I’ve received comments from people who wish they saw this video before cutting their hair because they actually regret their big chop. I went from mid-back length hair to nearly bald because I was ready for change. This can be a drastic decision for some people and if someone is not truly ready to cut their they may be unhappy if they cut it prematurely. I pondered my big chop for over a year because I know how long it takes to regrow my hair back to my original length (I cut it years ago when I first went natural and it did not grow back overnight 😂 ). Waiting to grow your hair back feels like forever when miss your long hair. The purpose of this video is to prevent people from making a decision they may regret but you are absolutely right. After the big chop your hair will grow back even better with healthy hair habits💗
For all the black girls if u wanna cut it cut it. It hair I will grow back it’s not the end of the world if u don’t like it throw a wig on. Black women have this weird thing with hair like having long hair equals beauty and it doesn’t. Love you queens ❤️❤️
That’s the reason why I’ve been afraid of cutting it again. But I’m bout to cut it tomorrow myself since I don’t have the resources to get someone to do it for me. Buzz and color here we come!
This lady looks stunning with short hair. Some of us do look prettier with long hair I am one of those people lol. She’s also right about the maintenance of shorter hair cuts!
I’m like so nervous to do a big chop but I want my hair to grow longer, thicker, and healthy. It’s been so damaged from perms, I’ve been getting perm since I was a little girl and I think it’s time I start over.
I big chopped hoping I’d get thicker hair. My ish is thinner now🥺 I’m 4c and my relaxed days were nice but I started to get damage from lack of knowledge. There’s a lot of good formulas & videos on YT now & I didn’t have that back in the day. I’m thinking about relaxing/texlaxing again😩
Shayda Thomas OMG I could not imagine being in Chicago during the winter, I would literally wear 2 coats plus some layers with no shame LOL I’m in NJ which can get cold but not like the Midwest and I still wear so many layers that it makes my coat tight 😂
GIRL! I know right! And honestly maintenance is what you make it. I’m not coloring or cutting once a week ever in this lifetime. I do it myself every 3 weeks and it’s VERY easy to learn. Number 3 or 4 guard and you can’t mess up. Sometimes I’ll cut it on a Number 1 if I just want it super low and wavy. I also feel it’s JUST as versatile just in a different way. I can color to my heart’s content with twa hair. I’ve rocked red, purple, fuchsia, different shades of blonde.
So happy I got the courage to cut my hair. I always felt like I’d never do it because I’d look ugly and my head is too big. My hair seemed like it was stuck at one length for years. These past few months ive been wanting to do it and people kept telling me don’t do it but I finally just did it. I was tired , I’m going through so much in my life right now and after holding on to my damaged hair for so long hoping for it to grow I just cut it! I’m so happy and confident I feel beautiful on the inside . If you really want to do it , just do it.
I'm there now. So much has hit me this year. I'm sooooo tired of my hair. It's the longest it's been, but it's been frustrating. The blonde has broke it off and I just want change. How has your journey been so far? It's been one year right? Would love some feed back. Trying to make my decision . 😫
I see NO CONS with this big chop ! I love it ! It’s only been a little over a month and my hair’s growing back faster than it’s ever grown before. I feel that I’m at the length now where I can even get a protective style so I’m excited. Only thing is I DON’T wear hats so my head gets cold sometimes lol
Crissy Angel We never realize how much our hair protects us from cold-weather until we big chop LOL!!! I’m definitely looking forward to spring. I am so glad you love your big chop!!!!
I did "the big chop" at age 43 - now I'm almost 59, and it's still delighting me! As you alluded, it does depend on lifestyle and personal preference. It's wise of you to advise others to count the cost to their emotions when making such an extreme hair change. For me, it's the way to go, but we're all different and learning more about ourselves constantly. 😇 #NiceVideo
Honestly I cut my hair simply because of stress in life, my hair was very long and thick and my family would praise me simply because my hair was long healthy ( since my mom and her mom and so forth all they knew were perms, they never considered being natural ) but constantly taking care of my hair was such a huge responsibility i just cut it all off. Not once did i ever regret it even after the process. a huge weight went off my shoulders and i was able to explore new looks. But for first timers who do big chops please don't cute it too low! because if you don't like it you can always resort to braids. if your too young to wear wigs or just not interested in them. (:
This is the exact reason I wanted to cut my hair. It would take forever to detangle and style my hair so I eventually depended upon salons to maintain my hair. I usually got a shampoo, blow out and flat iron because it was easy to maintain for 2 weeks before going back to the stylist. I eventually ended up with heat damage so I just cut it but really I was just tired of the fact that I had to rely on other people to maintain my hair so that it didn’t consume my life. I was so over it. When I finally cut my hair my morning routine became so much easier. I haven’t looked back since🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I know exactly how you feel, you are so right 💯 🎯
There is absolutely too much stress for women on hair, I just chopped all mine off it’s hair it will grow back and if it doesn’t it doesn’t are you breathing? have love for your family and above all love the lord you’ll be ok there are women and men with cancer and hair won’t grow back it’s hair Alhamduillah we have a head on our shoulders ☮️ And you look fabulous btw
I’m only 20 and I did the big chop about 4 times since the age 15 and each year it grew back faster and to my original shoulder length! Yes it can be scary and makes you impatient especially if you’re like me and love braids but it’s super worth it, you could also just trim and wear protective styles but that times time for all the damage hair to be gone and I’d rather it be gone all at once so I just chop away. It’s just hair it’ll grow back that’s how I mentally prepare myself and yes my hair is my crown but my crown doesn’t define ME❤️ much love everyone and thanks for this video!
I'm big chopping my hair in 2 weeks. I am so ready for a fresh start and a clean slate. The last time I big chopped I got a medium length tapered cut, but I definitely want to go shorter this time.
I big chopped last week and I am so glad I did! I was not happy with my hair at all. So much damage from wearing wigs and weaves and now I feel free! I have a TWA and it's so easy to style in the mornings, wash and go takes 5 minutes. I get compliments all day long, more than I ever did with my long hair weaves! Super excited for this natural hair journey and to finally be embracing my natural kinks and coils instead of trying to change them!!
I want to cut my hair cause I've been depressed for the last few months and I feel like doing so will make me feel fresh and new, but this video has challenged me think about it deeper. I'm still attached to my afro and I know I'll definitely do a big chop before the year ends, but I think I need more time to get my mental and emotional self more collected before I make such a huge decision. Thanks for this
Great video! I’ve been completely natural for almost five years...My last relaxer was in 2014 and I big-chopped in 2016 after a 14 month transition period. One reason for such a long, frustrating transition period was that fear of feeling naked. Your hair looks really good short. Having a pretty face is indeed a gift. Tfs❤️
karen horton Thank you! I felt the same way when I transitioned from relaxed to natural years ago. After a year I HAD to cut it. It was SO hard working with two extremely different textures. I wish I big chopped the 1st time!!! NEVER again LOL
I had no plan to big chop my hair when it was already decided. For the first couple of weeks I felt bare without my hair. This video gave me the motivation to truly get back on top of taking care of my hair. Whether your hair is long, short, curly, wavy, know that you are worth it. Stay positive. 💜💜
Reading the comments made me that much more confident. When I saw this title I was worried. Thank you queens in the comments. I’m about to do the big chop today and I’m so nervous and that’s why I’m here but reading the comments made me more excited. Hair is hair and it will grow back. We know the haircut is just that and there is no coming back from it. My thing is if I have an issue I can always throw on a wig. I wear wigs now with long hair so I’m good. No need of me continuing the video because I read the first 5 comments and I will be gorgeous no matter what.
I found it empowering when I stepped outside my comfort zone and did it. It's been a year and six months and I definitely don't regret it. I had hair loss in my crown and did not realize it would not be growing back as fast until it all started growing back and none was in my crown. I freaked out, I started using rogaine foam and I tried to be as patient as possible. And that is when I started rocking head scarves. And learning how to tie them different ways and I have one for every outfit. Now I have five to six inches all over but the crown is still shorter and I'm doing protective hairstyles and it's still a process, it's still rogaine.... it Will b forever now, but I treat it like brushing my teeth, I need toothpaste forever. That part. We are black women. We brave with bounce back. Ladeez, if you are thinning a shave may save the rest. i did not Know how bad my damage was until I shaved it. Facts!
I'm 15 my hair is alright it's not completely healthy tho, I have really damaged edges I've been trying to grow them for literally 2 years no difference. this year is when I got a chance to really play with my hair and give it the love it deserves because I'm always home doing nothing I'm so grateful to this year but i think it's time i chop it off I'm telling you my edges are literally BALD I'm going to grow my hair and take the steps that are needed. Wish me luck
Hey girl, I was wondering if you wear a silk cap/wrap at night ? And also maybe test different oils out ( if you haven’t already). I kept putting coconut oil and olive oil in my hair cus everyone said it would work wonders. Turns out I’m really sensitive to those oils and they give me breakage. This hair thing is a real journey, wishing you the best !
Ive been wanting to do a big chop for almost 3 years now but my mom won’t let me cut my hair. Imma freshmen in high school and I’m ready for a change, my hair isn’t healthy right now due to perms it hadn’t be growing.What should I do?
Ultimately, you know your mom best which may help you understand why she doesn’t want you to cut your hair. I’m sure that she is coming from a place of love and looking out for your best interest. In my experience, when we really want some thing we tend to focus on it to the extent that we overestimate the importance of what it is. Although I don’t regret big chopping my hair, sometimes I do miss it long. Once you turn 18 you will have the rest of your life to cut your hair so don’t get discouraged if you can’t cut it now. In the meantime, communicate with your mom respectfully and maybe together you can come up with a solution that’s best for the health of your hair...Perhaps you can start with asking to trim the damaged ends so that you can improve the overall health of your hair. Then experiment with different natural styles with the length you have so you can enjoy switching up your look.
Yeah, you’re 100% right she just has my best interest in mind, it’s hard to communicate what I want might not be what she wants for me. But I really appreciate the reply.And u look gorgeous with your hair btw😩❤️
Eveie Love Awww thanks for the compliment!!! Trust me you’ll be 18 making your own decisions in no time; it’s kinda overrated LOL so appreciate this time with your mom. Moms do the best they can as Moms.💕
I hate when ppl try to downplay other people’s feelings. I cut my hair and honestly I regret it and wish I watched this video first. I also felt like well it’s hair it will grow back and it will grow back healthier and I know that I look very nice with short hair however I just regret the choice that’s it.
I love my natural hair!! I recently cut it off very short and I did it myself. I'm actually glad that I did! I've been having issues with relaxers taking my hair out. So I'm so glad that that's over!!☺😊. Thanks so much for this inspiring and thoughtful video.
You’re welcome. I never realized how damaging relaxers can be to our hair until I transitioned to my natural hair. There is an extreme difference between my relaxed hair and my natural hair. My natural hair is so much fuller in comparison to how thin my relaxed hair was. Our natural hair is definitely much healthier than relaxed hair. I am so glad you love your natural hair and shout out to you for cutting it yourself...That takes a lot of courage! Much respect❤️
I didn’t even like my hair. My hair & I were never on the same line. Now I just miss HAVING my hair, running my hands trough it & stuff. Just gotta be patient. When I’m at my original length again, I’ll know what it needs & how to take care of it
O I cut my hair this short a week ago dreading what I would look like. Everyone everywhere I go compliments my haircut. No regrets this way. I had to come back to let u know because seeing how beautiful u looked inspired me. Thanks for sharing.
Aww thank you for being so sweet💕. I am always so happy to find out that someone else loves their big chop and has no regrets, that is so awesome 🙌🏾😊 Now look at you inspiring others too... I am sure someone of the people who compliment your hair are low key considering the big chop now LOL
I just turned 18 and I Finally have the freedom to cut my hair. I’m very excited and happy I feel like I am to depend on my hair. Growing up in this generation you hair,body and clothes define who you are and I don’t want the same for me. I want to be different even if I’m my only support system.
Girl I’m only 17 and I’m natural but my hair is thin and damaged in some places , every time my mom sees my natural hair she trips out and ask if I cut it or it had been cut like it’s her hair and it’s mine ! I’m so fed up with my hair I want to cut it but she won’t support maybe before I’ll get some braids and secretly do it
Already big chop 3rd time now. First time to a twa. second time bald.third time, back to a twa(now). I love it all this time. There are many limitations tho. Stuck to a fro state for one. Waiting 6 months for it to grow out. Some styles unravel really easy. I can only wear twist outs right now. It's all good tho. Easy life, happy me.
This is a great video. I've been depressed and obsessed with my overly processed hair for a week, after attempting to do a roller set today I threw the rollers and set my appt for Saturday for my 2nd big chop. My hair is past bra length and it was so healthy until my hair lady bleached it two months in a row earlier this year. I had keratin for 2 years and life was so easy until it no longer wasn't. I'm not good with two textures and my hair doesn't define me! So a new chapter starts soon and I'm already smiling 😃.
I big chopped my mid back length hair hair for a similar reason. Mine was heat damaged. You’re right, your hair doesn’t define you!!!! I hope you like your big chop.😊
@@LoriLoveTV hey Lori yes I love my hair again,I feel so free and back to the real me. It's nothing like embracing our hair and owning the beauty & confidence that comes with it. I hope you're loving your hair too, ty for the chat lady.
@@jessiwave8 You’re so welcome!!! I agree...Our hair is so beautiful and we have every reason to be confident in all of who we are. I’m still loving my big chop. I so glad you love your hair again 🙌🏾💕😊
Black women look very beautiful with short hair. The short hair really enhances their beautiful bone structure, especially their exquisite high cheekbones that most black people naturally have. I wish my short hair would look as good as the short hair I see on black women. This girl in the video is very beautiful and very chic with her short hair. I would love to have short hair like hers. Gorgeous!!!
I wanna cut off my hair even tho it's already natural and this video really is helpful. I feel like hair doesn't define who I am as a girl. Thanks you for the video. God bless you
I just cut my hair on Saturday, I just less product ,less wash time but I’m still getting used to the fact that I do not have hair anymore. I’ll just keep dying it help me not feel boring in a way. I also used it as a test of confidence to get comfortable with my body and my life in general it’s like I needed to build myself and grow and I noticed doing this really helped me. So cut it if you to💕💕
Had a break down 2 weeks ago, took me a really long time to grow it this long ( almost bra strap) I don’t have the time for it anymore and it hurts, feels like I’m giving up on my hair, it breaks my heart.
Seyikunmi Adedeji I used to feel the same way when I was contemplating big chopping my hair. I had invested so much time in maintaining my hair and I felt like long hair was a part of my identity. However, my long hair in its natural state was extremely time consuming for me to properly manage my hair on my own and I didn’t want to continue straightening my hair as it was I starting to loosen my curl pattern and my hair was looking thinner. I finally got to a point where I just couldn’t spend my time maintaining my hair or stressing over another visit to the salon. When I big chopped I was at peace. I knew that I was not giving up on my hair but instead I had chose to just go with the flow of my life. I can always wear a wig if I miss my wearing my hair Long and I could stop cutting it so it can grow back at any time. For now my short, natural hair just works best for me and my lifestyle. I say all of that to say, you are not alone and I hope you do what gives you peace.❤️
I had terrible heat damaged hair and I grew my hair out without having to chop my hair off I just trimmed my damaged hair before I get a sew in and that is how I are my hair out to be hugeeee and full.
@@janay3096 Yes, keep trimming time after time and it doesn't have to be all in one day. I had to fake it till I make it with the heat damage and just did my trims occasionally when it was out of a protective style and when it was time for braids or sew in I trim. The hair will always grow back especially when the hair has some good moisture. Growth starts from the roots and will eventually stretch itself out. Once you trim you'll be able to see the progress.
miriam thomas I agree with smh... You can slowly transition by trimming the damaged ends periodically. It’s a great way to maintain your length as you grow out your healthy hair 😊
Lori Love my scalp in the front seems to be damaged, it’s not growing in as soft as defined as the rest of my head after big chop and the thinning around the edge lines
I wanna big chop but I have kinky hair in the back and curly in the front and I think imma look bad so imma go to the salon and get it done so I don't feel like it's my fault lmao. I'm just in 6th grade and I'm low key nervous (more like highkey)
Juice box Lmao at “imma go to the salon and get it done so I don’t feel like it’s my fault.“ 😂 You can do a tapered style with your hair longer in the front and shorter in the back to complement your curl pattern or start with a medium chop until you feel comfortable with the big chop... I usually find a picture of a style I like that I believe will work with my curl pattern... Then the trial and error begins until I find what works for me. LOL Btw, I’m proud of you for even considering such a bold move in the 6th grade. I wish I was as brave as you in the 6th grade. I was clowned everyday from grades 6-10. It wasn’t until I stopped caring about the opinions of others and started doing me that I started to shine; my only regret is that I didn’t do it sooner. People will always have an opinion so now is the best time to get in the habit of not caring. Whatever you decide, all that matters is that you are confident in your decision. Confidence looks beautiful on everybody!!!
i just big chop and umm... i cried an hour later bc i thought i looked funny. no one else seems to like it but me but, i’m getting so much more comfortable with it. wish i would’ve seen this beforehand tho lmaoo
We can't expect to look exactly the same when we cut our hair because when we cut our hair it is a completely different look. All that matter's is that you like your hair. Some body will have something to say regardless of what you do. If we concern ourselves w/the opinions of people, we'll never be free. Just being yourself is enough so never stop being you; let the world adjust. 💛💛💛
❤️❤️ Thank you soooo very much for this information. I’m in that frame of mind where I want to cut/trim my hair. I’ve been naturally for almost 3 years. My hair color is salt and pepper. When it was long, it showed my “Cruella Deville” (the white streak in her hair) from the movie 101 Dalmatians. It’s still there. I just have more gray mixed in. I have a birthday party to go to in December and I just want a new look. Sometimes I feel like I look old with my hair the way it is. I feel like I need a change for now. Thank you again for your encouragement and support to us that is thinking about THE BIG CHOP!!!❤️❤️
I’ve big chopped my hair so many times. Bald to even low cut. It’s just hair. It’ll grow back. And I’ll tell you one thing! Once you go bald you’ll become more confident and not hiding your face behind your hair. Or realizing your hair should not Define you!
Milla Maya OMG I feel the same way every time I look at old pictures of myself with my hair longer😭. Oh but when wash day comes I’m like 🙌🏾 ... Your hair will grow in quick though. I cut mine every month to keep it short 😏
I cut my hair short at 25. I continued wearing it short for the better part of ten years. I found a few of ways to style it. I loved my short hair and learned to cut and maintain it myself. I was able to freely experiment with color since damage wasn’t much of an issue because I was cutting my hair so frequently. Being a working mom at the time, short hair really worked for me. Plus, I swam on a regular basis. Short hair really brings out your features and accentuates the length of your neck. It’s something I feel women shouldn’t be afraid of. ❤
Ariii Baeee how did you know it was time? I really want to do this. I am a school teacher, since we won’t be going back face to face right now, I figured now is the time but I’m still a tad bit unsure
Karen Holmes Okay well my hair was really badly heat damaged and I transitioned for almost two years. I was just so tired of having two different textures. I just cut it off and I was contemplating doing it for a while. I also cut a little piece of my hair last year and it got so long so I realized that if I had cut all my hair it would be that length by next year. I came to a realization and that’s how I knew it was time!!
Thank you for being so transparent! I didn’t take any of this into consideration for my first big chop; now I’m considering doing it again but I think I’m ready now!
I just did my 4th big chop & this time I wanna enjoy it and keep it short instead of trying to grow it back,. The biggest con for me was learning to style it, but now I always feel put together with my one style
my mom stopped doing my hair in 4th grade so I was ultimately left to do it myself, I had to learn to braid but it became a tedious task to do every morning along with getting dressed and other things. I started asking to straighten my hair and my mom took me to a salon, my hair sometimes got messed up if my bonnet fell off while I was sleeping so I ended up straight ironing my hair every morning. I've cut my hair multiple times because I never really cared how my hair looked. My hair is now damaged from the straightening and i'm SUPER excited to cut it again this summer. I feel like people are scared to cut their hair because short may not be deemed "pretty" but I think its absolutely beautiful and once you cut it, you'll realize that you feel better with healthy hair.
Great, great video and the honesty is real. I big chop my hair two times in my life because I needed a change. This time I wanted to go natural. I’m in the fall season of my life (67) and I was tired of using flat irons or curling irons. During the pandemic I cut 1-2 inches and finally when the salon opened ...she did the big chop. I suggest you gradually cut your hair to see how you feel about it being short. My hair was shoulder length and when I was younger it was down my back. First decide on the reason and then the method and how to maintain it or if you are going to let it grow. My hair has grown a lot in 3 months and I plan on letting it grow a little longer. Curleys and natural beauties it’s hard to embrace your hair and not be controlled by what Society says is an acceptable look for us. There are some many products (black owned) to choose a style/look that best represents you. I wish they were available when I was younger. Enjoy your crown 👑 🙏🏾🙅🏾
I big chopped in 2017 and I was glad I did. I always wanted to cut all my hair off and when I did, I had no regrets. You look really nice with your hair cut.
Lori Love you’re welcome. Sms, I remember how easy it was with short hair. Enjoy it and rock it with your beautiful self. I hope that you and your family will continue to stay safe.
And if you are cutting your own hair, keep a mirror handy and make sure you have enough light. And please use guards! Use a longer guard than you think you need at first, then go down to shorter guards until you find a cutting length you are comfortable with.
I'm so excited to cut my hair I just want an extreme new look and want to experiment and also find a style that works, if it doesn't work it's no big deal to be I'm just excited for the experience and journey! 😊😆🎉💜✨
ARMY Girl Nia Yas!!!! I felt the same way when I big chopped. I had my share of styles and colors I and love and styles and colors I hate. Best part about it is the fact that it grows back every month and I can start all over with a new style and/or color. I’m excited for you!!! Here’s to the journey 🙌🏾😊💜 ✨🎊
It's totally up to the Individual, TOTALLY!!! I've worn my natural long but I prefer it short. Nothing to do with low maintenance, short is just me now. I love short on me. However, I love the look of all the sista's, Short, Med, Long. It doesn't matter, it's all beautiful😍 #Natural #iRockMeMyWay #YouRockYouYourWay #WeRockUsOurWay❤💯
It took me 3 times before i loved my twa.. Plus i was going through life changes. I didnt hv anything else to loose but my hair..so i kept going shorter and shorter. Once i found the products that my hair liked i went for color.. Now its fall and im wanting to relax but i think i can just do a crochet style and hang tough til spring. It grows fast short. In short..one may love the chop at first cut or 4th cut. Depends on where u are in ur journey..but be u!
That is so true!!! Our journeys are unique and what matters most is that we be ourselves through it all because ultimately the only thing that truly changes is our hair. What is most important is our confidence and love for self-the big chop definitely reminds us of that.
Girl your cut looks amazing😍I really wanna cut my hair because it doesn’t grow and is uneven, but as it hasn’t been growing im scared if I cut it, it will take longgg to grow💀
Maryam Diarra Thank you 💕 Everyone’s hair grows at a different pace. If you’re concerned about it taking too long for your hair to grow back if you big chop, perhaps you can trim it so it’s even. 🤗
Lori Love I don’t think I look so good but the health of my hair what matters lol I just can’t get my curls right and I’m thinking about going shorter cause I basically have a pixie cut and I’m thinking about cutting the rest off
Bambi Gold Is there a stylist you trust that can help tweak the style or the cut before you cut the rest off? And you’re right, healthy hair is definitely most important. I’ve had a few bad cuts & colors that caused me to cut it all off for a fresh start. Best part part is your hair will continue grow back! You WILL find what works for you 🤗
I totally agree. I did a big cut 20 yrs ago and that's when I was getting perms. It was sexy, oh yes but gotta go to barber to get the fly shape up, keep eyes done and seems like I was getting more touch ups. Hair was growing like crazy. I luv short sexy cuts, they accent your face but it does take quite a bit of maintenance. I envy those sisters who can keep it together.
I did the big chop 3 weeks ago and I would definitely add products to that cons list… I have bought different kinds of gels, custards, combs, mousse, etc… and I still can’t get that initial look 🥴🥴
Perhaps you can start with some pictures of other ladies with a similar face shape as yours who have the hairstyle you want. Get some inspo from IG & pinterest. If you can't find anything, be the 1st to do what hasn't been done and you'll find people look at you for inspo! I'm sure a short cut would look beautiful on you :-)
it's me corrine Google Jill Scott’s big chop. She is still gorgeous!!!! Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. If you can’t find any pictures of other women, perhaps you should be the 1st!!! We can be our own worst critic but I’m sure you’ll be fine. Maybe you can try a short wig to see if you’ll like how short hair looks on you before you actually cut your hair. 🤗
A couple months back I had to cut off a significant amount of my hair BC it got severely matted after a depressive episode. Hair that could reach down my back was now to my ears. Adjusting to that is hard and it still is! I still miss my long hair. And now, I feel like the growth isn’t happening. My mom thinks my hair is falling out from the roots and my hair has been bleached many times and I just don’t want it to be damaged anymore (even though I love coloring my hair) because I think that’s the main reason it’s falling out. I love feeling feminine and pretty and girly and I worry that shaving my head will take that away from me. Even with my haircut I feel like I look boyish and it would be even worse if I shaved it. I wanted to get braids but I don’t think braids can save this mess. I think I very well may go through with it, even if it’s a little traumatic at first. I have a couple of wigs and hats I can cover it with haha
You can still be feminine, pretty and girly with short hair because you're still a girl - you just have shorter hair now. Of course if you miss your hair long, wigs and braids do help as you grow your hair back. I hope by now you have adjusted to your short. You'll always be you regardless of the length of your hair so go confidently in the world and enjoy your journey.
I learned this the hard way 😂 I had a lot of failed hairstyles and hair colors before I found my favorite style and color.The cool thing about the big chop is that I just cut my hair all off and start it over every time I didn’t like the style or color😊
This is very informative. I do want to venture back to healthy hair. I am just not great at managing my hair. It's probably good that I am able to admit that I am realizing by stating this, I take care of me last. It's not a huge deal for me. I am a little compulsive and I have to finish tasks I set out for or goal with task. Anyway, I have been thinking seriously about just chopping it all of in order to start again and let it grow out while I learn to care for it again. Very helpful video. Thank you for taking time to present.
I don’t do well at managing my hair either. I chose to big chop my hair to get rid of heat damage but most importantly I wanted to enjoy the ease of maintaining my hair short. For me, my short hair is just so much easier to manage than my long natural hair. I am so glad that you realized that you put yourself last because with this realization also comes the opportunity make a few tweaks. Remember that self care is not selfish. Self care is necessary in order to serve from a place of fullness so don’t forget to take some “me time” even it’s just a few minutes of gratitude each day. If you decide to big chop to start your healthy hair journey, I really hope you enjoy it. It really means a lot to know that you found this video helpful. Thank you for sharing. 💕
Thank you so much for this video because I dyed the ends of my hair and I don’t like how it made my curls feel so I’m gonna ask my parents if I can do a big chop and btw I love you hair 🥰
Star Butterfly You can gradually trim the color off your ends as an alternative to the big chop. Best wishes on whatever you decide. Thank you for sharing 💛
I had Covid hairloss thinned out my hair . Ready to get a big chop so grow in better all broken off in back have curly hair . It’s a mess ! Cutting short best thing !
Nah I've been waiting for a long time to do this. It's the best decision I've ever made. I hate ponytails and buns and that's what I always had or loose. Tired of that. Buzzed it and i love it. I have my own clippers. If u miss ur long hair just buy a good wig.
I felt the same way when I finally big chopped!!! You are absolutely right- a wig is always an option so no need to be bound by your hair if you’re ready for a change😊. I haven’t looked back since I big chopped!!! I’m always glad to know someone else is loving their big chop!! Thank you for sharing💜
I started using hair growth oil on my sides which I believe are thin due to wearing tight braids. I’m trying to get more consistent with it. Hopefully it works. I also had blood work done and now I take Vitamin D3 and Iron supplements per doctor’s orders. I’m hoping the my meal plan along with the supplements will help my hair grow in fuller at the top.
I think you look amazing with your Big chop I'm also wearing the short look aswell Thanks for sharing the pro's and con's with us much love and Blessings to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️💯
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“Once it’s gone, it’s gone..”
A better way to phrase that is “once it’s gone.. it’ll grow back even better.”
I’ve received comments from people who wish they saw this video before cutting their hair because they actually regret their big chop. I went from mid-back length hair to nearly bald because I was ready for change. This can be a drastic decision for some people and if someone is not truly ready to cut their they may be unhappy if they cut it prematurely. I pondered my big chop for over a year because I know how long it takes to regrow my hair back to my original length (I cut it years ago when I first went natural and it did not grow back overnight 😂 ). Waiting to grow your hair back feels like forever when miss your long hair. The purpose of this video is to prevent people from making a decision they may regret but you are absolutely right. After the big chop your hair will grow back even better with healthy hair habits💗
@@LoriLoveTV factsss
@@crystalclark2927 💖💖💖
not always the point is once its gone u gone have to wait
I appreciate this
Everytime a woman cuts her hair she's about to make a big change~ It always grows back. Take the leap
Mimi Simone Facts 💯
So true.. I chopped my hair off yesterday. I feel like I'm at the start of something big
@@clarissecatelynn946 and, did you change in any way :)
Yeee just shaved my hair bald yesterday , new year , new beginnings , néw everything ! 2021 is my year !!
@@aziebkaleab7617 I wish I could do that , but my mom would never let me .
For all the black girls if u wanna cut it cut it. It hair I will grow back it’s not the end of the world if u don’t like it throw a wig on. Black women have this weird thing with hair like having long hair equals beauty and it doesn’t. Love you queens ❤️❤️
Summer Eugene 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾Preach!!!! Love you too Queen💕💜💕
That’s the reason why I’ve been afraid of cutting it again. But I’m bout to cut it tomorrow myself since I don’t have the resources to get someone to do it for me. Buzz and color here we come!
@@cisleymartinez3169 update us sis! I just know it looks good on you! I'm tryna cut my hair off too we in this together!
This lady looks stunning with short hair. Some of us do look prettier with long hair I am one of those people lol. She’s also right about the maintenance of shorter hair cuts!
Chim Nsi as you should queen 💅🏾
I’m like so nervous to do a big chop but I want my hair to grow longer, thicker, and healthy. It’s been so damaged from perms, I’ve been getting perm since I was a little girl and I think it’s time I start over.
Liyah _ Just trim gradually if you are too. This will allow you to maintain your length and transition to a full head of healthy hair over time🤗
I big chopped hoping I’d get thicker hair. My ish is thinner now🥺 I’m 4c and my relaxed days were nice but I started to get damage from lack of knowledge. There’s a lot of good formulas & videos on YT now & I didn’t have that back in the day. I’m thinking about relaxing/texlaxing again😩
@@kay-ty5rx 🙏🏾 please dont do it!!! As long as you stay consistent, moisturize, and eat healthy your hair will improve.
*and gentle detangling.
Regular deep conditioning with heat.
OMG your short hair makes your beautiful face pop...
Michelle willoby Aww thank you so much 😊
the only real CON I have with having really short cut is my head is COLD! lol
Angela J 😂😂😂You need beanies in all colors on deck!!! One for each day of the week😏
@@LoriLoveTV GREAT IDEA! LOL
Lol I was just thinking about this. I live in Chicago❄️⛷️
@@shaydaslays exactly lol
Shayda Thomas OMG I could not imagine being in Chicago during the winter, I would literally wear 2 coats plus some layers with no shame LOL I’m in NJ which can get cold but not like the Midwest and I still wear so many layers that it makes my coat tight 😂
I'm cutting my hair today, its a spiritual journey I'm on, thanks for telling it like it is
You're welcome...Best wishes on your journey💕
right! i’m on my spiritual journey too, i definitely need a change
Same !!!
You look like ms ✨entanglement✨
😆😆😆She's beautiful, so that's a complement to me. Thanks!!!
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Lmao not ms entanglement
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All you gotta do is take your bonnet off and go........IM SO READY TO CUT MY HAIR OFF😆
😆 It’s like having a permanent protective style🙌🏾 If you big chop, I hope you love it as much as I do 😎
Non- binary doll I cut off my hair and it feels good
Non- binary doll me tooooooo
GIRL! I know right! And honestly maintenance is what you make it. I’m not coloring or cutting once a week ever in this lifetime. I do it myself every 3 weeks and it’s VERY easy to learn. Number 3 or 4 guard and you can’t mess up. Sometimes I’ll cut it on a Number 1 if I just want it super low and wavy. I also feel it’s JUST as versatile just in a different way. I can color to my heart’s content with twa hair. I’ve rocked red, purple, fuchsia, different shades of blonde.
So happy I got the courage to cut my hair. I always felt like I’d never do it because I’d look ugly and my head is too big. My hair seemed like it was stuck at one length for years. These past few months ive been wanting to do it and people kept telling me don’t do it but I finally just did it. I was tired , I’m going through so much in my life right now and after holding on to my damaged hair for so long hoping for it to grow I just cut it! I’m so happy and confident I feel beautiful on the inside . If you really want to do it , just do it.
I'm there now. So much has hit me this year. I'm sooooo tired of my hair. It's the longest it's been, but it's been frustrating. The blonde has broke it off and I just want change. How has your journey been so far? It's been one year right? Would love some feed back. Trying to make my decision . 😫
@@AmarisLW wanna cut mine too. Did you also?
@@roypatra1509 Hey not yet. I have braids I'm taking out soon and wanted to cut it after I remove them. I have about three weeks to decide lol
I.felt.every.word. Me right now
I see NO CONS with this big chop ! I love it ! It’s only been a little over a month and my hair’s growing back faster than it’s ever grown before. I feel that I’m at the length now where I can even get a protective style so I’m excited. Only thing is I DON’T wear hats so my head gets cold sometimes lol
Crissy Angel We never realize how much our hair protects us from cold-weather until we big chop LOL!!! I’m definitely looking forward to spring. I am so glad you love your big chop!!!!
Lori Love Lol right exactly! yes as am I ! My favorite season & thank you so much 😊
Crissy Angel You’re welcome 😊
I did "the big chop" at age 43 - now I'm almost 59, and it's still delighting me! As you alluded, it does depend on lifestyle and personal preference. It's wise of you to advise others to count the cost to their emotions when making such an extreme hair change. For me, it's the way to go, but we're all different and learning more about ourselves constantly. 😇 #NiceVideo
Honestly I cut my hair simply because of stress in life, my hair was very long and thick and my family would praise me simply because my hair was long healthy ( since my mom and her mom and so forth all they knew were perms, they never considered being natural ) but constantly taking care of my hair was such a huge responsibility i just cut it all off. Not once did i ever regret it even after the process. a huge weight went off my shoulders and i was able to explore new looks. But for first timers who do big chops please don't cute it too low! because if you don't like it you can always resort to braids. if your too young to wear wigs or just not interested in them. (:
This is the exact reason I wanted to cut my hair. It would take forever to detangle and style my hair so I eventually depended upon salons to maintain my hair. I usually got a shampoo, blow out and flat iron because it was easy to maintain for 2 weeks before going back to the stylist. I eventually ended up with heat damage so I just cut it but really I was just tired of the fact that I had to rely on other people to maintain my hair so that it didn’t consume my life. I was so over it. When I finally cut my hair my morning routine became so much easier. I haven’t looked back since🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I know exactly how you feel, you are so right 💯 🎯
You look like the beautiful Jada Pinkett she worn her hair like this back in the 90s❤❤❤
FeeFee 86 I love Jada Pinkett!!! Thank you 🥰💕
I definitely thought it was Jada in the thumbnail.
Yes! It’s definitely giving me that vibe. I love it 💙
When you have a face like hers anything will look good😂
LOL Thanks that’s really sweet of you to say 💕
There is absolutely too much stress for women on hair, I just chopped all mine off it’s hair it will grow back and if it doesn’t it doesn’t are you breathing? have love for your family and above all love the lord you’ll be ok there are women and men with cancer and hair won’t grow back it’s hair Alhamduillah we have a head on our shoulders ☮️ And you look fabulous btw
I’m sitting here watching this after my big chop... 💇🏾♀️
La Bamba I hope you are happy with your big chop 😊
Lori Love I wasn’t at first because of the shape of my head 😂 But now its cool! Thank you
Same!!
La Bamba This whole process allows us to grow and appreciate ourselves more 😊
Ms. Lee Allen ❤️❤️❤️
I’m only 20 and I did the big chop about 4 times since the age 15 and each year it grew back faster and to my original shoulder length! Yes it can be scary and makes you impatient especially if you’re like me and love braids but it’s super worth it, you could also just trim and wear protective styles but that times time for all the damage hair to be gone and I’d rather it be gone all at once so I just chop away. It’s just hair it’ll grow back that’s how I mentally prepare myself and yes my hair is my crown but my crown doesn’t define ME❤️ much love everyone and thanks for this video!
We are definitely more than our hair! Love this comment and thanks for sharing ♥
I love cutting my hair. It is so liberating!
Mary Watkins It truly is 🙌🏾
True! I've never felt so liberated omg
I'm big chopping my hair in 2 weeks. I am so ready for a fresh start and a clean slate. The last time I big chopped I got a medium length tapered cut, but I definitely want to go shorter this time.
VintageAfro91 Best wishes with your big chop. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do 😊
I’m cutting my hair in a few hours. It is extremely damaged, and I can’t deal with it. I’m dying it blonde and I’m so excited!
Anisah Nazario Yas!!!! Welcome to the journey 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
If it's damaged you should wait until it's healthy before you dye it. You don't want bald spots.
I big chopped last week and I am so glad I did! I was not happy with my hair at all. So much damage from wearing wigs and weaves and now I feel free! I have a TWA and it's so easy to style in the mornings, wash and go takes 5 minutes. I get compliments all day long, more than I ever did with my long hair weaves! Super excited for this natural hair journey and to finally be embracing my natural kinks and coils instead of trying to change them!!
I want to cut my hair cause I've been depressed for the last few months and I feel like doing so will make me feel fresh and new, but this video has challenged me think about it deeper. I'm still attached to my afro and I know I'll definitely do a big chop before the year ends, but I think I need more time to get my mental and emotional self more collected before I make such a huge decision. Thanks for this
Great video!
I’ve been completely natural for almost five years...My last relaxer was in 2014 and I big-chopped in 2016 after a 14 month transition period. One reason for such a long, frustrating transition period was that fear of feeling naked.
Your hair looks really good short. Having a pretty face is indeed a gift. Tfs❤️
karen horton Thank you! I felt the same way when I transitioned from relaxed to natural years ago. After a year I HAD to cut it. It was SO hard working with two extremely different textures. I wish I big chopped the 1st time!!! NEVER again LOL
It looks absolutely beautiful! 😍
Aprille C Thank you so much!!!! It’s super easy to maintain too 🙌🏾
I had no plan to big chop my hair when it was already decided. For the first couple of weeks I felt bare without my hair. This video gave me the motivation to truly get back on top of taking care of my hair. Whether your hair is long, short, curly, wavy, know that you are worth it. Stay positive. 💜💜
I just kept cutting it off until I was ready to grow it out 🥴
Chel Bels I did the same thing when I was transitioning from relaxer to natural. It’s a great way to maintain your length 😏
Reading the comments made me that much more confident. When I saw this title I was worried. Thank you queens in the comments. I’m about to do the big chop today and I’m so nervous and that’s why I’m here but reading the comments made me more excited. Hair is hair and it will grow back. We know the haircut is just that and there is no coming back from it. My thing is if I have an issue I can always throw on a wig. I wear wigs now with long hair so I’m good. No need of me continuing the video because I read the first 5 comments and I will be gorgeous no matter what.
I hope your big chop went well!
Thank you for sharing, Latasha ♥ How do you like your big chop?
I found it empowering when I stepped outside my comfort zone and did it. It's been a year and six months and I definitely don't regret it. I had hair loss in my crown and did not realize it would not be growing back as fast until it all started growing back and none was in my crown. I freaked out, I started using rogaine foam and I tried to be as patient as possible. And that is when I started rocking head scarves. And learning how to tie them different ways and I have one for every outfit. Now I have five to six inches all over but the crown is still shorter and I'm doing protective hairstyles and it's still a process, it's still rogaine.... it Will b forever now, but I treat it like brushing my teeth, I need toothpaste forever. That part. We are black women. We brave with bounce back. Ladeez, if you are thinning a shave may save the rest. i did not Know how bad my damage was until I shaved it. Facts!
I'm 15 my hair is alright it's not completely healthy tho, I have really damaged edges I've been trying to grow them for literally 2 years no difference. this year is when I got a chance to really play with my hair and give it the love it deserves because I'm always home doing nothing I'm so grateful to this year but i think it's time i chop it off I'm telling you my edges are literally BALD I'm going to grow my hair and take the steps that are needed. Wish me luck
Wishing you all the best ❤️❤️❤️
Hey girl, I was wondering if you wear a silk cap/wrap at night ? And also maybe test different oils out ( if you haven’t already). I kept putting coconut oil and olive oil in my hair cus everyone said it would work wonders. Turns out I’m really sensitive to those oils and they give me breakage. This hair thing is a real journey, wishing you the best !
Ive been wanting to do a big chop for almost 3 years now but my mom won’t let me cut my hair. Imma freshmen in high school and I’m ready for a change, my hair isn’t healthy right now due to perms it hadn’t be growing.What should I do?
Ultimately, you know your mom best which may help you understand why she doesn’t want you to cut your hair. I’m sure that she is coming from a place of love and looking out for your best interest. In my experience, when we really want some thing we tend to focus on it to the extent that we overestimate the importance of what it is. Although I don’t regret big chopping my hair, sometimes I do miss it long. Once you turn 18 you will have the rest of your life to cut your hair so don’t get discouraged if you can’t cut it now. In the meantime, communicate with your mom respectfully and maybe together you can come up with a solution that’s best for the health of your hair...Perhaps you can start with asking to trim the damaged ends so that you can improve the overall health of your hair. Then experiment with different natural styles with the length you have so you can enjoy switching up your look.
Yeah, you’re 100% right she just has my best interest in mind, it’s hard to communicate what I want might not be what she wants for me. But I really appreciate the reply.And u look gorgeous with your hair btw😩❤️
Eveie Love Awww thanks for the compliment!!! Trust me you’ll be 18 making your own decisions in no time; it’s kinda overrated LOL so appreciate this time with your mom. Moms do the best they can as Moms.💕
Truuueee💕
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Eveie Love Thanks for the suggestion, will do 😊
I hate when ppl try to downplay other people’s feelings. I cut my hair and honestly I regret it and wish I watched this video first. I also felt like well it’s hair it will grow back and it will grow back healthier and I know that I look very nice with short hair however I just regret the choice that’s it.
I just cut my hair today, and I feel like a new born baby 😂😂 can’t wait for the growth.
I love my natural hair!! I recently cut it off very short and I did it myself. I'm actually glad that I did! I've been having issues with relaxers taking my hair out. So I'm so glad that that's over!!☺😊. Thanks so much for this inspiring and thoughtful video.
You’re welcome. I never realized how damaging relaxers can be to our hair until I transitioned to my natural hair. There is an extreme difference between my relaxed hair and my natural hair. My natural hair is so much fuller in comparison to how thin my relaxed hair was. Our natural hair is definitely much healthier than relaxed hair. I am so glad you love your natural hair and shout out to you for cutting it yourself...That takes a lot of courage! Much respect❤️
i just cut my hair and now it’s uneven😂
I did that once😂. I just started wearing wigs until it grew back. Give it a few months and you’ll be good.
It looks good on you, but I know it takes getting adjusting too.
nancy breaux Thank youuuu 😊 The longer it gets, the harder it is to keep the style for at least 2 to 3 days so I stay on top of my trims.
I didn’t even like my hair. My hair & I were never on the same line. Now I just miss HAVING my hair, running my hands trough it & stuff. Just gotta be patient. When I’m at my original length again, I’ll know what it needs & how to take care of it
O I cut my hair this short a week ago dreading what I would look like. Everyone everywhere I go compliments my haircut. No regrets this way. I had to come back to let u know because seeing how beautiful u looked inspired me. Thanks for sharing.
Aww thank you for being so sweet💕. I am always so happy to find out that someone else loves their big chop and has no regrets, that is so awesome 🙌🏾😊 Now look at you inspiring others too... I am sure someone of the people who compliment your hair are low key considering the big chop now LOL
I just turned 18 and I Finally have the freedom to cut my hair. I’m very excited and happy I feel like I am to depend on my hair. Growing up in this generation you hair,body and clothes define who you are and I don’t want the same for me. I want to be different even if I’m my only support system.
YASSS Mya, keep that same energy FOREVER!!!
Girl I’m only 17 and I’m natural but my hair is thin and damaged in some places , every time my mom sees my natural hair she trips out and ask if I cut it or it had been cut like it’s her hair and it’s mine ! I’m so fed up with my hair I want to cut it but she won’t support maybe before I’ll get some braids and secretly do it
just big chopped a few days ago and it was so freeing it felt great
EB0YUTA 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Already big chop 3rd time now. First time to a twa. second time bald.third time, back to a twa(now). I love it all this time. There are many limitations tho. Stuck to a fro state for one. Waiting 6 months for it to grow out. Some styles unravel really easy.
I can only wear twist outs right now.
It's all good tho. Easy life, happy me.
Moonlight 201932 Those are some great cons worth mentioning!!! Glad to hear that you’re happy!!! It’s definitely easier for me too.
I’ve been watching everyone’s big chop videos since I posted mine, and I’m loving it girl ❤️
QueenBeluchi Yas big chop hair is it for me!!!!
This is a great video. I've been depressed and obsessed with my overly processed hair for a week, after attempting to do a roller set today I threw the rollers and set my appt for Saturday for my 2nd big chop. My hair is past bra length and it was so healthy until my hair lady bleached it two months in a row earlier this year. I had keratin for 2 years and life was so easy until it no longer wasn't. I'm not good with two textures and my hair doesn't define me! So a new chapter starts soon and I'm already smiling 😃.
I big chopped my mid back length hair hair for a similar reason. Mine was heat damaged. You’re right, your hair doesn’t define you!!!! I hope you like your big chop.😊
@@LoriLoveTV hey Lori yes I love my hair again,I feel so free and back to the real me. It's nothing like embracing our hair and owning the beauty & confidence that comes with it. I hope you're loving your hair too, ty for the chat lady.
@@jessiwave8 You’re so welcome!!! I agree...Our hair is so beautiful and we have every reason to be confident in all of who we are. I’m still loving my big chop. I so glad you love your hair again 🙌🏾💕😊
Black women look very beautiful with short hair. The short hair really enhances their beautiful bone structure, especially their exquisite high cheekbones that most black people naturally have. I wish my short hair would look as good as the short hair I see on black women. This girl in the video is very beautiful and very chic with her short hair. I would love to have short hair like hers. Gorgeous!!!
aww thank you so much 🥺💕
Today is the day of my big chop and I’m committed to getting it done.
I wanna cut off my hair even tho it's already natural and this video really is helpful. I feel like hair doesn't define who I am as a girl. Thanks you for the video. God bless you
I am so happy you found this video helpful...You are so right!!! You define You 💕
@@LoriLoveTV thanks for the reply
Lorraine Beza You’re welcome 😊
I just cut my hair on Saturday, I just less product ,less wash time but I’m still getting used to the fact that I do not have hair anymore. I’ll just keep dying it help me not feel boring in a way.
I also used it as a test of confidence to get comfortable with my body and my life in general it’s like I needed to build myself and grow and I noticed doing this really helped me. So cut it if you to💕💕
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Had a break down 2 weeks ago, took me a really long time to grow it this long ( almost bra strap) I don’t have the time for it anymore and it hurts, feels like I’m giving up on my hair, it breaks my heart.
Seyikunmi Adedeji I used to feel the same way when I was contemplating big chopping my hair. I had invested so much time in maintaining my hair and I felt like long hair was a part of my identity. However, my long hair in its natural state was extremely time consuming for me to properly manage my hair on my own and I didn’t want to continue straightening my hair as it was I starting to loosen my curl pattern and my hair was looking thinner.
I finally got to a point where I just couldn’t spend my time maintaining my hair or stressing over another visit to the salon. When I big chopped I was at peace. I knew that I was not giving up on my hair but instead I had chose to just go with the flow of my life. I can always wear a wig if I miss my wearing my hair Long and I could stop cutting it so it can grow back at any time. For now my short, natural hair just works best for me and my lifestyle. I say all of that to say, you are not alone and I hope you do what gives you peace.❤️
I’m so thankful that my husband is a barber. Saves a lot of coins and he maintains all of our hair ❤️
Nice!!! You are very fortunate especially with COVID-19 our here in these streets. Be well and stay safe❤️
@@LoriLoveTV thank you 🙏 You be safe as well 💕
@@kandikane1588 You’re welcome 💕
I had terrible heat damaged hair and I grew my hair out without having to chop my hair off I just trimmed my damaged hair before I get a sew in and that is how I are my hair out to be hugeeee and full.
smh I did that when I I initially went natural. It’s a great way to get back to full healthy hair while maintaining your length 😊
So you can just fix heat damage by getting a trim?
@@janay3096 Yes, keep trimming time after time and it doesn't have to be all in one day. I had to fake it till I make it with the heat damage and just did my trims occasionally when it was out of a protective style and when it was time for braids or sew in I trim. The hair will always grow back especially when the hair has some good moisture. Growth starts from the roots and will eventually stretch itself out. Once you trim you'll be able to see the progress.
miriam thomas I agree with smh... You can slowly transition by trimming the damaged ends periodically. It’s a great way to maintain your length as you grow out your healthy hair 😊
Lori Love my scalp in the front seems to be damaged, it’s not growing in as soft as defined as the rest of my head after big chop and the thinning around the edge lines
I wanna big chop but I have kinky hair in the back and curly in the front and I think imma look bad so imma go to the salon and get it done so I don't feel like it's my fault lmao. I'm just in 6th grade and I'm low key nervous (more like highkey)
Juice box Lmao at “imma go to the salon and get it done so I don’t feel like it’s my fault.“ 😂 You can do a tapered style with your hair longer in the front and shorter in the back to complement your curl pattern or start with a medium chop until you feel comfortable with the big chop... I usually find a picture of a style I like that I believe will work with my curl pattern... Then the trial and error begins until I find what works for me. LOL
Btw, I’m proud of you for even considering such a bold move in the 6th grade. I wish I was as brave as you in the 6th grade. I was clowned everyday from grades 6-10. It wasn’t until I stopped caring about the opinions of others and started doing me that I started to shine; my only regret is that I didn’t do it sooner. People will always have an opinion so now is the best time to get in the habit of not caring. Whatever you decide, all that matters is that you are confident in your decision. Confidence looks beautiful on everybody!!!
loveliess You are so right, it doesn’t matter what others think!!! Keep shining!!!
Yeah I big jones mine and I have 3b on the top and 3c on the back and the sides and it looks like a tapered cut lol
i just big chop and umm... i cried an hour later bc i thought i looked funny. no one else seems to like it but me but, i’m getting so much more comfortable with it. wish i would’ve seen this beforehand tho lmaoo
We can't expect to look exactly the same when we cut our hair because when we cut our hair it is a completely different look. All that matter's is that you like your hair. Some body will have something to say regardless of what you do. If we concern ourselves w/the opinions of people, we'll never be free. Just being yourself is enough so never stop being you; let the world adjust. 💛💛💛
❤️❤️ Thank you soooo very much for this information. I’m in that frame of mind where I want to cut/trim my hair. I’ve been naturally for almost 3 years. My hair color is salt and pepper. When it was long, it showed my “Cruella Deville” (the white streak in her hair) from the movie 101 Dalmatians. It’s still there. I just have more gray mixed in. I have a birthday party to go to in December and I just want a new look. Sometimes I feel like I look old with my hair the way it is. I feel like I need a change for now. Thank you again for your encouragement and support to us that is thinking about THE BIG CHOP!!!❤️❤️
I’ve big chopped my hair so many times. Bald to even low cut. It’s just hair. It’ll grow back. And I’ll tell you one thing! Once you go bald you’ll become more confident and not hiding your face behind your hair. Or realizing your hair should not Define you!
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I did the big chop a few weeks ago and I'm loving it the products and all. My stylist did her thing.
That is so awesome!!!
Girl I miss my hair so much 😭 I want some knotless braids so bad ughhh
Milla Maya OMG I feel the same way every time I look at old pictures of myself with my hair longer😭. Oh but when wash day comes I’m like 🙌🏾 ... Your hair will grow in quick though. I cut mine every month to keep it short 😏
I cut my hair short at 25. I continued wearing it short for the better part of ten years. I found a few of ways to style it.
I loved my short hair and learned to cut and maintain it myself. I was able to freely experiment with color since damage wasn’t much of an issue because I was cutting my hair so frequently.
Being a working mom at the time, short hair really worked for me. Plus, I swam on a regular basis.
Short hair really brings out your features and accentuates the length of your neck. It’s something I feel women shouldn’t be afraid of. ❤
I big chopped my hair yesterday and I absolutely love my hair I cut about 16 inches off and I’ve never felt so better about anything!!
Ariii Baeee how did you know it was time? I really want to do this. I am a school teacher, since we won’t be going back face to face right now, I figured now is the time but I’m still a tad bit unsure
That is awesome! The big chop is just that liberating 🙌🙌🙌
Karen Holmes Okay well my hair was really badly heat damaged and I transitioned for almost two years. I was just so tired of having two different textures. I just cut it off and I was contemplating doing it for a while. I also cut a little piece of my hair last year and it got so long so I realized that if I had cut all my hair it would be that length by next year. I came to a realization and that’s how I knew it was time!!
Ariii Baeee thank you for responding!!! I am going to go thru with it
Karen Holmes of course and I just know your hair is gonna grow really fast 🥳
Thank you for being so transparent! I didn’t take any of this into consideration for my first big chop; now I’m considering doing it again but I think I’m ready now!
I understand missing long hair but mama you are KILLIN this look!! 💕💕
Thank you so much 😊💕💕
I just did my 4th big chop & this time I wanna enjoy it and keep it short instead of trying to grow it back,. The biggest con for me was learning to style it, but now I always feel put together with my one style
my mom stopped doing my hair in 4th grade so I was ultimately left to do it myself, I had to learn to braid but it became a tedious task to do every morning along with getting dressed and other things. I started asking to straighten my hair and my mom took me to a salon, my hair sometimes got messed up if my bonnet fell off while I was sleeping so I ended up straight ironing my hair every morning. I've cut my hair multiple times because I never really cared how my hair looked. My hair is now damaged from the straightening and i'm SUPER excited to cut it again this summer. I feel like people are scared to cut their hair because short may not be deemed "pretty" but I think its absolutely beautiful and once you cut it, you'll realize that you feel better with healthy hair.
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Love it, just cut my hair again since I'm staying in.
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Girl...I tapped on this vid cause I had 2 tell you how much you look like Jada Pinkett in that thumbnail...🤯
OMG I was just watching Red Table Talk the other day. Jada Pinkett is so gorgeous!!! I receive this as a major compliment, thank you ❤️
You are gorgeous and the short cut works perfectly for you.
Thank you so much 💛
I just did my big chop today. It was liberating. I think in traumatized my fiancee though lol I can't wait to see my new healthy hair growth
Great, great video and the honesty is real. I big chop my hair two times in my life because I needed a change. This time I wanted to go natural. I’m in the fall season of my life (67) and I was tired of using flat irons or curling irons. During the pandemic I cut 1-2 inches and finally when the salon opened ...she did the big chop. I suggest you gradually cut your hair to see how you feel about it being short. My hair was shoulder length and when I was younger it was down my back. First decide on the reason and then the method and how to maintain it or if you are going to let it grow. My hair has grown a lot in 3 months and I plan on letting it grow a little longer. Curleys and natural beauties it’s hard to embrace your hair and not be controlled by what Society says is an acceptable look for us. There are some many products (black owned) to choose a style/look that best represents you. I wish they were available when I was younger. Enjoy your crown 👑
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Thank you!!! I agree 100% Thank you so much for sharing 💛
I big chopped in 2017 and I was glad I did. I always wanted to cut all my hair off and when I did, I had no regrets. You look really nice with your hair cut.
Tashron Tyson Thank you!!! I feel the same way, no regrets... It makes my life so much easier 💕
Lori Love you’re welcome. Sms, I remember how easy it was with short hair. Enjoy it and rock it with your beautiful self. I hope that you and your family will continue to stay safe.
I needed this😂 I'm just doing a mini big chop ,but now I'm ready after considering everything you spoke about❤
looley_lee Williams I glad you found this video helpful. 😊❤️
And if you are cutting your own hair, keep a mirror handy and make sure you have enough light. And please use guards! Use a longer guard than you think you need at first, then go down to shorter guards until you find a cutting length you are comfortable with.
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I'm so excited to cut my hair I just want an extreme new look and want to experiment and also find a style that works, if it doesn't work it's no big deal to be I'm just excited for the experience and journey! 😊😆🎉💜✨
ARMY Girl Nia Yas!!!! I felt the same way when I big chopped. I had my share of styles and colors I and love and styles and colors I hate. Best part about it is the fact that it grows back every month and I can start all over with a new style and/or color. I’m excited for you!!! Here’s to the journey 🙌🏾😊💜 ✨🎊
Cutting my hair was the best decision of my life. I’m absolutely in love with it
Yas!!! I feel the same way. I’m so glad you love your hair 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I needed this video!!! Very well spoken girl!!! Your cut looks so beautiful btw!!
Simply Shanta Thank you so much for the compliments! Thanks for letting me know that this video was helpful; it means a lot to me 💕
@@LoriLoveTV you are welcome girl!!
It's totally up to the Individual, TOTALLY!!! I've worn my natural long but I prefer it short. Nothing to do with low maintenance, short is just me now. I love short on me. However, I love the look of all the sista's, Short, Med, Long. It doesn't matter, it's all beautiful😍 #Natural #iRockMeMyWay #YouRockYouYourWay #WeRockUsOurWay❤💯
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thanks for getting straight to the point 💕
You’re welcome💕
It took me 3 times before i loved my twa.. Plus i was going through life changes. I didnt hv anything else to loose but my hair..so i kept going shorter and shorter. Once i found the products that my hair liked i went for color.. Now its fall and im wanting to relax but i think i can just do a crochet style and hang tough til spring. It grows fast short. In short..one may love the chop at first cut or 4th cut. Depends on where u are in ur journey..but be u!
That is so true!!! Our journeys are unique and what matters most is that we be ourselves through it all because ultimately the only thing that truly changes is our hair. What is most important is our confidence and love for self-the big chop definitely reminds us of that.
Girl your cut looks amazing😍I really wanna cut my hair because it doesn’t grow and is uneven, but as it hasn’t been growing im scared if I cut it, it will take longgg to grow💀
Maryam Diarra Thank you 💕 Everyone’s hair grows at a different pace. If you’re concerned about it taking too long for your hair to grow back if you big chop, perhaps you can trim it so it’s even. 🤗
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You are so freaking pretty!
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Thanks for the love and thank you for subscribing 💕
You look FAB. YOU ARE PULLING IT OFF JUST FINE.
authentica63 Thank youuuu 💕
I’m starting a new journey next year 🔥🙏🏽 healthy progress only
Happy New Year!!!! I hope you enjoy the journey 💗
I’m thinking about cutting my hair off. I’m back lol I did it but I don’t like the style of my hair cut so I might get more cut off 😬😂
Yas!!! I hope you love whatever you decide!!!! :-)
Lori Love I don’t think I look so good but the health of my hair what matters lol I just can’t get my curls right and I’m thinking about going shorter cause I basically have a pixie cut and I’m thinking about cutting the rest off
Bambi Gold Oh snap!!!! I’m so sorry to hear you don’t like the style.
Bambi Gold Is there a stylist you trust that can help tweak the style or the cut before you cut the rest off? And you’re right, healthy hair is definitely most important. I’ve had a few bad cuts & colors that caused me to cut it all off for a fresh start. Best part part is your hair will continue grow back! You WILL find what works for you 🤗
Your gorgeous my hair all the way down my back I love big chop cuts I look young.im 60 I wear a scarf every day or bun
Thank you. Love that!
I totally agree. I did a big cut 20 yrs ago and that's when I was getting perms. It was sexy, oh yes but gotta go to barber to get the fly shape up, keep eyes done and seems like I was getting more touch ups. Hair was growing like crazy. I luv short sexy cuts, they accent your face but it does take quite a bit of maintenance. I envy those sisters who can keep it together.
Antoinetta Saunders True! The maintenance is especially no joke in this quarantine!!! My hair is almost 3inchs now. I’ma have to cut it myself LOL
I did the big chop 3 weeks ago and I would definitely add products to that cons list… I have bought different kinds of gels, custards, combs, mousse, etc… and I still can’t get that initial look 🥴🥴
I'm dying to cut my hair because I'm so over the maintenance but I have a chunky face and dont know what shape to get
Perhaps you can start with some pictures of other ladies with a similar face shape as yours who have the hairstyle you want. Get some inspo from IG & pinterest. If you can't find anything, be the 1st to do what hasn't been done and you'll find people look at you for inspo! I'm sure a short cut would look beautiful on you :-)
Yeah i know its really hard to find pictures of plus size women with short natural hair
it's me corrine Google Jill Scott’s big chop. She is still gorgeous!!!! Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. If you can’t find any pictures of other women, perhaps you should be the 1st!!! We can be our own worst critic but I’m sure you’ll be fine. Maybe you can try a short wig to see if you’ll like how short hair looks on you before you actually cut your hair. 🤗
I do not mean this bad at all but I’m so jealous of people with textured hair because they can pull off a shaved head. You’re glowing darling!
I love textured hair too!!!! Thank you so much ❤️
A couple months back I had to cut off a significant amount of my hair BC it got severely matted after a depressive episode. Hair that could reach down my back was now to my ears. Adjusting to that is hard and it still is! I still miss my long hair. And now, I feel like the growth isn’t happening. My mom thinks my hair is falling out from the roots and my hair has been bleached many times and I just don’t want it to be damaged anymore (even though I love coloring my hair) because I think that’s the main reason it’s falling out.
I love feeling feminine and pretty and girly and I worry that shaving my head will take that away from me. Even with my haircut I feel like I look boyish and it would be even worse if I shaved it.
I wanted to get braids but I don’t think braids can save this mess. I think I very well may go through with it, even if it’s a little traumatic at first. I have a couple of wigs and hats I can cover it with haha
You can still be feminine, pretty and girly with short hair because you're still a girl - you just have shorter hair now. Of course if you miss your hair long, wigs and braids do help as you grow your hair back. I hope by now you have adjusted to your short. You'll always be you regardless of the length of your hair so go confidently in the world and enjoy your journey.
I like what you said about styles like styles aren’t going to look exactly the same bc we have different types of hair etc…
I learned this the hard way 😂 I had a lot of failed hairstyles and hair colors before I found my favorite style and color.The cool thing about the big chop is that I just cut my hair all off and start it over every time I didn’t like the style or color😊
Girl, please!!! You look AMAZING. You're gorgeous. 😍Great advice though. Very helpful.😉
I’m so glad to hear that you found this video helpful. Thank you so much for the compliments😊
This is very informative. I do want to venture back to healthy hair. I am just not great at managing my hair. It's probably good that I am able to admit that I am realizing by stating this, I take care of me last. It's not a huge deal for me. I am a little compulsive and I have to finish tasks I set out for or goal with task. Anyway, I have been thinking seriously about just chopping it all of in order to start again and let it grow out while I learn to care for it again. Very helpful video. Thank you for taking time to present.
I don’t do well at managing my hair either. I chose to big chop my hair to get rid of heat damage but most importantly I wanted to enjoy the ease of maintaining my hair short. For me, my short hair is just so much easier to manage than my long natural hair. I am so glad that you realized that you put yourself last because with this realization also comes the opportunity make a few tweaks. Remember that self care is not selfish. Self care is necessary in order to serve from a place of fullness so don’t forget to take some “me time” even it’s just a few minutes of gratitude each day. If you decide to big chop to start your healthy hair journey, I really hope you enjoy it. It really means a lot to know that you found this video helpful. Thank you for sharing. 💕
Thank you so much for this video because I dyed the ends of my hair and I don’t like how it made my curls feel so I’m gonna ask my parents if I can do a big chop and btw I love you hair 🥰
Star Butterfly You can gradually trim the color off your ends as an alternative to the big chop. Best wishes on whatever you decide. Thank you for sharing 💛
I had Covid hairloss thinned out my hair . Ready to get a big chop so grow in better all broken off in back have curly hair . It’s a mess ! Cutting short best thing !
I think you look really great!
Joan Berry Thank you!!!! Easiest hairstyle I’ve ever had 😊
Nah I've been waiting for a long time to do this. It's the best decision I've ever made. I hate ponytails and buns and that's what I always had or loose. Tired of that. Buzzed it and i love it. I have my own clippers. If u miss ur long hair just buy a good wig.
I felt the same way when I finally big chopped!!! You are absolutely right- a wig is always an option so no need to be bound by your hair if you’re ready for a change😊. I haven’t looked back since I big chopped!!! I’m always glad to know someone else is loving their big chop!! Thank you for sharing💜
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I was planning on "Big "Chopping my hair but I do have thin spots I do not want exposed and that's exactly what's been keeping me from doing it.
I started using hair growth oil on my sides which I believe are thin due to wearing tight braids. I’m trying to get more consistent with it. Hopefully it works. I also had blood work done and now I take Vitamin D3 and Iron supplements per doctor’s orders. I’m hoping the my meal plan along with the supplements will help my hair grow in fuller at the top.
Your hair is beautiful and the color is gorgeous
Tina Delgado Thank you so much 😊
I think you look amazing with your Big chop I'm also wearing the short look aswell Thanks for sharing the pro's and con's with us much love and Blessings to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️💯
Thank you so much, Annette!! It was a great pleasure making these videos. Much love and Blessings to you as well ❤️❤️❤️
You look beautiful!! I want to cut my hair but everyone keeps saying to talk shut and all of that😐😐😐
Me too. This would be a second big chop but I will eventually do it.
@@RoRo-gm7ee I can't do it tho
MekedaWill Thank you🙏🏽. Do what you feel most at peace about.💛
Roshawnna Gordon Nice💕
MekedaWill It’s good to know what you like and don’t like and what you will and won’t do. Be true to you💛
Fresh hair cut is Freeing. I will never change
So true! I grew my hair out after a year, but then I cut it again because I missed this length. So liberating!