getting really honest! let's catch up 💌 relationships, finances, family drama, home projects & more!

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  • Опубліковано 17 лис 2024

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  • @cucumberbreezee
    @cucumberbreezee 8 місяців тому +52

    Thank you SO MUCH for keeping the questions on the screen! I love having videos on while I clean and if I need to leave for a second & come back it’s so hard to figure out what question is being answered if you miss it! This is awesome!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +11

      Ah good to know it's helpful!! I never know if I should leave it on screen or not!

  • @shandisfancher8766
    @shandisfancher8766 8 місяців тому +22

    Honestly, props to you for having “boring and predictable” finances… consistency with finances and being able to stick to your budget is a huge accomplishment!!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +1

      I totally agree! Now I'm obviously not perfect.. I definitely make impulsive Amazon purchases & overspend sometimes but for the most part, my budget is just very predictable 😂

  • @diaryandgirl
    @diaryandgirl 8 місяців тому +6

    I love how beautiful this video is-the night and the wine and the light make for such cozy catching up with your friends sleepover vibes! thanks so much for your transparency in this video. I know you describe your channel all about getting through your 20s raw & unfiltered and I think this video really showcased it 💌

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much!! 🫶🏻❤️

  • @ameliarose47
    @ameliarose47 8 місяців тому +7

    As someone whose only ever had cats, its wild to me just how much goes into dogs. Not just the size and having to walk them but all of the training. Yes you can teach cats some stuff but you dont have to. Dogs it seems almost mandatory so they dont tear up your home and run away after squirrels and things. So glad that despite the challenges you're putting the work in for Delilah and giving her a new chance at life (and preventing her from potentially being euthanized in the shelter).

  • @SelenaTrevino
    @SelenaTrevino 7 місяців тому

    loved this chatty chill catch-up

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  7 місяців тому +1

      I really wish none of us had daddy issues, but I feel like makes me less alone when I hear other people talk about them 🥹🫶🏻

  • @xnocturnalwavex
    @xnocturnalwavex 8 місяців тому +13

    Happy Sunday! To answer your home reno filming question, I enjoy the updates throughout vlogs but find most important a before/after once you’re done. It could be in a vlog alongside the final update, some before clips to remind us what it had been (it’s so satisfying to see the changes!!). If a standalone video will help more with views/channel growth, do what you’ve gotta do 🤑 because I’d absolutely watch that too

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for the feedback! This is honestly my preferred way to do it. I give all the home reno channels out their immense kudos because its so hard to remember to set a camera up everytime you're doing something around the house and then organize all the footage for a video! Sharing updates in vlogs is easiest & putting together a reel!!

  • @MadsBee3
    @MadsBee3 8 місяців тому +3

    I like reels for the home Reno’s with updates in the vlogs! Might also be cool to do one “wrap up” sit down video saying what all you did like the under $500 kitchen Reno and where you spent with pics or videos incorporated?!

  • @bhavikashah7065
    @bhavikashah7065 8 місяців тому +4

    It is so so important for all women to discuss birth control with a doctor especially with so much misinformation all around. I'm a dermatologist and I've seen so many people with really bad acne flares or dryness after experimenting with isotretinoin. I know healthcare in the US and Canada is more expensive than here in India but it makes a lot of difference!
    It's great that you're so respectful of your family and their comfort levels being in front of the camera.
    I have a friend who started posting fitness content on UA-cam and she had to stop because of the number of people constantly commenting on her diet and lifestyle. It does get really taxing after a point to be bombarded with advice.
    I love reno content as shortform or longform but I feel it will perform better as shortform content.
    Have a great week!

  • @samanthaallen8323
    @samanthaallen8323 8 місяців тому +1

    I've been in a reading slup for years and you got me out of it, so Thank you!! The Shadow Hunters series is soon good I can't put it down! I rented City of Bones from my library however now I plan to buy the series! I would love to read them all! I'm going in order of Cassandra Clare's recommendation to start.

  • @raeraemillstone
    @raeraemillstone 6 місяців тому

    Love the doggie content ans i LOVE your views on relationship! Great advice

  • @karissawidder9538
    @karissawidder9538 8 місяців тому +1

    I love specific videos! A kitchen vlog would be fun!!!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому

      I honestly love them so much but it's just so much work to keep up with uploading 2 to 3 times a week and then also doing renovations vlogs but I'm gonna try my best!!

  • @JMott
    @JMott 8 місяців тому

    Like you said it's your channel ... I watch for you! If Matt is in the vlog it's just because he's in your vlog. Love that you respect him and or his boundaries.

  • @JMott
    @JMott 8 місяців тому +1

    I love budgeting videos! I found you from that content but it's ok lol I like your book content too.

  • @victoriaaaaaa57
    @victoriaaaaaa57 8 місяців тому

    Yes I would love home office on a budget videos!! Looking to make over my office space as well, so I would love some ideas

  • @lexs0208
    @lexs0208 8 місяців тому

    Yes give us renovation vlogs! I am renovating same time frame as you (since Nov) and need inspo!

  • @hannahwright1385
    @hannahwright1385 8 місяців тому +5

    THANK YOU for the birth control chat!! it kills me that birth control is made out to be something horrible recently. i love my birth control!!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +2

      I am all for doing what's best for your body. For some that may be getting off of it but that doesn't mean it should be demonized you know? Just because it doesn't work for one person doesn't mean it won't work for another! P

  • @amyelizabeth4058
    @amyelizabeth4058 8 місяців тому

    Love the aesthetic of this video!!! ♥️ and honestly I do love your finance content because I relate to it so much and it helped me get a budgeting spreadsheet & how to break down my spending categories etc

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому

      This is so kind! I'm so glad you enjoy it🥹💸

  • @MadisonEran
    @MadisonEran 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this video and your thoughts! You couldn’t be more accurate about the creator dynamic of a relatable and interesting. Just know that those of us that actually watch because of who you are as a person don’t give a crap about being “interesting” because you already are. Hope you have an amazing day!

  • @pinkcoffeedrink
    @pinkcoffeedrink 8 місяців тому +1

    Having a “boring, predictable life” is aspirational to me 😆

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +1

      Same! If being "boring" means I'm at peace and content that's all I want

  • @Rebe650
    @Rebe650 8 місяців тому

    1:37 I was just telling my partner about how much I love your channel and that I think we would be such great chatty friends IRL!
    Love from your bestie from Ecuador💖

  • @isabelbeck7
    @isabelbeck7 8 місяців тому +1

    35:34 It's so easy to feel alone in having a parent who's just "not there" as an adult. There's the guilt of thinking "I'm so lucky I have two parents who love me but this also hurts" a lot of people don't get it 😭

  • @gaablove8054
    @gaablove8054 8 місяців тому +1

    You're so close to 100k! Here since about 13k :)

  • @pixeleverafter
    @pixeleverafter 8 місяців тому

    I've been really enjoying your vids lately, Carter! Love these longer vlogs, it really feels like we're just hanging out and I'm here for itttt😃💕

  • @truecollar9059
    @truecollar9059 8 місяців тому +2

    so excited to watch this and have a catch up ❤ love your content!

  • @JordynLynnia
    @JordynLynnia 8 місяців тому

    I love your birth control story because I relate to it so much

  • @MELmodelesque
    @MELmodelesque 8 місяців тому

    I havent seen a vid of yours in my main feed in over a year!!! I thought you took a break or something. Glad you’re ok and youve been active all this time. ❤

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +1

      Wow so strange! Still uploading 2-3 times a week over here🥰 Feel free to follow on IG and/or TT to keep up with my life too since I post regularly on there as well!

  • @jennak6793
    @jennak6793 8 місяців тому

    I got my dad a russian blue breed cat from the shelter last year & he named her blue from Jurassic, she is kinda crazy but he loves her.

  • @rootedreinvention
    @rootedreinvention 8 місяців тому

    I'm totally up for what's easier for you but LOVE vlogs of reno / updates/budget redos - even if you rolled a bunch of reels into a longer form "diary of the reno" or something :)
    Also, thank you for sharing the parent stuff - i dont think you need to share anything more than "actually, i have both sides of this" and thats enough for most people to go "oh, i got you" and thats great you feel able to share some parts in DMs :)

  • @Zigkiss
    @Zigkiss 8 місяців тому

    I would like separate reno vlogs. I think it's helpful for inspiration to be able to go back and find those videos. I am working on projects on my house too so if you do something I really love it's nice to be able to go back to that video and see it again. It'd be harder to find if you have little bits in regular daily vlogs.

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +1

      I definitely plan on filming some of the home projects in their own video! And for the ones that I don't, I will be filming reels & shortform content for- so it will hopefully be the best of both worlds!

  • @jordanmayer5621
    @jordanmayer5621 8 місяців тому

    Yes to the full reno vlog!

  • @JMott
    @JMott 8 місяців тому

    I get the safety component too. I won't even share my face lol

  • @crawfordjennifer2015
    @crawfordjennifer2015 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing! I absolutely love your videos and ! Have a blessed and wonderful week! 🌼🦋🍄

  • @jordanlouie6603
    @jordanlouie6603 8 місяців тому

    The honesty and real talk in this video is chefs kiss!! I loved it and the cozy vibes in this!

  • @karaarmbruster1595
    @karaarmbruster1595 8 місяців тому +1

    Oh my gosh we have the same tattoo! I have veni vidi vici above my elbow 😂

  • @RichelleBStone
    @RichelleBStone 8 місяців тому

    Greetings from NC, USA :) Maybe do Percentages for finances to protect specific amount for privacy/safety sake. Anyway, love all your vids!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому

      I probably should have clarified this some more- it's not my budget sharing that I feel is a privacy/safety thing, I feel as though I have a pretty average budget. it's all those other trending personal finance videos talking about "how much I have saved & invested" and sharing in depth money & savings numbers. That is the content I've really taken a step back on because no one needs to be putting their exact investment portfolios & savings balances online IMO. That's why I felt the need to take a step back from creating all this personal finance content because it felt like everything (besides my monthly budgets) that I was filming was a abit of a safety concern. Hope that makes sense! But I do see others do percentages for their monthly budgets which is great, I just have no issue sharing my monthly budget (it's mainly all the other videos).

  • @oliviabergin99
    @oliviabergin99 8 місяців тому

    Love these chatty vids!!! I’d love to see the Reno’s but prefer updates through weekly / weekend / daily vlogs, and short form!!

  • @BrielleJuliet
    @BrielleJuliet 8 місяців тому

    Do you have the link for that cute lamp on your side table?? I love her

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому

      Its from Amazon!!! I have it linked on my IG highlights!

    • @BrielleJuliet
      @BrielleJuliet 8 місяців тому

      @@CarterSullivan thank you!

  • @peachy__pg
    @peachy__pg 8 місяців тому

    happy sunday carter 💝 i hope you have a good week!

  • @Klara_is_finding_herself
    @Klara_is_finding_herself 8 місяців тому

    Happy Sunday evening 🌼 I love your content 🩵

  • @JMott
    @JMott 8 місяців тому

    Thanks!

  • @laceybeanreads
    @laceybeanreads 8 місяців тому

    Love the sit down /having a phone call kinda vibes 🫶 Hope that you are having a great weekend, Carter!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +1

      It's been a yucky rainy weather weekend here so lots of relaxing! Hope yours was good as well xo

  • @kalisue6573
    @kalisue6573 8 місяців тому

    For my wedding- 100 people in my in laws back yard- we did a wood fired pizza food truck and it was perfect!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому

      Omg thats literally our exact plan! Sounds so dreamy, lowkey and fun!

  • @anna_teresa
    @anna_teresa 8 місяців тому

    Oh now I want to have a mocktail - buuuut I am sitting here with a hot chocolate and listening :D

  • @sereneadair4941
    @sereneadair4941 8 місяців тому

    I have been struggling with PTSD a few years back and its only been recently I have heard others share their story. Thank you for sharing yours..

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +2

      Sending hugs! My DM's are always open if you need to chat❤️

  • @emilyfraser-read441
    @emilyfraser-read441 8 місяців тому +1

    I am HEREEEEE for big sister Carter content!!!

  • @JMott
    @JMott 8 місяців тому

    I wish you would host like a Friday night wine night so we could chat lol because this is you chat and I try to keep up. This would be an awesome zoom or something

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому

      I do go live on Instagram as well from time to time!

  • @raquelfigueroa
    @raquelfigueroa 8 місяців тому +1

    Good morning from California 🫶🏽✨

  • @Billy33753
    @Billy33753 8 місяців тому

    Love the lamps makes the room look homey

  • @kierstinrishel7768
    @kierstinrishel7768 8 місяців тому

    I don’t have many friends so this video felt so good I love the catch up videos. Also would love long form house Reno videos. definitely need the budget friendly and realistic ideas

  • @JMott
    @JMott 8 місяців тому

    Don't feel like your doing me a favor lol I just watch your channel when I'm doing the dishes or my makeup

  • @nfrwasherbestalbum
    @nfrwasherbestalbum 8 місяців тому

    you have such good takes tbh. thanks for sharing ❤❤

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 8 місяців тому

    Good Morning Carter!! Greetings from India♥️♥️🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @ryanrowe1975
    @ryanrowe1975 8 місяців тому +1

  • @RJ-bj8ic
    @RJ-bj8ic 8 місяців тому

    💛💛💛💛💛

  • @actgirl1234567
    @actgirl1234567 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @nicolepinkerton5564
    @nicolepinkerton5564 8 місяців тому

    Just wanted to point out that you said you did not want to share what year your elopement is going to be but then that you would share the elopement budget “next year when the time comes.”
    In case that was an accident and you want to edit it out.

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому

      I did share when we got engaged that we would elope within 2 years, we're just not sharing exactly when it's happening date wise next year but I've said before that it would be before the end of 2025! But I appreciate the comment 🥰

  • @rylsn
    @rylsn 8 місяців тому +2

    i love your channel!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much!! So glad you're here🥰

  • @kpatten100
    @kpatten100 8 місяців тому

    💖💖💖

  • @KattsLife
    @KattsLife 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤