''You can't be hungry for something that is not hungry for you'' Noted. Ladies, we're keeping this in the back of our minds in our dating life in 2022.
Agreed! I stopped chasing men last year and that was also the last time I had sex. When you are NOT sleeping with a man, it makes it easier to walk away. Took me a long time to learn that, but I got it now.
I remember awhile ago watching a video of Tony’s where he said something along the lines of the goal for him is for us to not feel the need to watch his vids all the time bc we’ve come to place where we can discern & make good choices without constantly having to come back to his channel. That’s when I knew he was a real one & did this with a passion. I can say with everything that I rarely come to his channel anymore. Not bc I don’t need the constant knowledge & wisdom he provides. Not bc life is perfect. But bc I’ve become so aligned & in touch with God that I just stopped caring about being in a relationship and/or why men do what they do. It’s such a peaceful & amazing feeling and I really pray you ladies can get to this point too. Life is so short & fragile.. live your best lives now! 💙 & thanks again Tony for all your continuous wisdom! May God continue to bless you & your family! (P.s I still watch vids time to time to support his channel, & recommend him to all my girlfriends! Including some guy friends who need to grow up 😊😂)
One of my biggest lessons/blessings was being desperate. When I tell you GOD let me suffer to the point I knew that my love life should be in his hands and his hands only and not mine, but I had to GO through that so I can GROW and become the woman I am today 🙏🏽
Amen!! You are not by yourself!! I had to go through the same lesson/blessing to see God’s will for my life. That’s why I give TG his all his props for this channel and support him!! Thanks god for him. I’m glad god helped you to as well!!!🙏🏽✝️
Story of my life, I also had to experience this to finally allow God to take control of my life and change my life for the better. And he has changed my life and healed me from the insecurities that were holding me back from loving myself and trusting him fully.
That’s what my pastor told me. I gave the church there first one star review and one day will get the strength to go back, praise God, and stay single. This was a church I wanted to join but a member there was extremely toxic. I’m back to knowing my truth.
This was how I knew a guy I recently thought the lord sent was a distraction because when I thought about him it was more in admiration than in genuine interest.
Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person your best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand why now, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of Why things didn't work out. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.
Some women have gotten so desperate to the point they are too easy, so the man already knows he won't have to work for her. Men don't put in the work or respect for desperate and easy women.
Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person your best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand why now, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of Why things didn't work out. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.
Finally somebody said it!! I always think this everytime I see women with ridiculously long nails. They can't be all that clean personally or their household because most things you do will either result in your nails being broken or you hurting yourself in attempt to do it correctly. I work in a lab as a chemist and if I had manicured nails it wouldn't last but one or two days, until I went back to work. You can't put on gloves with those kind of nails which means you put yourself at risk handling hazardous chemicals.
These women are MORE than desperate in these last days....its pathetic. Love yourself 1st. Yall give all your money and attributes away then you cant by groceries in 2 weeks and these men cant help you buy a cup of water. Then you swear your friends are hating when they call him out.
Ever since my divorce about 4yrs ago (and even during the marriage) I turned into a dramatically desperate woman. and although I'm ashamed to admit it...I admit it. every situation I've been in since then has been a complete embarrassment on my behalf. but I finally get it. I finally get it.
Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person your best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand why now, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of Why things didn't work out. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.
Jasmine never be ashamed of admitting anything sista! You just all of us are not perfect and never will be. I'm not ashamed to admit how I wanted something real with a guy who acted as if he did to but wasn't mature enough to be honest with me! Honesty is so hard for boys. Age doesn't mean a thing these days.
There is zero shame in learning from your past behaviour. The shame is in repeating the past and refusing to learn. You should be proud of yourself. It takes a lot to be honest with yourself and in the comment section. Well done!
When you don't know the love of God, and don't love yourself. You'll be desperate for love from someone else. Being desperate for love is how you'll end up as the placeholder. Men immediately know if you're desperate. Don't be desperate! Know your worth and add value.
I totally agree that when you want love, you can act from a place of desperation. Personally, this is a hard lesson that God allowed me to go through because I kept doing the same thing thinking that I was going to get a different result. Now I know that the only one that I can really rely on and trust is God and allow Him to bring that man to me.
I remember Tony said in one of his videos to send a guy that asks you for money information on how to get a pay day loan and I’ve done that and it worked wonderfully for me that was the last time the guy ever asked me for money.
Right. I don’t understand how grown ppl go multiple days without bathing or brushing their teeth unless they’re about to go see somebody. That’s not self love at all.
Everybody moving too fast these days. The moving in and taking care of a man is out of order. Praying for us 🙏 I will continue to wait as long as God sees fit.
Those lashes are carrying ladies away for real 😂. Raise your hand if you hate those cartoon character lashes, I feel like I’m the only woman left on the planet who can’t stand them.
We're living in the last days, the only one I want to be desperate for is Jesus! I look forward to getting married someday but until then, I'm working on "B.B.B"...Brains, Brand, Body! As for the eyelashes, some of them look absolutely terrible, like carpet mats!
I had to debate my ex on “giving him money” so many times. I would always say, “you are not my husband”……he would get so upset because as his woman, according to him, I’m supposed to be the one that helps him when he in need and can’t pay his bills because he spends his money on me. When I would say, you’re not my husband, he would get mad and say well so I’m supposed to treat you like a wife but you not supposed to treat me like a husband?
arbitrary_library I never asked him to buy me anything….other than simply going out on dates. He didn’t always pay, I paid also. If he decided to take me out and spend the money that should have gone to a bill….at the end, I was blamed because he spent his money on me. And as his woman, I should be able to give him money to help him out.
@Tori YT those were my exact words at one point …”when we go out, I’ll just pay for myself. Don’t spend any money on me if I’m just gonna end up giving right back to you”…..oh that made him even madder smh. He is a 41 year old “man”….I’ve learned my lesson.
Dose he know that's a game he is playing. To give to you & expect the money back later. When he is suppose to do the work & investments that can take care 😘 if himself & a wife responsibly, with out a sorry plan to selfishly get the money 🤑💰 back as he tries to tricks & plan to use a woman 👠🤗👛. That's not a man following God's good man ways. He needs Jesus & didn't seem ready to date or marry. Hope you get God's best 🙏😅👍 💕🥰 man for you & your life's purpose. God 🙏 Bless & Happy, Blessed Holidays 🎊🎊🎊.
Women please get back in touch with God read your Bible is sad that this is becoming a cliché but it’s not a cliché fall in love with your father your heavenly father he will fill all those voids…in your life he will fill every void… you’ll forget all about a man because you will be so in love with God and what he has for you …and his purpose for you… you have to do that so that when he brings the man you will barely even need em’.
Stop this needing a longing for a man is not going to lead down a right track it’s not gonna be down the right road please get busy volunteering and giving of your time helping somebody do something else with your time I had a friend that look for a man for 10 years straight she was on every dating site everything you could imagine and she made her husband walking down the street and they are happily married just wait on God and do what you’re supposed to be doing in the meantime go to school better yourself because this road of I need a man I need a man Could send you to a psych unit please!!!!!
We as women definitely get enhancements to compete or compare with other women who posses whatever attribute it is naturally, for the attention or validation of men.
A lot of these lashes are outrageous! But you're right, a lot of women won't listen and don't. It's too much sometimes, even with the lash extensions people go overboard. I understand women do get tired of being critiqued but some of these looks are crazy and are worthy of ridicule. And everyone needs correction sometimes.
There is many women desperate for love and feel incomplete without having someone, but nevertheless woman have to understand the depth of their existence! We are the warmth , confidence and help that soothes. If you love yourself the earth shall speak and you'll receive your Boaz king in the right timing. " According to your essence and the engraved structure of your prayers shall speak life into your heart desires and they will become reality" Pastor Hala and the mind body and soul crew
Rightfully so, false eyelashes always made me think of drag queens no matter the size of them. Then when one guy said that it made him think of the fish on this one movie I couldn't unsee it after that 😆
Tony, you keep saving me from the wrong men. Every time I Stumble and do something stupid, I always come back to hear the word of my brother to be put back in check. Thank God for you.
I have followed you for long time. You always on point and so transparent. I Thank God for mentors like you. You live it and teach it! Thank God for give discernment, saved me from alot of situations I thought I wanted. God always knows what's best for us. Since I have been saved and closed my legs!!! Blessings!!!!God open doors!!!! I am prayerfully waiting until I get married to my King! Continue allow God to use you. You are a truly Blessings to us all!
TG!!! This is one of my favorite Top messages for 2021!! I loved how you delivered this message!! Your tone, examples , and passion to save single women in this message was phenomenal!! Your wisdom is golden and your work is not in vain. The life lessons, advice, and your compassion is truly appreciated!! Whenever I can hear your messages or sign up for courses to help me be a better “Me” I do. I “sprung my finger “ during your Black Friday sale signing up for courses. Thank you TG for your bravery and your good heart ♥️ it speaks volumes!! May God keep blessing you to to bless us!!! 🙏🏽✝️
Tony, you are so real! It truly is sexual harassment. Women really need to be checked on this! So easy to shoot shots and don't even realize it. If a man said the same things to a woman, it would be a whole problem. Plus, it's very unattractive to be so desperate. Here to help 🙏🙏
I'm grateful for 4 videos I've watched from you and it helped me change my life, I don't watch all your videos but because you help me, I like put a thumbs up no matter what. Blessing for you and your beautiful family 🙏💯
I love how Mr. Gaskins honors MRS. Tony Gaskins! Seeing yall gives me hope and the way you respect & require respect for your queen is the reason I keep listening! I can listen to a man who loves & honors His wife like Christ loves His church. Thanks for sharing the wisdom and the real! 💯💯
Tony is speaking truth. These guys hit my Instagram and Facebook daily trying to see if I'm looking for a relationship. I delete them as soon as I see it. All of these guys are half or more my age. I'm not a stupid woman, it's a money grab.
Tony, I love how you dont play with these Satan's spawns that come to try you. Makes me happy to know that some men get it. Some try to make it look like you're insecure or jealous when you tell them to be careful of feminine wiles. Great to know you peep game early and BLOCKT!!!! And also the ones that come to tey you in the comments or on your videos ,BLOCKT!!! I love that you don't give them a platform to display foolishness. Keep saving lives and destinies with these videos.The ones who will learn will learn , you are appreciated.
thank you for posting here Tony; i tried to watch it live and had to click out. those instagram comments were running my blood pressure up. they are so troubled over there.
Mr. Gaskins I just wanna say thank you and please don’t ever stop keeping it SO real. That’s hard to find and there’s a community of people in the world who actually DO absolutely LOVE undiluted Truth. Keep it coming Sir. Much respect and love.
This, I wish I had seen 5, 7, 10 years ago. I never actually FELT desperate for a man, but I definitely acted what he calls desperate when it comes to giving men money and accommodating their lack of drive and income . I did not have standards hard enough because I thought that was mean and snobbish, as so many men don't have the upbringing I had. I've never met a man of equal or greater looks education and economic background who wanted to pursue me and I had no idea why, because i was good looking and talented and kind and NATURAL. They met me but did not pursue. This went on for years even though i was hopeful even after being raped as a virgin aged 17. It was only in my late 20s that I got fed up of waiting and angry and frustrated and willing to give too much. This also made me despair as i realised neither sex nor money made men want to commit. I knew i didn't want to be a great whatever my gift is who was all alone and unmarried and I acted according to that knowledge. I did not see it as desperation i saw it as being willing to invest. Also, no one helped me set up rules of thumb. This definitely should be in schools. I will bring your message to young women in Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹 though, once I get the grace to. Thanks to you and RC Blakes for speaking to those of us who wanted what we've been built and meant for but apparently didn't get equipped with common sense to never give more to a man than he gives to us. Tony, I have always wanted someone on my level and hated lashes, nails and everything fake and I'm staying that way point blank period!
Speaking of the video of the young woman who was scammed, my fiance said last night "I don't care for those eyelashes but she's an attractive woman... It shouldn't be hard for her to find a man." So Tony has a point about men not liking the huge faux eyelashes 😂
This is a father, brother, mentor, I could go on and on. He describes me to a T. The guy whom I was struggling with was actually 6’3”, 6 pack, full beard, tattoos all down his arms. Lord knows I thought he was all for me, until his ex would not stop calling me. I had to listen. Tony words are from God and I will never doubt it. Please lord protect this man and keep those evil doers away. I rebuke satan and his angles away from Tony in the name of Jesus. I learned to respect my first love because he introduced me to the lord and Tony reinforced it. Thank you god, and please keep him and his family safe. Thanks to Mrs. Gaskins for sharing her husband in this manner. This takes time out of his day from his family. But it’s the message like he said. Thank you.
This was so good per usual.. I sent it to my friend so she can subscribe… “lashes look like fingers” 😂😂 Another note… is it just me??? Tony faced/positioned this way is tripping me up lol…. It’s like I love my swoop on my right side of my face n stylist tryna swoop it to the left. 😂😂…
They give benefits because they d be alone otherwise..for me I am all I prefer to be alone than on my back unmarried and living with someone..Men will insult you too when your legs and home are closed.. If you have an opinion they dont agree with same..they want women to shut up or repeat the main opinion
Lol! Tony I’m 55 and had to learn all this the hard way. Thank You for the constant reminders tho’. The eyelashes, the man as a prize…whew! The game is real! And the block is my BFF…in person and online.
Tony I'm on my lunch break looking at this video. Received a notice another video has started. Trying to stay catched up don't want none of these videos passing me by. Lunchtime has never been so worthy until I was blessed with this channel.
Why would someone want a person who already dedicates themselves to someone else? Making it make sense says their time/love/commitment is already occupied. Only lying cheaters will give you time, and that's limited. After that, they'll give you their butts to kiss while they tend to their wives/husbands. Falling for it will place a person in the position to compete and go hard for someone who's already taken.
I agree about the money. But see I feel like if you give give from the heart don't give with hidden agendas. Don't help a man out just to try and trick him into being with you. I can't say all the way to never help a man... I will say if you give don't give out of desperation.
Tony, you're just challenging us to employ wisdom. The Bible says, if you need wisdom ask God and he'll give it. We are not all born with it, nor did we all have parents that instilled in it us. We are all going to get better ladies. Keep doing the inner work. More self-love is needed for some of us right now 🤎🤎🤎
''You can't be hungry for something that is not hungry for you'' Noted. Ladies, we're keeping this in the back of our minds in our dating life in 2022.
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In Jesus Yeshua name I agree with you.
Agreed! I stopped chasing men last year and that was also the last time I had sex. When you are NOT sleeping with a man, it makes it easier to walk away. Took me a long time to learn that, but I got it now.
"As a woman....you can't give a man what he's not giving you" 💯
So true what you say!
Baby I wish I knew this the past 10 years of my dating life! A mess!
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@Priscilla Wow....a "man" is a man...
@Priscilla ahhhh....yes...it happens that way too....my brother still using my moma cuz she let him.....smh 😥
I remember awhile ago watching a video of Tony’s where he said something along the lines of the goal for him is for us to not feel the need to watch his vids all the time bc we’ve come to place where we can discern & make good choices without constantly having to come back to his channel. That’s when I knew he was a real one & did this with a passion. I can say with everything that I rarely come to his channel anymore. Not bc I don’t need the constant knowledge & wisdom he provides. Not bc life is perfect. But bc I’ve become so aligned & in touch with God that I just stopped caring about being in a relationship and/or why men do what they do. It’s such a peaceful & amazing feeling and I really pray you ladies can get to this point too. Life is so short & fragile.. live your best lives now! 💙 & thanks again Tony for all your continuous wisdom! May God continue to bless you & your family! (P.s I still watch vids time to time to support his channel, & recommend him to all my girlfriends! Including some guy friends who need to grow up 😊😂)
Well said. I stand in agreement with you.
Yes yes !
Yasssssss!!!!!
Yasss siss 👏🏾👏🏾
Very well spoken! I just purchased him and his wife’s book: A woman’s influence. I can’t wait to dig in and read it. Be Blessed sis 🙌🏾✨
"DO NOT GIVE A MAN A DIMMMMMMMMMME" 😂
NEVER HAVE. NEVER WILL.
Sadly I see women doing that to men that they’re only dating or a boyfriend
@@shutit4024 IKR.....on a serious note....its sad 😥
@@shereses.3298 Right......u shouldn't need a woman for her money.... smh
One of my biggest lessons/blessings was being desperate. When I tell you GOD let me suffer to the point I knew that my love life should be in his hands and his hands only and not mine, but I had to GO through that so I can GROW and become the woman I am today 🙏🏽
Praise and glory to God!👏🏽
Amen!! You are not by yourself!! I had to go through the same lesson/blessing to see God’s will for my life. That’s why I give TG his all his props for this channel and support him!! Thanks god for him. I’m glad god helped you to as well!!!🙏🏽✝️
Story of my life, I also had to experience this to finally allow God to take control of my life and change my life for the better. And he has changed my life and healed me from the insecurities that were holding me back from loving myself and trusting him fully.
Amen! I’m right there with you sis
That’s what my pastor told me. I gave the church there first one star review and one day will get the strength to go back, praise God, and stay single. This was a church I wanted to join but a member there was extremely toxic. I’m back to knowing my truth.
“You shouldn’t be looking for somebody that you look up TO. You should be looking for somebody you can look AT.” TG
This was how I knew a guy I recently thought the lord sent was a distraction because when I thought about him it was more in admiration than in genuine interest.
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Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person your best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand why now, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of Why things didn't work out. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.
well it get hard when you realize in this life no one will ever care about you
Some women have gotten so desperate to the point they are too easy, so the man already knows he won't have to work for her. Men don't put in the work or respect for desperate and easy women.
"You cannot be hungry for something that isn't hungry for you." ❤️🙌
Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person your best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand why now, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of Why things didn't work out. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.
“BLOCKT” 😂😂😂 I live to block disrespectful people.
I have never believed in giving men money.
Not even a male friend.
“If them nails is this long….something ain’t cleanly…come on na..” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Finally somebody said it!! I always think this everytime I see women with ridiculously long nails. They can't be all that clean personally or their household because most things you do will either result in your nails being broken or you hurting yourself in attempt to do it correctly.
I work in a lab as a chemist and if I had manicured nails it wouldn't last but one or two days, until I went back to work. You can't put on gloves with those kind of nails which means you put yourself at risk handling hazardous chemicals.
False....when you nails are long they should extra clean.
@@ChristsChemistits not even hard to do things what 😭
These women are MORE than desperate in these last days....its pathetic. Love yourself 1st. Yall give all your money and attributes away then you cant by groceries in 2 weeks and these men cant help you buy a cup of water. Then you swear your friends are hating when they call him out.
🤦🏽♀️😂💯💯💯 facts I know women over 45 more desperate than the women in their teens and 20s
Ever since my divorce about 4yrs ago (and even during the marriage) I turned into a dramatically desperate woman. and although I'm ashamed to admit it...I admit it. every situation I've been in since then has been a complete embarrassment on my behalf. but I finally get it.
I finally get it.
Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person your best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand why now, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of Why things didn't work out. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.
Jasmine never be ashamed of admitting anything sista! You just all of us are not perfect and never will be. I'm not ashamed to admit how I wanted something real with a guy who acted as if he did to but wasn't mature enough to be honest with me! Honesty is so hard for boys. Age doesn't mean a thing these days.
Don’t feel bad because if you heard my story you would probably look like a saint compare to me lol I was very very desperate at one point
There is zero shame in learning from your past behaviour. The shame is in repeating the past and refusing to learn. You should be proud of yourself. It takes a lot to be honest with yourself and in the comment section. Well done!
When you don't know the love of God, and don't love yourself. You'll be desperate for love from someone else. Being desperate for love is how you'll end up as the placeholder. Men immediately know if you're desperate. Don't be desperate! Know your worth and add value.
YOUR SELF LOVE HAVE TO BE STRONGER THAN YOUR DESIRE TO BE LOVED....POINT BLANK PERIOODD
When he said "yall done got my wife into lashes" LMAO IM CRYING he said "I try to break her confidence sometimes" IM CRYINNNGGG
I totally agree that when you want love, you can act from a place of desperation. Personally, this is a hard lesson that God allowed me to go through because I kept doing the same thing thinking that I was going to get a different result. Now I know that the only one that I can really rely on and trust is God and allow Him to bring that man to me.
I agree been there recently. N im now like ok God I hear u...
Amen
TG said: The divorce court is the "TRAP" house 🏠
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This man is a comedian!! He is so funny
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OK I'm not the only one on the floor... the man unit
“We live in a world where we trying to find real love but we fake. We being fake looking for something real.” -TG
That was good!!!!!
I remember Tony said in one of his videos to send a guy that asks you for money information on how to get a pay day loan and I’ve done that and it worked wonderfully for me that was the last time the guy ever asked me for money.
I literally woke up outta my sleep laughing 🤣🤣🤣 The truth doesn't hurt as bad when you're laughing this hard. God Bless you Tony.
🤣🤣🤣🤣- you too funny! Woke up laughing 🤣🤣
He is hilarious!! I hollered the whole video!! 😂
Man…so many points…this man is hilarious and not even trying 😂😂😂
Sometimes we do stuff for ourselves as well, not only for people, brushing your teeth or washing you face, maintaining your weight, all for ourselves
This is where it needs to stay - we should be doing those things for ourselves first -
Right. I don’t understand how grown ppl go multiple days without bathing or brushing their teeth unless they’re about to go see somebody. That’s not self love at all.
Everybody moving too fast these days. The moving in and taking care of a man is out of order. Praying for us 🙏
I will continue to wait as long as God sees fit.
When I feel like I need to go texting an ex…let me go listen to one of Tony Gaskins videos. 👍🏽
Those lashes are carrying ladies away for real 😂. Raise your hand if you hate those cartoon character lashes, I feel like I’m the only woman left on the planet who can’t stand them.
And to think, I was thinking about getting them a little while back to ''try something new''.
@@j-tenn226 don’t do it lol Tony just told us
I seen someone with green and black lashes :/ we need to tone it down
Nope I’m right there with you lashes are hideous and we are in denial
I get a laugh out of them..I can't help but to stare it's just unreal...
We're living in the last days, the only one I want to be desperate for is Jesus! I look forward to getting married someday but until then, I'm working on "B.B.B"...Brains, Brand, Body! As for the eyelashes, some of them look absolutely terrible, like carpet mats!
I had to debate my ex on “giving him money” so many times. I would always say, “you are not my husband”……he would get so upset because as his woman, according to him, I’m supposed to be the one that helps him when he in need and can’t pay his bills because he spends his money on me. When I would say, you’re not my husband, he would get mad and say well so I’m supposed to treat you like a wife but you not supposed to treat me like a husband?
arbitrary_library I never asked him to buy me anything….other than simply going out on dates. He didn’t always pay, I paid also. If he decided to take me out and spend the money that should have gone to a bill….at the end, I was blamed because he spent his money on me. And as his woman, I should be able to give him money to help him out.
He is disrespectful and manipulative. Leave him.
@@toyauzzle5732 been there to the point I said don’t spend no money on me if I’m just giving it back to you. He’s looking for help not a relationship.
@Tori YT those were my exact words at one point …”when we go out, I’ll just pay for myself. Don’t spend any money on me if I’m just gonna end up giving right back to you”…..oh that made him even madder smh. He is a 41 year old “man”….I’ve learned my lesson.
Dose he know that's a game he is playing. To give to you & expect the money back later. When he is suppose to do the work & investments that can take care 😘 if himself & a wife responsibly, with out a sorry plan to selfishly get the money 🤑💰 back as he tries to tricks & plan to use a woman 👠🤗👛. That's not a man following God's good man ways. He needs Jesus & didn't seem ready to date or marry. Hope you get God's best 🙏😅👍 💕🥰 man for you & your life's purpose. God 🙏 Bless & Happy, Blessed Holidays 🎊🎊🎊.
Women please get back in touch with God read your Bible is sad that this is becoming a cliché but it’s not a cliché fall in love with your father your heavenly father he will fill all those voids…in your life he will fill every void… you’ll forget all about a man because you will be so in love with God and what he has for you …and his purpose for you…
you have to do that so that when he brings the man you will barely even need em’.
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Tony has answered, addressed and talked about every topic when it comes to love life and dating. The videos are amazing 😊
Stop this needing a longing for a man is not going to lead down a right track it’s not gonna be down the right road please get busy volunteering and giving of your time helping somebody do something else with your time I had a friend that look for a man for 10 years straight she was on every dating site everything you could imagine and she made her husband walking down the street and they are happily married just wait on God and do what you’re supposed to be doing in the meantime go to school better yourself because this road of I need a man I need a man Could send you to a psych unit
please!!!!!
It is definitely sad out here. And these desperate women and men are Ridiculous and Pitiful
Thank you for not being afraid to keep it real!!! 👏
I will say I appreciate his realness
We as women definitely get enhancements to compete or compare with other women who posses whatever attribute it is naturally, for the attention or validation of men.
A lot of these lashes are outrageous! But you're right, a lot of women won't listen and don't. It's too much sometimes, even with the lash extensions people go overboard.
I understand women do get tired of being critiqued but some of these looks are crazy and are worthy of ridicule. And everyone needs correction sometimes.
@@xxwoman Yes unfortunately lol
Only a man that knows and loves the Lord can be aware of the devil’s snares. Your messages give me hope that there are still GREAT men out there.
Tony is like a father that so many of us women don’t have. He is so honest and I appreciate his Advise.
There is many women desperate for love and feel incomplete without having someone, but nevertheless woman have to understand the depth of their existence! We are the warmth , confidence and help that soothes. If you love yourself the earth shall speak and you'll receive your Boaz king in the right timing. " According to your essence and the engraved structure of your prayers shall speak life into your heart desires and they will become reality"
Pastor Hala and the mind body and soul crew
You stepping on some lashes with this message Tony 😊
Rightfully so, false eyelashes always made me think of drag queens no matter the size of them. Then when one guy said that it made him think of the fish on this one movie I couldn't unsee it after that 😆
It was the lash fingers for me 😩😂 very insightful and humorous video as always. Thanks Uncle Tony. I’m glad God has blessed us with you🙏🏾
Tony, you keep saving me from the wrong men. Every time I Stumble and do something stupid, I always come back to hear the word of my brother to be put back in check. Thank God for you.
I have followed you for long time. You always on point and so transparent. I Thank God for mentors like you. You live it and teach it! Thank God for give discernment, saved me from alot of situations I thought I wanted. God always knows what's best for us. Since I have been saved and closed my legs!!! Blessings!!!!God open doors!!!! I am prayerfully waiting until I get married to my King! Continue allow God to use you. You are a truly Blessings to us all!
The lashes took me out and then he said divorce court is booming like the trap house and I was done 🤣🤣🤣 the comedy with these lessons is chefs kiss
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the queen got the keys to the city and the AC!!!😍😍
Lord have mercy on the ladies! When you said them lashes look like fingers, I was all done! Whoo, fell out the chair laughing!. Set my people free!
The trend of trantula false lashes and yard long nails. Has to go! 🤦🏽♀️💅🏽📏
The 2000s natural beauty needs to return. 💁🏽♀️
TG!!! This is one of my favorite Top messages for 2021!! I loved how you delivered this message!! Your tone, examples , and passion to save single women in this message was phenomenal!! Your wisdom is golden and your work is not in vain. The life lessons, advice, and your compassion is truly appreciated!! Whenever I can hear your messages or sign up for courses to help me be a better “Me” I do. I “sprung my finger “ during your Black Friday sale signing up for courses. Thank you TG for your bravery and your good heart ♥️ it speaks volumes!! May God keep blessing you to to bless us!!! 🙏🏽✝️
I love you humor Tony. Making me laugh mad as hell 😂😂😂😂
"______ cut me a check" 😂😂 I love TG.
Tony is speaking Facts about the lashes fr 😫 NO MAN that I have interviewd has said they like false anything! They love natural women.
Y’all done got my wife in to lashes 🤣🤣
Tony G speaking the TRUTH but like he said "people don't listen " and they will continue to make same mistakes
Tony, you are so real! It truly is sexual harassment. Women really need to be checked on this! So easy to shoot shots and don't even realize it. If a man said the same things to a woman, it would be a whole problem. Plus, it's very unattractive to be so desperate. Here to help 🙏🙏
I'm grateful for 4 videos I've watched from you and it helped me change my life, I don't watch all your videos but because you help me, I like put a thumbs up no matter what. Blessing for you and your beautiful family 🙏💯
I love how Mr. Gaskins honors MRS. Tony Gaskins! Seeing yall gives me hope and the way you respect & require respect for your queen is the reason I keep listening! I can listen to a man who loves & honors His wife like Christ loves His church. Thanks for sharing the wisdom and the real! 💯💯
I have been feeling this lately, u are right on time!!!
Tony is speaking truth. These guys hit my Instagram and Facebook daily trying to see if I'm looking for a relationship. I delete them as soon as I see it. All of these guys are half or more my age. I'm not a stupid woman, it's a money grab.
Tony, I love how you dont play with these Satan's spawns that come to try you. Makes me happy to know that some men get it. Some try to make it look like you're insecure or jealous when you tell them to be careful of feminine wiles. Great to know you peep game early and BLOCKT!!!! And also the ones that come to tey you in the comments or on your videos ,BLOCKT!!! I love that you don't give them a platform to display foolishness.
Keep saving lives and destinies with these videos.The ones who will learn will learn , you are appreciated.
thank you for posting here Tony; i tried to watch it live and had to click out. those instagram comments were running my blood pressure up. they are so troubled over there.
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Omg 😆
Mr. Gaskins I just wanna say thank you and please don’t ever stop keeping it SO real. That’s hard to find and there’s a community of people in the world who actually DO absolutely LOVE undiluted Truth. Keep it coming Sir. Much respect and love.
You not lying about them lashes, Tony! I wear them sometimes and I've definitely been approached more when I didn't have lashes on 😂 💯
You are one of a kind! Thank you for truth Tony!
Tony you are CRAZY!! I CRIED LAUGHING AT YOU AND THE LASHES AND THE NAILS!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I hate seeing the women in my family settling…just screams desperation. It’s very sad 😢🙏
Tony not the tangent with the lashes! Ha!
The way everybody and they momma is a lash tech… Fly away lashes are on the rise😂😂
This is as real as it gets. A 5 stars presentation. Keep up the excellent work!!
I watch these videos for the comedy. I scream each and every time!!
Somebody cough on you and you going to meet the Lord! 😂😂😂😂😂 it’s funny but it’s true!!!! Preach Tony!
Thank you Mr. Gaskins for always dropping the knowledge to us women who are preparing themselves for true love 🙏🏾👍🏾💪🏾
Blessings to you Bro Tony ,am hear 🙋🏿♀️ listening been waiting. 🤗
“Block!” 😂🤣LOLOLOL! Cracks me up every time!
Tony speaking nothing but FACTsss on Factssss ... point blank period 👌 💯. That's ma mentor 👏👏👏
I'm sitting on the couch hollering 🤣🤣🤣 this is as real as it gets..
Tony going on about those lashes has me dying 😂😂😂
Such a good message. Your wisdom and discernment is sooo on point.
This word was on time 👏🏽
You Always keep it A Grand! That's what we need in this world today!!
This, I wish I had seen 5, 7, 10 years ago. I never actually FELT desperate for a man, but I definitely acted what he calls desperate when it comes to giving men money and accommodating their lack of drive and income . I did not have standards hard enough because I thought that was mean and snobbish, as so many men don't have the upbringing I had. I've never met a man of equal or greater looks education and economic background who wanted to pursue me and I had no idea why, because i was good looking and talented and kind and NATURAL. They met me but did not pursue. This went on for years even though i was hopeful even after being raped as a virgin aged 17. It was only in my late 20s that I got fed up of waiting and angry and frustrated and willing to give too much. This also made me despair as i realised neither sex nor money made men want to commit. I knew i didn't want to be a great whatever my gift is who was all alone and unmarried and I acted according to that knowledge. I did not see it as desperation i saw it as being willing to invest. Also, no one helped me set up rules of thumb. This definitely should be in schools. I will bring your message to young women in Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹 though, once I get the grace to. Thanks to you and RC Blakes for speaking to those of us who wanted what we've been built and meant for but apparently didn't get equipped with common sense to never give more to a man than he gives to us. Tony, I have always wanted someone on my level and hated lashes, nails and everything fake and I'm staying that way point blank period!
I really appreciate what you are doing.
Speaking of the video of the young woman who was scammed, my fiance said last night "I don't care for those eyelashes but she's an attractive woman... It shouldn't be hard for her to find a man." So Tony has a point about men not liking the huge faux eyelashes 😂
Yesss a long TG Video after a long day of work. 😊✨
Another great video! Thank you!
This is a father, brother, mentor, I could go on and on. He describes me to a T. The guy whom I was struggling with was actually 6’3”, 6 pack, full beard, tattoos all down his arms. Lord knows I thought he was all for me, until his ex would not stop calling me. I had to listen. Tony words are from God and I will never doubt it. Please lord protect this man and keep those evil doers away. I rebuke satan and his angles away from Tony in the name of Jesus. I learned to respect my first love because he introduced me to the lord and Tony reinforced it. Thank you god, and please keep him and his family safe. Thanks to Mrs. Gaskins for sharing her husband in this manner. This takes time out of his day from his family. But it’s the message like he said. Thank you.
This was so good per usual.. I sent it to my friend so she can subscribe… “lashes look like fingers” 😂😂
Another note… is it just me??? Tony faced/positioned this way is tripping me up lol…. It’s like I love my swoop on my right side of my face n stylist tryna swoop it to the left. 😂😂…
“You can’t give a man what he is not giving you’’
They give benefits because they d be alone otherwise..for me I am all I prefer to be alone than on my back unmarried and living with someone..Men will insult you too when your legs and home are closed..
If you have an opinion they dont agree with same..they want women to shut up or repeat the main opinion
Lol! Tony I’m 55 and had to learn all this the hard way. Thank You for the constant reminders tho’. The eyelashes, the man as a prize…whew! The game is real! And the block is my BFF…in person and online.
Words of wisdom delivered comically 😂
I’m here for it
The BLOCKED with snap back had me screaming 🤣🤣
Why are you so funny.. you uplifted my spirits today
Tony
I'm on my lunch break looking at this video.
Received a notice another video has started.
Trying to stay catched up don't want none of these videos passing me by.
Lunchtime has never been so worthy until I was blessed with this channel.
Tony!! It’s cold out here
I almost Sprung my finger I hit that block button so fast Thank you so much for helping us and sharing it is tough out here believe it or not
Love the way you defend your marriage.
Why would someone want a person who already dedicates themselves to someone else? Making it make sense says their time/love/commitment is already occupied. Only lying cheaters will give you time, and that's limited. After that, they'll give you their butts to kiss while they tend to their wives/husbands. Falling for it will place a person in the position to compete and go hard for someone who's already taken.
I agree about the money. But see I feel like if you give give from the heart don't give with hidden agendas. Don't help a man out just to try and trick him into being with you. I can't say all the way to never help a man... I will say if you give don't give out of desperation.
The lashes had me cracking up
Tony, you're just challenging us to employ wisdom. The Bible says, if you need wisdom ask God and he'll give it. We are not all born with it, nor did we all have parents that instilled in it us. We are all going to get better ladies. Keep doing the inner work. More self-love is needed for some of us right now 🤎🤎🤎