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  • @bettedaviseyes6613
    @bettedaviseyes6613 2 роки тому +2244

    If anyone at their lowest or struggling with anything had a camera in their face while simultaneously trying to figure it out and still live life everyday it would not be pretty. I am proud of you

  • @nicolegokey8932
    @nicolegokey8932 2 роки тому +604

    PLEASE don’t ever say “I think it was a mistake talking about alcohol”
    THANK YOU for being HONEST & human and helping SO many people! YOU are helping people & thats what matters ❤️

    • @marissa3610
      @marissa3610 2 роки тому +6

      I agree, I think it's ultimately a positive thing to share your struggles, and break the "perfect life" illusion that social media influencers maintain, and feel pressured to maintain.

  • @SarahJoErbil
    @SarahJoErbil 2 роки тому +304

    I never noticed how much our culture revolves around alcohol until I married someone in recovery. It's literally everywhere! I'm proud of you. You've got this, I know it.

    • @jayyykayyy
      @jayyykayyy 2 роки тому +8

      Alcohol n food ;-;

    • @SarahJoErbil
      @SarahJoErbil 2 роки тому +3

      @@jayyykayyy So true!

    • @SarahSmilez8100
      @SarahSmilez8100 2 роки тому +8

      Yes, after I became a Christian I noticed that almost every country song on the radio talks about alcohol in some way too. It's getting into our subconscious imo.

    • @missdanidot
      @missdanidot 2 роки тому +7

      Yep, 100%. I'm the daughter of an alcoholic. My dad's brother was an alcoholic who lost his battle. My dad's father was also an alcoholic who lost his battle. Alcohol is literally everywhere. As an Australian, alcohol is a massive part of our culture. Alcohol companies sponsor sports events, alcohol is almost expected at barbecues, Christmas, weekends, literally anything. I don't drink. I'll occasionally have A drink. One. I've never had more than one. I don't enjoy it and I'm super mindful of my genetics. The amount of crap I've gotten for not drinking is nuts. People always question me. They want to know why. They try to pressure me, or tell me I should relax or am too uptight etc. It's beyond unhealthy and it's great that Jaclyn is speaking up and sharing how common it is to have unhealthy relationships with food/alcohol.

    • @eveningstar8581
      @eveningstar8581 2 роки тому +10

      As a recovering heroin addict, I’ve always felt for alcoholics so badly! I couldn’t walk into any store that’s on practically every block in town and buy dope. I couldn’t go out to a meal and cop dope. At weddings, there wasn’t drug stations and a “signature bag” as part of the theme. There’s not drug commercials. Heroin doesn’t sponsor the super bowl. Crack and cheese isn’t a fancy thing lol! It’s literally everywhere and it’s got to be sooo fu$king ROUGH! It’s beyond awful!

  • @danielle__tera
    @danielle__tera 2 роки тому +204

    Please don’t stop doing this series, I’m on my own weight loss/decreasing my alcohol intake journey & this is so relatable. It helps so much knowing I’m not alone and I’m rooting for you so hard💖

    • @LadyEclipse1
      @LadyEclipse1 2 роки тому +3

      Same hard to decrease alcohol when trying to lose weight. I just drink in moderation while I'm on my weight loss journey

  • @shawnadurocher1
    @shawnadurocher1 2 роки тому +399

    Recovering alcoholic and binge eater here ✋🏼 I've gone 689 days without a drink today. I'm here to say that there's no shame in what you're going through. We ALL struggle with something. It takes courage and bravery to share what you've been sharing with all of us and I admire that! ❤️❤️

    • @handsome748
      @handsome748 2 роки тому +4

      Wow so amazing 👏 😍 keep it up I'm right there with you!

    • @haleypeterson7443
      @haleypeterson7443 2 роки тому +2

      I’m proud of you!!

    • @bettedaviseyes6613
      @bettedaviseyes6613 2 роки тому +3

      Proud of you sugar I am in recovery myself so I know that every day sober is a day to celebrate

    • @courtneyehalchak
      @courtneyehalchak 2 роки тому +1

      💖💖💖

    • @maybeme8
      @maybeme8 2 роки тому +1

      That's amazing.

  • @shannonblakelykeating9524
    @shannonblakelykeating9524 2 роки тому +291

    As a therapist, I am SO thrilled to see you bringing the reality of alcohol into a discussion. Thank you for using your platform for this awareness.

    • @CiCiMoya
      @CiCiMoya 2 роки тому +4

      Yes!! It doesn't have to be so taboo 💯

    • @Lynn-zx3th
      @Lynn-zx3th 2 роки тому +2

      Absolutely agree!!

  • @raybran7865
    @raybran7865 2 роки тому +28

    Clean and sober since 10-3-2012 and I am so proud of you! You are helping more people than you even think. You got this! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @NDRBSN
    @NDRBSN 2 роки тому +137

    I love how Jordan is completely unbothered by the comments. He is the voice of reason that you need and quite frankly that everyone should have in their life…..everyone needs a Jordan. I’m very fortunate that my husband is the same way for me. Jaclyn you are doing great and have the best support right next to you! Xoxo

    • @laurenjett3226
      @laurenjett3226 2 роки тому

      Jordan is an angel it seems like!!!

    • @shawnadurocher1
      @shawnadurocher1 2 роки тому

      Couldn't agree more! Jordan seems like such a sweet guy!

  • @gymbuggy1218
    @gymbuggy1218 2 роки тому +626

    Jaclyn is RECOVERING OUT LOUD and I’m LOVING IT! Let’s normalize sobriety!

    • @kimprocida2264
      @kimprocida2264 2 роки тому +27

      She is not sober though

    • @katherinelee3740
      @katherinelee3740 2 роки тому

      Lmao

    • @tekishaprater1466
      @tekishaprater1466 2 роки тому +8

      So, just because you've had an ED you should never eat again? C'mon y'all, drinking and being dependent on drinking are two VERY different things...

    • @brookeperk93
      @brookeperk93 2 роки тому +1

      Normalize sobriety !!!! Love that.

    • @kailinyah8843
      @kailinyah8843 2 роки тому

      Why it’s so boring

  • @jrsrr2007
    @jrsrr2007 2 роки тому +106

    We went through a divorce at the same time and now I'm going through a breakup. Your journey is so inspiring and makes me feel like i am not alone! You are doing a great job and I am so proud of you for doing this for people like me!

  • @gracegoodro3476
    @gracegoodro3476 2 роки тому +63

    Your strength, vulnerability and bravery is so honorable. People often say “My life isn’t as perfect as it seems online” but that’s it they don’t elaborate. You have chosen to share the nonperfect and that takes so much confidence. I’ve followed for for around eight years now and I’m so proud to see how far you’ll go

  • @JessicaKent
    @JessicaKent 2 роки тому +235

    Being vulnerable and transparent online is SO TOUGH! But yes .. those people who we help .. those are OUR people girl! They keep us going. You got this! 💪💚

    • @brennatarpley6010
      @brennatarpley6010 2 роки тому +4

      Love you Jess - Ride or Die crew 🖤

    • @reece_iam4682
      @reece_iam4682 2 роки тому

      How do I be part of the ride or die crew🫥 #the love jacks crew

    • @nicchitt799
      @nicchitt799 2 роки тому

      ride or die!

    • @bettedaviseyes6613
      @bettedaviseyes6613 2 роки тому +4

      Love the both of you beautiful strong women! Keep changing the world ladies #rideordie #recoverloudly

    • @Ashleyiza
      @Ashleyiza 2 роки тому +2

      Jesssss

  • @kathleenreilly3007
    @kathleenreilly3007 2 роки тому +403

    America DOES have some weird ass obsession with alcohol! I hate when people ask me why I’m not drinking! Thank you for sharing this, I feel so seen ❤️ don’t let the haters get you down

    • @sarahpeel4091
      @sarahpeel4091 2 роки тому +24

      The UK is the same. I don’t drink but I had to defend myself as to why I’m not drinking. Drinking alcohol is such a culture in the UK and to not drink, people can’t accept it 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @katia.luna213
      @katia.luna213 2 роки тому +6

      For real. I've never had a true reason to get me excited enough to have a celebratory drink 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @jessicawolfedougherty7417
      @jessicawolfedougherty7417 2 роки тому +10

      Yea it’s definitely not just America it’s most of the western world. I’m from America and now live in the UK where it’s just as bad if not worse. It’s a shame that it’s constantly in the face of those trying to stay away from it. It’s near impossible 😞

    • @ByMagdalena
      @ByMagdalena 2 роки тому +7

      Poland is probably even worse. I think in my beautiful country drinking is a part of the culture. I'm trying to go back to being sober and it seems to shock people 🤷‍♀

    • @Stephanie-ft9pv
      @Stephanie-ft9pv 2 роки тому +4

      omg, girl if you don't like to drink, that's awesome, and who cares what anybody else says or thinks! alcohol is no different than using a drug. just bcoz it's legal doesn't make it any different. I hate the obsession of drinking everyone seems to have but not following what everyone else does is soo much better!

  • @v1kasaurus
    @v1kasaurus 2 роки тому +95

    in my own journey with alcohol, i came to realize how everyone's experience with it really is different and what each person needs to recover/get healthy is different. i had to figure out what worked for me. i appreciate you sharing your journey with us and support you in this.

  • @AliF-cg7rh
    @AliF-cg7rh 2 роки тому +26

    “Quit like a woman” is a great book that dives deep into the world of alcohol and the worlds obsession with it! Was an amazing read

  • @ellaenchanted542
    @ellaenchanted542 2 роки тому +14

    as someone who has family members in active alcohol addiction and they refuse to get help for/even acknowledge it, what you are showing and talking about is incredibly brave! thank you for sharing this with us and i wish you the best of luck in your journey

    • @loganalu
      @loganalu 2 роки тому +2

      Agreed!!! ♥️

    • @kailinyah8843
      @kailinyah8843 2 роки тому

      You should be normal and drink

  • @aeorszulak1
    @aeorszulak1 2 роки тому +220

    As a recovering addict, people who have a normal healthy relationship with alcohol never have to question their own relationship with alcohol. Since you are questioning it so much and have so many concerns about it, that is something to think about. Only you can come to your own conclusion though but that statement is what helped me realize I had a problem.

    • @marlenna215
      @marlenna215 2 роки тому +4

      Exactly.

    • @marlenna215
      @marlenna215 2 роки тому +21

      It’s a self diagnose disease. I think because of her ex husband being an addict she maybe has a hard time admit certain things to herself. Idk

    • @angelrebekah9153
      @angelrebekah9153 2 роки тому +18

      I have to agree. When she was talking about how obsessed Americans are with alcohol, I couldn't disagree more. There are people who have a problem with it, but there are way less of those people compared to people who don't have an issue. I go out and never get pressured by a waitress to order a drink, but I don't have a problem with alcohol and neither does anybody that I hang out with, so its not something I think about. I also wonder if she's telling her therapist that she's getting so drunk that she barely remembers things. She wouldn't be doing that if she had a handle on things. And I'm not judging. My grandpa died a heroin addict this past December. I just don't think she's admitting the issue she has and Jordan isn't helping by drinking or having alcohol around. Just my thoughts.

    • @marlenna215
      @marlenna215 2 роки тому +22

      @@angelrebekah9153 yea she keeps rationalizing and justifying her drinking and feels a way when people who see thru it and who have been thru it are speaking up. She not telling us the severity of her drinking #1 and it don’t matter how much we see, if we see red flags in a 10 sec clip it’s still a red flag

    • @keedinah
      @keedinah 2 роки тому +35

      I saw a lot of comments on the last video expressing concern about the mixed messages she was sending. It's hard to follow a line of thought that says, "I have a problem with drinking" but then pivots and says, "I'm rewarding myself with a drink." It's real easy to get on here and whoop and cheer and say, "You go, girl!" but does that really help her in the long run? I really like Jaclyn and am rooting for her, but cosigning self-sabotaging behavior will always be a no for me.

  • @juliaassis5237
    @juliaassis5237 2 роки тому +89

    Hey, Jaclyn! Just wanted to let you know that you opening up about the alcohol situation made me realize that every time I went out I felt like I NEEDED to drink in order to have fun or cause I thought drinking made me funnier… I’m much more aware of that and since then I went to a few events and didn’t drink at all and discovered that, in fact, I don’t need to drink to have a good time. I feel great the next day (no more hangovers), I remember everything, I am sociable and it’s not at all awkward. So, yeah. Thank you for being so raw and honest about such a heavy topic.

    • @samnieto6463
      @samnieto6463 2 роки тому +3

      The reality of alcohol dependency is something that hit me during the pandemic too. I also felt more confident and funny if I had a few drinks. But it was just a coping mechanism for my insecurities. Learning to over come that and not drink has been tough but worth it.

  • @Grace-ce7gy
    @Grace-ce7gy 2 роки тому +8

    Love this so much. After a separation, my mom and my brother passing last year I am struggling, too. Thank you for your courage.

  • @kellym1148
    @kellym1148 2 роки тому +36

    Judgement comes from IGNORANCE period. The struggles we go through all look different from one to another. And that’s OK. Judge less. Listen more. Stay strong girl!! Do not let these fools steal your joy 💖

  • @conniebryant197
    @conniebryant197 2 роки тому +69

    I can’t even imagine the amount of bravery it takes to share your life at your most vulnerable times. I’m sure you are helping so many people. Keep your head up and keep sharing. 😊

  • @bricheese473
    @bricheese473 2 роки тому +82

    You’re right, alcohol is SO normalized in our culture! Sometimes we forget that it’s actually an addictive substance with many major health side effects. I commend you so much for coming to this realization and helping so many others ❤ love watching your journey

  • @Jillianpain
    @Jillianpain 2 роки тому +41

    Girl, everyone knows best when watching someone else’s life. Just like they don’t know your full life, you don’t know theirs and that they could be hiding behind their own struggles too with the comments they make. You’re so strong and badass, and need people who build you up for what you’re doing… not knock you down. You can tell when they’re coming from a place of love vs a place of judgement. Take the love, leave the rest of that nonsense at the door. You got this mama!

  • @kathyvictoria6059
    @kathyvictoria6059 2 роки тому +1

    I think making your bedroom brighter/lighter will help. I know it sounds crazy but I’ve dealt w a lot of things you do and last year I decided it’s time to change my room and remove my tv out of my room. Going from dark to light and not chilling in my bed at all except to sleep did help me so much

  • @rubiresendiz6964
    @rubiresendiz6964 2 роки тому +26

    The way you and Jordan talk about the comments and your relationship with alcohol is so beautiful ❤ the conversation is so supportive and honest

  • @cheyannerocke
    @cheyannerocke 2 роки тому +147

    Girl I love watching your journey, it’s so inspiring and I’m starting my own healthier lifestyle and I’m so excited! Love you ❤️

  • @dinnerwithjoyce3951
    @dinnerwithjoyce3951 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for being so open about your struggles with alcohol. It is so refreshing to hear an influencer use their platform in this way. I also had inflammation in my face due to alcohol and it was the absolute worst I’ve ever felt in my life. I hated the way I looked, but drinking is so normalized in our society, that it was more normal for me to have an inflamed face then to stop drinking. I’m now nearly 3 months sober and have seen so much of my inflammation go down. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @karlstheg8
    @karlstheg8 2 роки тому

    I had two babies back to back not thinking how much of an impact it would take on my body, I was naïve about it. Got depression after my second child and dealing/being in a abusive relationship. I looked forward my cup of wine at the end of the night, not once a week and not only one. I realized I had a problem when I would get upset at my kids for not going to sleep at a certain time. It’s been over a month now and I am now realizing I’m over weight, nothing fits, at least not how it used to. This is not just her fight but a lot of us too. Thank you 🙏 and those who support you are with you !

  • @Emily-ns6kz
    @Emily-ns6kz 2 роки тому +160

    Your skin looks so healthy and glowing even without makeup.

  • @YessiWaters
    @YessiWaters 2 роки тому +742

    I’m so proud of you! You’re GROWING & GLOWING girl 😍🌱✨

    • @kristinagionet1040
      @kristinagionet1040 2 роки тому +3

      One thing my therapist taught me and I learned this just the other day and that is the moment you have to explain yourself to try to defend yourself as the moment makes you feel guilty you don’t have to explain yourself to people. Because at the end of the day you got to do what’s best for you. Who cares what everybody thinks they don’t know what you’ve gone through and what you’re going through. UA-cam is like an iceberg he only see 10% of it above the water the other 90% of it is below the water that people don’t see what is all behind the scenes that you’re doing with on a daily life we don’t see in UA-cam. Girl you keep doing you keep your head up and ignore all the bullshit. So proud of you. People always hate you because you’re not meant for people and other people are not meant for you. Keep doing you.

    • @kristinagionet1040
      @kristinagionet1040 2 роки тому +3

      Grow to a giant oak tree tall strong mighty oak tree you got this.

    • @CiCiMoya
      @CiCiMoya 2 роки тому +1

      And letting us in on it 🥰

  • @scottie2hot
    @scottie2hot 2 роки тому +1

    “Oh poor me, look at all the things I have” 😂😂

  • @Katielirette
    @Katielirette 2 роки тому +1

    The morning after yall went to top golf, right when your face popped up on camera.. is the genuinely happiest I’ve ever seen you look. Absolutely gorgeous. I’m glad to see so many people supporting you on your journey! I’ve been wanting you for 10 years now (wow). You’re awesome & you got this!

  • @Andi_Imke
    @Andi_Imke 2 роки тому +23

    I love this series, I can't imagine how difficult it must be to put yourself out there like this. We all struggle with something. I've personally gone through alcohol issues and I think you are so strong girl!!

  • @britnimcanally
    @britnimcanally 2 роки тому +30

    Your the reason i stopped drinking alcohol. You really opened up my eyes and really helped me . So thank you for being so honest we all love you and appreciate your realness 💗 forever supporting you

  • @jenniferr7166
    @jenniferr7166 2 роки тому +17

    As a long time follower (almost 10 years), I love how real this series is and can we get an shout out to Jordan for being literally the most supportive partner for you!! ❤️❤️

  • @bronnntee3287
    @bronnntee3287 2 роки тому +6

    I admire how you can have such a healthy, positive and constructive conversation with your partner. Goalss

  • @audreypee5207
    @audreypee5207 2 роки тому +85

    I literally think Jaclyn is the bravest person. Like wow, Im a recovering addict and I stress so much about people knowing and judging me and misunderstanding me bc of it I can't imagine telling the whole world that I'm still struggling. Literally think so highly of u girl. Your amazing for doing what your doing

  • @chello7262
    @chello7262 2 роки тому +70

    You are so right people always say “We need to speak more about X , Y , Z”
    Someone opens up and shares their journey about X , Y , Z
    Immediately gets shamed smh
    So sad the world we live in where we can’t uplift one another and courage people to change for the better for them selves!!!!
    You go girl you rock!!! 💕🦋🤸🏻‍♀️☺️☺️🤩💕🙏🏼🦋

  • @kenziejordannmerritt6301
    @kenziejordannmerritt6301 2 роки тому +15

    The majority of the comments on the last video were mostly about your contradicting yourself. people are just confused about the fact that you say you have a drinking problem but are rewarding yourself with drinks.

    • @xxcairaxx
      @xxcairaxx 2 роки тому +3

      I mean, she could be straying away from drinking when she’s sad to feel better. And feels comfortable drinking when she’s fine and happy

  • @wendyr.2271
    @wendyr.2271 2 роки тому +1

    As a recovering addict thank you for being so transparent I personally appreciate you!! No one has any right to judge you because everyone has something they struggle with. Please keep filming. We all love and appreciate you Jaclyn!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @AngysChannel
    @AngysChannel 2 роки тому +80

    I have to say: thank you. Thank you for being transparent, showing your good and bad days. For humanizing issues as important as the ones you show. I know it will be difficult, being a public person makes you an easy target to be judged. Sadly our society is like that. But you, you're doing your part to make it different. Thank you very much, because you are doing that part of being an influencer, you are influencing lives, in the best way.

  • @blingingitwithsarah7403
    @blingingitwithsarah7403 2 роки тому +5

    Can we talk about how Jaclyn forgot to finish her nose bake like it's so much? She forgot to blend it in. LOL

  • @IntrovertedLoLo
    @IntrovertedLoLo 2 роки тому +4

    “Why is alcohol so glorified?” “LETS TAKE SHOTS WOOOOOOOO!!!!!!”

  • @TaylorWorthey
    @TaylorWorthey 2 роки тому +4

    I am LOVING these videos. I feel like I’m hanging out with my friend lol. Your vulnerability is so beautiful and real. You’ve inspired me to take better care of myself and cut back on alcohol and it’s been life-changing. Love you, Jaclyn! Your real fans are cheering you on!

  • @madipaige2891
    @madipaige2891 2 роки тому +5

    The day I realized I had been abusing alcohol was really hard. Hours later you posted your video talking about it for the first time and I bawled my eyes out because I didn’t feel alone in it. Thank you for sharing!

  • @celiciabledsoe5157
    @celiciabledsoe5157 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for being so vulnerable! I couldn’t imagine putting my lowest moments online for everyone to judge. It takes strength to do that. You’re so brave! Much love 💗

  • @krisbf
    @krisbf 2 роки тому

    I’m bipolar and suffer from bipolar rage. I know it’s not the same but it’s a part of me I’m so ashamed of. I’m so proud of you for raising awareness and showing us what actual real life looks like.

  • @victoriawashington565
    @victoriawashington565 Рік тому

    I've been struggling with my weight loss journey too it's the disgusting food cravings that overtook me to a bad place in my life. I strongly dislike the way I look but still working on it by going to the gym eating clean, meal prep (eating smaller portions) zero alcohol tolerance (Thanks be to God!) I've been going to the gym straight after work at least 5 to 6 days a week for 3 hours! Thank you for sharing your stories with us I'm so damn proud of you and I've been watching you for years ever since 2013! I love you and I'm going to continue to root for you! I know you got this, girl!!! 💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @amandacarbone3140
    @amandacarbone3140 2 роки тому +19

    I love this series.. its so raw and real. The internet is tough and I'm sure you see some horrible comments. BUT you are helping real people and bettering yourself. Keep going, you are doing amazing. Sending you all the love and support!!

  • @alimullinax4789
    @alimullinax4789 2 роки тому +11

    You look amazing girl! These videos have really helped me realize I’m not alone dealing with my problems with food/alcohol. Thank you for being so transparent!

  • @Charl0tte_White
    @Charl0tte_White 2 роки тому +3

    I feel you soo much girl! I love watching you (WITHOUT JUDGEMENT) I feel so connected with you. I relate. I'm 3 years sober & it's just disgusting for anyone to sit & judge when someone is being soo vulnerable! Just know that you are helping people & I appreciate you & you're journey so so much!!! Love you Jaclyn

  • @theresa9799
    @theresa9799 2 роки тому

    You are so spot on about an alcohol saturated society! Both my husband and I have alcoholic ex's and we just don't drink. But the amount of peer pressure, even in our 40's, to drink is UNREAL! Best of luck to you! I have seen first hand how hard it is to quit.

  • @rebeccalivingston9810
    @rebeccalivingston9810 2 роки тому +13

    As a mom of three I’ve been trying to make healthier choices with food and find motivation to work out and your videos are such an inspiration to me! Thank you for putting yourself out there! Love you!!

  • @laurenfoskin5770
    @laurenfoskin5770 2 роки тому +20

    First of all: You’re GLOWING and so beautiful without makeup☺️ It’s so sad how we live in a society that is constantly putting judgement on others, how alcohol is the center of everything. I actually stopped drinking myself for the past 2 years or so and only have a drink every now and then and it’s a good feeling! Keep being real you doing what’s best for you💛

  • @SaDyHe
    @SaDyHe 2 роки тому +2

    Getting to see these little moments with you and Jordan always makes me smile. He is such a sweetheart and so supportive of you. I’m so happy you two found each other 💕

  • @3337errorz
    @3337errorz 2 роки тому +9

    I’m so glad you’re seeing how much you’re helping despite all the mentally unstable people constantly coming at you whenever you post LITERALLY anything. So exhausting! I can’t imagine being so bored with myself that I consciously choose to spend my precious time shitting all over someone for being vulnerable and brave.
    ALSO, I’m personally choosing not to drink and it’s not easy when your loved ones aren’t on the same journey. You’re so right - basically every social gathering requires a person to have a drink in hand. People really are obsessed with alcohol! If I want to host a gathering, I honestly forget that people will probably expect alcohol to be available so I have to run out and buy it! I’m fortunate to not have any dependency on any substance, but I choose not to drink because I’m trying to lose weight and generally be happier (without needing a vice to get there). My vice is emotional eating, and being an abuse survivor, food has been a huge crutch for me. Healing myself inside and out, and trying to only put nourishment into my body, alcohol just isn’t a part of that and actually hinders it. Not to mention, the second I turned 28, I started getting horrible hangovers after one drink, and now I don’t even have to participate to feel like shit the next day 🤣
    Everyone out there with non-drinking friends - please support and lift up those people in your life, still include them in things (even if they’re not a drinker / big partier), don’t pressure them to drink, and don’t draw attention to the fact that they’re not partaking while everyone else is. It’s hard being the one person doing something different. We’re not against fun, everyone has reasons for their choices, and we’re definitely not judging you for your choices! 🤍

    • @allisonspadaro8572
      @allisonspadaro8572 2 роки тому

      Loved the part where you say, “I can’t imagine being so bored with myself that I consciously choose to spend my precious time shitting all over…” this is so true man! People really need to get new hobbies and do a deep self-reflection because there is NO WAY they can be content with that type of negative energy spewing out of them constantly!!

    • @neshisoysa
      @neshisoysa 2 роки тому

      You are blessed with an amazing husband can't ask for more you are awesome you got this ❤️

  • @back.that.Ash.up85
    @back.that.Ash.up85 2 роки тому +48

    I went to multiple rehabs, didn’t work. A friend went to one and saved her life, everyone and I mean EVERYONE has a different journey with recovery! It’s not as easy as “getting help” it’s so much more than that. I know one thing though, WE DO RECOVER and YOU have this in the (designer 😉) bag!!
    Edited to add: it sounded in my comment like rehab didn’t work so I may not be sober now. I’ve been sober for almost ten years now. Everyone has a different journey to get to sobriety was all I was trying to say 🤍

    • @lolaxxx3669
      @lolaxxx3669 2 роки тому +3

      My mum sent me to rehab and literally said "it's like taking a car to the mechanic, she'll come out 'fixed', right?". Nope I got a handle on it MYSELF, eventually! So your right when you say everyone's path is different and it's NEVER a one size fits all solution.

    • @divinelyengineered
      @divinelyengineered 2 роки тому +3

      precisely! theres a youtuber I follow who's sign off after videos is "stay safe, stay sober, whatever that looks like to you." some people need medications, some people need rehab, some people need meetings, some people can quit cold turkey, some people can move back to drinking in moderation. everyone's journey is different, and don't judge someone else's journey because it doesn't mirror your own.
      edit: congratulations on your own journey to recovery!! I'm so proud and happy for you, internet stranger!

    • @back.that.Ash.up85
      @back.that.Ash.up85 2 роки тому +1

      @@divinelyengineered aww thank you!! I also love Jessica Kent! I wish more main stream ppl talked about recovery like Jaclyn and Jess do, it can help so many more ppl than they may ever realize 🤍 I appreciate you taking the time to comment on my comment and thank you again for the congrats 🤍

    • @ChickieKT
      @ChickieKT 2 роки тому

      @@lolaxxx3669 you def have to want it yourself and be willing to work on it :)

  • @JWUBB2019
    @JWUBB2019 2 роки тому +31

    Behavior like taking shots in front of someone who is deeply struggling with their relationship with alcohol is toxic. I get the bar food when going out for a birthday shindig. But we often see this overindulgence in so many areas of her life. Addiction never comes in just one form. What it does is manifest in many areas until your life is unmanageable. The closets, the excess.... the inability to make a healthy cut off from alcohol. My biggest concern is her support system. They don't know how to support her. Is it fear? That she will cut them out of her life? Or is it selfishness. Who knows. But I know if my fiance was struggling OPENLY about an addiction issue - using that substance in front of them is the LAST thing I would be caught doing. Oh it's just dinner.... oh its just birthday shots.... oh its just a sip. And your find yourself in the same boat MONTHS AND YEARS LATER. We can only lie to ourselves for so long. What I see is enabling and toxic behavior and wishy washy excuses swirling around her. Step back from the internet for a while and GET WELL. Get back to manageability. ❤️

    • @kristeenac31
      @kristeenac31 2 роки тому +4

      100% agree!! There so much excuses! And i find myself wishing the people around her would just simply have a serious conversation & be really honest about where shes at. More importantly being honest with herself. And she wants people to just tell her what she wants to hear. And she goes & says “people diagnose me” when its in front of all of our faces. I hope she gets help & does it privately so she can focus on her wellbeing.

    • @lifeofamakeupaddict420
      @lifeofamakeupaddict420 2 роки тому +3

      Couldn’t agree more!! She can’t just drink on occasion if she’s an alcoholic. She has to truly be sober and give up drinking forever. The thing is, Jaclyn just has yes people around her, and that’s 100 enabling!

    • @JWUBB2019
      @JWUBB2019 2 роки тому +1

      @@lifeofamakeupaddict420 I say the same thing. "YES PEOPLE" I'm so glad you called it that too. I love that I have people who truly care deeply about my WELL-BEING that would call me on the rug if I was endangering myself. Tough love. ❤️👍 Some can't handle it. But it's those people that you will push out? And they will still cheer your health from the sideline, nose bleeds... or garbage can. Be weary of people that always tell you yes when it should be NO or slow down. 💯

  • @lindseyporter2287
    @lindseyporter2287 2 роки тому +3

    Your vulnerability is a breath of fresh air. Thank you Jaclyn! That takes so much courage.

  • @alexandraamadero
    @alexandraamadero 2 роки тому

    So good! Love that you address the fact that everyone is obsessed with alcohol. It’s the truth! Everywhere we go, someone is drinking, it’s romanticized in shows, movies etc.. as a means of letting go or having fun, being confident, carefree etc. but it’s literally killing you each sip you take, it’s aging you each sip you take.. the further you go the worse the dependency gets too! Recovering alcoholic and addict over here so I love that you are opening up about it! You got thi

  • @staceyh143
    @staceyh143 2 роки тому +171

    America IS obsessed with alcohol. Hang in there Jaclyn and the amount of people you’ve helped….let that be your daily gratitude. Even if you stopped now, you’d have a lot of people thankful for your journey.
    Ok I had to edit and say, put all your energy into finding a personal assistant that’s going to kick your bootie into making lists and have HER/HE take it from there. You’ve mentioned redoing your bedroom….your PA can bring samples, ideas and just everything you’ll need💁🏻‍♀️
    Ok again with the edit!😊your bedroom in neutrals and lots of textures!

    • @lauradelaney5457
      @lauradelaney5457 2 роки тому

      Ireland too.

    • @dora876
      @dora876 2 роки тому

      I disagree completely. Most people I know don’t really drink as much anymore as they age

    • @dora876
      @dora876 2 роки тому

      @Albus Dumbledore I totally get that! I’ve found I feel pressured to not drink in social circles now. In a group of ten friends, there are only two to three of us who drink and feel weird ordering one with everyone else abstinent.

  • @juliag1027
    @juliag1027 2 роки тому +50

    Jaclyn, I've been a subscriber since 2015, and I've always appreciated how real you are. Just remember for every nasty comment, there are a hundred more from people who support you. You're doing amazing. Keep going!

  • @lindapasceri6813
    @lindapasceri6813 2 роки тому +21

    So proud of you! Also I almost squealed when you said “my future kids”! So excited for you to be a mom. 💕 But not a regular mom, a cool mom. ❣️

  • @emilyburney2224
    @emilyburney2224 2 роки тому +5

    This is the first vid of your journey I'm seeing and I, a complete stranger, am SO proud of you

  • @0rchidblue
    @0rchidblue 2 роки тому +36

    BABE I just started watching but I’m so glad to see another Jaclyn’s Journey!! I’m currently trying to develop healthy habits long term as well and these are so encouraging for me. Keep killing it

  • @marilynjeanxo
    @marilynjeanxo 2 роки тому +5

    you’re so strong and to put yourself out there shows how much you care & love your subscribers 🤍

  • @crystalmonroe9578
    @crystalmonroe9578 2 роки тому +1

    I AM SO PROUD OF U! The first few months are a emotional rollercoaster ride and that's for anyone getting sober. But, u will definitely level out emotionally and it won't intense like it is now. Be kind, and gentle with yourself. The first step is knowing that u have a problem. My sobriety date is 2/11/11 from alcohol. U will lose weight after being sober for a period of time. U are beautiful, AND AMAZING, AND U CAN ABSOLUTELY DO THIS! THANK U FOR OPENING UP 💓!

  • @paulinag2055
    @paulinag2055 2 роки тому

    I’ve been subscribed to your channel for several years. Stopped watching your videos about 2 years ago, and now I’m back. I love the new raw Jaclyn ❤️

  • @areliiiii
    @areliiiii 2 роки тому +10

    i’m so, so proud of you! you’ve always been so incredibly open with us year after year. you have such a heart of gold and it does NOT go unnoticed! so many of us will support and love you always, always! oh and you look amaaaaaaazing! 🥹💗

  • @daishaduke6971
    @daishaduke6971 2 роки тому +16

    Absolutely love watching your journey and appreciate your vulnerability. Its so hard to document the hard times, but cheering you on!

  • @samanthaarregui4601
    @samanthaarregui4601 2 роки тому +1

    My aunt struggles with binge drinking and she has never seen one of your videos in her life but I sent her your last video and made her watch the whole thing amd she said that she cried and got chills because she had never heard of anyone going through what she was going through and feeling the same stressors and cravings and impulses that she did, your video really truly clicked for her and now she’s trying to get back on track right along side you, so I’m so thankful that you are willing to post these vulnerable moments and I’m sincerely rooting for you!

  • @paigehanson1900
    @paigehanson1900 2 роки тому

    It’s inspiring how vulnerable & “social media” transparent that you are. Very uplifting/inspiration for all people, especially younger women.

  • @carebear91995
    @carebear91995 2 роки тому +10

    Jaclyn I just have to say you look radiant in this video- so genuine and lovely. I never comment on videos but I've been watching you since I was in high school (I'm 26 now) and I feel so happy for how it seems that you're putting yourself first. Beautiful!

  • @noelr87
    @noelr87 2 роки тому +8

    You're not alone babe! You're honestly so brave to keep recording and posting. I'm super proud of you and your journey, even the lows! You're human. Hate comments usually come from insecurity or personal issues of the writer. Just pray people have the courage to discover themselves and get help where they need it. I love you ❤️

  • @slm32402
    @slm32402 2 роки тому

    Please do a declutter video of your closet? It would seriously be so satisfying!!! Thanks for always being so real girl, love ya!!! ❤️

  • @ashleysmith6252
    @ashleysmith6252 2 роки тому +2

    Every time I see you without makeup I’m SO shocked at how amazing you look! So naturally beautiful and that skin!!😍

  • @stefaniemoreno6936
    @stefaniemoreno6936 2 роки тому +66

    I don’t believe anyone who left comments in your last video meant to hurt you or put you down. I understand seeing those comments is hard but I would hope that when you read them you can see what we see and hopefully maybe help pin point what the issue is and how to solve it. You’re right we only get to see a small portion of your routine, we don’t have all the info but I think what people were trying to point out (including myself) was the way you sometimes speak about food and alcohol. The mentality that “I was good yesterday so I can reward myself today” with a bag of chips or a night out for junk food or 1 drink. You’re right we don’t see your everyday we don’t see your workouts, your real life but I think people and myself just wanted to point out that that mentality is not a good one. Your reward should come from sticking to routine and just feeling better and staying healthy. You don’t need a physical reward (snack, drink, cheat meal, etc.) I think that was the behavior we didn’t want to keep encouraging but if you believe you’ve got it down and your doing good well then that’s fine too and good luck. ♥️ Still think you’re amazing for being so raw with us and trying your best to keep moving forward takes a lot of courage.

    • @vsfam5vsfam5
      @vsfam5vsfam5 2 роки тому +2

      I agree! I hate that most of time she says Jordan encourages her to let loose or eat whatever she wants when she's trying to make lifelong changes. That type of "encouragement" can be detrimental. I really do hope he supports her more than we get to see in real life.

  • @Siennagehring
    @Siennagehring 2 роки тому +31

    I just love you… I’m going through a miscarriage + your videos make my day. Thank you for making my day🥺🤍

  • @maddiewes5989
    @maddiewes5989 2 роки тому

    Your videos about alcohol and anxiety have helped me so much. My anxiety has been the worst it’s ever been and I’ve been using alcohol as a vice to call me down. I just got back on meds and praying I will get through it. Thanks Jaclyn. ❤️

  • @CarolineRiveraLeos
    @CarolineRiveraLeos 2 роки тому

    Girl the fact you are sharing is a huge milestone! You don’t have to share your struggles but you do and you get to see how many other people are going through it! Sending you good vibes! ✨

  • @gerri1135
    @gerri1135 2 роки тому +14

    I’ll always support you. I was diagnosed with breast cancer last July and am still going through treatments. I feel like everything you’re going through I am too. Alcohol as well. I’m trying to get motivated to try. To try numerous things. Your videos are so helpful. I don’t wish any of this on anyone but you’re ballsy and I love it. You’ve got this!!! ❤️😘❤️

    • @bettedaviseyes6613
      @bettedaviseyes6613 2 роки тому +3

      Praying for you love

    • @gerri1135
      @gerri1135 2 роки тому

      @@bettedaviseyes6613 thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @SaraSa-gm2ig
      @SaraSa-gm2ig 2 роки тому

      🙏❤️

    • @cindyp5132
      @cindyp5132 2 роки тому

      I went through it in 2020. Most people don't realize how long it takes, you don't just have surgery and it's over. You have to stop thinking about what you're doing & put yourself on autopilot; do the treatments, do the tests, take the meds and get through it. I look back on it (as I fear going for a mammogram check up) and wonder how I managed, and it's about just doing what they tell you. And absolutely start taking melatonin to help you sleep!! Take it at 7pm and you'll be asleep by 9pm, this will stop the need for alcohol. Anything is possible after a good night's sleep! There's a lot of us out there going through this, we just don't talk about it. I understand and I'm sorry 🤍

  • @kristincarter2513
    @kristincarter2513 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you for inspiring me, never giving up and being so real with your followers. Sending you so much love and I love these! 💜

  • @Becca_beauty85
    @Becca_beauty85 Рік тому

    It’s so true! People think I’m weird that I don’t drink and they almost shame me for it. A bartender who doesn’t drink.. OH MY! It’s craziness!

  • @shawnalauzon7982
    @shawnalauzon7982 2 роки тому

    Jaclyne is over her like I got to fix my closet, while I’m over here like 😍🤤😀 gimmy gimmy!!!

  • @cynmichel2479
    @cynmichel2479 2 роки тому +23

    Hello Jaclyn, my wife watches your videos and I have grown to enjoy learning about you. First, I want to congratulate you on your engagement. You have a glow that you express when Jordan is near. I would like to share with you my thoughts about the comments others say about you. Every individual who says hurtful things towards you are battling their own demons. Thoughts can become a whirlwind of deception. Instead feel the happiness and embrace the beauty that you have become. The loved ones who cherish you for who you are the uplifting force that will guide you. Those who chose to bring you down sadly want just that. You know you are a strong woman who has overcome many obstacles.The trouble is the ego will never allow us to accept ourselves while listening to the negativity of others. Listen to your inner voice and be aware of what brings you joy. Keep your head up high for there is a light at the end of the tunnel. It is you. It is your true self, a loving soul with a limitless potential.

  • @anitria4851
    @anitria4851 2 роки тому +14

    Love the transparency. Continue doing this for you. Keep working at your pace!

  • @kelsiodom6144
    @kelsiodom6144 2 роки тому +1

    I love that Jordan is so supportive of you and your journey. Be thankful for that because I know what it’s like to have someone be so degrading about everything in life. ❤️

  • @jazminrodriguez7525
    @jazminrodriguez7525 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for showing this part of you life. I have fell in love with you more and more after watching how honest and vulnerable you are sharing your struggles. Recently, I have been having a life crisis and watching your videos make me feel like I am not alone in my current life struggles. So Thank You for Being You!

  • @Alexandra_Wolf
    @Alexandra_Wolf 2 роки тому +27

    Reading Jessica Simpson’s book-good people like authenticity. The more authentic you are the more people can feel it. It’s very obvious when UA-camrs are not being authentic and I truly believe the more authentic you are the less hate you will get. It seems like it would be the other way but people can sense sincerity.

  • @lizl6078
    @lizl6078 2 роки тому +30

    The more successful you become, the more haters you have. Do you, you’re amazing!

  • @cassandrakouhi5944
    @cassandrakouhi5944 2 роки тому

    I really want the air sweater at the beginning of the intro 😍 honestly if there was a giving to hangout with Jaclyn Hill for a day I would sign up for that so quick! I feel her and I could be besties. Cancer and Scorpio power mix! ❤️

  • @baileyhicks2271
    @baileyhicks2271 2 роки тому

    Hey girl my dad and step mom are both alcoholics, and seeing people being honest and not shameful of their alcoholism. Thank you for speaking this In a positive way. ❤️ you are helping children of alcoholics understanding what their parents are going through. Much love.

  • @brittanyjuarez6089
    @brittanyjuarez6089 2 роки тому +18

    I just love watching you and I’m here for ALL THE THINGS!! ❤️ so proud of you

  • @victoriawhitaker9364
    @victoriawhitaker9364 2 роки тому +5

    This look is giving me summer barbie vibes! I love the nails and lip combo! I know this is hard for you. You have inspired me for sure! I've plateaued after losing 30 pounds but you've got me wanting to get back on track!

    • @truthview7261
      @truthview7261 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/AJfQ_FB9naA/v-deo.html
      Fax

  • @bethwilson4115
    @bethwilson4115 2 роки тому

    As a nurse who worked through this pandemic in the ICU, I also turned to alcohol to numb the anxiety and pain. Seeing you be so raw with what you have gone through has been so encouraging to me. People who don't struggle with anxiety and depression don't understand how hard it is to be in your own head sometimes. Thank you for your honesty Jaclyn.

  • @michellepoulin3949
    @michellepoulin3949 2 роки тому +1

    You are setting an example for anyone who wants to make changes in their life and I think it’s inspiring.

  • @D33zZ11
    @D33zZ11 2 роки тому +38

    I love this but I also just want to say that “needing” AA or detox doesn’t necessarily mean your level of addiction is “worse” it means treatment looks different!!! 💛☀️

  • @Supwithkayla
    @Supwithkayla 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for being so authentically yourself ✨ it’s so inspiring and the world is a better place because of it!! Sending you so much love 💗

  • @jenniferruzca3297
    @jenniferruzca3297 2 роки тому +2

    You are such an inspiration, you realness and transparency truly is helping so many around you♥️

  • @jeanaluongo6204
    @jeanaluongo6204 2 роки тому +40

    Everyone gets anxiety after drinking, atleast people i know. Your making moves towards bettering & feel good. Theres always negative people trying make you feel how they do. Keep going girl.