“Let Them Go. I Have Someone Better for You” (3 Signs from God)
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I was so heartbroken after a break up. After a month of crying, I had a dream where my ex and i were in a church and he kept avoiding me, saying how I should not wait for him. I immediately woke up and all feelings for my ex disappeared. God sent me that dream at the right time!
Wow
I had a dream of my ex and I in the backyard. I wanted to kiss him but he said "just wait".
Wow!
If you can't bear the pain anymore, pray it over and god has something for us all broken. Just pray and trust the above.
Wow! I also have feelings for ex but feelings don’t go away :(
This is so timely. I just left the guy who let me waited for about three years without assurance. Before I did it, I knew God was already telling to me to let go.
Amen, so glad you are on the right road with the Lord!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger I really do thank God. To be honest, it was my fault too. I was a backslider but no one can outrun God and he pulled me back to Him. 💖 Now, I'm free and hopeful in the Lord.
@@ClyzlyMiwah John 6:37 Pray He becomes the desire of our hearts above all else.
@@jkpow93 yes. 💖
amen sis. God has the man for u 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️👑
I have never felt so calm and confident about a decision. I litterelly let someone I love dearly go yesterday. I've been following your channel for a while now and many times have you posted a video that confirmed that I am on the right path and this one is no different, thank you Mark
Amen, I'm so glad the Lord used this to assist you
Most times when God is saying, "let them go" the someone better is Him!
Not waiting to run into another relationship with a man or a woman.
It's as you stay with Him (God) who is the someone better.....that he decides to give you a mate if it's needed.
And God will always tell you to let them go because the relationship was built on a wrong foundation, he has no hands whatsoever in it.
Beautifully Said!!! We don’t realize that He must be first in our heart so that when the time is right He will send the person who is for us who also puts God first in their heart. A marriage is of 3, God first then husband and wife. Without God as our foundation our covenant is weak. I am learning this now in my marriage. Praise God 🙌🏼
Ugh, a guy just told me this morning that he doesn’t want to continue to move forward & I actually thought that the night before, something just felt off. I heard something in my spirit say “he’s not the one” but it hurts having someone tell you that. Oh well, I just have to continue to grow & put God first in my life. I need more growing to do.
He has respect for you because he could easily ghosted you. Which many guys are doing these days. So my sister in Christ I hope you thanked God for that answer prayer. And in due season the man God has assigned to you will come.
@@LuxeGlobalLifestyle thank you for your encouraging words. God bless you.
@@IyoniAdeMacy seems like it doesn’t get easier.. then I think about the prayers I’ve prayed & still it catches me off like I didn’t just pray about God taking them away or it just being a friendship if they aren’t the one 😂😢
I hope God shows you anything to help you towards getting to the point towards finding the one He has for you! God bless you!!
Wow😳 the timing on this. I let him go a while ago and prayed last night if he is my spouse and had plan to fast for him. After some time since I let him go just this morning I found he was no longer in my contact list. Thank you Lord for Your love and strength You provide. It will be okay. I trust in You.
God is good!
Pheww the timing is impeccable. God truly does care, and I can tell me these videos.
So glad this was timely! God is good!
Agreed! The timing of this video is so powerful. In my situation, just last night my special lady (long distance, but deeply connected) and I started the process of potentially letting each other go. It's so hard to think about, but if it's truly not in the plan, then what else can we do?
Thank you so much.. May equally yoked relationships manifest and Matthew chapter 19; 6 "what God put together let no man separate".. 💍💒
It's okay to write down the qualities you want in a personal relationship .
I'm thinking right now of why some marriages end in divorce, maybe it's because incompatibility ✅✔️✅ lack of understanding, trying to adjust to some type of ideal that you couldn't obtain... May everyone seek God first over relationship
God bless!
I was heartbroken on Jan 19th and God sent this man who’s healing a heart he didn’t break ❤
Lord God in Heaven, I trust you even in my darkest hours! Have your way Lord God, have your way!
Yes, I went on a fast and the Lord told me to leave the person at His feet. So I finally did it and broke up with him!
Amen
But God telling you to leave the person at His feet isn't exactly God saying this guy isn't the one...or is it?
Mayra, I don't know. My friend has a lot of issues to deal with that I don't want to be around. I do love him, but right now, he is not good for me.
@@msBbee-oq7im I am in the same boat. God showed me in a dream that this guy can't give me what I need right now. God called me to let go for now.
@@msBbee-oq7im do you mean he isn't healthy for you right now? Cause that's my case as well. God had been dealing with him but he's fighting to surrender and needs to heal. While I hanged on I kept getting hurt. If I had let go a long time ago as God was telling me to, I would have not gotten so hurt. So please obey the Lord. Let Him be the one to bring this guy to your path if it's His will. The Lord is protecting you at this moment.
I needed this to help me move on! Thank you Jesus and brother!
I needed this, im going through a break up. I thought he was gonna be the one but he didn’t change his ways. I’ve been praying for god to send me the godly man that he has for me. I know god has better and I deserve better. ❤❤
Amen 🙏 Thank you Lord for this! So easy to walk away and wait for his timing and patience in us.
Dating just seems to hurt, I want the end result of a healthy marriage but I don't like the dating process. Father please give me clarity and guidance
Definitely timely, currently in a state where I feel like there won't be someone else like her. Much as they say we create images of people in our head but when I met her, she was quite the image I have in my head of the dream partner. Unfortunately never worked so well and it hurt me so bad. Seeing this video I felt God was giving me a signal to say he has better plans than my own
Thank you so much for sharing this. Glory to God.
So glad it was useful! Amen, all glory to God!
Thank you for this beautiful video. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾you are always a blessing 😊
This video relate so much. I had some people that I had been to attach to that it’s hard to let go. I know, that they aren’t good for my growth with god, and I think I need to let go of the old and wait for new things to come, in god’s timing.
Amen when a woman truly love God then she will know how to love a man who truly love God when God put two people together its for his good and it is for real🙏
Mark, I honestly can tell you not once but multiple times your videos and their timing were spot on what I was and am going through
Thank you so much for this...I needed to hear it.
Thanks for the short but very information video. God bless.
Glad it was helpful! All glory to God!
I saw the signs. And God had been wanting me to leave the relationship all along. So I finally left. And I'm very happy that I did this today. I'm so relieved and feeling free.
So good. Thanks for the great advice.
Glad it was helpful! God bless!
It's amazing how gives confirmation for the past week videos like this keep appearing on my UA-cam feed after I've been praying about a certain person.
Impeccable timing
All glory to God!
Thanks for the videos
Man keep it up! I’ve been asking God for a wife and marriage for long time but still hasnt happened yet. It’s easy to get discouraged but I keep the faith. All the old timers say waiting is the hardest part….
Amen, no matter what, keep following the Lord!
I still need some time having a hard time letting go 😢
just ordered your book; I need some incite from the Lord...
So timely. Ended a toxic relationship of two years . He didn't change. Worse after a second chance. Had to end it. I'm alone now.
We are in the same boat❤
@@jaymitaylor9937 ok ...let's boost each other up......
I was in a 6.yr toxic marriage. Ended it
You are not alone😊 Jesus is with us ❤
@@anuchna1983 thankyou. Are you the same..alone...I have two boys. Im 48. I had no friends tho ...
Thank you for this cuz I am hurt and this is what I needed ❤❤ God will work it out just give it alll to him in prayer 🙏 😊
These are really true indicators especially the first one. If you both are awkward and the energy is unreciprocated it’s not the one I swear
This was so timely.I was talking to a guy that I assumed was a good match and we talked about marraige and gender roles and what we wanted out of life which was the same! I thought he was interested but then he ghosted me for a month came back saying he just wants to be brother and sister in Christ and I said sure.The spiritual aspect was edifying but I felt he wasn't really trying to get to know me as a person and he didn't get my dry humor either.I kinda brushed it off because we had good conversations about God.He also only just text me and sends audios never calls.I asked if he can call cause texting gets misunderstood...never did or ignores what I said and still text me and sends audios. However,I felt the need to just cut him off completely to save myself the emotional rollarcoaster of him still texting every now and then and texting me stuff of his future plans that I'm clearly not apart of cause deep down I feel like a placeholder.I know God has something better and someone who is more intentional and consistent with their pursuits.Thanks for the video Mark! :)
I personally don’t like to call. I prefer receiving calls. I hope that’s not a deal breaker for people
wow! talk about conviction from the Holy Spirit🙏✝️ i was just praying about this tonite at church asking for guidance and discernment. Thanks Mark! Godbless brother🙏✝️🕊
Learning this the hard way
We connected face to face, I loved being around him when he was happy, I could be myself around him… for a while. Then he was frequently sad, not telling me why, telling me he’s not sure if we can have a normal life, pressuring me to do things we both know isn’t right, etc. I left someone I thought was the best friend I prayed for 💔
Same happened to me
Love this
So glad! God bless!
Greetings my new founded brother Mark, In such a time as this has Our Lord & Saviour Jesus Christ drawn me here! Blessed Be His Name!! Just A Quick Word Of Encouragement >>> I sense you have an Immense Amout Of Biblical Wisdom connected With A Ingredible Gift Of Spiritual Discernment!! Continue On This MUCH BLESSED PATH!! Yet as you know Mark & what is Equally True Is - This Comes With Much Suffering.. For even hereunto were ye called: because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that ye should follow his steps (1 Pet. 2:21). Suffering is Most Medicinal Mark! As TIME GOES ON This Metamorphosis Takes PLACE >>> “He must increase, but I must decrease.” (John 3:30) Farewel Soldier>>> SEE YOU IN PARADISE!!!!!!!
This is too timely. I just broke up with a girl I thought could of been the one. Prayed about it then your video popped up. Glory to God.
One thing I was not aware of until mid 2022 was to place God first in my mind. I wasnt idolizing my relationship just simply wasn't aware ifnplacing God first in my mind and expanding his Kingdom, when I did that I had multiple encounters with people sent by God it was amazing to see
I truly believe I am meant to be solo. It hurt to come to this realization, but I am coming to terms with it and slowly accepting it.
Sending much love and prayers your way
It's a gift to realise it before you end up committing to someone in covenant and then hurting them later on.
Gotta stay positive🙏🏿🙏🏿
Peace and love to you. Remember to put yourself in healthy environments.
Thank you!
How timely, for me too, but what a Struggle to let go, this is the hardest thing to do. HELP! Hope I make it to see what the surprise turns out to be. ❤❤
Thank you 🙏
I saw this post this morning and was like I will save it for later but in my heart I now it was for me because my husband has done me wrong. I missed up and take so much abuse in my life and I didn’t see the sneaky emotional abuse from my husband. I’m tired of being called out my name when talking about our kids disable kids. I need and want a better life for myself and kids. I don’t deserve and we don’t deserve it.
I pray God gives you the strength to make the right decision.
Amèn 🙏💗 am ready for the better and the best 💗 God bless
Thank you ♥️♥️♥️
I will be waiting for you master still.
God is good!
Help me and guide me God. 😢 I felt lost,hopeless and useless.
Hi Guys,
Decisions have consequences.
Read your Bible well and listen to what GOD desires
I'm detaching from wondering
Thank You
Thank you for this message..i have been trying to move on from my broken marriage about a month now..this really helped...God says let them go..lets just let them go..i love you my Jesus ❤
Hmmm sorry to hear of that.
I pray for strength for you........How have you been holding up?
@@johnjustice4420ok is the only word i can think of at the moment
@@jasred8786 hmm....well what can I say? Things like this draws us into a deeper relationship with God......Psalms 34:18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted,
and saves the crushed in spirit.
The good God who knows your name.....The one who will never leave nor forsake you.
Isaiah 43:2 When you pass through the waters, I will be with you, and through the rivers, they will not overwhelm you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned or scorched, nor will the flame kindle upon you.
Make sure your whole trust in on him because he gat you covered.
@@johnjustice4420 thank you for sharing Gods words with me..i have no where to go but only to him..the lord is my Shepard i shall not fear..every day is a challenge for me but my jesus by my side, am moving forward..All the honour and glory to my Father in heaven.
These videos are just so on time, it's incredible! Point #2 does not correlate to me at all. Point #3 might, IDK at the moment. That said, point #1 stands out to me. We used to have a good connection, until he got a girlfriend. It's literally though so aligned on paper all of our long-term core values matching up - but he has a girlfriend now and it's so complicated. I don't know if God wants me to move on or not, because he could be the one just not now - so confusing. 😅
I am facing a similar struggle. His expectations (especially when it comes to looks) are so high, I am afraid I will never meet them. We are yet to meet in person and he already thinks I am the perfect girl for him. Been so paranoid that I haven't even met him yet :( I do feel pressured to alter things about myself that I generally was comfortable with.
Amen, take it slow. If he can't calm down over time, it' probably best to move on
Where does he live?
I don't have a desire for these people but they are still on my mind and in My aura.
I have let them go.
Wow, I literally just broke up with my fiancé today and after watching this video, I feel like I did the right thing despite the fact that we both work in the same industry and we’ve been together for three years I feel like it was the best decision, because even though on paper, we looked perfect together, and she covered all of my weaknesses. I was not in love with her I felt like I had to force a lot of things just to be with her, and was only out of a duty and not a sense of romantic life
This sounds too familiar with myself. Although I am still engaged with my fiancé, there are times that I have seconds thoughts and times where things are okay. We’re getting married in 2 months, and what she’s provided is peace; she’s not combative like most women. And yes there’s also a sense of duty to all of this. I not sure what to think on all of this, and yes I haven’t been close to the Lord as of late.
Wow… My Friend Matches All 3 Of These….
I don’t want to leave her even as just a friend… but I dunno
It’s hard to let go… I’m working on it but still
Thank you God dated for 4yrs no sign of marriage happiness but just sorrow oooh am enjoying my life without him
My milady left me about a week ago, I tried everything to bring her back but she's not yielding. I dearly still love her, and God gave me a word in Psalm 127:1
He's saying I should not force things. I'm waiting for the next instruction.
Even though my lady wants friendship.
This is me😞🥺 help me Lord. My children’s dad of 20 years.
You know your advices are great and as true as general advices can be! ..but advices like this will never be 100% true and good, because there’ll always be people and stories that defy the expectation, defy common sense, logic, rules.. especially when we have a God who is a miracle working God and who loves to defy our human expectations and common sense!
Take for example this advice: “if you need to change too much in order to be with someone…”. God does miracles in people that changes them and their lives at their core!! ..”too much” is an understatement..God changes people at their core! And once God did that then obviously the partner God has for that person will also be someone radically different. So in a sense yes sometimes we need to change radically in order to be with someone.
God told me a couple months ago that he had someone for me. I was still hanging onto my narcissist who was extremely abusive to me for the last 7 years. He just passed away April 5th which wasn't even two weeks ago. I had told God that I don't know what he wants me to do because I love this man and I couldn't let go. He took care of the problem for me. My narcissist died of a massive heart attack with another woman. He had lied to me that very day that he died. And I know he's burning in hell.
I feel so embittered. It’s like God hated me when he brings me the kind of guy I despise!
I really think I'm quite done with it all now. Wasted enough energy and had enough hurt. Im just waiting for Jesus Yeshuah CHRIST to return now, or hoping it will all end sooner, since I am also done being sick and depressed
Dude pray for me😅. I'm in a weird place right now. I have that desire for someone that just doesn't wanna go away and I keep trying to let that desire go but it's still there for some reason.
Like, it's weird for me because when I'm with this person or around them, I don't feel attracted to them anymore but whenever I see pictures of our past relationship, my heart does something and it makes me miss them....
Maybe Im just in love with the way she made me feel and not her, because everytime I see her in the present, I just feel blaaah, but when I see a picture of her happy, that feeling comes back. IM FRUSTRATED!!! I JUST WANNA MOVE ON😑😑
How do you know if God is saying “not yet” Like this is someone you could be with but.. it’s not the right timing ?
Not yet: ua-cam.com/video/at2Kt3wuPAQ/v-deo.html
And since the past week God is telling me to Let go😭💔I am so sttuborn
God bless as you seek to submit to the Lord!
How do you know that you yourself is on the right road ?
Obeying the word of God, repenting of sin, and seeking to glorify Jesus in all matters
Amen 🙏✝️🙏😇
God bless!
It's been over 6 years. God help me.
A couple of months ago, I met someone who I thought was “the one” because the circumstances under which I met her seemed like the answer to a prayer, but she was not. Just after her I met someone else who just seemed perfect, “the one”? We went to church together a couple of times, then distanced, and she recently told me that I should find someone else. 😢 Any words of encouragement?
🙂 Brother......i think you've been going about things the wrong way.
It's best to seek God on the matter, like waiting on Him and not running with your desire or what you feel.....
I will say talk to God about it and have peace. While you are waiting to hear from him, try and bear fruit of the Spirit ( working on your character to be a better person) so that when God brings the person you are ready.
I think You need to just trust God on the matter, sometimes while we might go through stuffs like this is because we are not trusting God, but rather we are trusting in our flesh.
I will god
Can I humbly ask where u get free stock photos like that?
they aren't free but I use Canva a lot. Pixabay is free but watch out because they do have some inappropriate images mixed in, which is not good.
Just wow...
God bless!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Thank you so much..
Man, what strange timing for this video to be uploaded.
Still, I'm in a frustrating situation in my life right now. I wish I could talk to someone about it genuinely, but I have no one.
Stay faithful to Jesus. He always has a plan
I hear you. It was just me and him. Living in sin. Repented. He had to go. Narcisstic
@@franceshaggitt3104 that’s not even remotely similar to what I’m going through.
Talk to God. He is listening, he is near.
@@priyankabagri3829 I prayed to God pretty much every day for clarification on relationships for many months now, but as far as I can tell, I've had 0 answer. I've even prayed every day that my mother gets saved, but nothing. She's still following her nonsense religion. My dad also died in his sin, despite my prayers before that happened.
I need help. My girlfriend gonna leave me if i dont give her the ring. We been together a long time. Why am i so nervous/cold feet about committing??? Im about to lose her.
HELP
You either want her enough to marry her or you don't. If you don't want tk marry her then quit wasting both your time and move on.
If she is the one sent from God then you do not have to rush and get her a ring. Don't worry she want leave you if she is from God. Pray and tell God what is going on even though he already know. If she leave then maybe it is not the right time or she might not be the one. Only God know not me. That is my opinion. If she love you then she meed to wait to hear from God. Because God might be working on you two and dealing with some issues between the two of you. God bless you hope everything works out in God's timing.
I really need help from you sir I know I have a gift of discernment ,at a time I dreamed about this church brother I was sad one day at church about a brother who mistreated me then I was like I don't want to merry from this church that is My church, then one brother come passed by then it was like we were having a conversation with the holy spirit he was like how about that one then I was like no he looks like he won't respect me he might treat me bad to all was well I never mind after a month I dreamed like somebody showing me that my husband was in church I should look he is standing at the altar my answer was like he must come find me him self I never mind as well then one day I was sleeping and when I wake up it was just that guy on my mind but I never use to like it I started hating the brother one day I was preparing going to church in the morning then in my heart I can tell it was the holy spirit like you gonna meet at the church door today but that day we almost met at the door but I come Abit late just when he is going in I was behind him it's started irritating me when sometimes I could sleep and see him loughing that time I don't even know his name I started falling in love with him then one day from church I was just in the spirit I was singing and prayed Then I slept Abit because it was a long day at church when I slept only for few minutes I wake up hearing his name coz I confirmed it to a church sister Wich was true, we got to know each other where he always tells me he likes me and really appreciate me just this days he is telling me he is together with his baby mama Wich he doesn't tell me from the beginning he told me about the girl he was supposed to merry but she changed her mind after hearing his salary I was hurt, I'm trying to forget him but he is still the and he doesn't not want to Brock my number he made it clear that he is not going to Brock me or delete it I'm tired of loving someone who doesn't love me what hurt is that from the beginning I have been hating seeing him sir can I maybe just forget I don't mind losing him and I'm not even jealous of the girl but he is still in my heart and I hate it
Could he be the one
❤❤❤❤❤❤
or maybe He has himself for me....
Doesn't apply if you're married.
Ummmm it definitely can. Some marriages weren't meant to be and people just jumped on in there.
😮
God bless!
Definitely timely, currently in a state where I feel like there won't be someone else like her. Much as they say we create images of people in our head but when I met her, she was quite the image I have in my head of the dream partner. Unfortunately never worked so well and it hurt me so bad. Seeing this video I felt God was giving me a signal to say he has better plans than my own
How timely, for me too, but what a Struggle to let go, this is the hardest thing to do. HELP! Hope I make it to see what the surprise turns out to be. ❤❤