The quiet power of introverts | BBC Ideas
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- Are you an introvert? If so, that's great! Animator Sofja Umarik (who is an introvert) looks at how it can be a real strength.
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Voice is so good to listen👂
agree*
Good one
❤️💯✌🏻
Yep absolutely 👏
"you want to get invited but you don't want to go."
an introvert thing
Thought that was just me
That's so true.
Dont invite me to anything. I'm all good with what I'm doing
They don't invite me anymore.....coz i just won't show up.
I don't even wanna get invited. Oh the pressure of refusing is immense. I am loving the social distancing right now.
It annoys me when people forces me to socialize. I will when I want to.
Me too
Omg, same. My mom begs me to go out and socialize. I think she wants me to have a boyfriend more than I do at this point
It's frustrating because extroverts are like chimps to me, and they don't get it.
OMG YES! This is soooo irritating. I’ll speak when I feel like it.
Me either
Remember: “Quiet people have the loudest minds”
I like this
True
Love this
true! 😌
That's true💚
Hi! I'm Sofi, the animator and creator of the video! So happy to see so many people starting to embrace their introversion!
Thanks Sofi! Where are your credits? @bbc
Wow Sofi, hermoso, recién lo veo ❤️ me sentí tan identificada 🥹 gracias!!
Podrías compartir tus cuentas así te podemos seguir en las redes 😉😊
Cute animation)) I'm not introvert i guess maybe a mix leaning to extrovert but it gave me chills
@@nashtrashcool So glad it moved something in you! I now feel that labels aren't so important. I think that deep down we all yearn for that peace and authentic connection..
Telling an introvert to talk more is the equivalent of telling an extrovert to shut up
sarah choi yaaas or telling an ambivert to choose 🙄🙄
Ha ha
Live and let live in both cases.
word! 👁
So true, i've struggled with this when I was in school, like teachers kept telling me to speak more and in my head I was like "I don't speak unless I have something meaningful to say not like others"
Introverts : “I think a lot but I don’t say much “
I do
I do
I do
I do
Same
"we introverts always want to be alone but don't want to be lonely."
You read my mind dude i have this feeling ,
@@Yoruguitars same🙄😌
the most true thing about introverts
Sameeee
It's called 'get a cat' 😌
Introverts are like dark matter, the universe needs it to balance out all the chaos
Dark matter doesn’t really exist. It’s just a coverup for not discussing elements like dimensions.
OMG it's Leo! I remember your Thomas knock-off and competition-like videos. Oh, and Mad Bomber as well. Anyways, who is the mad bomber? It's been like almost 15ish years.
കർത്താവായ യേശുക്രിസ്തുവിൽ ആശ്രയിക്കുക. ആശ്രയിക്കില്ലേ..??...
Love that quote ngl
I have to save this! Pinterest-ing now
Introverts are talkative when they are relatable to the topic and I'm one of them...
And me also
And today in the commet section I replied many people who are introvert like me and I feel like wow
That's true
True
Me too
Government: Stay inside your homes!
Introverts: Huh? I was already doing that
AM Productions 😆🤣😆
My family literally calls me the "Quarantine Queen" because they know how much I love being inside
I m a introvert who loves travelling and being outside alone...
AM Productions lmao me
Right!? 😂😂😂
Keep in mind that introverts can be talkative, in the right settings. For example, when I'm in a public group or group in general, I'm pretty quiet. But, if I'm with my friend or member of my family, away from everyone else, I'd become loud and talkative. It's just better to talk to who you trust.
In my family i m the most talkative person...when i said that thing to other they don't believe...🤣🤣🤣
So true....my mum says, "you are very talkative!!"
Other persons: "really??"
My best friends:- yup! We know that.❤
EXACTLY !!!
And to those who truly understand and value your words
Same
My husband is an introvert and i am an extrovert. Initially i used to feel he felt so out of place at gatherings etc. But when he explained it to me how he enjoys observing everything, my outlook changed. I appreciate his observations because I definitely miss most of them. I love him so much and I think everyone should appreciate introverts more. They truly make the best of friends.
We observe because we care, and can't wait to share with you after it's over.
This is so sweet, well done hope your relationship flourishes more and more 😊
We need both worlds. But I'm happy to be introverted. My daughter is also more introverted and I'm so glad that I understand how she feels and that I don't have thoughts like "why is she often so quiet" or something like that. If I were an extrovert and didn't know how it feels beeing an introvert, it would make things harder.
That we do! We more think within our minds, but it's more about any current conversation that might be going on. When I join a conversation, I want to be heard the same as anyone else. Introverts, UNITE!
They do make the best and most loyal friends! ❤
I'm proud of being an introvert. We can't stand small talk, but we could talk about our fandoms and dreams for hours.
But then we need to be alone. ALOT.
Yes😊😊
I hate small talk!!!!
Yes yes so true
yes
this is me haha
Put us, introverts, in quarantine for one whole year, and we wouldn’t even take that as punishment but a reward.
XD Ikr i would gladly accept it
And i would still be like- "Wait it's over?????? Nooooo, gimme moreeee" XD
Yaa so true
@Pragyamaya Das ;-; i feel bad for you. Keep your head high one day you will be free
Yeah 😀😂
Introvert in the time of Covid-19, sitting at home to stay safe, no problem for introverts, we love our space 💓🌺🙏
Except when all the neighbours are extroverts and noisy.
Offensive Username yes I’m an introvert and you nailed it i hate noisy neighbors and have a couple especially now many kids are out playing its driving me up the wall
Yup
Yes I'm so happy for an excuse not to interact...
Aicha Rezzouguy nope I am a true introvert hate crowds hate social gatherings always prefer be to myself this is my life I use to get depressed as a child because I didn’t fit in with the other kids I didn’t understand what was wrong with me a spent years trying to find myself but God showed me the way I didn’t know what an introvert was until maybe 10 years ago I was in my mid 30s I like a few people two at the most around me I’m not married and I don’t complain because I don’t think I could live with anyone to long because I don’t like people around long periods of time I have a boyfriend who I love we have fun together because he a bit like me and we have a lot in common but I have learned to expect to me and I love it but sometimes I do get lonely and want to come out my shell but to a concern degree can’t do the people thing to long lol lol
I am in my fifties. And a typical introvert. All my live I have felt like a weirdo due to society and other people. The times I fell asleep crying... Recently I watched a lot of videos about introverts, and I started to realise I am not alone, and I am not a weirdo. Finally, I have come to peace with myself. It gives me this enormous feeling of rest. I want to thank all other introverts.
❤❤❤❤
Glad you have found peace.
I cried reading this. I feel exactly this way at 30. I hate that society makes us feel this bad about who we naturally are. And we are great gentle people.
You got this buddy you are not alone anf you are not weird too ❤
If you guys need someone to talk to, this introvert is here for ya :) You're not alone
this girl makes introversion sounds so freaking magical
blinking white guy totally agree
Do you know another video has her voice?
Nguyễn Như Ngọc no i don’t
It is
❤️😊
“you’re so quiet”; the single most annoying thing people keep telling me. Like I have to be reminded of that, because I don’t know myself that well.
Don't get me wrong but why all these introverts always keep telling (both offline and online) that they are introverts?
@@bayezidhtanu2907 just an excuse to
hide
Bayezidh Tanu so people will understand why we are quieter and not ask silly questions
Take it as a compliment. Its a part of your personality.
@@deveshsingh752 It's way better than openly shitting in street and river
Cheers to those introverts like me who's A okay with the quarantine!!
I've been in qurantine for a month until now.
Absolutely.👍
Yeah. I don't feel any difference 😆
Cheers! Haha I feel you.
Cheers! Quarantine doesn't make any difference 😉👍😋
We introverts have our own world 😇.
Only a introvert can understand how beautiful it is.😌😍
Where we feel relaxed, comfortable.
It's like sacred place for us .
That's true
True
Thanks a lot for this comment
I can totally relate to it 😊
👍👍👍
@@jatinaneja9211 welcome
I love the fact am an introvert, people don't realize how much being quite and fading into the background makes you observe,see,learn the things that most people barely realize and it's just before their eyes.
Relatable. Us introverts are much wiser, because we take the time to observe situations and people.
@@jf17thunder63 I feel like extroverts can be pretty wise too but I agree that you will notice a lot of things when you fade into the background
Really? I hate it! Everybody thinks I'm too arrogant to speak with them, or too stupid, or just weird, but I just can't. I have a lot of thoughts in my head, but when I want to talk with someone they just vanish and I don't know what to say. It's frustrating. In school nobody wanted me in their team because they would get bored with me.
@@PsychoblackSpider Don't name urself psychoblack....u r not psycho ofcourse...extroverts must understand and accept the opposite personality type.All above comments are right of being wise. But extroverts seem more popular as they talk too much and have an impact.
Everything's all good with me, until I am faced with the dreaded question of:"why don't you talk?" 😒
Reading the comments made me feel I suddenly have a lot of new friends that I can relate with!
Yeah, me too
Yuh❣️
Yeah
☺
Yeah
"It's in quiet spaces that I feel truly at home". Yes.
Same.
🙋♀️😉me as well.
Yes 😔👌🏽
Hello bookstore......I'm lookin at you library....and good old stand by....the bathroom.
💯💯
I’m almost turning 30 and finally accepting+embracing myself the way I am🥰 I like doing things slowly, enjoying every moment. I like to speak thoughtfully and with kindness, not just blurt out the first thing that comes to mind lol. I value peace so much and find it in prayer and worship🙏🏼 I love my Latin American culture- it’s vibrant, energetic and loud💃🏻 But for a long time I felt rejected by my own culture and tried so hard to be more like my family and friends. I’ve learned that I am my happiest when I’m true to myself :) Thank you so much for this video!! It’s helping me see there’s nothing wrong with being an introvert; it may just be a gift😇 God bless!!
I’m also an introvert and I can say that quarantine is heaven for me 😁 hello to introverts like me 👋
Hello there!
Omg!!! Same here ❤️❤️
Im introverted extravert haha i love it too but i kinda miss old days (
hahaha likewise. Hello, my friend. :-))
Same girl same 😂
Rather than talking, I enjoy listening and observing more. Spending time alone is actually pretty awesome.
❤️😊
Yah . Right 💜 .
And I didn't know what I was ???
Me too
Fr tho that’s dope
David Lawson ur evil
The narrator is an introverted person i can feel it through her voice.
how do you say so?
@@jayasanka5978 if you can't feel it you're an extrovert
Yes she is defining the video as I yoo
The same feeling
I felt it too
Introverts enjoy their own space. They are the only ppl happy with themselves.❤
well, I think I'm an introvert. But I ain't quiet everytime. It's just that we became more hype and noisy when we are with someone who we are comfortable with.
Same (r u army?) 😊
@@vaishnavinrao7231 yess and hi co-ARMY 💜
Same
Borahae 💜💜💜💜 army
Yayyyyy!!! 💜 Armys are everywhere I love this!
“I am an introvert, and I love it” every single person who is an introvert on this planet needs to say this phrase! 💕
Yes!! 💜 I love it! I wouldn’t like to be any other way.
Yes!! I love it!!
Hmm even I'm loving it
I LOVE IT
Just today , I was in great depression , thinking I'm not fit for the society. Then I found the video. Hope I could say this line one day.
I’m an introvert. I talk a lot, but to my self.
Yes me too
Like wise
And about myself..
exactly
oh me tooo haha!
So well done and thank you for showing the world of introverts. We're not wrong, we're just silent and gentle in our living.
You're so very welcome and thank you for embracing your introverted side ;)! Sofi from the video here!
@sofiymarik I'm 15 and I'm an introvert. Back in elementary and middle school, I used to be an extrovert, and I befriended almost every kid and teacher in the school without knowing them. That just lead me to be betrayed, like one time during recess, no one invited me for a football game and when I came, they didn't even let me in the field and that's when I realized not everyone is trustworthy. I'm in highschool now and I've been an introvert (for over a year now) and honestly, it's fun spending my personal time, everytime someone asks me something, I just ignore them knowing that they will start up a conversation and waste my time and seek attention from me. Everything has changed alot and it's amazing to be an introvert. But the one thing that annoys me is when people say, 'you don't talk alot', 'you are so quiet' and etc. Also being an introvert has increased my patience alot. Have a great day!
Who else feels like you listen to everybody but when u talk no one listens to u
Fr I probably know and remember a lot more about people then they do me by just listening to them.
Yow that thing sucks😢
Yahh
This hits me hard 😂😂😂😂
Me ;-;
This is the most relatable comment section I had so far. Feels like home.
That's amazing to hear!
@@bbcideas thank you for posting such amazing contents 😭
Yes
I am an extrovert, still I have introvert friends. They, are good. I feel happy with both of my introvert and extrovert friends
Yes
"Everyone has something to say but nobody listen"
i really felt that
Yes fact bro
Vee it really be like that sometimes😶
😭
Truuu
My experience as an introvert is that we are shy and quiet in front of those we aren't comfortable with
But with close family members or if the topic of discussion is of my interest I can be more talkative than an extrovert 😂
But proud of being introvert
U r absolutely true in your sense,i too am that kind of person.
omg I can totally agree with that!! I rlly hate when ppl say “oh but she doesn’t even talk”.... well that’s bcuz the topic you’re discussing is just out of my sense of interest, but i feel that this is smth only a few ppl (especially introverts) can understand.
I can’t agree more. :)
Looks like u r talking about me 😊
Yeah me too 😂😂😂
As an Introvert, I'm never really lonely. I'm my own best friend.
Anton Resurreccion i love that :)
Same, I’m never lonely or bored. Whenever I hear others complain about these issues, I’d just think to myself - Nah can’t relate. Just read a book or watch a good movie/TV show.
Me too
Exactly
But sometimes don't you want to share your thoughts with others? I don't have any friends and I'm an introvert but I will still like to express my opinions and share my interests with other people. I do fell lonely sometimes.
Being an introvert isn't a flaw but a gift.
I nearly cried at that. All my life I've been told that me being introverted is a flaw.
Oh sorry honey. You're amazingly beatifull!
@@thandicandy5452 💟💟
I understand
You have special talent to process everything calmly and quietly :)
As a teacher and an introvert myself it is a battle to educate other extrovert teachers about it. Loud and proud is a stupid montra.
I tried to behave like exoverts but it felt like i lost myself so i decided again to be myself. it feels great & peaceful ❤️
Our plus point is that we understand others feeling.
Yeah 100% Correct.......
Should I become introvert? Bc introvert and adhd make me depressed
@@iamdoctorcat6347 don't stay whole time at home u can go on public places after completing ur works for relaxation for some time & meet people.
I try to act like an extrovert
By being chatty and loud and try to laugh and make people laugh they say I'm weird. But when im quiet they say I'm shy and too quiet and unfriendly. Life sucks.
Yes😊
If I don’t get my time and space I become moody and irritable. When I’m alone I feel peace and happiness communing with myself!
Me 2
Crowded places suffocate me. My happy place is at home lying in bed wearing comfy clothes and watching UA-cam or reading.
Yep. Same. I just get tried spending time with people.
@@ocholajennie1249 👏👏💕❤️ movies for example 😜😜
Wow thanks that’s how I feel 😳
My cousin call me 2 days ago and he was like Can I come tomorrow? And I was like..Why? And he goes because I want to visit you..my family..and I’m like Sorry dude we’re in quarantine..and he was like Okay Fine 🤣😂 Inside me I hope this quarantine last for a while 😅
I once saw a sign on the door of a coffee shop:
"We're open. The door's just a bit heavy"
That basically describes my social life.
Apt.
Bruh you just described my entire life
True
Wow.. amazing..it says it all.
And i wouldn't open it for you, i'm too lazy..
That's why it takes a longer time for someone to get to know me well.. 🤷♀️
Almost 15 years ago one of my colleagues called me "antisocial girl". Then my colleagues diagnosed me with autism... Such is the ignorance about introverts. Hugs to all introverts reading this! ❣️
That's so insensitive of them to actually diagnose you with autism. If I were in your shoes, I would've slapped the hell out of them.
SeaJay ETC I had the same thing happen when the reality was that I could sense they had a cruel streak and were rotten at their core so I avoided them. My body would literally send me into a state of intense discomfort around them and hence, awkward interactions. But how do you say “No I’m not autistic, I can just intuit that you are a horrible person”. Whoops
@@gaple1995
I was bullied at work because of that
@Aneczka C I'm just like you, the trash people who like to judge and get people to their behave as they wish, I really want to punch them a few times.
I was also diagnosed and it ruined potential friendships...
Introverts are often among the people whom have the deepest interior life
An introvert will never ask extroverts to be introvert, but an extrovert will ALWAYS ask introverts to be extrovert.
Rohan Deshmukh - I absolutely agree. (I think it's maybe because our quietness drives them crazy. I once had a colleague who yelled at me, scolded me in exasperation because I was so quiet. I did not answer her - there is no need to coz I do not owe her an answer. That really UNNERVED her, drove her round the bend.). Greetings from Singapore !
@@iseeu-fp9po communication wouldnt have been problem. If you two likes each other imo
I hate that this is true
iseeu1980 i don’t like that extroverts could think that we could be like them
@@swiggitypotato6989 I think communication is the most important thing in a relationship. Only love doesn't work fine.
"Everyone has something to say but nobody listens"
110% reletable :(
Frozen Cappuccino 🥺
Frozen Cappuccino true ,I experience that a lot
@@inesmira2350 ?
@@kajal9158 bitter truth💀💔
@ARMY With Luv! :"(
"The world feels like a place that rewards extroverts. Where being loud is mistaken for being confident and happy."
as an introvert, there is so much truth in this statement. sending all love to my fellow introverts. 💛
bernadette 🖤🖤
I love you my mate
yes
True that!❤
I agree. My 10 year old is an introvert, incredibly bright but shy and very quiet. At school he is largely ignored as he is expected to ger on with it, and the louder, more confident children who love the limelight always occupy the teacher's time. Recently he has started being chattier and the teacher is very irritated, because he is no longer invisible and it has made her job harder.
As an introvert I feel this is why I'm better at seeing someone's true character. I take time to watch whereas as an extrovert is always ready to speak to new people and always trying to expand their circle. This is the time when I observe and I end up figuring them out whereas the extrovert finds out way later who that person is whether it's good or bad I'm 10 steps ahead because I kept my mouth shut and watched lol I don't befriend people right away.
Same
So true!
Same for me. Listening instead of always talking, saving my words to distilate some useful thoughts.
Same here.
Same
*"I have few friends , but our connection is deep ."*
*I liked this sentence a lot .. Because I also have a few friends.*
Same I only have one best friend but we are sooo close, I love her
Me too
I don't have friends :(
@@yath3681 samee :( everyone hates me
Me too
"Being loud is mistaken for being confident and happy" I don't know why people think you're sad just because you are a quiet person ?
This!😂😆💚
And lonely, they often misinterpret my being alone as an anti social, thus i am a lonely person. I really can't understand them.
Same , many people thought I don't know anything , many times , some times I talk so much people feel I am fine , some time I don't feel like talking people think I am upset or try to find some or other reason ,but actually I don't feel like talking. Simply
Exactly. Sometimes I feel like it's a crime not to be like them. But then videos like these pop up!
Because they're stupid obviously. I dont allow mindless bozos to drain me.
As an introvert, i comfort others with words i wish to hear .
Same somtimes i feel like only i comfort others but when i need someone to do same theres no one
@@ihatesnakeu9432 yeah is it normal to happen...i mean sometimes its hard for me to control myself
I don't even know how to comfort people with words I just stand there by their side awkwardly or give them water
Every time I do this
Example?
Something I wish I'd been told as a kid. I always struggled to be heard at work until I got to know 1 boss a bit better. She stood up at a huge meeting of senior people and said " Listen to her. She doesn't say much but it seriously pays to listen!" The bosses started to listen, and I started to find more and different ways to get my message across. A win-win!
Wow
I'm really proud of the fact that I'm an introvert; I can be satisfied and happy with very little (tiny apartment, living alone, reading a good book, raining days, dining alone and going to the movies alone)
This quarantine made me realized how blessed I am to be an introvert- my extrovert roommates are literally losing their minds but my life hasn't changed much and I'm quite content with spending my days indoors and being able to focus on creative hobbies
Same
Bella Lobo love it 😊😊😊😊
Me too 💞💞💞
Same. I am also delighted to read that others feel like this. I am 44 years old in this time of quarantine and I have finally realised that I am an introvert. I never fully understood what one was really and I am enlightenment to be honest. I now feel good about myself.
- stay in home and keep calm!
Me: Yuppppi!!!! (internal speak, of course!)
Fun Fact: we introverts prefer texting than Calling. And hardly attend any call.
Yea
That's true 😄.
That's so me🤣🤣🤣
Yup
Same here😄
Being an introvert, I love talking to myself, spun dreams, talk to imaginary friends, enjoying and feeling every bit of the nature and life is the best gift....
Me too
Beside my mom....best advice to me is from me
@@drinkwatereatmelons7048 hey do hv any habit of talking to imaginary friends?
Yeah, I always talk to my imaginary friend. But sometimes it goes loud and become awkward 😂
@@NandanapNair-ol1xl ya i just make up a story n strt talking to my imaginary friend. I ask u becuz I thought that i m wierd. I m happy now tht I m not the only one
This video speaks to my soul!! I've always been told things like "You're so quiet", "Why don't you ever talk?", "You SHOULD talk more!" etc. And who knows what more they have talked about me behind my back. I wish people could have seen what was going on in my head at those times. My inner world has been and is more interesting than having superficial talks with people. But those kind of people never understand this, and unfortunately they won't. They disrespect our natural choice to live a calm life but they never get questioned for talking too much or being too "lively". I now know that people who talk more than needed definitely have much more problems than the ones who "never talks". The talkative people I have met were either narcissistic or had some kind of insecurities. I might be one of the unluckiest introverts since I have had to live in a student dormitory with different people every year for 7 years and I find silence much more valuable than anything now for a peaceful life. The more I find myself having to spent time with people other than some people who appreciate my reserved nature, the more I love being and spending time alone.
When I was having lunch with a group of colleagues, one of them talk and talk and then said to me “You know you can participate in a conversation too instead of just sitting silent” and I told him back “You know there are people who prefer to listen *than talk* “ and he shut up 😄
Ha
You deserve a crown for saying this .
@@nowrin_8193 thank you for saying that. 🙂
Love that response!
Hahaha savage
I’m an introvert I love gardening, art, cooking, reading, libraries and being to myself, I like companionship with a FEW good friends.
You described me
So true. Not everyone loves big friend groups with 10+ people. Sometimes, it's those small intimate friend groups with 5 or less people that are the best
Me too
🙏
i don't like a big circle of friends so i only have 2 friends in college whom I trust a lot and they're also introvert like me 😆 and also my mom is blessed to have an introvert daughter like me because she doesn't have a problem to me from where do i always go because after school i am straight at home and I am always with my 2 friends 😆
nicole pilgrim same! And a lot of interverts have hobbies unlike extroverts lol. I’ve noticed a lot don’t have hobbies
Being loud sure do make some people feel smart , you know who im talking about , always the loudest in the room and have no care for people around.
I have a friend who is like that, it's so annoying
cough trump cough
Tru there so annoying and can't ever shut up and sit down
That's just a stereotype for Extroverts! That's not the case.
Jo Molololo oh so it’s ok to attack an extrovert? Get off your high horse...
It took me 27 years to understand that it's OK to feel overwhelmed by stimuli. I was raised to ignore my intuition. As my family has grown and changed, we've all started to appreciate our individual differences. My mum used to tell me to toughen up. Now she's the one who gently reminds me to slow down.
"instead of filling up space with small talk, I listen patiently!" - this sums it all up...
@Lucky Talha same 😔😔
Being introvert is a gift because not many people feel peace in the silence of today's rushing world. So hardly anyone understands and I am often labelled as one without any 'opinions'. Being ' arrogant' is the last thing on our mind.
If only you'd have stopped talking before interrupting me instead of saying " Why so quiet?"
We don't have it easy. But doesn't everyone think grass is greener on the other side.
The quietest people have the loudest minds, it's true, I hate it when things are chaotic, I take some time off for myself to stay away from the chaos.
OMG yesss! The one "without any opinions or ideas" is BEYOND annoyingggg!
@@okaythen2667 yeah but sometimes we do have opinions and the greatest ideas but we choose not to tell it out, we also choose not to confront people if there's an issue cause we don't want to deal with people's stupidity or don't want to indulge in something that doesn't benefit us.
Lol.. A senior in our school hates me because I'm his sitmate in the bus and that "I'm so quiet" and get mad if I 'complain to myself' on how noisy they are..lmfao..
rosh& rosh I definitely relate to that. Probably why I have never gone to a nightclub in my 28 years of existence. I can only imagine the chaos and I’ve never been willing to to experiment on it. Exes definitely find it too weird. And it makes me wonder, is it so wrong to desire peace of mind? Even my extroverted mum takes offence in my silence and desire to withdraw to a quiet place a lot of the time. Like I tell my few friends, nothing is worth sacrificing my peace of mind to except when I start having extroverted children (God help me).
How introverts makes friends:
10% They don't
90% Extroverts find them and adopt them!🤣😅
Lol
...i'm that extrovert and that's why all my friends are introvert 🤠
Truuuuue. I love being friends with extroverts although sometimes I don't feel like hanging out with them. Their energy is too hard for me to catch on lol
Could we actually call this a symbiosis? Lol.
@@oms5765 extroverted is more fun...you should go out some more to experience life
If introversion were more valued by society, it could make a massive difference to our collective future 😊👏
I am really thankful to God who created me as an Introvert
Finding yourself, observing things around you, appreciating others-I love it.
Me too
I love this comment ( ◜‿◝ )♡
Yah me too,,, since birth I'm introvert already,,,I'm happy and enjoyed being alone.
🙋♀️😉 I love it!
Yes Amen! He makes no mistakes. Thank you Jesus
I was extremely extroverted as a child but I gradually became an introvert as I grew up.
Same here
bhavana samhita same here
Like me....So u r not alone
👍
Me toooo
This comment section is the most peaceful place!
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😂true.. I can feel it💯
100% agreed
I love this so much! I would trade an Extrovert for this Home! Or even more Extroverts! 😂😌❤️
Indeed ♥️
I’m definitely an introvert and very proud of myself! I’m on the outside looking in; listening, learning and observing. I learn much about others and myself! Praise God!
The positive side of being introvert is I actually do enjoy social distancing during the quarantine. Do you ?
👍🏽 Certainly!
very much!
Oh yes! So much!
Yesssss and I keep telling people I need to stay in to flatten the curve🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yup, it's more time to work on things that truly count, like family and doing things that make us truly happy; be it art, music, whatever really.. Life generally has us so busy with so many things, we lose sight of those things that honestly don't get as much time as we'd like.
2:27 "I have few friends but our connection is deep"
It's quite true 'cause introverts prefer quality over quantity 💜✨
"Why are you so quiet?"
Me in my mind while keeping a Pikachu smiling face: What you want me to do? Scream?! ;-;
Lmao!! 😭😂 You mean this 🙂 or this ☺️ type Pikachu smiling face?!
"Why are you so loud"
Lmaooo!!
We should ask them why are u soo loud?
I am an introvert and i love my peace and freedom.
I love the fact that I'm introvert. And being aware of this makes me more comfortable, but I always have that feeling of not fit in, my gut keeps telling me that people don't like me, and I'm ok with that, it's just annoying me every now and then to see that in their eyes.
f them ppl we came in this world alone and its only one body in the casket love being yourself these ppl just love attention and the most miserable
@@breunique1468 thanks for your kind words, the thing is that I love who I am , but they keep drain my energy by their behaviour, most ppl can't understand why I'm alone most of the time, which is fine by me. But I think ppl always suspect quiet person, they even prefer dealing with a rude one than a quiet person.
We feel the same way 🌹
Same here,have exactly the same voice in my mind that people don't like me. being a little conservative doesn't mean I'm not social.sometimes people even misunderstand us as we fail to keep our opinions or explanations as loudly as extroverts do.and that makes me more dragged towards a hole
Exactly I feel the same thing. People often seem to think that I have an attitude and that's why I don't mingle with them. Its just simple...I don't like it
"Why are u so quiet?"
"Why are u so antisocial?"
"Aren't you bored all alone?"
"Don't you ever get lonely?"
"You should get out more."
This is what I always heard from people growing up and for a long time it made me feel like a weirdo and an outcast. But with time I have learned to embrace my introverted nature and have discovered that being like this has it's strengths. Today I'm proud to be an introvert.
Don't worry i'm introvert too.it's blissful
@@danielljazlan it still bothers me a lot when people say that
@@chanellebooysen9570 always, I feel what you feel😋😋
Yes, I've heard the same things. Loneliness is ENTIRELY a matter of how you perceive being alone. Here's a parallel. As you know, recently the stock markets took a big dive this year. Some people panicked and sold at a loss, some did nothing and just held the stocks they own, and others like myself went on a buying binge. Why? Why, when exposed to the same event did many people react so differently? It's the same with being alone. You can be negative and see it as loneliness, or be more positive and see it as quiet blissful solitude and enjoy it as I do.
Are u bored alone? Me: sometimes but not much.
Do u ever get lonely? Me: rarely, but I'm more lonely in company than by myself. IDK why.
U should get out more. Me: *from internal to external rage engulfs a crowd of ppl, throwing them in shock* FUQ YEW!!!! I DO WHAT I WANT!!!!! (yes, that last 1s a trigger for me!)
I'm an introvert and i just want to say...
To all introverts in the world, I love you...
Love you too introvert sibling
introverts need our own dating site. you mentioned love...
Lots of love to you.
Much love coming your way 😌💝
Aw, love you 🤩 🥰 you are adorable !
As an introvert myself, I like having people around, just without them making noise or talking to me.
I love being an introvert. But I wished people understand my need to be alone more often than not.
They think we are depressed 😂😂
Going to visit family or friends for a few days and staying with them is too much for me. I need to be by myself and I can't be. If I go outside to sit someone comes out. If I go in a room to just look at my phone or something someone's looking for me. Once I stayed with someone for 2 weeks and I thought I would have a heart attack or something I was getting so anxious.
@@cbjersey7419 Engage them in your thoughts and your world. You are not broken.
The one thing I hate about being an introvert is the way people judge me so quickly. People think I've got no confidence and my life is sad🤷♂️
And my parents tried to change me and now I'm in a completely muddled😒😒
Show 'em wrong, soft-spoken yet correct, kind words impact longer than whatever the hell is usually screamed lol
So tru
i can feel you
yewh me too :(
Just saying
" I was social distancing before it was cool".
Same Lmao
PREACH.
If I had my way it would stay like this for good.😂😂😂😂😂
This is utterly beautiful! You hear the compassion, empathy and softness in her voice and words. This resonates. Thank you little oasis of hearts! :)
Edit:
That's what I feel empathic introverts are: a little Oasis, a little place to let go, feel at home, feel understood.
Do you guys know that moment, when you finally meet somebody who is compassionate, softspoken, sensible, open hearted that you cant help it but cry in their presence :)
Hi! I'm Sofi from the video, so glad you liked it!
I love being an introvert. I just hate how people make assumptions like we have a problem just because we are quiet or start questioning why we are quiet and such like we need to explain in detail about it. Just stop acting like we need saving and leave us, introverts alone when we need it geez
They r dealing with us as if we r suffering from a mental disease or psychological illness
True ☮️
But sometimes I face problems when meeting girls
Seems like girls don't like quite guys
Exactly, people think we have nothing to say amd no ideas Coz we don't speak ,but in reality introverts are thw smartest of all
Right? I'm a quiet person and I hate it when I'm with my cousins and they always ask if I'm ok or if something is wrong.
It's sad how being a introvert is unfair in schools especially where it requires active participant. extrovert who talks more in class gets better grades but quiet people like us gets marked down. I remember how lecturers kept giving me lower grade for daily class because I wasn't speaking up and he would keep writing comments asking me to talk in class full of unfamilar people and how it is to help me in the future... I wish teachers and lectures would understand about the different personalities and judge better.
Exactly... I can relate to this.
Literally I get on every teachers report 'great student but could contribute more to class be answering questions' like nahhh I like to listen to others contributions instead and I can write my own down. Me answering questions just gets me all nervous I hate it so much like I have not learnt stuff by answering questions I get too nervous 😂😂
Exactly.
Brace yourself. It's gonna be the same in the work place. My team leader would often tell me to socialize with our team and to participate more... even though I'm already performing excellently, metrics wise.
This happened me too many times in school, my grades are pretty good but my teachers would rather talk about my quiet personality and inactive demeanour in class instead, like imagine you worked your butt off to get those grades but all they talk about was your personality that you had been born with, i was so sick of that mentality, i'm still an introvert but in high school i started enrolling myself in more extra-curricular activities, ironically, those activities require me to talk more, like debating and choral speaking, but i find myself comfortable doing those things because those were what i'm passionate about and i would rather talk about more serious issues among debaters rather than striking up a random conversation between friends or people about a random topic,
So in conclusion, if i know that topic or i'm very interested and passionate about something, i would definitely see myself joining the conversation however if it's really not my cup of tea or my taste or i literally have nothing to say, i would rather coop up in my room or just be that random person in the background
A cute and clear voice, a pleasant music.
Thanks.
*sobs in quiet introvert whisper*
The person above should change their name to "W"
And the person bellow me should change their name to "Y"
I like her voice
I feel alive
Someone knows another youtube channel which have imagines and clearly voice like this video. Share with me
As an introvert I feel very proud of myself even though it took me a while to realize how precious I am. Sometimes people around me consume that I don’t enjoy talking but actually I prefer to be a good listener and ready to share my words if I want to. Sometimes I give extra energy to join the conversation with my trusted and beloved friends, but sometimes I do want to stay alone to recharge my energy. Keeping silent is not being shy, it is just because we wait for the right time to talk.
Same feel
"I am an introvert."
"Nah! You are so talkative! So extrovert!"
"Being an introvert has nothing to do with being talkative. I still can be talkative with some people that I'm comfortable with."
"..."
"..."
"NAH! You're not an introvert!"
Anyone feel the same as me?
Definetly me I CAN RELATE TO YOU
Some people say I'm not that shy so I'm not an introvert
Yessss, we are all misconceived. I love my quietness. I love being around my kind of people. But I can't handle too much of it. I could put up a bold, approachable and talkative appearance in front of a crowd but deep inside I'm praying it'll all end soon enough so I can review my own thoughts and have my quiet again. Maybe that's what she calls ambivert in the video?
So me..... Am talkative even to strangers.... but I love my company
Yup. 100% i m so good at but i hate small talks. While the real me wants to sit by a lake and fish for hours and hours listening to birds.
"Why are you quiet?"
One question common to all the introverts.
Always. Alwwaaays. It is just that I don't want to drain my energy to small talks
😌😅
Only one. No more 😊😇= Introverts
Quiet doesn't mean inactive. It means I'm open to observing more from surrounded people.
Talking one quality sentence is better than a long paragraph.
My answer "because I prefer to listen and observe than blabbering and showing off"
I hate when my parents introduce me to some one "He don't talk much..he is shy .."
Same bro
Yes it's really irritating 😡
But try to get closer to him/her then you'll understand how much they hve to talk☺☺
It’s annoying how they say “we are shy.” 😠
@Divyansh I hate it too. I hate when people say things like “Oh! He screams like a girl.” They disrespect girls at this point in my opinion. And they also can cause pain to that boy they addressed to. (Please don’t assume my gender. Call me They/Them). 🙂
Growing up, I was often told that I was too gentle and too sensitive. I tried to blend in, pretending to be like everyone else-but it was exhausting. As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to realize that being an introvert is a unique gift, and I’m learning to truly appreciate it.
I'm an introvert and I really enjoy being alone because it's the only way I can find peace. I like being around family & friends too but I just feel like a lot of people are too extra, drama, emotionally unstable and it feels draining after a while like they just need someone to let out all their stresses on to feel better.
Le Masqué that’s it, it feels like people consumes you wholly.
Thanks, they told me “how is that possible”
Oh,,this makes sense to my energy levels too
It is a phenomenon of human parasitism ....... towards introverts ... even in a biological sense. There is a toll on you mentally, energetically , hormonally (as a eusocial species, we use hormones as one method of control). We see parasites mostly as blood drainers - but there is a type of wasp that uses some type of hormone to control a spider. They lay their eggs on the spider's back, and then the Spider spins a web around itself, and is trapped; once the wasps hatch, they eat the Spider. Extroverted humans do something parallel to the Quiet ones - and if you allow yourself to see it for what it is, it is much more bizarre than you want to realize.
Being an introvert, I feel stressed out when people talk to me too much but later I feel good that I am connected to people, and they feel good while talking to me coz I listen them😌😌😌😌
Hello vaishnavi!!
YESSSSSSS!!!! VERY MUCH SO!! WE ATTRACT ALL THE TALKERS 😆 WE LISTEN VERY WELL!!!!
Be aware that those extrovert "talkers" often think you are a great conversationalist, just because you ... listen intently.
Funny, that, but they are not wrong.
My so called friends tell me I'm not social enough, I should have been an extrovert and all this shit .... But this comment section is so relatable and friendly to me that... It's really nice...
Finally I got so many people who are like me and iam so happy now it's like I find a lot of friends in the introvert world in our dear world
@@RB-oq1wy ☺☺
❤️☺️
So true❤
Being introvert and having music by my side...nothing can be better than this:)
I LOVE YOU
I'm an introvert and proud to be one. It used to bother me at first how people talked about me, saying that I was shy and antisocial, and how such behaviors are bad. An introvert's preference for being alone and quiet shouldn't be mistaken as shyness or lack of confidence or antisocial behavior. I'm not shy and I'm confident when the need arises; I'm very talkative when I'm sitting in a comfortable company and I don't have a problem in talking to new people. An introvert likes to listen and think before saying something. And when I know there is no use speaking as my voice won't be heard over the noise of the more boisterous people I keep quiet, but that doesn't mean that I don't have an opinion. I choose my battles logically.
very nicely said👍
I'm introvert but when it comes to shyness and confident my extrovert friends are more shy than me although I'm 90% introvert.maybe because I have assertive personality but it's only 51%
EXACTLY! That’s so true!
Thank you, that is exactly what I wanted to say ✨
May I add: Quote "U NEVER LISTEN TO ME" Unquote...It is not that we (introverts and grown up ones at That), It is we listen...but we WON'T OBEY them. We don't have to "Polish knobs nor chop to het what we need and want in this world, THAT is why we need to depend on the Lord. 💪👆🤙
I'm a life-long, middle-aged introvert and I can honestly say that I have learned more through my entire life by listening to and observing people's actions/body language than any other way! My sixth sense about people/situations has for the most part always proven itself amazingly accurate.
The biggest misconception about introverts is that we're always quiet and reserve no matter what ... NOT TRUE!! If you put me in a large room full of people I don't know, I'll be standing in the far corner observing everyone. However, if you put me in that same room with familiar people I know there's no shutting me up!!
Frank V. 100%
True but i will still be silence and laghing inside my head even if i can and i want to interact thats just fun to me 😁😁
How I deeply relate is quite uncanny!
You nailed it.
True my husband would sometimes disregard me for talking too much when he is doing something😂
Omg... just yesterday my 10 year old daughter said, “this isolation thing doesn’t bother me at all, I don’t like going out anyways” 😐
She’s an introvert,
she can sit for hours at home at one place, doing arts & crafts, writing, drawing, colouring etc... she’s not lazy, she can do that for hours & not get bored of it! She hates going out, especially shopping & to crowded places! She prefers gifting handmade cards made by her, to her loved ones on birthdays, Mother’s Day etc..
she’s sensitive to peoples emotions.. she makes double sure that everyone’s okay with her decisions...
She cares deeply but doesn’t know to express it by hugging or kissing or won’t say it cos she’s too shy! She’s accommodative & understanding!
She finds a quite corner to sit, at family get togethers.. she’s often judged for it..
she’s also often compared to her extroverted cousins & told to be like them.. that upsets her a lot!
She’s told to smile more.. she’s just not okay with small talks when she meets her extended family! At the same time she can be extremely talkative with people she’s comfortable with, so much so that, she can spill all the family beans & I have to literally shut her up!
She’s extremely smart & comes up with smart ideas, she gives her 100% to whatever she’s entrusted with!
She’s wise & has a lot of patience..
even though I’m her mom, I learn a lot from her everyday..
When I’m stressed, she tells me not to think too much about it!
She lives in the moment & doesn’t need much to keep herself entertained & needs very little to make herself happy!
I’m so proud of her, I feel secure & at peace in her company!
You have a wonderful daughter 💟💟💟
I would be proud too. She's amazing!
You may want to get her personality tested. She sounds alot like myself and I am INFJ. If so she has a very rare personality. Thanks for sharing! :)
Your daughter sounds awesome! Hopefully she always know that being the way she is perfectly fine and normal.
She sounds a lot like me when I was growing up. I was often ridiculed for being quiet and content being by myself. I was happy doing my own thing and being quiet. I never did a lot of babyish activities that young people like to do. Once at a slumber party when I was about 10 years old, all the kids went out to ring doorbells and run away and laugh when someone answered. I stayed back and talked to the parents! Sounded goofy then and still does now but I just wasn't into the same things that seemed childish. I liked playing in my room, coloring, reading, etc. and being sent to my room wasn't a punishment.
Thanks for being a mom who understands and doesn't try to change her. You're amazing yourself.
The most important is, be what that makes you feel happy and comfortable.
"Where being loud is mistaken for being confident and happy. Where everyone has something to say but no one listens"
*_i FELT THAT_*
It's frustrating.
Actually extroverts feels there talk is superior than our's
@@pramodtalwar6692 I know. That's what really aggravates me
@Lucky Talha exactly. They have a tendency to make us feel quite insecure and stupid when we are highly intelligent. Therefore, it's not a nice feeling at all.
That is the many people I see. Deep down lonely and trying to avoid themselves. Need others to validate them.
I’m not quiet or shy at all, but I take my power and recharging from my alone time, and enjoy solitude. We introverts come in many different forms!
I am shy in crowds, and I get drained by parties, but I wish I was more quiet in general (and keep my energy for myself) , being quiet is more charming. 😊
I love being in company with my friends, but socializing really drains me and take me days to recharge lol
@@laodanilo2529 I can relate to that! I really need my quiet time too.
There are supposedly 4 types of Introverts- Social, Thinking, Anxious, and Restrained/Inhibited. I like to think of myself as the “Thinking Introvert” because I’m always in my head.
@@laodanilo2529 Finally someone i can relate to. I get drained and often go home with headaches when I go to social events where everyone is talking and they expect me to have conversations with everyone!
Last time was in a big clouded restaurant where everyone was talking and on our table they were also talking loud i don't remember anything said bcz the noises of voice and cutlery was overwhelming
I'm an introvert and I gain so much energy in this quarantine period.
👍👍
I've always felt that being Introverted has been my most significant virtue. My Dad always told me the reason you have 2 Ears and 1 Mouth is so that you can Listen before Responding, so I've always taken that advice literally. I'm always the most quiet in any group I'm with, listening, smiling or laughing to everyone talk over each other, just waiting for others ask me for my input or opinion. 🤣😂 I literally get exhausted in groups bigger 3 or 4 people and easily fade away, but I have great friends and family that know how I am and they respect me as I am.