What Puerto Ricans Think About Dating Gringos 💋

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  • @Mistaking03
    @Mistaking03 Рік тому +31

    My wife is from Puerto Rico. We have 2 kids together. Im a gringo 😅. I absolutely love the culture..

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому +1

      ❤️

    • @adamlopez3561
      @adamlopez3561 9 місяців тому

      I used to think Puerto rican women were like that nice actress from the Wedding Planner but I was wrong.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  9 місяців тому

      @adamlopez3561 haha what do you mean

    • @adamlopez3561
      @adamlopez3561 9 місяців тому +1

      @@dougkalagian Thought Puerto Rican girls were like Jennifer Lopez from Wedding Planner but I don't think they are.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  9 місяців тому

      @adamlopez3561 haha dang I haven’t seen it. What was her character like ?

  • @hippiewithacowboyhat
    @hippiewithacowboyhat Рік тому +7

    Man, that last guy brought a tear to my eyes. The lines on a map dont matter, we are much bigger than that. Well said !!!

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому

      💯 agree, I teared up while filming 🥲

  • @coreysmith2774
    @coreysmith2774 Рік тому +19

    I'm a gringo and I have been married to my beautiful Puerto Rican wife for over 13 years, and wouldn't change it for the world. Best part is sharing the traditions and foods.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому +2

      Love it, thank you for sharing!

    • @jrx2662
      @jrx2662 Рік тому +1

      you'll one bless guy!

  • @dianegron
    @dianegron Рік тому +10

    We do intermarry A LOT and shamelessly. If you’re nice to us, you have a marriage for life. If you don’t, hide.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому +3

    • @dianegron
      @dianegron 6 місяців тому +2

      @@andrew.kusuma It means we will actually have a genealogy, generations to live on. It means our culture will enrich the world and will be enriched by other’s. It means we will survive and thrive while others opted out. Basically , the world is ours.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  6 місяців тому

      @andrew.kusuma this response brought to you by ChatGPT 🤣

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  6 місяців тому +1

      @@dianegron I hid him from the channel, which hides all his past and future comments. I 100% support healthly dialogue and conversation, which is why I make content - but he admitted to having chatgpt type out his multi-paragraph response which to me is spammy, and then he used profanity to insult me lol.

    • @dianegron
      @dianegron 6 місяців тому

      @@dougkalagian 😯 Thought it was you being weird. My apologies.

  • @echohunter4199
    @echohunter4199 Рік тому +11

    I’m a typical white American man and fell in love with a Puerto Rican lady 33 years ago, we’re still happily married and we made two daughters together. I went to Spanish language school at night to learn Spanish to better understand her family and culture.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому +1

      That’s a very sweet story, thank you for sharing!!

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому +1

      Have you become fluent in Spanish?

    • @echohunter4199
      @echohunter4199 Рік тому +1

      @@dougkalagian it depends on who I speak with since there’s a LOT of different dialects and they often use different words that confuse the hell out of me but, with Puerto Ricans and Cubans I understand them just fine. I’d place myself at around 40% fluent but when I’m in PR or Spain and I’m surrounded by Spanish speakers it pushes me to learn and speak more Spanish and I don’t have a typical guero accent. Watching TV commercials where some white guy is speaking Spanish horribly is like listening to fingernails on a chalkboard.

    • @anactaneustheeleventh2542
      @anactaneustheeleventh2542 8 місяців тому

      @echohunter4199
      👍 Nice!!!

  • @jungulbuny3159
    @jungulbuny3159 11 місяців тому +3

    I'm a man from Mayaguez Puerto Rico and I've been married to my American wife for 28 years and we have 2 wonderful kids. I absolutely love my wife and she loves me. We are going to be grandparents in a few months and life is great. Love can found and if you do, please don't be afraid to compromise and make sacrifices as both have to make sure we provide a good life for our kids and us.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  10 місяців тому

      That’s great! Thanks for sharing. Did you guys end up living in PR or the mainland?

    • @jungulbuny3159
      @jungulbuny3159 10 місяців тому +1

      We live in the mainland but we visit the island every 2 years or so. We like to keep our kids close to family from the island and we enjoy the culture.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  10 місяців тому

      @jungulbuny3159 awesome! I’m a gringo and my fiancé is boricua. When we have kids we’re thinking the same thing, to at least take them for a month out of the year if possible so they can identify with the culture

    • @jungulbuny3159
      @jungulbuny3159 10 місяців тому

      @thenearhorizon Hope you have a long happy and exciting life together. Thank you for the kind words.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  10 місяців тому

      @jungulbuny3159 igualmente! Gracias! 🙏🏻

  • @JahLives
    @JahLives Рік тому +5

    Gringo is a term that is used to describe American Citizens. Puerto Ricans are also American citizens.

    • @alejandroangel5908
      @alejandroangel5908 Рік тому

      now its used against white americans

    • @hectormunoz7966
      @hectormunoz7966 11 місяців тому +1

      Puerto Ricans with statutory citizenship. It's like telling a Sicilian that he's Italian. We represent Puerto Rico as it's own entity during world games, etc. blessings.

    • @coquireport
      @coquireport 8 місяців тому

      @JahLives No! Gringo mean foreigner

    • @James-i3r5g
      @James-i3r5g 8 місяців тому

      Jah is JAH mi vida I love Puerto Rico esse fantastico... nevermind I'm a crazy diamond

    • @James-i3r5g
      @James-i3r5g 8 місяців тому

      Hehe

  • @willusmaximus6985
    @willusmaximus6985 2 місяці тому

    Puerto Rico! Stand up, rise up. Wake up. Stop getting into car accidents sleeping on your smart phones! Being loud on your motorcycles and with your music! Puerto Rico, drop your pride, and enter a state of humility. Act like the true Christians you claim to be. Stop putting up a superficial front. Drop your pride. Drop your pride. Drop your pride. Your children are watching you.

  • @joa1469
    @joa1469 Рік тому +8

    No bad experience with Americans never again I stay with my Hispanic born in the island 🏝️!

    • @user-ub8uc8gq7r
      @user-ub8uc8gq7r Рік тому +2

      You wouldn’t date us Hawaiians?

    • @Ramonwise716
      @Ramonwise716 6 місяців тому +2

      I feel the same way. The value system is different. In the Island we put family over everything. In the U.S and most other places, the object is to leave as soon as possible and the in laws are shunned and treated like crap. They act like they have to pick a side for everything. We have massive family get togethers flr everything. They do it once a year and call it a family reunion. There is no warmth or culture in the US it's a gender war, and life is work, home, work home, work, home u til you are old and grey. Hell no. Give me my Puerto Rican woman with nice nalgas who can cook, and we can take our family to the placita to party and enjoy the holidays instead of being stuck working on the holidays.

    • @Ramonwise716
      @Ramonwise716 5 місяців тому

      @@user-ub8uc8gq7r Sure. Same island warmth!;-)

    • @Toxic_Diamonds
      @Toxic_Diamonds 4 місяці тому +2

      I'm half Puerto Rican and half Canadian. Idk what to say to that tbh. I said the same thing when I had a bad experience with an African American guy (I'm a girl). I was like never again, sorry. I don't hate the race, but I just wouldn't date one again. He cheated on me and some other things I can't even say here.

    • @joa1469
      @joa1469 4 місяці тому

      @@Toxic_Diamonds is the culture is different and if they didn’t have example even worse

  • @7Forest7
    @7Forest7 Рік тому +1

    Very romantic

  • @KevenCulp-m9m
    @KevenCulp-m9m Рік тому +1

    The girl at the 1:27 mark is beautiful.. wow

  • @731fault
    @731fault Рік тому +1

    What do you mean when you say gringo? Is a white European or a person that speak English from the united States Regardless of color?

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому +1

      Great question! We made a video on that very topic: ua-cam.com/video/QxaHA3aQBsY/v-deo.html

    • @dianegron
      @dianegron 6 місяців тому

      @@731fault Gringo is a foreigner (usually English-speaking, but it could speak Greek, Russian, Chinese, etc.) that doesn’t speak Spanish or can’t be understood by Spanish speakers.

  • @Areasur6
    @Areasur6 6 місяців тому

    I always dreamed of marrying a gringa but they always rejected me 😅

  • @aztecmayatainowarrior
    @aztecmayatainowarrior 7 місяців тому +1

    Me personal as a taino to each of there own i wouldnt we are completely different and its unequally yoked i stay to my own

  • @relaxionlife9200
    @relaxionlife9200 3 місяці тому

    Wait are puerto ricans not Americans?

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  3 місяці тому

      They are Americans and have US citizenship, but have limitations on their rights while living in Puerto Rico. For instance, they can’t vote in US presidential elections. But if they moved to the mainland they would have all the same privileges.
      Even though they have citizenship, many Puerto Ricans don’t consider themselves Americans.

  • @wattacatch3040
    @wattacatch3040 7 місяців тому +2

    No, no and no. Relationships are already difficult, stay within your own culture, beliefs, values, etc.. . .everyone can relate and be much happier.generally. I love my Puerto Rican culture, the people, the music, our identity our love for our land can only truly be shared and understood by and with another Puerto Rican. Que viva mi gente, mi cultura y mi tierra, PAN, TIERRA Y LIBERTAD!

  • @reneeracine2240
    @reneeracine2240 Рік тому +1

    Id rather just have them only to breed with each other so the race won't wipe out.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому

      So no marrying gringos?

    • @reneeracine2240
      @reneeracine2240 Рік тому

      @@dougkalagian probably not to be on safe side

    • @Billy-qv7dc
      @Billy-qv7dc Рік тому

      ​​@@reneeracine2240Are you ignorant or stupid?Or both?The overwhelming majority of Puerto Ricans are racially mixed.To various degrees.Nothing is worse than ignorance....Read....

    • @JahLives
      @JahLives Рік тому

      Puerto Rican isn't a race.

    • @Toxic_Diamonds
      @Toxic_Diamonds 4 місяці тому

      ​@@reneeracine2240Puerto Rican is an ethnicity, not a race!

  • @e.rivera4251
    @e.rivera4251 11 місяців тому

    Take note in PR "gringo" is the same as "American" or "from the states" or the north. We like to put short names to everything to describe their origin. Do not associate this term with something bad.

  • @elicordero4019
    @elicordero4019 Рік тому +1

    What the hell is a gringo?

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому +1

      Good question! We made a video on that topic. Puerto Ricans define the word gringo and then explain their feelings:
      ua-cam.com/video/QxaHA3aQBsY/v-deo.html

    • @luketornblad4605
      @luketornblad4605 Рік тому +1

      To put it simply, it's a foreigner. But if you're from Mexico, specifically, due to some American units during the Mexican-American War (1836-46) wearing green uniforms, they were called Gringos

    • @leighcoto2658
      @leighcoto2658 4 місяці тому

      😆

  • @fnsilly8983
    @fnsilly8983 4 місяці тому

    Aka wht guys

  • @leslielajaeee
    @leslielajaeee 7 місяців тому

    Why is this a thing 😂 ppl are ppl

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  7 місяців тому +1

      Haha I agree. My fiancé is Puerto Rican and I’m a gringo. Love is love 😁

  • @jrx2662
    @jrx2662 Рік тому +2

    remember puerto ricans are american's too!

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому

      The Complexity of Puerto Rico and U.S. Identity
      ua-cam.com/video/9pUUeQcTTp0/v-deo.html

  • @Aliensgoboom94
    @Aliensgoboom94 7 місяців тому

    I would absolutely love to date a Puerto Rican my gooodness I would love them forever . 😮 seem like such down to earth nice warm people. I love how they all put the high perspective on love !! 💕 ❤❤❤❤ and not so much race !

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  7 місяців тому +1

      Yeah love is what matters in the end 😌

  • @sunnyzaman
    @sunnyzaman 2 місяці тому

    Trump has really polluted a video like this. It seems like a beautiful culture.

  • @Sammysi14
    @Sammysi14 2 місяці тому

    This video is a complete waste of time

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  2 місяці тому

      Are you sure? Maybe watch it a second time

  • @TheBeautyofKarma
    @TheBeautyofKarma Рік тому +6

    Dating Americans? We ARE Americans

    • @marcotorres8779
      @marcotorres8779 Рік тому +2

      Are you from Puerto Rico? Or the USA

    • @TheBeautyofKarma
      @TheBeautyofKarma Рік тому +3

      @@marcotorres8779 I was born in Puerto Rico

    • @raulvazquez6594
      @raulvazquez6594 Рік тому +5

      The United States is in America, the Caribbean is in America. We are all Americans.

    • @warriorshedge6772
      @warriorshedge6772 Рік тому +2

      @@raulvazquez6594 then you know nothing about race and culture, to think an all mighty unbeatable people are equal to those they can influence with ease, will respect the notion of being called American.. As if its an open title, granted, only those who face hardship from foreigners, sill come to understand the importance of your own.

    • @raulvazquez6594
      @raulvazquez6594 Рік тому +1

      @@warriorshedge6772 and you my man are on a trip. Thanks for the troll.

  • @teddydavis2339
    @teddydavis2339 Рік тому +2

    Puerto Ricans general ove white gringos. Black gringos, not so much.

    • @Toxic_Diamonds
      @Toxic_Diamonds 4 місяці тому

      Yeah because I had a bad experience with an African American. I'm not against the ethnicity, just wouldn't date em.

  • @amgooder
    @amgooder Рік тому +2

    Love is love...but stop mixing and diluting our culture😑😄
    Gringos are "white Americans" I don't like to use the term... I was born & raised in U.S.
    So that makes me a Puerto Rican American not a Caucasian.

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  Рік тому +1

      Interesting! I thought Gringo referred to all Americans, not just whites?

    • @amgooder
      @amgooder Рік тому +2

      @@dougkalagian Not sure if you know ...but Gringo...actually means "green go" When White Americans would invade territories , natives did not speak English...so they saw soldiers dressed in their green military uniforms...and would yell at them🗣 green go!!!!➡️

    • @JoshuaBall-p5j
      @JoshuaBall-p5j Рік тому +1

      You are Caucasian like the rest of us and probably more European than most white Americans. If your a white Puerto Rican your ancestors came from SPAIN which is Europe. Viva conquistadors !

    • @coralarroyo2329
      @coralarroyo2329 10 місяців тому

      ​@@dougkalagianpersonally I experienced racism so much from gringos so i definitely wouldn't but thats just my opinion

    • @dougkalagian
      @dougkalagian  10 місяців тому

      @coralarroyo2329 can I ask what happened?

  • @scotmarq
    @scotmarq Рік тому

    Can we show the worst example of P.R. women? wow!