🌿ASMR🌿 I Cried Over a Starbucks Drink - 100% Whispered (Embarrassing) Story Time
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
- [Filmed 7/23/22]
Hi, Sleepyheads! I know I use some pretty harsh language to discuss myself in this video, but don’t worry, I wasn’t being (too) serious-my feelings of chagrin were still very raw, that’s all lol!
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Who here would pay to have Remme back?! Where do you go? Favorite ASMR person...I hope your well and happy. She offers something special to the ASMR world a true skill and a natural. A story teller and a gentleness. An actress and a friend of sorts sharing very relevant things that we all endure. Very creative and Authentic and just miss seeing you on here....
She mentioned she had car trouble etc. I know how stressful that is. Financially and also just making the decision. Sigh. But yes, totally miss her soothing voice on here.
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@@swim10 I hope she’s doing okay ❤️🙏🏻
I would pay!! Haha! I looked her up on patreon and couldn't find her. I hope she is okay. This last
I used to be a team lead at Starbucks and she did not handle the situation well. It takes 2 seconds to say sorry for blending it & take care of you. One thing I miss about starbucks is all the interactions. You have to come down to the south if you’re expecting hospitality from a big store like starbs
I hope you’re feeling a lot better nowadays Remme. You seem like such a sweetheart and stress sucks!!
I feel SO much better, tysm for asking! I remember being so stressed around this time, and I think that low period forced me to develop a lot of new coping skills; so though life can ofc still be very stressful, it doesn’t get to me as much these days! Thanks for this sweet comment, hope you’re doing OK too!! ❤️
I have the same struggle communicating under pressure 😩 I always forget that a lot of people are aggressive because it’s easier to be that way 🤷♀️ Imagine the negative energy/karma those people are attracting though 😅 yikes! Sending positive vibes your way! 💖
you are truly a light in this world remme. i’m absolutely grateful for your existence 💛
Welcome back Remme☺️Sorry to hear about the time you’ve been having recently🤍Hoping that things start to look up for you soon💗xx
hi remme! thanks for the tingly shout out! truthfully no judgement here i too have cried over starbucks drinks (while at work) not even because of customers.
My suggestions for getting consistent matcha (besides just asking the employees to remake it, which is totally ok, u have my barista stamp of approval lol) is to ask if maybe they would give you an extra scoop of matcha on the side so you can maybe add to your liking! but genuinely it’s ok to ask for remakes and i know you’re nice and considerate so if anyone is giving you any trouble they absolutely should not be. like many situations in life it’s important to pick and choose your battles and i think the barista probably has a rough day and was looking to take it out on someone or something small!
as for your conspiracies, the leveling of the scoop could have some truth to it but as far as i know we haven’t ordered new spoons so i don’t think the size of the spoons themselves have changed at all! my other guess would be batch inconsistencies in the matcha (idk if it can happen with matcha, but it happens with a lot of our other products).
i think you were totally ok in the situation, also as a barista, i always ask what the issue with the initial drink is to make sure that i am rectifying the problem with the new drink (too sweet, not sweet enough, too much of something, too little of something) so she really dropped the ball there /: it genuinely makes it easier for customer and worker alike.
You don't need to be embarrassed Remme , I cried when my ice cream fell off my ice cream cone. A five year old kid was staring at me like 😮
I saw the title and said “She is just like me. Love her!”
I don't engage with crazy drivers what a narcissist. I don't even look at them keep your window up and drive. I hope your lows are nothing compared to your highs in the future days and weeks.
Remme, I am a new mom who works from home and my fiancé works at night sometimes. I get lonely and have insomnia frequently from worry and stress. I have been playing your videos as of late because I enjoy your long rambles. It feels like a friend is with me telling me a story to comfort me 😊 I’m sorry to hear these past few months have not been the best, I truly hope it goes up from here💕
I don’t think you did anything wrong. I think the employee was rude. It sounds like she was unhappy with her job and she took it out on you. I’ve worked in the service industry for years and I still strive to provide customers with great service even if that requires a little extra on my part. Attitude truly is everything, and your attitude wasn’t the problem in this interaction. I understand how you feel, though. I have so much anxiety over every interaction too.
Welcome back!! So sorry you are having such a hard time at the moment, I hope your in a better space soon ❤❤
Sending you so much love during your difficult time. I’m hoping you’re taking time for yourself and feel better soon❤❤❤
Hoping you’re okay. I know we all miss you! I think I speak for everyone when I say i look forward to you returning when you’re ready!!
I just saw your view count on your channel and that’s crazy how you don’t have more views! Wtf I’m mind blown I obsessively watch all of your videos reme I hope you get more 😭🫶🏻
Have been wondering about this! These kinds of moments are perfect for all this STUFF to spill out. Feel for you.
Oh no :/ I’m glad you were able to acknowledge that you were unfairly asking for emotional labor from this person. Perhaps this worker didn’t have the capacity for the conversation you wanted to have aside from trying to fix your drink to your preference. You are asking your audience to have compassion for what is going on in your life while simply labeling a person you have interacted with once as an angry person and an asshole. I encourage you to ask yourself why
Yes and no, I feel. I do understand fundamental attribution error (despite what you say), and I do always want to grow and deepen my compassion-so I appreciate your comment along those lines. But I think you are bringing your own biases into how you heard this story and are being pretty condescending toward me.
I’m pretty sure I at one point even used the exact words ‘this person was angry, maybe not in general, but in that moment,’ and that I fully understood why that might be. I also said that I’d felt that my communication up to that point had been pretty poor and potentially confusing, so for a moment I (yes, wrongly) actually thought it wouldn’t take much to clear things up-and from there things escalated within literal seconds.
Now that some time has passed-and I’ve encountered that person out in the world again-I’m actually more comfortable saying that I feel like the truth is somewhere in the middle. There have been plenty of times in my own employment history when I knew full well that I was unfairly rageful towards individual customers/guests/clients-even in the context of my most obnoxious, thankless jobs, it wasn’t OK, and it definitely wasn’t their responsibility to blithely receive it.
Yes, I want to grow my compassion, always-yet another, arguably equally important part of my personal development work is to stop taking shit from people. So now I turn to you, a person I don’t know at all-and for whom I provide at least some small degree of my largely unpaid labor-because you’ve come here months after the fact to ask this additional emotional labor from me… and I encourage you to ask yourself why.
Much respect for having the courage to put out an embarrassing story about yourself and not take it too seriously 🤙🏿 that thumbnail tho 😂😂
No you aren’t being silly, I think the shrink inflation is real bc I have seen some baristas state that the pumps for the pumpkin sauce are smaller so I wouldn’t be surprised that the spoons for the matcha are also smaller as well.
Shalom, salam aleikum, merry christmas and wish you well Remme! 🌺💕
You're back!!!! You were missed. Thank you for coming back.
I hear a little fuzzy FM radio static. I like it. Do you know what is causing the fuzzy staticky noise?
I hope that you are able to find some relief and relaxation soon 🤍I appreciate your story and you voice is so relaxing^_^
P.s. you have a Lana del Rey quality
The part where you spoke really slowly in the end was Asmr magic!! Please make vids where you speak slowly
You wanted understanding... she sounded very immature not everyone can deal on a better level unfortunately she couldn't. I don't think you should regret trying to connect as a human being. Keep being your sweet self you did nothing wrong. If everyone is disconnected we are going the wrong way fast
You said the barista was being "immature", but you also have no idea what type of day she might have been having or what she could be going through. Did she handle the situation right? Absolutely not. Was she considerate of Remme's feelings and what she was going through that day? No, she wasn't. But I would probs be annoyed if I'm tired and trying to get through my shift and someone wants to stop and have a conversation. I understand that she may have 'chose' to work in a service industry job, but we live in a time unfortunately where a lot of ppl are forced to have to do jobs they really don't wanna do. Not everyone's going to have a sweet, calm, outgoing and happy-go-lucky personality, nor should they be expected to. The barista may have also not thought she was being 'aggressive' ; I don't think she said anything that I would consider outrageous - she seemed more annoyed or irritated than angry imo. A random person telling you that you're "angry" can come across as condescending - I know I get even more annoyed when I'm just pissed off or irritated and someone interprets that as me being angry.
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I'm sorry to hear about your dad's partner my cousin partner is end of life aswell it's so sad 😥
As an ex Starbucks barista + matcha lover, although I haven’t had a Starbucks matcha in forever, shaken is THE only way the drink should be made. I bet they did make the scoop smaller sounds like Starbucks lolol unfortunately. Maybe try and find a more local coffee shop that would make it better :,) anyway you were totally not in the wrong. Your drink should taste good for you since you paid for it and I hope the comments here have made you feel a bit better about the situation.
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I missed you remme!❤️
That was a scary driving situation!!
Glad you are safe♡
On another note, what hair care products do you use? Your hair is beautiful!!
So scary! And totally my fault, if I’m remembering this story correctly!
And thank you so much, for my shampoo I switch between Acure’s Ultra-hydrating and their Curiously Clarifying, and for conditioner I use the Love Beauty and Planet Coconut Water & Mimosa.
And then for styling I use a microfiber ribbon (kinda like an old bathrobe tie) + Verb Ghost Weightless Hair Oil to do overnight curls! I read that satiny ribbons don’t work as well for certain hair textures, and in my experience the jersey-type material does work much better!
Love this look. You look extra radiant here. Is it a darker lip? Something is EXTRA 💕
A quick story time she says lmao it’s an hour long😂😂 which I don’t mind at all it’s just funny
Theres gotta be better cafe's in LA than Starbucks?🙊
There are tons and Starbucks isn’t one of them!
She needed to suck it up and just make your drink like you wanted it already! It’s a little thing called CUSTOMER SERVICE.
Ok but customer service workers are people too with their own issues, emotions, moods, off-days... they're not robots.
you made me want a matcha so i paused the video, bought one, and now im back to finish watching. so much for breaking habits smh. love your videos btw!
I’m not sure how you’re currently ordering it, but If you want to get a drink a particular way and aren’t ordering it on Mobile, simply start from the beginning by genuinely complimenting the person quickly and then state clearly, “May i please have a matcha latte, with soy, extra matcha, and shaken because i love the froth! Thank you so much!” And if you need to interrupt someone while they’re making it, “pardon me, i don’t mean to be a pain, but treats like This are really special to me, so if you had a moment could you please shake instead of blending/could you please add an extra matcha scoop, i really appreciate it. I don’t need a remake, or anything i don’t want to take up any extra time or resources.”😊
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Great video as always, thank you :) after watching your last video, I wanted to apologize for mansplaining youtube to you by offering unsolicited channel growth advice. Im sorry, please forgive me. Have a great day!
Would you do custom videos
Hi hope youre ok haven't seen a video in awhile .
🛸Damny, where ist Remme? 😪❤
Hi remme
Come back to me, Rammy!
and to swear dont tingle you and it dont make you asleep it's just uncool
i think you should do a Q&A video and apollagise to us then
and i will be intrested to you what you have to say for your self and your true christian fans i think you ow all of us your christian fans apollagy
im sure if people are true christians they will know it's not right at all to swear. and jesus said those who makes sin like it is jokes including curse and swear he whont leave them un punished.
Lol
Haha whelp, I hope there’s matcha in Hell
@@RemmeASMR ur iconic for this lol
i just want to say im serius about what i said
REMME about apologise to us your fans in a Q&A video
@@RemmeASMR LMAOOOO💟💟💟.
i love your videos but why must you curse/swear? im talking about the f word that you used in this video because it's not cool to curse or swear.
Neill, it’s her channel…she can say whatever she’d like or is comfortable with. If you don’t like it, you DO NOT have to watch.
What are you 5 years old?