Hello ladies! Thank you for watching! Just in response to a few questions regarding sneakers; sneakers can look elegant (depending on which ones and how you wear them). I'll film a video on this topic very soon❤
I know people who own so many really luxury brands, but they live in their mom's house. I own a house, drive a Lexus, and I do buy stuff *hotdups* to put money in my pocket.
Trying to find the logic behind your blouses and dresses being too small. In this video your buttons are stressed and there is a gap indicating it should be at least two sizes larger for a smooth and elegant fit to accommodate the bust size. In the previous video about shoes, in the blue outfit your bust area looks like melons forced into a can. Mom says a proper fitting bra and clothes are also required for an elegant look. When clothes fit properly, they won’t add weight to your appearance or look cheap. Just a few observations for the future.
Thank you for your content. I am grateful for my mother as well, who lived to by 91. I am now a retired teacher. God has allowed me to be an Evangelist and teacher at my church. My mother taught me how to dress and present myself in banking 20 yrs., General Motors 3 yrs, 20 yrs. teaching. God has been very good.
'Nude' does not mean pale pink - in fact when the term was first used there was an uproar - even Michelle Obama woke the fashion industry abouts its use.
@@rosahacketts1668 I also hate that "nude" automatically translates into "white" basically. The undertones to the term are overtly racist; as if that's the default of what everyone looks, or even looks close too when they're nude. My skin is deep brown, And every time I shop for nudes (makeup, shoes, undergarments, etc.) the sales ladies bring me something beige and I just look at them like 😑🙄🤦🏿♀️
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 I'm sorry you've had problems in finding a nude shoe to match your skin tone. I've seen nude shoes come in a variety of different skin tones before. If you search on the internet you can find different shades of nude
Vivien may the Lord bless you for your contents ! 🎉🎉 I'm naturally class & royal... & I aknowledge that your channel is the place I belong!... keep it up !!!
I think a video on earrings should come. I feel that every woman should have basic pearl studs and 1/2" simple gold hoops. Costume jewelry screams cheap no matter what anyone has paid for them.
@@parishers6351You don't need pierced ears to wear earrings. I wore clip on earrings for years. Earrings are a finishing touch to your appearance for which there is no adequate substitute. As Emily Cho put it, earrings are to a woman what a tie is to a man. But earrings are more versatile.
I disagree about costume jewelry. It depends on how it's made. I've had real jewelry that people assumed was costume and quite a lot of costume jewelry that people assumed was real. Glued in stones are a give away, even if the item cost hundreds of dollars. On the other hand, silvertone jewelry can many times pass for real silver, white gold, or platinum. You have to pay attention to things like clasps; cheap looking clasps downgrade everything.
Hahhahaaha, Vivienne, you made me laugh when i heard you mention your Ghanaian Akan name. Thank you for making us proud. A Nigerian friend just asked me if you were a Ghanaian and I gladly mentioned YES. Ayekooo!!!!
My top multi purpose shoes are BOATSSHOES! They’re super versatile: -in summer barefoot and breathable -in spring and fall with a nice looking pair of high unicolor socks -they give sporty touch to elegant outfits -they elevate jeans onto an elegant level -very long lasting as it’s leather - and most importantly they are super comfortable for long days With this shoe you’re prepared for all situations coming up
Thank you!!! I was looking for new fall shoes. So, a pair of "Oxfords" and some tall black boots just made the list. Also, I wanted to say I adore your new hair style. It's classy without being matronly. And it really shows off your fantastic facial features 😊🙇♀️
TFS. This is a very practical list. The only thing I'd pass on are the Oxfords....no shade to anyone who loves them but I don't find them cute at all! They give me more of a masculine vibe to me. The only 1 I've ever seen that didn't look too masculine are the half black/half white ones. I'm getting into flats a bit now because the car park at my job somehow ends up damaging the material of my preferred patent heels, so I try to have a pair to wear up to my building. One tip I'd add based on what I've discovered since wearing flats is, if you're a lover of heels because you have a high arch type instep and heels just fit better, get a nice pair of flats that are beautiful but not as structured. I've found that the ones that are very structured and hard leaves a space where your high instep is and causes it to look a bit unsightly but it also puts more pressure on the middle of your feet. Something a bit softer with the same nice, clean lines mold more closely yo your feet so there is no space shown and your weight still feels evenly distributed.
Love your channel it’s not over the top and gets straight to the point. You are naturally beautiful and elegant. No botox, fillers or all that extra stuff ❤❤❤
Thank you for another wonderful update Miss Vivienne. I've been watching your channel for some time now and I'm so pleased with how the channel has grown, as well as your loveliness. Best wishes and cheers from Canada!
I like these suggestions, I'm in the process of revamping my style but dont want to spend a ton of $ by buying a lot of things I don't need, at least not right now. Oxfords were my favorite from this list, I love a good, cute oxford ❤ I can always add more cute things along the way. I don't mind wearing the same 8 or 9 outfits and few pairs of shoes for a few months.
❤❤❤ Shoes are the basis, literally & figuratively, of a person's 😅look. Good expensive shoes + inexpensive clothes = good. The opposite, not good. Court shoes are so called because they were required at courts. That's all. Those very high heels - stilletoes- are costly & difficult to wear. Fisherman sandals & mary janes, if well-made, may be worn by nearly everyone.
I use my *yutulu* as a work bag and have had no issues at all. It’s a comfortable bag, fits a good amount and hadn’t lost its shape. With that being said, I also take care of all my bags and don’t carry a water bottle, pens, keys or anything that can damage the interior.
I'm hoping when you have the time... If you'll discuss outerwear such as coats and or jackets. With 90 degree days, I know some will find that useless. However, for me and most budget minded Ladies, it'll give us a leg up on what's the best investment for our money. Coat, all weather coat, ectra. Oh, yeah scarf or hood?
It may not be your aesthetic or it may be your aesthethic but you may belong to a different category of it. For example, you have classics/elegants that are more edgy, artsy, romantic or modest. It's still classic/elegant, but it's a different layer to it. You can find many examples of this online. Also, my biggest tip as someone who doesn't dress classic (I'm a boho-chic romantic beachy woman), is to not be afraid of color or prints and pay attention to necklines and hemlines. You can dress classic/elegant and still have a solid hot pink trench coat or a blouse with a pattern in your closet. If you are petite, some hemlines can make you look frumpy and certain necklines don't suit all feminine figures. Learning what your undertones are and your body type can help you make your wardrobe more flattering and fun. Try not to put yourself into a box, an elegant woman is an elegant woman because she's elegant in decorum; her pearls and blouses are just the cherry on top. There are many fashion styles like boho, gothic, eclectic, preppy, etc. a style quiz online can help you determine what's best. i hope this helps!☺️❤️
Hi there! I’m in high school but still like to be elegant. I only have blouses, skirts of different patterns and textures and a few staple pieces and about three shoes I wear on a daily rotation with my favorite pair being black penny loafers. I’m hoping to find knee length black suede boots for the winter. Does anyone have recommendations?
No matter if it's the *yutulu* or any other, my steadfast belief stands that only practitioners can perceive dissimilarities in the sack looks or the metal constituents.
I see you haven’t posted in a while, but I really enjoy the content so far and would like to subscribe. Hopefully you’ll post again soon. I’d love to hear your thoughts about jewelry and other accessories.
s long as you don’t get corns on your toes in the name of elegance. I am a modest, but elegantly dressed woman. I do wear beautiful shoes that won’t create corns by being too vain in the ones where all my toes are squished together.
There is only one rule. Your footwear depends entirely on your feet and legs. If you don’t know that footwear should be comfortable and flatter the shape of your legs/feet without watching a video then I really despair.
Hello ladies! Thank you for watching! Just in response to a few questions regarding sneakers; sneakers can look elegant (depending on which ones and how you wear them). I'll film a video on this topic very soon❤
Please film a video about earrings too
I know people who own so many really luxury brands, but they live in their mom's house. I own a house, drive a Lexus, and I do buy stuff *hotdups* to put money in my pocket.
Trying to find the logic behind your blouses and dresses being too small. In this video your buttons are stressed and there is a gap indicating it should be at least two sizes larger for a smooth and elegant fit to accommodate the bust size.
In the previous video about shoes, in the blue outfit your bust area looks like melons forced into a can. Mom says a proper fitting bra and clothes are also required for an elegant look. When clothes fit properly, they won’t add weight to your appearance or look cheap. Just a few observations for the future.
Hey ma’am not me watching your vlog and randomly seeing my call to bar pictures. 😅 run me my coinsss
We should definitely do some collaborations too.
Thank you for your content. I am grateful for my mother as well, who lived to by 91. I am now a retired teacher. God has allowed me to be an Evangelist and teacher at my church. My mother taught me how to dress and present myself in banking 20 yrs., General Motors 3 yrs, 20 yrs. teaching. God has been very good.
One i would add is a pair of nude pumps..or a color that matches your skin tone.. they are very dressy and go with any color
I agree!!!❤
'Nude' does not mean pale pink - in fact when the term was first used there was an uproar - even Michelle Obama woke the fashion industry abouts its use.
@@rosahacketts1668 I also hate that "nude" automatically translates into "white" basically. The undertones to the term are overtly racist; as if that's the default of what everyone looks, or even looks close too when they're nude. My skin is deep brown, And every time I shop for nudes (makeup, shoes, undergarments, etc.) the sales ladies bring me something beige and I just look at them like 😑🙄🤦🏿♀️
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 I'm sorry you've had problems in finding a nude shoe to match your skin tone. I've seen nude shoes come in a variety of different skin tones before. If you search on the internet you can find different shades of nude
I have $5000 and would rather buy *hotdups* and deposit $4,500 into my bank account
Vivien may the Lord bless you for your contents ! 🎉🎉
I'm naturally class & royal... & I aknowledge that your channel is the place I belong!...
keep it up !!!
I started my journey of elegance and I am learning a lot from you. Thank you ❤❤❤
I think a video on earrings should come. I feel that every woman should have basic pearl studs and 1/2" simple gold hoops. Costume jewelry screams cheap no matter what anyone has paid for them.
Not all of us got our ears pierced as children or even adult. It’s not a need.
@@parishers6351You don't need pierced ears to wear earrings. I wore clip on earrings for years. Earrings are a finishing touch to your appearance for which there is no adequate substitute. As Emily Cho put it, earrings are to a woman what a tie is to a man. But earrings are more versatile.
I disagree about costume jewelry. It depends on how it's made. I've had real jewelry that people assumed was costume and quite a lot of costume jewelry that people assumed was real. Glued in stones are a give away, even if the item cost hundreds of dollars. On the other hand, silvertone jewelry can many times pass for real silver, white gold, or platinum. You have to pay attention to things like clasps; cheap looking clasps downgrade everything.
Thank you
@@edennis8578agreed. We've several examples of Princess Catherine wearing costume jewelry at events and they look lovely.
Hahhahaaha, Vivienne, you made me laugh when i heard you mention your Ghanaian Akan name. Thank you for making us proud. A Nigerian friend just asked me if you were a Ghanaian and I gladly mentioned YES. Ayekooo!!!!
❤️🙏🏿🇬🇭
I’m so happy to hear she is a Ghanaian.I’m a Ghanaian as well🇬🇭
My top multi purpose shoes are BOATSSHOES! They’re super versatile:
-in summer barefoot and breathable
-in spring and fall with a nice looking pair of high unicolor socks
-they give sporty touch to elegant outfits
-they elevate jeans onto an elegant level
-very long lasting as it’s leather
- and most importantly they are super comfortable for long days
With this shoe you’re prepared for all situations coming up
Good idea! Boat shoes def look upscale and versatile!
Wow, what a great idea!! Thank you for making sense of the shoe question!!
Thanks alot for this informative message notes taken much love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪
I love her advice.
Kumbe tuko wengi
Indeed 😊@@zolambithi5786
We're here too love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Tuko hapa
Can you do a video on bags for the elegant woman? Thanks.
Thank you so much for this Video. I am in a mission to get comfortable and elegant shoes
Thank you!!! I was looking for new fall shoes. So, a pair of "Oxfords" and some tall black boots just made the list.
Also, I wanted to say I adore your new hair style. It's classy without being matronly. And it really shows off your fantastic facial features 😊🙇♀️
Darling you look absolutely gorgeous and elegant wearing your natural hair 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
TFS. This is a very practical list.
The only thing I'd pass on are the Oxfords....no shade to anyone who loves them but I don't find them cute at all! They give me more of a masculine vibe to me. The only 1 I've ever seen that didn't look too masculine are the half black/half white ones.
I'm getting into flats a bit now because the car park at my job somehow ends up damaging the material of my preferred patent heels, so I try to have a pair to wear up to my building. One tip I'd add based on what I've discovered since wearing flats is, if you're a lover of heels because you have a high arch type instep and heels just fit better, get a nice pair of flats that are beautiful but not as structured. I've found that the ones that are very structured and hard leaves a space where your high instep is and causes it to look a bit unsightly but it also puts more pressure on the middle of your feet. Something a bit softer with the same nice, clean lines mold more closely yo your feet so there is no space shown and your weight still feels evenly distributed.
Beautiful upload! I enjoyed watching it. Kudos 👍
Love your channel it’s not over the top and gets straight to the point. You are naturally beautiful and elegant. No botox, fillers or all that extra stuff ❤❤❤
Thank you for another wonderful update Miss Vivienne. I've been watching your channel for some time now and I'm so pleased with how the channel has grown, as well as your loveliness. Best wishes and cheers from Canada!
Your accent alone us just it for me ma'am. I love how put together you look and sound. Thank you for this beautiful session.
I have all of these shoes 🙌 indeed very elegant!
I like these suggestions, I'm in the process of revamping my style but dont want to spend a ton of $ by buying a lot of things I don't need, at least not right now.
Oxfords were my favorite from this list, I love a good, cute oxford ❤
I can always add more cute things along the way. I don't mind wearing the same 8 or 9 outfits and few pairs of shoes for a few months.
Got all except Oxford and over the knee high-heel boots - not keen on them. Great upload though.
Love your selections, thank you!
❤❤❤ Shoes are the basis, literally & figuratively, of a person's 😅look. Good expensive shoes + inexpensive clothes = good. The opposite, not good.
Court shoes are so called because they were required at courts. That's all.
Those very high heels - stilletoes- are costly & difficult to wear.
Fisherman sandals & mary janes, if well-made, may be worn by nearly everyone.
Awesome insights. Like it from Kenya
I use my *yutulu* as a work bag and have had no issues at all. It’s a comfortable bag, fits a good amount and hadn’t lost its shape. With that being said, I also take care of all my bags and don’t carry a water bottle, pens, keys or anything that can damage the interior.
Great tips! Thank you!
Good advice Vivian, and thank god there is no scandalous prolonged laughter like some other person with no glass.
Hello Vivian, would you consider a video on elegant jewellery ? I’d love your opinion on that particular topic. 🤍✨🤍✨🤍
Great tips! Especially on choosing flats with a heel so they won’t wear out as fast
Thank you! Great advice.
Thank you ma'am. You look great as always 😊
Hi vivien you looks amazing. Luv the necklace
Love these types of shoes 🙂🌺
I got a *yutulu* ,Korean made, Jimmy Choo. It is 20 years old and still looks great.
I agreed with everything but the wedges 😂 no shade to anyone else, I’ve just never been a wedge girl
EXCELLENT!!! 👏🏽💜
Beautiful selection. Thank you
Great video, thank you so much Vivian.
Let’s talk jewelry and accessories next please
@@enojemz I think she has a video on that.
You can check out her page.
You might find it
Interesting video I learned a lot about what kind of shoes women needs in the closet and at different occasion to wear ❤❤❤
Very good informative video thanks for sharing with us❤🎉
I'm hoping when you have the time... If you'll discuss outerwear such as coats and or jackets. With 90 degree days, I know some will find that useless. However, for me and most budget minded Ladies, it'll give us a leg up on what's the best investment for our money. Coat, all weather coat, ectra. Oh, yeah scarf or hood?
Oh I taugh you were Nigerian, but you're Camerounian🇨🇲. So happy to know your channel ❤❤❤
Thank you so much Better Vivienne
I couldn't agree more. You are right on point 😊
Thank you for your insights.
Spot on
I love oxford shoes,super sytlish with stockings..❤❤❤ but my legs are wide feet, so i cannot dare wear them.😂
Good choices.
Hi Vivienne what about a pair of sneakers also?
No doubt, allstars/chucks/converse
🙏 you are so elegant!
thank you so much . i do enjoy yr videos em learning a lot
Love You! 💌💌
❤ the video. But what about snickers
So you’re Ghanaian ? I really love your videos waooow 😘
This was very helpful thank you😊
Love your blazer. very chic. Wouldn't mind knowing where it is from.
Thanks for the video ❤
Thank you!
I always try to dress timeless and classic , but sometimes I feel I am boring and feel old . any tips???
It may not be your aesthetic or it may be your aesthethic but you may belong to a different category of it. For example, you have classics/elegants that are more edgy, artsy, romantic or modest. It's still classic/elegant, but it's a different layer to it. You can find many examples of this online.
Also, my biggest tip as someone who doesn't dress classic (I'm a boho-chic romantic beachy woman), is to not be afraid of color or prints and pay attention to necklines and hemlines. You can dress classic/elegant and still have a solid hot pink trench coat or a blouse with a pattern in your closet. If you are petite, some hemlines can make you look frumpy and certain necklines don't suit all feminine figures. Learning what your undertones are and your body type can help you make your wardrobe more flattering and fun. Try not to put yourself into a box, an elegant woman is an elegant woman because she's elegant in decorum; her pearls and blouses are just the cherry on top.
There are many fashion styles like boho, gothic, eclectic, preppy, etc. a style quiz online can help you determine what's best.
i hope this helps!☺️❤️
Look for classic hobbies
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 Thank you 🙏
She looks stunning
Hi Vivian
How about over 60 can’t wear heals “ stilettos” what would suggest for a evening gown.
Great advice for Torbay can wear heals.❤
I never received my elegance handbook after following the instructions on your website. Hope to receive that soon.
My apologies! Please send an email to info@womanofelegance.com where this issue will be sorted for you
Thanks ma'am ❣️
Very beautiful *yutulu* bag . Thnx for helping to make this beautiful video for us gucids。
Hi there! I’m in high school but still like to be elegant. I only have blouses, skirts of different patterns and textures and a few staple pieces and about three shoes I wear on a daily rotation with my favorite pair being black penny loafers. I’m hoping to find knee length black suede boots for the winter. Does anyone have recommendations?
Thank u dear. Much love from Uganda.
No matter if it's the *yutulu* or any other, my steadfast belief stands that only practitioners can perceive dissimilarities in the sack looks or the metal constituents.
Wow..a Ghanaian..
Always chic sis👏🏿
Thankyou somuch madam viviene❤
Wow, thank you so much.
I love the champagne color sandal.
Thank you very much 🤝 ❤
I see you haven’t posted in a while, but I really enjoy the content so far and would like to subscribe. Hopefully you’ll post again soon.
I’d love to hear your thoughts about jewelry and other accessories.
New Video tomorrow my dear❤️
@@WomanOfElegance yay! Subscribed ❤️
1. Court Pump
2. Flats - Open toes, block heels, loafers, invest in 1 inch thuck
3. Oxford shoes
4. Strappy sandals- naked
5. Slippers- the straps cover
6. Wedges
7. Boots - good leather -4 inches
8. Flat over the knee boots
9. Knee high boots
10. Party shoes
What if you are already almost 6 feet tall and feel very uncomfortable wearing heels? What would you recommend as alternatives?
Short block heels are great. Loafers too💙
We need a bag storage tour where do you store all your handbags *yutulu*
❤
s long as you don’t get corns on your toes in the name of elegance. I am a modest, but elegantly dressed woman. I do wear beautiful shoes that won’t create corns by being too vain in the ones where all my toes are squished together.
I agree…❤
One of my wealthy coworkers collects *yutulu* bags, but because she’s dressed to the nines from head to toe, no one would think her bags are fake!
Thanks dear ❤❤❤
Beautiful
I like your channel ❤
I love my Oxford shoes with a dress. 3:46
THANK YOU
Please for those of us that have wide feet which type of shoes can we wear.
Thank you.
Madam Abena, from Ghana, right
The best shoes to wear are the shoes of the gospel of peace. Ephesians 6:14 ❤
😂😂😂😂. Great
@@MrJesuschristlordO how I gracefully say Amen in Jesus 🙏🇯🇲💜🤣
@remnantlove1617🦅🦅🦅O how I gracefully say AMEN,GODS name be RAISED & PRAISED 🙏💕🇯🇲
Hahaha
😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hey Twin!
👍
Do you sell foot Wear. I need a party or stage hill shoes.
Thank you
Thanks so much bby
I don't know if it's only me seeing that sometimes Vivian looks like the late Aaliyah ❤
What happen if you can't wear heels?
First to comment
*yutulu* is your partner in young people’s fashion journey
There is only one rule. Your footwear depends entirely on your feet and legs. If you don’t know that footwear should be comfortable and flatter the shape of your legs/feet without watching a video then I really despair.