SHOES ELEGANT WOMEN NEVER WEAR! | Do not buy these 6 types of shoes!

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
  • In this video, I teach you 6 types of shoes elegant women NEVER wear- irrespective of the price. Fashion is fast nowadays- in fact, instant. People jump onto trends and fads without giving a second thought the quality of the item or whether it is comfortable or appropriate. As long as it is popular, people will buy them even if they don't particularly like them. However, elegant women think differently and will not be caught wearing just anything- including the 6 shoes that I mention in this video!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 217

  • @esthernimley5261
    @esthernimley5261 3 місяці тому +156

    I think people should be comfortable in wearing what fits them

    • @ElizabethOgbeche-ul6ni
      @ElizabethOgbeche-ul6ni 3 місяці тому +6

      True

    • @lizet3more
      @lizet3more 3 місяці тому +12

      Exactly. This thing is saying you wearing these shoes makes you cheap. I'm going for comfort now, stuff what people think after all you won't see them people again

    • @dorissiajoe4489
      @dorissiajoe4489 2 місяці тому +3

      Exactly so

    • @Blessing-y9x
      @Blessing-y9x 2 місяці тому +2

      True

  • @Crystal4ya
    @Crystal4ya 3 місяці тому +66

    To each there own.
    Wear what make u feel confident and comfortable💕

  • @Suzanne2909
    @Suzanne2909 4 місяці тому +117

    Most of all, make sure your shoes are neat and tidy😊

    • @NewEra-
      @NewEra- 3 місяці тому +5

      This is the essential

    • @DashingDoris
      @DashingDoris 3 місяці тому +3

      It is always a shock to me when i see pretty ladies, nice outfit only to wear dirty footwears 🙄... It is like a rule not to clean or wash them here😂

  • @NewEra-
    @NewEra- 3 місяці тому +121

    Class is either you have it or not. Cannot be bought. A naturally classy lady can wear even 'filthy' clothes and still look classy.

    • @lumina852
      @lumina852 2 місяці тому +12

      I agree on the last part but also think it can be learned

    • @FarTooPrecious
      @FarTooPrecious 2 місяці тому +3

      Yes, for some of us it does not come naturally. I really appreciate this channel

    • @chiebereelisha6402
      @chiebereelisha6402 Місяць тому +5

      I disagree, yes it may come naturally but wearing some fashion items can downplay a woman's elegance.

    • @adamlavine1823
      @adamlavine1823 25 днів тому +1

      NEGATIVE, birkenstocks make ANY WOMAN LOOK GROSS FACTUALLY! Plus when a woman is dressed trashy and proceeds to act the same she will be TRASHY!

  • @Anne_Annah
    @Anne_Annah 4 місяці тому +45

    Black don't crack indeed. You are beautiful Vivian.

  • @PrettyinPink492
    @PrettyinPink492 3 місяці тому +9

    I discovered your channel a few days ago and I absolutely can not stop watching. I just subscribed😃. I WISH I had this sort of instructional guidance in my teens, 20s, and/or 30s. Thank you Vivien for all you do to help girls and women understand how to become Women Of Elegance.

  • @sallyseaward5865
    @sallyseaward5865 3 місяці тому +8

    Lol ! Still have a pair of stunning vintage platform* heels from my “disco dancing” days - my daughter wore them to a 70’s party and EVERYONE wanted to know where she got them.
    * Can’t believe I didn’t break an ankle wearing them !!!

  • @lucasley20
    @lucasley20 4 місяці тому +18

    Yes! What a timely topic for the summer season!

  • @LisaCulton
    @LisaCulton 4 місяці тому +22

    I wear lower platforms occasionally. They're the most comfortable. I'm very tall already, so it's not about the height.

    • @ohdear2275
      @ohdear2275 3 місяці тому

      Same here

    • @NewEra-
      @NewEra- 3 місяці тому

      Me too.

    • @sandyno1089
      @sandyno1089 Місяць тому

      I love my half inch platforms, as worn by Princess Catherine.

  • @Thesignarizzler123
    @Thesignarizzler123 4 місяці тому +7

    Brilliant video. I love how honest you are. Very true that regardless of the price tag they are still cheap materials ie plastic. More content on the correct elegant shoes would be lovely to watch. X

  • @CellyShiro
    @CellyShiro 3 місяці тому +7

    I love platform shoes.i look great in them.what you think is elegant may only be elegant to you not to others.

  • @IMLovelydove23
    @IMLovelydove23 4 місяці тому +11

    Yes. All true. I love espadrilles they are so elegant and comfortable. Always in style.

  • @lmusima3275
    @lmusima3275 4 місяці тому +7

    Thanks 🙏🏾 for this video. I’ve stopped wearing high heels 👠 for years. I have bunions and pain from wearing uncomfortable shoes. I now wear shoes that are comfortable for my feet

  • @itsinesantonio
    @itsinesantonio 4 місяці тому +16

    I always thought the same about this kind of shoes glad you mentioned them hahaha 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @joanramsey4002
    @joanramsey4002 4 місяці тому +29

    Also worth noting is no high heels at polo events.

    • @ohdear2275
      @ohdear2275 3 місяці тому +1

      Amen. Meghan Markle would have looked much nicer in a pair of espadrilles.

    • @MrsReidPOGC
      @MrsReidPOGC 3 місяці тому +3

      Oh Call me Meghan cause I rock my heels ever so elegantly to polo events, picnics, baby showers, bowling alley...and gracefully so. lol

    • @thekingsdaughter4233
      @thekingsdaughter4233 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@MrsReidPOGC how do you not sink into the grass with them? 😳 Do tell, please! Are you using these slip on (clear plastic) thingies?

    • @MrsReidPOGC
      @MrsReidPOGC 3 місяці тому

      @@thekingsdaughter4233I use them sometimes, however, not all soil is soft enough to cause the heels to sink. Now don't get me wrong...I always have an extra pair of either strappy sandal or canvas shoe. But for the most part...I'm a heels lady.

  • @princesscupcake2511
    @princesscupcake2511 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for your advice. Much needed for those of us who aspire to be elegant

  • @melindaferreira9879
    @melindaferreira9879 4 місяці тому +8

    I used to wear 5 1/2 in heels and I was very unstable in them.. I have since figured out my most comfortable is 2-4" max..

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 3 місяці тому +3

      I personally only opt for block heels. 2-4 inches is also my happy place in regards to heels!

  • @Thelotus2020
    @Thelotus2020 3 місяці тому +3

    I am convinced i was born classy and modest 😂😂😂 these come natural 😅 Thank you for these tips Vivienne

  • @kishagreen4578
    @kishagreen4578 4 місяці тому +14

    Glad more than me think platform heels are ugly. I agree with your list.❤

  • @tina8796
    @tina8796 4 місяці тому +33

    Platform shoes look cheap not to mention they're dangerous. NOBODY looks good in those shoes especially short people.

    • @syn67501
      @syn67501 4 місяці тому +5

      They really are. I have the x-rays and medical bills to prove how dangerous they are. If only this video had come out in January so I didn't try to look "cute'

    • @tina8796
      @tina8796 4 місяці тому +5

      @@syn67501 I used to dress for looks and now I dress for comfort. Nothing is worth losing your health and well-being just so you can look "good". Your health is your wealth. Your body won't take care of you if you don't take care of it. Anyway, I'm glad you quit wearing those horrible things 🤗

  • @jenniferlynn3537
    @jenniferlynn3537 3 місяці тому +1

    Hello Vivian! I wish to compliment you on your lovely hairstyle in this video. It’s especially flattering, and such a pretty look for spring!

  • @hannahcabana5403
    @hannahcabana5403 4 місяці тому +10

    If you have to work this hard to look elegant, you probably aren't elegant. There is jothing worse than fake elegance.
    Just go with what feels narural to you.
    Natural elegance should just ooze out of u, not dragged out of u😂

  • @51Lois
    @51Lois 3 місяці тому +5

    I love your elegant sense of humor

  • @Mhoyte
    @Mhoyte 3 місяці тому +21

    I am elegant and refined in my platforms. It depends on how you wear it and the type.

    • @ElRoi01
      @ElRoi01 3 місяці тому +3

      Exactly. Elegance to me is a personal style you carve out for yourself and the way you put your outfits together. As long as it’s kept simple and neat, you achieve elegance with your carriage

    • @preztjuswoman
      @preztjuswoman 3 місяці тому +2

      Exactly

  • @margaretkaranja1864
    @margaretkaranja1864 23 дні тому

    We learn everyday thru others its the way to go. If you cant change its up to you

  • @am-harris7458
    @am-harris7458 4 місяці тому +7

    You remind me of Venus Williams!🤩👍🏾

  • @FarTooPrecious
    @FarTooPrecious 2 місяці тому

    I love the elegant humour in these videos

  • @ohdear2275
    @ohdear2275 3 місяці тому +3

    I love your channel and all your content. You really do inspire me. Thank you so much 💗

  • @chigold.2239
    @chigold.2239 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm impressed by your speech and British accent

  • @youlandaJF1145
    @youlandaJF1145 3 місяці тому +1

    I expected crocs on this list, but definitely the rest of the list sounds about right.

  • @GrowingGoodHair
    @GrowingGoodHair 3 місяці тому +2

    2:08😮😍😍😍Love the green ones! I'd def wear those🤭

  • @Nadpsa191
    @Nadpsa191 3 місяці тому +3

    Each to their own❤

    • @LynnGibson-fk2nj
      @LynnGibson-fk2nj 3 місяці тому +2

      Yes ! Printed canvas looks fine with solid colored pants.

  • @carismacatalyst1289
    @carismacatalyst1289 3 місяці тому

    Such a blessing.
    Many thanks for keeping us elegant.
    Vivian Elegance

  • @cyrilignatiuskendrick6663
    @cyrilignatiuskendrick6663 3 місяці тому +1

    This is Jalani. I am 10 years old. Thank you for your advice on shoes.

  • @adrianagalli7504
    @adrianagalli7504 4 місяці тому +4

    Great video! Best from Italy

  • @antoinettegilbert9258
    @antoinettegilbert9258 3 місяці тому +4

    Nawww those boots r cute with the rt outfits!🙂🤷🏾

  • @angelsonia6310
    @angelsonia6310 4 місяці тому +6

    Thank you ma'am. This is insightful

  • @katrinaprater5975
    @katrinaprater5975 4 місяці тому +1

    Just when I was about to invest in a pair of plastic shoes. I'm glad you stopped me. Thank you, Vivian.

    • @ujunwaaniere9798
      @ujunwaaniere9798 4 місяці тому

      Lol

    • @katrinaprater5975
      @katrinaprater5975 3 місяці тому +2

      @@ujunwaaniere9798 I haven't forgotten about the plastic shoes. I still might buy them. What can I say? They are cute and I have my own ideas on class and elegance.

  • @nellyufiene317
    @nellyufiene317 4 місяці тому +3

    I agree with your list, thank you

  • @MsBest-ty4hj
    @MsBest-ty4hj 2 місяці тому

    I agree with Miss Vivian. Just because it is made in your size doesn't mean you have to buy it or wear it. If you look cheap and dress cheap that is how you should expect to be treated. Women of color has had to deal with stereotyping long enough. I beieve Miss Vivian is only saying "be the change that we as women would like bring about." Don't shoot the messenger just because you don't like the message or if the message steps on your toes.

  • @Realtoroge
    @Realtoroge 4 місяці тому +7

    Kindly correct the title. First to comment 😊

  • @uchechionyedikachi7475
    @uchechionyedikachi7475 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for the update woman of Elegance 👍❤❤

  • @simonewiedmayer5012
    @simonewiedmayer5012 2 місяці тому

    This video lets me know I'm on the right path.😅 thank you!

  • @merlecalderajoseph5405
    @merlecalderajoseph5405 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much, we need a video with bags 🎒 😊

  • @Ninai5z
    @Ninai5z 3 місяці тому +1

    I love Vivian great advice, but how is 2:13 elegant? that image is very critical in my idea of simplicity and elegance!

  • @theodoraamuzang7067
    @theodoraamuzang7067 3 місяці тому

    This is amazing
    And fortunately these six types of shoes i really don't admire ever.

  • @deborah7830
    @deborah7830 3 місяці тому +10

    Elegant where??? Let b
    People breath. Do YOU and let people do theirs. I feel so ashamed when women because of content creation prescribe a certain type of dress (do get me wrong I am not talking about clothes that shows your nakedness) or shoes for people. You don’t know peoples pockets. People are not fools. Who would wear cheap shoes if there is money. In all things give thanks. Some people don’t even have legs. Be happy for yourself.

    • @julijakeit
      @julijakeit 3 місяці тому +3

      what 'medication' are you on right now?

    • @wollfaden1979
      @wollfaden1979 Місяць тому

      ​@@julijakeit a very elegant answer from you 😒

    • @adamlavine1823
      @adamlavine1823 25 днів тому

      Black is NEVER elegant anyway so don't worry bout her or you😊.

  • @pandora6405
    @pandora6405 4 місяці тому +2

    Exactly where are these parties 🥳

  • @alcudiababe1
    @alcudiababe1 3 місяці тому

    I don't know what it is but when I look at members of the public (because I watch videos such as this) when they're walking in a store I start going through my head at their shoes that that's not classy, that's not refined, that and that doesn't either but this woman's shoes aren't too bad.

  • @BarbaraChihota
    @BarbaraChihota Місяць тому

    As for plastic shoes I think those who came up with the idea of making them did a great job coz they are recycling and helping to reduce global warming in a fashionable way , I think people should just wear what makes them feel comfortable coz not all of us can afford the elegant life style .

  • @Loveistheway-prayalways.
    @Loveistheway-prayalways. 4 місяці тому +4

    Beautiful hair ❤I love looking at ur natural hair African people
    and give glory to God! Created in HIS image for HIS glory for His pleasure -Revelation 4
    -Gen 1
    - ps 139
    He made each person in the planet unique and beautiful
    Love it ❤
    Meditate in what's lovely 😊 Philip 4
    Pray 4 all nations 🗺️🌍❤️ love peace joy
    Unity wisdom.. Pray always
    Live a minimalistic life King 👑 Jesus Christ is coming soon
    Your real palace is with Him
    We are ambassadors for Christ
    Keep ministering you are Royals priests
    Occupy untill He comes
    The sheep and the goats
    Will be sorted in the end....
    Each person's deeds will follow them
    Matthew 5
    Let your light shine..use Ur gifts talents share do HIS will
    To whom HE loves God speaks
    Hear what the Spirit is saying❤❤❤💐

  • @AbigailUshie
    @AbigailUshie 15 днів тому

    Wow!!
    Are you saying I should throw them away, thick soles😢😢

  • @ifeomaezeamaku865
    @ifeomaezeamaku865 2 місяці тому

    Please who determines what is elegant or not ? I love platform shoes and i will go on wearing them

  • @thembekamagaqa3035
    @thembekamagaqa3035 Місяць тому

    I just love your content

  • @maritsonrenaudo8497
    @maritsonrenaudo8497 5 днів тому

    The shoes you said are not classy, are so Gorgeous. I thought u were going to mention Crocs, flip flops etc...i think the shoes you mentioned are shoes u won't wear

  • @Digitalimpactnews
    @Digitalimpactnews 2 місяці тому

    Considering that in pageantry, required shoes are platform heels, are models considered not elegant?

  • @nahjuanatunyenewuh206
    @nahjuanatunyenewuh206 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks sweetie 🥰

  • @BellaarleteIshimwe
    @BellaarleteIshimwe 3 місяці тому +1

    She looks like marie wiseborn

  • @gratitude8107
    @gratitude8107 2 місяці тому

    Point of correction, trainers are chosen according the foot type as well as physical activity being taken, looks are not necessarily necessary.

  • @esthermutua1287
    @esthermutua1287 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks 🙏 alot for this ❤❤❤

  • @gladysthoahlane8308
    @gladysthoahlane8308 3 місяці тому +1

    to me its like all shoes are wrong, pls say where and how to wear them

  • @promisemaliwa3214
    @promisemaliwa3214 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so this video Vivian 💖

  • @Abroad-Diaries
    @Abroad-Diaries 4 місяці тому +5

    Hmmmmmm🤔

  • @shatashiapitts2855
    @shatashiapitts2855 3 місяці тому

    Hi Vivian,
    I usually do not make requests but I have some winery visits in Napa coming up and would love some great tips.

  • @mercedes523
    @mercedes523 4 місяці тому +3

    These shoes are ridiculous! In 2 years or sooner we’ll say “what were we thinking”? (Especially the shoes 👠 with the “odd” heel) It makes me think of the Golden Goose DIRTY SHOES. Why???

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 3 місяці тому

      I think it's more for people who appreciate novelty items and eclectic fashion; everyone's style isn't classic. As a designer, we enjoy having fun with fashion sometimes.

  • @promisemaliwa3214
    @promisemaliwa3214 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this 💖

  • @JennyShinny
    @JennyShinny 2 місяці тому

    I wear only leather and latex and its the best thing i ever tried..guess to each their own😅

  • @fashionandluxury101
    @fashionandluxury101 4 місяці тому +1

    Logo trainers can look elegant if the rest of the outfit is plain. It all depends on how you style it😊😊

  • @lindamyers4980
    @lindamyers4980 4 місяці тому +5

    ❤ 👠 👛 👜 🪭 🛍 💄 💍 🥻🕶 LUV YOUR CHANNEL!

  • @uchechionyedikachi7475
    @uchechionyedikachi7475 4 місяці тому

    you just read my mind I ❤❤ canvas 😊😊

  • @oO-qt8bm
    @oO-qt8bm Місяць тому

    I will wear what looks good on me and also good for the occasion. Thank you! Your views I disagree with

  • @MaryHayes-si1xy
    @MaryHayes-si1xy Місяць тому

    I think and this is my personal opinion that crocs, birkenstock and flip flops would have been added !!!! Elegant is being pleasingly graceful and stylish in appearance or manner therefore a person makes the shoes , the shoes she is wearing doesn't make the person .

  • @gladysbowei839
    @gladysbowei839 3 місяці тому +8

    Please let people be comfortable with whatever they want to wear. As long as I am comfortable who cares about elegant. ❤

  • @StacieBussey
    @StacieBussey 4 місяці тому

    I'm guilty of purchasing the Louboutins😢MANY MANY YEARS ago..i can't walk across the room in them elegantly so they sit in my closet as a reminder

  • @chionu1
    @chionu1 Місяць тому +5

    I'll wear shoes that I am comfortable and confident in. Who cares about your definition of "elegance?"

  • @EstherMubirigi-pc2jz
    @EstherMubirigi-pc2jz 3 місяці тому

    Thx for sharing

  • @Sheilzdarlingz
    @Sheilzdarlingz 3 місяці тому

    I can’t walk with platform shoes😅

  • @tboykin13tb
    @tboykin13tb 3 місяці тому

    Cool!! 😎

  • @foxyboots
    @foxyboots 3 місяці тому

    platforms.... never !

  • @carlito0308
    @carlito0308 4 місяці тому +5

    Hello dear 🌹 you are very beautiful.

  • @maricelg777
    @maricelg777 3 місяці тому

    ❤thanks

  • @JoanneBick
    @JoanneBick 2 місяці тому

    Vivian youre a wonderful and beautiful lady. Im such a fan. ❤

  • @sandrawilliams5647
    @sandrawilliams5647 4 місяці тому +2

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @melissagriffin7515
    @melissagriffin7515 3 місяці тому +1

    Plarforms are extremely élégant with à wide or straight leg slack. Gucci, Chanel, Dior, etc. 6 inch heels are also élégant only with dresses and skirts below the knee. At knee and/or over too sexy! This is why I hate these videos because most of the time they are wrong!!!

  • @Hattie-vp5cr
    @Hattie-vp5cr Місяць тому

    Wearing shoes that are an orthopeadic surgeons nightmare!! Shoes that can cause a fructure any minute!!!

  • @nancyadaugo1170
    @nancyadaugo1170 3 місяці тому +1

    Ma u didn't tell us the shoes to wear to replace those dat is not elegant

  • @ameryek.9607
    @ameryek.9607 4 місяці тому

    I also really dislike Mary Jane shoes - flats with an instep strap - on women older than about 18. Looks juvenile.
    A great show company, Hotter Shoes in UK, has many styles & all would be good, wearable, & affordable. They ship to US.

  • @elizabethpace1591
    @elizabethpace1591 4 місяці тому +3

    I am not a fan of any of these type of shoes.

  • @DarlingtonOkoisama
    @DarlingtonOkoisama Місяць тому +1

    What do you say to people who don't have legs for shoes? Unfortunate or not elegant ? Abeg let me wear me. Besides God created man bare and naked!

  • @rosekwasi3824
    @rosekwasi3824 3 місяці тому +2

    ❤.I don't like all the shoes you have mentioned

  • @blissrose3588
    @blissrose3588 4 місяці тому +1

    Vivian lost some weight. Good for her.

  • @christinajumali6468
    @christinajumali6468 2 місяці тому

    I love my plastic heels

  • @margaretkaranja1864
    @margaretkaranja1864 23 дні тому

    Naked truth tho some cant just buy your idea but for those who know they know

  • @fatensarris3815
    @fatensarris3815 4 місяці тому

    👍

  • @belindajacky7150
    @belindajacky7150 4 місяці тому

    I'm disappointed 😞 used to think that plastic shoes are the in thing..

  • @joyc8563
    @joyc8563 Місяць тому

    We should not wear everything. Maybe we should go on barefoot. That should speak elegance. 😂😂

  • @jesssoreal
    @jesssoreal 4 місяці тому +2

    I dislike certain platform heels anyways.

  • @fatimahmojisuleiman2319
    @fatimahmojisuleiman2319 2 місяці тому

    You should add in YOUR OWN OPINION

  • @rachaelr8044
    @rachaelr8044 2 місяці тому

    I'm safe! I would never buy those anyways.

  • @reneebridges1364
    @reneebridges1364 3 місяці тому

    You are pretty