire conversation via text
Stonetoss never misses.
BEFORE YOU MARRY THE DAUGHTER LOOK AT THE MOTHER BECAUSE THIS IS WHAT YOUR WIFE WILL BECOME
Yes true. Since I got married I've literally turned into my mom. I homemake exactly like she did.
A 10 who's shagged the whole football team can't compete with the 7 who hasn't
A 10 who's shagged the whole football team is a - 5. As far as I'm concerned, she's invisible.
I have never thought a mother's and father's role in healthy encouragement of relationships. The harmless but "embarassing" way a mother asks her children about the opposite sex seems to be more important I thought in a child's view of marriage and relationships
Carl leaves out the power of religion, our forebears had a real faith,this helped them remain virtous
5:08 it's amazing how wisdom two millennia old can be so pertinent to our times.
Do not let talk of decadence and abundance fool us into thinking we should be Stoic and embrace the material depredation that is hurtling towards us.
I find it sad how many guys say things like 'id be fine with it if they were making loads of money...' although on the flip side I do think many of those might change their tune were they actually in that situation.
The vileness of the mother-in-law stands out, as an odd duck in the advice here. For we're often saddled with MILs, and they often are not cruel. Aside from that, yes it's correct.
Jesus Christ, their explanation of Gen Z texting rituals stresses me out.
Instead of trying to date them... Try to marry one and turn them against the current fad. They only exist because they've been abandoned to it.
A Utuber called Kira just covered a similar subject but regarding models going to dubia. Known about that for many years yet the mainstream ignores it.
they are funnelled into high class prostitution, cause all they have is their looks and shattered self esteem. it's pretty sad really.
Our culture has been subverted, leaving our young men and women to fend for themselves
Anyone else here not dating the jabbed, because of 'reasons'?.
Why limit your pool based on that? You can convince someone they were mistaken to trust the government.
@@HarveyDangerLurker So you don't know about the ingredients that's in them?
Can't find any myself. I'd imagine there are far fewer pure blood women than men.
@@ShallowDepression probably less of whatever ingredients you think of than cocaine in your tap water, if you happen to live in a large city.
@@baraka629 I wish it was just that, but alas...
Based advice.
M.G.T.O.W. seems too be the best life,, No headaches just Peace.
Life without struggle seems like it is lacking in virtue.
@@aliasjones6381 you can struggle in other ways, relationships are just unnecessary drama and headaches
@@aliasjones6381no living itself is struggle but why add more when you don't have to and women are some of the biggest struggle out there.
The last point made is one we never, ever consider because we're addicted to a faster pace of living, as well as instant gratification. I would definitely be up for giving it a go since my alone time is very important to me, but I've met guys who throw hissy fits if you don't so much as reply instantly. This constant connectedness to everyone at all times is stifling. As to a "sex worker"s feasibility for marriage... I head a commentator say something like, "so is she giving freebies to her boyfriend then?" Maybe it was one of the reactionary feminists. I'm afraid once you put yourself up for sale, you always are. What's more, it implies you think all women are products, who are failing to take advantage of their natural capital. I cannot accept that if I'm to have respect for myself as a person, and for other women.
That first part is just a discussion you have to have at the start of a relationship. My wife and I did when we started dating. I used to not even carry my cell phone with me when I went out. She didn't like not being able to reach me. Now, I carry it for an emergency, but she doesn't get angry if it takes me awhile to respond. I also don't expect a running commentary when she goes out with her friends unless she will be running late.
Also don't marry a single mother. Right sargon??
Women don’t normally sleep with beta simps however. They sleep with select few men that don’t simp for them. 😂
The problem is that even not very attractive women think they're 10/10. The amount of non-prideful women of actually good character is extremely low nowadays.
Ecclesiastes 1:9
That which has been is what will be,
That which is done is what will be done,
And there is nothing new under the sun.
I'd say women on only fans sold their dignity for a mere $100 dollars (or pounds) a month but that would imply they had dignity in the first place.
I don't think it's fair to say they never had any dignity, but indeed they were swift to divest themselves of it for a paltry sum
I agree, on replies should defo have 3 working days.
It's not just zoomers, I am a millennial and it's one of the reasons I gave up on dating years ago, without exception the girls I dated complained about not hearing/seeing me enough even though we spoke for hours the day before and we'd be together the entire weekend after. There is nothing new under the sun, we've been screwed for a while now, only a misguided boomer would deny this...
From the dawn of humanity...
No matter...! how advanced and modern we get
All the science and technological advancements happened
But
Our Human nature is Same
Women life is mostly around nurture, sex, celibacy and relationships
Men's life is more lonely, with problem solving brain, strategical and analytical thinking.
Depends on the culture, in my own culture men are very social and have a lot of friends. American culture emphasizes the individual.
@@viviennedunbar3374 well as world I see everywhere is same. Including 1st 2nd and 3rd world countries.
Western countries are built on Capitalism and liberal ideology.
The Middle eastern world has religious ideology.
Eastern world follows western culture in minority except china and North Korea.
All over women nature is Same, in western countries women have of, sugar daddy, pornstar and doing prostitution. All is related sex.
In middle east multiple women have only 1 husband and others are just concubine. Related to celibacy and nurture.
In Eastern countries women are highly promiscuous.
So all over the world there life is around sex, celibacy nurture and relationships.
Women should have to figure out how Human Society should have to work function properly.
But women are busy in being 304 and some men out there working hard on problems.
Some of them just marry them somehow and try to build families, and it's broke often as we can see.
Just repeating same history again and again.
People need to just stop caring. Don't play the game, go meet a girl in your area and make the women change their tactics or they will hit the wall.
AY UP LOTUS EATERS
in summary she's not yours it's just your turn. Worry not when she must return to the streets from whence she came
I pray a woman never tries to attack me like that elevator video. Cause im not as patient as that man. That woman would not be leaving that elevator with un-pushed eyeballs
I can think of several reasons, but number one has to be....
My wife wouldn't approve.
what was the thing that the roman couldn't comprehend? it was left out. Maybe it was that people wrote to each other rather than seeing them in person? :)